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00:00:13I
00:00:23Have dated guys who are my age because it was the right thing to do
00:00:29And it didn't work out obviously this is a great opportunity for me to
00:00:35possibly find someone whether you're
00:00:3725 or 55
00:00:40There's something here for me. I'm pretty positive
00:00:49I definitely want to explore dating older men because my history with younger men has just been so
00:00:57Problematic, but in the real world older men disregard me based on my age right off the bat
00:01:07I love that. I'm gonna be able to experience
00:01:10Meeting men not knowing their age
00:01:13I want to be able to get to know their heart and what their passions are then I'll know like
00:01:18have I pushed some guys away that I shouldn't have
00:01:26When you tell people your age they put a stigma to that. I don't want to fit in a box
00:01:31Why does it matter how old I am? It's what I feel like. It's my vibe. It's my energy. It's
00:01:36it's who I am as a person
00:01:38age is just a number
00:01:45It is tough out there to find a partner like oh when someone's 40 they're over the hill it's over
00:01:50when when are you retiring?
00:01:56you know
00:01:58The dating world is trash so much
00:02:03Superficiality this is perfect for me because we're in a situation where age is not the factor
00:02:09It's really the connection which I think is dope because it should be about the connection
00:02:14I'm looking for the most special person of my life. I think maybe they're here. I
00:02:20I hope that they're here
00:02:23The truth is when love is there and love is real age won't matter at all
00:02:35Two steps for another one back
00:02:38I wasn't nervous
00:02:58It feels a little bit scary because I don't know if these guys are my age my dad's age my
00:03:04grandpa's age
00:03:05I just don't know what we're dealing with but what I don't know can't hurt me
00:03:11How are we doing ladies?
00:03:12Hi
00:03:13Good how are you?
00:03:15Doing well
00:03:15Doing well
00:03:15Brian
00:03:16I'm Sophie
00:03:17Tristan
00:03:17Michelle
00:03:18Nice to meet you
00:03:19Nice to meet you
00:03:19Nice to meet you
00:03:28Hello everyone I'm Nick Vial
00:03:30And I'm Natalie Joy
00:03:33You've all agreed to come here to take an unconventional approach to find love
00:03:38It may seem crazy but here you'll be dating and even committing without ever knowing how old your partner is
00:03:47To answer the question does age matter when it comes to love?
00:03:54It did it for us
00:03:55We are 18 years apart
00:03:59And happily married
00:04:00Ours is a modern day love story I slid into his DMs
00:04:05Hot right?
00:04:07Our chemistry was instant but honestly I had my reservations about exploring a deeper connection
00:04:13I was self-conscious about our age difference
00:04:16I wasn't sure if we wanted the same thing
00:04:18If we were in the same stages of life or even if we liked the same movies
00:04:24I was far less worried about others opinions
00:04:27I focused my energy on what Nick and I had in common
00:04:30And what I found was a man I loved being around
00:04:34Who laughed at my jokes and who was ready to start a family just like I was
00:04:38So I decided to get out of my head
00:04:41And we gave it a shot
00:04:42And what I ended up finding was
00:04:45The greatest connection of my life
00:04:47Absolutely
00:04:48Aww
00:04:49For us, age is just a number
00:04:52Woo
00:04:52Woo
00:04:54Wow
00:04:55Now it's time for you to find the connection of your dreams
00:04:59Oh yeah
00:05:00I'm getting butterflies
00:05:03During your time here, you'll choose who you want to date
00:05:06Based on attraction, compatibility, and chemistry
00:05:10You can pursue anyone you're drawn to
00:05:13There are no rules
00:05:14Except one
00:05:16The only question you can't ask
00:05:19Is how old are you?
00:05:21Dang, y'all look good
00:05:22Yeah
00:05:24If you feel as if you've found that special connection
00:05:28You can invite that person into the Promise Room
00:05:31And take the next step in your journey together
00:05:35By exchanging rings and committing to one another
00:05:38From there, all that's left is revealing
00:05:40The one thing you've been keeping secret
00:05:43Your age
00:05:45And if you still want to be together after that
00:05:47You'll leave this retreat as a couple
00:05:49Oh
00:05:52And take the next step, moving in together
00:05:55And seeing if the connection can survive in the real world
00:05:58Oh my god, stop
00:05:59And then comes perhaps the greatest test of all
00:06:02You'll introduce each other to your closest friends and families
00:06:06Oh shit
00:06:10It's getting real
00:06:11In the end, you'll have to make one final decision
00:06:15Do you stay together and plan for a future
00:06:18Or leave this experience single once again?
00:06:21I'm getting nervous
00:06:23We got this girl
00:06:24And what better way to kick things off
00:06:27Than for you all to date
00:06:30Every single person here
00:06:33Oh my gosh
00:06:34That's gonna be interesting
00:06:36That's a lot of dates
00:06:36I know, right?
00:06:37Busy day
00:06:39Are you ready?
00:06:40Yes!
00:06:43Let's do it
00:06:44Good luck
00:06:45Okay
00:06:46Instead of taking shots to no chances
00:06:50Don't go crying in this hideaway
00:06:54All right, straight to the reel
00:06:55Okay, yes, go
00:06:56What's working for you in dating?
00:06:58And what is not working?
00:06:59Like, you're here for a reason, right?
00:07:00Well, the men aren't working
00:07:02Does that make sense?
00:07:03Okay, gotcha
00:07:03Yeah
00:07:03Do you have green eyes?
00:07:07Yeah, do you have green eyes?
00:07:08Yeah
00:07:08Okay
00:07:09Our babies could have green eyes
00:07:10Oh my god, right?
00:07:12Wait, wait, okay, how much money do you make
00:07:13And what's your job?
00:07:14Yeah?
00:07:15Like diving in
00:07:16For real?
00:07:17Okay, what's your job?
00:07:19Damn, girl
00:07:22So what brought you here?
00:07:25Probably the foul men that exist in the world
00:07:28People have a tendency to put me in a box when they find out my age
00:07:31Um, they probably think I don't know what I want
00:07:34And I'm super nonchalant
00:07:39But I'm not really looking to attract men within my age range
00:07:43Because they're usually super immature
00:07:47I came from this experience looking for something more serious
00:07:50Lovey, nice to meet you
00:07:52David, nice to meet you
00:07:53David's my dad's name
00:07:57Oh
00:07:57Is it? All right
00:07:58Is that a bad thing to start with?
00:07:59No, I don't think so
00:08:00Do you like your dad?
00:08:01Love my dad
00:08:02All right, amazing
00:08:03I'm definitely excited
00:08:05But I don't think I've ever dated somebody that old
00:08:08So it's definitely nerve-wracking
00:08:09I'm like, what are we gonna talk about?
00:08:14You had to play a song on the piano right now
00:08:16What would it be?
00:08:17And you have to sing
00:08:18I'd say maybe Desperado by the Eagles
00:08:20Okay
00:08:21A little classic
00:08:21You probably hate this
00:08:23What?
00:08:24But I love Taylor Swift
00:08:25Love
00:08:26Swifty
00:08:26Yeah, can't lie
00:08:28Don't be ashamed
00:08:28Yeah, not ashamed
00:08:29How many shows of hers have you seen?
