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00:00:06You
00:00:22Beautiful oh
00:00:24Thanks, how did you sleep?
00:00:27Great, what about you?
00:00:30Um, I woke up in the middle of the night freezing and had to grab my own blanket because someone
00:00:36Took all the blankets. I told you if that happens, you just have to steal it back. I know, but
00:00:41you just look so peaceful sleeping
00:00:44Thanks, that's so nice. You were snoring. No, I wasn't. You're lying
00:00:49But I feel like we sleep well together like you don't mind me too much. I feel like we
00:00:55There's like a little cuddling and then when we're ready to go to bed
00:00:59It's like you get on your side and you stay on your side. Yeah, that's how I like it. Yeah,
00:01:03that's how I like it
00:01:04I like when we wake up on opposite ends
00:01:09Is it uh, is it weird at all for you?
00:01:14I feel like no sometimes when I wake up and i'm like a strange man in my bed like a
00:01:18little bit
00:01:18But then i'm like yay strange strange
00:01:22Andrew in my bed. Yeah, yeah, but I don't feel weird. I feel like we're good
00:01:27Mm-hmm. So you want to be roommates forever? Yeah, I want to be roommates forever. Oh
00:01:33I mean, we're going to have to uh decide on something at some point
00:01:40Does commitment scare you?
00:01:44No
00:01:48Are you sure? No
00:01:51Do you think our real world lives would like really switch our dynamic?
00:01:58What do you mean?
00:01:59Like what if I was like I know you really want to hang out with me tonight, but like I
00:02:03have to you know
00:02:06Take my daughter somewhere
00:02:08Would you just be like devastated?
00:02:11I think that I more so would respect that you have like
00:02:14um a schedule and like discipline and I think if anything
00:02:20It kind of turns me off when people are like, okay, i'll just drop everything to hang out with you.
00:02:24It's like
00:02:25Nope, you stay in your lane. I'll stay in mine
00:02:27And I think that's kind of a problem that i've had in previous relationships
00:02:31I've always wanted somebody to like add for my life and not like try and suffocate me and like take
00:02:36take away from it
00:02:37That's been like a big issue for me too. It's like I need somebody who can like handle me like
00:02:42I don't know like wanting to live my life like with my friends and have fun and like whatever, you
00:02:48know
00:02:48No, I want that
00:02:50For you
00:02:51Nice
00:02:51Go go live your life still
00:02:54Have fun. Just don't forget about me. Never
00:02:59Never that
00:03:00I'm enjoying what we have right now. I'm waking up to you. Yeah
00:03:04I feel like um, well, it's probably the nicest thing i'll ever say to you
00:03:08But like the more i get to know you the more i like you more
00:03:12Which is probably like unexpected
00:03:15um
00:03:16You have been more affectionate
00:03:18I like it. I like that side of you. You like it or does it not freak you out?
00:03:22No, it's definitely been a nice side to see of you
00:03:28There's so much more to you
00:03:30Elizabeth
00:03:31Don't say my legal name
00:03:44I'm just in the nick of time
00:03:48Love it
00:03:49It's awesome
00:03:51From cocktail list
00:03:53Perfect, thank you
00:03:55You wanted an oyster shooter, right?
00:03:58It's an oyster shooter. Is that one of the drinks?
00:04:01I say we go for it
00:04:02Yeah, just because they're an aphrodisiac. Yeah, don't need the help, I guess. I don't know. I guess not
00:04:07Yeah, seems like you had a bunch last night
00:04:11Oh god
00:04:14We're in for a treat then, huh?
00:04:16Well, yeah, I have to
00:04:17Yeah, you don't need any
00:04:19One oyster down
00:04:20Oh dear god
00:04:21What did I get myself into?
00:04:23Yeah, you started that one
00:04:24Yeah, I guess so
00:04:25I asked for it
00:04:27Um, anyway, so
00:04:37I just wanted to talk about, like, kids and having kids and, like, you know, what's that luck?
00:04:44Nice, yeah
00:04:45Yeah, I mean, obviously this is something that's important, it's like
00:04:50It's like, naturally needs to be talked about
00:04:54So
00:04:57Wow
00:04:58Yep
00:04:58Cheers
00:04:59Oh, yeah
00:05:00I'm not dodging the question, just cheers
00:05:02Yeah, sure
00:05:02You just need, like, a second to, like, think of a response
00:05:07I saw how much work my parents put into my sister and I
00:05:13From the very beginning, I never thought of, like, having a family of my own
00:05:19And I, it was never something I thought of, like, oh, I want to teach my son baseball
00:05:23I want to teach, you know, my daughter this or that
00:05:25So at this stage in my life, if someone comes up to me and asks me if I want kids,
00:05:31I kind of tell them, you know
00:05:34That's not something I have the time for right now, the emotional capabilities for
00:05:39Right
00:05:41Will that change? I don't know
00:05:43It's obviously, like, a huge part of life
00:05:45Mm-hmm
00:05:46Um, you may want to do it in 10, you may want to have kids in 10 years or whatever
00:05:51That ship's sailed for me
00:05:54Because if I did even get pregnant, that would be unhealthy
00:05:58I've thought about this kind of a situation
00:06:02You know, obviously, since I met you and everything, like, what, what if you said, like, yes, I want to
00:06:08have kids
00:06:08Like, what would that mean for me, and how would that be, like, worked around
00:06:17Obviously, like, adoption or, like, servicing
00:06:22I don't really want kids, and that's my answer today
00:06:26Do I think that's going to be my answer in 10 years? I do, because I'm
00:06:30I just, I like my peace
00:06:34Yeah, do you want to hear something absolutely insane?
00:06:37Something else absolutely insane?
00:06:39Like that, in a regular situation, like, I just met you, knew your age right away
00:06:46And, like, say I just met you, like, at a family event or, like, some sort of party
00:06:52I'm like, I would probably want to fix you up with my daughter
00:06:57Oh, God
00:06:57Oh, God
00:06:58You guys didn't make me together, but
00:07:01Sorry, Lauren
00:07:15You like kissing me
00:07:17You better than Justin?
00:07:30You lift me up
00:07:34You lift me up
00:07:36You lift me up
00:07:36You lift me up
00:07:36I have a question for you
00:07:37Yeah
00:07:38Okay, so I know you talked about your dad, and you were taking care of him
00:07:44Mm-hmm
00:07:45At one point
00:07:46Yeah
00:07:46Now, what's that like? Is he, like, self-sufficient? Like, I know he had a hard time
00:07:50That was 10 years ago, like, what's it like now?
00:07:52Pops is doing well, like, he's, he's healthy, he's definitely self-sufficient
00:07:57Because I know we're gone for a long time right now
00:07:59Yeah
00:08:00Right?
00:08:00So can your family survive without you?
00:08:03Like, or they have to step up kind of a situation? Does that make sense?
