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00:05The conversation that I had with Kyle, the point that I made to him is that I used to
00:10be more in this like kind of storybook mindset and now I feel like I'm in this place where
00:16when I think about lifelong commitment, I just have a hard time getting excited about
00:20it where that spark isn't there.
00:27Spark is probably the wrong word but it wasn't that we have no spark, like we've got I think
00:34a great spark and great energy and we're super connected and like you just moved across country,
00:40I feel really good about that. We're not perfect but we are in a great place and other people trying
00:48to poke holes in it to me is just noise and like this is why I get so defensive, I
00:53just don't feel
00:54like you deserve it and I'm like why not tell the whole story Kyle. I'm upset and I'm annoyed that
00:59this was a conversation that I had with Kyle that was communicated way out of context. There's concerns.
01:06I go up. Is the like spark not there because I'm going through all this ? I spent 10 minutes
01:12talking
01:12to Kyle about how amazing Whitney was. Whitney wakes up, the girl's happy. She has a love for life. She's
01:19great. She's a breath of fresh air. So like really don't appreciate Kyle dumbing it down to no spark. It's
01:25like,
01:25come on dude. You also referred to like our future as like murky or something. Our future is murky.
01:35Can you describe it like the day by day is good but the tomorrow it's murky. I've never said our
01:44future
01:45is murky. At least not that I'm aware of. Sorry for the interruption of your food. But like I do
01:53just
01:54like want to know that like you want this to work. I want this to work. I want kids. I
01:58want a big family.
02:00I don't know why. I feel like I've been like hyper emotional lately. You've literally left all of your
02:04friends. You left your entire world. You're coming out to New York. That's a big deal and it's gonna make
02:08you emotional. And then when you and that's why I've been so protective of you. I do think that
02:16losing my mom I underestimated the amount of time that it takes to heal from that. And I worry that
02:23it like affects our relationship or affects my ability to be like oh yeah like I want to get
02:28married. I want this. I want that. And I feel like I'm still kind of in this place where I'm
02:33like you're
02:33grieving. You're figuring it out. You know it's less than a year ago and it's a first birthday without
02:38getting a call from my mom. I really can't talk about her without getting upset. It's okay she's
02:50your mom you know. Yeah. And like she was so proud of you. I mean of course I wish that
02:57he was like
02:58not as fearful. I had reservations about like marriage and a future because that's obviously
03:04what I want. But I see him pinpointing these things and like trying to work through them
03:10and that's why I really believe in him and like our relationship. Really puts in perspective what
03:17matters. Like it's the same with this like drama and s**t. We know where we are so. All right. Fine.
03:24I'm just a little
03:25I'm a little worked out. Well the next time we see everybody's gonna be interesting. Yeah it'll be interesting. That's
03:31for sure.
03:45Where are you not going anywhere? Jesus.
04:03Hello? Hi. Say hi Gemma. Hi my baby. There's a smile. You hear the doggies? I put them away because
04:12they're not used to children. I got a new dog crate for the new apartment. So we're still moving
04:19forward. Yes but change of plans. So I love the place that we saw together. Okay. This is nice.
04:28Got a great soaking cup. Oh wow. Oh my god. No it's a pool. Issue is it fell through. So
04:37in my searches
04:38I found this like new building. It has an insane outdoor space. But it's a year-long lease.
04:48A year-long? Not furnished.
04:55A year-long not furnished. Yes. For just you. Yes. Wait. I'm out here thinking we're packing clothes
05:05to like move into a furnished sublease for a month. But we're packing to like vacate this apartment.
05:11This is a very big change. And like what does this mean? Okay can we rewind? Yes. Have you talked
05:20to Kyle about this? I mean did I get him to weigh in on it? No. But like have I
05:25talked about it with him?
05:26Yeah. Yeah. Hello. Hi. Oh my god. Hi Kitty. Shh. Don't bark. Wait does Katie know the updates? No. Katie
05:38it was
05:38just Helen Lindsay's spot came up. That's great. But it's not furnished and it's a year lease.
05:45Wow. Yeah. I haven't really thought it through too much either. I just feel like in this weird
05:52limbo where it's like what am I doing? Like half some of my stuff is packed some of it's not.
05:56I have
05:56a lot more packing to do because it's empty. I'm here to help. So I need to take like half
05:59of
05:59everything. Oh my goodness. Okay. Let's do it. Okay. Yeah. I'm gonna try but. Can you grab me newspapers?
06:04Yep. Yeah. There's my girl. I have so many glasses up here. He won't even know these are
06:14gone. What's the next thing? How about these bowls? Small ones. Four of those. Do you have
06:18any paper towels? Oh. Right there. Oh I've got to take that paper towel holder. Also with like
06:24Amazon these days honestly you could just. He can just. Okay. Because I've already just. Honestly
06:30fair. Gemma are you coming with me? She's like I'm ready. I'm struggling to process like that we're
06:37like literally packing boxes right now. Are you good? It's touch and go because it like hit me
06:44where I was like oh my god what the am I doing? But like it's necessary. Yeah. Gemma you are
06:52so cute.
