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00:20I was in my 20s when I first came out to the Hamptons.
00:24Now I'm 43.
00:25Back then, I didn't think this would be what my life would look like.
00:30All these years later, I might actually lose Amanda in everything that matters to me.
00:37This is a glimpse into what my future could look like, and it's lonely.
00:42Is this what I want?
00:43Like, I don't know.
01:05I can't imagine my life without Kyle in it.
01:08But no matter how badly I want to fix this relationship, I'm just not sure that I can.
01:15Something has to change, and I'm hoping that by me taking some time to myself and not going
01:21home with him, he'll realize, like, how serious I am about this.
01:24With all the moments moving on, I want it in before they're gone.
01:41Bombshell news.
01:42Summerhouse's Kyle and Amanda have broken up.
01:45Who do you think will be the first of the two of you to start dating?
01:48Me?
01:50What was your reaction to the West and Amanda rumors?
01:53No, I don't think there's any merit to it.
01:55What was your reaction to the rumors of you and Amanda?
01:57That's a friend.
01:58Okay.
01:59That's a friend.
02:01This news rocked the Bravosphere.
02:03These rumors are true.
02:04This is confirmed.
02:05Amanda and West are together.
02:21Hey.
02:21Hi.
02:22Still got that key of yours, huh?
02:24Yeah.
02:24Well, Ms. Ryder.
02:26Hi.
02:27How are you?
02:29How's Reese?
02:30They're chilling.
02:31Are you eating?
02:32You're looking skinny.
02:34I mean, what do you think?
02:35I'm worried about you.
02:36I'm worried about me, too.
02:41Can you sit on your couch?
02:42Yeah.
02:43My back's been bugging me.
02:44I'm going to sit over there.
02:45You're 43.
02:47No, I pulled it.
02:48I joined a new gym.
02:49So this week we had to do deadlifts.
02:51Oh.
02:53But I know we've been able to, like, somewhat keep in touch throughout all this.
02:57Yeah.
02:58And, like, I want to be there for you.
02:59But I also want to take an opportunity to, like, clear things up.
03:03Because I look back at the summer and you looked like you were done with me.
03:06And that's what's so frustrating is, like, I gave our relationship everything I had because I wanted the relationship to
03:14work so badly.
03:16And, like, the idea of, like, not existing with you in my life was so impossible for me to wrap
03:22my head around.
03:23And it's what made it so hard to, like, call it quits.
03:27Which is why I got so f***ing messy because I was so afraid that once we ended things, like, we
03:33would just be out of each other's lives forever.
03:35And, like, I couldn't handle that.
03:37But I'm going to be honest, I can pinpoint these instances during the summer and fall where I'm like, damn,
03:43she wasn't just one foot out.
03:44She was fully out the door.
03:46Like, that's how it looked.
03:47I was done to an extent.
03:49I was tired.
03:51I had nothing left in me to fight.
03:53But I was still trying to give it everything I had.
03:58Can you honestly say, though, that, like, right through Thanksgiving, for that matter, even if it was an emotional affair
04:05with West?
04:05Nothing was happening.
04:07But I hear things.
04:08I was so committed to you throughout the whole f***ing thing.
04:11And all I wanted was for it to make it work and for you to even question my, like, faithfulness
04:16in any capacity just, like, really f***ing hurts.
04:19Because that's not the type of person that I am.
04:22Like, I would step out on you or cheat.
04:24Like, I've been cheated on by you.
04:25I had a one-night stand.
04:27Kyle, you made out with someone when you were married.
04:29Says who?
04:30There's a video.
04:32Okay.
04:33My point is, I would never do that to someone else.
04:37I know you're not a bad person.
04:38I think you were reckless and thoughtless, if I'm being honest.
04:42But in all of this, I'm still trying to be a good friend to you.
04:46And I appreciate that.
04:47I mean, I worry about you.
04:48I worry about your mental health.
04:49I worry about your...
04:50Yeah.
04:50I mean, it's not your responsibility, but I appreciate that.
04:55Just know that, like, everything that happens here forward is because I care about you.
05:02It's not because I'm like, oh, maybe we rekindle things.
05:05It's because I care.
05:06I know.
05:10And I care about you in the same f***ing way.
05:14We love each other because there's a version of each of us that we both fell in love with for
05:20a f***ing reason.
05:24Which makes me so f***ing upset.
05:34Like, that someone else gets, like, the version that I fell in love with.
05:37Like, that someone else gets, like, the version that I fell in love with.
06:09Oh, my God.
06:11Hi, baby.
06:13Hi, Angel.
06:15Hi, Angel.
06:17Since becoming a mom, my life has been chaos.
06:22Breakfast.
06:24I know, baby.
06:26There is no question that this is my daughter.
06:29Are you stress eating?
06:33When, like, I give a death stare to someone, like, Gemma gives a death stare.
06:38Like, I cloned myself and then gave birth.
06:41We got to change you, girl.
06:42My friends and I are all entering a new chapter of adulthood and dealing with the big questions.
06:48But what I'm worried about is if I'm ever going to have sex again.