00:08:07Because it's a good question because I always said to myself that I wouldn't be able to settle down fully
00:08:14Until my dad passed away
00:08:17I don't think that's the case anymore because as I've seen the last two years
00:08:21Number one, his health is not so bad that he can't take care of himself
00:08:24Right?
00:08:24Okay, okay
00:08:25I think, I think a big part of me being a stability was, like, the emotional side of things
00:08:29I have been struggling with that
00:08:30Just, like, can I fully commit to somebody with my, my family still counting on me the way that they
00:08:36do?
00:08:36I believe that I can
00:08:38I do feel more connected with Chris, but, like, the more that I feel for him, the more I can
00:08:45get hurt
00:08:47So I want more clarity from Chris
00:08:51I'm excited to see this
00:08:53I want to see if he is mobile, if he can possibly come to LA
00:08:57I got you
00:08:59Thank you
00:09:01Does he want to start a life in California or is he stuck and rooted in, in Florida?
00:09:07Now that I know that your dad, like, your dad's good
00:09:09Yes, he, you know, you're his son, whatever
00:09:12But would you be willing to go to LA too or anywhere in California close to my family?
00:09:18My parents, like, they helped raise my niece and nephews, you know what I'm saying?
00:09:24Because they're there
00:09:24I wouldn't be completely closed off to moving, but I don't think that that's, um, option number one, if that
00:09:31makes sense
00:09:31Why?
00:09:32Because, like I said, there's not just people, but there's responsibility, there's business, there's so many things that I have
00:09:38to change
00:09:39But it's more than that, I mean, that, that's surface level
00:09:43The real reason why I feel like I need to be in Miami is because of the family that really
00:09:47counts on me
00:09:47When I say counts on me, like, when I'm not there, it's not the same
00:09:50But you can still move and visit your family a couple of times a month
00:09:54And I'm not trying to pull you away from your family
00:09:55No, no, no, I'm hearing you
00:09:56The goal in any family is to be self-sufficient and like, hey, like, I, obviously you love, you love
00:10:01your family
00:10:01But like, I know you guys were fine without me
00:10:03If I was going to move, it would be there and especially to move for a reason like this, it
00:10:07would be even greater
00:10:08It's just
00:10:11A lot
00:10:17I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I can't
00:10:29Have some looking movement
00:10:35You want to give me a...
00:10:36Get out of your fucking fight
00:10:40you stay on your side of the bed and i'm over here i'm great good good fucking night
00:10:47turn your light off turn your light off and be quiet good night i'm good
00:11:00well you said you should talk about your celibacy you don't think you can wait i think it'd be very
00:11:08tough for me so why am i here there's there's literally just there's a note in between like
00:11:15what are you waiting for to determine yes or no are you waiting until i waver or something
00:11:21because this is something i'm not going to want what we just did what is that it's a formal
00:11:27intimacy we are intimate we're not all the way intimate you riding me and simulating it and
00:11:35having an orgasm that was confusing i need to know if this is something you're okay with or not
00:11:40i don't know what to do can you at least put yourself in my shoes i put myself in your
00:11:46shoes
00:11:46and what you're saying doesn't make any sense to me i know for sure whether i get married or not
00:11:51i'm not doing that until i get married if i don't get married then i'm never doing that
00:11:56that is how i feel about that i'm happy for you what do you want to do with that that
00:11:59is something
00:12:00i needed you to either know and be okay with or say hey like that's not something i could do
00:12:05and that's okay also but i need you to have that clarity for me
00:12:27jorge and i had a little sickering late yesterday
00:12:31so it kind of was awkward sleeping last night and it's still not even like resolved it's still
00:12:37something that like it's a conversation that i still need to have with me
00:12:45i think that anyone who feels like they have a celibacy journey they have the right to feel the way
00:12:50they do but the person who doesn't want to be self has a right to feel the way they do
00:12:54in the promise
00:12:55room she was talking about her journey of celibacy of course i go oh really like damn but there's
00:13:01nothing vanelle can't tell me about who she is that i'm not going to respect i i can't be like
00:13:06oh
00:13:06well you're doing something bye and then miss out on someone who i think is uh you know an amazing
00:13:12woman it's just it's not something that i want to do that's where i'm at and i think it could
00:13:18become a
00:13:18very big issue
00:13:27like i really really want this to work out i really do see him as my person
00:13:32but this was like my number one like non-negotiable in the past i have been wavering about this and
00:13:38i'm no longer willing to do that so um if we can't get on the same page about it then
00:13:43it would be i
00:13:44would have to walk away
00:14:04lip gloss
00:14:07yeah looks good and sparkly look good today thanks look good every day swear
00:14:14you look good every day thank you
00:14:23let's do this either this platter or this platter yeah it's good optics
00:14:29optics good optics you like that word somebody taught me that word oh um this really cute guy
00:14:34i met yeah yeah he taught me what that word means yeah you look good today thank you sir did
00:14:41anybody
00:14:41tell you look gorgeous no just you thank you
00:14:47that's good strong it tastes good so i think things have been going well with us but i think
00:14:56with uh you just you know saying we're roommates or you know questioning that and so um you know i
00:15:03don't
00:15:03know if that's just insecurities or you know things that you know i are coming up you know as we're
00:15:11kind
00:15:12of moving like maybe insecure yeah just about about me you know like anything that i'm doing you know
00:15:18yeah and that's the thing you know we started off pretty rocky you know yeah and i think you know
00:15:24that's the thing that you know and i do go an angry you know without having that you know fun
00:15:26playful chemistry and building a just you know friendship that banter that thing that you want
00:15:33when the spark does disappear because every relationship that you know disappears over time you know
00:15:38that's not going to just last forever right
00:15:41do you feel like you have a spark for me
00:15:43yeah absolutely okay
00:15:45do you not see it
00:15:46yeah but it's just funny because me
00:15:50being older like I think I'm gonna find somebody 20 years younger than me and
00:15:55he's just gonna be like a firecracker like to me it's almost like I was
00:16:00thinking like I'm gonna have this like great fling while I'm here. I was about to say
00:16:04like you asked me these things it's like are we just roommates do you
00:16:09just want this two weeks but is that like are you projecting because that's
00:16:12that's how it seems like so far. No I don't want to be roommates I wanted to
00:16:16have like so much fun like it like fireworks like 4th of July. Yeah so
00:16:21you wanted a flame and I'm getting like Memorial Day. Memorial Day is fun you get
00:16:26the pools open up and you know you can get your boats in the water but I want like
00:16:31like middle of the summer hot and steamy fireworks barbecue and we're only at
00:16:38Memorial Day but we can keep moving forward to get to the 4th of July. Okay so
00:16:43this isn't something that so I'm hearing you correctly I'm taking things too
00:16:47serious. I was expecting us to just jump the 4th of July but as far as like
00:16:51passion wise and spark wise I want to move things to the 4th of July number one.