06:53Look at that little smile. Gemma lemma. Hi baby girl. Yeah so we've been trying the last few months.
06:57Yeah. Yeah. He's been trying to make babies. You've been. I've been trying not to make babies.
07:02No. I do have a friend coming to town this weekend. Old friend who was maybe supposed to perform at
07:09my
07:10wedding but didn't. Gotcha. Got it. His tour is on the east coast right now so he has a show.
07:15I know. Historically when I've been single I've had a roster and just because I'm a mom doesn't mean I
07:22can't have a roster now. I went on one date with Frank and I am certainly not putting all my
07:29milk
07:29cartons in his crate. Call Manhattan Milk. We built this home delivery business up. Nostalgic Milkman. Let's
07:35play off our our looks. Let's play off our our muscles. I'm gonna keep myself open like for the hot
07:43country music star who I might or might not have a history with. Come on. What I want is fun.
08:13I feel very awkward. We're not. I'm not sneaking. I'm not moving out in the middle of the night.
08:23Coming up. You're talking to a wall and not a wall. Oh shit. You're not running my mouth.
08:29That is the definition of running your mouth. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
08:31The half truth is shit. The half truth is bullshit.
08:49Hey, babe. Hey, babe. What are you working on? The usual. I brought us tequila and paninis.
08:57My favorite. Yeah. I'm starving. Hold on. Hey. You recognize these that you helped me fix? Yes. They look so
09:05good.
09:06Those are gonna go pretty fast. Really? Now I want them now that we have a new table. You want
09:10all my best stuff.
09:11I have a business where I restore and sell classic modern furniture, like from the Mad Men era.
09:18I have a lot of famous clients, people who have performed at the Super Bowl in big movies, and I
09:25am not allowed to speak about any of them.
09:27Sometimes I have to sign NDAs and Yvonne doesn't even know about all of them.
09:31What?
09:33Tell me about what you did today. A lot of free time to fill.
09:36Shut up.
09:38Today was a little hard. I think everything is kind of settling in that I don't have a job right
09:43now.
09:44I love to work. Like as soon as I could sell cookies on the corner of a street, like I
09:48was doing that.
09:49And for the past seven and a half years, I was the vice president of marketing for one of the
09:53largest hospitality groups in the world.
09:55So I go from people constantly calling me and needing me to like getting laid off.
10:00And it was the first time like I could actually just like be off my phone.
10:05You're still on your phone all the time.
10:07Yeah, I still love to be on my phone, but it's different.
10:10What's on your mind as far as next steps? Any leads? Any inspiration?
10:16The only thing I thought about was our conversations around having a baby.
10:27Do you guys want water, rosé?
10:29I want a little rosé.
10:31I'll take a sparkling water.
10:32Okay.
10:33They always say men should not drink for three months while they're trying to conceive.
10:39Well...
10:40That it helps your sperm.
10:42I've been pretty decent lately. Thank you.
10:45By the way, every time we come here and we see Gemma, we get excited.
10:48I know. It worked.
10:52Gemma is the baby that you want around if you want to like convince your partner to have a kid.
10:57Yeah, it definitely didn't like help my case of saying I'm too busy.
11:01He's always been like talking about how much he wants a boy, but I think spending all this time with
11:06Gemma...
11:07I don't care. As soon as he's an healthy kid, I'm happy. Girl, boy.
11:11I mean, I'm rooting for a boy so that Gemma can have a boyfriend.
11:16Hold on. Let me grab her.
11:18I hope we didn't wake her up.
11:20Sometimes she does this and then goes back to sleep.
11:24Aw, look at her.
11:25She's telling all that she's...
11:27Okay. Just a little moment.
11:29That's so cute.
11:31No, not a little moment.
11:34I know you've wanted to have a baby probably since like our second date.
11:37No, we wanted to have a baby.
11:39I... No, no, no, I'm saying...
11:40You proposed to me and you said, I know your maternal clock is ticking.
11:44I went into getting married with the intention and idea that we were building a family.
11:49I'm just... I always just worry about time and I know we'll be great parents.
11:54Time is here.
11:55I feel like you are trying to delay for the sake of it.
11:58I think our plans, right? Like we're supposed to have a baby together.
12:02Yeah, that's the plan.
12:04It kind of feels like you keep moving the goalpost for me.
12:07I'm not a spring chicken, even though I always lie about my age.
12:11Yeah, how old are you?
12:12I was 22.
12:28These are dead.
12:30Good morning, love.
12:31Hi.
12:32Just getting rid of these guys.
12:34These are really dead.
12:36Oh, shoot.
12:37I ordered groceries.
12:38Hold on a second.
12:39What did you order?
12:39Just some food.
12:42I forgot to put an order in.
12:44Do you want to...
12:45Do you buy a tray?