06:53I haven't had sex in nine months, okay?
06:55I used to shoot, like, rainbows and butterflies out of my vagina.
06:59Can you f*** me?
07:01Oh.
07:02Oh.
07:02Oh, girl.
07:07Oh, my God.
07:09You can call me Nurse Hard Papiltations.
07:11This is so hot.
07:13I probably would have had sex when I got the all-clear from my doctor six weeks after giving birth.
07:19You're, like, wrestling an alligator, girl.
07:21But then I got broken up with.
07:24And so it's been a while.
07:26A long while.
07:28We did it.
07:29I love being a mom.
07:32But I would not have been able to get through this last year without my support system.
07:38Uh-oh.
07:40Morning, Taylor!
07:42Yay!
07:44Yay!
07:45Miss Liz is here!
07:47I have my nanny, Liz, and I have my girlfriends.
07:51Hi.
07:52Hi.
07:53Is this brunch?
07:54I thought we were going to, like, brunch.
07:56Some kind of fun.
07:56And, I mean, this is fun, but.
08:00Yvonne and I have been best friends for 13 years.
08:04The minute me and my ex broke up, I went to Yvonne's house, and she was, like, milking my tits
08:10into a bowl while drinking tequila.
08:13She forgot her portable breast pump at home.
08:16And I'm, like, sitting there milking her boob.
08:19And I, like, called Nick.
08:20I was like, babe, don't come home right now.
08:22It's not a good time.
08:23Me and Nick, we went out to dinner.
08:25The wine was flowing.
08:27One of the best parts about being a parent is that you have to be a parent even when you're
08:30hungover.
08:31Georgina is one of my mom friends.
08:34When I got pregnant, Georgina was the first person I called.
08:37I didn't call all my happily married friends.
08:39I'm going to call a girl who had a f***ed up life.
08:42My life is a disaster.
08:45When I was 32 weeks pregnant with a toddler, a dog, and a broken ankle in New York City in
08:50the cold, my ex left.
08:52And I went a little crazy.
08:54Let's be honest.
08:55Oh, cuckoo.
08:57I'm surprised I'm not on Snapped.
08:59The world would end if men had to hug babies.
09:02The world would actually end.
09:03It's important for me to show Gemma what a strong female role model looks like.
09:07And to pave your own way.
09:09And not rely on men.
09:12Because clearly we can't.
09:23Where were the baby needs?
09:24Where are the baby needs?
09:25I don't know.
09:26Oh, maybe down here.
09:27Are you grocery shopping with us?
09:29She loves the groceries.
09:31Does she?
09:31So many colors.
09:32Does Gemma ever eat this stuff?
09:35Oh, I haven't tried any of these.
09:37My dog loves them.
09:40Beef in a bag?
09:41Yeah, blended beef.
09:42Reese is getting a snack?
09:44Yeah, she gets snack.
09:46I don't know about all that.
09:47What are you hungry for?
09:49Yeah, that's my cute girl.
09:51Yeah.
09:52I haven't seen you in a couple weeks since we left the house.
09:55Yeah, you seemed like a little off.
09:58That weekend was a little nuts.
10:00Yeah, it was kind of crazy.
10:01I, like, didn't know what to say.
10:04Um, but I ended up staying in a hotel.
10:11Like, two nights.
10:12What?
10:14Yeah.
10:15Dude.
10:16Yeah, I didn't want to fall into the routine of going back to the apartment, diving into the same old
10:23business.
10:24Nothing ever gets discussed.
10:26Now that I'm back home, obviously we're going to couples counseling right now.
10:29But she made a comment to us in therapy where she was like, you guys hate each other.
10:36She said that?
10:37Yeah.
10:38I want some fruit.
10:40After therapy, we just, like, talked in the park.
10:43And he, like, made a comment to me, like, maybe I should get my own place.
10:50I feel stupid for wanting someone to change who has showed no hope and still doesn't understand what my issues
10:56are with that.
10:57I can't be around, in our home, around you if it continues how it's going.
11:02Your solution is that I should move out.
11:06What did you say when he was like, you should get another apartment?
11:09Sierra had mentioned what if we spent some time apart.
11:13Would it be a crazy idea if you guys physically just separated for a month?
11:18Have you talked to her about us taking some time away from each other?
11:24Yeah.
11:26I know.
11:27Gemma has a lot to say about this.
11:28She really does.
11:29You guys haven't been partners for a very long time.
11:32Yeah.
11:32I don't know if you've ever been partners.
11:33But he has strong resentment that has built over so many years.
11:37And you guys are just now tackling that in couples therapy.
11:40But it might be too late.
11:46Coming up, in order for you to move across the entire country without a commitment such as a ring, it's
11:53a very big deal.
11:54I'm getting I Hate Men Vials.
12:10It's like the perfect day for this.
12:13I'm going to like remember the first time we came here.
12:16I mean, it must have been like first start dating, right?
12:19Yeah, in the beginning.
12:20Call me romantic.
12:21You know, I love love.
12:23Wow.
12:23Oh, my God.
12:24Wow.
12:25My love.
