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00:10What really made us want to switch is a lot of different reasons, starting with Shannon telling
00:14us that we're venue poor. And a lot of people couldn't make our bachelor, bachelorette trip
00:22because of the location. So we decided to change our wedding venue to the Airlie, a wedding venue
00:29that is right up the road from you guys. There's definitely a sense of relief. I think there's
00:37more like a sense of happiness for this part of the couch. I'm just like, holla. Like, holla.
00:46However, when we change our wedding venue, it is a whole month earlier. Earlier. Because
00:55that's the only date that they had available for us to switch last minute.
01:00It feels like they're starting from scratch.
01:03It always feels like they're starting from scratch.
01:05Wow. Okay. Well.
01:07It makes sense. And not just for us, but also for all of the guests. It's closer to an airport.
01:13It has accommodations on site.
01:15To me, an airport matters. Yeah.
01:17But you feel good there.
01:18I love it there. Y'all put a down payment on the other place, correct? The venue?
01:24Yeah.
01:24Are you going to be able to...
01:25So we can no longer get the down payment back. However, even out of that money, we are
01:31still saving thousands. Do you wish they would have asked you, though, what do you think
01:38before signing the paperwork at that original venue?
01:42Um...
01:45Ask me in five months if we have to end up being the ones to pay it off.
01:52Whatever we can help you with, tell us, include us, whatever you want.
01:57Honestly, like, I've been in touch with the wedding dress designer through social media.
02:01Mm-hmm.
02:02And she wants us to go down to Florida to try on her wedding dresses. So I would love
02:08if you and Sammy would be able to come down to Florida for me to try on possibly my last
02:14wedding dresses.
02:15Let's make it work.
02:16Okay.
02:16What are we going to do, though, if Sammy can't do it?
02:19What are we going to do?
02:19If Sammy can't come, then...
02:20We're just going to go?
02:22Yeah, I don't have a dress. I have to find a dress, like, ASAP.
02:25Yeah.
02:26Since I've given Sammy a list of duties that I want her to do as my maid of honor, we've
02:30been better but not 100% fixed because there's things that I need her to accomplish, so nothing
02:37will kind of be 100% until I see that she's able to make an effort to be there for
02:42me.
02:44Goddamn.
02:49And then I would love for you and Dad to come with me and Colin in our wedding planner
02:54to see our wedding venue.
02:55Okay, yeah.
02:56Absolutely.
02:57This is just kind of my way of saying you can be involved now.
03:01I need your help.
03:03Yay.
03:03I need your help.
03:05It definitely moves the timeline up because now, instead of six months, you have five months,
03:09so...
03:10It's like four months.
03:12Yeah, because before you...
03:14Because it's at the beginning of that month, so...
03:16Oh, my God.
03:17Oh, my God.
03:17When you think about that, my stomach's at knots.
03:19Can we not?
03:19Four months.
03:21Okay.
03:23Oh, my goodness.
03:25I trust that they're making a sound decision with all of this.
03:30I just know that four months is great for going to a courthouse or having, you know,
03:35a backyard picnic wedding, but four months is, like, insanity to have a dream wedding.
03:42It's super crunch time.
03:44Wrap that wiener.
03:46Slap that wiener.
03:46Tap that wiener.
03:47Tipi-tipi.
03:47Tap that wiener.
03:48Tap the rotisserie chicken.
03:52I'm my own boss.
03:54Nobody tells me, no, I drive fast cars.
03:58I got places to go.
04:01Hello.
04:03Ever since completing exposure therapy for germs, I have been trying my best to work out before
04:09the wedding to get in shape for my dress.
04:11New year, new me.
04:12New year, new dick.
04:13Goddamn.
04:14Hi.
04:15Hi.
04:16I mean, exposure therapy isn't necessarily a cure-all, fix-all, but I feel free.
04:22Thanks so much for meeting me here.
04:23Yeah, of course.
04:24It's great being able to be back in the gym after exposure therapy, so I appreciate this.
04:28Yeah.
04:29It's gonna be so much fun.
04:30How was that?
04:30It was fine.
04:32You definitely have to be motivated to do it, which I was.
04:34It's just nice to go through it and see the reward after it.
04:39It's really nice.
04:42It's really nice.
04:43Good.
04:43No pain, no gain.
04:45All right, guys.
04:46Happy Sunday.
04:47You guys ready for an amazing workout?
04:49Yay!
04:50I love the hype.
04:51I love the hype.
04:52All right.
04:53So, we're gonna start off with our warm-up, and then we'll go through our circuit stations.
04:57Working out is like a drug to me.
05:00I'll turn it up.
05:01Like, my tics are at peace when I work out.
05:04Let's do some jumping jacks in three, two, and one.
