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00:12Let me show you something special. Look at that.
00:20Welcome to Washington, Evelyn.
00:23Wow.
00:24These are the options. Let's see what Ashley thinks.
00:27Ashley, I need your help.
00:29Man, she has no idea what's coming.
00:31I'm about to propose for Chantelle this weekend.
00:33I am so nervous.
00:35I just hope she says yes.
00:37Chantelle, I really, really gotta say this.
00:43Daddy loves you.
00:45I love you too.
00:48A couple weeks ago, I relapsed.
00:52I up really bad.
00:53I don't know if she's gonna feel the same way about me
00:56and forgive me this time.
00:58How many times do I have to say I'm sorry?
01:00Sorry, it's not even.
01:04We just got off the plane.
01:06It really feels so surreal.
01:08Evelyn finally got her residency visa,
01:10so we're gonna move to Washington.
01:12But I've been hiding something huge from Evelyn.
01:15So how well are you guys gonna be here?
01:17Um, it's my fault for not preparing better.
01:24I don't feel too well.
01:26I am so pissed.
01:28This man just lies.
01:31Please open the door.
01:32Are you insane?
01:38I need you, I need you, right here, right there, a car.
01:44And I need you to light the spark.
01:49Ashley, I need your help.
01:55She's gaming.
01:56I'm Chantel, I'm 34 years old,
01:59and I'm from Atlanta, Georgia.
02:01I'm Ashley, I'm 36 years old,
02:03and I'm from Wadawi, Alabama.
02:04Alabama.
02:06This is my bamma jamma.
02:09Got that right.
02:10Ashley, can you help me?
02:13Our anniversary is two weeks away,
02:16and what better way to show my family
02:20that I'm serious about this relationship
02:22than with a Christmas card photo.
02:24The photo shoot is a week away,
02:27and I still don't even know where the venue is.
02:31Ashley has taken over the entire thing,
02:33but you know I'm a control freak.
02:35I have to know what's going on,
02:37and I don't even know what I'm going to wear.
02:42This is an option.
02:44Here comes our one-year anniversary,
02:46and Chantel has so much on her plate already
02:48that I just told her, sit back for the ride.
02:50Let me fix everything up for this photo shoot.
02:53It's going to be great.
02:54I've got everything planned, baby.
02:55I hope so.
02:58This is kind of unsettling for me,
03:00especially since she's not helping me
03:01pick out what I need to wear.
03:03My 90-day journey began
03:05when I married my ex-husband Pedro
03:07from the Dominican Republic.
03:10I pronounce that they are husband and wife.
03:15We were married for seven years,
03:17but he and my family
03:19were always at each other's throats.
03:22Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
03:23Hey, hey, hey, hey.
03:25What are you saying?
03:26What's up?
03:27What's up?
03:28Go!
03:29Go!
03:29Go!
03:31How did you do that?
03:32Eventually, we divorced.
03:35After I got divorced,
03:36I started traveling a lot and dating.
03:39I tried finding love in Greece.
03:42I even went on a singles retreat in Mexico.
03:45I felt like a lot of times I get nervous around guys
03:49and then I end up just kind of clamming up.
03:52But after countless dates that were not successful,
03:55I realized what I've been looking for
03:58was in front of me the entire time.
04:00You've been in the back of my mind, like, a lot.
04:04Maybe we can grow romantically.
04:08It makes me feel so wonderful and so happy,
04:11and I really want to be with you.
04:13And now, after a year of dating,
04:16Ashley and I are taking our first couple's photo shoot
04:20for our Christmas card photos
04:22because, I mean, we're a couple.
04:24I love you so much.
04:25It's so cute.
04:26I love you too, baby.
04:28These are the options.
04:29I was thinking possibly something red
04:32since it's a Christmas card.
04:35Let's see what Ashley thinks.
04:40Ashley.
04:41What, baby?
04:42I'm trying to figure out what to wear.
