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00:00:22You're going to die.
00:00:26Um, do you know how old I am?
00:00:28Um, oh my God, okay, um, I'm 54.
00:00:35And that's it.
00:00:37There you go.
00:00:40Got your seatbelt on?
00:00:42Yeah.
00:00:43Oh, shit.
00:00:45Oh, God.
00:00:48I am 27.
00:00:55Oh, my God.
00:00:58Oh, wow.
00:01:00Seriously?
00:01:01Can I see your driver's license?
00:01:05Wow.
00:01:06Okay.
00:01:07Did not expect that.
00:01:10I figured that was going to happen.
00:01:14Oh, my God.
00:01:16That is insane.
00:01:17I literally thought you were, like, 10 years older.
00:01:20Um, okay.
00:01:22My youngest is 22.
00:01:25Okay.
00:01:25And my daughter's 25.
00:01:29And three years before that, I gave birth to my oldest, so he's 29.
00:01:35My son is older than you.
00:01:38Does that scare you?
00:01:48You know, honestly, the only, the biggest thing that scares me is the outside perception of everybody in the universe.
00:01:57Can't control it.
00:02:03No, you can't control it.
00:02:04Absolutely.
00:02:05Yeah, it scares me, but it's also just pretty amazing that, like, I connected with you, and I had no
00:02:12idea how old you were.
00:02:14I didn't want something I can't control to mess this up, because I feel like we hit it off from
00:02:21day one, and it would have hurt a lot.
00:02:30I am really excited to continue our relationship and get to know each other better.
00:02:38Whatever's next.
00:02:44I know I play with fire.
00:02:48Let's do it.
00:02:49Let's do it.
00:02:52Let's do it.
00:02:53Let's go.
00:02:54Nothing gamble, nothing gain.
00:02:55It's worth the price I have to pay.
00:02:58To see if this is real.
00:03:01Yeah, love is a risk.
00:03:03One thing I want to take.
00:03:06If you believe in love, show me something.
00:03:11If I had known his age going into it, like, I would have never probably started dating him.
00:03:17Like, I had a child before he was even born.
00:03:23They're her kids.
00:03:25They're not my kids, you know.
00:03:27Eventually, are there our kids?
00:03:29I don't know.
00:03:31Love is a risk.
00:03:33One thing I want to take.
00:03:36You know, his age is reflective of how much experience in life he has.
00:03:39So, now that we're moving on into the real world and we're going to live with each other, it will
00:03:44be interesting to see how well we can adapt to that life.
00:03:49I'm sexually attracted to her.
00:03:51I'm physically attracted to her.
00:03:52I'm emotionally attracted to her.
00:03:53So, I'm looking forward to as much time with her as possible to just grow this connection and see where
00:03:59it can go.
00:03:59I'm excited.
00:04:01Love is a risk.
00:04:03The one that I want to take.
00:04:06You gotta jump.
00:04:07Don't look at that.
00:04:08There's no escape.
00:04:10Love is a risk.
00:04:12The one that I want to take.
00:04:14I love you.
00:04:18I love you.
00:04:20Guys, I'm sure you know who I've been talking to.
00:04:23Justin and Jorge.
00:04:24Yes.
00:04:25But they are literally total opposite and they're both really good guys.
00:04:29Yeah.
00:04:30And I just don't know.
00:04:32Are you still torn?
00:04:32I don't know.
00:04:33Like, they're literally just too different.
00:04:35She's like, it's so hard that two men are riding over me.
00:04:38Yeah, she's like, oh my gosh, guys.
00:04:40It's so hard.
00:04:40Life is so difficult.