05:07They don't stop, but the more that you move your body, the more defocused your tics are.
05:12So, just moving my body makes me feel mentally and physically better.
05:21Crush it.
05:22And I want to feel my best and be my best for my wedding.
05:25I only have five.
05:28And since I started my GLP-1, I have a good relationship with food for the first time ever in
05:33my life.
05:33You got it, guys.
05:36Before, I would just restrict myself in so many ways with eating, and now I can eat pizza.
05:41Oh, my God, I can eat chips.
05:43I can eat cookies.
05:44But it helps me eat less of them.
05:47So, the never-ending urge of eating has now finally been stopped.
05:52I feel happier.
05:54I feel more confident.
05:56And I'm finally realizing that, like, I don't have to rely on a number to feel good about myself.
06:09Badass.
06:10Badass.
06:11But of your own biscuit.
06:12Badass.
06:13Two and one!
06:16We're finished!
06:17That's it!
06:17Give you and your teammates a great big round prize!
06:20Hey!
06:20The Peterson team made it up and doing their five.
06:22All of vies.
06:23We are perfect.
06:25Thank you!
06:26Thank you!
06:27Feeling good?
06:28Yeah.
06:29It was an intense workout.
06:30I'm absolutely exhausted.
06:31My face shows it.
06:33I can't wait for all this to get food after.
06:35Me, too.
06:36You earned a tweet.
06:37Yes, but, I have some news about it.
06:40Okay. Okay. Still.
06:42Me and Collin changed our venue,
06:45but it's a month earlier than our other venue.
06:50Oh.
06:53We all have the same reaction.
06:54Yeah.
06:55However, we still don't have a dress.
07:00So you're getting married and it's four months from now,
07:03and you don't have a dress.
07:05No, I'm a control freak,
07:06so this is not a good question for me.
07:08We don't want to stress her out,
07:09but it's kind of nerve-wracking not having a dress
07:11four months before a wedding.
07:15But we are going, me and a couple of my family members
07:18are going down to West Palm this week
07:21to meet with a designer to try on some of her dresses.
07:24That's so nice.
07:24So I'm excited.
07:26The last dress I tried on that I really, really loved.
07:29Oh.
07:30Oh, my God.
07:31Oh, my God.
07:32Oh, my God.
07:35I'm loving this.
07:37It was a stunning dress.
07:39It just didn't feel like the one for me.
07:41So I found Haley Page's wedding dresses online.
07:45I love her so much because all of her dresses are, like,
07:48colorful and sparkly and funky and fabulous
07:51and just, like, loud.
07:53So I figured, why not reach out to her
07:56and just ask about dresses?
07:57So I'm just very grateful that she's invited me
08:00to try on some of her dresses.
08:01That's exciting.
08:02Hey.
08:03Yeah.
08:03Yeah, I'm excited.
08:04I don't think Sammy will be able to make it.
08:07Oh.
08:07But I'll be able to have my mom and my grandmas there,
08:09which is really, really nice.
08:12Sammy will be a part of the festivities
08:14when she can be a part of the festivities.
08:16But I'm not going to change things for her moving forward.
08:20I need a dress.
08:23Need.
08:26So the property is about 350 acres.
08:29Wow.
08:30This is where reception would be.
08:32I know for a fact me and Burke are going to be breaking it down.
08:35Burke is quick.
08:36And Colin over here in college was called Dooley Hips.
08:42Oh, my God.
08:44Oh, my God.
08:44I got an email.
08:46I don't have any specifics.
08:49OK.
08:49I worked for the federal government,
08:51and I put in for a temporary assignment.
08:55I would be back a week before her wedding.
08:59Oh, Lord.
09:00That sucks.
09:28Are you ready?
09:29Oh, yeah.
09:30I'm excited.
09:31Yeah.
09:33Can't believe we're seeing it again.
09:34I'm so excited.
09:35I would definitely say coming to see the Airly
09:37for a second time, there's a different level of excitement
09:40because this time it's like actually our wedding venue.
09:44And seeing it in the winter versus summer is,
09:46it's a little brown, but it's just as beautiful.
09:49Oh my gosh, this place is so pretty.
09:52It's like romantic.
09:54This is so pretty, that's like a little mushroom.
09:58Bitch.
10:00After all of the chaos between changing venues,
10:03it's truly, I would say, a goddamn blessing
10:07to have Shannon still in her corner.
10:10And I think my parents are absolutely ecstatic to meet her.
10:15They haven't seen it before, right?
10:17Mm-mm.
10:17Okay, so we'll see it for the first time together.
10:19Very exciting.
10:20Awesome, I can't wait to show them this.
10:22It looks amazing.
10:23It looks amazing.