12:46You know I love kale.
12:47Here, you do this because you like organizing the refrigerator.
12:50Cool.
12:52You don't do it right, but like...
12:53No, you...
12:54Everything that I do in the refrigerator, you end up just correcting anyway.
12:57Yeah.
12:58I like things put away.
13:00He makes the bed with me still in it.
13:02Well, that's kind of like you probably should be up.
13:08Well, I didn't get a chance to download you on what happened.
13:11I had the coffee date with Lindsey.
13:15Talked things through.
13:16It's like, you mean well.
13:18You're like, I want the best for Lindsey, but the delivery is just like...
13:23Yeah.
13:24I know I've done things wrong to you and hurt you in the past, but like, I apologize.
13:29Like, at the end of the day, she was receptive and she understood and I think she accepted my apology.
13:33And let's see how it goes going forward.
13:36Exactly.
13:36And that's good.
13:37I think she used the word baby step, so I was just like, okay, baby steps.
13:40And then she invited me to brunch and so I was like, that's...
13:43That's a good baby step.
13:44You grabbed me scissors.
13:46So it was nice.
13:46Like, I went in, I was like really excited.
13:48We're gonna go and have fun with everyone.
13:50And it seemed like Amanda was the most turned off that I was there.
13:55Kyle was a bit confused.
13:56I was just trying to like, you know, follow me and like try to like get through it.
14:00Well, I just think if she's getting an apology, maybe she could get an apology.
14:04Wait, why does she have an apology?
14:05I mean, I thought you were incredibly dismissive and like condescending.
14:10Amanda's not gonna get a ton of I'm sorry's at this moment.
14:13Like, I'm just...
14:14Just the way that she goes about things like just really grinds my gears.
14:18Ten people at the brunch or something.
14:20Yeah.
14:20And I'm assuming like probably wasn't the best scenario to like discuss the little foursome text.
14:27And being like, you know, what was that?
14:29I started dating Owen four months after he got separated from his ex.
14:33And then an article comes out spreading rumors that I'm a homewrecker.
14:38And then when we were out for my friend's birthday, Katie's husband, Matt, showed Owen that it was in a
14:46group chat amongst Kyle, Katie and Amanda.
14:50He is technically still married, but I'm not wrecking any home.
14:56The home doesn't exist anymore.
14:58To hear that these things are said about me behind my back by friends like that sucks because it's nowhere
15:05near who I am.
15:06Like things shouldn't be said behind your back.
15:08But like have the balls to tell me to my face as well.
15:10We have enough going on.
15:12I mean, Amanda has enough going on.
15:13Like and Kyle.
15:15That's true.
15:17Coming up.
15:18Do you think I am different and natural than New York?
15:22We'll see how the night goes.
15:37What about this view?
15:39I was actually really excited that we were coming here because I was like, this is perfect for him.
15:45Yeah, this is so cool.
15:46Okay, do you think I am different and natural than New York?
15:52I don't know.
15:52I'm not hung with you in New York.
15:54Well, it's so cool.
15:55Until just now.
15:55Yeah.
15:57I guess we'll see.
15:58I guess.
15:59We'll see how the night goes.
16:03What is crazy is that Dustin was supposed to perform at my wedding to Carl.
16:14So I never met him until after Carl and I broke up.
16:18I went to his concert, met him at his tailgate, and then a month later we went on a date.
16:23Trapping you for a night is so hard.
16:25Look who's talking.
16:27But yeah, you're right.
16:28I go out for a living.
16:29You know what I mean?
16:30No, I know.
16:31I know.
16:32And partying is not what I want to do when I'm home.
16:34Yeah.
16:34Unless my little devil comes to town.
16:36Am I the devil?
16:37You are.
16:39You're the last time I went out in Nashville.
16:41For real?
16:43Yep.
16:46As the Beyonce went and hit your hair, I love it.
16:53I did go on a date with Dustin back in June.
16:57I happened to be in Nashville.
16:58We went out, had the best time, but I just wasn't mentally or physically ready at that
17:05point to have sex, but I feel in a good place now.
17:12Forget Frank the Milkman.
17:14I'm attracted to Dustin.
17:15The chemistry is there.
17:17I don't know.
17:17Is it just me or is like the universe putting Dustin in New York like for a reason?
17:22Do you know how many people have asked me if you're going to fly me in your plane?
17:26We should do it.
17:28That is a good day night.
17:29I have done that.
17:30You have?
17:31Yeah.
17:32you.
17:33What?
17:34What?
17:36With who?
17:37I'll kill her.
17:48The street is like a trip down memory lane for me.
17:51Yeah.
17:52Because you used to live there.
17:54The door used to be red though.
17:56Here?
17:57Yeah.
17:58Okay.
17:58You know, originally I wanted somewhere that was like furnished and month to month.
18:02It was too difficult to find, but the plan is still the same, which is to try to reconnect
18:08again.
18:09Order some drinks.
