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00:06New York is a hustle baby, all you do is hustle in this city.
00:13This is a New York moment.
00:18I've heard before from an agent of mine about the 11.
00:21The angry 11.
00:22So scrunch your eyebrows together for me, so those are the 11s.
00:26Do you see the number 11 in between your eyebrows?
00:28I see a lot of 11s.
00:30Kyle gets Botox.
00:31Kyle's nine years older than me.
00:33You're right.
00:43Can a guy pull off a mock neck?
00:45Probably not, right?
00:46No, you can, for sure.
00:47This is badass.
00:48Yeah, it looks really, really elevated.
00:50It's really, really nice.
00:51These are all the new sweatshirts with the embroidery.
00:53Is it still time to just have Amanda weigh in?
00:57Today?
00:58Um, I'll go next door.
01:05Is this the best way to pack shoes?
01:08I don't even know.
01:10These are good.
01:11Yes.
01:13Should we go say hi to them?
01:16Look who I found.
01:17Hi, Miss Wider.
01:18Yeah?
01:20What you doing?
01:22Trying to pack some of the up.
01:26This has got to be the most organized closet in the house.
01:29I'm organized.
01:30It's just the stuff that I don't know where to put.
01:32I just don't know where to put it.
01:36I like these.
01:37Oh, but I need the black ones also.
01:40After dropping the news to Kyle
01:42and like making the decision to move out,
01:44I feel lighter.
01:44I feel good about this decision.
01:46I feel like this could be what we need
01:48to potentially save this relationship.
01:51Are you going to have enough stuff
01:52where you're going to need like a van or a truck or what?
01:55I have no idea.
01:56Maybe we can pack up your car.
01:58I mean, it's not going to get a crazy amount of .
02:01It's like a month-long vacation.
02:04Are you going to like surprise me?
02:05Like you're going to keep your key and just like pop in?
02:08Or how does that work?
02:09Yeah.
02:10I'll just show up at 4am and wake you up
02:12like you do to me all the time.
02:15Do you not want me here?
02:16I feel like you're more excited for me to leave.
02:20That's the opposite of how I think this has felt.
02:22I think you're-
02:23I mean, we're trying to figure this out, right?
02:25Spending some time apart, but like courting each other
02:28and dating again.
02:30We knew something drastic needed to happen.
02:33I don't think we knew what.
02:36Therapy wasn't necessarily giving us everything we needed.
02:40Look, I think that there was a side of me that I felt like we could have kept on continuing
02:44and playing this like broken record.
02:47So I give you props for confronting this like head on.
02:50Oh, I need these sneakers too.
02:52And just in case I need to run away.
02:55Run away from your problems.
02:56From you.
02:58Wow.
02:59Okay.
03:00Harsh.
03:07Hey!
03:07Hey!
03:08Hey!
03:08Hey!
03:09Hey!
03:09Hey!
03:09Hey!
03:09Hey!
03:16There's so many do-
03:17Yo, that's why we get the hot girls here.
03:19Is it always like this?
03:21Like, this busy?
03:22Thursday through Sunday.
03:23It's awesome.
03:24Yes.
03:24It's awesome.
03:25Such a vibe!
03:27Oh, my God.
03:27Congratulations!
03:28I'm like, really excited.
03:29What is accomplishment?
03:30I wanted to be in the hospitality business before I even knew it was a business.