10:25Being included in the wedding venue today
10:27absolutely reassures us that the needle is moving forward.
10:32How eager are you to meet Shannon, the wedding planner?
10:35Oh.
10:36Oh, yeah.
10:37Morning.
10:38Morning.
10:38Hi.
10:39Hi, nice to meet you.
10:41I'm Erica.
10:42Hi, Erica.
10:43Nice to meet you.
10:43I'm Shannon.
10:45Nice to meet you.
10:46I'm so excited to put a visual on her and be like,
10:50hey, now we know each other.
10:53Here's my number if you need me.
10:56What do you think?
10:57So far, so good.
10:58So far.
10:59All right, let's go.
11:01We never saw the old venue.
11:03But from what we know and understand,
11:05you have to use shuttles to get up and down a mountain.
11:09Hotels are like 20 minutes off site.
11:12So it sounded like a beautiful, yet not ideal location.
11:18So the property is about 350 acres.
11:21So it's quite large.
11:22We do have a shuttling service on property
11:24to help get from one point to the other.
11:26We do have lodging on property as well.
11:28Wow.
11:29And to me, your guests are your priority.
11:32And this venue says super accommodating to guests to me.
11:37I feel important walking through here.
11:40More important than I really am.
11:44So this would be an option for ceremony.
11:47I have one question.
11:48Yeah.
11:48So I haven't gotten my dress yet.
11:50Totally.
11:50However, if I were to get a big dress or a large dress,
11:54how would I be able to make it through the garden?
12:03I can see Balen wearing a dress that's too big to fit through these hedges.
12:09You can walk through the pathway where the arch is,
12:12or you can come from the main building and come down.
12:15But don't let the hedges hold you back, girl.
12:18It really does depend on what would be easiest for you.
12:21Okay. Awesome.
12:22I know we also talked about a fun ceremony entrance for you, Colin.
12:26Yeah.
12:27Do you see a horse entering anywhere in this location?
12:32Oh, you want to come in on the horse, not leave on the horse.
12:36Right.
12:36Okay.
12:37He still doesn't have me convinced with the horse thing.
12:39Me either.
12:40But this poor Shannon, she's definitely earning every nickel.
12:45All right.
12:45So this would be cocktail hour.
12:47Bar will be set up right over there for you.
12:50And then you can have long games as well.
12:52Me and my dad are going to make a mini golf course.
12:54Okay. That would be fun.
12:56It's like an eight-year-old birthday party.
12:58Yes!
12:59Green beans and dino nuggets!
13:03It's been so helpful to have my dad build things and create things for the wedding
13:06because we're kind of in a bunch of crush time with money.
13:12And I truly do think that, like, he does it from the bottom of his heart.
13:15And this is, like, his love.
13:17Would I be able to use the restroom?
13:18Oh, yeah. For sure. I'll show you where that is.
13:19Okay, sweet. Thank you.
13:24All right. Now that they're gone.
13:26What questions do you guys have?
13:28All of them, I assume?
13:30Yeah, like, where are we on a timeline?
13:31Like, to me, we're, like, close.
13:34Like, we've lost a huge amount of time.
13:35We lost a month in changing locations.
13:39However, I think it was a good move.
13:41But they, in my experience, haven't been the best at communication.
13:46Same goes for us.
13:47I mean, we've had almost no communication or insight on anything that's going on.
13:52And you don't want to be aggressively intrusive or overbearing.
13:56Yeah, yeah.
13:56And some of it we just, we really just give a lot of grace for because she has a tendency
14:04to...
14:06Put her head in the sand.
14:07Yes, she goes to her factory setting.
14:09And her factory setting is avoidance.
14:12Like, this tracks.
14:14Okay.
14:14Yeah.
14:15It's a thing.
14:16And honestly, as we ramp up to the wedding day...
14:20You need my number.
14:20I need your help as much as you need mine, you know?
14:24Shannon is boss babe and the get it done girl.
14:28And that is what Baila and Colin need.
14:31All right.
14:31I feel like we're part of this wedding now.
14:33Yes!
14:33Welcome!
14:34Welcome!
14:35Welcome!
14:36All right, so are we ready?
14:38Yeah.
14:38Want to see your reception?
14:39Yes.
14:40Awesome, let's go.
14:41Okay, sweet.
14:42Everyone always talks about bridezillas.
14:44Well, a lot we're dealing with momzillas.
14:47So, Julie coming from the opposite direction saying that she doesn't want to be that way is like a breath
14:53of fresh air.
14:54We'll be texting.
14:56This is where reception would be.
14:58I'm seeing door handles, so...
15:00So, there's four main doors, but all of these windows can slide open.
15:04So, it's like an indoor-outdoor feel.
15:06If it's nice, we can open everything.
15:08I don't like the name Mike.