00:04:41no like no it's it's like the thing with me is with like my connection with justin we've talked
00:04:48about like our lives and stuff and like outside of this and i can like clearly like see like our
00:04:54life like together yeah but with jorge i get like excited and like i noticed that yeah i get a
00:05:00little
00:05:01like yesterday jorge had his shirt off and i did not know he had tattoos i literally was up there
00:05:08and i could not stop staring yeah like and like the sun his body was like glistening i was like
00:05:13that being a spy i know little slut yeah i love it oh my gosh me just drinking the tea
00:05:23my intention coming in here was i want to find love i've been in love once before
00:05:30and i got heartbroken that's the only time i've been in love that's hard you know you have to
00:05:37really um put your heart out there and be vulnerable but um yeah i'm ready for that
00:05:55we're supposed to buckle these nah right
00:06:08god this is gorgeous i came here to find a connection and to meet a lot of people but to
00:06:15ultimately find that person that i do want to settle down with oh my god
00:06:22i think i have a pretty clear sense of who i am and i think i value things that are
00:06:27more
00:06:27mature than most people my age do turn your gear yeah i'm really excited to hopefully continue my
00:06:34connection with derek honestly he seems like a really sweet guy seems like he has his life
00:06:40together i would like to talk to him more but i'm happy i'm happy that i've even started to find
00:06:46something i can do the pedaling and i can move it but the gear situation kind of had me
00:06:52it threw you off but you help me out so
00:06:55so you're not a mountain biker i'm a stationary biker yeah i have never considered myself outdoorsy
00:07:02i actually was just hiking in austria it was awesome it was a solo trip um yeah yeah
00:07:08what brought that on i feel like i'm always saving money to travel you know like everybody's like
00:07:13oh i'm gonna travel at some point but it's like thank you yeah um like when am i going to
00:07:18yeah like
00:07:18now is the time right yeah are you a big traveler is that important to you absolutely i travel a
00:07:24lot
00:07:24i love the fact that you booked a trip yeah where else have you traveled i've been to spain i've
00:07:29been
00:07:29to london why in spain did you barcelona love seville did you love it yeah barcelona's best
00:07:35how could you not love it yeah um i was with my whole family too which was really nice yeah
00:07:40um like
00:07:40i have a pretty small family so it was and it was my grandparents and then like my great-aunt
00:07:45my
00:07:45aunt and my mom okay um but it was like our last family trip with everybody together yeah how was
00:07:51that i mean it was it was fantastic it was great family is like it's very important to me
00:07:56like i said i'm from a small family and i like want to have a big family yeah so i
00:08:02just
00:08:02appreciating those moments together is like that's like a big part yeah no i love yeah i'm the same
00:08:09family's so big okay so big to me yeah no i completely agree i didn't get into details about
00:08:16my family my two boys that i have now i do want to tell her but it'll be a shocker
00:08:22i think if i tell
00:08:23a pfeiffer that i have a 15 year old son and a five year old hopefully that doesn't change the
00:08:29connection we have and the feelings that she has for me though hey jolene do you want to walk with
00:08:43me oh yeah okay you can bring the blanket oh i can really yeah why not yes i have been
00:08:50on the apps
00:08:51before and i'll be so crazy that i'll swipe when i drive and i'm just like kind of addicted to
00:08:58it
00:08:58i'm looking for something authentic and organic i feel like dating girls in the past like i've gotten
00:09:03parts of the one we're going to the promise room see you guys later no i'm just kidding i'm kidding
00:09:10so coming into this it pushes me to talk to girls who i normally would not and it's opened my
00:09:15eyes
00:09:15a bit already damn girl you ballsy with it well i don't know what else i'm supposed to say i
00:09:24might
00:09:24crush you no you're fine okay okay i was terrified going into this because i live a very comfortable
00:09:32routine life but there's like this little this piece right here that just wants someone to be like
00:09:37come here you compliment me thing you know my ex-husband and i we took good care of our children
00:09:45together and we continue to do so and um i remember driving home one day from work and just being
00:09:51so
00:09:51thankful for my life because i had this wonderful man at home who like takes my son to baseball and
00:09:58just feeling true happiness and it didn't work out we just kind of grew apart but i want to feel
00:10:06that
00:10:07again i so badly want to ask you how old you are really yeah but well i don't know why
00:10:13i think it's just
00:10:15like instinct but i'm trying to let that go i i know but i'll tell you what i look young
00:10:24okay so i'm probably older than you think i am i'll just give you that that's it oh god i
00:10:30hope so
00:10:42i'm not used to like doing this dating like multiple people at the same time so this is just
00:10:48really hard and i want to try to move as respectful as i can to both the guys we're here
00:10:53today to do some
00:10:54forest bathing i have here some blindfolds one person leads one person follows and the person who
00:11:03leads has the responsibility of getting them to experience the forest with their other senses
00:11:11vanell is amazing we work well together to me energy wise i want to show her a little bit the
00:11:16gentler side the other side of horror and i've experienced in the past where you know i don't let
00:11:21everybody see that side of me um because not everybody protects that side of me right but in
00:11:27her case she's just i don't know something about her it's gentle energy i love it if i trip and
00:11:33fall
00:11:33it's over with lift your foot there you go come on you think i'd let you fall no okay just
00:11:39trust me
00:11:40you trust me i do trust you all right am i walking straight you're just walking straight now keep
00:11:48walking real slow i got you you will not stumble you will not fall i will not let that happen
00:11:54okay
00:11:57oh you did so good oh my gosh you got me all the way here that was good good job
00:12:05you enjoy it yeah i feel excited um i feel like jittery i feel i don't know i just had
00:12:14a really
00:12:15good time with jorge i've been wanting to just like see a different side to him because he has a
00:12:20really
00:12:20like big personality and today i was able to just like see him more calm more serious he seems like