04:46Personally, I think, you know, red for Christmas.
04:49Mm-hmm.
04:50But if it's going to be outside,
04:51this could be a little short.
04:53Okay, baby, one second.
04:54I'm almost finished.
04:55Oh, well, never mind.
04:56I died.
04:56It's fine.
04:58Do you even know what you're wearing?
04:59Um, maybe I should go and show you.
05:02Yeah.
05:03Let's do that.
05:04That's helpful.
05:04Come on.
05:05You just sit down.
05:06You just calm it down.
05:07Sit down.
05:08I'll go get it.
05:10Sheesh.
05:14So, I'm going to get this right here.
05:17Look at that.
05:17Look at that suit.
05:19Ashley!
05:20I got two kills and I died 15 times.
05:23But before I have to get back in there, let me show you something special.
05:27Oh, my God.
05:28I'm so nervous.
05:29She better not walk in.
05:31Look at that.
05:32Man, I just picked it up yesterday.
05:33I'm so excited.
05:35So excited about this.
05:37She has no idea.
05:38She has no idea what's coming.
05:41Chantel is just thinking that this is a Christmas card photo.
05:44I'm getting ready to propose.
05:45Man, this is like the biggest secret I've ever kept in my life from her.
05:49And it's so hard.
05:51She thinks that we're just going to a normal hotel for a photo shoot.
05:54But, oh, no.
05:55I have booked us a fabulous suite at a castle.
05:58I've got a videographer, a photographer.
06:01I've got a hundred roses for her.
06:04I just really hope she says yes.
06:06This is what I'm going to do, though.
06:07So, I'll wear this.
06:08Turtle neck is obviously going to go under it.
06:10If you're wearing black, then I should match you, too.
06:13Yeah, if you want to match me, yeah.
06:14It's a couple shoots.
06:15You're right.
06:16I have not planned anything like this before this elaborate.
06:20Chantel and I have talked a little bit about our future.
06:23Like, hey, yeah, we could possibly get married one day.
06:26Who knows?
06:26But I'm not really 100% sure if she's for it
06:30because of her previous marriage.
06:32So, this proposal, I want it to be everything
06:34that she wants it to be and more.
06:36Let's do this.
06:36Let's do the black, baby.
06:37Are you sure for a Christmas card?
06:40Baby, it's going to be a beautiful Christmas card.
06:59That is so beautiful.
07:02Oh, my God.
07:04I am so amazed at the place that Ashley booked for us.
07:10I mean, it's a complete castle.
07:12I didn't know there was castles in Georgia.
07:15I feel like I'm in England and I should start drinking my teas
07:20and having crumpets or something.
07:22Telling her, darling.
07:23Off we go for a morning stroll.
07:26Now it's time to get all dolled up for holiday photos.
07:30I'm sure this is going to be a holiday card
07:32that she will never forget.
07:44Hold that.
07:46Hold that.
07:47Hold that.
07:47Hold that.
07:48Hold that.
07:49Hold that.
07:49Two.
07:51Nice.
07:56Okay, now look at me.
07:58I can't believe that it's been an entire year.
08:01I feel like we've defied all odds
08:04and every hater that thought we wouldn't make it.
08:09Oh, my gosh, you guys.
08:10So I'm getting ready to propose to Chantel,
08:12and I'm so freaking nervous.
08:15I literally had to sneak away.
08:16I told her I was going to the bathroom real quick
08:17during the photo shoot.
08:19Like, I got to figure this out.
08:20I got to get myself right, man, mentally.
08:22Ugh.
08:26I cannot believe I'm getting ready to propose.
08:28I have a billion thoughts going through my head right now.
08:30Like, is she going to like the ring?
08:32Am I going to trip up?
08:33Am I wearing the right thing to propose in?
08:35Is she even going to say yes?
08:37Oh, my gosh.
08:38This is just so much to worry about right now.