00:16:57Right. Separately aside from that when I'm talking to you I feel like I'm walking on
00:17:04eggshells because I feel like there's just some conversations you don't want to
00:17:08have. Maybe I'm overstepping maybe I think I'm just trying to be helpful and I
00:17:12don't want to mother you at all. I was going to say I mean there's often times like you're
00:17:15telling me what to do over and over and over again and that's not like it's like
00:17:20it do you see me as somebody that's you know as your equal or do you see me as
00:17:24somebody who is lesser because you're older than I am. Not at all. I see you.
00:17:28How's that? Yeah. How do you think that makes me feel when I'm constantly being
00:17:31told you know what to do? Yeah I know. I'm not trying to say it to like I'm just like
00:17:38a go-getter.
00:17:39You are. You obviously see me. I get up in the morning. I appreciate that. I like that about you.
00:17:43You know do I tell you what to do? I'm trying to bring you on board to like your plan.
00:17:48So do you
00:17:49like the idea of me? Do you like me? I like you. Okay. I like you. I want to respect
00:17:57her. I want to
00:17:57show that I respect her but I also want her to know that just because she's 20 years older than
00:18:02me
00:18:02doesn't mean she has knows more to do in a relationship than I do. Like we're equals here
00:18:09and I don't want her to think that we're not. You know I feel like I've given her space to
00:18:13be
00:18:13herself but I feel like she's also kind of dominated that space and and today was the first day where
00:18:18it's like okay I let's nip this in the butt. Like I don't feel like you're treating me as your
00:18:23equal
00:18:24and that's why we had the conversation we had at dinner.
00:18:37Good? I'm great.
00:18:41I am tired.
00:18:43You're tired.
00:18:44I'm already tired. I might jump right into the bed.
00:18:48Really?
00:18:49Yes.
00:18:49Come on.
00:18:50Yeah.
00:18:51You can't have this day we had and you're going to sleep. That's so boring.
00:18:54Time for a nap.
00:18:57Nap for Chris.
00:18:58What?
00:18:58Is that wine?
00:18:59No. No that's the emergency.
00:19:03You're really going to leave me?
00:19:04Leave you? No.
00:19:06You're going to sleep.
00:19:06Going right in there.
00:19:07We just had a great brunch. You're going to sleep right now?
00:19:09Perfect. After brunch, nap.
00:19:12That's not how life works.
00:19:13You know that I never nap? I actually never never nap but I also usually sleep like a normal
00:19:19even me.
00:19:23Our room is bright. How are we going to nap?
00:19:26It is pretty bright. Look at the balcony though. It's nice.
00:19:28It's beautiful.
00:19:29I mean we could sit outside.
00:19:31Wow.
00:19:32All right. You know what?
00:19:34Decisions made.
00:19:35Shower, nap, gym.
00:19:37Grocery store.
00:19:38Food.
00:19:38Wait. What happened to the massage?
00:19:40No. Can we look at a massage and sit?
00:19:41I'm down for massage.
00:19:42That can put us to sleep.
00:19:42Can we look into that first and then?
00:19:44Because that can put us to sleep.
00:19:45Okay. Let's do it.
00:19:46Okay. I'm with it. Let's do it.
00:19:47That's the point. I like it.
00:19:48I can change.
00:19:50Me and Leah have incredible moments.
00:19:52When it's good, it's so good.
00:19:54But I don't think it's very normal to want to spend every single moment of every single
00:19:59day with your significant other.
00:20:01I need to have moments to myself.
00:20:02I'm so used to being alone.
00:20:04I'm alone all the time.
00:20:05And now all of a sudden I'm spending every second of the day stuck at the hip next to
00:20:08somebody.
00:20:09Let me shower anyway. Might as well.
00:20:10Might as well?
00:20:11Might as well.
00:20:12Uh, leave me then. Fine.
00:20:14Okay.
00:20:15I'm going to do nothing.
00:20:18For me, I never thought about age as a reason to settle down with somebody.
00:20:24But I am 41.
00:20:25I do know what I want.
00:20:26I know how valuable our time is.
00:20:29Because not, we're not guaranteed tomorrow.
00:20:31None of us are.
00:20:33I value every day that I have.
00:20:35And I want to value it with somebody that wants to be with me.
00:20:39That's why I'm here.
00:20:40Look at me.
00:20:44You're going to take a shot.
00:20:45You're just going to leave me hanging.
00:20:46I can't believe you right now.
00:20:48You're so mean to me.
00:20:55I hate you.
00:21:11Do it slow.
00:21:15I don't need to.
00:21:16I just get out a little excited.
00:21:20You just do it more often than you're going to need to.
00:21:26Like, not having a while.
00:21:30Yeah, for sure.
00:21:33It's good.
00:21:33It just needs to last longer.
00:21:35I know.
00:21:36Or you just have...
00:21:37Trust me.
00:21:37Trust me.
00:21:38Trust me.
00:21:38I've never had bad reviews.
00:21:41I know what I trust me.
00:21:43No, wait.
00:21:43Women are ovens and men are blowtorches.
00:21:46So a girl needs like warmed up purges.
00:21:48I know.
00:21:49Trust me.
00:21:50I know.
00:21:50So you do know?
00:21:52Okay.
00:21:53Okay.
00:21:54Wow.
00:21:56You have some time.
00:21:58I do.
00:21:59We're going to brew.
00:22:11A pensive moment for Jack.
00:22:15Just depending what color nails I'm getting.
00:22:18Teresa and I have a four o'clock manicure.
00:22:21Okay.
00:22:22She's going with red.
00:22:26You're going to go with red, too?
00:22:27I might twin with her.
00:22:29Oh, dear God.
00:22:34How are we feeling today?
00:22:36Are we feeling like a bad bitch today?
00:22:39Maybe not because I haven't reaffirmed it, but we can do it.
00:22:43Okay.
00:22:43I am a bad bitch.
00:22:47Say it.
00:22:49I am a bad bitch.
00:22:51I am the baddest bitch.
00:22:54I am the baddest bitch.
00:22:57Everyone is obsessed with me.
00:23:00Libby is obsessed with me.
00:23:03Period.
00:23:04Period.
00:23:10Good morning, Lieutenant Vanessa.
00:23:13Lieutenant?
00:23:14Oh, my.
00:23:16Morning.
00:23:18Morning.
00:23:18How do you feel?
00:23:20I feel good.
00:23:20How did you sleep?
00:23:21Good.
00:23:22I feel good.
00:23:23I feel like I'm meeting the real Logan now.
00:23:25I feel like I was meeting his representative.
00:23:29I met the Logan representative, and now I get to meet the real Logan, and it makes me actually
00:23:35like you ten times more.
00:23:37Oh, good.
00:23:37Like, honestly.
00:23:38Like, this is what I've been waiting for, for you to just let your walls down and just
00:23:43tell me how you really feel.