00:12:27he's a little bit older than me um i'm sure he probably is but he has like um a young
00:12:33spirit
00:12:33in a way so honestly the age factor with jorge doesn't bother me you're my only connection like i'm
00:12:41not really because i'm not like i told you if i look at someone and i'm not feeling it and
00:12:49i know it
00:12:50won't be genuine like i'm not gonna do it because it's not gonna be real but i'm not saying that
00:12:55to put
00:12:56pressure on you justin and jorge are literally total opposites and i don't want to spend too much
00:13:07time tuggling between two guys i want to like make a decision soon but ultimately like i thought i was
00:13:13leaving here with justin um and deep down in my heart i kind of feel if justin was truly the
00:13:20person
00:13:21that i felt like okay that is the one then maybe i wouldn't be so conflicted i like when a
00:13:27man makes
00:13:28it known he wants me well i think i've made it known have i now
00:13:51i think i mean i feel like i'm in a really lucky spot um i'm really happy with where i
00:14:00am with
00:14:01derek right now um how far apart do you think you and derek are in age um i would say
00:14:07like
00:14:0813 to 16 years okay okay that's my guess okay is there any like reservations you have about like
00:14:15a future with him it feels really weird to be like wow this person and i are really aligned and
00:14:20everything seems to be going smoothly like where is the big like when is the shoe gonna drop yeah but
00:14:26i'm just kind of a scaredy cat too with this sort of thing that's okay but i think for your
00:14:31age i
00:14:32don't know what your age is but i can guess and i think that you have a good head on
00:14:35your shoulders
00:14:35thank you that means a lot and i think you're a lot more confident than i was at your age
00:14:40and like
00:14:41putting yourself out there how about you i want to hear all about where your mind is at how you're
00:14:45feeling about things yeah so this has really been pushing me out of my comfort zone i think that's
00:14:51great yeah yeah what's funny is like in talking to some of the men they're like if a girl came
00:14:56after me i think it's hot as fun i know they say that but at the same time like i
00:15:01don't want to be
00:15:02a chaser like i'm not chasing anyone no so it's like yeah do we push ourselves out of the comfort
00:15:08zone and try something different or do we just keep the status quo and yeah yeah oh my god to
00:15:15be
00:15:15determined it's a lot to think about make sure you strap it on i found one i got you there's
00:15:34a few
00:15:34women here that have caught my eye but honestly i'm feeling some vibes with libby it's very
00:15:39just playful she is fun younger very extroverted how did i know you were not going to know how to
00:15:47do
00:15:47this libby is complete chaos in the best ways possible i think
00:15:58i do not do huddles at all you're fine oh god you're fine you're good can i back out
00:16:06i am feeling a little bit of pressure and nerves because i need to go into this date and you
00:16:12know
00:16:12show up be myself but i think i have a tendency to get a little bit nervous when i'm interested
00:16:17in
00:16:17somebody and kind of um feel a little bit more reserved and closed off so i'm hoping today i can
00:16:24just let my guard down and be normal at this point andrew's really the only one that i genuinely
00:16:32find myself attracted to and although my mind is running in circles about the kid thing and the
00:16:40age thing and whatever i definitely have a little crush on him
00:16:47i'm gonna definitely give you the ick today
00:16:49i'm just not gonna be like i'm gonna close my eyes and if i hear screaming i'm gonna pretend i
00:16:54don't
00:16:57one two one go
00:17:02oh god
00:17:07oh my god
00:17:16oh my god i can't believe i almost cried libby is my type like spot on like my group chat
00:17:26is going to
00:17:27be like dude i thought you were going to do something different it's not that i haven't
00:17:32tried to talk to a bunch of people and i'm not saying that i'm not going to keep experiencing this
00:17:37experience and talking to other people but i mean you know if you just something's you something's you
00:17:43and i think that you know for me it's been fun to date younger um healthy i don't know probably
00:17:52not
00:17:52fun yes we survived we made it yeah you weren't helpful though i think i was nothing but helpful
00:18:01personally but i'm glad you got through it and i guess it was a fun thing for us to do
00:18:06it wasn't day
00:18:07two and you see me scared like that okay but as long as you didn't get the ick i did
00:18:12you got the ick
00:18:13no i'm kidding you're all good you're all good i mean go on i think there could be like a
00:18:19strong
00:18:19connection there it's like i'm seeing a lot of her like funny side and maybe there's like a little
00:18:27intimidation there or whatever or nerves you know we're all we all have a little bit of that but i
00:18:31can tell there's like this other side to her that's like super sweet and soft i think if she does
00:18:37have
00:18:38that side like to her i definitely think that you know there would be something there okay all right
00:18:44can i ask you something yeah and like don't get offended you're funny as but like are those is
00:18:50there like a softer side to you like a more like serious like i really do want to have more
00:18:57kids i
00:18:58really do want to find my person i really am here to connect with someone i feel like i love
00:19:03our banter
00:19:04i love how we just laugh and give each other back and forth and don't compliment each other
00:19:10um but is that like a serious side like a warm side to you that's funny that you're like you
00:19:17want to ask me that why is that it's hard for me because i know like in the past like
00:19:22when i fully
00:19:23let people in and been 100 that side of myself it's kind of hard to recover after you get really
00:19:31hurt
00:19:31you know i just have to like warm up to that place because i don't know i get i'm kind
00:19:36of like guarded in
00:19:36the beginning i can see um but yeah well we'll get to that place see it's it strides for me
00:19:44to tell
00:19:44you that you're sort of kind of cute okay well i'll take sort of kind of cute um i feel
00:19:50like i know
00:19:50a lot about you but i wanted to ask you more about your daughters because i feel like i don't
00:19:55know
00:19:55that much about them do you want to know how old they are i know i wouldn't tell you the
00:19:59other day
00:20:00just tell me you freak 14 and 12. sorry was that i can't i can't hide anything 14 and 12.