03:35I remember having a party in high school and the neighbor came over the next day and alerted
03:39that he was gonna tell my parents and then before he left he said but I'm not gonna lie you
03:43threw a
03:44great party. I told my assistant yeah I'm gonna go meet up with my friend Gavin and I was like
03:49telling her about you but she asked if we ever hooked up and I said no. You thought I was
03:59going
04:00in for the real thing. Me and Gavin have known each other many many years I met him through Kyle
04:08we were both in hospitality he's the perfect amount of fun flirty messy like I enjoy Gavin's vibe I love
04:16the short Kings. I'm making you laugh and I love that you get messy like we were giggling when we
04:24were talking to Kenny and so much I was like yes Gavin yeah shoot him a Gavin that's what they
04:29call
04:29me I'm getting grilled over here on relationship this is now a panel this is a panel I'm getting
04:35real wait so okay Kenny what is his deal because I don't really know Kenny or Whitney yep he was
04:42like kind of treating me like I'm some sort of like man hater just because I was taking his
04:47girlfriend's like perspective in order for you to move across the entire country without a commitment
04:53such as a ring it's a very big deal you can't around with this I'm getting I hate men vibes
04:59what
05:00you're saying is probably true and he knows that and he wants to like discredit you that's what that's
05:05his Kenny is my best friend he can dish it out but he can't take it I can't believe my
05:11stuff's
05:12gonna be here this week already we really need to figure out where it's gonna go I know I think
05:19I
05:19have 30 boxes coming I have my workout outfits I have my seasonal stuff I have my coats I have
05:26boots
05:26a billion things I'm not really an outfit repeater we might have to turn that second bedroom into more of
05:32a
05:32closet I'm down to let you do your thing in the second bedroom but I want it to still also
05:40be a
05:41guest room like if your sister comes into town and DJ like Gavin has stayed in that room a million
05:45times
05:45yeah we kicked Gavin out finally my apartment's virtual and Gavin's always had a code Gavin used to
05:51just show up he would walk in and he'd be like hey and I'm like hey and then we'd hang
05:56out it was
05:57kind of like he lived there even though he didn't but that has changed it's all a lot of respect
06:04for
06:04me too what am I not rocking around naked like Gavin can't just like walk in he came home one
06:09time and
06:09we were like hooking up on the couch and I'm like no masks on the code how are you feeling
06:17with your
06:17adjustment to the city it's been really nice but I think I am like missing that like girl time it's
06:23just weird like trying to make new friends like at this stage in life yeah you know I did go
06:29to get
06:30a pedicure with Danielle the other day which was nice oh man finally Kenny like this woman is amazing
06:37oh because you've known him a while yeah through Gavin it was really nice we're just starting to
06:42get to know each other and I actually learned some things about her relationship that I didn't realize
06:47I thought her and Owen had been together a really long time okay and they started officially dating in
06:53like April and he's been in the process of a divorce which you know can linger and she was kind
07:00of saying like it was amicable but then she found out about me and I think that it has not
07:07been as friendly when did that relationship end I can't remember exactly but she did tell me that
07:15he had been kind of checked out of that relationship for a while sounds like overlap what do you think
07:23about Danielle's boyfriend do you want to get to know him or no I think it's weird for me to
07:29like
07:29want to get to know him and then like not really talk to her I'm just sort of like playing
07:34the avoiding
07:35game at the moment he didn't tell me where to VIP here so you know oh my god the boss
07:42can you reach
07:42up can you get over there how are you how are you it's been like three years what's the baby
07:47she's
07:48amazing thank you for asking my next question whose side are you on that's not gonna work I don't want
08:04to relive those in the past I gotta get back there good seeing you wait Robert is the chef did
08:12you not
08:12know this either I was like is this gonna be a problem I feel like there's a lot no no
08:17I don't
08:18know yeah there's like a lot of history between Danielle and I at least once a year she does something
08:24and I've given her pass after pass after pass she like asked me to go for a coffee and I
08:29was like well
08:30that's good is that like an olive branch I am way more picky about who I give my energy to
08:36these days
08:37so well I feel special then yeah you should that's wild to me you've got Danielle that is dating a
08:44guy
08:44and the guy's still married Lindsay who had a baby with a guy after like two months and Lindsay's
08:51interrogating me about us moving in together after hanging out for a year and her and Gavin were like
08:57laughing and making a joke of what I was going through with my mom and like Gavin said something
09:02yeah he was making like comments the stages of grief anger pain around just really rubbed me the wrong