00:08:31Just one
00:08:32Oh, wait
00:08:33Okay, so you're a huge Swifty
00:08:34But you've only been to one show
00:08:35You don't like going to shows?
00:08:38Does the average person go to more than one?
00:08:41Oh yeah, for sure
00:08:42Am I the problem?
00:08:48What's your name?
00:08:49Ashley
00:08:50Ashley, you are Ashley
00:08:51I've heard about you
00:08:52What?
00:08:53No, I'm just kidding
00:08:54I'm just kidding
00:08:55My age range is evil
00:08:56Like, no one is safe
00:08:59I swear
00:08:59I could date you or your mom
00:09:01And I'm open to both
00:09:04Hi
00:09:04Hi, how are you?
00:09:05How are you?
00:09:06What's your name?
00:09:07Tristan
00:09:07Aaron, nice to meet you
00:09:09Yeah, absolutely
00:09:10I knew I was interested in older women
00:09:12The first time I saw Kim Zolciak
00:09:15In a church parking lot
00:09:17I was like
00:09:18Damn
00:09:19That's everything I want
00:09:21There's like 35 year old busty blonde
00:09:24And a white Bentley
00:09:25And I'm a 13 year old boy
00:09:26I was just like
00:09:27Doing
00:09:27I mean, wow
00:09:28Do you like your name?
00:09:30Do you play Fitz?
00:09:31Do you like yours?
00:09:32Yeah
00:09:32It's kind of soft
00:09:34Like I would like a
00:09:35It wasn't soft in Legends of the Fall
00:09:37Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:09:38Don't get me started
00:09:39Is that where you were named?
00:09:40It's annoying
00:09:41Yes, yes it was
00:09:42That's a good named after
00:09:44Do you like that movie?
00:09:44Have you seen it?
00:09:45It's one of my favorite movies
00:09:46Okay
00:09:47Me too
00:09:48It's beautiful
00:09:48Yeah, so what is your middle name?
00:09:50It starts with a B
00:09:51Do I have to guess?
00:09:52Yes
00:09:53Beatrice
00:09:55No
00:09:55And it's not bitch
00:09:57Okay
00:09:57That was my second guess
00:10:00I feel like I could just leave with Aaron right now
00:10:03She's beautiful
00:10:04She's tall
00:10:05She's charismatic
00:10:06She was laughing at all the jokes
00:10:08She was like giving me the eyes
00:10:09I was like, it's my girl, dog
00:10:11I already feel like I'm ready to get her alone
00:10:14The chemistry was hot
00:10:19Well, hello
00:10:20Oh, hi
00:10:21How are you?
00:10:22Good
00:10:23My name is Andrew
00:10:24I have two daughters
00:10:26Olivia and Ella
00:10:27I typically date younger
00:10:29It's a little bit more crazy
00:10:31It's a little bit more fun
00:10:33Probably for all the wrong reasons
00:10:36But I'm trying to turn over a new leaf
00:10:39Kind of change things up a little bit
00:10:41I do want a wife
00:10:42I do want a partner
00:10:43Definitely someone that maybe has more life experience
00:10:47And that is ready for something a little bit more serious
00:10:51What has been something that you've not loved in your past relationships?
00:10:56I think it's kind of like the same cycle
00:10:59Really?
00:10:59Talking about back to old relationships
00:11:01Back to things that weren't necessarily serving me anymore
00:11:04Sure
00:11:04So it's kind of like the same cycle
00:11:06So being here for me is kind of like
00:11:09Breaking that cycle?
00:11:10Yeah, yeah, like some old bad habits
00:11:11Yeah
00:11:12It's an exciting little journey that we're about to go on
00:11:15I know
00:11:20And I'm curious, do you normally date like older or younger?
00:11:23I normally date older
00:11:25Do you?
00:11:26Yes, I do
00:11:26I can see that because you're like
00:11:28I have a lot of emotional intelligence you can tell
00:11:30Really?
00:11:31You picked that up already?
00:11:32For sure
00:11:32Oh wow
00:11:33Two seconds, yeah
00:11:34Wow, I guess I'll take the compliment
00:11:36What about you?
00:11:38You know, I don't really have a type
00:11:40I don't have a preference
00:11:41Yeah
00:11:42I probably mostly date younger
00:11:44Okay
00:11:44Just because of life circumstances
00:11:46I feel like older people are usually like married with kids
00:11:49Yeah
00:11:49And settle down, you know
00:11:50So I was married for five years when I was young
00:11:53And I completely loved her
00:11:55Like wildly in love with the woman
00:11:58I think it was ultimately for the best
00:12:00You know, it's a little bit of a scarlet letter on your resume, right?
00:12:04Of like having a divorce and then no children and then being the age that I'm at
00:12:08But the older you get and you invest in the wrong person, you don't get that time back
00:12:14This is a great color on you, by the way
00:12:16Thank you, Jean
00:12:17I love this dress
00:12:17Yeah, it's beautiful
00:12:18Thank you, thank you so much
00:12:20Um, what are you most excited about for this whole thing?
00:12:23Um, I would say just being able to like actually get to know people without like
00:12:30Like outside life distractions
00:12:31You know what I mean?
00:12:32Like genuinely like, you know
00:12:34Focus on something
00:12:35Yeah, like just genuinely actually getting to know someone
00:12:38Yeah, that's awesome
00:12:39Yeah
00:12:39This is something that's just very out of my comfort zone
00:12:42But I want to find love
00:12:44I want to, you know, walk out here with a potential husband
00:12:48Like a life partner
00:12:49And my husband could be here
00:12:51I'm extremely spontaneous
00:12:53It's whatever
00:12:53It's like, if I feel like, yo, I'm from somewhere
00:12:56I'm like, yo, we should go to Vegas
00:12:57Like, yo, let's go
00:12:58Yeah, I love that
00:12:59I'm very spontaneous
00:13:00My dad has said that he doesn't want me to marry anyone 10 years or older than me
00:13:05But I don't date young men
00:13:07Like the oldest I would date here is the 40s
00:13:09The 40s
00:13:11Somewhere in the 40s
00:13:15How are you?
00:13:16I'm good, how are you?
00:13:18I'm good
00:13:18What was your name?
00:13:19Derek
00:13:20Derek, I'm Pfeiffer
00:13:21I love it
00:13:22This is amazing
00:13:23It's working?
00:13:24I love it
00:13:24Thank you
00:13:25It's definitely working
00:13:26Thank you
00:13:26I love your eyes
00:13:28Thank you, me too
00:13:30I'm very optimistic about this experience
00:13:33About getting to meet a variety of people
00:13:36Meeting an older man is quite hard as a younger woman
00:13:39You go to the bar and most of the older men that you meet are kind of a little skeevy
00:13:44Like maybe even like a little bit predatory
00:13:46Um, or on the flip side they could think that I'm just looking for like money
00:13:51And also like a lot of the places that I'm frequenting older people just aren't, you know?
00:13:58Hi
00:13:59I'm John
00:13:59I'm Catherine
00:14:00I'm a hugger
00:14:00Nice to meet you
00:14:01The speed dating is fun
00:14:03It's a little unnatural
00:14:04But I'm not here to date an older woman
00:14:06I'm not here to date a younger woman
00:14:08I'm here to date
00:14:09No matter their age
00:14:11Catherine
00:14:11She looks like a Bond villain
00:14:15She's, she's intimidating to talk to
00:14:19How you doing?