08:41I want you to know that I love you so much.
08:43I love you too, baby.
08:44And you are my queen.
08:46And you are my Juliet.
08:48And you mean the world to me.
08:50And Chantel, I really, really got to say this.
08:56Chantel, will you marry me?
09:03Oh, my God.
09:07Yes.
09:08Oh, my God.
09:09Yes.
09:10Oh, my God.
09:11Should I put it on my baby's hand?
09:13Yes, Ashley.
09:14Okay.
09:16Oh, my God.
09:19Oh, it fits perfectly.
09:21Ashley.
09:22That is so beautiful.
09:24Ashley.
09:27I love you.
09:30I love you.
09:31I love you too.
09:31I'll have makeup all over you.
09:35Oh, my God.
09:37Yes, my.
09:38I'm engaged.
09:41I'm so freaking happy.
09:43You guys, look at this ring.
09:45Can you see it?
09:47This is so exciting.
09:50Oh, spend the rest of my life with the love of my life.
09:54Oh, oh.
09:55Give me more kisses.
09:56Yes.
09:57Yo, she said yes.
10:00She said yes.
10:01Oh.
10:02Bitch, I'm a fiancé.
10:04I'm a fiancé.
10:05Oh, ho, ho, ho.
10:06We're not talking anymore.
10:09This is more than I had ever expected.
10:13What's next?
10:14We have so much planning to do.
10:16This is crazy.
10:17I'm excited.
10:18I'm so excited about it.
10:19Yeah.
10:21Yeah.
10:27Yeah.
10:28Yeah.
10:29Yeah.
10:30Yeah.
10:31Yeah.
10:31Yeah.
10:31Yeah.
10:32Yeah.
10:32Yeah.
10:34Yeah.
10:35Hey, Cora and Evelyn here.
10:37And puppy.
10:38And puppy.
10:40Say hi, puppy.
10:43My name is Corey.
10:44I'm 39 years old.
10:45I'm from LA, Washington, but currently living here in Ecuador.
10:49My name is Evelyn.
10:50I am 33 years old, and I'm from the beautiful and about Ecuador.
10:55So this is our apartment that we remodeled.
10:59I'm giving Evelyn all the credit.
11:02She's a designer, not me.
11:03This used to be our kitchen, just this space over here.
11:09This was actually the outside area.
11:13The whole plan is that we can have the ocean everywhere.
11:17Let's go check out the bedroom now.
11:20We're doing fun things happen.
11:23I don't know if you guys remember, but this used to be the doghouse room for me.
11:29And we transformed it into the main bedroom.
11:32And also, we make ocean view.
11:36Well...
11:38Whoops!
11:39That's my toy now, your toy, right?
11:42Our 90-day journey began about 11 years ago now.
11:46I was traveling and backpacking up through South America.
11:50And the first day I entered Ecuador, I happened to see this beautiful girl walking down the beach.
11:56For me, it was love at first sight.
11:58I was just like, boom, mind explosion.
12:01And eventually, he made, like, a letter or thing, asking me to be his girlfriend.
12:06I thought I was pretty cute, and I sucked it.
12:09So I made the sacrifice to move permanently down to Ecuador to be with Evelyn.
12:15And I've been here ever since.
12:25So then, uh, we decided in 2021 to actually do get married.
12:37Since we got married, we've been very focused on creating a beautiful life together.
12:42And it's been a very, very happy journey.
12:47Are you ready to start packing?
12:49Super ready.
12:50Yeah?
12:50Oh, my gosh.
12:53Here they are all stacked in here.
12:56We spent a lot of time and a lot of money on this new apartment.
12:59And we love it.
13:00But we just recently received some news that's going to take us away from here for roughly three years.
13:06Let's start with that for now, then, yeah?
13:08Okay.
13:09We're going to do this, in the room?
13:11Yes.
13:11Okay.
13:13We applied for my residency visa for the USA two, almost three years ago.
