How To Meet Older Women

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In this video, I'll share my top tips on how to meet older women. So if you're ready to learn how to meet and connect with older women, be sure to watch this video!  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00Now every guy has their preference or their fantasy for the kind of woman they want to meet

00:03and for a lot of guys that's going to have to do with the age range. So this video is how to meet

00:07older women for those guys who want to meet women who are more mature and for you that might be

00:12because you like the more mature women mature in terms of their personalities or you like somebody

00:17has more sexual experience or you just like the way they look and it could be for short-term

00:21relationships or long-term relationships it doesn't really matter you get to decide but

00:25we're talking about older women that could be any age range you could be a 20 year old who's

00:30interested in 30 year olds or a 40 year old who's interested in 55 year olds that's up to you and

00:34depends on where you're at. And for me the question isn't really how to meet older women because if

00:39you want to meet older women they are everywhere every time you step out of your door and walk

00:43onto the street you are going to see women who are older than you. The real question is what is stopping

00:48you? Why are you not talking to these older women who are everywhere? Now you could go online and it's

00:54very easy to meet older women online because all you have to do is set your filters correctly and

00:58as long as their filters for age match your age range then you're in luck you're going to find

01:02lots of older women you can message. Or if you don't like online dating and you want to meet women

01:06naturally then you just have to look at the face of the woman you want to talk to and go talk to her.

01:10It really is that simple. Of course it's not as simple when we're talking about your courage because

01:16when you see someone you want to talk to you're going to get anxiety and think of all sorts of excuses

01:20of why you shouldn't talk to her. You're going to think she looks busy, she looks mean, I'm in a rush.

01:26You'll come up with an endless number of excuses why you shouldn't talk to her but you need to be

01:30focusing on the one reason you should talk to her which is because you want to because you're

01:34attracted to her. So in terms of how to meet older women let's talk about the direct approach. So if you

01:39have enough courage you have the balls to go do this this is something you can get good at and you can

01:42start meeting women everywhere you go whether you're traveling or you're old in city it doesn't matter.

01:46But as soon as you identify what is an older woman now it's going to be up to you to go and talk to her.

01:52Now really there's actually a couple really good ways to do this in public and of course I've already mentioned online dating

01:58all you have to do is set your filter so we're not going to talk about that here.

02:00So let's start with the direct approach. A direct approach is just like it sounds you walk up to a woman and you let her know

02:06directly why you are talking to her. Now from personal experience and from over the last 11 years of coaching and watching guys in field

02:12I can say that walking up and blurting out a compliment usually doesn't work that well.

02:17It's better if you get her attention first and paint a picture for her like what was happening right before you saw her.

02:23You're walking down the street, you're sitting on a park bench, you're sitting in the coffee shop having a coffee.

02:28Then you tell her that. It's really simple. You're just going to explain exactly what was happening before you went to talk to her.

02:32And it's going to go something like this. Hey no this sounds unusual but I was just sitting in a coffee shop over there having my coffee

02:38and you walked past and I had to come out here and say hi because I thought you looked fantastic.

02:42And that's it. Now you go into a conversation, get to know her, see if you can make a connection.

02:47You already know what you're attracted to so you're going to be able to identify an older woman very easily

02:51and now it's just up to you to get off your ass and go talk to her.

02:54The second method is indirect. That's going to be basically you're making a comment on something like you could be in a lineup at a coffee shop

03:01or lineup in the grocery store and you make some random comment about the environment you're in

03:05or the groceries in her cart or something else that's directly relevant that's around you.

03:10And so let's say for example you're looking at soup and there happens to be an attractive older woman looking at soup too.

03:15You're both really into Campbell's. And you like her can. I mean the soup she's holding.

03:19And she's studying the labels like this. She's deciding which can of Campbell she wants.

03:24And you look at her and you say it's hard to make a choice with so many options.

03:28And that's it. Now it's going to be up to you to carry on the conversation. Obviously you're starting with a soup.

03:32You don't want to carry on the entire conversation talking about the soup. You're going to have to learn about her.

03:36But that's going to be an entire other video to talk about how to take the conversation further.

03:41But go out there and experiment and try for yourself.

03:43There are a ton of older women out there waiting for you just to start the conversation with them.

03:47Just to have a little courage and give it a shot.

03:50But now I want to know what you think. Leave a comment in the description. Let me know how you like to start conversations with older women.

03:55And until next time, conquer and win.

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