00:20:14um
00:20:15i'm a little shocked a little shocked i don't think um i was expecting that that's that's new
00:20:23does this surprise you shock what are you thinking i thought they were way younger than that i'm curious as
00:20:28to how old you probably think i am oh shoot i don't know and i don't want to make guesses
00:20:34and i'm a little scared don't strike me as an old person what is old to you i don't know
00:20:42you just
00:20:43great skin care any recommendations yeah drink a lot of water okay thanks for that thank you so much
00:20:50stay out of the sun yeah i'm just feeling a little bit shocked and overwhelmed and i think i might
00:20:57need a
00:20:57a little bit of time to reflect on it i'm not that far from 14. so i'm definitely going to
00:21:05take a minute and reflect
00:21:21i've been to spas but nothing like this i'm keeping myself open to meeting the other guys
00:21:28but i don't have the same connection with others that i do with west
00:21:43what i want when it comes to relationships is marriage now i'm not saying the next girl that
00:21:48i date is going to be my wife but if i could choose it would be a hundred percent going
00:21:53into this date the
00:21:54three that i had my eye on are vanessa lindy and katherine i'm looking for a woman that i can
00:22:00spend
00:22:00my life with a woman i can take home and my parents my mom is happy my dad's happy to
00:22:04see this woman next
00:22:05to me no matter her age oh my god i think west right now is at the time in his
00:22:13life where he likes to have
00:22:14fun he does immature things like back flips into the cold plunge and i'm really continuing to try to
00:22:23like throw that out the window it's like really tough for me what do you think of it i think
00:22:29it's
00:22:29beautiful here i love it it's relaxing i like getting to know you baby yeah what would you want to
00:22:36know
00:22:40i mean things i can't ask but why not you could ask me anything
00:22:48what i wonder how old you i know we're not supposed to be dating and i just want to get
00:22:52to know you
00:22:53i could take you to the promise room we could we could line it up real quick and i'm i'm
00:22:59up for that
00:23:00i know it's kind of crazy like all in right here right now but you know that's it i'm not
00:23:08crazy
00:23:09i think you are you know with younger guys sometimes they get caught up in like the new stuff
00:23:16you know the new is exciting i think part of me is like how has he like walls up like
00:23:21why is he
00:23:22so complimentary so like soon like what is his game here
00:23:27my flirty aspect can be a red flag to people but the things i say are genuine they're honest
00:23:33and i think like more feelings and actions show how i really feel rather than like things i say
00:23:49absolutely natural beauty that we have around it i know it's so pretty
00:23:52i love it and this natural beauty in front of you oh wow that was very smooth that was very
00:23:59smooth
00:23:59i've got to give you props for that good job high five on that
00:24:05hey guys how are you i don't want to interrupt no you're fine you can um i was wondering if
00:24:11you
00:24:11want to go to the other pool we didn't go there yet let's go okay let's do it all right
00:24:14i'll bring him
00:24:15back don't worry you guys have fun okay you take your time okay i have not been successful at
00:24:21dating i lived in a small town my whole life i've met everyone i've dated everyone i wanted
00:24:26to date this one might be deeper will you save me if i now i have the opportunity to meet
00:24:32people
00:24:33from all different places all different ages and i want to explore things and i want to see who's out
00:24:39there are you are you upset right be real i'm really not i'm actually happy about that okay good
00:24:45i'm waiting for that i'm like you know i don't like to compete for attention me neither but i
00:24:49didn't i didn't i didn't know so i would have given you another five minutes and then i would
00:24:53have stolen you away i didn't want to like i was just trying to get a little reaction oh it's
00:24:58called
00:24:58triangulation a little little triangulation you were trying to triangulate well it worked look here we are
00:25:04good works here we are where did you tell me you live again i live in miami you are such
00:25:10a miami
00:25:11boy can i come and visit you one day absolutely 100 no after this entire thing we're we're going
00:25:16back to miami together together i won't make you come to ohio to see me i told you ohio's my
00:25:21like
00:25:22backyard okay yeah coming in yeah i love it okay yeah i'm glad that we got to have our time
00:25:29together
00:25:29yeah and then we'll have more time together i hope yeah for sure is that cool with you it's cool
00:25:34with me all right good okay good get your hand oh she's gonna really answer it i'm sorry i stole
00:25:40you away from other girls i'll try not to do that no i'll continue to do that okay all right
00:25:45sounds
00:25:45good good just like this one two just a quick one
00:25:53you have a nice look
00:26:02you're so beautiful thank you glad that you appreciate it this won't be the end of this you think
00:26:07okay okay good see you tomorrow and stay in the next day okay good okay good all right i'm nothing
00:26:13about this yeah i'm not bad
00:26:21six two huh hey that's six one and a half you don't have to lie with me anything over five
00:26:28eight is
00:26:58i came here for a true connection like i really want to find someone um a husband