13:21And finally, it was approved.
13:22Based on the advice from our lawyer, we'll be living primarily in the United States for the full three years.
13:28We are able to visit Ecuador for short periods of time.
13:32But majority of the time will be spent in the United States.
13:34And tomorrow is the day when we move to Washington State.
13:38You are not going to need basically any of the clothes that you have right here.
13:43This is all for summer.
13:44We're going to take cold weather.
13:48When you asked me to apply to get this raincoat situation, what do you say?
13:54We can live in Hawaii.
13:56We can live in California.
13:58No problem.
13:59Blah, blah, blah.
14:00I don't want a place where I can go and sunbathe on the ocean.
14:06I don't have the budget for it.
14:07And you know that.
14:09I know the original plan was that we were going to go live in Hawaii or California or something like
14:14that.
14:14But it's very expensive.
14:16And we have an awesome opportunity right now to live.
14:20In the snow.
14:21With my mom.
14:22Yes.
14:23In the snow and in the cold.
14:24But we're not paying any money to live there.
14:28And right now, quite frankly, I don't have the money to spend to live in California or Hawaii.
14:35So me and Evelyn are going to be staying in the place that we were last time.
14:39It's a little studio apartment that's on the main property but separate from the main house.
14:45We'll only be there for a little bit.
14:47Like one or two months kind of thing?
14:49Even less probably.
14:50We'll get there.
14:51We'll move in.
14:52And we'll find a place.
14:52Get settled.
14:53We'll find a place for us.
14:57And what are we going to do about your siblings?
14:59Like, they did not like me before.
15:02I don't think they're going to like me.
15:04I'm hoping that we'll be able to move forwards and that my family will be more open to resolving these
15:11issues too.
15:12I am okay with, like, being polite.
15:17But I'm not going to pretend to be their best friends when I know they don't like me.
15:21They used to ignore me when they were talking.
15:23They covered my face.
15:25Like, went in the whole family photo.
15:27Yeah, it's messed up.
15:29Like, I know.
15:30It's messed up.
15:31I'm very worried about being around Cordy's family again.
15:35I truly don't feel like I am welcome.
15:40His family is very religious.
15:42Like, they're full-known Mormons.
15:43And I just feel like because I'm not Mormon, they will not accept me.
15:48But I'm never going to convert.
15:50And I'm never going to be that good Mormon girl that they probably wish Cordy would have married.
15:56Unfortunately, you're going to have to understand how to get along with them, how to live in their environment.
16:02I'll try my best.
16:04Just know that I'm going to do my best to make sure that you are okay at all times.
16:11All right?
16:12Yeah?
16:13Okay.
16:20We're about to leave.
16:22We have all of our suitcases ready.
16:25Our life here is so beautiful.
16:28It's just like my family.
16:31We get red notes, get together, it's like all the time.
16:35I mean, I know that I don't have that there, you know.
16:41I only have Cordy and I'm grateful for him.
16:44But it's just like, what do I do then?
16:52What do I do in the States?
16:54Yeah, it's very sad.
16:56I'm honestly not excited to get in a plane and leave Ecuador.
17:02When I applied for the residency, it just sounded like it was something so far away.
17:08But now we're here and it's time to do it.
17:14Okay, we're all set.
17:16I mean, bags are here.
17:19Ready to go.
17:20We're actually late.
17:22You guys are hermanitos.
17:24I love you.
17:31Don't be sad.
17:33Mommy loves you.
17:35My sister is moving to our apartment to take care of our cat and our dog.
17:39And now my dad and my brother are going to help me load up the car so we can go.
17:54Okay.
18:12So I just now realize I didn't let my mom out.
18:14know if we could, if she could pick us up.
18:18Uber and taxis don't exist where I live.
18:21I live in the mountains, so.
18:23You were supposed to tell her before you had days
18:26to let your mom know that we were going.
