00:00Is having sex on the first date a bad idea? No.
00:03Thanks for watching my video. I'll see you next time.
00:05Oh no wait, there's more actually.
00:07This question does require some consideration
00:09because the answer to this question depends on what you want and how you feel.
00:16Are you even ready to have sex with your date? Leave the comment in the description.
00:19Now most guys will say yes.
00:20And for many guys having sex on the first date is either a goal or a dream.
00:24But not for all.
00:25You might have religious ideas that are coming into play
00:27or you may have grown up with some kind of shame around sexuality which is inhibiting you.
00:31Or you may even have some kind of other moral consideration.
00:34Or even insecurity about how you'll perform.
00:36For guys who have any of the above checkboxes ticked off,
00:38you may want to think about it a little bit more before you jump into bed with someone.
00:42But if your issue is a lack of confidence or some sort of sexual shame,
00:45this is something you're going to want to get handled for sure.
00:48Now for myself personally, I did grow up with some sexual shame because my mother was Catholic.
00:52And even though I didn't adopt any of her Catholic ideas,
00:55this negative feeling towards sexuality did stick with me.
00:58So when I started getting interested in sex and I started getting laid by myself,
01:01I always felt some sexual shame afterwards like I was doing something wrong.
01:04But I learned that that feeling was complete bullshit.
01:07I was brainwashed with religious negativity about sex and I wasn't even religious myself.
01:10And it took some time but that feeling started going away as it got older and started dating girls.
01:14So whatever is holding you back, you deserve to get a handle so it doesn't hold you back any longer.
01:19And you can enjoy the sex life you deserve.
01:21And to overcome these feelings, it's important to start exploring your own beliefs,
01:25possibly even get counseling if you might need it,
01:27and work on your confidence by dating more girls.
01:29And in time, it will go away.
01:30And now before I go, there is one more consideration obviously,
01:33when you're considering having sex with someone on a first date.
01:36And obviously that is your health and the idea of whether you want kids or not.
01:39So protect yourself.
01:40If you jump into bed with anyone, make sure that should be a given.
01:44But not everybody is doing that still.
01:46So anyways, you do you.
01:48That's all for today.
01:49Until next time, conquer and win.
01:50That's all for today.
01:51Until next time, conquer and win.
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