00:23:45Good, bad, ugly.
00:23:47Like, I'd rather you be 100% you than 100% what you think you're supposed to be like.
00:23:53And I know, like, in the past, like, I would feel like I would run away, but I don't feel
00:23:59like I want to run away.
00:24:01Finally, finally, like, this is what I've been asking for.
00:24:04Bring the passion.
00:24:05Bring the realness.
00:24:06Right.
00:24:07Okay.
00:24:09I don't like to kiss and tell.
00:24:11I'm a lady.
00:24:11But I was concerned about the lack of intimacy, and now I am not concerned about that.
00:24:17We're definitely not in the friend zone anymore.
00:24:23Am I blushing right now?
00:24:27You're good?
00:24:28Mm-hmm.
00:24:29Ready?
00:24:30Mm-hmm.
00:24:31You're going to have a good day?
00:24:32Yes.
00:24:32Have a good morning?
00:24:33Yeah.
00:24:33Good.
00:24:34Yeah.
00:24:34Let's get up.
00:24:34That's something we checked off the box, and now we can move forward and find ways to grow
00:24:43and make it a little more spicy.
00:24:46And I can't wait to tell Teresa.
00:25:05We're at a point where we're struggling a little bit.
00:25:07Yeah.
00:25:09And I think yesterday was definitely rough.
00:25:16We had an incident yesterday where some crazy guy comes walking up, you know, making threatening
00:25:24remarks, and I told him that he better back up.
00:25:27Like, I'm not going to, you know, I'm going to handle that.
00:25:29And so we exchanged comments.
00:25:32We were trading remarks, and Bunnell took that some kind of way.
00:25:35So for me, from my perspective, if a random crazy guy comes up talking crazy and loud
00:25:43and saying threatening things, I take that seriously.
00:25:47And a lot of that is from where I'm from.
00:25:50I know what that is.
00:25:52I felt like in addressing him and addressing the situation, I'm going to be very protective.
00:25:59I just am.
00:26:00I'm going to protect you, and I'm going to protect me.
00:26:01I'm not going to let anybody just run up on me and talk crazy and make threats.
00:26:08And I think you felt like, well, I don't want to put words in your mouth.
00:26:11How did you feel?
00:26:13I felt uncomfortable in that situation, and I just felt like it could have been handled differently.
00:26:23Okay.
00:26:24You don't know what it would be like to be a man in that situation.
00:26:28I'm used to dealing with someone on the streets like that.
00:26:32Mm-hmm.
00:26:33And so while you may have thought that it could be handled differently, I felt that that was
00:26:39exactly the way it had to be handled because there's no way I'm going to let him put you
00:26:44in danger or make a threat like that.
00:26:46I'm just not going to do it.
00:26:48I'm going to neutralize that threat.
00:26:49The second part for me is if I make a decision or if I do something like that, I would
00:26:55hope
00:26:56that you would respect and honor my decision that knowing that I'm doing, I'm not foolish.
00:27:02I'm going to do what I think is best.
00:27:05I mean, I feel like they're still not, like, listening to me.
00:27:07I'm not saying that, like, you know, you thought that, like, I wasn't having your back.
00:27:12You're not listening to the fact that I said I was uncomfortable in that situation.
00:27:16And in that moment, when you were expecting me to maybe be like, oh, thank you, or blah,
00:27:21blah, blah, I was still very uncomfortable.
00:27:23Both of you guys going at it, you and that guy, I was uncomfortable with the whole thing.
00:27:28I was uncomfortable with seeing you in that way.
00:27:30I was just very uncomfortable.
00:27:32We've already gotten over the whole age thing.
00:27:35We've gotten over our families and our lifestyles and all that stuff.
00:27:38And I think now we're dealing with the real serious day-to-day, do we align and do we get
00:27:46along?
00:27:47Mm-hmm.
00:27:47Would you agree with that?
00:27:48Yeah.
00:27:53Honestly, I'm just kind of just very torn.
00:27:56Like, are we going to, like, keep staying here to see if we're compatible or maybe we're just not compatible
00:28:02and we can leave this experience?
00:28:04Like, that's what I'm thinking in my head right now.
00:28:07Mm-hmm.
00:28:09I'm open to whatever.
00:28:10Whatever you, you know, if you were down to do it, I'm down.
00:28:12But why are you just leaving it on me?
00:28:14I'm not, I'm not leaving it on you.
00:28:15Do you think that I, maybe I'm not the person for you or do you think I could be?
00:28:19It's like, you can't be, okay, if you want to, let's go.
00:28:22If you don't, let's not.
00:28:23We had two disagreements.
00:28:27And if two disagreements break us down, then I don't, I question our strength.
00:28:34The truth is, it should.
00:28:36But these aren't just, like, disagreements that aren't, like, I mean, these are, I guess,
00:28:42it's not so much the disagreement for me.
00:28:44I think, well, one, the celibacy thing, that's already something that, like, we're not on
00:28:49the same page about, too, but, which is also a big deal for us that we need to talk about,
00:28:54too.
00:28:55And then the second one is just more so, I guess it's not about, like, the disagreements,
00:29:00it's just more so about who we are individually as, like, people.
00:29:06I don't understand what you mean.
00:29:07Basically, this is who you are, and I would have to be with who you are, right?
00:29:12In the future, you would handle every situation like that.
00:29:15That's just who you are, and vice versa.
00:29:18That's just how I am, you know?
00:29:20Well, in a situation where I'm on a street with my woman, and a man comes up making threatening
00:29:28remarks and having an object in his hand, I'm absolutely going to step to him, and I'm
00:29:33absolutely going to handle it like that.
00:29:35And if that is a deal-breaker for you, then, yes, I totally agree with wherever we go.
00:29:40Like, we can just say, oh, that's not going to work.
00:29:43For me, on the flip side, while it's not a deal-breaker, it is definitely a serious issue
00:29:49that my woman who's going to be with me backs my play and knows that I'm wise and intelligent
00:29:56enough to handle situations in the correct fashion.
00:29:59They're speaking from what knowledge?
00:30:01You have never been in that situation.
00:30:02You've never been on the streets.
00:30:04You've never been involved with that kind of personality or that type of threat.
00:30:08So you're speaking from a position of, just let me finish.
00:30:13You have to trust your partner, and I have to trust mine.
00:30:16If you don't have that, then you don't have anything.
00:30:19I have encountered people like that.
00:30:20I have been in situations like that, and I know exactly how it has to be handled.
00:30:24See?
00:30:25Okay, I'm really done.
00:30:26I'm done talking.
00:30:28Okay.
00:30:29I have nothing to say.
00:30:30Okay.
00:30:33Hmm.
00:30:45Can I get this mic off me, please?
00:30:49Oh, sorry.
00:30:55Here, break that up.
00:30:56I'll get something.
00:30:57I'll get something.
00:31:15This is a good choice.
00:31:23This is bomb.
