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00:01Polyamory is a lifestyle.
00:04I have four queens that move as one queen.
00:06There's always room for one more.
00:08We have 18 kids.
00:1017 kids and one.
00:1120.
00:12Hold on.
00:14I mean, we had a great marriage,
00:16but it gets a little boring after years and years and years.
00:19We knew there was more.
00:21We are looking to add 999,000 bitches.
00:24I do think that I'm, like, a fairly sexual person.
00:27We are nesting partners.
00:28We are a close throuple.
00:31Polyamory is very freeing.
00:34I always carry my handcuffs.
00:37Polysex is on point.
00:40I just need a good vibe and a fat ass.
00:43Ditto.
00:44I want to do it too.
00:47Things got weird with Marlee when she started becoming poly.
00:50Outside looking in, it's like a circus.
00:52Because of polyamory, we really lost a lot of family.
00:55I don't want to be a disgrace to my parents.
00:59Not only do you have to trust your partner, you have to trust this other person.
01:02She's always around.
01:03That's your favorite.
01:05Since the last time you slept with her.
01:09The more you lie, the more I can't stand you.
01:12You always go to I, I, I.
01:14This is about three of us.
01:16I thought we were poly.
01:17We are.
01:18You don't want to exclude it yourself.
01:20I trusted you.
01:21Oh, my God.
01:22Maybe this is not for you.
01:24It's not built for everybody.
01:25I just heard that.
01:27Relax.
01:28This.
01:29This.
01:30This.
01:30This is poly.
01:41Hey, babe.
01:42How was your day?
01:43Good.
01:43Busy day of meetings.
01:44Yep.
01:45That's going well.
01:46Love you.
01:47I'm Cammie.
01:48And I'm Trent.
01:49And we've been married for almost 36 years.
01:51High school sweethearts.
01:55I'm Nita.
01:57I'm 39.
01:58And we are throuple.
02:04I grew up in a Christian home.
02:06And then when we got married, I was actually helped lead worship.
02:09I was a deacon.
02:10We actually were monogamous until almost 50 years old.
02:15We had a great marriage, but we knew there was more.
02:18I mean, like, it gets a little dull and boring after years and years and years with the same person,
02:22the same routine, the same thing.
02:24Eventually, we stopped going to church, and then we became polyamorous.
02:29We first met Nita.
02:32At the clothing optional resort that we went to.
02:35She came right up to me and said, I will your husband to get to you.
02:39Exactly what it took.
02:43We are a throuple.
02:44We are ethically non-monogamous because we are all consenting to what we do.
02:52We communicate a lot.
02:53But right now, it's really about the solo adventures.
02:58A solo adventure would be where one of us picks another person that they want to go on a date
03:03night with.
03:04They get about four hours.
03:06That's it.
03:06I'm a trisexual.
03:08I'll try anything once, twice if I like it.
03:11And I'm straight.
03:11And I guess I would be pansexual because I do love Nita, but I'm actually not gay.
03:19She doesn't look .
03:20She doesn't, um, .
03:21She doesn't look gay and try to get by another woman other than me.
03:24Nita brings us a lot of adventure.
03:26Nita's like our midlife crisis.
03:31I, uh, decided to write an email to family and friends just to make it a little more personal, us
03:37coming out.
03:38What do you think about that?
03:39Whatever you think is best.
03:40This is your, this is your coming out.
03:42Yep, yep.
03:43I've been out of the closet for a while.
03:45Before this announcement, really only our kids know and a few select people that we really trust.
03:52Yeah.
03:53After the announcement.
03:54It's gonna be up.
03:55We're out.
03:55We're out.
03:56Are you ready for this?
03:58Are you ready for this?
04:01I'm as ready as I'll ever be, I think.
04:03I'm as ready as I'll ever be.
04:04Nobody that, um, knows me is gonna be surprised the most.
04:06You guys are gonna be definitely the ones that it affects the most.
04:09I mean, after this email, does that mean like you're gonna kiss me in public and .
04:12Yeah?
04:13Yep.
04:14We are coming out as poly for Nita.
04:17It's really a public display of our love and affection to Nita and our commitment to her.
04:21We realize that we want this, not for the short term, but for the long term.
04:25So we decided to get her a ring.
04:28Our thought was, let's show her right away that we're committed.
04:31People don't know us as being poly or a thrumple.
04:34So until we change that narrative, I don't see how we have anything going.
04:38I just want you to be like completely clear that the lifestyle that you're choosing and
04:41everything that goes along with it, it's not for the faint of heart.
04:43Hey, we've been doing this for two years.
04:45You've been doing it in the closet.
04:46No, I know, I know.
04:47Okay?
04:48So it's a little different.
04:49What about your parents?
04:50Your parents really know nothing.
04:51They know nothing.
04:52They don't even know that I exist.
04:53That's what I'm worried about the most is his parents.
04:55I am very hopeful that, you know, they won't completely disown me, but we've seen it,
05:00especially for people that were involved in the church as we were.
05:03What's your biggest concern?
05:04Any backlash that you do get, I can't help but feel responsible.
05:10We are choosing this.
05:12Nobody's making us do this.
05:14We are choosing it because we've already chosen you.