18:29Another thing is the apartment that we stayed in last time,
18:33it's not gonna, it's not available.
18:36It's an Airbnb now, so we're gonna stay at my mom's house,
18:41into her house.
18:44Like inside the house?
18:45Like inside her house, yes.
18:50I'm so sorry, I'm just not telling you this.
18:55Why would you not let me know this before him?
18:59Corey keeps changing the plans on me.
19:02Like, no California, no Hawaii,
19:04and now it's like last minute,
19:06made me stay with his mom.
19:09Honestly, I don't think I'm even gonna get out of the car
19:11and go with him.
19:13Why do you never think about me and like,
19:15helping me feel better?
19:18Yeah, I'm sorry.
19:20I'm sorry, I don't want to talk to you.
19:23We're doing good.
19:26We're doing good.
19:38We're doing good.
19:54Welcome to a day in our life.
19:57I'm Sam, I'm from Kansas City, Missouri, and I'm 33 years old.
20:02I'm Citra, I'm from Indonesia, and I'm 29 years old.
20:07There's my sweet baby.
20:12Me and Citra's 90-day journey began five years ago on an online dating app.
20:19I saw his profile, and I couldn't believe that he was 26 because he looked so young.
20:25But he's so caring and loving and nice.
20:28Just, like, different from other guys that I talked to on that app.
20:33I looked at a flight to Indonesia, and when we first met, we just instantly fell in love.
20:41Oh my gosh!
20:44And six months later, I proposed.
20:49Yes, I'm here.
20:53But Citra's dad had issues about me marrying her because I kind of have a dark past and have a
21:01problem with drugs.
21:02And he wanted to know it was all behind me.
21:21I was eventually able to gain her dad's trust, and he finally gave me Citra's hand in marriage.
21:31I now pronounce you husband and wife.
21:35And two years later, my little baby girl, Eris, was born.
21:50Is there anything better than a crying baby's voice in the morning?
21:54Since Eris being born, everything's been amazing.
21:58Like, I love that little baby girl.
22:00I never could have saw my life like this back in the past.
22:05However, things are not so good.
22:10Thank you, Dad.
22:13Dad.
22:14You have daddy?
22:17Mommy's a little mad at daddy.
22:19A couple weeks ago, I was hanging out with the wrong crowd.
22:23I put myself in a bad situation, and I relapsed.
22:29And now I got my wife so pissed off at me, I don't know what to do.
22:39Time to head out to work, guys.
22:42Get daddy a kiss.
22:43Oh, good girl.
22:44You're going to cry your eyes out, aren't you, though?
22:47As soon as I walk out that door.
22:49Daddy will be right back.
22:53Leave it.
22:55Okay?
22:59I know, I love you, too.
23:01A lot in my mind right now.
23:10A lot of things going on.
23:19I up really bad this time, and I don't know
23:24if she's going to feel the same way about me
23:25and forgive me this time.
23:31I don't know if I would forgive me if I was her.
23:33And that's what sucks.
23:36I don't want to be that guy anymore.
23:42Honestly, I just want to go deep inside myself, rip this addiction out, that dark side of me, that
23:50evil f***ing twin, and just be gone, be done with him, out of my life, and just never deal with
23:57any of these problems.
23:58Like, I just, I hate that side of me so bad.
24:06Like, I've gone to drug classes, and I did end up finishing a diversion program, completed it,
24:12but you're just constantly doing this little balancing act.
24:15Like, I have to fix this.
24:29Hi, babe.
24:31You need to change typing.
24:34I'm down.
24:39Say,
24:40Appa.
24:41Appa, daddy.
24:42Mom's got the easy part, huh?
24:46Sam relapsed.
24:47It's really pissed me off because it's really betrayed me and my dad.
24:52I'm really concerned that Sam is going to relapse again.
24:56And I just don't want that negativity around me and around Ares.