00:31:23What was, like, your go-to carnival food?
00:31:27Cotton candy.
00:31:28It's on...
00:31:28Whoa!
00:31:30I know.
00:31:30It's crazy.
00:31:31I'm a big hater, actually, of cotton candy.
00:31:33Really?
00:31:34Like, your hands get sticky.
00:31:35It's so good.
00:31:36Okay.
00:31:37So, this is something that's important to me because my, growing up, my parents introduced
00:31:45me to a lot of their partners, oftentimes too early, especially just, like, you never
00:31:52want to introduce people if you even think there's a chance that there's, like, that they're
00:31:57not going to be there for a long time.
00:31:59Right.
00:31:59Because that's troubling.
00:32:01Right.
00:32:01So, what are your thoughts on that?
00:32:04Like, what is the timeline?
00:32:07So, I have a process with that.
00:32:08Okay.
00:32:08I completely, 100% agree.
00:32:10Obviously, I'm extremely protective, and I would never do that.
00:32:14It's not a good look, right?
00:32:15Yeah.
00:32:15Because you're still teaching them things, and you can teach them bad habits, so it's
00:32:20already rough enough on kids because their parents aren't together.
00:32:23So, my process is I'd introduce you to mother first, and then we'll go from there.
00:32:30Right.
00:32:31Our side, we'll definitely make sure we show respect, and the boys will see that we show
00:32:35respect.
00:32:35Yeah.
00:32:36I don't think my parents ever had anything where they, like, had my dad's girlfriend
00:32:41meet my mom.
00:32:42Nothing like that.
00:32:43Oh, right, yeah.
00:32:43Like, there was, like, very little interaction there, which always made it feel very separate.
00:32:48Yeah.
00:32:48And I'm sure there was probably, like, a lot of tension that I wasn't aware of because
00:32:52I was, like...
00:32:54Growing up with it, it's, like, I wouldn't want to repeat, like, mistakes that were made
00:32:59with me with another child.
00:33:01Have you ever thought about yourself being in this situation, though?
00:33:05I mean, truthfully, no.
00:33:07Not really.
00:33:08Yeah.
00:33:08Um, but then again, I never have assumed I'd be in, like, a lot of situations in my
00:33:13life.
00:33:14I don't know.
00:33:15There's a lot of challenges in life.
00:33:16Absolutely.
00:33:17Like, this is one that I think is a positive, a positive challenge, because at the end of
00:33:20the day, it's, like, you're just getting a bigger family.
00:33:23Yeah.
00:33:23And you're, like, you get to love somebody, like, extra.
00:33:27Oh, I love that outlook on it.
00:33:28So it's, like, yeah, I don't know.
00:33:30Yeah, yeah, I love that.
00:33:31I wasn't sitting at home being, like, oh, I'm going to be a step-parent one day, but...
00:33:34I can't wait for that.
00:33:35Woo!
00:33:35No.
00:33:36Um, but you just take what comes, you know?
00:33:39Yeah, absolutely.
00:33:40Obviously, your sons are, like, a massive part of your life in Dallas.
00:33:44Yeah.
00:33:45Um, after all of this, once this experience is over, like, what are you thinking for, like,
00:33:53uh, like, for us?
00:33:54Yeah.
00:33:55I would love for you to consider moving to Dallas.
00:33:58I was hoping that you would, because it's hard, you know?
00:34:02Obviously, it's next to impossible for me to even consider moving right now at this time.
00:34:07So it would make sense.
00:34:09Absolutely.
00:34:09And I would never, like, I would never even expect that or ask.
00:34:12Like, that is such an undertaking.
00:34:14And I also think knowing that you had kids, like, I knew early on it was, like, you were
00:34:20not in a place to just, like, up and, like, move around.
00:34:23Yeah.
00:34:24Um, like, I can move.
00:34:27Um, but just, like, I feel like we need to have a conversation about...
00:34:32Yeah.
00:34:32What that looks like.
00:34:33Yeah, for sure.
00:34:34That makes me happy, for sure.
00:34:35You.
00:34:39Yeah.
00:34:41Yeah.
00:34:41I don't know.
00:35:18You good?
00:35:20What are you thinking about with us?
00:35:23With us?
00:35:24Yeah, do you feel that, like, maybe we're just not a good match?
00:35:29That we just, that there's no reason for us to be here?
00:35:32I mean, we didn't finish, we didn't even finish the conversation, so I don't know.
00:35:37Okay.
00:35:39Um, so I guess, like, with the celibacy thing, like, you saying, I don't know, was just hard for me
00:35:47to hear.
00:35:48Because going into the Promise Room, this was something that I was very anxious about telling you about.
00:35:54And leaving the Promise Room, I thought that from what I gathered from our conversation, you made it seem to
00:36:02me like, oh, like, I don't care about that.
00:36:04It's fine.
00:36:05Like, I'm okay with that.
00:36:06And then coming in here, now you're like, oh, I don't know.
00:36:10If you told me, I don't know, I would have went home in the Promise Room.
00:36:14I would have not came all the way here, lived with you, and done all of this.
00:36:18I wouldn't have came here.
00:36:20We've done things, so that's not celibacy.
00:36:23So that's kind of confusing for you to say, well, I'm so very serious about that, but I have, there
00:36:30are things that I will do that are...
00:36:32Okay, so in the Promise Room, why didn't you just say, I don't know?
00:36:35Why didn't you just say, I don't know?
00:36:37Like, why didn't you say that to me then and there?
00:36:40I'm going to speak again.
00:36:42I'm not going to interrupt you.
00:36:43I hope I can speak.
00:36:45So first off, let me address it.
00:36:47In the Promise Room, I told you, there's nothing that you have to be afraid of.
00:36:51You can tell me anything, and it does not matter, and that is the truth.
00:36:54Do I think that celibacy is enough to keep me away from someone who I think I have a valid,
00:37:02genuine connection with?
00:37:04No, I don't think it is.
00:37:06I don't know.
00:37:07I don't think it is.
00:37:08Additionally, if you're saying you're celibate, but yet we can mess around and do other things, then it's not really
00:37:16celibacy.
00:37:17It's really a version of what you think celibacy is.
00:37:21So then that means, okay, it's not really, I'm not really saying I want to be celibate.
00:37:26I'm just saying that you're certain.
00:37:27I won't involve myself in intercourse.
00:37:29So if I were to hold you to what you're saying, you could have said in the Promise Room, well,
00:37:35I want to be celibate in the sense of I won't have intercourse, but I'll do other things.
00:37:40That's not what you said.
00:37:41So what I'm getting at is, and if you look at it, the disagreements, it's not been me violating those
00:37:49principles.
00:37:50It's like you like to dictate circumstances.
00:37:53You like to be in control of them.
00:37:55I'm not a dude that you can control like that, and that's always going to be me.
00:38:00What does the Bible say?
