00:00But Ms. Ayo, since I've been a single mom for a long time,
00:04yes, so I also want to know how it is to be a single mom.
00:09From a mom to a single mom.
00:11It's hard at first.
00:12It's really hard because you're used to having a body,
00:16so it's just there anytime.
00:17It's a struggle because I have four kids and they're all studying.
00:20It's really hard.
00:22You're about to give up.
00:24Sometimes you don't know what to do, right?
00:27Then you suddenly fast forward and realize,
00:29Huh? I've done this before?
00:32How did I do this?
00:33That's what makes me cry.
00:37I've been through this.
00:38You've been through a lot of struggles,
00:40but you've been able to stand up.
00:41That's the most delicious feeling.
00:43Because it's the Lord, right?
00:44You know, it's not true.
00:46The whole time since I became a single mom,
00:50from day one until now,
00:52if the Lord wasn't there,
00:53if my faith wasn't there,
00:54I wouldn't be here.
00:55I really wouldn't be here.
00:56So how did you manage to do that?
00:58Because of course, you're working.
01:00There were tapings before,
01:02until 1-2 in the morning.
01:04Sometimes, the next day.
01:06Who's waiting for you?
01:06Yes, who's waiting for you?
01:08No one.
01:08Because when I started being a single mom,
01:11they're a bit older.
01:12My youngest is already in grade 1.
01:15So, it's just us.
01:17We don't have a helper.
01:19We don't have a helper.
01:20So you taught them how to be independent.
01:24They also learned how to do their homework.
01:27It just so happens that
01:28my triggers are bigger than theirs.
01:31That's why they're able to take care of their siblings.
01:33Which is now,
01:33our only boy is 23 years old.
01:36He's already graduated.
01:36He's already working.
01:38He's already graduated from work.
01:40How old is your eldest?
01:4338.
01:44Wow!
01:4538, then 35, then 30.
01:47Then the 24th.
01:48Wow, there's no age limit.
01:50It's like he's not stressed,
01:51he's just tired.
01:52You're so immortal.
01:53You're really a godmother.
01:54No, you know what?
01:55When I think about it,
01:57it's all thanks to you.
02:00Because if it wasn't for me,
02:01it's all thanks to you.
02:03It's your inspiration,
02:04it's your strength.
02:05If it wasn't for you,
02:06I would've been eliminated.
02:07Were you more inspired
02:10when it came to your love life
02:11compared to before?
02:13Hmm...
02:14Were you so lucky to be different?
02:16Because you've been single for a long time.
02:18Yes.
02:19It's different because at that time,
02:21you're just thinking about
02:22yourself.
02:25You're like,
02:26I just want to have kids,
02:28I just want to be a mother,
02:29I just want to be a housewife.
02:30But now, it's different.
02:31You're thinking about other things.
02:33Yes, you're also thinking about
02:34while you're enjoying yourself,
02:36you're happy emotionally,
02:38but because you're an adult now,
02:42you need to balance your...
02:44Right?
02:45Your thoughts are more mature.
02:47And you feel like it's the perfect time.
02:49Yes, that's true.
02:50You can carry your heart more.
02:52You can carry yourself more.
02:54Self-love comes first.
02:56Compared to before,
02:57because we're very...
02:59You and me against the world.
03:01That's how it is!
03:02Right?
03:03It's like you're right with everyone.
03:05Now, it's not just your second priority,
03:08but you need to...
03:09Because you've learned a lot.
03:10You don't want to repeat your mistakes.
03:12Yes.
03:13So you enjoy it more.
03:15Rate 1 to 10,
03:1610 is the highest.
03:17In love life.
03:18How happy are you?
03:19Rate 1 to 10.
03:208?
03:21Yes, that's the percentage.
03:23I don't want to say 10.
03:24Because you don't have yourself.
03:25Because I didn't realize that...
03:28No.
03:29If we're honest,
03:31let's not say 10,
03:32there's no perfect.
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