05:18Yeah, but the kids didn't choose it.
05:19Our kids are really great.
05:21Our oldest is Teo.
05:23Our oldest daughter, her name is Kia.
05:25Then our son, Tate, is the next one down.
05:28And then Zoe's the youngest.
05:29She's 21.
05:30They know Nita.
05:31She's been living with us for about three years.
05:34And they love her.
05:35Hey, Zoe.
05:36I'm getting ready to read this email we're going to send off.
05:40Guys!
05:42I'm Zoe.
05:42I'm Kami and Trent's daughter.
05:45Currently, I am in a polyamorous relationship.
05:48Zoe has chosen polyamory for herself.
05:51I love that through my journey, I was able to offer my kids wisdom and the ability to make choices
06:00and choose what they want for their life at a much younger age.
06:04Instead of waiting until you're almost 40 before you actually know much about the world
06:08and know what you want out of life.
06:10We're going to read the email.
06:12Are you ready?
06:13I'm ready.
06:13Dear family and friends, we're writing to share something important.
06:18It's time to be fully transparent.
06:20Dun, dun, dun.
06:21We are in a committed relationship.
06:23A thruple.
06:24The three of us.
06:25This is in a phase.
06:27Yeah.
06:28With deep love, it's Kami, Trent, and Nita.
06:30You did such a good job, baby.
06:33All right, you guys.
06:34Holy moly.
06:34We're ready to push.
06:35Send.
06:36Here we go.
06:38Send.
06:41The scariest part about Pauly for me is probably just the disapproval from family.
06:47I want them to know that this is a beautiful thing, not some sinful, awful thing.
06:52Let's make a drink.
06:54Let's celebrate.
06:54This is actually a happy occasion for all of us.
06:59I'm so fresh.
07:00Way too blessed to be stressed.
07:02I'm black.
07:02Why do y'all be so fresh?
07:04I'm so fresh.
07:07I'm so fresh.
07:09I'm so fresh.
07:10Steppin' down, lookin' my past.
07:12I'm an artist.
07:13Businessman.
07:14Father.
07:15And I'm a rapper.
07:17And physically, fine.
07:20Hey, Yahweh.
07:21All right.
07:21All right.
07:22Beautiful lady.
07:23Hey, Yahweh.
07:24How was your day?
07:25Mwah.
07:26My name is Yahweh Divash.
07:28And I fell in love with Yahweh Poetic.
07:30What's going on?
07:32My poo bear.
07:33Looking sexy Yahweh like always.
07:35Yeah, you look sexy too.
07:37My name is Yahweh Jasmine.
07:40I fell in love with Yahweh Poetic and Yahweh Divash.
07:45Babe.
07:46Hey.
07:47Hey.
07:49Then I fell in love with Yahweh Poetic.
07:51And then I fell in love with Yahweh Poetic.
07:54And we're the Yahweh family.
07:57So you guys are gonna eat now a little bit?
07:59Yeah, babe.
08:00I'll eat.
08:00I'll eat.
08:00It smells so good.
08:01I really want this crusty stuff in the pan.
08:05Crusty.
08:05You know she likes the burnt crusty stuff.
08:06I like the burnt crusty stuff.
08:08Yeah.
08:09Since there's five of us, our polycule is called a pentad.
08:13We're not sisters or anything like that.
08:15Like, that's my wife.
08:16That's my wife.
08:17That's my wife.
08:17I have four queens that move as one queen.
08:20None of us are legally married to each other.
08:22We have a bond that's way beyond paperwork.
08:26Yahweh is love.
08:28And love is the way of life.
08:30Welcome to my world.
08:32Yahweh Poetic, he's always on the hunt for new queens.
08:36There's always room for one more.
08:37They can bring other queens in if they see fit.
08:40And I'm able to date whoever I want to date.
08:43I'm the only king.
08:45That's it.
08:45What's the best thing about being polyamorous?
08:48Sex.
08:49Yup.
08:50A lot.
08:50There's a lot of sex.
08:52He has sex with all of us.
08:53But with four queens and just only one Yahweh Poetic,
08:58some of us feel neglected sometimes.
09:00When he's not around, the other queens get everything covered.
09:05I just know me and my bedroom stays full.
09:08I have sex with all of them.
09:10She's the real one for real, but she don't get it dope.
09:12She's the freaky one.
09:13That's actually just the...
09:14Look at her nails.
09:16Yeah, I have my little two short nails because I'm considerate.
09:18If I want to turn someone into a bowling ball,
09:20you know I'm not going to cut them up.
09:22That's a lot of love making going on.
09:24We have children to prove it.
09:27Yahweh's dinner!
09:31We have 18 kids and one on the waist.
09:34So, 19.
09:3617 kids and one on the waist.
09:39I've...
09:39Hold on, wait.
09:40That's the last time.
09:41In a few months.
09:42Yeah.
09:43Good and cooked.
09:50My name is Yahweh Ben-Yahweh and I'm 12.
09:53Yahweh Big Man and I am 7.
09:57Yeah, I'm a Kayla and I'm 12 years old.
09:59I'm Yahweh Shensha.
10:01I'm five.
10:02You're four.
10:05Any baby that's in this family gets treated as if it's our own.
