The #1 Reason Her Outbursts Are a Cry for LOVE

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Are you caught in the painful cycle of withdrawal and attack in your relationship?  This message will help you see her anger for what it truly is—a desperate call to feel seen, heard, and loved. And if you’re a man of honor, this is your moment to lead with heart.  👉 Hit subscribe for more emotional growth insights. ❤️ Comment below: Are you willing to go first in healing? 🔔 Turn on notifications—this journey is just beginning.

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00:00Think of her outbursts as a cry for connection, a way of saying, I need you to see me and

00:05value me.

00:06Right now, you're likely caught up in that crazy cycle.

00:11Her anger feels disrespectful to you.

00:13So you withdraw, and your withdrawal feels unloving to her.

00:16So she becomes angrier and even more insecure and panics.

00:20And then you don't know what to do with that because it's like, whoa, this cycle perpetuates

00:26itself, leaving both of you feeling unheard, unloved, and disrespected.

00:30So breaking free requires one of you to step out of the pattern.

00:34And I'm going to take the position that even though she appears forceful, it's a cover-up

00:38for a deeper insecurity and feelings of inadequacy and these fears.

00:43And as a man of honor, you are uniquely positioned to take the lead.

00:47So are you willing to take the first step here?

00:50An unconditional love is this unconditional positive regard toward her spirit while she's

00:57coming to you as a flamethrower.

00:59And that's not easy, but it is possible.

01:01Your wife's deepest need is for love, just as your deepest need is for respect.

01:05And who's going to move first here?

01:07Well, I'm asking you to.

01:09I'm asking you to.

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