15:08Have a big open, nice space for you.
15:10I love it.
15:12It makes my heart so happy to see my family's reaction to the wedding venue because that's exactly how we
15:18feel.
15:19So, dance floor in the middle?
15:21Dance floor boogieing?
15:22Definitely in the middle for all of us because I know for a fact me and Berk are going to
15:26be breaking it down.
15:26Berk is going to...
15:33Stop.
15:35So, he is going to be breaking it out.
15:38Oh my God.
15:39He's so embarrassed.
15:43I don't know if there's any way to recover from the dually hips.
15:48I can't wait.
15:49I'm sorry.
15:50Oh.
15:51I think that's a wrap.
15:54We've got a lot to do, as usual, but together, Julie and I, and you two.
16:01My village.
16:01Yes.
16:02Yes.
16:03We've got you from here.
16:04There's a grand scheme of things.
16:06We've got three and a half months and we don't have anything done, really.
16:09We got the venue.
16:12We don't really have anything else.
16:14We haven't got a cake or a dress or...
16:17I'm getting my dress.
16:18I'm getting it.
16:20Yeah.
16:20Don't think I'm not leaving Florida without a dress.
16:22Three and a half months.
16:24We're both in this together.
16:25Don't look at me like this is just my fault.
16:28I'm not saying it's your fault.
16:30We both did this.
16:32We both.
16:33Don't forget to invite me for this tasty.
16:37We'll include you in the dessert part.
16:39I agree.
16:39The dessert portion.
16:47Step one, fix the crown.
16:49Step two, walk away.
16:51Step three, close the glow.
16:53Let them see that shine, baby.
16:55Oh, my goodness.
16:56Oh, my uncle just cracked.
17:00I don't know, I just got a cloud like .
17:03.
17:03All right, Vector.
17:05My shot.
17:07Al, don't embarrass yourself.
17:09Oh, gosh.
17:11Right from here?
17:12Yeah.
17:12Yeah, come up here.
17:13All right.
17:16Three, three.
17:17Almost.
17:18Was that a shot or a pass?
17:20Oh, my gosh.
17:23It's a big baller move.
17:25Yeah.
17:27How are their fingers working?
17:29I don't know.
17:30I'm freezing.
17:31They're not working.
17:32After seeing the Airly, I have a huge sense of relief,
17:37especially after meeting Shannon.
17:39We're on the Shannon train.
17:41That was a wide open.
17:44What are you doing?
17:45What's going on?
17:46Got my stuff from work.
17:47What did you get from work?
17:49I got an email, so that's good.
17:52I work for the federal government,
17:53and I put in for a temporary assignment,
17:57and if it's something that's enjoyable,
17:59then I'll look towards a permanent transfer
18:02away from the West Virginia lifestyle.
18:05This would allow us to make our kind of final transition
18:10before I retire.
18:13So you're not locked in.
18:14They'll put you there for?
18:16It'll most likely be 90 days.
18:18And the exact location is in Charleston?
18:21It'll be in the Charleston area, South Carolina.
18:23Yes, it will.
18:24Okay.
18:24And I'm like, I don't want to move there
18:27because I want to see what it's like first.
18:30I have to retire.
18:32You know, you cap out in age,
18:34and, you know, there's other things I want to do,
18:36so I want to move to a location
18:38that's going to allow me to do that.
18:39Is it snowing?
18:42It is.
18:42It's snowing.
18:44But there is a different type of an impact
18:47leading up to Balen's wedding
18:48because there's so much going on right now.
18:52So we haven't shared this news with any of the kids
18:55because it's not a certainty.
18:59So why would we unnecessarily cause too many questions
19:04or anxious thoughts and worries?
19:06So they basically cleared you for it,
19:09but when will you find out a more exact...
19:12I'll probably know by the end of the week,
19:13like a start date.
19:16So you should hear by the time we get back
19:18from dress shopping in Florida?
19:19I hope so.
19:22Oh.
19:23Well, it stops snowing,
19:24but it still feels as cold out.
19:27I hope these boys are ready soon.
19:29Well, it's starting to snow for now.
19:29Yeah, they've got to be getting ready.
19:31Yeah.
19:33That's exciting.
19:35In 90 days.
19:37Would mean I would be back
19:39a week before her wedding.
19:44Oh, Lord.
19:47But do you get time off?
19:48Like, if I needed help with things
19:50for, like, a few days?
19:53There's no vacation time during these assignments.
19:56No.
19:58That sucks.
20:00It really does.
20:01And we're four months away from the wedding.
20:03It's like, whoa, this is real.
20:06Now it's...
20:06I mean, I guess I didn't expect
20:09it to be
20:10what it is.
20:15Either way,
20:16I'll know in the next week.
