00:00How did you come up with the idea of becoming a father?
00:12I feel like it's not quantifiable.
00:16It's not quantifiable that, okay, this is my age, this is where I was born, this is what I saved up.
00:22I need to be able to do all the housework.
00:25I need to be able to discipline myself.
00:28I need to be able to set limits.
00:30Because if I'm still a people pleaser, I might be able to pass that on to my child.
00:34I'm stable, mentally, emotionally.
00:37I'd be able to at least provide for the first few years of my son.
00:41You know, that's a good motivation.
00:43You said that you're trying to remove the effort of being a people pleaser because you don't want to pass it on to him.
00:49Think of other people more than you.
00:52You should love yourself.
00:55That's true, that's beautiful.
00:57You're like a prisoner.
01:00What's the most fulfilling part of being a father to Alec?
01:04When he grows up.
01:05Every time he learns something new, it's a sign of growth.
01:10It's a sign of success.
01:12If you have something to say to 18-year-old Alec.
01:18Hey, this is on TV.
01:20When you're 18, always choose yourself.
01:24Don't tell yourself that it's your obligation to take care of me.
01:28Because it's my obligation to raise you.
01:30I want you to choose you.
01:32I want you to do what you love and be happy.
01:38Love you.
01:40Why are you trying to stop me? You're so cute.
01:44Before we continue with the kitchen interrogation,
01:49let's warm up with something fun.
01:52I like that.
01:53It's like weight training.
01:54It's a bit dramatic.
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