10:12This lifestyle is expensive.
10:15Oh, all right.
10:16Hold on.
10:17So, financially, everybody comes into, like, a common pot
10:21and then everybody gets from the common pot.
10:24Everything's equally dispersed.
10:26Five incomes is better than one or two any day.
10:28All right, let me go take this.
10:30Let me take this.
10:30All right, guys, who's next?
10:31Come on.
10:31It takes the village, but we are the village.
10:33Did you forget?
10:35Forget what?
10:36It's our anniversary today.
10:38Really?
10:39Yeah.
10:40It's your anniversary today.
10:42Oh, my God.
10:42Yeah, four years.
10:43Uh-oh.
10:45I know what's going on here.
10:47He don't celebrate nobody's anniversary.
10:49Yeah, but you know I like to celebrate some.
10:51So do we.
10:52The con of polyamory, I would say, would be the jealousy aspect of it.
10:58You're around all these beautiful women and could tend to compare a little bit if, you know,
11:03someone is getting more of this or more of that.
11:06All these years, we never celebrate an anniversary.
11:08Don't compare what I do with this person to what I do with you.
11:10When do we all get our special dates?
11:12You know how many dates that is, the remember.
11:15That's where jealousy come in.
11:16That's where the conflict come in.
11:21Coming up.
11:22We need another girl that'll spot you.
11:24Naked.
11:25We aren't polyamorous right now.
11:27That sucks.
11:29With another girl, then maybe there's a better chance of me stopping you.
11:34We are looking to add 999,000 bitches.
11:37I mean, shoot, they lined up.
11:41There's gonna be some more coins coming.
11:43Are you ready for that?
11:44I mean, is there somebody coming?
11:48Whenever he's dating somebody, he'll kind of just like dance around the subject.
11:52Can you just tell me?
11:53I mean, I'm the best.
12:02I'm the best.
12:03Don't wrap me like it's Christmas.
12:05So what are we working out today?
12:07Um, anything.
12:08I just want to get the out of here.
12:10I think you should do legs.
12:14I'm BQ.
12:14I'm 43 years old.
12:16I'm from Long Island, New York, and I'm in the car business.
12:18I'm Tamina.
12:19I'm 43 years old.
12:20Born and raised in Queens, but I do live in Long Island.
12:22I'm a big deal.
12:24I'm a bitch big deal.
12:26I am one of the first Pakistani social media models.
12:31I am a business owner, a dog mom, a human mom.
12:36We've been together eight years.
12:38We met in the car business.
12:40I started a job at a dealership, and this Pauly D looking guy walked in.
12:46Like, you know, she was smoking hot, dude.
12:48I was like, holy .
12:53What kind of polycule are you guys?
12:56A what?
12:56A what?
12:57A what?
12:58Apollo Q?
12:59Like Apollo Q?
13:02Polycule.
13:03A polycule?
13:05So, I guess I'll take pictures of you first.
13:08All right, yeah, because I need my social media.
13:10Okay.
13:10We've been engaged for, it'll be four years in August.
13:14We've been in two polyamorous relationships with two different women.
13:18But we aren't polyamorous right now.
13:20At the moment, we are closed.
13:24That sucks.
13:26So do you want me to stay like this or turn around?
13:28Listen, they just want to see butt.
13:30All right, like this.
13:31All we all want to see is butt.
13:33Look at that.
13:33I need to have sex at least once a day, minimum.
13:37So, I got a month.
13:40And I guess the proper terminology would be inflatable penile implant.
13:45So, I could whenever, as long as the I want.
13:50I literally got a robo .
13:53We need another girl that'll spot you.
13:57Are you serious?
13:58How polyamory idea came about was he got caught cheating.
14:03I said to myself, okay, you can either end this now or, you know, instead of begging him to stop
14:09cheating, why don't you accept it and allow what he's looking for outside of this relationship, bring it into the
14:15relationship.
14:15This way he doesn't feel the need to go looking for it.
14:19And as long as it keeps him here, I'm okay with it too.
14:23Listen, what's better than a spotter that's a female and then can spot you at home?
14:30Naked.
14:31For me, polyamory is more of a solution than something that I wanted to do my whole life.
14:38I said, well, you know what?
14:40You're getting a girl, right?
14:42Can she look like me?
14:43Because I want someone that I can, like, relate to.
14:46So, our second girlfriend was, like, literally my twin.
14:49My, like, gobble.
14:50What is that thing called?
14:51Gobbledongler.
14:51Dangle goblins.
14:53She was like, what is it?
14:54Double anger.
14:55Double anger?
14:56You know, polyamory is the great band-aid.
15:00The fixing of all relationships.
15:02I gave you that band-aid.
15:03About three and a half years ago, I found out that BQ was having a relationship with a co-worker
15:09of his who's, like, my sister.
15:12You think that you can just go from doing whatever you want to being like, okay, I'll be better if
15:16you just get me a girl.
15:18The idea of getting back into poly right now is, it almost makes me sick to my stomach.
15:23Yeah, but we were doing good for a little bit.
15:25No, we weren't.
15:26Our relationship was good because I didn't know you were cheating on me.
15:29Yeah, I know, but before she found out.