12:27I'm just shocked how cute this outfit is.
12:30Oh, my God.
12:32You know when it's the right one.
12:33And clearly Lexi, she's a princess.
12:35She is the real deal out of a fairy tale.
12:40I always dreamed of like having my own Prince Charming.
12:47Like I could be with Andrea every second of the day.
12:50And I would never get tired of him.
12:52I think we're like one person sometimes.
12:54When we come do this stuff, it's a reminder of like why I love this city.
13:04And I always forget how beautiful it is.
13:07Before I met Andrea, I always told my mom that I wanted to get married in Disney World at the
13:12castle.
13:13And it's just funny because I ended up getting married in a castle with a real one in Italy.
13:19It was so magical.
13:21We had so many of our friends coming to see us.
13:24We had Lindsey, we had Kyle.
13:26Kyle was there by himself.
13:27Baby Gemma was there.
13:28Yeah, baby Gemma was there.
13:30Baby Gemma was there.
13:31We found out after, but, you know, there was a rumor.
13:33Danielle got the bouquet, so you never know.
13:36She may be next.
13:46You're not holding the right grip.
13:48Go, go.
13:49Over your shoulder.
13:50Over your shoulder.
13:51Over your shoulder.
13:54Oh.
13:56Home run.
13:57I quit.
13:58Looked good though.
14:00I am not a tennis player.
14:02You're doing this.
14:03You're doing your palms up like that.
14:04It needs to be down.
14:05It's an expensive sport, so to get a coach this good.
14:08Like, wrap it around your shoulder.
14:09Don't just stop here.
14:10Okay.
14:11For free.
14:12For free.
14:16Owen is an amazing tennis player and also my boyfriend.
14:20Still love me?
14:21We met nine years ago and then life happened.
14:24We went our separate ways, had other relationships.
14:27We moved in different ways and then rekindled.
14:30You could say you slid back into my DMs.
14:32I slid back in your DMs.
14:33I'm like sweating in places that one shouldn't sweat.
14:36I'm getting into the tennis.
14:37You have to get into my stuff too.
14:39I'll try and get more baseball games with you.
14:41It'd be nice to do a lot more things with you.
14:44Before we, you know, try to have babies.
14:49I'm turning 37 in December.
14:52I would love to have a baby by 38.
14:53I'd love to do it with you and I want to do it with you.
14:55I'd definitely want to be engaged as well before.
15:00Owen and I have been together for six months and living together for one.
15:05You at the Basel?
15:06We're going in there too.
15:08No?
15:08I don't know.
15:09You like it just with the Basel?
15:10Don't go rogue, okay?
15:11I'm saying Basel now.
15:12It's fast, but I feel like, you know...
15:15Doesn't feel fast, does.
15:16Once you feel like it's it, it's like you just fly headfirst in that direction.
15:19And biologically, I probably should rush.
15:23You know, I'm so excited about you, but with Lindsay, you know, it sucks because, like,
15:27she doesn't even know.
15:28She doesn't even know about you.
15:29And, like, that's so weird.
15:30Like, I would love to be able to share that with her.
15:34The last time I spoke to her was maybe four months ago.
15:37That's weird for us because we go back so, so many years.
15:42Listen, you're crushing it at work.
15:44You're sexy as great.
15:47You're great.
15:47Your AMH level came back at 3.8.
15:50Oh, my God!
15:52I mean, I took glass to the chest for her.
15:54I'm fucking Lindsay.
15:56You mother of fucking sex.
15:59Like, I was just like, what did I do?
16:01I mean, I met her baby, Gemma, like, right at the beginning.
16:05And then I feel like she just kind of ghosted on our friendship.
16:09It just sucks that we have, like, such big things going on in, like, our world.
16:13And I hate that it's awkward now.
16:36Hey, what up, man?
16:39Good?
16:40Yeah.
16:40Figured it's still nice out.
16:41We take the...
16:42Take the outside?
16:43Yep.
16:44You got the...
16:46The black shirt, man, on?
16:47You got the black on black.
16:48It's New York.
16:50Kenny and I met in a very stereotypical New York way.
16:54Like, we had a lot of different mutual friends.
16:56If I were to guess, it's been at least 10 years.
16:58Kenny is smart, he's driven, he's connected.
17:01He is the epitome of work hard, play hard guy.
17:04I think we relate.
17:05We're both building businesses.
17:07We both also like to go out and have a drink and enjoy the city.
17:12Wait, what are you smirking about?
17:14He's a bit of a lush.
17:16But he's outspoken and he's fun.
17:18It's hard to, like, tame that.
17:21You know what I mean?
17:21It's just part of his personality.
17:23So, what's going on with Loverboy?
17:25The last real financial update that I got was October of last year.
17:29Yeah, I've been dragging my feet.
17:30There's been so many moving parts, changes.
17:33I had to lay off five people last week.
17:35I put $500,000 of my own money in.
17:38I literally needed to keep the lights on.
17:40For a lot of years, Kenny worked on Wall Street.
17:43Did really, really well for himself.
17:44Growing up in the Midwest, I could have never imagined the life that I'm living now.