18:10Can I do, I think there's like a lychee martini.
18:12Sure.
18:13I'll just do a margarita.
18:14You want the burger?
18:15Some burgers?
18:15Yeah.
18:16We're not dating other people.
18:18We're not seeing other people.
18:19This is to create space to try to actually date each other again.
18:23And I'm, in my delusional little mind, I think that this could actually work.
18:29It's a classic, classic street.
18:33Goldman Sachs, former headquarters.
18:35Uh-huh.
18:36They've since moved on.
18:37You know my new apartment was an old JP Morgan building?
18:41Well, I knew it was a commercial to residential conversion.
18:44Yeah, I think it used to be like the bank.
18:47The bank?
18:47Well, I don't know.
18:50Is the least official?
18:52Yeah.
18:53I do finally have the keys.
18:56So, the move will be happening like this week.
19:03Does it feel weird?
19:05Yeah.
19:05This has been like an easy decision for me to make.
19:09The reason that I feel like I'm able to get through it is because I'm really hoping that
19:15like this move is going to make a shift in our relationship.
19:20No one that I've talked to has had a negative reaction to it.
19:24I feel so overwhelmed and like stuck.
19:28Yeah.
19:28That's why I'm also sort of looking forward to this move because I'm doing this to help us because we
19:33can't be stuck in this cycle.
19:35But we're rooting for you and we're always rooting for you.
19:39Let's just talk about the apartment first and then we have to talk about like how this is actually going
19:43to work.
19:45Smashburgers.
19:46Okay, so am I getting a key?
19:48No, I'm keeping my keys.
19:50You tell the front desk you're coming to see me and then you go to the elevator, push my floor
19:53and you just go up.
19:54You don't need keys.
19:55All right.
19:56So does that mean you keep your key but you're giving me like a heads up?
20:01I'll like call you and be like, hey, I'm on my way over.
20:04If you're jerking it in the bathroom, I don't want to walk in on that.
20:08You know?
20:09Only takes me a couple of minutes.
20:11Pretty efficient.
20:12Yeah.
20:12All right.
20:14Just don't, don't speak to me like we're making decisions together.
20:17Not that you've already made up your mind.
20:20That's all I'm asking.
20:22Whether it's like the rules, the keys, the this, the that.
20:25Okay.
20:26You're not single.
20:27I know.
20:28I'm not single.
20:29Still got my wedding band on.
20:31What the is that?
20:32I don't have any jewelry on.
20:35Do you have any thoughts on this?
20:37Like ideas that you'd want to implement or things that you're worried about?
20:41Are we going to try to have like a date night?
20:44I feel like we should be at each other's places at least two times a week.
20:48The only thing I thought about.
20:49We still have to go to therapy.
20:51Yeah.
20:51I think that's going to be our saving grace also through this whole process.
20:56We have to do that.
20:57Well, we keep, we've missed like the last two weeks.
20:59But we have to get back on that.
21:01My biggest fear is losing you and that's scary.
21:05And I get frustrated with how badly I want it to work.
21:10So can I ask you a question?
21:13Do you feel like you're in love with me?
21:18Yes.
21:18That's why I'm doing this.
21:21Are you like even still in love with me?
21:25I think we both want to feel.
21:27But are you still in love with me?
21:29Of course.
21:30I love you.
21:32Are you still in love with me?
21:33Of course.
21:35No, you're still.
21:38Kyle, you're the worst liar ever.
21:42Stop.
21:43I'm not doing anything.
21:45I love you.
21:46Are you kidding me?
21:48No.
21:48I asked you first.
21:50And I answered.
21:51I'm a f***ing catch.
21:54You're still a catch.
21:55I want you to treat me like that.
21:58Okay.
21:59Then let's bring that back.
22:01So when we spend this time apart, like I want to feel like you're doing everything you can to fight
22:07for this relationship and that you don't want to lose me.
22:12Okay.
22:15Coming up.
22:16He means talking man to man.
22:18Instead of like gossiping.
22:20It's not gossiping.
22:21It is gossiping.
22:23Speak of the devil.
22:24What's going on?
22:34What are we getting?
22:35Should we do an espresso marzini?
22:37Oh my God.
22:38Hi.
22:38How are you?
22:40Hello.
22:40It's my brother.
22:41Heard a lot about you.
22:42I heard a lot about you too.
22:43All right.
22:45Hello.
22:46There she is.
22:47Georgina.
22:48Hi there.
22:48Oh, it's so good to meet you.
22:49I'm going to give you a hug.
22:50Of course.
22:51Bring it on.
22:51I'll hug her.
22:52Hi.
22:54How are you guys?
22:55We match.
22:58Look at all these good looking people.
23:03Hi.
23:04You look gorgeous.
23:06How are you?
23:07Good.
23:07Cheers.
23:08Good looking guy.
23:10Thank you, Andrea.
23:11Just a friend?
23:14I mean, I don't want to put you right on the spot.
23:17Maybe just did.