15:31Before I found out.
15:32Polyamory was doing.
15:33So it was good because I didn't know what he was doing.
15:35Wait, once he found out.
15:36Of course.
15:36When someone lies, it's up.
15:38I think we need to come to some sort of compromise.
15:40I think that we need to go to couples therapy.
15:42And I think that if that's something that you can agree to, then I can agree to try.
15:46Couples therapy?
15:47Yeah, we need, yes, 100%.
15:49The worst part of polyamory is not trusting anyone.
15:54Now, not only do you have to trust your partner, you have to trust this other person you brought in.
15:57And now you have two things to worry about and you can't do it without trust.
16:04Therapy is a no go.
16:08Poly dating for BQ is a no go.
16:11Jesus Christ.
16:24Welcome in, my babies.
16:27What we on today?
16:28How y'all doing?
16:29I'm Marlee.
16:30I'm Bri.
16:31And we're social media influencers.
16:38We've been poly for over 15 years.
16:42Okay, baby.
16:42So this is to all my BBWs for me and Bri's polycule.
16:46We are looking to add 999,000 bitches.
16:50You come in, you close the door behind you.
16:52We gonna bring in the more women.
16:53This is our pot.
16:54This is our recipe.
16:56You the onions.
16:57And we looking for the celery.
16:58And we looking for the bell pepper and somebody gotta be the chicken.
17:00You see, I made it a little different.
17:03I put honey in it.
17:04I put lemon.
17:06That is fire.
17:08Mate, that's like a home remedy right there.
17:10I was with my husband for 17 years.
17:13And eventually we started talking about poly.
17:15So in the midst of being poly, we met Bri.
17:18We just made a decision.
17:20Let's branch off and do our own thing.
17:21Us being influencers, women come daily.
17:24We're currently managing between 20 to 22 women.
17:30Big booty ones.
17:31I want it looking right.
17:33I like when it do that.
17:35My God, I'm sick of these girls.
17:37Best thing about poly, the sex is amazing.
17:40Multiple people and you in a relationship with them.
17:43Girl, they keep texting.
17:44But if I want some penis, you should go get it with me.
17:50Girl.
17:52Who's on the roster?
17:53It's a lot of people on the roster and half of mine don't remember their day.
17:57Me neither.
17:59We got hoes, but you gotta prove yourself.
18:01I mean, shoot, they lined up.
18:04Like, how does that work?
18:05Rule number one, we do not tolerate disrespect.
18:08Don't take this little cute face and get it fooled.
18:11Rule number two, take care of your responsibility.
18:14We are not here to get you out of bankruptcy.
18:19Rule number three, hygiene.
18:21We're big on hygiene.
18:22I'm gonna leave that right there.
18:23Clean your .
18:24No hot fish.
18:26Rule number four, we do not like pillow princesses.
18:29A pillow princess is a bitch that feel like we supposed to just take care of her and she do
18:33nothing but lay on a pillow with her crown.
18:36I seen you chopping it up with, uh, Kai.
18:39I'm not feeling Kai.
18:40No ass at all.
18:42We got those things called PGs.
18:44Those is potential girlfriends.
18:46What about London?
18:46Her teeth is wrong, ruined.
18:49Destiny.
18:49She ghetto and brunchy.
18:53Nyesha.
18:53I don't like her.
18:55She chew too loud.
18:56Our trial run is six months.
18:59At the end of those six months, if you ain't bringing it like we want you to, it's a wrap.
19:02What about Ki?
19:06Why you smile like that?
19:07I smile like that too when it come to Ki.
19:10How about we take her on a date this week?
19:12I think that'll be great.
19:13I might want to spoil her a little bit.
19:15What is the worst thing about you, Polly?
19:18Being let down.
19:19A lot of people see us as crazy, freak, orgy, swingers.
19:24When I announced to my family that I was Polly, they immediately labeled me weird.
19:29And for the most part, I have lost them all.
19:31I stopped getting invited to .
19:33And I'm not crazy.
19:34My elevator go up.
19:35So I know what it is.
19:37It's I'm Polly and it's different, but you guys labeled it weird.
19:40And family is everything.
19:42You talking about family getting this together, but you are legally married.
19:48So you're married?
19:49Yes.
19:50To her?
19:52No.
19:54I'm still married to my ex-husband.
19:56We've been separated for three years.
19:59So I haven't got the balls to file for a divorce yet.
20:04What we gonna do?
20:05I'm getting there.
20:06We're gonna do that.
20:07When?
20:09Do you think for a second that I don't love you enough?
20:14Propose already.
20:16How the am I gonna propose to somebody that's already married, man?
20:20I'm done with this conversation until you show me action.
20:30Coming up, you sleep in her room most of the week.
20:33No, I don't.
20:34Y'all are like children.
20:36Sometimes you gotta tell the person they be immature.
20:40I've not heard from my family since.
20:42Like, they erased me.
20:44You know, just, I've never gone through anything like this before.
20:47Oh, gosh.
20:57Hey, babe.
20:58Hey, hey.
20:59Um, I'm sitting here looking at responses.
21:03Boy, I can't wait.
21:04Yep, coming out as a throuple.
