00:00I let my boyfriend sleep with my best friend.
00:03Today my best friend Bonnie is going to be coming over
00:06and she's going to be sleeping with her wife.
00:09I have never slept with Rowan before.
00:11I thought about it.
00:13I think if Owen was to tell me that he had a better time
00:16with my best friend, that would absolutely kill me.
00:19So I was wondering,
00:21because obviously I'm letting you sleep with my best friend,
00:23would you let me sleep with one of your best friends?
00:26So we're just packing for a trip.
00:30Yeah, we've got a trip to Gran Canaria.
00:32It's our first time doing it, it's...
00:34Lifestyle holiday.
00:36We're really excited.
00:37I'm Owen, this is my partner Meg,
00:39and we sleep with other people.
00:41I sleep with other people.
00:42Men and women.
00:43You say that you're bi-curious.
00:45I don't really put a label on things.
00:47I'd say that I'm bisexual.
00:48So we met over a year ago.
00:51On a video shoot.
00:52And then we just clicked straight away.
00:54Because we're so alike.
00:55I just felt so comfortable.
00:57And then we took it quite slow.
00:58We did go on a few holidays together though, Nicole.
01:01Yeah, we went to Amsterdam.
01:02We went under the bridge of love.
01:03Yeah.
01:04And had a kiss.
01:05And that was before we were even together.
01:07We went to Benidorm in January for New Year's.
01:10We basically just said that we loved each other
01:12and then we were together from then.
01:16I've got your bright boxies for the evenings.
01:19I've got like three shirts.
01:20You've got like...
01:21So we decided to open up the relationship.
01:24I think it's always been like that really hasn't it?
01:27Yeah, because we started off as content creators.
01:30We got together working with other people anyway.
01:32On our own weren't we at the start?
01:34So it's always been open.
01:35There was a time of jealousy at the start of the relationship
01:38when we were like seeing each other and we weren't together yet.
01:41Because that's when you don't know the boundaries
01:44and you haven't spoken to each other about what the relationship is yet.
01:48I think communication is the main boundary like that we need.
01:51Yeah, if we talk about it before and say look, I want to do this.
01:54Are you comfortable with this happening?
01:55Yeah, that is literally all that matters.
01:57Just communication.
01:58Are you able to grab that?
02:00Come on then.
02:01So today my best friend Bonnie is going to be coming over
02:05and she's going to be sleeping with Owen.
02:08When Meg asked me if I would sleep with Owen,
02:11I was a little bit surprised at first,
02:14but at the same time, not.
02:17I kind of knew it was coming.
02:19So when Owen told me that he wanted to sleep with Bonnie,
02:22I wasn't really shocked to be like.
02:26It didn't feel weird like,
02:28oh, he wants to sleep with my friend
02:30because she's, you know, friends with the two of us
02:33and we're always cuddling.
02:35We're all just so close.
02:37It just felt normal.
02:38We were all having a joke around
02:39and me and Owen would like to have a little bit of a flirt with each other.
02:42Nothing harmful.
02:44And she kind of just came out with it.
02:46Like she just went,
02:47do you want to sleep with Owen?
02:48I was like, what?
02:50So I said yes, basically because it's something that interests me.
02:57The way I've sort of lived my life as an adult is very open.
03:03I have never slept with Owen before.
03:05I thought about it.
03:08So how do you girls feel about what's happening today?
03:12We're very comfortable.
03:15I think because we're all so comfortable anyway
03:18and, you know, always cuddling and giving each other kisses.
03:20Yeah.
03:21I think a lot of it is because I've been there from the beginning
03:23since you two got together.
03:24You know how much I love you two together.
03:28So she trusts me 100%.
03:30Yeah.
03:31And that is a massive thing, innit?
03:33Yeah.
03:34Between us all.
03:35Yeah, I think because we're all so comfortable.
03:37Yeah, definitely.
03:38So how do you feel about me sleeping with Owen today?
03:42I'm nervous because I don't know how it's going to go.
03:46I don't know what you're going to get up to.
03:48I don't know if you're going to push us limits.
03:49I think it's because we've never done it before
03:51without me being in the room.
03:52There's balance to be nerves though.
03:53I think that's natural.
03:55Yeah.
03:56And it's good.
03:57Yeah.
03:58I am really excited because obviously I wouldn't be so on board with it
04:01if I didn't want them to do it.
04:02And I am honoured that it's me that you want to do it with for the first time.
04:07Oh yeah, you'd definitely be the first person.
04:09I love that.
04:10I feel very honoured.
04:11Yeah.
04:12I'm very special.
04:14So I was wondering, because obviously I'm letting you sleep with my best friend,
04:19would you let me sleep with one of your best friends?
04:23Depends on your sleep.
04:24It depends on your sleep.
04:26There's a bit of hesitation there.
04:28Yeah.
04:29Why not?
04:30Something's round about, isn't it?
04:31Alright.
04:32If I'm allowed to do it, you're allowed to do it.