25:01So, I've been thinking a lot, I want to move to Indonesia, just me and Ares.
25:07I haven't told Sam about it, and I don't know what he's going to react about me leaving him behind.
25:14Give him a good time.
25:20I don't know if she's going to like it or not, but I really want us to move to Indonesia
25:27without you.
25:32That breaks my heart to hear you say that.
25:34Mm-hmm.
25:38So that's what you're saying.
25:40You do that you don't want to do with me.
25:43I know that you've been saying you're not fully happy.
25:48I've been trying my best every day to do whatever I can to make you happy.
25:54I feel so alone and just, I don't know, I feel like I'd be so far away.
25:59I don't know, it's maybe just the dark side of me and worries.
26:06I can't believe that Citra wants to go back to Indonesia with Ares on her own.
26:11If I lose them, I'd be in a dark place that I don't know if I could get out of.
26:16It's my worst fear come true.
26:20How many times do I have to say I'm sorry?
26:23Sorry, it's not enough. I know.
26:41Here we go, boarding the flight.
26:44Evelyn finally got her residency visa, so Evelyn has to be in the United States for three years.
26:50And after that, she'll be able to apply for her USA citizenship.
26:54You are BMC.
26:57I'm going through all the feelings getting into the plane to go to the States
27:02because Cory told me last minute we're going to stay with his mom for like two months.
27:08I'm just upset that we've been waiting for visa approval for so long.
27:13So I'm just hoping that we can maybe figure it out together.
27:33Well, we just got off the plane and we have landed in Portland.
27:38Portland, Oregon.
27:39Yeah.
27:40Living in Ecuador was super hard.
27:43The whole flight was such a blur in my head.
27:46It's definitely hard and I miss home already.
27:52Thank you for picking us up.
27:54Of course.
27:55Thanks. Appreciate it.
28:01Okay.
28:03You ready?
28:04Let's go.
28:09Look at the turkeys.
28:10Whoa.
28:11Turkeys.
28:12Welcome to Washington, Evelyn.
28:15Land of the turkeys.
28:21Here we are.
28:22We're home.
28:23Let's get inside.
28:25Warm you up by the fire.
28:27Thanks.
28:30Welcome.
28:33Okay.
28:34This is a gentle brew, so not much has been done.
28:39But here it is.
28:42Kind of messy.
28:45Yeah.
28:46So sorry about the mess, but for now.
28:50No.
28:50No, it's all right.
28:52So I'll let you guys rest if you want and go get some dinner or something for you.
28:57It's been a long, long travel time.
29:00Yeah.
29:00No worries.
29:01All right.
29:01Okay.
29:02Thank you, Linda.
29:08You have years to know that this time would have come.
29:12You decided to buy two freaking brand new surfboards and you did not need it.
29:16That could have been maybe money to pay rent for a month.
29:19It's your time to step up.
29:21And I don't think you're stepping up.
29:23I'm really worried because I've been hiding something huge from Evelyn.
29:28And tonight at dinner, I'm going to be telling Evelyn the true plan,
29:32which is to actually be staying here in the main house for three years.
29:38Being able to stay here for three years is going to be really helpful for us to save so much
29:42money.
29:43And it will give me the opportunity to also mend the relationship with my family.
29:47But I know that Evelyn's not going to want to do it.
29:50She's going to lose it.
29:51She's not going to be happy.
29:53And that really worries me.
29:55Get your **** together.
30:04I've got your plates ready.
30:06I knew you were tired.
30:07First class.
30:09Wow.
30:10My goodness.
30:11Thank you, Linda.
30:12Wow.
30:15So I know it's been a while since you've been here.
30:19And, you know, I think hopefully things have changed.
30:22So how long are you guys going to be here?
30:26Um, well, Evelyn is on a visa right now.
30:30So she needs to be here for three years.
30:32So, well, I mean, my, I mean, plan is that we stay here at the house for about two, three
30:40years.