21:06So, it's been just a little bit of time since we've come out as a throuple.
21:10And we're starting to get some feedback.
21:14There's a couple that are really hard.
21:16We did get a pretty harsh response from your sister-in-law.
21:22Wow.
21:23Yeah.
21:23She basically said, this has gotten so out of control.
21:26This stuff is such a disgrace to the family.
21:29I will be blocking you.
21:30Dang.
21:31That's tough.
21:33Um, basically said, do what you want behind closed doors, but you don't have to put it
21:37all over the internet.
21:38Oh, lovely.
21:39There is a lot of responsibility.
21:41How are you doing?
21:43I'm exhausted.
21:44I did make this happen.
21:47You know what I mean?
21:47Like, I wanted it, and I went after it, and it was persistent, and here we are.
21:51There's some guilt definitely attached to that.
21:53How are you feeling with all this?
21:55The hardest part for me is the silence.
21:59I've not heard from my family since.
22:01Okay.
22:02Like, it's almost like I disappeared.
22:04Like, they erased me.
22:05That hurts more than somebody lashing out.
22:08I mean, at least lashing out is a response.
22:11I've always been, you know, looked up so highly from my dad to actually feel like I'm
22:16doing anything that's dishonoring.
22:18That's hard.
22:19My father.
22:20It actually kind of prepped him privately, and it didn't go over well.
22:24I mean, the tough thing for me is just, you know, being a disappointment at this time
22:31in my life, right?
22:32I've never...
22:32Oh, gosh.
22:34Trent's a lot like his dad.
22:35They're very deep, tender people.
22:37My husband.
22:37He's a golden child.
22:39He graduated the outstanding business student.
22:41He was the favorite son.
22:42I don't know.
22:44Do you call them?
22:44I don't know what to do right now.
22:46Right now, it's just really heavy.
22:48You know, just, I've never gone through anything like this before.
22:50I've always been, it's pride and joy, you know?
22:53So, it's tough.
22:56We're not hiding, right?
22:58We decided we're coming out, and we're gonna do this thing.
23:03We knew this was gonna be tough, but damn.
23:06I actually am so in love with my wife, and bringing Anita into our relationship has been
23:11a positive thing.
23:12Yes, it's different.
23:13It's not the way that we were brought up.
23:15There's definitely gonna be some tough times ahead still, but we don't have anything
23:20to hide anymore.
23:30I have to see some different changes amongst us.
23:33I see a few things that we can work on.
23:36In our family, we have a lot of meetings, so if somebody's feeling a certain way, we'll try to talk
23:42about it so it can get resolved.
23:45Attitudes, being rude, eyes rolling, you know, stuff like that has to change.
23:49I just wanna know, like, what is it that needs to be fixed so we can get better?
23:54Let's be real.
23:55I compare the whole time management thing, and you sleep in her room most of the week.
23:59No, I don't.
24:00No, he doesn't.
24:01Okay.
24:02He doesn't.
24:02You got in that room.
24:03In our relationship, there is no set schedule.
24:07It's not like, hey, I'm sleeping with you Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday.
24:11I don't like the plan, so I do the best I can to, you know, make sure everybody get to
24:16spend time with me on some level.
24:18You came in this relationship knowing what the facts was.
24:21You will be here with other queens in this relationship.
24:24It's not about that, though.
24:25You can have four queens and be more equal with each one.
24:29You're saying you want more balance.
24:31Yes, thank you.
24:32Just balance.
24:33I don't want you to sleep in my room three nights a week and then nobody else none.
24:37I'm not saying that.
24:39And then, yes, me and her definitely have to work on a lot of stuff between each other.
24:43Me and y'all with Crystal, we're the newest queens, so I can admit that jealousy,
24:48jealousy comes in between us, especially because we pretty much came in at the same time.
24:53Whatever.
24:53You guys just need to be happy for each other because you guys get jealous and you need to be
24:57more considerate.
24:57So what do you do now?
24:59Being in this lifestyle, sex could be the cause of jealousy both Yahweh Maddie and Yahweh Crystal.
25:05With them, it's like a carnal.
25:07I have to touch you.
25:08You have to have sex with me so I know you love me.
25:10They've just got to grow out of that.
25:11There's always a way to communicate and make a change.
25:14Because you guys have like this competitive thing and he's aware of that, if he's not in your room, he's
25:21in your room.
25:22Because he's trying to make sure y'all are good, so like because he knows we're good, he kind of
25:26leave us alone.
25:27Who's going to really be the one to say I'm going to make it work because nobody wants to do
25:32it?
25:32Some of the queens, especially Yahweh Crystal, calls me the regent because I'm like the second in command.
25:38When the king's out of town, the regent comes in.
25:41Whatever y'all going through, you trying to make it about me.
25:44But the reality is, it's y'all acting immature and y'all insecurities.
25:48It has nothing to do with me.
25:50But y'all are like children.
25:51You got to know what to ignore.
25:53You know, we are mature individuals.
25:55Let's figure out what this problem is stemming from.
25:57Sometimes you have to tell the person they be immature.
26:00Y'all insecurities, y'all must work on.
26:04I can't do that work for you.
26:05Now, whatever problem you have with me, then we can discuss that.
