00:00I submit to my husband and my job is to keep him happy.
00:03Women have become lazy.
00:05They don't want to make any effort.
00:06They think it's freedom to say, I'm not going to cook for a man.
00:08I'm not going to clean.
00:09I'm not going to do anything.
00:10But it's purely laziness.
00:11Women are actually not designed to have to make decisions.
00:15This is the biggest load of internalized misogyny, BS.
00:18Are your husband's finances safe with you?
00:21Women were created for a man.
00:24A woman without a man to take care of,
00:25she becomes very empty, very soulless, very bitter.
00:29When I hear the term, trot wife,
00:31what comes to my mind is scary and probably a void.
00:36I'm Zion Zachary.
00:38I'm Laura and I am a proud wife of Mr. Zion Zachary.
00:43And I lead the household.
00:45My wife knows what her role is.
00:47Your husband cannot step up until you step down.
00:50I enjoy traditional marriage with traditional masculine and feminine roles.
00:56I think online is a parallel universe.
00:59What you see on social media a lot is women crying into the phone,
01:03telling you what a victim they are in their life.
01:06We do get quite a bit of negative comments.
01:08What we need to do as men is protect our wives and make sure we don't take our wives to
01:13the battle.
01:13Someone says it took 20 seconds of listening to you for me to throw up in my mouth a little.
01:19This is why I'm an atheist.
01:20This religious psychosis is packaged so beautifully.
01:26The high tier wife is always thinking about the bigger picture.
01:30She's thinking about how to help her husband get to the top of the mountain.
01:34This is the biggest load of internalized misogyny, BS.
01:37Are your husband's finances safe with you?
01:40Women have been lied to.
01:42The women that were less willing to submit were more emotionally reactive.
01:47They think that they will find fulfillment in building a career or trying to be some kind of boss babe.
01:53Everything that women do, it should be an expression of love.
01:56What the women have been taught is you're the most important thing.
01:59Always put yourself first.
02:01Many men are married to women, but they're not married to wives.
02:03This is so sad.
02:05I hope you recover from the Stockholm Syndrome soon.
02:08That's when you fall in love with your capture.
02:10That's like Beauty and the Beast fairytale.
02:12Yeah.
02:12And I've fallen in love with you.
02:14Yeah.
02:14But I have though, I have captured you.
02:16You're captured my heart.
02:17If this isn't satire, the algorithm needs a talking to.
02:22When I hear the term trot wife or trot husband, what comes to my mind is scary and probably a
02:29void.
02:29My husband is the lord of this house.
02:32Should a woman serve her husband?
02:33In my opinion, not at all.
02:35No, I don't think a woman should serve her husband.
02:39It should be that they serve each other in whatever way works for them.
02:43I don't think it's a woman's job to do the household chores.
02:45It shouldn't be more on one person than the other to be pulling their weight.
02:50Me looking nice inspires him.
02:52And he deserves to look at something beautiful.
02:55Would I expect my wife to look perfect to me?
02:57Uh, no.
02:58No.
02:59We have good days.
02:59We have bad days.
03:00We have late nights.
03:01We have early mornings.
03:02It's not the role of a woman to always have to look perfect for their husband.
03:05I think that's, that's ridiculous.
03:08If you want to look perfect for your husband, that's on you.
03:11That's great.
03:12Good for you.
03:12You shouldn't have to.
03:14The trad wife and trad husband should probably be left in the past.
03:17As long as you're happy in the house that you're in, then you're doing the right thing.
03:19We just got to keep doing what we're doing.
03:21When people post negative comments, we just keep going.
03:23Because we know what we're doing is for the greater good.
03:26I think women have already set themselves back.
03:28I don't think the way I live is making them set themselves back any further.
03:31I think they've already done that on their own.
03:34My job is always looking pretty and always keeping the house clean.
03:38I am a trad wife, but I'm more than a trad wife.
03:42I felt like I had met a female version of myself.
03:45She slid into my DMs and then it kicked off this whole thing.
03:49I was a bit despondent and thinking that maybe I'll be waiting forever.
03:53In this modern world, this feminist world, will I ever find
03:56a woman that would agree with my way of thinking?
03:59And I found her.
04:00Tread wife, I think, refers back to the traditional, what we've always done,
04:05male role, female role.
04:07My best friend rang me and I said to her, I was like,
04:09that's my husband, that I'm going to marry this man.