30:42Well, you're willing to stay here as long as you want.
30:44You don't have to rent.
30:45You can stay here.
30:46I feel bad that the Airbnb isn't available.
30:48It's my fault for not preparing better.
30:52And, um, but yeah, we're going to stay here at the house for up to three years, I guess, is
30:57the plan.
30:58This is so messed up that Cory is just now telling me that we're going to stay here for three
31:03years.
31:04There's no way I can do this.
31:05And the fact that he tells me in front of his mom is expecting me to just accept it or
31:10put me in a corner.
31:11And I just cannot deal with this.
31:13I think I need to go.
31:15I don't feel too well.
31:20I am so pissed right now.
31:23To me, it's just obvious that he planned for me to be at his mom's house since before we applied
31:30for the visa.
31:30He's trying to manipulate me into being here.
31:33And it's been just nice.
31:38I don't know what's going on. I gotta go check on her.
31:40Okay.
31:43Can you please open the door?
31:44Are you insane? Three years?
31:47Please.
32:03Look at this guy.
32:08Me and my brother are heading to work, the shop, and I just had it on my mind of relapsing
32:15and
32:15up with Citra.
32:17And how she wants to go back to Indonesia.
32:19And how she wants to go back to Indonesia.
32:20My head's screaming, fix this somehow.
32:24Nothing worse than the person you love just looking at you ashamed.
32:29She kept saying, me and Bear are just going back.
32:32We're going back.
32:33No matter what I said, she just kept saying it.
32:36Eris is just as much as yours as it is hers.
32:39Yeah.
32:40I mean, I obviously...
32:41You can't just take someone's kid to another country.
32:43But I understand why she's mad.
32:45If they ever leave, I guarantee you she's not coming back here.
32:53I really pissed Citra off, and I need to figure out a way to calm her down so she can
32:59realize we need to be here as a family together.
33:02All right, good to work.
33:09But what I'm really worried about is Citra's dad wants to talk to me this weekend.
33:14And he's a cop.
33:16Like, all business up front.
33:18He's shot people before.
33:20And what scares me even more than that is I know how much sway he has with Citra.
33:26If he tells her to leave, she's going to go.
33:28And I don't know, just really kind of freaking out about it.
33:34Her dad, does he know anything?
33:36What do you think?
33:37He knows all of it.
33:39She couldn't hold it in all to herself.
33:41And I'm like, dude, I love you, but are you kidding me?
33:43How am I now supposed to make this guy ever see me the same and like me again?
33:48Because her dad's one of those, you know, they're nice guys, they say.
33:51But when you piss him off, that's when you see the angry devil.
33:56If he says, you need to come back to Indonesia, that's what's scary.
34:01I'm not trying to have my marriage over, man, when it's just beginning.
34:08I don't know, man.
34:18After that, how are you going to make this?
34:26Tadak!
34:28Dad!
34:28Dad!
34:29Dad!
34:30Dad!
34:30Dad!
34:30Dad!
34:31Dad!
34:33Dad!
34:34Dad!
34:35I want to call Sam and talk to Sam.
34:38Baby!
34:39Huh?
34:40Come here.
34:43Here, my dad wants to talk to me.
34:50Right now, I'm dreading having this FaceTime with her dad.
34:56I'm worried he's going to go off on me and he's going to tell her,
35:00yeah, hop on a plane, come back with Eris,
35:03and then I lose my family and I don't think I can make it without them.
35:09So there's something I've been thinking about for a long time
35:12that I've wanted to do to show them how serious I am about changing.
35:17Hello, Sam.
35:18Hey, how's it going?
35:19Hello, Sam. How are you?
35:22Well, he's tired a little bit.
35:27I mean, to be honest with you,
35:28because I don't want to lie to you dad or to her.
35:34I made the mistake of hanging out with old friends
35:38that I used to stay away from because, you know,
35:41I knew the things they did.