00:14:20Good
00:14:21Excited?
00:14:22You? Yeah
00:14:22I'm happy to be here
00:14:24Lauren's cool
00:14:25But the conversation didn't flow, you know, tremendously
00:14:28Um, I think she's like physically attractive
00:14:31Alright, another round
00:14:32I love your nails too
00:14:34Thank you
00:14:37John
00:14:38John, Teresa
00:14:38Great to meet you
00:14:41Excited?
00:14:42Very excited
00:14:43Very excited, of course
00:14:43Very good
00:14:43I've been waiting for this forever
00:14:45So tell me one thing that you would want me to remember about you
00:14:49Oh, I like that
00:14:49Okay, I like that
00:14:50See?
00:14:52Mmm, and I'm super excited for this experience
00:14:54Okay
00:14:54Kind of open to
00:14:55But like what about you?
00:14:58So I jokingly
00:14:59I guess not jokingly
00:15:00But everyone says I look like Prince Harry
00:15:02I could see that
00:15:03So my joke is that I'm looking for Megan
00:15:06Minus the family drama
00:15:07Really?
00:15:08Yeah
00:15:08Well I used to have dark hair, so
00:15:09Okay
00:15:10There you go
00:15:11He played off
00:15:11I dressed up like him for Halloween last year
00:15:13Really?
00:15:14But I was by myself
00:15:15So
00:15:16Oh, bummer
00:15:17Yeah
00:15:17Maybe by October you never know
00:15:19Yeah
00:15:19It's a good question, I like that
00:15:20It's gonna happen
00:15:20Yeah
00:15:22When I've, you know, been on dating apps and things like that, which suck
00:15:26Most of the guys I don't think put their age range up to my age
00:15:30And so it's been really, really hard to find someone
00:15:34I've been married twice
00:15:40Sorry
00:15:40Um
00:15:41I've had some really terrible relationships
00:15:45And I just feel like I'm at a point in my life where I finally deserve
00:15:54What it is that's right for me
00:15:55Yeah
00:15:57So it's, it's a good thing
00:15:59What is your favorite quality about yourself?
00:16:03Um, probably that I'm very, like, easy going
00:16:07I think life has given me enough that I've been able to, like, realize, like, the small things that pop
00:16:15up that are problems
00:16:16Aren't that important
00:16:18It's okay
00:16:18Big picture
00:16:19Yeah, exactly
00:16:20Yeah
00:16:21I like that
00:16:22So, yeah
00:16:23Teresa's hot
00:16:24Yeah
00:16:24Best three minute date I've ever had
00:16:27I don't know what's gonna happen tomorrow, but hopefully her and I are gonna get to know each other better
00:16:32All this late night talk with my girl keeps me falling in love, in love, in love
00:16:41Oh, I've been dreaming, oh, I've been dreaming
00:16:45That you're my lady, that you're my lady
00:16:50All right, how are you all feeling?
00:16:52Yeah
00:16:52Yeah
00:16:53Yeah
00:16:57Hopefully some of you are starting to feel some sparks
00:17:01Woo!
00:17:03Now during your time here, you'll be going on lots of activities
00:17:07Starting tomorrow morning, each day's adventures will be posted on the activity board
00:17:11And if you're not off on an adventure, enjoy your time here at the retreat
00:17:17Keep looking for that true connection
00:17:21One that doesn't revolve around age
00:17:26You came here to get away from it all and try something new
00:17:29So let's all take a moment to celebrate that
00:17:32All right, let's toast to ageless dating
00:17:35And to all the adventures that lie ahead
00:17:38Cheers!
00:17:44Cheers
00:17:45Cheers
00:17:45Cheers
00:17:46Yeah!
00:17:46Cheers!
00:18:24All right, so after the first bear was clawing out my windows, I was trying to get a nap.
00:18:30I come back, I'm sitting in my bed, and the shades start, like, moving.
00:18:34I was like, holy shit, he's back.
00:18:36So I get up.
00:18:38It was a fucking window washer.
00:18:42Teresa's beautiful.
00:18:43We have good conversation.
00:18:44I live in Miami.
00:18:45It's beautiful women everywhere, but it's hard to find, like, a genuine connection,
00:18:49so I'm looking forward to connecting with her more.
00:18:52Do you have any cats?
00:18:53Two cats.
00:18:54Really?
00:18:55You like cats?
00:18:56I love cats.
00:18:58Jerry is five.
00:18:59Jenna's, like, seven.
00:19:01Jenna.
00:19:01So a boy and a girl.
00:19:03Mm-hmm.
00:19:03I do it.
00:19:03I miss my dogs, for sure.
00:19:05What kind of dogs do you have?
00:19:06I have a beautiful...
00:19:07Oh, two German Shepherds.
00:19:08No.
00:19:08German Shepherd.
00:19:09German Shepherd.
00:19:10Yes, give it to me.
00:19:11And a...
00:19:13Labrador.
00:19:14No!
00:19:14No, not a Labrador.
00:19:15No, no.
00:19:16I got...
00:19:16I'm leaving.
00:19:17No.
00:19:17You have a...
00:19:19Doberman.
00:19:20Yes.
00:19:20I got the...
00:19:21What's her name?
00:19:23Peyton.
00:19:24Oh, I like that.
00:19:25My other dog's name is Boomer.
00:19:28After...
00:19:29My daughter named Boomer.
00:19:31I have three cats.
00:19:33P.S.
00:19:34Okay.
00:19:36All right.
00:19:37I'm petrified that he's too young.
00:19:40My oldest is 29, and my daughter's 25, and then my youngest is 22.
00:19:45So a guy in their 20s would be really, like, shocking.
00:19:54I don't know how I would reconcile that.
00:19:59Um, but again, I'm just trying not to think about it too much and just focus on who he is.
00:20:09Excuse us.
00:20:11Hey!
00:20:12Is that an actual drink?
00:20:13Yes, coffee.
00:20:14You want something that's a little bit cold now?
00:20:15No, I drink tea.
00:20:17Yesterday, the one that stuck out to me the most, I would say, is Justin Esch.
00:20:22Um, he kind of was, like, more, like, calm and quiet.
00:20:25A lot of the other guys had, like, really big personalities and were really out there.
00:20:30And so his, like, quiet demeanor kind of, like, intrigued me a little bit.
00:20:34Okay.
00:20:34Remind me where you live.
00:20:36Uh, Charleston, South Carolina.
00:20:37Okay.
00:20:38And you?
00:20:38I remember that.
00:20:39Dallas.
00:20:39Dallas, that's right.
00:20:41Would you say you're, like, a relationship person?
00:20:43Yeah, I'm a serial monogamist.
00:20:45Okay.
00:20:45I think you said that yesterday.
00:20:47Yeah.
00:20:47Okay.
00:20:48I just think there's something kind of invaluable about being able to build a life with somebody
00:20:52versus just this hookup culture that we're in.
00:20:55So, I don't know how to navigate that.