23:18Good looking guy.
23:21Georgina, update me.
23:22How have you been?
23:24I'm so tired.
23:25Tired?
23:26I came straight from work.
23:27I had a patient today and I did a biopsy and I said, I'm going to get a bandaid for
23:31your boo-boo.
23:31And I was like, oh my God, I'm so sorry.
23:34It's a family establishment.
23:36Yvonne, we're finally meeting Dustin.
23:38I know.
23:39I know.
23:39This is so exciting.
23:40She gushes over you every damn time.
23:42So what did you do today?
23:44This little monster was trying to get me to meet up and have a free drink, have a little
23:47matinee party at 2.30.
23:50Did you?
23:50No, I held you off till 3.
23:56So, are you guys having fun together?
23:58So fun.
23:58When there's a window I'm not touring, I'll come back.
24:02I'm a nerd.
24:03I'm a science nerd.
24:04So I want to go see like all the super cool museums.
24:07Lindsey's really into science too.
24:09She'll take you to all the museums.
24:11I don't think Lindsey and I have ever been to a science museum by day.
24:15You've got to help your friends out sometimes.
24:17We're going to be a little bit.
24:18Yeah, so it's downstairs.
24:19Yeah.
24:21He's cute.
24:22I know.
24:23Excuse me.
24:25Excuse me.
24:26What?
24:27Look who showed up.
24:29Hey.
24:31How are you?
24:32Good to see you.
24:33Good to see you.
24:33It's a little chilly, right?
24:35It's actually for the weather.
24:36It's a chilly day.
24:38Good travels?
24:38Yeah, I love it.
24:39Welcome back.
24:39Hi.
24:41How are you?
24:42We need drinks?
24:43I'm good, thank you.
24:44What are you drinking?
24:45What are you drinking?
24:45What are you drinking?
24:46Repo, rocks, splash soda.
24:48I'll do the same.
24:50Tune on.
24:51Tune on.
24:51Tune on.
24:51Tune on.
24:51Tune on.
24:51Tune on.
24:51Yes, sir.
24:52Yes, sir.
24:52Yes, sir.
24:55Where's my girlfriend?
24:56Tune on the bed.
24:57Couldn't make it tight.
24:59Okay, obviously being new to New York, I have been trying to find my gluten-free bakery.
25:04And it is just the best tasting gluten-free bread that I've found.
25:09I throw it in the toaster.
25:12It comes out like this, with just a little bit of butter.
25:20You look a little chilly.
25:21I'm a little chilly.
25:22I know that.
25:23I was like...
25:23Maybe I need your best.
25:25I'm just about to make a real dad joke.
25:26Here's a little chilly.
25:28Aw.
25:30Whitney loves dad jokes.
25:31Literally.
25:32That was really cute.
25:33It was like on her dating profile.
25:34I love dad jokes.
25:35She's like obsessed with dad jokes.
25:36I love dad jokes.
25:37Wait, you met her online?
25:39On Raya.
25:40You guys met on Raya?
25:40I didn't know that.
25:41I thought you met through the girl I was dating at the time.
25:45And you met through them, and that was just random.
25:48Uh-uh.
25:48Our one-year first date.
25:50Right?
25:50Our one-year first date was the specimen.
25:52Now we're getting somewhere.
25:54Okay, okay, okay.
25:55I like that that also correlates with her move, your birthday.
25:58Yep.
25:59That's a really happy time of the year for you guys.
26:00People talking .
26:01It all correlates.
26:03Yeah.
26:04Yeah.
26:05Yeah.
26:05How was dinner last night?
26:07Uh, it was great.
26:08It ended on a good note, but she was probably a little hot in the beginning.
26:11There was some random kind of noise that came up.
26:14I think she's just being fed a little bull .
26:18The level of, like, drama and, like, nonsense is, like, baffling to some extent, especially
26:22for someone new that's moving here.
26:24It's like, what are we doing?
26:25I would love to talk to you about it.
26:27Oh, you know about it.
26:28Because we went to Washington Square Park, Georgina, Whitney, and I, and I brought some
26:35stuff up that I'm hearing from the group, and I thought it was something that, being
26:41her friend, I should tell her is going around.
26:44Um, so I did.
26:47Did you know that she was behind this?
26:49I knew that it came from this conversation.
26:52Oh, I thought you were, like, you were looking around.
26:54Like, you don't know what it is.
26:55Why were you just looking at her?
26:56I was just, like, avoiding eye contact with me.
26:58Yeah, I was like, I was like, why are you acting like this is some fictitious person?
26:59Because I'm not, I'm not trying to shoot the messenger.
27:02It, she's communicating something to Whitney, and, and I think that's understandable.
27:07The real issue is, like, two or three guys running their mouths about my relationship.
27:13Lexi was like, Kenny said that maybe the future is murky with Whitney.
27:18Who said the murky comment real quick?
27:20Lexi said that.
27:20Heard it from, yeah.