09:13way if anybody in this scenario knows what I went through and could have my back it would be Gavin
09:20last fall we found out that my mom had stage four cancer and it was out of the blue I
09:28struggled to
09:29even talk about my mom still at this point we were just very close it was a really difficult period
09:35um Whitney and I were dating but like I just felt like I wasn't in the place to to be
09:42what she deserved
09:43in a relationship and we broke up sometimes it's gonna happen in dynamics of like best friends and
09:49someone getting in a relationship when another one isn't does he feel like you're not spending as
09:53much time with him I don't know and that's why he's like he's just so bad at using his words
09:58that
09:58it's like I would never know until it's something blows up coming up there are times where I think
10:05Amanda's already given up and now she's telling me she wants to move out of the apartment dude
10:14let's go flying over mountains I am now the queen of a castle if you want to rule with me
10:26you know girlfriend
10:32hi hello guess who's here here your friend Gemma it's Eloise is that your friend I literally came
10:40straight from the office mommy smells like Botox I came straight from work but I did remember I did
10:45remember the hand-me-downs you got some baby Louboutins in there actually you give me baby Louboutins
10:50yeah you agree this is why we love Eloise's hand-me-downs yeah do you want water or anything wine
10:57is
10:57good okay thank you well one of those days I see yeah if there was like a first-aid kit
11:04for mothers
11:04a bottle of champagne would be in there I don't know how any parents do it sober I put Gemma
11:09out of bed and I'm like wine yeah like I smell it and I feel better you're dealing with things
11:14that
11:14are just so insanely stupid the other day my son and my daughter were painting and I'm like doing
11:20the dishes and I pop out I'm like why is it so quiet and my son painted his penis blue
11:24which was
11:25shocking because green is his favorite color no this is non-toxic like organic paint but like probably
11:32not good for your scrotum I look at you having two kids and I think I might just be one
11:38and done
11:39one and done you did it right honestly like I don't know how I would have gotten through without
11:45you you would have been fine no I wouldn't have I don't have any like other friends that are in
11:50similar situations over summer no one knew about anything I was dealing with that was like very
11:57serious like legal no one at the summer house is gonna understand like nobody has kids what is going on
12:05with mediation I don't know how is he with that stuff like do you agree on anything like school
12:11wise at least well we agree on a lot it's amazing that you're supposed to play in 18 years and
12:16like
12:16now my baby daddy and I are near the end of mediation for Gemma and it's been an up and
12:25down roller coaster you
12:27know we are making decisions that are very impactful on Gemma's entire future so the sooner we can get
12:36through all of the legal stuff then the easier it will be and hopefully that document is just in a
12:43drawer
12:43somewhere and doesn't have to ever be taken out it can sit in the bottom drawer of my nightstand next
12:49to the condoms that are never used that's the hope and dream for the agreement not the condoms I wanted
12:55at one point when I was still hoping it would work out to put into the custody agreement that we
12:59all had
12:59to hang out with each other one time per week for at least three hours I wanted to force family
13:04time
13:05this lawyer he was like you can't force somebody to hang out with you my relationship with my ex
13:11is in a good place right now obviously it's taken a lot to get here this is the guy who
13:16moved out on
13:17me when I was 30 weeks pregnant and had a toddler to raise but I've made a conscious effort to
13:23put
13:23aside the hatred focus on what's going to be best for my kids and for my own health it's better
13:29than
13:29planning to buy a voodoo doll and stab it every night I choose civil and friendly over voodoo doll
13:37oh you know that's still in the back of my head did you do a poopy no okay is it
13:44mine do you smell
13:45poop no no she farts a lot
14:01all right all right boys night boys night I know what's up d how we doing county how you doing
14:08brother hey bro here he is what is going on is this real we have good taste okay that's what
14:15it is
14:15yeah have you ordered a shot in a beer come on you know that's my drink bro it is friends
14:19that drink
14:19together stay together all right boys night yeah oh you guys just rip one rip rip the shot oh my
14:26goodness drinks on the house tonight right Gavin yes exactly my man has Whitney witnessed a boys night
14:31Whitney has witnessed too many boys nights that's the problem I've had nights but I've been pretty
14:35good cleaning my act up did she get after it Whitney has an alter ego oh named Claire
14:46how's that going actually she has a really really really good friend group in LA she gotta have a
14:51good one in New York so I know it's just difficult when you are trying to introduce your girlfriend
14:57and have her welcomed by a group of girls and there's one girl that's like kind of causing all