00:27:03you know um someone to love and that truly loves me i actually like lavender you do yeah
00:27:11coming here i found two amazing guys that you know i really connected with and like i just have a
00:27:18lot
00:27:18to figure out i i just i don't know i just really don't know what to do ladies first okay
00:27:25yeah yeah okay
00:27:26my connection with vanell so far has been really great we have really good strong kind of uh chemistry
00:27:32it's not common to like really have somebody that you meet you kind of connect with on all those levels
00:27:39and that quickly um so i would ask vanell to go to the promise room today i would um i
00:27:46don't know that
00:27:47she necessarily feels the same way about me but the truth is that is how i feel about her
00:28:00tell me about yesterday oh my date yeah we went for his bathing and stuff yeah not really my vibe
00:28:08but
00:28:08i got to have a conversation with jorge yeah but now i also like someone else too and i'm just
00:28:16not used
00:28:16to like being in that position yeah like dating multiple people at once or opening up myself dating
00:28:23multiple people but like this experience you know forces you to do that yeah yeah who do you feel like
00:28:29you have more chemistry with you guys are just so different we are so different um i think i have
00:28:38chemistry with you yeah um but different kind of chemistry with jorge yeah it's just different
00:28:44it's general it's just beyond i'm not gonna lie a lot of the time i was thinking about jorge and
00:28:55i
00:28:57don't know i just am i think today i kind of got the clarity that i was wanting and it's
00:29:07more of just
00:29:08like a feeling like when i was with jorge yesterday on our date i was more like getting like nervous
00:29:13this and today with justin it was more of like i didn't really feel that
00:29:23anything else you think about no
00:29:31you sure
00:29:34i don't know those wheels are turning up there
00:29:49i just don't want to like upset him or like break his heart or
00:30:01i just feel bad
00:30:06what do you worry about
00:30:08um
00:30:12i don't know i guess i just like worry that like
00:30:17maybe we're just not a good match
00:30:24okay
00:30:27it's a little bit
00:30:30bittersweet i guess because it's like
00:30:32you've been i've been through this before where you connect with somebody like on a visceral level
00:30:37and then something comes in between you and um yeah it's part of dating
00:30:56just because i was her first connection doesn't mean that i was her best connection
00:31:03i really hope jorge sees the same kind of beauty and perspective in her that i see in her
00:31:10her because i know that she deserves that but i don't know that i know what the rest of my
00:31:16life
00:31:17will look like but i am still open to finding like my person and i hope that they're out there
00:31:24that's the goal for me
00:31:32so how'd you sleep how do you feel it was pretty good yeah the cold plunge and the hot tub
00:31:38it felt
00:31:38really good yeah for sure since the spa date i've just been feeling really like icky as soon as the
00:31:47kiss happened i was like what am i doing like this is not me at all
00:31:52like i felt like i moved way too fast and then it just didn't feel right to me afterwards
00:31:57it just made me take like a big step back and like rethink what i was doing
00:32:03the last thing you said to me it was like honesty it's about honesty so like do this journey let's
00:32:08just keep that word in mind you know 100 you know if there are other people you want to explore
00:32:13dates
00:32:13with like i wouldn't be upset like i want you to like have this experience like a full experience
00:32:19for you and i don't want you to feel like likewise yeah part of that is what we're here for
00:32:23and no
00:32:23matter what comes out of this i appreciated that i appreciate this it's like yeah that's priceless
00:32:28honestly right every guy that i date has been a love bomber and immediately just throws everything
00:32:34into it acts like everything's so great and i'm so perfect and everything's right and so the fact
00:32:39that like everything with chris happens so fast so touchy-feely and everything there was something in my
00:32:45brain that was like warning warning like this is not good this is not healthy so at this point
00:32:51i'm feeling like you know chris really isn't the one i didn't want to be disrespectful to you or your
00:32:57time so i'm glad i'm glad that it was well well received so i'm glad we had our time honestly
00:33:03i had
00:33:03a great time getting to know vanessa but i would love to get to know other girls while i'm here
00:33:08because
00:33:09i feel like i would regret not doing that and i'll be happy for her as well if she ends
00:33:13up with somebody
00:33:14else here and actually finds love
00:33:25i think that we should spin back on our conversation i know you were kind of asking about like the
00:33:31more
00:33:31serious side of you yeah i want to see that side yeah and i know that like i might come
00:33:38off as just
00:33:39kind of all funny and like silly you don't want to put yourself out there that much and like possibly
00:33:44get hurt yeah that yeah there we go i get it yeah yeah so how's relationship was said um mother
00:33:52of your
00:33:53children um it's amazing honestly you guys kiss we kiss like really good like it's really amazing i mean at
00:34:04one