00:20:58Yeah.
00:20:58I'm just not built that way.
00:21:00Neither am I.
00:21:01No?
00:21:02And tell me, I can't remember.
00:21:03You have kids or no?
00:21:05No, I don't.
00:21:06Okay.
00:21:06You want kids?
00:21:07I do want to get married.
00:21:08I want marriage.
00:21:10Um, so my partner, if they want kids, I will want kids.
00:21:13Yeah.
00:21:13If they don't want kids, I'm okay with having kids.
00:21:16Wow, okay.
00:21:16So.
00:21:17You don't meet a lot of women that are, like, flexible in that.
00:21:19Yeah.
00:21:19It's very, I feel like it's very binary.
00:21:21Yeah.
00:21:22That's good.
00:21:23Um, I always wanted them my whole life.
00:21:25Um, I think as I got older, I kind of, like, I separated my, I tied a lot of my
00:21:31happiness
00:21:32to that when I was younger.
00:21:33I was like, this is something, you know, that I want in my life.
00:21:36I always wanted children.
00:21:39Um, I, I love kids.
00:21:42I always felt, like, called to be a father.
00:21:45Um, and I think, like, at, at some point, you have to kind of divorce yourself from goals
00:21:52that are outside of your control completely.
00:21:54Like, you know, I'm 44.
00:21:57You know, could I find somebody to just have a baby with?
00:22:00Probably.
00:22:00But is that the right thing to do?
00:22:03You know, I don't think so.
00:22:04Not for me.
00:22:06Um, and you kind of wake up and it's like, oh, wow.
00:22:11You know, it might not happen.
00:22:14So.
00:22:17But that's okay.
00:22:19I think.
00:22:26So.
00:22:27Talk about something else.
00:22:29So I don't.
00:22:31Cry on television.
00:22:34I do love kids.
00:22:36Oh, I love that.
00:22:36I do too.
00:22:37I have four nephews.
00:22:40No?
00:22:47First morning here.
00:22:49This has been so wild.
00:22:51I know.
00:22:51Yeah.
00:22:51Already.
00:22:52How are you guys feeling?
00:22:53So, yeah, I mean, it is interesting to, like, look at, like, the whole diverse group.
00:22:58Absolutely.
00:22:58Yeah.
00:22:58And, like, the different ages and everything.
00:23:00I do, I will say, like, I've been, like, kind of looking around at the guys mainly and
00:23:04being, like, how, wondering, like, what their ages are.
00:23:08There was a big variety.
00:23:09I was gonna say.
00:23:10There was a huge variety.
00:23:12Like, Tristan.
00:23:13Yeah.
00:23:13Versus, like, David.
00:23:15Yes.
00:23:15Versus Jorge.
00:23:16Jorge.
00:23:17Some people, I forgot the names.
00:23:19Yeah.
00:23:19So many of them.
00:23:20This, like, went over my head.
00:23:21Yeah.
00:23:22I'm so excited for the dates.
00:23:23I know.
00:23:24Me too.
00:23:24I, like, can't wait to see, like, what activities we have planned.
00:23:36Oh, no.
00:23:37Oh, snap.
00:23:39Oh, no.
00:23:40Oh, snap.
00:23:40I have never gone to Whitewater Optum before.
00:23:43But I will try anything.
00:23:45Not anything.
00:23:46Once.
00:23:47Uh, some things.
00:23:48Ugh.
00:23:50I will try some things once.
00:23:53Oh, no.
00:23:54Yeah, we're good.
00:23:55We'll take the front.
00:23:56Andrew, I don't know if I saw him at first.
00:23:59But he definitely is really cute.
00:24:01I think I caught some good muscles going over there.
00:24:05I'm ready.
00:24:06This is exciting.
00:24:07I was, like, super excited when I saw that Libby was going to be on this date.
00:24:12She is typically who I date.
00:24:14Blonde.
00:24:15Good-looking.
00:24:16Fun.
00:24:17She probably is a little younger.
00:24:19Like, she gives off that vibe.
00:24:20But I'm definitely, like, excited to get to know Libby more and just see where it goes.
00:24:26Let's do it, baby.
00:24:26Have fun.
00:24:28Ready for the first rapid?
00:24:31Look at her face.
00:24:34Oh, God!
00:24:35Get down!
00:24:36Get down!
00:24:36Get down!
00:24:37Get down!
00:24:38Get down!
00:24:40Oh, my God.
00:24:43Oh, my God!
00:24:46Oh, my God!
00:24:47Oh, my God!
00:24:51I saw my last last move on my eye.
00:24:54Woo!
00:24:55Woo!
00:24:57Woo!
00:25:04Cheers to rafting and not dying, not falling in.
00:25:08Not dying.
00:25:10Did you like it?
00:25:12I couldn't survive without you.
00:25:14You saved me.
00:25:15You definitely give off city girl vibes, for sure.
00:25:18You didn't show it at all.
00:25:20No.
00:25:20Water rafting.
00:25:21Not at all.
00:25:22Stop.
00:25:23Stop.
00:25:23Good job.
00:25:25I am a young, hot dad.
00:25:28Like, I want to still have fun.
00:25:30I'm going to have fun.
00:25:31And I think that's probably why I gravitate to someone that's more fun.
00:25:33Because, like, you know, I'm not ready to fully grow up and be boring.
00:25:40I feel like you're definitely my type a little bit.
00:25:44Oh, really?
00:25:45What's your type?
00:25:46Blonde.
00:25:49Um, I'm going to give off probably a little bit younger of a vibe.
00:25:53Um...
00:25:54Don't I still say that?
00:25:55You're like a hardcore Swiftie, aren't you?
00:25:57Oh, my God.
00:26:00I'm not going to lie to you and tell you I'm not someone that I am.
00:26:03Why are you here?
00:26:05Why am I here?
00:26:05I'm just kidding.
00:26:06I'm done with the small talk.
00:26:07The guys that I've dated, I think, are a little immature.
00:26:12And I'm just kind of tired of...
00:26:14That's why you don't date your age.
00:26:16Yes.
00:26:17What about you?
00:26:18Um, yeah, I think just something different as well.
00:26:22Like, I definitely, like, am ready to, like, find my partner, like, someone to do life with.
00:26:28Yeah.
00:26:28I'm not playing around.
00:26:29I like that.
00:26:30Yeah.
00:26:30So, I have two kids.
00:26:35Um...
00:26:35I like kids.
00:26:37Have you ever dated someone that has kids?
00:26:39No.
00:26:40I've never dated anybody with kids.
00:26:42Mm-mm.
00:26:43Like, is that something that you would be into?
00:26:47Like...
00:26:47I think that somebody having kids isn't the scariest thing in the world to me, for sure.
00:26:52Okay.
00:26:53All right.
00:26:54And if anything, I think it shows that you have enough, um...
00:26:59of your life together, that you can be a good father, hopefully.
00:27:03At least...
00:27:04Hopefully you're that.
00:27:05That's right.
00:27:06For so long, how you've kept my heart, love.
00:27:11Turns out, you have the key.
00:27:14He definitely isn't one of the people here that I would guess to have kids.
00:27:17But it doesn't really scare me.
00:27:19I kind of like the fact that he's more mature.