20:23What are we doing?
20:25There's flop.
20:26You pumped?
20:27Yeah, I'm really excited
20:28to try and dress it.
20:29It's 6.30 in the morning,
20:31and we are on our way to Florida.
20:33You know, it's not too late to come.
20:35Let's just do a little prayer
20:37that TSA is looking amazing.
20:40Airports have been
20:42the definition
20:43of tick disasters.
20:45I have a gun.
20:46I have a big gun.
20:48Pew, pew!
21:07Little man,
21:08where do you think you're going?
21:10Like, you're just so cute.
21:11Like, how do you just get that cute?
21:14It's 6.30 in the morning,
21:16and we are on our way to Florida
21:19to get my wedding dress.
21:21Do you want to come with me?
21:23I'm a little nervous
21:24because how busy the airport is
21:27really dictates
21:28how travel will be
21:29with my ticks.
21:30But because the flight
21:32is in the morning,
21:32and my ticks are usually
21:34a lot better in the morning,
21:36I'm hoping for
21:37an easy flight,
21:38easy TSA,
21:39and my ticks
21:40not being super, super rough.
21:44Oh, oh, look,
21:45what is pumpkin?
21:49Morning!
21:50Aren't you just
21:51full of energy?
21:53What are you doing?
21:54There's fluff.
21:56You puffed?
21:59Yeah, I'm really excited
22:00to try on dresses.
22:01And you know that
22:02every dress you try on,
22:03you look good at
22:04no matter what now.
22:05You know, it's not
22:06too late to come.
22:07It is.
22:08I got my nanny kids
22:10to feed.
22:13Yeah, but I'm excited
22:14to go down there.
22:15Will I miss having
22:16your honest opinion?
22:17Yes, but I'm sure Nina
22:18will always give me
22:19her honest opinion, too.
22:20And Mima.
22:21Nina and Mima
22:22be laying out the truth.
22:23Mima will give...
22:24Yep.
22:25I'm going to be
22:26completely honest.
22:27Sammy not being able
22:28to go wedding dress shopping
22:31hasn't dampened
22:32my excitement.
22:34Both my grandmas
22:34are able to make it
22:35because they're snowbirds
22:36and they live in Florida
22:37during the winter.
22:38And they're just
22:39two outgoing,
22:41cool grandmas
22:42with no filter.
22:44Sometimes you got
22:44to watch that, though.
22:45That's okay.
22:46I'm still going to be
22:46with you in spirit.
22:48Deck swan.
22:54It'll be a blast.
22:55We'll have a lot of fun.
22:57Even though Sammy
22:58isn't able to join
22:59on this trip,
23:00me and my mom
23:01were actually going
23:02to take the wedding
23:03planning to her
23:04and go out to Kansas City
23:05in the next couple weeks.
23:06We kill two birds
23:07with one stone,
23:08sing happy birthday
23:09to mom,
23:09and plan out the wedding.
23:11We could do that.
23:13Typically,
23:14I would not travel
23:15back-to-back
23:16because of my tics
23:17and my own
23:18anxiety,
23:19but I want to push
23:20through to be able
23:21to include Sammy
23:22with wedding planning
23:23because she has
23:25a lot of other things
23:26going on in her life, too.
23:28Okay, well,
23:29mom is texting me,
23:31so I'm going to make sure
23:32that I don't, you know,
23:33miss my ride to leave.
23:35Morning!
23:38Morning!
23:41Can't wait to go
23:42play with Legos
23:43at 7 a.m.
23:45I love you.
23:47I love you.
23:47Have fun with that.
23:49Okay, bye, Sammy.
23:51Love you, too.
23:51Love you, bye.
23:52Sucker.
23:56Sweet!
23:57Do you guys hear that?
24:01Hi.
24:01Hi.
24:02Hi, everyone.
24:04Are we ready?
24:05Yes, it's time
24:06to get a dress.
24:09All right, so we,
24:09I've got to look up
24:10where we're going to
24:11park there.
24:13Holy
24:13now I'm awake.
24:16Throw it back there,
24:17back.
24:19I'm going to put this in.
24:22Are you excited?
24:24I was just going to say,
24:25I'm so excited to see Hailey
24:26and to try on multiple dresses.
24:28I guess we'll just kind of
24:31try in as much as we can.
24:33I just hope that she enjoys
24:35this experience more than the last one.
24:38We know this designer is super girly
24:40and that fits Balen to a T,
24:43so it's really like
24:44if she doesn't find something here,
24:46I don't know if she'll find anything at all.
24:51Terminate that dick.
24:52Let's just do a little prayer.
24:54That TSA is looking amazing.
24:58Airports have been the definition
25:01of tick disasters.