00:34:05point maybe we did but no that's kind of how the kids are made that is how kids are made
00:34:10yeah oh my god
00:34:14oh god and we blushed like a little bit maybe a little uncomfortable there i'm just kidding i'm sorry
00:34:21i have no worries yeah all right well let me ask you this you know my daughters are like 14
00:34:27and 12. so
00:34:28like my life is very established in baltimore like it just is like my business is there my kids are
00:34:36there
00:34:37you know say we continue this like do you see yourself in a long distance relationship do you
00:34:42see yourself possibly like relocating if you know things went that far yeah well um i think i'm somebody
00:34:50who like when i like somebody i go all in and honestly i am catching a little bit of real
00:34:57feelings
00:34:57for you and there's a there's a five okay fly fly fly fly help help help i'm so outdoorsy man
00:35:05yeah i've
00:35:06heard that before with your man that's the second time i saved your life i think we're on like four
00:35:11now yeah according to you at least four right now yes every time we spend a little bit more time
00:35:17together i'm seeing there's much more to her than i thought i mean i'm looking for a ride or die
00:35:23and
00:35:24i think honestly after tonight i want to see where it goes i haven't really felt like this in a
00:35:31while
00:35:31about anyone and i guess i don't mind and january love
00:35:48staring at the sun i say youth is wasted on the young and it's true cause all i want to
00:35:56do is sweet
00:35:56nothing with you i came here looking for a different way of dating luckily for me like
00:36:06i'm sitting in a position where like i have made a connection and i'm looking to like build on that
00:36:19i want to take libby to the promise room because i want to continue to commit
00:36:24to this connection that i have with her she keeps me a little off balance and somehow i just i
00:36:31find
00:36:32myself wanting more of that for me having two daughters you know i'm not making that commitment
00:36:41with anyone if i can't see them possibly being in my daughter's lives
00:36:48i would say libby's definitely in her 20s there's just this energy about her that's like hard to ignore
00:37:02i feel nervous overall because there's a level of commitment to it that is really serious but i could
00:37:11potentially genuinely see a future with andrew because i think that he has a lot of qualities
00:37:17that resemble things that i'm looking for in a future partner i think that he accepts those parts
00:37:22of myself that i sometimes feel insecure about initially when i learned that andrew had kids i was
00:37:30extremely thrown off my fear is that our lives are just too different and we're going in different
00:37:36paths but i'm trying to be open-minded through this whole experience i'm nervous for andrew to find
00:37:43out my age because i think that it's possible he thinks i'm a little older than i am
00:37:48i don't know if he thinks realistically after hearing my age that i'm somebody who could be
00:37:53a serious potential partner for him surprise hey beautiful thanks you look handsome
00:38:25okay so i came here because my life back home definitely felt like it was a little bit out of
00:38:36a
00:38:36standstill so i wanted to take a different approach um i wanted to be a little bit more intentional
00:38:44with finding a connection with someone and from the moment i sat down across from you i knew i was
00:38:52in
00:38:52trouble you bring out a side of me that's typically more introverted and it just leaves me wanting more
00:39:03so i know that you know i have two kids one's 14 and one is 12 and it's just very
00:39:11important for me
00:39:12to be able to be with someone where i can merge my entire life and i'm just hoping that that's
00:39:19something
00:39:19something you will be open to growing into at some point i've never been scared of the fact that you
00:39:27had kids and honestly that was one of the things that i liked about you it made me take you
00:39:32more
00:39:32seriously so it doesn't bother me and you chose to be here even though i was kind of hard to
00:39:38get through
00:39:39too at some times a little bit a little bit and i'm excited for the rest that's to come
00:39:50okay oh my gosh you're asking me to marry you i am oh this is crazy right
00:39:59you're so you're so nervous i know you're okay i'm typically not nervous yeah big commitment it is a
00:40:05big commitment will you commit to me i will yay good job okay well i feel like there's only one
00:40:21more thing
00:40:22for us to do um
00:40:25um i am 38 years young
00:40:34don't know if i was expecting 38. definitely a little shocked no i i thought you were younger
00:40:41like i thought you were a lot younger but um it's gonna be okay are you scared i'm a little
00:40:51nervous okay
00:40:52i am 22.
00:41:14i feel like you've shown me enough that you know despite the age gap
00:41:23i've seen another side of you that is more serious and if you're all in on this and you didn't
00:41:31run when
00:41:32you hurt my age i'm not going to either so don't they say that age is just a number it's
00:41:37just a number
00:41:38yeah so we're good
00:41:47okay
00:41:48i'm feeling shocked
00:41:52i'm convinced i don't want you till i'm feeling down i've dated younger women before but this is
00:41:58definitely the biggest age gap and yeah i mean it makes me nervous i am a little shocked about
00:42:05andrew's age honestly don't know what i was thinking it was but i don't think i thought it was 38.