26:09Because every relationship is a work in progress.
26:13Where do we go from here?
26:22Coming up...
26:25This is what Polly is all about.
26:27I wanted to ask you, are you ready to be our girlfriend?
26:33I know you've been pushing me for this Polly date.
26:36I have the perfect girl.
26:38Getting back into polyamory with BQ is a huge risk.
26:53I thought we were supposed to be riding go-karts.
26:56This don't look like no go-karts.
26:57I mean, you know that Key likes fast cars.
27:02She likes adrenaline.
27:03She's adventurous.
27:05So I thought this would be the perfect date for us to take her on.
27:09Yeah, I love her. I do.
27:11So I want you to go with the flow, Marmee.
27:14I will.
27:15This is what Polly is all about.
27:17Like, I can't just be the party pooper of it.
27:19I have to go alone and do different things.
27:22Even if it's not my cup of tea, I still got to drink it.
27:27Look up in the mirror.
27:28I say, yeah, she insta-fly us.
27:31I'm definitely aware that I'm the it girl.
27:34I definitely feel those vibes.
27:36I don't like to to my own horn, but I always know when I'm number one.
27:39I love it.
27:43Hey.
27:45Hey.
27:45Hey.
27:47Hey, baby.
27:47Hey, baby.
27:48Baby walk through that door doing like something real delicious.
27:52Like, real spontaneous.
27:53Like, real.
27:54Bossy.
27:55I just know this is your cup of tea, sir.
27:57Baby, you look good.
27:58My thighs are sweating.
28:28Baby walk's a little food in the kitchen.
28:29I ain't even know what to do.
28:30Oh, it's all over the place right now.
28:36Every time he hit the corner,
28:37I just thought I was going to fly out the window.
28:40Lord, take the wheel.
28:53That's it.
28:54We done.
28:56Yeah, I'm good.
28:59Yes.
29:00That was so fun.
29:02Yes.
29:03This was for them.
29:03I took one for the team.
29:05One and done.
29:06Done.
29:07No more.
29:08Don't get my kook-a-dots now, y'all.
29:13That was so freaking amazing, y'all.
29:17That was like one of the best birthday gifts ever.
29:20You have fun?
29:20Yes, I have fun.
29:21I love the effort that Marlee and Brie puts into getting to know me.
29:25So I wanted to know, how have you been feeling lately, like, about us?
29:31Um, loving y'all.
29:34Literally, you know that you hit your six-month mark, right?
29:38Yes.
29:38Oh, my gosh.
29:39It's been six months.
29:41The six-month mark is important to us because in six months, you can go to jail.
29:46You can...
29:47I want to see you in all seasons.
29:48I want to see how you maneuver with two people.
29:51Very few people make it to the six-month mark.
29:54And she made it.
29:55People probably don't even make it to the sixth week.
29:58So, with that being said, you fit all of our criteria with...
30:02Okay.
30:02You respect us.
30:04I want respect is giving.
30:05Yes.
30:05You got your own.
30:07You're not leaning on us for nothing.
30:08Don't smell like no hot fish.
30:10Never.
30:11And you're not a pillow princess.
30:13Yeah.
30:14So, with that being said, I wanted to ask you, are you ready to be our girlfriend?
30:20Oh, my gosh.
30:23I definitely would love, love, love to be your girlfriend.
30:32But being sought after by two people is definitely overwhelming.
30:37I know it's six months for them, but it's still a little fast for me.
30:41So, I just want to be sure I'm making the right decision.
30:45I've never done this before.
30:47And, you know, I'm just, I don't know what to expect within a poly relationship.
30:52You don't happen to share y'all with other women.
30:54You know what I'm saying?
30:55So, and then just the family dynamics.
30:58Like, if my family will be okay with it, we all know how dealing with family is.
31:03Of course.
31:03You know what I'm saying?
31:04So, I got to think about it.
31:09No, this bitch didn't.
31:11I'm definitely going to let you guys know, though.
31:13For real, for real.
31:14This caught my ass off guard completely.
31:17You deserve time.
31:19You done proven yourself.
31:21But, you know, it's a roster, so.
31:24You don't want to take too much time.
31:28Coming up.
31:29I like those roses.
31:30Those are nice.
31:31Me and y'all and Crystal are going to go out.
31:33Right.
31:33For a little bit.
31:34She says our anniversary.
31:36Y'all and Crystal getting special treatment.
31:38It does make me feel some kind of way.
31:40It's like, it's not fair.
31:41It's not equal.
31:44I had one girl that I around with.
31:47So, how long?
31:48When's the last time you slept with her?
31:49He said he never slept with her in four years.
31:52Four years?
31:53No sex?
31:53Yeah, okay.
31:55Hell of a first date.
31:56Boy.
31:57Please, it's not fair.
32:15Hey, what are you doing?
32:18Hi.
32:19How are you calling me?
32:20Hi.
32:20I am right now.
32:22It's probably been thebeyeds.
32:22of you?
32:23What's going on?
32:24Well, I know you've been pushing me for this poly date
32:28and I believe that, you know, you deserve this one chance
32:33and not up this time.
