Is Having Sex On a First Date a Bad Idea?

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In this video, we'll be discussing the age-old question: Is having sex on a first date a bad idea? We'll be looking at different viewpoints and sharing our own thoughts on the matter.  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00Is having sex on the first date a bad idea? No.

00:03Thanks for watching my video. I'll see you next time.

00:05Oh no wait, there's more actually.

00:07This question does require some consideration

00:09because the answer to this question depends on what you want and how you feel.

00:16Are you even ready to have sex with your date? Leave the comment in the description.

00:19Now most guys will say yes.

00:20And for many guys having sex on the first date is either a goal or a dream.

00:24But not for all.

00:25You might have religious ideas that are coming into play

00:27or you may have grown up with some kind of shame around sexuality which is inhibiting you.

00:31Or you may even have some kind of other moral consideration.

00:34Or even insecurity about how you'll perform.

00:36For guys who have any of the above checkboxes ticked off,

00:38you may want to think about it a little bit more before you jump into bed with someone.

00:42But if your issue is a lack of confidence or some sort of sexual shame,

00:45this is something you're going to want to get handled for sure.

00:48Now for myself personally, I did grow up with some sexual shame because my mother was Catholic.

00:52And even though I didn't adopt any of her Catholic ideas,

00:55this negative feeling towards sexuality did stick with me.

00:58So when I started getting interested in sex and I started getting laid by myself,

01:01I always felt some sexual shame afterwards like I was doing something wrong.

01:04But I learned that that feeling was complete bullshit.

01:07I was brainwashed with religious negativity about sex and I wasn't even religious myself.

01:10And it took some time but that feeling started going away as it got older and started dating girls.

01:14So whatever is holding you back, you deserve to get a handle so it doesn't hold you back any longer.

01:19And you can enjoy the sex life you deserve.

01:21And to overcome these feelings, it's important to start exploring your own beliefs,

01:25possibly even get counseling if you might need it,

01:27and work on your confidence by dating more girls.

01:29And in time, it will go away.

01:30And now before I go, there is one more consideration obviously,

01:33when you're considering having sex with someone on a first date.

01:36And obviously that is your health and the idea of whether you want kids or not.

01:39So protect yourself.

01:40If you jump into bed with anyone, make sure that should be a given.

01:44But not everybody is doing that still.

01:46So anyways, you do you.

01:48That's all for today.

01:49Until next time, conquer and win.

01:50That's all for today.

01:51Until next time, conquer and win.

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