15:01this drama last time we were here Lindsay was like hammering me I'm like Lindsay we don't even
15:06know each other you're coming in hot and I was I was were you poking the fire I was poking
15:10we had
15:11Kenny in like a nice situation I know Kenny can handle it I'm saying it's a big commitment to move
15:15across the country for a guy this is now a panel this is a panel it came across very judgy
15:23and then
15:23she was making comments about like all men and and this and that she just came across the wrong way
15:27she was projecting or just like asking it was either projecting no no I will say I think she was
15:33just
15:33trying to be a girl's girl you're rubbing me the same way honestly that you rubbed me that night
15:37where it was like it was a dog pile Lindsay has her little crew her little minions and for some
15:44reason you're like standing over there with Lindsay I'm not happy with the way that went down you got to
15:48have your boys back Gavin is used to Kenny being in a relationship but he's used to Kenny probably having
15:55issues or being unhappy and you know Gavin's there for him like oh let's go have a boys night I
16:00don't
16:00think Gavin is used to Kenny in a relationship happy and I think that's that's what we're we're
16:06dealing with here like Gavin thinks he's about to lose a boy and maybe I'm being over overly
16:11protective overly sensitive you have every right dude you love this girl always defend your woman
16:16Lexi's been great by the way she loves she loves Lexi and Lexi's been very like she reaches out
16:21she's welcoming let's grab brunch let's do this
16:26how are you feeling I mean moving in together is a big step totally I feel like it'll just take
16:32some time but it's like an exciting chapter I feel like we're in a really good place
16:39oh my god this is really crazy I've never seen so many fire trucks
16:50we're doing a kind of welcome to New York party that's nice obviously we're boys and we spend time
16:57together and I want her to feel comfortable and welcome in this group I mean listen Amanda and I
17:02have been going through a lot and so she's probably I've said she's almost been in like a no new
17:07friends
17:08headspace you know I'm team Amanda and Kyle I mean listen I'm trying to be receptive and open-minded
17:14about the kind of drastic measures that we need to take to try to figure out if we're meant to
17:20be
17:21there are times where I think a man has already given up and she's just waiting for me to do
17:25something stupid so she can officially end it and now she's telling me she wants to move out of the
17:29apartment dude she keeps talking about like this is for a month or two yeah listen Kyle bro I think
17:37that speaks for herself I am team Kyle and Amanda but I'm also team Kyle and I'm team Amanda
17:43Amanda if they're not team Kyle and Amanda you need to take the space and see how that feels
17:51and maybe it feels great for you that sucks let's be honest
18:09whoa that was way too much I haven't like celebrated someone moving to New York in forever it feels like
18:17I know my life the last year has been so ultra serious and I almost feel like I'm coming out
18:24of
18:24the other end now I can have fun that's all I'm interested in what's called self-love and you
18:30deserve this it's time to have fun it's not always easy to get a night out on the town like
18:37I used to
18:38Yvonne and I are hospitality girls when I was 23 I was running the entire city opening a club restaurant
18:44hotel lounge bar every single month between the two of us you really had an all-access pass to the
18:51city
18:51I love Yvonne so much I just wish that she would remember that I'm a mom now are you going
18:56to be
18:56around around like 11 no you come and meet me for a glass of wine I have a baby she's
19:03like Yvonne I'm a mom
19:05so if she says yes though but like that's what she gets activated there is a brand new restaurant
19:11opening tonight oh my god so excited for tonight I'm actually surprised Kenny invited me Andrea was
19:18telling me this week he's like yeah Kenny doesn't really like you because you pressured him to
19:24propose I was like what what are you wearing tonight I think I'm gonna wear this brown cocktail dress
19:29that's hot I think I'm gonna do this linen I think I'm gonna do the black on black with the
19:34t-shirt I
19:35think you're gonna love this space it's a Campbell building up in Grand Central I know you don't like
19:40to go above 14th Street but you know for you I'll go anywhere in Manhattan maybe not Brooklyn
19:46maybe it's just like here's this party that I'm throwing for you so you forget about the lack
19:50of closet space that you have in my apartment so when's my party you're not getting a party do you
19:57think we'll ever get to the stage where I don't just have like one little closet and then your stuff
20:01isn't like in the living room I don't want this out here either but I have a lot of jackets
20:06I mean
20:08closet space in New York is hard to come by right you've been here for what two months right now
20:12I feel like I can graduate on to a little bit more space I think I've been pretty generous
20:19anyway how are you feeling about tonight because if you haven't seen Lindsay's since you got turned
20:24down by her for your date yeah turned down is the right word just like I guess I'm nervous I'm