25:10Spelt my fault, Almas.
25:12Your fault.
25:13I have a gun.
25:15Oh, good God.
25:16And disability assistance
25:18has been a game changer for me
25:20because it helps
25:21getting through the airport.
25:22Bald bitch.
25:24Without being overstimulated
25:25by, like, how bad the chaos is.
25:28Yeah, it's this way.
25:30What are your own biscuit, fat ass?
25:33Oh, my God.
25:34I don't suck George Washington's d***.
25:36Where is George Washington?
25:37Right there.
25:38George did it.
25:39Oh, that is George.
25:41Look at this.
25:42We have two people in front of us.
25:43I know.
25:43This is epic.
25:44I don't think we need the wheelchair.
25:48For the most part, travel was better than expected.
25:51I didn't need disability assistance.
25:53The airport was practically bare.
25:55There was nobody in TSA.
25:58It was a good travel day.
25:59Mm-hmm.
26:03This experience was better
26:04than past travel experiences
26:06because the road from entering the airport
26:09into getting at the destination of the gate
26:12was really seamless.
26:18I'm sitting on some potentially big news
26:22in regards to Elle possibly taking
26:25this temporary assignment
26:27because I don't want her to be rattled on this trip.
26:37So, are you going to be on the dance floor?
26:40I'm going to be on the dance floor.
26:42Lynn is my dad's mom
26:44and she is always a blast to be around.
26:46I don't know how to twerk.
26:48Do you have to do it naked?
26:50I got to go.
26:51I got to go.
27:09Hi!
27:11There's Julie.
27:11Hi, everybody.
27:13Oh, my God!
27:14How was your 12-minute trip here?
27:18Hi, my bae.
27:20Lynn is my dad's mom
27:22and we call her Nina
27:23and she is super fun
27:25and always a blast to be around
27:27and I'm super excited
27:29that she's able to be a part of this.
27:31How was your trip?
27:32It was good.
27:33I slept the entire way down there.
27:34I also didn't use disability assistance.
27:37There was nobody in the airport.
27:39When Balen was younger,
27:41Alan lived just a couple of miles from me
27:44and so we were close
27:46and Balen was always picking out the most colorful fabric
27:51and we would make stuff.
27:54Then when Balen was probably six or seven,
27:58she started waddling back and forth
28:01and then it was tapping her fingers.
28:04We had no idea that it was Tix,
28:08it was Tourette's.
28:09Oh, nice!
28:11But Balen has come so far
28:14with just pure determination.
28:17So asking me to join
28:20in a wedding dress shopping day,
28:25I could not have been any happier
28:28if I won the lottery.
28:29I'm really excited you guys are here
28:31and you guys were able to make it.
28:32You can only imagine what it means to us.
28:35I know, it makes me just so happy.
28:37You're the only grandchild
28:39that's ever asked me to go wedding dress shopping.
28:42Your mother didn't even do that
28:44when she got married.
28:46Because I picked out my dress
28:47of one door down,
28:49tried on one and said,
28:50this is it.
28:51I wasn't very bougie or bridezilla-y
28:55or like all of these finicky things.
28:58Oh, you were bougie.
28:58Oh, shush up.
28:59You were bougie.
29:00You knock it off.
29:03Nina is a ball of fire.
29:06I see the pineapple.
29:07I see the pineapple.
29:09And she is clearly the mother of my husband.
29:16She's the best.
29:18Okay, so who's all going to be there tomorrow?
29:20It's going to be you guys
29:22and mom.
29:24Okay, and Sammy.
29:25No, she couldn't make it this time,
29:26unfortunately.
29:28But we're going to take the wedding planning to her
29:31and kind of make it like a girl's trip.
29:34I'm actually infatuated with the idea
29:37of going to Sammy
29:39to really throw together some bridal ideas
29:43and, of course, to celebrate my birthday
29:45as we've done for the past two years.
29:48Remember last year with your butter nipple shots?
29:50What was it called?
29:52BJ shots?
29:53I don't even know.
29:54Listen, we can't go there.
29:55We're not going there.
29:58The past is in the past, Baelin.
30:01Don't talk about the past.
30:03We're able to hold our alcohol better.
30:06Yeah.
30:07That's what that'll get you.
30:10Take a dick.
30:12And then I'll leave these right here for you.
30:15You're welcome.
30:16Oh, my.
30:19I'm starving.
30:21You can't bite into that.
30:22Don't waste any time.
30:23I'm starving.
30:28What are you up?
30:31So, how are you coming with your wedding plans?
30:34Good question.
30:36Um, well, as you guys know,
30:38we ended up changing our venue.
30:40Um, it's a month earlier.
30:41Ellen, I just saw it.
30:44And?
30:44Perfect.
30:45It's a dream.