04:11And she was like, what?
04:13I said, that is the man I will marry.
04:15So September we met, December was our wedding.
04:19Yeah, just like that.
04:23I don't like modern fashion.
04:24I think it's vulgar.
04:26I do think that it's important that we make an effort,
04:31because it's not that we compete with other women.
04:33It's a respect.
04:34You know, how we dress shows what we think our husband deserves.
04:39Most women dress for the world, but not their husband.
04:46Do you like it?
04:48Oh, you look pretty.
04:50Do I look pretty?
04:53I think it is important for a woman to present herself well.
04:56If somehow there was a hypothetical scenario where it was,
04:59I'd just be like, honey, that's revealing this.
05:01And do you mind just changing into something else more appropriate?
05:04She doesn't have anything like that in her wardrobe anyway.
05:06And I'll tell her whether it's a yes, whether it's a no.
05:09Trust me, you guys are getting a tame version of me.
05:12I'm usually, every few seconds, just all over her face.
05:16I think it's important for me to present myself well
05:18and wear things that are respectable.
05:20But it's not necessarily onerous on me to do that.
05:25Women have become lazy.
05:26They don't want to make any effort.
05:27They think it's freedom to say,
05:28I'm not going to cook for a man.
05:30I'm not going to clean.
05:30I'm not going to do anything.
05:31But it's purely laziness.
05:32She probably doesn't know how to do it for a start.
05:35Am I pretty?
05:36Oh, you're not pretty.
05:37You're beautiful.
05:40My favorite thing is just your all out surrender,
05:43your full devotion and your servant heart.
05:51I always make sure that there is food on the table.
05:53I've got to feed my man.
05:55I do everything in the house.
05:57So I do the laundry, the cooking, the cleaning,
06:00most of the shopping, everything in the house I do.
06:03People think that the way that I live is degrading to women,
06:06but I just love taking care of my men.
06:08Diane doesn't love cooking, and I do.
06:11So I usually do it all.
06:12I can cook to survive, but not to enjoy.
06:16So it makes sense that I just stay in my lane,
06:18and he stays in his lane, and we don't cross over.
06:20I would say I have always held some level of traditional values,
06:25because I observed an element of it growing up.
06:28My mum was a stay-at-home wife, and my dad was the provider.
06:30So I grew up seeing that, and I naturally embodied it.
06:34Women were created for a man.
06:36So a woman without a man to take care of,
06:39she becomes very empty, very soulless, very bitter.
06:45Okay.
06:46So my role as the man, fundamentally, I'm the leader of the family.
06:50I'm technically the CEO, and you're my, you could say, personal assistant.
06:55Yeah, I'm in submission.
06:57She only works for me, basically.
06:59Is the yoke how you like it?
07:00Yeah, we haven't had politics in a while, so.
07:02I know.
07:02I'm the responsible person who is responsible for building,
07:06providing, to make sure that that vision is fulfilled.
07:09To lead my wife, love my wife, love my children.
07:12I don't ever want to see him with, like, a broom in his hand or anything.
07:15I don't want to ever see him. I just don't like it.
07:17She often gets upset when I pick up the beaver and try to do something.
07:21Please put that down.
07:22You'll think that I have rules, or that I wake up in the morning,
07:25and I am at your best sightseeing. Arise, woman, you know, fix me, fix me some food.
07:29No, it doesn't work like that.
07:31She's already living that lifestyle herself.
07:33We both want to do this, so we both thrive in it,
07:37and we both have a happy life because of it.
07:43When you have someone in your life that you really care about,
07:45and you're going to build a family,
07:47it changes you to become the best version of yourself,
07:49and that's what's happened to me.
07:50Like, Zion's taken so many things off my shoulders,
07:52that I don't have to worry about certain things,
07:54so it means that I've actually been able to discover who I am as a woman.
07:58So what would we say to people who judge us?
08:00Choose how you want to live your life carefully.
08:03A lot of people are just sheep.
08:04They just follow along, and they think that, you know,
08:07like, especially feminists, they think they're being rebellious
08:08while being a feminist, but they're not.
08:10They're just doing what everyone else is doing.
08:11It's the opposite of being rebellious.
08:13Being rebellious is actually...
08:15What we do.
08:15Yeah, exactly.
08:16I didn't know I could enjoy my life so much, and I could be happy.
08:20I didn't know I could do that, and it's beautiful.
08:22It's beautiful.
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