00:38:01The power of life and death is in the tongue.
00:38:02So you need to be careful of what you say.
00:38:05That's just the way I feel.
00:38:07Yep.
00:38:08I guess we're good, right?
00:38:11I don't know what good means.
00:38:12What do you mean?
00:38:13I guess we're good.
00:38:15Like, we can go our separate ways.
00:38:19That's what you want?
00:38:20Yeah.
00:38:21Okay.
00:38:26I'm really done now.
00:38:28I know we've had our ups and downs.
00:38:31Now we're going round and round.
00:38:41Every time we have a conversation, it feels as though he's talking at me and not talking with me.
00:38:47Living together, we're seeing our viewpoints are just very far off.
00:38:54I don't necessarily think it has anything to do with his age.
00:38:58I think it's just the type of person he is.
00:39:02We're really just not compatible, in my opinion.
00:39:05But I did really want it to work.
00:39:11People will look at this and say, well, it's their age difference that broke them apart.
00:39:15And that's absolutely not true.
00:39:17My connection to Vanell was very real and very genuine.
00:39:20And I don't think that that plays a part in it.
00:39:22We could not talk about certain things.
00:39:26And that, I mean, I don't care how big the age disparity is, be it one year or 50, if
00:39:32you can't communicate, you're going to fail.
00:39:40So, I'm disappointed that I spent the amount of time that I did with her, and it ends this way.
00:39:48You know what I mean?
00:39:48I mean, we deserve better.
00:39:53I'm trying to keep a smile, but inside, I'm really hurting.
00:40:04I'm trying to keep a smile, but inside, I'm really hurting.
00:40:24My faith is everything to me, and that's where I find my strength.
00:40:29And I've always said that I would be okay with walking away from the things I desire and want if
00:40:36it costs me my relationship with God.
00:40:44And I know that this connection is not going to be easy to find.
00:40:50And I know I won't find this again.
00:40:56But I've never felt this way about someone before.
00:41:18Oh my God, speak of the devils.
00:41:21Hey, guys.
00:41:22These two.
00:41:23How are you doing?
00:41:24How are you doing?
00:41:25So good to see you.
00:41:26I am so excited to talk to the other couples and see how roomy life is treating them.
00:41:32It looks like the rain is taking a day off.
00:41:36Look at this guy.
00:41:37Hey!
00:41:37Look at this guy.
00:41:38How are you beautiful?
00:41:39Oh my God, you guys look good.
00:41:41Look at this guy.
00:41:42Prince Harry.
00:41:43I'm looking forward to a fun night, just seeing how the guys are doing, seeing who's the best chef, seeing
00:41:47who's the messiest.
00:41:48Looking great, man.
00:41:49You're the pinstripe style.
00:41:51I feel like we're going, you know, quadruple date, or I don't even know what six dates is, but just
00:41:56going out with our best friends, it's going to be fun.
00:41:59I'll make you believe in magic.
00:42:01Won't you believe in me like a fairytale?
00:42:03We're so classic.
00:42:04Hey, guys.
00:42:06What's up, brother?
00:42:08You look adorable.
00:42:10I love your dress.
00:42:12How's it going?
00:42:13Give it to us.
00:42:14Good.
00:42:15Really good.
00:42:16Yeah.
00:42:17Yeah, I mean, it's been good.
00:42:19Like, our connection is getting stronger, but we've had our fair share of arguments.
00:42:22Like, I'm not going to sugarcoat anything.
00:42:24Lieutenant Vanessa in the apartment.
00:42:27Logan's got away with his words, doesn't he?
00:42:29Fucking hell.
00:42:30Non-subtle.
00:42:31We talked about it.
00:42:31We talked about it.
00:42:32It's so clear to me.
00:42:33Yeah, we got everything we need.
00:42:35No, we can't complain.
00:42:37We're living the good life.
00:42:38Wow.
00:42:39Wait, are we last?
00:42:41Sticking to the bit.
00:42:42I love the all white.
00:42:44I love it.
00:42:45Yes, it's from Miami.
00:42:46Yeah.
00:42:47We just went around the circle.
00:42:49We were honest and talking about, like, our trials and tribulations.
00:42:51We haven't had one problem since we got here.
00:42:54Wait, what?
00:42:54I haven't had an issue here since we got perfect.
00:42:56Smooth sailing.
00:42:57Wait, I love her.
00:42:58Lies.
00:42:59Lies.
00:43:00This is the truth room, man.
00:43:01Come on, you got to know.
00:43:02This is the circle of trust.
00:43:03Can we get another drink first?
00:43:06We're missing a couple.
00:43:07We are.
00:43:07Yeah, we're missing.
00:43:09Where's our hand now?
00:43:10That's it.
00:43:11Are they getting married already?
00:43:12Yeah, yeah.
00:43:13Honeymoon.
00:43:13Honeymoon is already being planned, I think, right?
00:43:16Has anyone seen them in a while?
00:43:17No.
00:43:17I haven't seen them in a while.
00:43:19I mean, we saw them the other day, and they seem to look...
00:43:21Quiet.
00:43:22Same.
00:43:23Or one seemed quiet, the other one seemed very boisterous.
00:43:26But, like, that's just their personalities.
00:43:34Hello.
00:43:34Hello, hello.
00:43:36Look who it is.
00:43:37Come on, come on.
00:43:39Hey.
00:43:39Wow, all white.
00:43:42Fucking good, man.
00:43:44Love the sweater.
00:43:45Well, hello, everyone.
00:43:45You all look lovely this evening.
00:43:47Good to see you all.
00:43:48Yeah, it really is great to see y'all.
00:43:50Good to see y'all.
00:43:51Everyone looks so in love.
00:43:52Good to be seen.
00:43:54Well, I'm sure you've all noticed, Jorge and Vanell are not here tonight.
00:44:00Are they coming?
00:44:01Earlier today, they made a really tough decision.
00:44:05They realized they weren't the right match, and they decided to end their relationship.
00:44:11Wow.
00:44:11I miss me so smile.
00:44:13Wow.
00:44:14I didn't see that coming.
00:44:17But look at all of you.
00:44:19Y'all are still here.
00:44:21You're showing up.
00:44:22You're putting in the work.
00:44:24And that's what it takes to build something real.
00:44:28Work, communication, and trust.
00:44:31How are you all really doing?
00:44:34Vanessa, Logan, how are y'all doing?
00:44:39Why do you have to start with us?
00:44:42Long, awkward pause.
00:44:43Since you left, I mean, we were wondering.
00:44:45I mean, yeah, we have some challenges.
00:44:48Just getting acclimated.
00:44:49I haven't lived with anyone in a really long time.
00:44:52And just, it's more just getting used to sharing space with somebody that I'm not used to.
00:44:58Like, we don't really have big problems.
00:45:00It's just the little stupid things, you know?
00:45:02What have you learned about Logan since living with him?