00:27:22I think that if I met him out and about, and I found out that he had kids, I think
00:27:26my mind would start to spiral about his age.
00:27:28And I probably would get a little freaked out and be more reserved.
00:27:32But I think that this is a great experience for me to open up and kind of put those reservations
00:27:36aside.
00:27:37Well, I mean, I'm definitely feeling this.
00:27:41I like your vibe.
00:27:42I think you're kind of, sometimes, sort of.
00:27:46Okay, cool.
00:27:49Do you want to get married?
00:27:51Do I want to get married?
00:27:53Oh, thank you so much.
00:27:54You shut out.
00:27:55I mean, I'm pretty...
00:27:56I'm not gonna lie.
00:27:57I feel a little giddy.
00:27:59A little giddy.
00:28:00A little nervous.
00:28:01You know, a little excited.
00:28:03About everything.
00:28:04Do I want to get married?
00:28:06Or are you gonna get down with one day in these wetsuits?
00:28:09It's giving a little bit of a Hunger Game.
00:28:12I don't even know.
00:28:13I don't think I've ever seen Hunger Games.
00:28:16Okay, well...
00:28:18Yeah, I'm sorry.
00:28:19That might have been too much credit for you.
00:28:21I take that back.
00:28:31So...
00:28:32This is wrong.
00:28:34Vanell and I actually ran into each other at the speed dating.
00:28:37We had a little mutual thing going in.
00:28:40She's right down my alley.
00:28:42You know, I know what I want, and I know what I don't want.
00:28:45You know, I've learned over the years.
00:28:47I got married really young.
00:28:48When I was 26, I was divorced by 30.
00:28:51I have two kids.
00:28:52Since then, I've had some relationships.
00:28:55With Vanell, the vibes are amazing.
00:28:57I mean, I think we both feel each other.
00:28:59We both are attracted to each other.
00:29:00The conversation is easy.
00:29:02So I hope it stays like that.
00:29:04So now, I have questions for you.
00:29:06All right?
00:29:07So first of all, what is your passion?
00:29:10Ooh.
00:29:11I would say my biggest passion is, number one, faith is really important to me.
00:29:16Mm-hmm.
00:29:17So I would say trying to live out every day honoring God with every action I have.
00:29:21I get it.
00:29:22You know, I'm a PK.
00:29:23I'm a pastor's kid.
00:29:25So, you know what I'm saying?
00:29:25I get it.
00:29:26Okay.
00:29:26What are you looking for in a man?
00:29:28Someone that's God-fearing.
00:29:29Okay.
00:29:30A dominant leader, but not, like, overpowering.
00:29:33Dominant, but not overpowering.
00:29:34Yes.
00:29:34Okay.
00:29:35Yes, dominant.
00:29:36Someone that has integrity.
00:29:38Okay.
00:29:38Someone that's just respectful and just, like, easygoing.
00:29:41Someone to have fun and, you know, be goofy and silly with.
00:29:45What about you?
00:29:47I always look for what's opposite of me because I'm on 100.
00:29:50Yeah.
00:29:50So I look for peaceful energy.
00:29:52See, you got peaceful energy.
00:29:53When I first met you, I was a little bit kind of like, ugh, I don't know if him and
00:29:57I would connect
00:29:57because you're very opposite of me.
00:30:00Like, I'm, like, quiet introvert.
00:30:01Yes.
00:30:02And you're very, like, social and, like, big personality.
00:30:04So, like, I don't know.
00:30:05That's exactly what I'm looking for, though.
00:30:07You know how they say opposites track, right?
00:30:08Mm-hmm.
00:30:09Well, I don't ever want anybody who's as intense as I am.
00:30:12Mm-hmm.
00:30:12Who's gonna calm that down?
00:30:13Yeah.
00:30:14Like, I need someone who's, like, chill.
00:30:15So, like, when then I come around, I'm like, okay.
00:30:18Mm-hmm.
00:30:18Let me just chill.
00:30:19But I feel like you're also just, like, very, like, goofy and silly, which, like...
00:30:23I can be.
00:30:24It takes someone to, like, bring that side out of me.
00:30:26Of course.
00:30:27Mm-hmm.
00:30:27Like, a man needs to be plugged into his woman so that she walks in the room and he looks
00:30:31at her and says,
00:30:32what's going on?
00:30:33Yeah.
00:30:33Like, he's in tune to her.
00:30:34Okay.
00:30:34I'm not gonna lie.
00:30:35You seem like the whole package right now.
00:30:37Like, I'm surprised you're single.
00:30:39And now you know.
00:30:40Now I know.
00:30:40Any other questions about that?
00:30:42Not about how you feel now.
00:30:44Now I know.
00:30:45Now you know how I feel?
00:30:46Mm-hmm.
00:30:46Well, let's go.
00:30:49We didn't do cheers.
00:30:50Cheers to our first date.
00:30:51Cheers.
00:30:51Cheers to our second date.
00:30:53Cheers to our third date.
00:30:54Okay.
00:30:54That's coming up, right?
00:30:57I do feel butterflies inside.
00:30:59And honestly, like, like, I didn't expect to, like, even, like, like him or be interested in him.
00:31:04I should let you walk in front of me so I can see it.
00:31:06Oh my gosh.
00:31:08Ain't nothing back here.
00:31:09Oh, you sure?
00:31:11Yes.
00:31:11You sure about that?
00:31:12He keeps me on my toes.
00:31:14Like, I don't know what he's gonna say or do next.
00:31:16As I'm getting to know him, I like that about him.
00:31:19And I'm seeing that he's genuinely just himself.
00:31:22He's not, like, pretending to be anybody else.
00:31:24But I do have another connection, um, with Justin.
00:31:28And it's been going really well.
00:31:30So that's why I'm kind of, like, scrambled in my head.
00:31:32I'm like, oh my gosh, what am I getting myself into?
00:31:42All right.
00:31:42Let's go.
00:31:43Cheers.
00:31:43See what's gonna happen.
00:31:45Right?
00:31:45This is very, uh, cheers.
00:31:47Justin, who you, who you been talking to?
00:31:51Ah, Vanell?
00:31:52You know, Vanell and I have really connected, I think.
00:31:54Nice.
00:31:55I'm not sure how old she is.
00:31:56She's younger, but, um, articulate and kind.
00:32:00I love kind people.
00:32:01Yeah.
00:32:02You know?
00:32:02Yeah.
00:32:02So she's giving you some of those, uh, signals?
00:32:05I think so.
00:32:06Yeah.
00:32:07She says that she is.
00:32:09Whether or not she's telling somebody else the same thing, I don't know.
00:32:11Oh, right.
00:32:12We'll know that for a little while.
00:32:13How would you know?
00:32:13Yeah.
00:32:14She has every right to you, right?
00:32:15Yeah, of course.
00:32:16For right now, she should be.
00:32:18Yeah, right.
00:32:20All right, you can't tell me you've been on a more beautiful date than this.
00:32:24Um, I cannot, actually.
00:32:26This is pretty phenomenal.
00:32:28John is very, like, surprising, actually.
00:32:33Um, he's pretty great and we got along.
00:32:37Like, our compatibility seems to be, like, right on.
