Alternatives To Online Dating

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00:00Alternatives to online dating. If you're sick of online dating, you may be looking for some

00:04alternatives so you can get off of online and meet real people. As a guide, the odds are stacked

00:08against you when you go online. You're automatically filtered out by your stats, including your age

00:13and your height and other factors as well, and it's all about your photographs. A small percentage

00:18of men do really well online and you get the vast majority of the women there, but for everyone else

00:23you're left with the less desirable choices. But on the positive side, she'll be satisfied with a

00:28foot long at 7-Eleven. So let's jump into some alternatives to online dating for real men just

00:32like you who want to meet great women who are looking for great guys just like you. So let's go.

00:41Alternatives to online dating. Now as a dating coach, I'm very biased here because I've been teaching

00:45guys for over 11 years how to meet women in public naturally. No clubs, no alcohol, no bars, and no

00:51apps. So the first thing I'm going to suggest is that you actually start meeting women in public.

00:56Great thing about meeting women in public is you get to see what you're signing up for. No more fake

01:01photographs or photographs which are really old and not accurate in some way. Because hey man,

01:06you deserve better than that. You signed up for online dating so you can meet a model, but instead

01:09you just got the state puff marshmallow woman. But how do you meet women in public? There's a number

01:13of different ways, so I'm going to outline a few right here. I won't go into full details because

01:17that's going to be a much larger article or video, but I do have other videos on that which you can find

01:22in the comment section below or the description. So here's a short list of different ways you can

01:26meet women in public to avoid online dating. Number one, the grocery store. It can be very easy to

01:31start up a conversation with somebody while you're shopping. All it takes is a little comment and a

01:36smile. Number two, coffee shops. Coffee shops are a great casual spot where you can meet women,

01:42especially if you see a single woman enjoying coffee by herself. Of course, don't ruin that coffee

01:45for her. You're going to want to learn how to start a conversation in the best way possible.

01:49Number three, a direct street approach. If you see someone walking down the street, there is a way

01:53to do this that is really effective. Obviously, don't get in her personal space. Don't touch her

01:57when you approach. Just treat it just like you're asking for directions. But instead of asking for

02:01directions, you go direct and tell her why you're talking to her. Number four, bars and clubs. I just

02:05said I don't do the bars and clubs things. That's not what I teach guys. However, it can be a great

02:09option if you like bars and clubs. However, not a great option if you feel like you have to push yourself

02:14to go to bars and clubs and drink excessively just to meet women. But if that's already your thing,

02:18there'll be lots of women at the bars and clubs that you can meet. Although demographics, depending

02:23on the places you go, may not be the best relationship quality women. And number five,

02:27any woman you run into, any public space, in any situation basically. With possibly a few exceptions.

02:33But hey, even your waitress or your barista at the coffee shop, maybe game to go out with you,

02:37you're not going to know until you ask. Just don't be overly persistent. They do get asked out a lot,

02:42especially attractive waitresses. But if you have the social skills and confidence to connect with her,

02:46then the guy she goes out with could be you. So those are the best public alternatives to online

02:50dating. But there are some other alternatives that don't require a lot of balls. And I'll cover that

02:55right now. Number one, speed dating. It's not something I've tried personally, but when you're

02:59lined up in front of a whole bunch of women, good things can happen. Number two, a matchmaker. If you

03:03just want somebody else to do it for you and you're willing to pay thousands of dollars for a date,

03:07then a matchmaker may be a good choice for you. Number three, meetups and other social get togethers.

03:11You can go to meetups on meetup.com by basically just picking any kind of hobby that you like. If

03:16you're an engineer going to a tech meetup, then chances are you're not going to see a lot of women

03:20there. But there are lots of meetups where you're going to be able to mingle with women as well as

03:24doing an activity that you enjoy. Number four, business networking events. Not often thought of as a

03:29great place to meet women, but you can definitely meet women at business networking events. This works a

03:33lot better if you're actually in business, in which case you'll actually have a chance of making

03:36business contacts as well. Are there any alternatives to online dating that I missed? Leave me a comment in the

03:41comment section below. And until next time, conquer and win.

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