20:29anxious
20:29there's tons of history there so like you know yeah let's make mix it a little heavier but I'll figure
20:36it
20:49out I've never been here hi I think I'm gonna start with an espresso martini think we're around here
20:58that's what I was gonna go with look okay done perfect thank you oh they're here hi hey how we
21:06doing good how are yours you look beautiful good to see you hi hi how are you good how are
21:12you good to
21:26good to see you how we doing good to see you uh where's Kyle he had to drop something off
21:31for work so I
21:33just came up with Katie hi Kevin it's so good to see you too long it's been too long welcome
21:40to New York
21:40you look beautiful how was your anniversary we had like a really nice time at dinner and okay good
21:46but um I told Kyle that I'm moving out
21:55oh my god you did but then I explained to him I'm gonna find somewhere like temporary like we're not
22:01separating we're not calling off the relationship like we're still gonna see each other dating like we're
22:06gonna have to make efforts with each other I was so nervous to say something to him but he took
22:11it so
22:11well he did yeah like something just has to change he's like I don't think it's like the worst idea
22:19like
22:19it's um but yeah
22:46I got ready at the office today I used a laser hair removal to shave my legs I was like
22:53you know what I
22:54don't have time to go home so this is what it is yo how we doing how you doing how
22:58you guys
22:59I wanted to say hello to the ladies who is that what perfect I mean you know suave with the
23:05hair
23:06this is my little surprise for Lindsay what did he just say no French come meet the ladies this is
23:16Lindsay you guys were at my wedding oh that's right oh if I think two people are amazing and
23:25they're single I try to get them together and Frank remember Lindsay you remember exactly the dress she
23:32was wearing that night I thought she was wearing red so she was wearing green and Frank knew and I
23:37did it and he's a great-looking guy and Lindsay's great-looking so I think it's a good match I
23:43can see
23:44some steam yeah come in where are you from originally Michigan moved to New York started
23:51a milk and dairy company milk and dairy Frank is so hot but I don't like to party party do
23:58you those
23:59days are long gone I have a 10 month old baby she's like the most perfect baby on earth it's
24:05been a
24:05while since I've gotten like flustered like this I'm gonna run to the restroom real quick I'll be right
24:12about it I'm like sweating a little I think Andrea brought this guy to introduce me to and I'm
24:18drinking an espresso martini and eating cheese and meats and I'm like I need to go to the bathroom
24:25and like spray something in my mouth I say oh yeah you're good
24:37how are you how are you how are you good to see it good to see you homie everything's good
24:45good good having us absolutely all right you want to get a cocktail what are you drinking
24:52oh hi how are you how are you um okay so can you order a drink yeah now I get
25:02it what is going on
25:04right now yeah tell me what's going on okay Danielle just showed up and gave me a kiss on the
25:09cheek to
25:09say hi like what she stiffed me for wanting to go out for coffee and a chat and now she
25:19can't even
25:19like say two sentences to me just feels like I'm a stranger to her now it just sucks what is
25:26happening
25:26around next time she looked at me and she was just like cold as ice makes me so sad
25:44this is Jackson's best friend isn't your dog yeah okay oh we're we're homies bro I just got the
25:50best hair in New York he gave you a mullet he's on his tiptoes well you said rock the mullet
25:54right
25:54yeah I did that was an era Kyle just keeps walking right past me does he even know that I'm
26:00here
26:00Kyle used to be a little more fun with a mullet now he's like uh you know growing up being
26:05don't tell
26:05me Nick there's Amanda I gotta say hi this place is busy I know why did you say hi to
26:12me I guess I
26:14walked by him I heard you your voice right behind me I said oh Kyle's here I walked in I
26:20could feel
26:20the vibrations in my chest of you talking I said my I think Kyle's here you know Amanda she's moving
26:26out but we're not separated we're just creating separation but it's confusing this is foreign
26:31territory I don't know how I'm supposed to act did you feed the dogs yeah did you take them out
26:38no
26:40it's still hard to believe this is happening
26:47I wanted to give a toast to Whitney we're all here as you know her welcome to New York she
26:54is
26:54the best person that I know and the best person in my life and I'm so excited to be dragging
27:00her
27:00across the country to New York on the subway we took the subway today for the first time she's
27:07an amazing woman go Whitney Katie I like that green on you thank you honey green's my favorite color oh
27:23thank you it's my sun saver color is that right he's obsessed with it though it's really weird green
27:28shoes green socks green underwear green shorts green shirt green jacket green hat that's adorable I love
27:34that it's a lot of laundry you want a drink yeah did you and Lindsay get the lace memo no
27:41this is fine
27:42I'm not gonna lie we don't talk so how would we I mean can I steal you every minute yeah