32:35The idea of going on a poly date is tough,
32:38but for me to get what I need,
32:40which is to stop BQ from cheating and go to therapy,
32:45I need to give him a poly relationship.
32:49I have the perfect girl.
32:51What, what, what, wait, what?
32:53You got a girl?
32:54Yes.
32:55I met Angie on social media.
32:58She DM'd me.
32:59She's hot, she dresses like me and she's smart and I like her.
33:03You know, I've been thinking about it.
33:05You know, I just, I just, I'm scared.
33:06You know, I, this is a big, big, big.
33:08Well, I'm scared.
33:09I'm scared this is a setup.
33:11I don't set you up.
33:12Do I think Polly could change everything now?
33:15I don't call me crazy, but absolutely.
33:18Maybe if we put ourselves in a better dynamic
33:20with another girl, then maybe there's a better chance
33:22of me stopping cheating.
33:23Wait, wait, wait, wait, what about the ass?
33:25Yeah, I was just about to get to that.
33:27She's got the nice booty, big booty, big boobs.
33:30Well, if this is real, I'm leaving work right the now,
33:33and I'm coming home.
33:35All right, good.
33:35I'll see you tonight.
33:36I love you.
33:37All right, I love you.
33:38Bye.
33:39Getting back into polyamory with BQ is a huge risk.
33:44And I know it.
33:54A lot of the chores didn't get done.
33:56I know.
33:57That's why I'm just going to do the dishes first.
33:59You're going to start, OK.
34:00Hey, what y'all got going on here?
34:01Hey, Y'all.
34:02Hey, look at you.
34:03Yeah, you look nice.
34:04What you about to do?
34:05Oh, I look good.
34:06Thank you, thank you.
34:07I really feel good.
34:07I like those roses.
34:09Those are nice.
34:10I don't see food, babe.
34:11Me and y'all and Chris are going to go out for a little bit.
34:14I mean, we don't.
34:15She say it's our anniversary.
34:17You know, it's anniversary every day for us, but.
34:19OK.
34:20You know, she wouldn't go out for it.
34:21That's different.
34:22You're doing that because you want to do that.
34:24Don't blame me for that, Crystal.
34:25We don't celebrate anniversaries.
34:27So the fact that Y'all and Crystal, who's the newest queen,
34:30is getting special treatment, it does make me feel some kind of way.
34:33It makes me feel a little jealous.
34:35Like, it's not fair.
34:35It's not equal.
34:36Yeah, he really went all out, especially with flowers.
34:39Let's go before they start talking all that.
34:42Good night.
34:42Bye.
34:42Bye.
34:43Bye.
34:44Love you.
34:44Love you, too.
34:46Love you, too.
34:58It's me and y'all, Crystal's fourth anniversary.
35:01I think it's a good idea to spend some time with her.
35:04We got some things we need to talk out.
35:05Cheers to our anniversary.
35:07Happy anniversary, baby.
35:08Well-deserved.
35:09Well-deserved.
35:10Love you.
35:10Yeah.
35:11Super special that we're actually celebrating an anniversary.
35:14Really nice getting out away from the kids.
35:18This is also a special occasion because we're getting to spend some one-on-one time.
35:23How do you feel about, you know, the other night?
35:27Do you feel like it's even as far as time?
35:29Well, our family is super busy, so it is hard for anybody to spend time together.
35:34We all want to spend time with you.
35:35Why?
35:36We forget, maybe, um, about each other sometimes and, like, you know, needing to work on our
35:43relationships.
35:44That's true.
35:44At times, you know, it could be a lot of pressure.
35:46It's just people, you know, just all of y'all, like, hey, I want this, I want that, but y
35:50'all
35:50forget y'all together.
35:51I think you forget things sometimes, but, you know, I don't know.
35:56I think...
35:57Like what?
35:57What do you think I forget?
35:59Like how long it's been since you slept with somebody.
36:02I start to get competitive about it.
36:04It could be difficult trying to keep all the queens happy, but, uh, I do my best.
36:08Y'all and Crystal, uh, and also Y'all and Marty, they have, uh, you know, uh, envious issues
36:15at times.
36:16They are new and still learn our type of dynamics.
36:20And when we bring in somebody new, it could be difficult for them.
36:24I'm not trying to ruin our night or nothing like that, but there's gonna be some more queens
36:28coming.
36:29Are you ready for that?
36:32You never had somebody come behind you.
36:34I know, so that's what I'm saying.
36:36So are you, do you think you can handle that?
36:41You know, I don't know, like, it's just, I want to make sure, like, everything with us
36:45is straight.
36:46Right.
36:47Whenever he's dating somebody, he'll kind of just, like, dance around the subject.
36:51But if somebody come tomorrow, you willing to welcome that person.
36:57Is there somebody coming?
37:01I just want to know.
37:03You tell me, detective.
37:19Tonight is our first poly date in a long time.
37:21And I'm gonna give him one last chance at this.
37:24I know I'm taking a huge risk.
37:26I could potentially be opening the door for him to start back on his bullshit and cheating
37:31right away.
37:32You excited?
37:35What's up?
37:35You excited?
37:36This is your only shot.
37:37Of course I am.
37:38So I'm excited because, for me, this is, like, a big opportunity to slide my way through,
37:43right back into the polyamorous land.