00:45:05Oh, boy.
00:45:07No, that he's a lot different than what people see on the surface.
00:45:11Everyone sees him as, like, this loud party boy and, like, hey, everybody, how you doing?
00:45:16He actually has a lot of depth and a lot of, like, sensitivity and character to him.
00:45:21And I think he's very mindful of things.
00:45:23And I don't think he portrays that to everyone else.
00:45:28This process has taught me a lot.
00:45:30Living with her has taught me a lot.
00:45:31And, you know, I want to continue moving forward.
00:45:35Her old dad moment.
00:45:37Boy, Logan's growing up.
00:45:39I love it.
00:45:40I love it.
00:45:41I love it.
00:45:41Teresa, how have you been feeling?
00:45:43I've been feeling great.
00:45:45I mean, I think John has demonstrated that he does not act like his age, which is what,
00:45:53why I was attracted to him in the first place.
00:45:55We have gotten along so well.
00:45:58It's been almost too good to be true.
00:45:59I'm like, I want him to fight with me.
00:46:01I'm like, please fight with me.
00:46:03Well, enjoy the peace.
00:46:05Disagree.
00:46:06It'll come.
00:46:07Chris, I'm curious.
00:46:08How has cohabitation been for you?
00:46:11I think it's been hard on both of us.
00:46:13We've never lived with anybody.
00:46:15I've never lived with anybody.
00:46:16She's never lived with anybody.
00:46:16But I can adapt.
00:46:17Yeah.
00:46:20Okay, I'll speak for myself.
00:46:21You don't feel like Chris has been able to adapt?
00:46:23Go ahead, Chris.
00:46:24Speak for yourself.
00:46:25Go ahead.
00:46:26It's been harder than I thought.
00:46:27Okay.
00:46:28Just the living with somebody, being with someone 24-7, and being very, very different in our routines and in
00:46:35our lifestyles and all of the above.
00:46:37And I think as well on her end, although maybe she adapted to the living together a little better than
00:46:42I was, I still think it was affecting her, don't you think?
00:46:45Yes, because it's hard.
00:46:47Because I like cuddling.
00:46:49I like sleeping next to someone.
00:46:51She knows.
00:46:51But he's different.
00:46:52You know, he runs hot.
00:46:53So that's like an automatic, this is like a sweatball, you know?
00:46:56So it's like, you know, that's different.
00:46:58Yeah.
00:46:59So it's like, all right, I'll see you.
00:47:00I'll be in my corner.
00:47:01You be in your corner.
00:47:03We'll see you in the morning.
00:47:04You know what I mean?
00:47:04So that's different.
00:47:05The last time we saw you, it was very giving honeymoon phase.
00:47:10I'm waiting for it back.
00:47:11So you lost it.
00:47:12Do you feel like we're still in the honeymoon phase with you two?
00:47:15Or do you feel like things are getting real?
00:47:16We're seven years in right now.
00:47:17Okay.
00:47:18All right.
00:47:18Oh, my God.
00:47:20Derek and Pfeiffer, I know y'all hit it off very early in the beginning.
00:47:25Has living together brought y'all closer and closer?
00:47:28I mean, I would absolutely say so.
00:47:31You know, moving in is big, and you don't really expect things to go smoothly.
00:47:36I know I certainly was like, okay, now is the time when things are going to start coming up.
00:47:39But, I mean, it's really been great.
00:47:42It's been amazing.
00:47:43Good.
00:47:44It's awesome to hear.
00:47:46Andrew and Libby, when you guys revealed each other's age, there seemed to be more hesitation
00:47:52than excitement.
00:47:54Do you feel like living together has brought you closer together?
00:47:57In all honesty, really, the only time the age gap has really played a factor has been
00:48:04the dumbest things ever.
00:48:05It's like, what is Hannah Montana?
00:48:08She had no clue who Posh Spice was.
00:48:10I'm like, what?
00:48:11What?
00:48:12She doesn't even know who the Spice Girls are.
00:48:13What?
00:48:14And I'm like, are you kidding me?
00:48:15I relate to that feeling when I met Natalie and I found out how old she was.
00:48:21I was, like, nervous, you know?
00:48:23I was very self-conscious.
00:48:24But the more I got to know her, I saw a woman who was mature beyond her years that, despite
00:48:31us having those jokes about movies I liked that she had never heard of, I found that we
00:48:37shared a lot of common interests.
00:48:38We had the same perspective on life and also laughing about her lack of pop culture knowledge.
00:48:45I mean, that's spot on, to be honest.
00:48:48So it doesn't make you, like, question things with Libby.
00:48:50It's just more of, like, oh, reminder.
00:48:53It's a reminder.
00:48:54And that part's the kind of fun.
00:48:56I get this constantly.
00:48:57I mean, constantly.
00:48:58They keep us young, Nick.
00:48:59They keep us young.
00:49:00Yeah.
00:49:02Well, you started this wild ride falling for someone without even knowing their age.
00:49:07And you moved in together to find if that spark could handle real life.
00:49:12And so far, you've made it work.
00:49:14But let's be honest.
00:49:16It's been a bit of a bubble.
00:49:19No outside pressure.
00:49:20No outside voices.
00:49:23Well, that is about to change.
00:49:27Starting tomorrow, you are getting visitors.
00:49:32Very special ones.
00:49:33People whose opinions matter a lot.
00:49:38Oh, God.
00:49:39Your friends, your families.
00:49:44Daddy, I need another drink.
00:49:47This is where things get real.
00:49:51Because nothing challenges a relationship like meeting the people who matter most.
00:49:56Wow.
00:49:58So tonight, soak it in.
00:50:01Have the hard talks.
00:50:03And get on the same page.
00:50:05Because it's time to introduce your bold new love story to the people who matter most.
00:50:13I'm so scared.
00:50:15Enjoy the night.
00:50:16Good luck.
00:50:17And good luck.
00:50:17Thanks for that, Mom.
00:50:23So, you ready for this?
00:50:24No.
00:50:25Bring it, I guess.
00:50:26I don't know what else to say.
00:50:27Absolutely not.
00:50:27We're in the mix.
00:50:28Yeah, bring it.
00:50:28This is crazy.
00:50:29Like, let's be honest here.
00:50:31You're not making me feel good.
00:50:33No, I'm not.
00:50:34I'm not making you feel bad.
00:50:35I need to know why it's so scary for you to introduce someone to your family.
00:50:39I think it's more just surprise, right?
00:50:41Yeah.
00:50:41I wasn't upset.
00:50:43But it's like the thing, the reality of the situation, I don't introduce anybody because
00:50:47I keep my life separate.
00:50:48And so, you know, that's why it was a shock.
00:50:52It's not, it's not anything against...
00:50:54I'm not, I'm not nobody.
00:50:58Logan's got away with words.
00:51:00I'm glad you think this is funny.
00:51:02I don't think it's funny.
00:51:03I mean...