27:22Heard it from who?
27:23Who, who said it?
27:24Who's coming from Andrea?
27:26We got down to it.
27:27Our future is murky?
27:28Yeah.
27:29You're not sure about the future.
27:30Murky, unsure.
27:31Never said that.
27:33He needs to talk to you man to man.
27:34Instead of, like, gossiping and having some, like, bullshit half-truth conversation.
27:39It's not gossiping.
27:40He's my husband.
27:41He tells me everything.
27:42I tell him everything.
27:43It is gossiping.
27:45Speak of the devil.
27:46What's going on?
27:58Speak of the devil.
28:03What's going on?
28:05Okay.
28:05At what point did I say that my future with Whitney was murky?
28:10Did that word come out of my mouth?
28:12Yes or no?
28:12No.
28:13Oh, wow.
28:13Then what the are we talking about here?
28:15Wow.
28:16Wait, I'll just be frank.
28:16I'll be frank.
28:16This is a game of telling.
28:17No, no, no.
28:18I don't know.
28:18Yeah, I don't know what you guys are.
28:20Kyle brought up that you have been complaining about, like, a lack of spark in your relationship.
28:27And murky, I used it after the spark word got used from Kyle.
28:33All I know is I had a birthday dinner yesterday and my girlfriend was upset because of the word murky.
28:38Because I said our future is murky.
28:41That is bullshit.
28:42I never said that.
28:43Murky, that was my perception of what Kyle said.
28:47I think Kenny is like, sometimes I worry if you don't have that spark.
28:53So, it's a murky situation.
28:56We talked about it.
28:57You are not ready to commit, like, right now.
28:59She just moved in yesterday.
29:00Yes.
29:01I'm not ready to get married today.
29:03Whitney and I are on the same page.
29:05We've had this conversation.
29:06I haven't told you or Kyle or anybody in this place anything that I have not told Whitney.
29:12The only time it becomes an issue is when people cherry pick certain buzzwords out of a conversation and then
29:18go start running their mouth about it.
29:20Should we introduce you to some people?
29:23Yes.
29:24Go see how to Gavin.
29:25Gavin!
29:27No, Gavin has his serious face on.
29:29Or when someone makes up a word, like murky.
29:31I didn't make the wrong usage in that situation.
29:35So, if I said it wrong, and I apologize for that.
29:37But what it was really that caught me off guard.
29:40You're doubting the spark that you've been having with Whitney.
29:44What was murky that I told you?
29:46What did I say to you that was murky?
29:48Murky was, like, the whole situation.
29:50Like, not, like, being there yet.
29:51Kyle said that you had told him there wasn't a spark.
29:55So, that's what we were talking about.
29:57He brought up the spark.
29:58That caught us, it caught me off guard.
30:00To your words that you said that got back to her.
30:03Are you being serious right now?
30:04My murky word was a consequence of what Kyle said about this.
30:10Did I say the same thing to you?
30:12You're not understanding, though.
30:13This is important.
30:14You guys seriously don't understand.
30:16You keep misunderstanding what I'm saying.
30:17Oh, .
30:19Andrea?
30:19Andrea is spicy.
30:21No, but this is not normal for Andrea.
30:23He's out.
30:23I've been trying to explain.
30:25Andrea is very passionate.
30:27It's a description.
30:28Murky.
30:29Murky.
30:29This is the actual question.
30:30Call us for his words for 70 times a day.
30:33Murky.
30:34Why is he running his mouth?
30:35But not running my mouth.
30:37You're clearly running your mouth.
30:38That is the definition of running your mouth.
30:40And you need to own that.
30:41Yes.
30:41Period.
30:42I brought this conversation.
30:43I don't care who brought it.
30:44Spark comes from Kyle.
30:46I'm not trying to throw Kyle under the train.
30:47I wish Kyle was here.
30:48I'm not trying to.
30:49He's not.
30:49So we're talking about your conversation.
30:52My conversation?
30:52Remove Kyle.
30:53No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
30:56I'm going to.
30:56No, I'm going to leave.
30:58No, I'm going to leave right now.
30:59I have to.
31:00We're talking to a wall.
31:00Another wall.
31:01I have to.
31:02I can't deal with a wall.
31:04What the is he talking about?
31:05No, it's like.
31:05I told him something.
31:06It's ridiculous.
31:07A fraction of it got back to Whitney.
31:08And there's no context.
31:11No reality.
31:13I can't deal with a wall.
31:37All right, girls.
31:38Get the ball in.
31:40Georgina, kind of.
31:41Oh.
31:42Oh, my God.
31:43Lindsay, you're really good at this.
31:44Damn, Lindsay.
31:45Oh.
31:46Oh, my God.
31:47Sorry, Lexi.
31:50This is it.
31:51Yeah.
31:53Yvonne.
31:54Oh, my God.
31:55What are you doing?
31:56Take it away.
31:56That's impressive.
31:58Wait, Georgina.