00:42:15i didn't think i would ever be with somebody 16 years older than me
00:42:25when i was 22. yeah my life was was crazy um i definitely wasn't ready to
00:42:33be fully committed to someone i don't think i feel like if i think about it too much i'm gonna
00:42:38get in
00:42:38my head like you know can she meet me where i'm at in life can i meet her where she's
00:42:43at in life but
00:42:46i'm already in it there's no turning back
00:42:58so i told you what it was like for me growing up yeah what was it like for you did
00:43:03you did you play
00:43:04outside did they have outside i did but like i was an only child so i was always begging my
00:43:09dad to like
00:43:10play with yeah like when he was working you know did you have neighbor kids to play with i did
00:43:15but
00:43:15we moved when i was about seven or eight so after that yeah i was kind of by myself yeah
00:43:21you know
00:43:22i came here wanting to find somebody find a connection in the past i'm notorious for running
00:43:28away from something when it gets serious and i want a real relationship that's not something
00:43:33you know i've had in a while oh i like this this is so pretty it is it's gorgeous all
00:43:38right we gotta walk
00:43:38and stop in the middle and look down i want to find love everybody in my family is married everybody
00:43:51has a partner um two years ago my mom was diagnosed with cancer
00:44:01we recently just lost her and just watching my dad like be there for her
00:44:06and just how much he loved her it just made me realize like i'm alone and it's time for me
00:44:11to find
00:44:12my person i wish i had like a penny or something to make a wish in here
00:44:23i wish that vanessa likes me there we go yeah initially i connected with chris but it wasn't
00:44:31something that was like really meaningful and not gonna settle honestly i feel like logan is
00:44:38really a gentleman like i could see some potential here it's so cute yeah it's nice vanessa and i had
00:44:44a really good conversation and i'm excited to continue to get to know her more i feel like we have
00:44:49a
00:44:49connection there's no question about it i've been meaning to ask where you're from because your eyes
00:45:08are just so exotic uh incredible looking honestly i'm from bakersfield california i mean there's just
00:45:13something like i said when they asked me like what's your type and i said eyes so many times me
00:45:17too yeah me and vanessa had a connection but that ended very quickly so leah with her beautiful smile
00:45:24just walked up to me and she's somebody that i've been wanting to get to know from the beginning but
00:45:30we
00:45:30didn't have really any time to have a serious conversation where do you live i live in miami
00:45:36you're in my name too yeah yeah yeah well i mean my background is lebanese my mom and my mom
00:45:41was born
00:45:41haiti actually i'm ready for something exciting and something i haven't had yet which is love
00:45:48i want the right person who wants me and chooses me because it sucks not finding somebody
00:45:55like when i first had the first like go around first of all it was disappointing we didn't get
00:45:59to talk i know because i was like and i was like oh well there he goes and i was
00:46:03like one day
00:46:04but here we are so that's cool chris is the guy that i would want to approach me and i'm
00:46:10like
00:46:10really surprised and happy that i finally connecting with someone so i'm super hopeful
00:46:15that i'm oof let's pray let's pray that he's ready because i am
00:46:34how have you been i've been good i think i've just
00:46:39obviously like our last conversation i told you that i had another connection here
00:46:43mm-hmm and i was just like needing clarity and yesterday i went on a date with him and you
00:46:50not
00:46:50being there just made me realize how much i like you i think for the remainder of this process like
00:46:56i just want to continue this with you god hey are we onto something i don't know but are you
00:47:07my ride
00:47:07that i i want to be i'm really clear on banal i think that she and i have an insane
00:47:15connection
00:47:16it's difficult to actually find someone you really connect with but i feel somewhat anxious to tell
00:47:23it my age because i've experienced in the past where the age came up and she was like oh no
00:47:29i i can't
00:47:30date that's like dating someone that's close to my dad's age so i hope she'll be accepting of it
00:47:36i really do so what do you say so if you want to pursue it then i mean i do
00:47:41i do too all right there
00:47:46Jorge just makes me feel seen like he accepts me for who i am and i love him
00:47:57i love the person he is for who he is
00:48:06honestly like dating him like i could tell he is older than me
00:48:09um i would think that he's probably like in his 40s but my dad told me that he doesn't want
00:48:18me to
00:48:18get married to anyone 10 years older than me so the 40s need to be pushing it
00:48:22i'm ready to show you my cards and chase all the stars that we see
00:48:42this definitely is a big day for me i want to take jorge to the promise room because
00:48:50i see a future with him i can't put into words like the chemistry we have it's just a feeling
00:49:06jorge makes me excited he makes me happy he's just a man like a man i just looked like
00:49:15i was gonna say that i'm sorry i really like i really like being around him that's the second
00:49:21time i've done that oh my gosh okay stop
00:49:27i'm nervous about learning his age i don't know if i could move forward with him in these over late
00:49:3240s
00:49:35that's just a huge age gap huge um and my family would freak out
00:49:45i am a little bit nervous because well actually i have some things on my heart i want to talk
00:49:52to
00:49:52jorge about i would potentially have to walk away from really wanting to be with jorge if our
00:49:58conversation doesn't go well i am preparing myself for the worst a little bit because i just don't
