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In this episode of Go Off, Sis we follow Laurise as she talks about the significance of Black female friendships in her life. She discusses the impact of these friendships and how they have sustained her within not only the past year, but her life. Watch this episode to understand the value of Black female friendships.

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00:12When I think of sisterhood, I think of my own sister.
00:17I'm a big sister.
00:18And so I have been looking out for this other woman, this other girl my entire life,
00:24worrying about her well-being just as much as I care about my own.
00:26For me, sisterhood is really just about supporting other Black women.
00:30So I am on my way to see Tatiana, my mentee, my homegirl.
00:35With everything going on, I haven't been able to see her as often as I would like to,
00:38so I'm just going to ride by her place and drop off a little carrot package.
00:42I think being a Black woman, especially right now, at least for me,
00:46like not being able to see the other Black women in the office and be like,
00:49oh, let's go grab a coffee or something because, you know, everyone's working from home.
00:53It's tough.
00:55My girls always come through for me in the clutch,
00:58but when I think about like those moments where I'm like, wow, like you are so special.
01:04I even think back to my coworker, Rissa.
01:09I spend probably eight hours a day on FaceTime, just having someone there to talk to, to be with you,
01:16even as you do these like really routine tasks.
01:19It's been, when I say a lifesaver, a lifesaver to have these women in my life.
01:23Self-care is an every single day thing for me.
01:26I love making tea.
01:27I love music.
01:28I listen to it on vinyl.
01:30Honestly, I still have CDs.
01:32As Black women, as sisters, we have to show up for each other.
01:35We are there to, you know, like lift each other up.
01:40You know, being in the city throughout 2020 was really tough,
01:44but having the Toyota Sienna to get me around, run errands, connect with my girls,
01:48even get out of the city for some fresh air and a little adventure meant so much to me.
01:52My favorite features in the all new Toyota Sienna have to be the parking support.
01:57Having these features is a personal game changer for me, y'all.
02:04So right now for me, connecting with my community means hopping online and having video chats,
02:11sending each other gifts, whether that's a care package,
02:14just showing each other that we miss one another, even though we can't be together right now.
02:19So Larissa and I met, she so graciously slid in my DMs online,
02:24and she allowed me to understand how to show up in the world and advocate for myself
02:30in spaces that I didn't know how to before, making those big girl decisions
02:33and having someone I can lean on, essentially.
02:36I feel like having people in your corner to advocate for you,
02:39to navigate imposter syndrome is really important.
02:42Someone who will affirm you, recognize your flaws,
02:45but also allow you the opportunity to be a work in progress.
02:49I think having that is really crucial.
02:53When I think about my team, when I think about my mentee,
02:57when I think about the girls I call on and who I invite to call on me,
03:01it's really special.
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