27:48100% fill me
27:49in on the tidbits because I've I've got a bone to pick as well I was joking because in it
27:54in an
27:55alternative universe you and Lindsay would have coordinated a little lace I didn't mean to like
28:00be insensitive I'm trying to broker a common ground we're too close-knit for there to be awkwardness
28:13just confront her now and squash it you own it she owns it she literally texted me that summer and
28:19she
28:19said you said something punchy the beach was harsh I mean we don't even live together let alone you don't
28:26live with this man and then he has put a baby inside you yeah and now she has all sorts
28:33of
28:33opinions about how you've carried yourself like Lindsay I don't want to say the word slut but she
28:41has opinions on your behavior before Carl and I get engaged she gave him a handjob in the back of
28:48an
28:49Uber a week after we broke up the word boy crazy has come up are you kidding me are you
28:58out of your
28:59mind bringing this to me don't freaking shoot the messenger now all of a sudden that I'm in a serious
29:07relationship you have this laundry list of issues with me about guys that I've dated I mean to call me
29:15boy crazy like I wouldn't be pointing in this direction like girl what do you think was going
29:23to come from that Kyle there's no chance I'm gonna go over me like hey can we have a conversation
29:27I'm
29:27so sorry about everything no thanks how's my skin excellent you're tan which means you were out in
29:35the Sun without sunscreen but I'll let it pass yeah it looks great for 45 so you're good 99%
29:41genetic
29:42honestly my job is the 1% okay okay can we talk yeah first of all lovely party lovely speech
29:52thank
29:52you for coming well thank you for inviting me um I did hear like you felt grilled by me at
30:00the Garrett
30:01right that's correct felt like you were grilling me interrogating me you were just me you were
30:09recruiting people literally you were like literally like come over here I was just asking you questions
30:14because that's how you get to know somebody this is who I am like I just I night question everyone
30:19in my life I'm a very curious person and I want to get to know everyone's interpersonal relationship
30:25I wish it felt genuine like that you think that that line of questioning was normal and that
30:33everyone in it's normal is it well I love that for you and your friends because it seems like you
30:39have a lot of disagreements a lot of people it's just like drama drama drama and it feels like it's
30:45just you're creating these narratives and I'm sorry that you don't like to hear the truth
30:51you're grilling me about moving a girl across the country after knowing her for a year
30:55you had a kid with a guy after in two months right so what's the problem about that the problem
31:00is
31:01don't project your insecurities on my relationship I'm not it feels like you are
31:15you're grilling me about moving a girl across the country after knowing her for a year
31:19you had a kid with a guy after in two months right so what's the problem about that the problem
31:25is
31:25don't project your insecurities on my relationship I'm not it feels like you are you're telling me
31:30that you and your personal life and the fact that you had this relationship with this guy and you
31:36have a child has nothing to do with the fact that you are on my commitment level it sounds like
31:42you're judging me no I don't need to be pressed on my commitment level can he act like he knows
31:47who I
31:48am and he doesn't know but I know narcissistic men and that's what he's giving right now so Whitney good
31:57luck you just asked me about bringing someone across the country without a ring I'm like no I didn't
32:02what I said was and maybe you're not remembering is wow she moved across the country for you without
32:08you putting a ring on her finger that shows no it's not I have multiple girlfriends that would
32:16never do that without a ring on their finger that's a you thing oh they're still going I don't really
32:22want to step in because I know I feel like you where like it's other people's problems online I
32:27obviously want to like stand up for my relationship and that's why I stepped into that conversation at the
32:31but I don't think she's questioning your relationship I think she wants the best for
32:35you and I think she's trying to protect you why is she trying to protect me like when we know
32:41what
32:42we're doing yeah that's like our plenty she's just like mama yeah just her personality I just think
32:50you have drama that follows you around everywhere you go I like I don't have time for drama I don't
32:55think about it you're in the middle of a fight with me in the middle of Whitney's welcome to New
32:59York
32:59party is that dramatic you're the one fighting with me okay thank you for inviting me I'm glad to
33:29you're gonna be spending all your time potentially you got a great soaking oh my god no it's a pool
33:40wait this is a hot
33:42tub I'm bringing Gemma to bathe in your tub oh Gemma wants bath time she can splash around I'm trying
33:49to find somewhere that's like furnished month to month outdoor space pet friendly with a doorman and has sunlight