00:32:40So I'm interested in continuing that and really excited to see where it goes.
00:32:45I think those onion layers are gonna peel back and we're gonna decide whether or not we're right for each
00:32:51other.
00:32:52Cheers.
00:32:53Cheers.
00:32:54Okay.
00:32:55I would say getting to know each other better and having a great time while we're here.
00:33:01Is that good?
00:33:02Basic, but...
00:33:03Cheers.
00:33:04Ah!
00:33:05Ah!
00:33:07Before I came here, I celebrated my youngest graduation.
00:33:12I said goodbye to that stage of my life and here I am on to my next chapter with someone
00:33:20who makes me feel super safe and excited about the possibility of him being my partner.
00:33:29Um, have you lived anywhere else than Miami?
00:33:33I lived in Boca.
00:33:34Oh.
00:33:35What was that for?
00:33:37Baseball.
00:33:38And then I had injuries.
00:33:42Oh, no.
00:33:42I was, like, baseball was A through Z. Like, that was, like...
00:33:45Yeah.
00:33:45John was gonna be a professional baseball player and that's it.
00:33:50Really?
00:33:50Yeah.
00:33:51So then I had the surgeries.
00:33:52So you put all your eggs in that basket.
00:33:54It's hard.
00:33:55It was my identity.
00:33:56I get that.
00:33:58I played softball.
00:34:00Softball's hard.
00:34:01Yeah.
00:34:02I was probably, like, ten when I got on the team.
00:34:05Then I played all throughout, like, my younger years.
00:34:09And then after I graduated college, I was, like, playing on, like, a recreational softball team and someone literally came
00:34:17up to me and they recruited me.
00:34:19It's like something out of a movie.
00:34:21I know.
00:34:21It was weird.
00:34:22I think there's a movie about the all-girls baseball team.
00:34:24Yes, there is.
00:34:25What's it called?
00:34:26League of something.
00:34:27League of Our Own.
00:34:27League of Our Own.
00:34:27Yeah, exactly.
00:34:28Yeah.
00:34:29Yeah.
00:34:29I think Madonna's in it.
00:34:32Madonna?
00:34:33She acts?
00:34:35So much I need to teach you.
00:34:38We have a lot in common, which is frickin' awesome.
00:34:42Um, I think that connection is much stronger when you have similar interests.
00:34:49Embracing what could come of this, for sure.
00:34:52Um, so, do you have any siblings?
00:34:56Um, so, sort of sensitive topic, but, yeah, I have a brother, but he passed away when I was 18.
00:35:02So, he was, like, three years older than me.
00:35:04But he is the reason why, like, I became an athlete and, like, played baseball.
00:35:11Sorry to hear that.
00:35:12It's okay.
00:35:13Yeah.
00:35:14I was a freshman in college, so.
00:35:16You wanna talk about it, or?
00:35:17Mm, not right now.
00:35:19Yeah.
00:35:20Yeah.
00:35:21I mean, it's fine.
00:35:22Like, I'm okay with it, but it's, you know, still sensitive, and he was huge in my life.
00:35:30So.
00:35:31Life is very precious.
00:35:32It's, you know, it's here, and then it's not.
00:35:35And you just, you know, gotta not take it for granted and all that good stuff.
00:35:42Yeah.
00:35:43I mean, it's cheesy, but it's true.
00:35:44Yeah.
00:35:45Life's a wild ride.
00:35:47Look at us now.
00:35:49I know.
00:35:50We're in the beautiful whistler.
00:35:52I'm trying to, like, take it all in.
00:35:54You, this, the heat.
00:35:58Good.
00:35:58It's only gonna get better.
00:36:01Think so?
00:36:02I think so.
00:36:08I'm gonna go for it.
00:36:10So I'll stay up every night.
00:36:13Can't get you off the night.
00:36:16I'll try and try, but I can't.
00:36:19For the best date ever.
00:36:20Yes, absolutely.
00:36:21Cheers.
00:36:21Cheers.
00:36:23I just feel really great around him, and I really enjoy kissing him.
00:36:28All right.
00:36:28Fill me up.
00:36:29I feel like we already have that vibe.
00:36:35You know, like, you just know.
00:36:37Like, you know when you, like, when you kiss someone, you just feel it.
00:36:41It's hard to explain.
00:36:43He's, like, pretty much the full package, I guess.
00:36:47I feel like he's the right speed for me and a very mature guy.
00:36:53Are you taking me back to your place?
00:36:55Yeah.
00:36:55You want to share a tent?
00:36:56A great first kiss.
00:36:58Best one ever.
00:36:59No, don't.
00:37:00It was.
00:37:01You were self-conscious about it.
00:37:02I was making you feel better.
00:37:04Where's my tulip?
00:37:06Aw.
00:37:08You know, tulips are my favorite flower.
00:37:10Just like our wine.
00:37:11Truly.
00:37:17Good.
00:37:17You look crazy.
00:37:18Should I grab your ass?
00:37:19Yeah.
00:37:21Oh, my God.
00:37:21I try and try, but I can't close my eyes.
00:37:39When was your last relationship?
00:37:43When?
00:37:44Yeah.
00:37:45Oh.
00:37:48So, when was it or when did it end?
00:37:51When was it?
00:37:52When did it end?
00:37:52Well, okay.
00:37:53So, hold on.
00:37:54It's like the same thing.
00:37:55When was it?
00:37:56When did it end?
00:37:57I'm sorry.
00:37:57I'm just daunting the question.
00:37:58I'm just daunting the question.
00:38:00So.
00:38:01Um, no.
00:38:02I would say, I would say it ended probably five months ago.
00:38:06And it started maybe like 10 to 12 months ago.
00:38:10Yeah.
00:38:11So.
00:38:11Why did that end?
00:38:12It was.
00:38:13Why did it end?
00:38:14Um, honestly, because he had a lot that he needed to, como se dice, fix.
00:38:22Um, and I wasn't willing to take that on.
00:38:25I mean, I think it's really hard when you love a person and you want the best for them
00:38:29and you see the best for them.
00:38:31But at some point, it's not worth sacrificing your own well-being.
00:38:35That's right.
00:38:35So, for me, it was just choosing myself over somebody who wasn't good for me.
00:38:40My daughters are a huge part of my life.
00:38:42So, when I'm dating someone these days, it's definitely, I need to see the potential in
00:38:47them of someone that could be in my daughter's lives.
00:38:51Someone that I can trust enough to let that guard down and let them into every part of my life.
00:38:58That's what I want to lean into.
00:38:59We don't need a star to guide us home because we become one and we're together.
00:39:07We got that fire that burns forever.
00:39:10Through the storm, we hold each other close because we become one and we're together.
00:39:19We got that love, the love that lasts forever.
00:39:25Hi, guys.
00:39:27Good morning.
00:39:27How did you guys sleep?
00:39:29So good.
00:39:30Oh, my gosh.
00:39:30I had some weird dreams.
00:39:32Really?
00:39:32Yeah.
00:39:33Like, I don't know.
00:39:35Stress dreams, probably.
00:39:37Yeah.
00:39:37Was it about John or how are you guys doing?
00:39:40We're good.
00:39:41I mean, obviously, I'm just like, how the hell old is he?