37:45For me, as long as she's a female and breathing, I'm in.
37:51I caught a couple killers with me and this girl in the shunt.
37:55This girl in the shunt.
37:57Hand over the finger on the trigger.
37:59Ready to blow.
38:00Ready to blow.ahi,
38:03how are you, I'm? Nice to
38:05meet you. Pleasure.
38:06My name is Angie.
38:07So I slid into Tamina's DMs, and that's how we met.
38:11Hi, how are you, sweetheart?
38:12Nice to meet you.
38:13Damn!
38:14Now that is a hot girl.
38:17We're definitely going to pound town tonight.
38:20You know, I told you that I was in charge, and Angie is.
38:26Jesus .
38:30You know, we were polyamorous, and we're
38:33looking to get back into it.
38:35Have you ever been in a polyamorous relationship?
38:38Never.
38:39Polyamory's different with each relationship, and, you know,
38:42some people have an open-type relationship.
38:44So what are your rules?
38:45What are your boundaries?
38:47I get to pick who she is.
38:49You know, we do everything together.
38:51Like, there's no BQ doing separate things with you.
38:55You know, it'd be all three of us.
38:56All together.
38:56You know, whether it's socially or, you know,
39:00behind closed doors.
39:01I think that's fair.
39:02Listen, we're not well-versed in the polyamorous
39:05relationship.
39:05Like, we've only been doing this a couple of years,
39:07and we don't do it because it's, like, the fad or whatever.
39:10You know, we did it, honestly, because, like,
39:11we wanted another girl.
39:13Like, she goes, like, let's get her only fans?
39:17Yeah, let's do it. Tell me.
39:18Why did we get into polyamory?
39:20Oh, because you thought it would satisfy me,
39:22and I want to cheat?
39:22And you're cheating.
39:23But I'm allowed to have a different.
39:24There's no different opinion of the actual truth.
39:28I'm not going to let BQ get away with any lies,
39:31any gaslighting, any of that.
39:33Because if he wants to bring someone into our life,
39:37he needs to tell the truth.
39:39So why were you cheating?
39:41It wasn't even about all the girls
39:43that I was, like, around with.
39:45It was just one.
39:46I had one girl that used to be her friend
39:51that I around with for, like, multiple years.
39:55So how long, when's the last time you slept with her?
39:58I didn't even see what I like that.
40:03He said he never slept with her in four years.
40:06Who are you selling the story to?
40:08Four years, no sex?
40:10Yeah, OK.
40:11When's the last time you slept with her?
40:14Babe.
40:15Yeah, I'm telling you, what are you?
40:16Babe, babe, babe.
40:17What?
40:18Babe.
40:18What?
40:19Babe.
40:19What?
40:20Where's the waiter?
40:21He hasn't slept with her since he met her four years ago.
40:24Come on.
40:27Man, what kind of first date is this?
40:29When's the last time you slept with her?
40:32January or February.
40:38I'm .
40:39But you know this is the first time
40:40that you told me that you even slept with her?
40:42And it was because someone else asked you, right?
40:45The moment he admitted it,
40:47I felt like someone just stabbed me in the back.
40:50Because it was really happening the whole time.
40:53So?
40:54Why did you lie to me that you weren't with her?
40:56If you were with her, and you didn't want to hurt your feelings.
40:58You don't want to hurt my feelings.
40:59So you lied to me for four years.
41:01Honestly, I thought that when I came clean,
41:04that she'd be like, I already knew B.
41:06I already knew, I didn't know.
41:07I mean, four years of being in some type of relationship
41:09with anybody, you'd think they'd know that you were .
41:13She did not know .
41:16So anyway, babe, why do we got to keep hopping on it?
41:18Because I need to know the truth, and she needs to know the truth.
41:21I think the main issue is just the fact that you've never owned
41:24the one that hits home to her.
41:26Shame on him for even trying to sell that bull .
41:30Typical cheater behavior.
41:32Messy, messy, messy, lies, lies, lies.
41:35And I feel like I need to know the whole story also,
41:40which I just found out a big part of the story that I did not know.
41:43Well, because she's not going to take the fact that if I say
41:45I haven't supported her, she's not going to believe you.
41:46Because she's, that's why, so you're going to,
41:49you can't lie to her, because she's not going to believe you.
41:51So you tell her the truth, and you lie to me,
41:53because I'm an idiot that believes you.
41:56You know why?
41:57Well, I got the kicked out of me already.
41:59Hell of a first date.
42:03I'm so sorry, girl.
42:05I just, I just, I just feel like I just found out
42:09that I've been with a total stranger for eight years.
42:16What I think is going to happen to me and I,
42:17I couldn't tell you, to be honest with you.
42:19I don't give a if it don't work out past tomorrow.
42:22All I can tell you is that I tried to do my best
42:24to try to do things the right way and be honest,
42:26but that's, honestly, that does not work.
42:28So that's why I always say, lying's the way.
42:31I can't deal with this , I'm out.
42:34How would you decide to dessas you
42:34Chords are with me,
42:34you're not going to settle?
42:34I wonder,
42:34how would you still get to your house?
42:34you're going to be honest.
42:35And I know what you've got.