30:45It's magnificent.
30:47Every day is a dick.
30:49So, are you going to be on the dance floor?
30:51I'm going to be on the dance floor.
30:53You better frickin' be on the dance floor.
30:55I don't know how to twerk,
30:56but I'm going to learn.
30:58Oh, no, you're not going to learn how to twerk.
31:00Lynn.
31:01But I'm going to learn.
31:02Lynn, you're not going to learn how to twerk.
31:04Do you have to do it naked?
31:05I got to go.
31:07You won't be twerking, Lynn.
31:09What is a twerk?
31:10Is it just like a wiggle?
31:13Okay.
31:14Baylin, demonstration?
31:16Absolutely not.
31:18Julie, demonstration.
31:20Google twerking.
31:21Give me a second.
31:22Google twerking.
31:22I'll Google it.
31:23You have time to learn,
31:24and you can,
31:25all you need is a mirror,
31:26and you have four months to figure it out.
31:28Don't worry.
31:29I'm going to show her a nice graphic video.
31:32Oh, my God.
31:33Is that somebody's butt?
31:34Wait a minute.
31:37I love her.
31:39Do you want to see your grandma twerk?
31:41Does my dad want to see his mom twerk?
31:44Is that a butt or a boob?
31:46That is twerking.
31:48I'm going to see if I can do it.
31:49I'm not sure,
31:51because I have a flat butt.
31:53Oh, wait.
31:53Do you twerk with girls or boys?
31:56Who do you twerk with?
31:58I twerk with whoever you want.
31:59Okay, step right up here.
32:03Okay, so tomorrow, dress shopping.
32:06Can you twerk in a dress?
32:08Okay, actually, that's a good question,
32:11because she was worried about it
32:12if she gets this big, crazy dress.
32:14I need to be able to pop,
32:16walk, and drop it.
32:16She needs to be able to drop it
32:18during the reception.
32:19See if you can drop it low.
32:21Oh, my gosh.
32:22How about now?
32:23Drop it low.
32:26Don't fall off the pedestal.
32:28We're going to have so much fun tomorrow.
32:30I know.
32:31I love that Bae has both her grandmas here
32:33to help her get a dress picked out
32:36and get to the finish line of this wedding.
32:40There's less than four months left,
32:41so we have to find a dress tomorrow.
32:45Very important question.
32:46When is your date?
32:47It's four months from now.
32:50So we're in crush time.
32:52Okay, so are we ready to show?
32:54Yes.
32:55If she doesn't find something soon,
32:56she is not going to get the dress of her dreams.
33:00Oh, my gosh.
33:15Oh, my gosh.
33:20Oh, my gosh.
33:28Oh, my gosh.
33:28Hi.
33:29Welcome.
33:31Congratulations.
33:32You're even more beautiful in person.
33:34This is such a dream.
33:35Thank you so much.
33:36Oh, my gosh.
33:37Oh, my God.
33:37I already love the dresses.
33:39Come on in.
33:40Welcome to the studio.
33:41Hi.
33:42Hello.
33:42How are you?
33:43I'm Baylen.
33:43How are you?
33:44I have never worked with a bride before
33:46that's had Tourette's syndrome.
33:49But Baylen came across my feed on social media.
33:53Thank you so much for having us.
33:54I'm so excited to be here.
33:55Are you kidding?
33:56This is like my Super Bowl.
33:57And I was just immediately drawn to her charisma,
34:00and her disposition is so honest and so loving.
34:05Okay, so obviously, welcome to the space.
34:07Make yourself at home.
34:08And I first just want to, like, dive right in.
34:11Like, how are you feeling right now?
34:13I'm so excited.
34:14The last time I tried on wedding dresses,
34:16I didn't feel super confident because I weighed more,
34:19and I just didn't feel like I was in a place to try them.
34:22But now I'm feeling better and more confident and excited.
34:26Okay, good.
34:27Very important question.
34:28When is your date?
34:29It's four months from now.
34:32So we're in crush time.
34:34Plenty of time.
34:35I love a challenge.
34:37Okay, so has there been anything that's caught your attention?
34:40Everything that you have is fun and girly and what I want.
34:43Love it.
34:44We should chop-chop because the time is of the essence.
34:48Okay, so I have some dresses that I pulled for you.
34:51Okay.
34:51But this is your oyster.
34:53So if there's anything you spot that you want to try, don't hesitate.
34:56Okay.
34:56We'll throw it on.
34:57We'll have some fun.
34:58And I just want you to enjoy yourself.
35:00Okay.
35:00And I think that's where we'll start.
35:01Yes.
35:02Okay, perfect.
35:03Vaylin and Hailey are totally vibing.
35:05It's complete girl energy.
