00:00How to meet women in your 30s. If you're a 30-year-old man, the world is your goddamn oyster.
00:05And if you're a 30-year-old man, hunting oysters is probably top on your priority list. I mean,
00:09really, when you're in your 30s, there are unlimited options for women. You can date women
00:13in their 20s, you can date women in their 30s, you go for some of that older MILF action in their
00:1840s, whatever you like. You're actually in the perfect age range where the highest number of
00:22women will be interested in you. And why is that? It's because you have some level of maturity,
00:26maybe, but at least you'll be perceived as such for many men in their 30s. They've matured to some
00:32level career-wise. They have a good focus on what they want in life and they haven't accumulated too
00:37many wrinkles yet. So if you're a man in your 30s, you should be branching out there and trying to
00:40meet women in as many ways as possible. You're starting in a great age range, even if you don't
00:44have a lot of dating experience, you're at a perfect age where you have time to learn, you have time to
00:49get some relationships and some relationship experience under your belt, especially if you've
00:53in the future you want to have a serious relationship, but maybe you're not ready yet.
00:58And you don't have to be in a rush to jump into a relationship that you're probably going to hate
01:02because if you're choosing a relationship where you don't have options, that's probably the worst
01:06choice of all. So don't settle, don't settle for second best. Get some experience right now, get out
01:11there, learn different ways to meet women. I'm going to cover a few different ways to meet women
01:14right now. But as a man in your 30s, this is your time to shine. So let's go.
01:18How to meet a woman in your 30s. So as a man in your 30s, you can try some of the following.
01:26This is going to be a quick list. I'm not going to go into all the details about how to do it.
01:29But basically get out there and experiment. Choose the method that works best for you.
01:33But just keep in mind that no matter what you choose and if you don't have much experience,
01:37it's going to take some time to learn. You're going to have to get used to rejection because
01:40that's really the only way you're going to get good at dating. So number one, street approaches.
01:44As a man in your 30s, you're going to have lots of different options for the demographics you can meet.
01:48Women in their 20s or your 30s or 40s and you're going to be a prime candidate for them all.
01:54Meeting someone on the street is really going to require going direct. So you're going to have to
01:57have some balls on you as well as learning some social skills. If you do try this route, make sure
02:02to mind their space. Nobody likes it when a stranger gets right up in their face. So stay out of their
02:07personal bubble and don't touch them. Don't tap on their shoulder or something weird like that.
02:11Just act like you're getting directions and start with excuse me. Number two, indirect methods to start
02:16conversations. You can do this in grocery stores and coffee shops and restaurants, any kind of retail
02:22outlet. Basically, you're going to be making a comment on something you see that's right in front
02:26of you or something that the girl is doing. Just make sure it's relevant to her. As long as it's
02:30relevant, you can say almost anything to get this conversation started. But don't show too much
02:34interest. That means don't be turning towards or right. This is not a direct approach. It's just a
02:38casual opener. You're throwing out random comments just to see who clicks with it and who engages in
02:44conversation with you. Number three, bars and clubs. Bars and clubs are great if you're a guy in your
02:4830s, but only if you like bars and clubs. If you like drinking, you like partying, this is probably
02:53going to be a place for you. But in that case, you're probably already doing it. But if you're not
02:57meeting women this way yet, that just means you haven't taken a chance yet to go and talk to them.
03:01So you're going to have to learn how to do that in the bar and club environment. Now, there are lots of
03:06other ways to meet women when you're a guy in your 30s. Obviously, you can do online dating if you
03:10like. You can go to parties. You can get introduced by friends. You can go to different social events
03:15or join classes or meetup groups. It doesn't really matter. The point is that you should find something
03:20that you like so that you're going to do consistently and then take a chance and start
03:24conversations in those environments. As a man who wants to meet women in your 30s, you have lots of
03:30time to make this work, but not so much time that you have time to waste. So you should get on it.
03:35That's all for today. Until next time, conquer and win.
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