00:50:07know how he would react it would be literally heartbreaking to walk away from jorge
00:50:15oh my god i really like him we made him wee a little more than kids
00:50:25vanilla is truly a genuine interesting intriguing woman who i'm enamored with
00:50:32a quiet world and you'd have me believe it's like been so many different things in a brief
00:50:41amount of time that i've been attracted to i want to find out more i want to continue down that
00:50:47road
00:50:47i haven't felt connected to a woman in quite some time and i'll be damned if i lose control
00:50:54it would suck if vanell was affected by my age because that would be the end of the connection
00:50:59right so it would suck that we can't pursue it further and find out more and see if this is
00:51:04really what we both believe it is i'm a little bit nervous with that
00:51:12but ultimately if it bothers her then it wasn't meant to be right it's the way it goes
00:51:21what will be will be that's never made much sense to me and i'll be damned if i lose control
00:51:34how are you i'm nervous don't be come here
00:51:47so coming into this experience
00:51:51i wanted to find a genuine connection
00:51:56and coming to this i wanted to find a potential husband and since meeting you
00:52:07i feel like i found that i didn't think that i would find a connection this deep with you
00:52:16with you i feel safe i feel cared for i feel protected i feel respected and i like that you
00:52:26are yourself
00:52:28with whoever you're interacting with
00:52:36you're doing good yeah um coming to this experience i was hopeful but still like nah
00:52:43santa claus not gonna happen you know but hopefully that i could find you know the woman that i wanted
00:52:49to be in my life you know and that means a lot to me and that's it's not easy as
00:52:53you know it's not easy at
00:52:55all it works well with us because your quiet confidence and energy cool me out because i'm on
00:53:0110. you know that you've seen how i am and so i need that i really need that and want
00:53:07that in my life
00:53:08it is what it is you know when you know yeah you know thank you for that but i do
00:53:12have something on
00:53:13my heart that i have been wanting to tell you okay
00:53:20um so you know faith is really important to me and honoring god in every way i can is really
00:53:26important
00:53:26to me
00:53:31one of the ways i have made a promise to god is to honor god with my celibacy i've been
00:53:38celibate for
00:53:39almost two years now and i didn't make a promise to wait till marriage and i think in my past
00:53:45relationships when it came to my faith i've been very wavering with that and i'm at a point in my
00:53:51life where i'm no longer doing that so i need someone that understands how important that is to
00:53:58me and that wants to walk on that journey with me
00:54:04so i just need to know like what you think about that
00:54:14well first off i'm not i see you're getting nervous about it yeah and there's no need to be
00:54:19nervous about it because if that's what you're feeling and if that's what is important to you
00:54:24you don't have to be nervous you can say it with your chest you can say it with like you
00:54:27mean it
00:54:27because that's what you mean right um is that something that i've done or is that something that
00:54:33i've actually actively practiced no i haven't is it something that i would respect with you of course
00:54:38i'll respect it with you um i'm not gonna back off of you now after we've gotten to this place
00:54:45because you say that that's not that doesn't scare me you know it doesn't make me i'm i'm a grown
00:54:50ass
00:54:50man you know what i'm saying come on i'm not afraid of that no it's okay no that makes that
00:54:57makes me
00:54:57really happy i think also something else i wanted to talk about is like i don't know if you
00:55:07have kids if you want kids like you want to know if i want kids yes but i'm not gonna
00:55:14have kids outside
00:55:15of a marriage that's not gonna happen that's not gonna happen so if i'm gonna have a child with
00:55:21someone we have to be in a marriage that's not gonna break up i'm not willing to have no baby
00:55:26mamas
00:55:26no i'm not having that so that's not gonna happen but to answer your question yes i wouldn't mind
00:55:31having kids if you're my wife well then that's what we're talking about so yes the answer is yes
00:55:38any more questions get them out no that's that's all i pretty much have you sure i'm excited too
00:55:48now's the time i don't know i'm just really happy that i found you in this experience like really like
00:55:56i feel like if i'm being really honest like maybe i was meant to come here to meet someone like
00:56:02you like you have really made this experience just so amazing for me um thank you are you not
00:56:12nervous anymore no you calm me down so fast that's what it's supposed to be yeah so now we're here
00:56:19in
00:56:19this promise room we're here in this promise room and you need to know my age
00:56:27but hold up so are we making that commitment
00:56:33i choose to yes you choose to i choose to as well so i'm gonna put it on first because
00:56:39i think i think
00:56:40that's the is the one that i have waited all my life for okay
00:56:48does anything about you finding out my age scare you i guess you're gonna tell me now yes i am
00:56:56mm-hmm i'm 27. what you're 27. uh man whoo okay yeah i'm you know it's a this is the
00:57:12way god's
00:57:13testing my words like okay it's not nothing but a number okay it doesn't bank me back off of you
00:57:17okay
00:57:18so you ready for mine because i don't know if you're ready for this i am i really don't know
00:57:24if you're ready for this one you ready
00:57:29in 60.
00:57:36i'm too far gone
00:57:40there's no way back
00:57:43i'm caught in the ecstasy
00:57:45i'm
00:58:01i'm
00:58:02i'm
00:58:03i'm
00:58:06i'm
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