33:58good size primary yeah and good lighting my bedroom right now faces like a brick wall so it's a dungeon
34:06I want to wake up with the sun beating on my face where I leave my house in the morning
34:12and I have sunburn
34:13all right and then there's the second bedroom oh my god also gets really great light you get a little
34:18bit
34:18of a water view here too beautiful yeah this gets really nice light more closets more closets this would
34:24be my closet like a clothis you know closet office situation I've never lived by myself before
34:30the last apartment I looked for before moving in with Kyle our budget was like next to nothing
34:35we were looking for like a two closet apartment you know not even a two bedroom just like give us
34:41two
34:41closets oh look at all the wine is the wine available for me I'll let you guys chat
34:50okay thank you so much yes all right have a good one thank you so much I mean it's a
34:55cool view it's
34:56really nice have you talked to your parents at all about any of them not yet oh I don't want
35:04to make
35:05them worried I get it especially at this point right now and like we're really on that brink of like
35:11will they won't they I hate change so much when I was younger I handcuffed myself to our cast iron
35:20railings in our house because my parents wanted to get beautiful new solid wooden ones and I did
35:26not want them to change them but at this point whatever I'm doing has not been enough and I need
35:33to make a bigger change that's scary I just want to be happy I just want to be with someone
35:38that like
35:38adores me he needs to just like understand that you're going to lose her if you don't get it
35:43together all right I heard you ate bread out of this trash bag I know you're like if it's this
35:53low
35:53it's fair game you know anymore all right hey Kyle Cook I love when you use my first and last
36:05name
36:06well uh fancy hearing from you in the middle of a work day I know I know how are you
36:12how how is
36:13surgery how's recovery um you know I'm doing well and dad got pre-cancerous melanoma and he's having
36:19that dug out tomorrow what the we're looking to 2026 to be a big comeback year all right same same
36:29for
36:29you oh yeah yeah this was a rough one I've been open to you guys about the business front and
36:36you
36:36know some of the challenges a man and I have had we had a pretty rough summer I told you
36:42bits and pieces
36:43of that yeah and kind of been in this place before where even if we have a good summer it
36:49quickly slips
36:50into us living kind of two different lives like we don't do anything together I mean like I'm like
36:58pickleball kickball traveling like oh tell me what you want to do she wants to go shopping you know
37:04marry me that's just weird moth um a man and I were like all right what are we what are
37:12we gonna do
37:12differently and I and her idea was some separation well not like we are separated but like I think
37:21she needs a fresh clean start and I need to feel like you know I can walk into my home
37:26and not feel
37:27like it's as cluttered and stressful as the rest of my life she was in the mindset like all right
37:32maybe
37:33we need like a month apart okay she was trying to find an apartment um this is big
37:43well we know you've been unhappy you guys for quite a while
37:51and uh you know I know you also have love for each other so it's you know I feel so
37:57sad
38:02um I just feel guilty because in in the heat of the moment she'll yell at me and tell me
38:08I've
38:09wasted 10 years of her life and like I don't really
38:17it's just like I've tried to make it work that's yeah that's not a good thing to hear
38:25you know but think of dad he was in a 10-year marriage he knows what feeling stuck feels like
38:33they had two kids so it was really hard to leave but he did and it gave me a chance
38:40to you know find
38:50this isn't like the end but it does feel like a huge drastic move I know
38:59like um
39:02it's just it's been a tough year
39:06I feel sad for you both
39:11I want to be with you
39:14you have the keys to my heart it's about time you get the keys to my apartment
39:21you're coming out and supporting lover boy means the world to us
39:26will you marry me
39:28yes so Kyle thinks he may or may not have covid
39:32no we can't catch a break with this wedding
39:38we can make it through this I feel like we can make it through anything
39:41you never gave up on us on our love and I promise to do the same
39:47I can't wait to spend a lifetime loving you
39:53there was a period of time we were building a life together building business together
39:59yeah I just never thought I'd be sitting here alone
40:05no I just feel like a failure
40:09you know I I think you can't you can't look at yourself as a failure
40:14the key thing is sweetie we want you happy
40:24next time on in the city
40:26look at us
40:27this makes me so happy right now
40:29guys gotta eventually just like chill out all right
40:32Wes has been fighting for this his whole life
40:34so you're a master in the streets but how are you in the sheets
40:38yeah
40:39that was a joke by the way
40:41so I finally found a place it is a year-long lease
40:46Kenny told me sometimes I worry if you don't have that spark
40:49you've moved your whole life here for him
40:52and like I will move it right back out