00:39:47Like, that's my biggest thing.
00:39:48Obviously, I'm like, wake up in the middle of the night like, oh, shit.
00:39:51Yeah.
00:39:52I was like shocked when I went on my one-on-one with John.
00:39:57Girl, you were so sad.
00:39:58I was like, why?
00:39:59Did you do it a little bit?
00:40:00Yeah.
00:40:00Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:40:01He was just like, I'm going to go for it.
00:40:03But, you know, I just, I always am like waiting for the other shoe to drop.
00:40:07So that guy's locked in on you, Teresa.
00:40:10He hasn't looked at anyone else, I swear.
00:40:11No, he's locked in.
00:40:12Yeah.
00:40:13And he's genuine about it.
00:40:14And you guys actually, like, you're a cute couple.
00:40:16Like, you guys are really good together.
00:40:18We're rooting for you.
00:40:19I'm going to say, like, in the next few days, I see you guys there, Promise Room.
00:40:22This is like the fun stage.
00:40:23I will lead you ladies through to the Promise Room.
00:40:27Lead us to the promised land.
00:40:41It's fun.
00:40:44Yes.
00:40:46Oh, boy, this is gonna be fun.
00:40:55Look at the river.
00:40:57welcome everybody welcome to Pemberton British Columbia beautiful coastal
00:41:05mountains here you have some wonderful beverages for you to enjoy I will pour
00:41:11some white it's really good this is my favorite mmm so when you swirl it and
00:41:24you have the legs what does that mean sugar yes see the thicker the legs the
00:41:30more sugar we'll see if that's true will we I would hope so I would absolutely
00:41:40hope so well I know we're doing later okay you know I've said from the get-go I
00:41:50really am open to getting to know these men regardless of their ages but I have
00:41:58a 21 year old nephew and he reminds me of him it's like should we make out too soon
00:42:07oh really if we did that then you'd have this all over you I wouldn't mind you're
00:42:17pretty smooth Tristan not gonna lie look I don't know if I can really let that guy
00:42:21into my bed you know I'm not gonna lie I like you do you have mommy issues my mom
00:42:27is only 19 years older than me so when I date women that are getting up there
00:42:33this is gonna sound horrible but like if you're not as hot as my mom I'm not gonna
00:42:37marry you was your mom distant no she was very strict oh well that might be distant no she was
00:42:47maybe oh he's really young little baby face and that I'm finding that that does matter where did
00:42:55you come from cheers Prince Harry where's Meghan Markle he loves that some people might be chasing
00:43:04money some people might be chasing fame I'm chasing like a feeling like you want to wake up and be
00:43:10excited to have a partner and Theresa's slowly checking off my boxes of what I want in a partner
00:43:18courage oh that's crazy isn't it I feel at ease with her and not to get too deep but it's
00:43:26because
00:43:27she's Theresa I if I could bottle it up and sell it I would I got lucky how are you
00:43:35feeling I feel
00:43:36good kind of crazy isn't it yes in a good way mm-hmm I did wake up in the middle
00:43:42of the night and it was
00:43:43like oh yeah yeah yeah it was like I think it hit me last night I was like yeah not
00:43:52anything bad it
00:43:53was just like no same it was just like what is what's going on but no sincerely like I left
00:44:00the
00:44:00date last night I couldn't stop thinking about you no interest in anybody else okay good me neither
00:44:09oh god so games over and I was kidding oh god yeah I mean that I don't think there's no
00:44:19there's no
00:44:19added pressure to that but yeah I think I don't it's what I'm here for um so yeah
00:44:38kissing him is amazing like I was shocked when I kissed him yesterday and it was just like sparks and
00:44:44good stuff we just have this magnetic attraction to each other and yeah I want to kiss him some more
00:44:51so let's go
00:45:01I definitely think this is a moment to see if Justin and I are compatible
00:45:05but I still very much want to get to know Jorge more I do like both of them but Justin
00:45:12he's just so
00:45:13sweet we want the same things um and that's also what has drawn me to him and he's just like
00:45:20made me
00:45:20just feel so comfortable and just like so wanted and just yeah just all the things that a woman wants
00:45:27to feel what you did say yesterday is that like you don't really like fall easily or like um no
00:45:33or
00:45:34don't really yeah I love very hard slow to love right how slow I don't know I thought we connected
00:45:43super early like literally the first day we're like 30 seconds together and I was like it's like oh
00:45:50I don't this girl I like this girl but I don't want you to you know I don't want you
00:45:54to feel like
00:45:55you can't get to know anybody or whatever but I mean of course not but I I listen to what
00:46:00I want
00:46:00like my heart I suspect you usually get what you want
00:46:10you can't look at me like that how am I looking at you I don't know like you're gonna kiss
00:46:15me or
00:46:16something yeah does that make you nervous a little bit why no
00:46:27I feel like a school girl I don't know why you feel like a school you know where you're like
00:46:33in
00:46:34high school or something you're like talking to someone you're just like getting yeah yeah I feel
00:46:38like that right that's what you feel like I like talking to you yeah
00:47:03um sorry were you waiting to do that yeah I needed
00:47:07only four glasses of wine you need an encouragement yeah right oh my gosh I normally don't kiss someone
00:47:13like so fast yeah that's right I should have asked you no it's okay no I I reciprocated you did
00:47:18yeah I
00:47:19wanted to and I love that you did that yeah so far smitten is a good way to say it
00:47:28I would say
00:47:28I'm smitten with Vanell I suspect Vanell is younger than me she has no gray in her hair and I
00:47:36have gray in
00:47:36my beard um I know how old I am but despite that I feel a lot of connection with her
00:47:43I want to know how old you are do you
00:47:48I think we can go to the promise room and you can find out I guess that's true but I
00:47:54will say my dad
00:47:55has told me but now I don't want you to marry anyone that's over 10 years older than you oh
00:48:00no
00:48:01you're done but my whole but my family knows should we just end this now we could still be in
00:48:06the in the
00:48:07criteria yeah it's possible that's true I doubt it I could be older than I look you know black don't
00:48:14crack right that's true that's true today really just sped up our relationship to another level like
00:48:22I really did not expect us to like kiss today it's only been like a few days of me knowing
00:48:27him
00:48:27and now I find myself in a love triangle with Justin and Jorge his age does matter to me to
00:48:36an extent
00:48:37but I'm really trying to lead with like my heart and not try to like get in my head about
00:48:42that
00:48:43I'm glad I met you I'm glad I met you too
00:49:03waking up today at the retreat I feel like John is the one that I really want to see this
00:49:09through
00:49:09with it is crazy that it's only been a couple of days and my connection with John is super strong
00:49:16like he just know he already knows me like we have this like really strange ease with each other
00:49:28so I'm taking John to the promise room I think we're ready for that
00:49:33there's a very good chance that I found my partner
00:49:43in the past I had been terribly hurt I'd been lied to deceived and also controlled in a couple
00:49:56relationships even though I'm nervous about sharing my kids ages with John I feel that I can trust him
00:50:19yeah I feel like I can trust him
00:50:24um and that our connection is strong enough that once I do tell him you know about my kids and
00:50:31my age and
00:50:32everything I don't think he's gonna run away being 100% vulnerable and out there is scary
00:50:46going to the promise room the only thing on my mind right now is expressing with Teresa how I feel
00:50:50and seeing how she reacts to my age if age ruin this it would hurt I've been in that situation
00:50:59before
00:51:00and it hurts and I don't want to be in that situation again
00:51:14hi
00:51:18you look great
00:51:19how are you?
