Are Dating Apps Bad?

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In this video, I explore the pros and cons of using dating apps to find love and companionship. I also examine the benefits, like increased access to a wider pool of potential partners. Join me as I delve into this complex topic and try to answer the question: are dating apps bad?  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00Are dating apps bad?

00:05If you're the average man, then the answer is probably be yes.

00:08In most cases, there's a small percentage of men who do really well with dating apps,

00:12and they get the vast majority of women, including the hottest ones that are online.

00:16For everyone else, you're basically left with the scraps or nothing at all.

00:19But it means that it's only going to be good for a small number of guys.

00:22Depending on your age, you're going to be filtered out by your age,

00:24you're going to be filtered out by your height,

00:25hence why it's so common for guys to lie about their height online or lie about their age.

00:30And if you're looking for a relationship, that's a really shitty way to start a relationship.

00:33Even if you meet somebody, you're already starting on a lie.

00:36And if it's a big lie, they're going to find out as soon as you meet them,

00:39and they're not going to be happy.

00:40Hell, I even went on a date before with a girl who told me a story that

00:43she went to meet this guy, she's supposed to meet a black guy,

00:46she's sitting at this coffee shop waiting for her date,

00:48and this guy sitting at another table looks over at her and waves and says,

00:51Hey, it's me.

00:52And she's like, it's me who, because this was a white guy.

00:56She's meeting a black guy.

00:57Well, this guy actually used some other dude's photographs on his profile.

01:01So she got pissed about that, of course, because she was deceived.

01:04I guess that's probably called catfishing, or maybe not.

01:07And he tried to make her feel like she was in the wrong,

01:09and she was superficial because she was leaving.

01:11So obviously that's an extreme story,

01:13but the lies about height and age are very, very common,

01:16as well as using photographs which aren't entirely accurate.

01:19And that goes both ways too.

01:20Another negative thing about online dating,

01:22one of the things that could make online dating bad,

01:24is that you're going to meet a lot of women who also lie about their age,

01:27very, very common.

01:28And they also use photographs from when they were younger or lighter.

01:32But after binging on Burger King for the last two years,

01:34she's just not the same person.

01:36In fact, she's two of them.

01:37Another negative about online dating is you don't actually get to exercise

01:40your social skills and your confidence, aka your balls.

01:44In fact, do you even have any balls left after online dating for a few years?

01:47Reason being, it takes a lot of courage to actually walk up to a woman

01:50and say hi and introduce yourself,

01:52as opposed to online where any coward can hide behind the computer screen

01:56and type up a letter or swipe on their phone.

01:58And that won't matter at all to you if you're not interested in personal development,

02:01but if you actually want to be a better man,

02:03then getting off of online dating is probably the best option for you.

02:07Not only that, by exercising your courage and actually meeting women in public,

02:10you will develop the social skills,

02:11which includes relationship skills,

02:13to get better and better at dating.

02:14So you'll get better dating results overall,

02:16as well as meeting more women.

02:17And nobody's going to be able to filter you out because of your height or your age.

02:20It's all going to be on your personality,

02:22which is something you're going to be able to develop

02:24by actually talking to people in public.

02:26So what do you think?

02:26Is online dating a bad thing or a good thing?

02:29For me personally, I think it depends.

02:30It depends who you are.

02:32If you're getting good results online dating, then keep doing that.

02:34But if not, it's time for a change.

02:36That's all for today.

02:37Until next time, conquer and win.

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