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Truly

Meet the couples who get judged every day because of who they fell in love with.<br /><br />When you’re in an unconventional relationship, your friends, family and the rest of society can be quick to judge. But people can’t help who they fall in love with. And they can’t stop others from judging them either. Love Don’t Judge is an inspiring and uplifting series about real couples who are thriving, despite pressure from the outside world.

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00:00I let my boyfriend sleep with my best friend.

00:03Today my best friend Bonnie is going to be coming over

00:06and she's going to be sleeping with her wife.

00:09I have never slept with Rowan before.

00:11I thought about it.

00:13I think if Owen was to tell me that he had a better time

00:16with my best friend, that would absolutely kill me.

00:19So I was wondering,

00:21because obviously I'm letting you sleep with my best friend,

00:23would you let me sleep with one of your best friends?

00:26So we're just packing for a trip.

00:30Yeah, we've got a trip to Gran Canaria.

00:32It's our first time doing it, it's...

00:34Lifestyle holiday.

00:36We're really excited.

00:37I'm Owen, this is my partner Meg,

00:39and we sleep with other people.

00:41I sleep with other people.

00:42Men and women.

00:43You say that you're bi-curious.

00:45I don't really put a label on things.

00:47I'd say that I'm bisexual.

00:48So we met over a year ago.

00:51On a video shoot.

00:52And then we just clicked straight away.

00:54Because we're so alike.

00:55I just felt so comfortable.

00:57And then we took it quite slow.

00:58We did go on a few holidays together though, Nicole.

01:01Yeah, we went to Amsterdam.

01:02We went under the bridge of love.

01:03Yeah.

01:04And had a kiss.

01:05And that was before we were even together.

01:07We went to Benidorm in January for New Year's.

01:10We basically just said that we loved each other

01:12and then we were together from then.

01:16I've got your bright boxies for the evenings.

01:19I've got like three shirts.

01:20You've got like...

01:21So we decided to open up the relationship.

01:24I think it's always been like that really hasn't it?

01:27Yeah, because we started off as content creators.

01:30We got together working with other people anyway.

01:32On our own weren't we at the start?

01:34So it's always been open.

01:35There was a time of jealousy at the start of the relationship

01:38when we were like seeing each other and we weren't together yet.

01:41Because that's when you don't know the boundaries

01:44and you haven't spoken to each other about what the relationship is yet.

01:48I think communication is the main boundary like that we need.

01:51Yeah, if we talk about it before and say look, I want to do this.

01:54Are you comfortable with this happening?

01:55Yeah, that is literally all that matters.

01:57Just communication.

01:58Are you able to grab that?

02:00Come on then.

02:01So today my best friend Bonnie is going to be coming over

02:05and she's going to be sleeping with Owen.

02:08When Meg asked me if I would sleep with Owen,

02:11I was a little bit surprised at first,

02:14but at the same time, not.

02:17I kind of knew it was coming.

02:19So when Owen told me that he wanted to sleep with Bonnie,

02:22I wasn't really shocked to be like.

02:26It didn't feel weird like,

02:28oh, he wants to sleep with my friend

02:30because she's, you know, friends with the two of us

02:33and we're always cuddling.

02:35We're all just so close.

02:37It just felt normal.

02:38We were all having a joke around

02:39and me and Owen would like to have a little bit of a flirt with each other.

02:42Nothing harmful.

02:44And she kind of just came out with it.

02:46Like she just went,

02:47do you want to sleep with Owen?

02:48I was like, what?

02:50So I said yes, basically because it's something that interests me.

02:57The way I've sort of lived my life as an adult is very open.

03:03I have never slept with Owen before.

03:05I thought about it.

03:08So how do you girls feel about what's happening today?

03:12We're very comfortable.

03:15I think because we're all so comfortable anyway

03:18and, you know, always cuddling and giving each other kisses.

03:20Yeah.

03:21I think a lot of it is because I've been there from the beginning

03:23since you two got together.

03:24You know how much I love you two together.

03:28So she trusts me 100%.

03:30Yeah.

03:31And that is a massive thing, innit?

03:33Yeah.

03:34Between us all.

03:35Yeah, I think because we're all so comfortable.

03:37Yeah, definitely.

03:38So how do you feel about me sleeping with Owen today?

03:42I'm nervous because I don't know how it's going to go.

03:46I don't know what you're going to get up to.

03:48I don't know if you're going to push us limits.

03:49I think it's because we've never done it before

03:51without me being in the room.

03:52There's balance to be nerves though.

03:53I think that's natural.

03:55Yeah.

03:56And it's good.

03:57Yeah.

03:58I am really excited because obviously I wouldn't be so on board with it

04:01if I didn't want them to do it.

04:02And I am honoured that it's me that you want to do it with for the first time.

04:07Oh yeah, you'd definitely be the first person.

04:09I love that.

04:10I feel very honoured.

04:11Yeah.

04:12I'm very special.

04:14So I was wondering, because obviously I'm letting you sleep with my best friend,

04:19would you let me sleep with one of your best friends?

04:23Depends on your sleep.

04:24It depends on your sleep.