17:49I was never supposed to be the black guy from Michigan working at the investment bank.
17:54But eventually, 15 years later, you start to believe that you do belong.
17:58Six years ago, I ended up leaving Wall Street to start venture capital investing.
18:03I invested in Loverboy on the very first raise.
18:06There was a point where I'm like, just sell the company.
18:08Like, punt it.
18:09Trust me, if I could have sold the business two years ago, I would have.
18:12I took money from friends and family.
18:14Like, at one point, I was going to give everyone a 25x return on their money.
18:18Like, 25x their money.
18:21Now, I'm basically on the financial brink of disaster.
18:25Oh, by the way, like, I stopped paying myself a salary at Loverboy.
18:28I don't think I realized you weren't taking the salary anymore.
18:30That's one of the reasons why I started DJing, to pay the bills.
18:33If I don't find a partner, either to buy Loverboy or take on our operations,
18:38we will go out of business by the end of this year.
18:41I get it.
18:41You're axed against the wall, and you've gone all in on this.
18:44But, you know, talk to me.
18:46Let's talk through the debt.
18:47Let's talk through, you know, the downsizing.
18:48Look, I appreciate your patience.
18:51It's good advice.
18:53My communication skills across the board can improve.
18:58Professionally and personally, it's been kind of a rough summer between my business and my marriage.
19:02It's a bit of a perfect storm.
19:03What's the latest with Amanda?
19:05When we came home from the Hamptons, Amanda spent a couple nights in the hotel.
19:09We've, no matter what kind of stuff we've been through, we always go home together.
19:13I went home solo, and our four-year wedding anniversary is literally next week.
19:18I feel like we're living very different lives.
19:20Yeah.
19:21And we want very different things.
19:22I love Amanda.
19:24I think she's a great person.
19:25But I don't think she's ever really been able to meet you on an energetic level where you're at.
19:30Think about Friendsgiving three years ago.
19:34You gave me a similar update.
19:36Yeah, because I come solo to everything.
19:37You come solo.
19:38You always show up solo.
19:39Doesn't go unnoticed.
19:40You have to ask a question.
19:41Like, if we met right now, today, the person that I am now and the person that she is now,
19:47would we be together?
19:51Whitney wakes up.
19:52The girl's happy.
19:52Let's go.
19:53She has a love for life.
19:54She's a breath of fresh air.
19:55She's just got really good energy.
19:57I'm just going to know Whitney, but she seems awesome.
20:00I know.
20:01Cobblestone streets of New York, bud.
20:03Whitney's my girlfriend.
20:05We've been dating officially for six months, unofficially for about a year.
20:09She is a sweet, sweet angel from the heavens.
20:14Hold on.
20:15Oh, we're going to poop in the middle of the street.
20:17That's lovely.
20:20This is a massive milestone.
20:22She's moving across the country to move in with me.
20:25You're a city boy now.
20:26I'm originally from Minnesota, Midwest girl.
20:28I'm just a sucker for love.
20:30My parents were high school sweethearts, and, like, I'm somebody who is meant to be a mom and a wife.
20:35That's why I did The Bachelor.
20:37But I think I was eight out of 30 girls I lasted.
20:40I just really wanted to find love.
20:43Let's go, buddy.
20:43This is the first time I've moved across the country for somebody.
20:47It's definitely a little scary.
20:48But, like, I wouldn't be doing it if I didn't think Kenny was my person.
20:54I'm honestly, like, excited for you guys.
20:55She seems like an absolute doll.
20:57She's just always happy.
20:59Always, you know, positive.
21:01But, like, my biggest fear is, like, hurting her in some kind of way.
21:04Or, like, it not working out in some kind of way.
21:06And there's concerns, right?
21:08Like what?
21:09Like, you know, sometimes you go in a relationship and you feel this spark and this buzz and this fire
21:13where you're, like, this is my person.
21:15I'm going to marry you.
21:17Instant boner.
21:17Yeah.
21:18And it's hard to know for me, like, is the, like, this is the one and I know it for
21:23sure spark there.
21:24Yeah.
21:25And so I'm trying to figure that out.
21:29It's tricky.
21:30Yeah.
21:34Coming up.
21:36Hi.
21:39I'm going to talk to her.
21:40No, I don't need negative energy in my life.
22:00Hi.
22:02Switch it up tonight.
22:04You're going to do a tequila?
22:05Always.
22:06You got to warm up.
22:07What's up, brother?
22:09Good to see you.
22:09Stop spilling.
22:11You nervous?
22:12The Guerra is a New York City institution.
22:15Lindsay is right there.
22:16Look at the strut.
22:17Zoe's basketball.
22:18She can't see me.
22:19Ciao.
22:20Ciao.
22:21Ciao, Lindsay.
22:22It's a speakeasy.
22:23You have to walk through a burger shop to get there.
22:28I love the Guerra.
22:29And I'm not just saying that because my best friend owns it and I maybe drink for free.
22:33Hi, guys.
22:34That spray tan looks sexy on you, baby.
22:37It does.
22:37I see you.
22:39I used to have on my phone access to the video, the surveillance.