31:59Stay right there.
31:59Stay there.
32:00Stay there.
32:00I have to take this picture of you.
32:02We need new photos for your Raya.
32:04I'm not even on Raya.
32:05Look at that angle.
32:06You're on Raya now, bitch.
32:07Okay, just act sporty for Raya.
32:10Now bend a little.
32:12Bend and snap.
32:14Okay, I have an idea.
32:15Lay on the ground.
32:17Look dead.
32:18Are we giving her balls?
32:20Is this what it takes to date nowadays?
32:22Yes.
32:23Show a little skin.
32:25Okay.
32:25Oh, my God.
32:26That's cute.
32:28These pictures are turning on Lindsey.
32:30Actually, no, we didn't.
32:31Speaking of that, Lindsey's turned on.
32:33She had a special visitor this weekend.
32:35Oh, yeah.
32:35Your hair does look a little wild today.
32:37Is there something you want to share with us?
32:39Um, can we sit down?
32:41Yeah, let's update those photos for you on Raya.
32:44Are you getting on Raya now?
32:46No, these pictures are terrible.
32:47You know in, like, those, like, Godfather movies
32:50when they outline the person's body on the floor
32:52in, like, the white chalk?
32:56Yeah, they made me look like a murder victim.
32:59What happened with Dustin?
33:00I mean, we're friends.
33:01Like, we're friends who make out at the end of the night.
33:05Did you make out last night?
33:08The non-answer is a yes, obviously.
33:10Did he go to your apartment?
33:12Yeah, so we went to my apartment,
33:14and I was like, you want to come up for a drink?
33:17Oh, it's like a movie.
33:19Yeah.
33:21Lindsay is the man in the movie,
33:23and it's like you walk into her apartment,
33:25and it's like your panties drop.
33:31No one's dropping their panties for me.
33:32Only diaper droppers.
33:33I don't know.
33:34Frank? Dustin?
33:36I'm like, ugh.
33:38Ten months.
33:38Two make outs.
33:40I'm reacting.
33:41I put too much Botox in,
33:43which is why I look so proud.
33:45I was wondering why you're looking at me like,
33:47like, oh, yeah, I can't leave my face.
33:50I mean, listen, like,
33:51I've only seen him, like,
33:52a handful of times throughout the years,
33:54but, like, that's what I love about him.
33:56Like, Dustin is so light and airy and easy,
34:00and this is what I've been saying.
34:01Like, I can't handle anything serious right now.
34:05Like, who has time for a serious relationship
34:08in my shoes?
34:10Nor do I care.
34:12Just keep it light and airy,
34:13and if you don't, move it on.
34:15I know Lindsey,
34:16and I know she really wants her happy
34:19and happily ever.
34:22Tell me what it is.
34:23Happily ever after?
34:24Happy ending.
34:25No, it's not.
34:27She still wants her fairytale.
34:29She's gone through two really bad breakups,
34:31and there hasn't been a lot of healing in between,
34:33but I also know she definitely wants to find her person.
34:37She deserves that.
34:38Wait, so,
34:39because I was a little distracted last night,
34:42what happened with Kenny?
34:43It was bad.
34:44Kenny was just, like, on a warpath.
34:47Have you heard from Whitney and all?
34:49No.
34:50I want to make sure she's okay.
34:52I'm assuming we haven't heard from her
34:53because Kenny probably went home last night
34:55and, like, completely flipped the story around
34:57and made it sound like we all ganked up on him.
34:59He really came out on Brea, and I don't like that.
35:03He was so fixated on the word murky,
35:08but this whole discussion started because of the spark.
35:12Yeah, I was going to say, like, to have a murky future is,
35:16to me, it says, like, oh, like,
35:18I can't really tell where the future is going to go.
35:20Fine.
35:21But to say you don't have a spark with your girlfriend
35:23is so .
35:25We would never be having this conversation if Kenny said,
35:27like, I can't wait to marry her.
35:29Like, I love her.
35:30I hope so.
35:30You don't say, got you the Chanel bag,
35:32so now you don't need a closet.
35:34Aw, it's so cute.
35:36Ooh.
35:40Kenny loves buzzwords.
35:42I'll give him three.
35:44Narcissistic, manipulative, gaslighter.
35:48Yeah.
35:48Those are three good ones.
35:51Coming up.
35:52Our relationship has been nonstop,
35:54like, excitement and travel.
35:56It sounds all perfect, bro.
35:59But, like, just perfect?
36:01That's kind of boring.
36:02I've been pushed to my edge.
36:04I'm going to take a little breather.
36:19I'm starving.
36:20You going to get hangry?
36:22Soon, yeah.
36:23Oh, my God.
36:24The burger here is phenomenal.
36:25My people, what up?
36:27What's up, boss?
36:28You need a hug after the other night, brother.
36:30Oh, dude, I do.
36:31Hi.
36:32Aw.
36:33You definitely do.
36:34It's like I haven't seen you in forever.