04:34Okay, perfect.
04:35It's good for one, it's good for the other.
04:37Yeah.
04:38Right then.
04:41Are you ready guys?
04:42Let's do this.
04:44I'll say my goodbyes.
04:46I love you.
04:47I love you.
04:49Don't love too much.
04:51Me, never.
04:52Yeah.
04:53Go, it's fine.
04:55Let's do this, Owen.
04:57Oh my darling.
04:58Let's go.
05:00I'm feeling quite nervous, I'm not going to lie, now that it's actually happening.
05:07But really excited at the same time.
05:09Do I think it's going to affect the friendship?
05:11I don't think so, because we're all so close anyway.
05:14If she somehow didn't enjoy it maybe, because it might be a bit awkward afterwards.
05:19I don't think it will affect mine and Owen's relationship now.
05:22I think, you know, if anything it'll bring us closer.
05:25I'm definitely going to be asking him quite a few questions.
05:30I think all night he's going to be bombarded with questions, to be honest, of how it was
05:34and how it was different, you know, from in the bedroom with me, or if it's very different,
05:39the comparison.
05:41I'm quite anxious actually to hear how good she is.
05:45I think if Owen must have told me that he had a better time, you know, with my best friend,
05:50that would absolutely, probably kill me inside.
05:54Yeah, I'd be really upset.
05:56I would ask for some tips then, on how I can improve.
06:00Hi.
06:01Hello my lovely.
06:03How was it?
06:05Oh, are you off?
06:07Yeah, I'm going to put my shoes on.
06:09We've had a really good time, haven't we?
06:11Let's be good.
06:13I'll let you two discuss it.
06:15Okay, and then we can get down to the nitty gritty details as well.
06:18Oh, we'll have our discussion later.
06:21We had fun.
06:22I was a bit nervous then.
06:23Don't be nervous.
06:24I could hear it all going on.
06:25Shoes are on.
06:27I love you.
06:28Love you.
06:29Bye bye.
06:31Give us a kiss, yeah.
06:32Bye.
06:35Are you a bit tired after that?
06:37I'm tired.
06:38I'm hungry now.
06:39You're hungry?
06:40I was just a bit worried that I'd, you know, regret it happening, but no regrets.
06:45Would I do it again?
06:47Yeah.
06:48We should all get involved next time.
06:49Yeah.
06:50Or you bring your friend over.
06:52How would I feel about Meg sleeping with one of my friends?
06:56It depends who.
06:58I don't think I'd sleep with any of your friends, to be honest.
07:02Why not?
07:03Your friends are quite just normal.
07:05We've had a lot of judgement the past few days.
07:09Oh yeah.
07:10We've just joined a dating group on Facebook and we posted ourselves.
07:13We're a couple looking for other couples, people.
07:16Or singles.
07:17The amount of hate that we got.
07:19People were tagging the friends saying, oh yeah, take one for the team and stuff like that.
07:23A lot of people are saying, you obviously don't love each other.
07:26You obviously aren't happy with one another.
07:28Like, why are you trying to find someone else?
07:30Like, there must be something missing.
07:32Yeah.
07:33Where they're just like, no, it's just fun.
07:34Because at the end of the day you can go do all that.
07:36And then come back to each other.
07:37But then you can come back to the person that you are.
07:38Yeah.
07:39People question it and they find it really bizarre and they just say like, you know.
07:42They're like, it's obviously not going to work.
07:44Yeah, they say that.
07:45Because of what we do.
07:46I posted a video of me getting ready for my first date without my boyfriend.
07:50And loads of people were commenting on that, you know, saying nasty things.
07:53Someone said, you lot are weird.
07:55You're bloke.
07:56Questionable.
07:57Is a simp.
07:58Could we do a simp?
07:59Yes.
08:00What do you think of that?
08:02This is the lifestyle that we want to live.
08:04And this is the dynamic of our relationship.
08:07So they've realised that that's what we're doing.
08:10What do I love the most about Meg?
08:12I just love the way you are, the way you are with business.
08:15Business savvy.
08:16You've just always been so supportive.
08:18I've never met someone so supportive in my life.
08:21What does the future hold for both of us?
08:24Wedding.
08:25You said wedding.
08:26Yeah.
08:27There's loads.
08:28We're going to propose for you.
08:29We're going to go...
08:30Yeah.
08:31I think that we're just going to travel a lot more.
08:33Because we've already travelled quite a lot already.
08:35What would you say to the people that judge us negatively?
08:38Subterminate.
08:39If they want to judge us, they can judge us.
08:41At the end of the day, you know, our lifestyle is different.
08:44Everyone has different boundaries.
08:46That's just their way of life.
08:47But this is our way of life.
08:48And we're enjoying it.
08:49Yeah.
08:50Just be happy.
08:51They don't have to agree with us.
08:52No.
08:53It doesn't change anything for us.
08:54No.
08:55Yeah.
08:56No.
08:57No.
08:58No.
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