22:44I think you're allowed to say that.
22:48It's creepy.
22:50Okay.
22:51Okay.
22:51I did not used to have access to the surveillance camera to, like, see if it was, like, a good
22:56vibe.
22:56And then I'd pop over and it was like, hey.
22:59Like, is there hot girls there?
23:01Hi.
23:02Do you bring Gemma?
23:03No.
23:04Just kidding.
23:05So it's my baby daddy.
23:06You have a night off.
23:07Do you want a drink?
23:08Yeah.
23:08Water and a margarita.
23:09Skinny, spicy?
23:11Yeah.
23:11Okay.
23:12How'd you know?
23:13I know.
23:14I need somebody to do my Botox in New York.
23:17I'm sure you got a lot of clientele in Tribeca.
23:19Yeah.
23:19Tribeca's for people who are too rich for the Upper East Side.
23:23We're all past our first year of marriage.
23:26Oh, yes.
23:27Cheers to that.
23:28We did it.
23:29A little bit over a year.
23:30So far, so good.
23:31In our friend group, there are people in all sorts of different situations, which is amazing.
23:36We met Andrea and Lexi through Lindsay.
23:39Our lives are very similar.
23:40Like, we got married within a few months of each other.
23:43We're both talking about starting families.
23:45All four of us are supermodels.
23:49Bernie told me you wanted spicy skinny.
23:51Thank you so much.
23:52Destiny, you're the man.
23:54Cheers.
23:54Cheers, cheers.
23:57Where's Kyle?
24:07All right.
24:11I know the therapist was like, let's meet tomorrow.
24:14Probably not the greatest sign.
24:16No, we're moving backwards.
24:18Her words.
24:22I'm just feeling like, almost like more confused.
24:24No, it was very evident because you're just negative the whole time.
24:28Like, everything was a but this, but that.
24:30Like, we're supposed to be doing things that are moving us in the right direction.
24:33And you have a DJ event that ends at 2, you go out after, and you come home at 4
24:38o'clock in the morning last night.
24:39The night before therapy.
24:41Here I am at therapy trying to make it work because I don't want to call it quits.
24:45But you're not giving me any hope.
24:50I'm like sweating.
24:51I need to go.
24:52You're wearing a coat in summer.
24:54It's not a raincoat.
25:04I just, like, I don't know what you want.
25:07Amanda.
25:08What?
25:10Look, you're struggling in your ways.
25:12I'm struggling in mine.
25:13Like, I just want to be happy, and I want to feel like you want to be with me.
25:16I'm in therapy with you.
25:18I'm making efforts.
25:19I'm doing things.
25:20I'm not going backwards.
25:25Can we just...
25:26Can we what?
25:27Can we get going?
25:28I don't think I'm meeting you guys out.
25:30Why not?
25:31I'm exhausted.
25:32I don't want to put on a face with all of our friends.
25:34I'm going home.
25:35Okay.
25:43You know what's funny?
25:45Growing up in Minnesota, I always thought, like, New York felt so intimidating, and people are actually, like,
25:50way more open and nice here.
25:51York's the best.
25:52It's exciting.
25:53I love it here.
25:53I feel like it's also, like, kind of romantic to move to New York with your boyfriend.
25:58I'm very excited about them.
25:59Like, she's a doll.
26:00She brings the best out in him.
26:02Like, we've traveled a bunch.
26:03They don't fight.
26:04How long have you been dating?
26:05Uh, we...
26:06Our first date was around a year ago.
26:09Okay.
26:10But then we slow played it for a while.
26:13Kenny was playing around, being a playboy with me.
26:18He was.
26:19Hold on.
26:19Let me be very clear.
26:20My mother was passing.
26:22I went through a very challenging time.
26:23I maybe wasn't the best version of myself to come out of that.
26:27And it's...
26:27I appreciate that.
26:28What stage of grief is the boy's thing?
26:34That's...
26:34The stages of grief.
26:38Anger, pain, around.
26:42You know, honestly, though, we're just kind of, like, seeing where this goes.
26:45Like, we love each other.
26:47She's a fucking doll.
26:49She moved across the country before the ring.
26:51I think from a girl's perspective, right, it is a lot.
26:57I'll sit with you.
26:57Come join us.
26:58Come join us.
26:59Oh, we're just grilling Kenny.
27:01Or, I mean, I'm grilling Kenny.
27:03Oh, my gosh.
27:04I'm saying it's a big commitment to move across the country for a guy.
27:08This is now a panel.
27:09This is a panel.
27:10This is a panel.
27:11I'm getting honest.
27:12No, you stay.
27:13You stay.
27:13You stay.
27:13You stay.
27:14No, no, I stay.
27:14Stay over there.
27:15Why?
27:15They're grilling me on you moving in, like, our relationship.
27:20I said to Kenny that in order for you to move across the entire country without a commitment
27:26such as a ring is a very big deal.
27:30You can't around with this, like, at all.
27:33I'm getting I hate men vibes.
27:34I'm just allergic to, like, annoying men.
27:46You don't have to be engaged moving together, like, newsflash.
