00:00Most people don't know that when they're single, they're not actually who they are.
00:03The presentation of how they want other people to see them, who you are, is really in the
00:07relationship. And then you call that you losing yourself. No, no, no. That was you. You just
00:11didn't like what you saw. There's an important focus there, which is you're not living with
00:16the parts of yourself when you're single that then come up to the surface when you're in a
00:19relationship. And you're powerless in the face of them. You can't do anything about your emotional
00:24state. So this is revealing of how you live your life outside of your relationships. Now,
00:28what if everything that you experienced in your relationship was something you lived
00:30with when you were single? That means your relationship serves a different function.
00:33It's now actually to support you, opposed to be the place by which you experience the part
00:37of yourself you reject.
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