35:44And it's about the mistakes we made.
35:47And I had tempted me.
35:49And I fell for it.
35:51And that's pretty much what happened.
35:52.
35:57Even more than two years ago, when I came to the house, I had to leave.
36:05Because if people are using drugs, it would also be faster to go to death.
36:13Because there are no people who are using drugs who are successful.
36:17Even if their family can be damaged, because they can't bring their children,
36:23or even if they can't control themselves themselves.
36:28I mean, I'm just going to get right back on track, and I'm not letting anything destroy my family,
36:34especially not just my selfish mistakes.
36:41So I've been thinking about how to get everyone to believe I'm serious about changing my life and living better.
36:50I mean, I really like working at the warehouse with my brothers,
36:53but I feel like I need to find a better career that's healthier for me.
36:59Anne puts faith in Citra that her and her dad can trust me,
37:05I'm going to be able to support the family.
37:07And I think I need to follow in her dad's footsteps.
37:12How do you actually tell him that? Like, I'm trying to be a comic.
37:18Yeah, Sam pengen jadi polisi.
37:22Tapi lagi nunggu, apa namanya, tes online buat dapet sertifikat.
37:27Ini ijazah, ijazah dia, ijazah SMA.
37:30Bagus, Chef.
37:32Kalau kamu memang ingin menjadi polisi, kamu harus sehat, benar-benar bersih dari narkoba.
37:41Jangan pernah berpikir untuk memakai narkoba.
37:44Karena polisi itu jadi contoh masyarakat.
37:47I know I got this family to be healthy for and be there for, and I know what I have
37:53to do.
37:55I'm shocked that Citra's dad didn't just tell her to hop on a plane and come home.
38:00And I feel good because it means he has faith in me being a good person, a good father, and
38:07a good husband.
38:09I promise I'm going to do better, baby.
38:12And I'm going to be a better husband to you.
38:14And the best father I can be, the better.
38:17It's going to happen.
38:19I'm not going to let you down.
38:20I hope you really mean it.
38:22I agree to live in the United States.
38:24As long as you sober, never touch any dress ever again in your life.
38:31And you're going to have me and Aris in your life.
38:34It's what I want to date in.
38:36That's all I really ask for is a chance.
38:53I'm not going to do without you guys.
38:55You guys are my reason.
38:57I'm not going to mess up again.
38:59I promise you.
39:00Oh!
39:02Oh, no!
39:07Who do stop?
39:08I don't stop!
39:09Woo!
39:09We're going to go see snow for the first time.
39:13This is my buddy Lincoln over here.
39:16He likes to pee and poop everywhere.
39:18That's what happens when you buy a dog on the streets.
39:21How are you feeling, Natalie today?
39:22I'm scared because there are so many beautiful girls.
39:26I have decided to enter a beauty pageant
39:28that can help you in modeling career a lot.
39:31Oh, my God.
39:32So it's my time for my blog.
39:34Here goes nothing.
39:35This is it.
39:37The moment I've been waiting for so long.
39:39Our next contestant is Natalie.
39:46I think you're, like, tricking me into things.
39:49If you knew that we were going to be staying here,
39:51you wouldn't have come, and I know that.
39:53Cory's only been feeding me all .
39:55It's been just lies.
39:57And now we're going to have to stay here for three years?
40:00He is absolutely crazy.
40:02This is your new life?
40:03No.
40:04I refuse.
40:05We're going to have to talk about the goals.
40:08It's been a long day, a long night fighting through.
40:11We're getting close, everybody. Here we go.
40:14My legs are going down.
40:15Oh, no.
40:16My girlfriend, Megan, is going into labor
40:19and freaking out a little bit.
40:20I'm not too sure even if the baby's mine.
40:23I'd say, hey.
40:25Uh-oh.
40:26It's getting serious here.
40:27Woah.
40:28Bravo.
40:29Phi Rebecca.
40:30Adam.