27:50That's not what I was saying.
27:51I'm saying it's a big commitment to move across the country for a guy.
27:54If you love each other, it feels small.
27:57I only know of Kenny socially through Gavin and Kyle, so I'm just trying to get to know
28:02you.
28:02If you feel like I'm pressing you and I'm asking very generic questions, that sounds
28:08like a you problem.
28:09In this expansive chapter of a lot happening, it's nice to not do everything at once.
28:13We know what we're doing.
28:14We're not rushing it.
28:15Are you feeling attacked right now?
28:17Well, there's a panel of people.
28:25What's up?
28:27Where's the wife here?
28:28She's not coming to the lights.
28:30What's up?
28:31Is the man looking for a shape?
28:32No, no, no.
28:32She, um, she is laying low.
28:35You want to grab a drink?
28:36Yeah, yeah, sorry.
28:36My mom tells me I have great nail beds.
28:39You do have good nail beds.
28:41How are you?
28:42I mean, I haven't seen you since we left the house.
28:45It's been just, like, a whirlwind of, like, mixed emotions.
28:47Amanda told me that she stayed in a hotel for a couple of days.
28:51Yeah.
28:54How does that make you feel?
28:55Despite all the ups and downs, we've never not left the head to stick out.
28:59Yeah.
28:59I get more and more confused the further we get into this couple's therapy.
29:04Therapy is very confusing because you're all of a sudden unpacking years and years and years of things that you
29:10have not addressed.
29:12I bet you miss me, miss me.
29:14I bet you miss me, don't ya?
29:16Hi.
29:18She clearly is able to express herself in those moments.
29:21I'll admit, I struggled all summer.
29:23Hi.
29:25How's my baby?
29:27What are you doing?
29:28Oh, my God.
29:30Oh, my God.
29:31I have to pee.
29:32I love you.
29:34She likes vodka or tequila?
29:36Both.
29:37Both.
29:37Hey, buddy, how are you?
29:38Good thing.
29:39How are you?
29:39I'm in.
29:40Oh.
29:41What's that?
29:42T-T.
29:42Yeah?
29:44What did you get?
29:46Well, like, probably like a tequila margarita vibe.
29:49Danielle wants it.
29:50Are you going to talk to her?
29:51No, I'm just going to avoid her.
29:53I can't give any more passes.
29:55I don't need negative competitive energy in my life.
30:00You want people around you that are celebrating you when exciting things happen.
30:05Yeah.
30:06I'm certainly not going to create space in my life for somebody who just, like, shits
30:10on me every chance that they get.
30:12Every year, it's something.
30:14Let me just pull it up.
30:18Do you have it in your phone?
30:22Yeah, I have it in my phone.
30:24Season four.
30:26Pearl and I try to date.
30:27You need to stop yelling at me.
30:28You're insulting me.
30:29Talk to me like a human.
30:31Didn't work out.
30:32He breaks up with me one week later, she's giving him a handjob in the back of an Uber.
30:38And then, do I really need to talk about the engagement?
30:41Just splash back.
30:42At this very moment, Carl's probably down on one knee, opposing Lindsay.
30:47That's so up for everything that I've done for that friendship.
30:51You're a monster.
30:52Jesus Christ.
30:53Well, you won't be invited.
30:55No, I know.
30:57And then I'm pregnant.
30:58And she's making all these comments.
31:00I mean, we don't even live together.
31:02You don't live together?
31:03And he has put a baby inside you?
31:05Yeah.
31:06I just don't want it to feel like you're single-momming this up.
31:11Stop shitting on me.
31:13It's so shitting because, like, there's a new hole.
31:16Right.
31:16I've got a new, like, thing in my life that I feel like it's such a big deal.
31:20And I'm, like, not sharing it with somebody who wants best friends.
31:24I don't even know what's in the old guy's name.
31:26Owen?
31:27On?
31:29On?
31:30Is his name with On or On?
31:31Hi.
31:32Oh, let's see this.
31:32Say hi.
31:34You two should say hi.
31:35I wanted to say hi, but I was wondering if maybe you might be open to, like, a lunch or
31:41a coffee next week or something.
31:44Whenever you're free.
31:46Can I think about it?
31:47I'm a little busy these days.
31:52What's that, newborn?
31:53Yeah.
31:54Yeah.
31:54I get it.
31:55Bye.
31:56Love you all.
31:58I don't get it, if I can be honest.
32:00There's been so many things.
32:02Carl and I got engaged.
32:03She had a freakout.
32:04Before Carl and I got engaged, she gave him a handjob in the back of an Uber a week after
32:10we broke up.
32:11Like, that's a f***ing thing.
32:12First of all, handjobs just suck it, gentlemen.
32:15Fine.
32:15I'm just saying.
32:16I bet you wish you had anything.
32:18Oh, I would, I would, I have to pay a lot of money for a handjob right now.
32:20Yeah, but you wish you had any f***ing job.
32:24True.
32:27Rhyme with me, all my girls, all my girls with me.
32:29Woo!
32:32Oh, my girls, what's it, ride with me, I'm a savage.