36:35It's because during summer, we were seeing each other every day.
36:38I know.
36:39We were, like, living together.
36:39I know.
36:40You stole him from me.
36:41I'm sorry.
36:42I know.
36:43The straightening top.
36:44Cassidy, how are you?
36:44Can I get a sparkling water?
36:46Yes.
36:47And a mimosa.
36:49Absolutely.
36:49Yo, you've been on your champagne cake.
36:51Sometimes I'm in that, like, sparkling vibe.
36:54You know what I mean?
36:54Feeling sparkly?
36:55Yeah.
36:55Love that.
36:56You know, it's been stress with work,
36:58and so I'm trying to sparkle it up, jazz it up.
37:00Absolutely.
37:01You think the bubbles are just gonna...
37:03Exactly.
37:03Get your spark back.
37:05I hated that whole conversation with him.
37:08What happened?
37:09Andrea and Lexi, I actually like them,
37:11and so I'm hoping that there's a way to, like,
37:14figure out, get to the bottom of this,
37:15but Andrea, whatever we talked about,
37:18was manipulated into Kenny thinks the future is murky.
37:22Your future is uncertain, as everyone's is.
37:25They wouldn't listen to that.
37:26But Kenny said the future's murky.
37:27I'm like, I never said that.
37:28And I guess Kyle started it,
37:30which I still haven't had a chance to talk to Kyle.
37:32Kyle wasn't there?
37:33Kyle was not there.
37:34Well, murky and spark,
37:35I don't know where this came from.
37:37I said the spark comment, to be very clear.
37:40You did say the spark comment.
37:42But not the way that they said you did.
37:44Correct.
37:45I didn't know that you said the spark comment.
37:47But it was totally taken out of context.
37:49It wasn't about us now having a spark.
37:51It was referring to spark as totally something different.
37:55I feel a little numb to marriage,
37:57or being with someone forever,
37:58and it kind of working out.
37:59I'm just a little jaded on that.
38:01But I think it's a me thing.
38:02And I have things to work on, on that.
38:04Oh, I think we gotta get deeper.
38:05I think it's more than that.
38:08Because the spark comment,
38:09now that I know that you said it,
38:11I think you want a little more passion from her.
38:14You want a little bit more, like, something from Whitney.
38:19I am the Kenny relationship expert.
38:22I've seen it from A to Z.
38:25I knew his college girlfriend, his ex, for six years.
38:31And now Whitney.
38:33So, saying there's no spark,
38:35I know Kenny's feeling insecure about his relationship.
38:38Our relationship has been non-stop, like, excitement and traveling.
38:42It sounds all perfect, bro.
38:44But, like, just perfect?
38:46That's kind of boring.
38:47Well, maybe it's boring to you,
38:49because you're used to such a crazy, kind of toxic situation.
38:53You're right. That sounded like a jab.
38:55A little bit. Sorry, but...
38:57And I like that from you, Whit.
38:58I think this is what he meant.
39:01I think he wants more of that, Whit.
39:03I don't think you know what you're talking about.
39:05I'm the furthest thing from boring, honestly.
39:09I don't want you to come in here
39:13and make these statements,
39:15because I don't want to talk to you.
39:16I'm not making any statements.
39:17I'm trying to give a suggestion,
39:18who just wants to add fuel.
39:20Not constructive.
39:21Do you feel like I'm coming at you?
39:23I'm just...
39:23These are questions I would ask you one-on-one
39:26if Whitney weren't here.
39:27I'm just curious.
39:28And maybe I'm, like, defensive...
39:29I think you are.
39:30And, like, put your weapons down.
39:32I'm a little bummed that after last night,
39:34being attacked by literally everyone in that place...
39:37Yeah.
39:37For you to come in here and be like,
39:39I think it's something else.
39:42I'm tired of defending this relationship
39:45and tired of defending how I feel about this person.
39:48And, like, you should be the last person
39:50that I need to explain.
39:51I was pushing for clarity.
39:53I've been pushed to my edge.
39:54I understand.
39:56Gavin's my best friend.
39:57He knows me and my relationship with Whitney
40:01probably better than anyone.
40:02The fact that he is now piling on with the group
40:06is one of the most disheartening things
40:08that I could feel right now.
40:10There's some level of animosity, jealousy,
40:15something that I've never seen out of Gavin, ever.
40:19And after taking on fire from everyone
40:23in our friend group last night,
40:24I honestly don't know how much more of this I can take.
40:28I'm gonna take a little breather.
40:32Just getting a little fresh air.
40:44Next time on In The City...
40:46Hey, give me a sip. Give me a sip.
40:47Give me a sip.
40:49Give me a sip.
40:51I can.
40:52So I didn't have some information about your dad.
40:56Hello?
40:57It was a blog that called me a homewrecker.
41:00And is this not the truth?
41:02Oh!
41:03Go yourself.
41:06The night before your wife is moving out,
41:09who was in our apartment last night?