00:00My fiancé let me get with 250 people this year.
00:03I allow my fiancé to get with other men.
00:05And women. We're all inclusive here.
00:07No man with any self-respect will put up with that kind of behaviour.
00:11Hi, my name's Ryan.
00:12I wear the pants for this relationship.
00:14I get with those people for work.
00:16I make about $50,000 a month.
00:18I made him be in lots of my spicy content.
00:21I do have some concerns that he is with her mainly for the money.
00:25A few of the girls have said to me that Ryan is just using you a little bit.
00:30I think you guys are just jealous.
00:36I get like a lot of mean text messages.
00:39This one says...
00:48Hi, my name's Ryan.
00:50I'm okay with my fiancé getting with 250 people this year.
00:53Some people have said that somebody who loves someone wouldn't want them to do that.
01:00This is the job you've chosen for yourself.
01:02It's an ugly career choice for an ugly girl.
01:05But you're beautiful.
01:07Aww, that's so nice.
01:09Doing spicy work has changed my life because I have financial freedom and the ability to do whatever I want
01:14whenever I want.
01:15You could choose to do so many things and yet you choose to do this job.
01:19Ew.
01:20No wonder you'll never find a man and need to get with so many people.
01:25You're going to be alone forever.
01:27Lol, lol.
01:28We're getting married next year.
01:30We'll be together forever.
01:31You're nothing more than a worthless lady and you'll live to regret this day.
01:37Middle fingers up.
01:38Wow.
01:39That was a mean one.
01:40Wow, that's real, man.
01:42That was not nice.
01:43How I respond to the judgement we face.
01:46Just laugh.
01:47Yeah, laugh and just get on with it.
01:50We're having a great time and we're happy so it doesn't affect us.
01:54When we first met, Ryan already knew what I did for a job.
01:57I've been making spicy content since I was 18 years old, so way before I met Ryan.
02:02He didn't care because he always wanted to do it as well.
02:05Yeah, I wanted to get involved in the family business.
02:08So as a test I took him away to see if he could really handle it.
02:12And I made him be in lots of my spicy content and then drive me to lots of my jobs.
02:18Welcome to my office.
02:19It didn't take me long to get used to the spicy life as how many threw me in the deep
02:23end.
02:24It was swim or sink.
02:25I've been involved making spicy content for almost a year now.
02:29I edit, film and am in the scenes as well sometimes.
02:33I have a video call with a client.
02:36So we're just setting up the beds so that we can do that and I can sit here and look
02:41cute.
02:42I love her and I want to help her with anything and everything that I can.
02:46Getting with 250 people was not any kind of goal.
02:50It just is how many it was in the last year and maybe next year will be more.
02:55I make about $50,000 a month.
02:57Have fun, baby.
02:58Bye.
03:00When Amity's working, I cook clean, put away our washing, make sure the house is clean.
03:06I never have to worry about eating.
03:07I've never turned the stove on.
03:09Having a man who supports me so much is like euphoric almost because it's kind of hard to find them.
03:15You don't think you'll be one of the lucky ones.
03:17Our relationship is monogamous.
03:20Monogamous.
03:21Monogamous.
03:22Monogamous.
03:22Monogamous, yes.
03:23I get with those people for work and not for pleasure.
03:27Still pleasurable though.
03:28I do worry sometimes.
03:31I worry about her safety when she goes to work.
03:33When I come home from seeing other men, he asks me how it was, whether they were crazy or that
03:41they were really hot.
03:43I love that because it's an ability to be so open and not feel like you have to hide anything
03:47about yourself.
03:48Some people have said that I'm using him as someone to be a doormat.
03:54And he's taking advantage of the high life.
03:58Look, I mean, I knew her while she was doing her job a long time ago.
04:02I personally have no issues with that.
04:04My main issue is just that I'm almost concerned that Ryan might be using her a little bit.
04:10And I just worry that maybe he's in it for the wrong reason.
04:12I do have some concerns that he is with her mainly for the money.
04:17Look, I've spoken to a few of our mutual friends.
04:21And I just feel that a few of the girls have said to me, Amity, that they just worry that
04:27Ryan is, you know, just using you a little bit.
04:31As your friend, I just have some concerns.
04:33Like, Ryan, I understand that you love Amity.
04:37And I think that's great.
04:38But I do just worry, like, are you sure that you love her as she is outside of the job?
04:44Or are you just, you know, in it because you feel that this could somehow benefit you?
04:50No, I love Amity for exactly who she is, not just because of the job.
04:54You know, but then if you kept doing it, maybe he would get jealous of, you know, your clients and
04:59people that you get with and everything.
05:02You'll just have to get used to it because I'm not going to stop.
05:05I'm already used to it.
05:08Have you discussed, like, does that mean that you guys are essentially open as a couple?
05:12Does that mean that Ryan can go and, you know, get with who he wants to get with or?
05:16No, it's monogamous.
05:18It's a job.
05:20Yeah.
05:20Only for work.
05:21Only for work.
05:22Okay.
05:22He's not allowed to get with other people just for fun.
05:26I'm not allowed to get with other people just for fun.
05:28I just worry that whether she quit or whether she kept going, you know, maybe you'll decide that she's boring
05:32if she suddenly quits the job
05:34and, you know, you don't have access to her, obviously, her really stable finances.
05:39That's not what I'm here for.
05:40I'm here for the love, not the money.
05:43The money's great, but I love Amity as much as you do, but probably even more.
05:49And the job itself, you know, like, does that impact on the relationship at all?
05:53I think you guys are just jealous.
05:55Jealous?
05:55Because my man's perfect.
05:57Okay.
05:58He comes across as a lovely guy.
06:00I still don't know him super well, but again, I'm not in the relationship and I can only communicate with
06:05you what the girls have said.
06:06Well, you're not in the relationship, so you don't know.
06:08I know, but I still feel that it's my duty as your friend and, like, the girls as well to
06:13just, you know, tell you this and be upfront and honest about it.
06:15Well, I think you guys are wrong, so.
06:18Okay.
06:19All right.
06:20As long as you're confident in that, it is your relationship, but I just hope that you're right.
06:25I hope so too.
06:26I just thought, like I said, I think it's my responsibility to, okay, maybe I'll step out now.
06:34I'll just get PDA'd out the room.
06:37Yeah.
06:38Third wheel.
06:38What we'd say to the people that judge us is it must be so boring to live such a small,
06:44average life.
06:45It doesn't really matter because it's all about us.
06:47This relationship works because we love each other.
06:50We don't judge each other at all.
06:52We come to each other with everything.
06:54He's shown me that there are men that will support all your wants and dreams, even if they are a
07:00bit controversial.
07:00I love creating content with my partner.
07:03If that gets her with more guys, that's a bonus.
07:05Am I proud that other men want to get with my fiance?
07:09Yeah.
07:10It's the job and that's what you've got to do.
07:12Pays the bills.
07:13Pays the bills.
07:14In the future, we want to be able to go wherever we want to go and make spicy content all
07:20over the world.
07:21Getting with 250 guys a year means that I can wake up at 2pm every day and also get on
07:27a plane whenever I want to and go wherever I want to in the world and have a great life.
07:31And it's awesome because I have a partner who lets me do that and helps me achieve my goals and
07:38dreams of maybe getting with 300 people next year.
07:51All of them.
07:51All right and do this.
07:56All right and do it again.
07:57I'm gonna swore the other side with some, all right, all right, and it getsiert.
07:59I can't wait to see anyone how we come.
07:59Let's do it again.
07:59I'm soítulo- kméc Mt.
07:59I'm so mature.
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