32:35All my girls, what's it, they want it, they can have it.
32:42Georgina.
32:43Hi.
32:44Hi.
32:44Hello.
32:46You guys look so nice.
32:48We're beginning to steal you.
32:49Are you coming out with us?
32:51Just come out in your scrubs.
32:53No, she needs to change.
32:54Do you even have anything here?
32:55Have you not seen this?
32:56No.
32:57Welcome to my humble abode.
33:01What?
33:03Makeup bag.
33:04Casual clothes.
33:06Black tie.
33:07Could be with heels.
33:08And in the little sterile package.
33:10What?
33:10Draws and underwear.
33:12It's so helpful having mom friends like Georgina.
33:15She just gets it.
33:17She has a full dermatology practice in Tribeca.
33:21All right, I'm going to have you scrunch first, actually.
33:22Good.
33:23You okay?
33:23Yeah.
33:25A lot of the days, I'm like, look how cool I am.
33:27Tribeca, Durham, raising kids.
33:29Look at me.
33:30I'm doing it all.
33:31You change.
33:32We'll be outside.
33:33I need four minutes.
33:34And then the other day, my daughter, Eloise, she looks me dead in the eye and then ate dog
33:39food.
33:41So you know what I did?
33:42I looked at the nutrition facts on the dog food.
33:44Cure protein.
33:45So I was like, you know what, hun?
33:47Go nuts.
33:49Really?
33:49Oh my God.
33:50Oh my God, you look gorgeous.
33:51You look like a princess.
33:53Oh my gosh, I'm going out with the milk tonight.
33:55Milk city tonight.
34:06Here we are.
34:08Here, let me just tell Amanda that we are on the roof in the back.
34:13I feel so bad for Amanda and Kyle.
34:16Like, it's not good.
34:17They have very separate lives.
34:20Amanda didn't pay rent for the last three years.
34:22He didn't care?
34:23No, so then he tallied it all up and charged her last week.
34:27No.
34:28No, it's just, I swear to God.
34:29I did not.
34:30Charged her last week.
34:31So then she had to pay him.
34:32He has a spreadsheet of like all this money that I owed him.
34:35So now you owe him three years back date.
34:38I already paid it.
34:40No sweat off my back.
34:40Yeah, last week.
34:42Okay, now I know where the resentment's coming from.
34:49These freaking bangs.
34:51Hi, guys.
34:52Wait, but they look great.
34:53I don't want to try it.
34:54Oh, look at us.
34:55We're color-cordinated.
34:56Oh, are we?
34:56I love that.
34:58Hi, guys.
34:59I'm not going to lie to you.
35:00I was catching them up a little bit.
35:02We were talking about you.
35:04We were talking about you.
35:04Okay, as long as we said.
35:05We got it in a bad way.
35:06Okay, I have one request.
35:07I got it.
35:08No more talking about me for the rest of the night.
35:11Okay.
35:11I want to hear about your problems.
35:13I want to hear gossip.
35:14I need the tea.
35:15I need the drama.
35:15Can we talk about my plans with Nick?
35:18Well, he decided he's not ready in this moment to be a dad.
35:21Is he nervous or just not ready?
35:23Yeah, I think he's nervous.
35:25He's a great dog, dad.
35:26Nick and I have a great relationship.
35:29So when we first got married, we definitely hit, like, a few bumps in the road.
35:35I was under the impression that we were going to start trying to have a family.
35:38But every time I brought it up to him, it felt like he was pushing off the conversation.
35:43I was so annoyed with him.
35:45I was like, you know what?
35:46I'm just going to go to San Diego and not tell him.
35:50I hopped on a plane.
35:52Then, like, a few days go by.
35:55Mwah!
35:56How was your day?
35:57And this guy hasn't even noticed that I'm not there.
36:02Where's your mom?
36:03I had to show him, like, a few true crime docs after that.
36:07Because I was like, if something did happen to me, you would be the first person that would be under
36:12investigation.
36:14In.
36:15I'm telling you, men are always the problem.
36:17They're always the problem.
36:18And they can have babies until they're, like, 100.
36:21Very respectful.
36:21It's not you.
36:22It's not you.
36:23Just start trying.
36:24How long does semen live in your body for, like, 72 hours?
36:28Just start turkey basting.
36:30Put it on ice.
36:34What else can we fill Amanda in on?
36:36Like, what happened at the garret?
36:38Okay, so Danielle showed up last night.
36:40Oh, yeah.
36:41Oh, my God.
36:41Okay, so this is what I heard from Katie.
36:44She's moving in with this man who's still married.
36:47What?
36:48That's why that thing went up, like, that blind item.
36:51What?
36:52What?
36:54She was talking about having kids with him in the fall.
36:57No.
36:57You're blowing my mind right now.
36:59I need you to stop.
37:00She's hypocritical.
37:01Who does that?
37:02Not a girl's girl.
37:20Ah.
37:21Ah, yes.
37:24Perfect.
37:24All right.
37:25Happy anniversary.
37:26Happy anniversary.
37:28Four years.
37:31Oh, that's nice.