04:26There's a bit of hesitation there.

04:28Yeah.

04:29Why not?

04:30Something's round about, isn't it?

04:31Alright.

04:32If I'm allowed to do it, you're allowed to do it.

04:34Okay, perfect.

04:35It's good for one, it's good for the other.

04:37Yeah.

04:38Right then.

04:41Are you ready guys?

04:42Let's do this.

04:44I'll say my goodbyes.

04:46I love you.

04:47I love you.

04:49Don't love too much.

04:51Me, never.

04:52Yeah.

04:53Go, it's fine.

04:55Let's do this, Owen.

04:57Oh my darling.

04:58Let's go.

05:00I'm feeling quite nervous, I'm not going to lie, now that it's actually happening.

05:07But really excited at the same time.

05:09Do I think it's going to affect the friendship?

05:11I don't think so, because we're all so close anyway.

05:14If she somehow didn't enjoy it maybe, because it might be a bit awkward afterwards.

05:19I don't think it will affect mine and Owen's relationship now.

05:22I think, you know, if anything it'll bring us closer.

05:25I'm definitely going to be asking him quite a few questions.

05:30I think all night he's going to be bombarded with questions, to be honest, of how it was

05:34and how it was different, you know, from in the bedroom with me, or if it's very different,

05:39the comparison.

05:41I'm quite anxious actually to hear how good she is.

05:45I think if Owen must have told me that he had a better time, you know, with my best friend,

05:50that would absolutely, probably kill me inside.

05:54Yeah, I'd be really upset.

05:56I would ask for some tips then, on how I can improve.

06:00Hi.

06:01Hello my lovely.

06:03How was it?

06:05Oh, are you off?

06:07Yeah, I'm going to put my shoes on.

06:09We've had a really good time, haven't we?

06:11Let's be good.

06:13I'll let you two discuss it.

06:15Okay, and then we can get down to the nitty gritty details as well.

06:18Oh, we'll have our discussion later.

06:21We had fun.

06:22I was a bit nervous then.

06:23Don't be nervous.

06:24I could hear it all going on.

06:25Shoes are on.

06:27I love you.

06:28Love you.

06:29Bye bye.

06:31Give us a kiss, yeah.

06:32Bye.

06:35Are you a bit tired after that?

06:37I'm tired.

06:38I'm hungry now.

06:39You're hungry?

06:40I was just a bit worried that I'd, you know, regret it happening, but no regrets.

06:45Would I do it again?

06:47Yeah.

06:48We should all get involved next time.

06:49Yeah.

06:50Or you bring your friend over.

06:52How would I feel about Meg sleeping with one of my friends?

06:56It depends who.

06:58I don't think I'd sleep with any of your friends, to be honest.

07:02Why not?

07:03Your friends are quite just normal.

07:05We've had a lot of judgement the past few days.

07:09Oh yeah.

07:10We've just joined a dating group on Facebook and we posted ourselves.

07:13We're a couple looking for other couples, people.

07:16Or singles.

07:17The amount of hate that we got.

07:19People were tagging the friends saying, oh yeah, take one for the team and stuff like that.

07:23A lot of people are saying, you obviously don't love each other.

07:26You obviously aren't happy with one another.

07:28Like, why are you trying to find someone else?

07:30Like, there must be something missing.

07:32Yeah.

07:33Where they're just like, no, it's just fun.

07:34Because at the end of the day you can go do all that.

07:36And then come back to each other.

07:37But then you can come back to the person that you are.

07:38Yeah.

07:39People question it and they find it really bizarre and they just say like, you know.

07:42They're like, it's obviously not going to work.

07:44Yeah, they say that.

07:45Because of what we do.

07:46I posted a video of me getting ready for my first date without my boyfriend.

07:50And loads of people were commenting on that, you know, saying nasty things.

07:53Someone said, you lot are weird.

07:55You're bloke.

07:56Questionable.

07:57Is a simp.

07:58Could we do a simp?

07:59Yes.

08:00What do you think of that?

08:02This is the lifestyle that we want to live.

08:04And this is the dynamic of our relationship.

08:07So they've realised that that's what we're doing.

08:10What do I love the most about Meg?

08:12I just love the way you are, the way you are with business.

08:15Business savvy.

08:16You've just always been so supportive.

08:18I've never met someone so supportive in my life.

08:21What does the future hold for both of us?

08:24Wedding.

08:25You said wedding.

08:26Yeah.

08:27There's loads.

08:28We're going to propose for you.

08:29We're going to go...

08:30Yeah.

08:31I think that we're just going to travel a lot more.

08:33Because we've already travelled quite a lot already.

08:35What would you say to the people that judge us negatively?

08:38Subterminate.

08:39If they want to judge us, they can judge us.

08:41At the end of the day, you know, our lifestyle is different.

08:44Everyone has different boundaries.

08:46That's just their way of life.

08:47But this is our way of life.

08:48And we're enjoying it.

08:49Yeah.

08:50Just be happy.

08:51They don't have to agree with us.

08:52No.

08:53It doesn't change anything for us.

08:54No.

08:55Yeah.

08:56No.

08:57No.

08:58No.

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