00:51:05Why do you think I think it's funny?
00:51:07Because you're like...
00:51:13Tell me.
00:51:16I don't want to do this.
00:51:24It's not right.
00:51:30You know, we've been in this bubble.
00:51:33And it's really comfortable.
00:51:35And it's really fun.
00:51:36And it's great.
00:51:37And that's not reality.
00:51:40Like, my reality is my kids.
00:51:48This is not a fucking joke.
00:51:50It's not a joke at all.
00:51:54My kids are like everything to me.
00:51:56They're like every fucking thing.
00:51:58I don't want to...
00:52:00I don't want to hurt them.
00:52:02If like my kids are here and they are like,
00:52:05Mom, this is not good.
00:52:07I can't handle it.
00:52:09I don't know if I could move forward with them,
00:52:11which is like heartbreaking to me.
00:52:13Because I'm already like developing feelings for a job.
00:52:19So, like, to say goodbye to that would be also really hard.
00:52:26Sorry, like, I'm not taking your feelings more into account.
00:52:29But, like...
00:52:30No.
00:52:30They're my priority.
00:52:32And what is to come.
00:52:35Like, I just don't even know how to, like, prepare for this.
00:52:54From my point of view, you know,
00:52:57Nick and Natalie said what they said,
00:52:58and I had my reaction.
00:53:00And then you were obviously offended by that.
00:53:04Okay.
00:53:04I said my piece.
00:53:07And then you obviously still weren't having it.
00:53:10All of a sudden, when I'm me or I have a reaction
00:53:13or I do something, you're like, don't do that.
00:53:15You had a negative reaction to them saying your family's here.
00:53:18I wanted to understand your reaction.
00:53:20And now you're upset with me
00:53:23because I had a reaction to your reaction.
00:53:26The bottom line here is
00:53:27you're afraid to introduce me to your family.
00:53:30I didn't know if it was because of my age.
00:53:32I didn't know if it was because it's a girl, period.
00:53:35You just gave me a generic fucking answer.
00:53:37And now you're turning around
00:53:38and you're trying to blame this on me.
00:53:40Your voice.
00:53:41Fine.
00:53:42Vanessa.
00:53:43Okay, I'd love to listen to you.
00:53:44I'm just saying.
00:53:47Like, I don't know what you're making that...
00:53:50Like, to introduce a girl to your family,
00:53:53does that...
00:53:54Did they think, like, that means we're getting married?
00:53:57Does that think that...
00:53:58What does it mean to them?
00:54:02Just somebody in my life that I care deeply about.
00:54:05Like, I don't...
00:54:07And you don't care deeply about me?
00:54:09I do.
00:54:09I'm just saying it's been a long time.
00:54:12That's all it is.
00:54:14What is this ring?
00:54:16Yeah.
00:54:16Is that a promise?
00:54:17Like, I know we're not engaged.
00:54:19I know it's not...
00:54:20I know it's not everything in the world,
00:54:23but it's a step.
00:54:25And, like, us meeting our family is another step.
00:54:28Right.
00:54:30And you're like,
00:54:31I feel like you doing that, like,
00:54:32stop our progress.
00:54:34Like, you don't want to take the next step.
00:54:42I don't know if you're the one.
00:54:43I don't know how long we're going to be,
00:54:46but we're still trying to figure that out.
00:54:48So that's why my reaction was the way it was.
00:54:50Okay.
00:54:50Do I want to grow this connection?
00:54:52Absolutely.
00:54:53Do I like you for you?
00:54:55Absolutely.
00:54:56Am I worried about our age gap?
00:54:58Yes.
00:54:59But do I think you're this awesome person
00:55:01who I've been falling for
00:55:05over the last couple weeks?
00:55:07Am I nervous about introducing
00:55:11somebody that's 20 years older than me
00:55:13to my parents?
00:55:17Yes.
00:55:21If your kids don't like me,
00:55:24this is done.
00:55:25Yeah, I'm big stressed, though.
00:55:27I don't think it really hit me
00:55:29what's in store for us
00:55:31with our families coming.
00:55:33Oh, my God.
00:55:34It's both my parents.
00:55:35How old do you think I am?
00:55:37She looks like she's 30,
00:55:38probably at the most.
00:55:40Maybe at 10 years.
00:55:41Really?
00:55:42Remind me.
00:55:42I don't know.
00:55:43How old are you?
00:55:44I'm 23.
00:55:45She seems really cool.
00:55:47Fun.
00:55:48She just can't rent a car
00:55:49to drive out to.
00:55:50No!
00:55:50Has she been married before?
00:55:52Yeah.
00:55:53Does she have children?
00:55:57It's just so hard,
00:55:58and I don't know
00:55:58if it's supposed to be this hard.
00:56:00I feel like it's killing you.
00:56:01I'm sorry,
00:56:02but you're not ready
00:56:03to be a stepmom.
00:56:04These are his children, Libby.
00:56:06So when you're 40
00:56:07and he's 60,
00:56:09do you have worries
00:56:09or concerns about that?
00:56:11He's, like,
00:56:12having an issue with the age,
00:56:14and that's why he's so hot and cold.
00:56:16Can you tell us
00:56:16about his age?
00:56:19No.
00:56:19I mean, I can,
00:56:21but I don't want to.
00:56:22What's your reasoning
00:56:23for not telling your kids his age?
00:56:25Why should I have to reveal it right now?
00:56:27We're not ashamed of it.
00:56:28I'm not ashamed of it.
00:56:29It's really none of your business.
00:56:31I'm still gonna have a voice.
00:56:32Don't fucking come for me,
00:56:33because I will...
00:56:36You shared space.
00:56:38You shared lives.
00:56:39But now,
00:56:40it's decision time.
00:56:42Do you leave here as a couple?
00:56:44Or do you walk away
00:56:46and leave single?
00:56:48I think it's very possible
00:56:49that Andrew's gonna break my heart
00:56:51on this mountain today.
00:56:52The unknown is,
00:56:53am I gonna be able
00:56:54to give her what she truly wants?
00:56:56There's a chance that
00:56:57we walk away
00:56:58without each other.
00:57:04Is he really ready?
00:57:06I'm not sure.
00:57:08Do I risk it all?
00:57:09Or do I make
00:57:11the hard decision to end it?
00:57:14I have a huge decision to make.
00:57:16I don't know
00:57:17if I'm ready for this.
00:57:19You've been really patient.
00:57:21But I just worry
00:57:22that it's too much.
00:57:25I just didn't see this coming.
00:57:27I just didn't see this coming.
00:57:57Bright eyes
00:57:59Where our kingdom falls
00:58:06All far now
00:58:09Our kingdom falls
00:58:11Our kingdom falls
00:58:15Oh, far now
00:58:17Our kingdom falls
00:58:19Yeah, right
00:58:21Our kingdom falls
00:58:23Our kingdom falls
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