00:51:21good
00:51:21how are you?
00:51:22I'm good
00:51:24above the surface
00:51:29you know I came here because I thought this was a really great opportunity for me to hopefully meet somebody
00:51:40who was ready for a relationship in the past I've been really hurt
00:51:52and I was really touched because you right away like made me feel super safe and um
00:52:11to me that's very rare so I'm really grateful that I got here and that we found each other so
00:52:20quickly
00:52:21and I'm looking forward to hopefully continuing down that path and getting to know you more
00:52:29and expanding our relationship hopefully
00:52:32mmhmm
00:52:34um
00:52:39I appreciate you being vulnerable pretty early
00:52:44you know it's been quick
00:52:45yeah
00:52:46and I think in the past
00:52:48with relationships it's been on me
00:52:51I haven't been ready I haven't been like mentally there so I can't really blame anybody but myself
00:52:56and I feel at ease like where I'm at I think
00:53:03that
00:53:04I can be trustworthy
00:53:06and reliable
00:53:08and that kind of rock
00:53:10that I feel like we've been
00:53:12throughout this whole experience
00:53:14I'm looking forward to whatever's next
00:53:17yeah me too
00:53:19all right
00:53:20well
00:53:24so I think this is your size
00:53:25a little bit bigger than yours
00:53:28um
00:53:29so this is a ring I wanted to offer to you
00:53:33um
00:53:34and hope that you'll accept it
00:53:37in that um it just symbolizes that
00:53:41I want to continue to grow this relationship
00:53:45see where it goes
00:53:47and learn more about each other
00:53:53do I say yes now or
00:53:59thank you
00:54:02and this
00:54:03is a ring for you
00:54:05mmhmm
00:54:06to express
00:54:07how thankful I am
00:54:09to have met you
00:54:10aww
00:54:11I hope
00:54:13you will accept this ring
00:54:16mmhmm
00:54:17yeah I'll accept it
00:54:24voila
00:54:24teamwork
00:54:25yeah
00:54:25this is good
00:54:28um
00:54:28so
00:54:30I have some
00:54:31kind of big things to tell you
00:54:33um
00:54:34again
00:54:35this is
00:54:36very
00:54:37sensitive
00:54:38and
00:54:40um
00:54:43so yeah
00:54:43my age
00:54:46you're gonna die
00:54:50oh my god
00:54:51okay
00:54:53I think anything that you can't control in life that
00:54:56has a weight of importance is really
00:54:58really
00:54:59scary
00:55:02if she thinks the age gap is more significant than she expected than she thinks than she feels
00:55:09um
00:55:09yeah it could affect us for sure
00:55:13I think it's going to be like a really big shock because I don't think he has any idea
00:55:22in the past everyone thinks I'm significantly older than I am it's not like one to two years
00:55:27like oh she'll
00:55:28I think I'm going to shock her
00:55:30uh
00:55:31I mean I think he's in his 30s
00:55:34but I'm hoping he's 38
00:55:36or older
00:55:37she's going to be so shocked
00:55:43I'm 27 years old
00:55:50taking someone to the promise room is something that I take very seriously
00:55:55to me
00:55:56to me it means commitment
00:55:57and it means acceptance
00:56:01I'm nervous about learning his age
00:56:05I don't know if I could move forward with him if he's over late 40s
00:56:08got your seatbelt on
00:56:10oh god
00:56:13I don't know if you're an infinite
00:56:16I am
00:56:2127
00:56:22oh my god
00:56:26oh wow
00:56:28oh my god
00:56:30trying to roll with that whole age is just a number thing
00:56:39I just can't believe it's going so well
00:56:41I did not expect to find something this serious this fast
00:56:48have you guys had sex yet?
00:56:50yeah we have
00:56:51good for you
00:56:51I'm so jealous
00:56:54it's time to introduce your bold new love story to the people who matter most
00:56:59your friends, your families
00:57:01my kids coming here would be like insane
00:57:06like so scared to see them
00:57:08oh my god
00:57:10wow
00:57:12she seems a little high maintenance
00:57:14he may need some botox
00:57:16she seems really fun
00:57:18she just can't rent a car to drive out to
00:57:20no
00:57:20his age will be jarring for them
00:57:23they will not accept it
00:57:25I just want to make sure you're thinking realistically
00:57:29I don't want to do this
00:57:32you just like me as a friend?
00:57:33this whole thing has been a lot
00:57:35I feel like it's killing you
00:57:37I'm starting to think is this age a problem for us
00:57:40maybe I'm not as mature as I thought
00:57:43potentially having two immediate children
00:57:48I mean
00:57:49like it is
00:57:50it is what it is
00:57:51you're trying to turn this on me
00:57:53I'm not trying to turn this on me
00:57:54yes you are
00:57:56Lou was the fun person that I had at the retreat
00:57:58what the fuck am I doing?
00:58:00I'm really done with this conversation
00:58:03can I get this mic off me?
00:58:04I'm not ashamed of how old he is
00:58:06I'm not ashamed of it
00:58:07I'm not ashamed of it
00:58:07she's not ashamed of it
00:58:07it's really none of your business
00:58:09sorry
00:58:16I don't know whether we're gonna get over that huge age gap
00:58:20is my life too overwhelming for her
00:58:22it's very possible that he is gonna break my heart on this mountain today
00:58:27I don't want to live my life without her
00:58:29I might be feeling dangerous and I might do something crazy
00:58:33and so
00:58:40we want to continue this journey and do life together
00:58:47I've been living in the fifties
00:58:50everything I see
00:58:52black and white TV
00:58:54when you're with me
00:58:56things look pretty
00:58:58I'll be feeling like you're my time machine
00:59:02Saturated to the extreme
00:59:052020 HD
00:59:09Digital visual like something from the screen
00:59:13A filter from a dream
00:59:15You're so colorful to me
00:59:18Vibrant
00:59:19You make my life so vibrant
00:59:23You're spoken in the ecstasy
00:59:25Hide it
00:59:27I just can't have my excitement
00:59:30So vibrant when you're next to me
00:59:36Love, yeah
00:59:37We love you thriving
00:59:39Cause you're all mine, yeah, yeah
01:00:04I just can't have my life so I can't have my life so I can't have my life so I
01:00:04can't have my life so I can't have my life so I can't have my life so I can't have
01:00:04my life so I can't have my life so I can't have my life so I can't have my life
01:00:04so I can't have my life so I can't have my life so I can't have my life so I
01:00:04can't have my life so I can't have my life so I can't have my life so I can't have
01:00:04my life so I can't have my life so I can't have my life so I can't have my life
01:00:04so I can't have my life so I can't have my life so I can't have my life so I
01:00:04can't have my life so I can't have my life so I can't have my life so I can't have
01:00:04my life so I can't have my life so I can't have my life so I can't have my life
01:00:06so I can't have my life so I can't have my
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