35:07This is Vaylin's jam.
35:08Do you want to jump into a first dress?
35:10Please.
35:10This is my Super Bowl, too.
35:12Come on over.
35:14We're looking at less than, I don't know, 100 days or whatever the number is at this point.
35:20Got to try on the famous colorful dress.
35:22I'm not leaving here without trying this dress on.
35:25If she doesn't find something soon, she is not going to get the dress of her dreams.
35:28Okay.
35:29We're going to come to the dress den.
35:31Oh, my God.
35:33This experience is completely different already from the last one.
35:37And the confidence in her glowing, you see it.
35:41I'm going to move over here.
35:42Okay.
35:43So I'm not tempted to look as she comes out.
35:46All right.
35:46Shall we spin around?
35:48Oh, my God.
35:50Want it up?
35:51She's excited.
35:52She's excited.
35:54Okay.
35:55So are we ready to show?
35:56Yes.
35:57Yes.
35:57Let's do it.
35:58I just heard let's do it.
36:00Let's do it.
36:01After you, my dear.
36:03I can't wait.
36:05Oh, my gosh.
36:18Whoa.
36:20She is absolutely stunning.
36:22She is massive.
36:23But guess what?
36:24She's light.
36:25Wait, really?
36:26Yes.
36:27That's really important.
36:29I've never had something fit me, like, perfectly before.
36:32Really?
36:32Yeah.
36:34I've never felt, like, more like myself in a long time.
36:37So it's been really, really nice to, like, get, like, almost, like, my spark back a little bit.
36:42Like, I could cry.
36:43Like, it's, like, an entirely different feeling.
36:46Are you feeling wedding-esque in it?
36:48Not wedding-esque, but I'm feeling very confident.
36:51I love Balin in this dress.
36:53I just don't see it as a wedding dress.
36:56It just, I guess it's just a little far out there for me.
36:59Would you keep that color, or would you get a different color?
37:03I kind of like the color.
37:05Balin has talked about how she might want to be in some kind of color.
37:08Colin has been more traditional white.
37:11It's up to Bay.
37:12It's up to Bay.
37:13It's all about Bay.
37:14This is her day.
37:15Who gives a what Colin says or wants?
37:18It's Bay.
37:19It's Bay's day.
37:20Can we try with the veil?
37:21Absolutely, we can.
37:23Okay, so I'm just going to do this right here.
37:26So when you walk down the aisle...
37:29You know, a veil changes everything.
37:32I feel like a fairy.
37:39This is amazing.
37:40You're glowing.
37:42This is a beautiful start.
37:44It's a beautiful start.
37:46Yeah.
37:47It's already mine.
37:48Oh my gosh.
37:51That was a gorgeous dress.
37:52I don't even know what to think.
37:53It was her confidence that she had wearing it.
37:56That's the difference.
37:56It's like not even the dress.
37:58It's all in her face.
37:59It's in the face.
38:00Yeah.
38:01Okay.
38:04Oh, it's Alan.
38:07I have a job update.
38:09Call me when you can.
38:12Well, I'm not going to call him right now.
38:17As a mom, it's phenomenal to feel the sense of peace that Baylen is also feeling in this
38:23moment.
38:24Wow.
38:24You can see it in her energy and her happiness.
38:27Oh, girl.
38:28Mm-hmm.
38:28It's getting real.
38:29Mm-hmm.
38:29So there's no way that I'm going to step on her spirits with the news that her dad may
38:35not be around to help his baby girl plan for the biggest day of her life.
38:40I'll just call when we get back to the hotel.
38:49I just love this.
38:52And you wouldn't want it shorter?
38:53No.
38:54I want the whole thing.
38:56Can we please not walk down the aisle in that dress?
38:59I have a wedding surprise for the boys.
39:03I've been trying to come up with a way to show my brothers how much I love them and want
39:07them involved in the wedding.
39:09Do you guys have to take this seriously?
39:11How can they take that seriously?
39:14There's Sammy.
39:15Hi, Sammy.
39:16Hey, Mom.
39:17I'm so glad to see you.
39:19So how is therapy going?
39:21Therapy's good.
39:22It's kind of just like as needed, maybe like once a month.
39:25I know she's going through a lot of emotions, and she doesn't show it.
39:28She shows it privately.
39:31I'll just put it on the Ski.
39:33No parking.
39:34Eat a little weenie.
39:35A little baby weenie.
39:36Squatted alone in the support rate.
39:38Energy baby weenie.
39:40If Bae's tics are this bad in the car, I'm a little bit anxious for once she realizes
39:46where we're going.
39:48Oh, my gosh.
39:51I have to go to the bathroom.
39:52Are you kidding me, Sammy?
39:54No way.
39:54No way, no way, no way.