37:34In spite of everything that's been going down recently, it is our wedding anniversary.
37:39And I don't care if maybe the last time we went on an actual date was a year ago.
37:43Guess what?
37:44There's no way we're not doing something.
37:46You guys ready to order?
37:47Yes.
37:47Yes.
37:48Remind me the mozzarella stick with caviar.
37:51Just eat the cheese and caviar.
37:52The fancy mozzarella stick.
37:53Absolutely.
37:54Oysters.
37:55And escargot.
37:56For sure.
37:57Thank you so much.
37:58I actually feel like we're in a decent place heading into this anniversary just because
38:02we've gotten some of the things off our chest.
38:04I would say we're both optimistic, which is great because that's not the case just a couple
38:10weeks ago.
38:10What do you guys have to celebrate?
38:12We're celebrating the fact that anyone that said we'd get divorced within three years was
38:18wrong.
38:18We made it to four.
38:21I know therapy hasn't been a walk in the park, but I appreciate you doing it with me.
38:26Yeah.
38:28I want to be feeling like we're moving forward in therapy.
38:32Do you feel like we're moving forward in therapy?
38:34Because I don't.
38:35After therapy, I've felt lower than I've ever felt in a really long time.
38:44And it's difficult to go back to the apartment and just like, you happen to call, let's go
38:50walk the dogs, time to do this, like.
38:54It hasn't been easy.
38:56But like, for me, like that, I struggle with that a lot.
39:01It's not going the way that I really want it to.
39:06I'm going to move out.
39:15I know it's our anniversary.
39:16Like, I'm not bringing this up.
39:18Like, I'm out.
39:18I'm leaving.
39:19And this isn't like a permanent.
39:20This is like a month.
39:22This is not to end the relationship.
39:25This is something I think that needs to be done to help us.
39:29I want to like date again.
39:31I want to get together and like spend time like this.
39:36And it's difficult to explain.
39:38I'm not doing this to run away.
39:40I'm doing this because I want this to work out.
39:44I'm not saying this is like, we can't see each other for a month.
39:47This is like, you come to my place.
39:49I go to your place.
39:50We have movie nights and date nights.
39:52It's still spending time together.
39:56It's a lot to swallow.
39:57But like, I'm trying to be like open-minded and understand.
40:01I appreciate that.
40:02Can you just promise me this?
40:03If I agree to separate.
40:05It's not an agreement thing.
40:06That's a decision I'm making.
40:08If I give you my...
40:11It's not your blessing.
40:12If I'm here...
40:13I'm doing it.
40:15It's all you.
40:18I don't know if there's a playbook.
40:19I don't know how I'm supposed to feel or act.
40:22So I'm just trying to embrace this idea and be supportive.
40:26It feels extreme.
40:28And I'm not sold on this being the solution.
40:30I've never heard of a couple physically separating, but not separating.
40:35And using that as a tool to get back together.
40:40But maybe this is what we need.
40:43How are we doing, guys?
40:44Doing well.
40:45How are you doing?
40:45Great.
40:46We're just out for an anniversary dinner.
40:48Anniversary dinner?
40:49Yeah.
40:49These are the apps.
40:50Four years.
40:51We're going to a restaurant, I promise.
40:53Congrats to the four years.
40:55It's been smooth sailing.
40:58I believe it.
40:59I believe you.
41:00Does that laugh confirm it?
41:01No bumps in this road, I'll tell you that.
41:08This season on In the City.
41:11That guy just burp on me.
41:13Summer should be fun.
41:14Even in the fall.
41:15I could faint over Botox in my ass.
41:18In your butt?
41:19It's called Buttox.
41:20I can't believe my stuff's going to be here this week.
41:22I don't need anybody questioning our relationship.
41:25I'm sorry that you don't like to hear the f***ing truth.
41:28I got you a little something.
41:30You know what that's called?
41:31Manipulation.
41:32You can only get pregnant for 12 hours.
41:35I thought about our conversations around having a baby.
41:40Something that I wanted my entire life.
41:42A family that was taken away from me.
41:45I'm choosing partners that continue to abandon me.
41:48I've never been happier in my entire life.
41:51Lindsay gets the internet sleuth on my man.
41:53You f***ing Christ!
41:54I'm also so mad that you wore a white dress at my wedding.
41:58It's f***ing pinky, bitch.
41:59Everyone bows down to Lindsay and I'm sick of watching it.
42:02You're supposed to be my best friend and you treat me like s***.
42:06Stop running your f***ing mouth.
42:07I'm going to leave right now because you're talking to a wall and not a wall.
42:09You've moved your whole life here for him.
42:12I will move it right back out.
42:14Have you been lying to me for years?
42:16You're the Bernie Madoff of f***ing hospitality.
42:19Who was in our apartment last night while I'm asleep?
42:23Do you know how many times you cheated on me?
42:25I think it's wrong.
42:26Lay off me, dude.
42:27I'm in tears watching my friends demolish their relationship.
42:32You don't have a prenup, but if you come for me, I'll come for you.
42:36That would be a losing battle.
42:37Are you threatening me?
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