00:30I will do it in such a way that no one can do it till now.
00:33This is a word that a little rich father says seriously.
00:37But it is time for the parents to know what is in the mind of those children.
00:41Father, I will not get married now.
00:43I am only 25 years old, right?
00:45He said that he will get married after completing his career.
00:49Mother, why is father telling me to get married now?
00:52I have to earn a little.
00:53I have to stand on my feet.
00:55Then only marriage, said the princess in theory.
00:58Exactly such discourses are heard in many houses like this.
01:02We will get married, but not now.
01:05This condition is heard at home.
01:07The danger of not doing it now, not being able to give the clarity of when,
01:11along with creating a little disturbance to the parents,
01:14it creates the fear of how the future circumstances will be.
01:28Many youths who study well in metro cities and give priority to their careers and settle in good jobs are not interested in marriage.
01:39They are standing on their own feet and are waiting to get married with the desire to reach high positions.
01:44They do not get married at the age they should get married.
01:47By the time they settle, their age will be over 30.
01:50By the time they get a good job and get a good promotion and a good salary,
01:55many people will be 35 years old.
01:57They do not stop there.
01:58At that age, their search begins for those who are less fortunate, that is, those who are in their position or those who are in a higher position.
02:06In that search, if anyone is lucky, they get married immediately.
02:10But how many people are lucky?
02:13This is something to think about.
02:14In that, searching for such a good match, another 2-3 years pass by.
02:19By this time, the age of marriage will pass and the age to give birth to children will come.
02:23But by then, marriage is not possible.
02:25Okay, somehow got married.
02:26Then, when it comes to children,
02:28people are very strong before 30 years for the current lifestyle.
02:33Then, they are becoming very weak.
02:35Food, lifestyle, jobs, reasons for this.
02:38In the past few years, the childbirth rate in the country has been decreasing dramatically.
02:43According to the 2019-21 caste family survey data,
02:47the total childbirth rate in India is 2.0.
02:50Compared to the past, it has decreased.
02:52If this situation persists,
02:53the childbirth rate in India will fall to 1.29 by 2050.
02:59According to the 2024 March survey, by the permission of Lancet, it has decreased.
03:04In today's time, in every small town,
03:06the childbirth centers are called as Puttagodugulu.
03:09Generally, women and men are able to give birth at the age of 20 to 30 years.
03:15According to the doctors.
03:16Even after 30 years, there is no way to think about marriage.
03:19What do doctors think about children?
03:49Many people get married before 30 years due to the environment or the food we eat.
03:56For many reasons,
03:57people who give birth at the age of 40 do not get married before 30 years.
04:02If they get married, they think it is too late to go for children.
04:05Because of that, the understanding between husband and wife is not established.
04:08If they do not get pregnant at first,
04:10then they have to take various treatments for it.
04:14Because of the treatments,
04:16due to the artificial hormones,
04:19many health problems are found in women.
04:44They are demanding more job opportunities in the government.
04:48They are promising to provide government jobs to the parents.
04:51So, PG and PhD students are raising the opinion that it is too late to get married.
04:57Many people are trying to get government jobs even at the age of 35.
05:04Government jobs are very rare in our Telugu states.
05:08Because of the absence of government jobs, many people are mentally disturbed.
05:12They are not able to bear the pressure of the society.
05:15They are not able to get married.
05:16They are not able to earn a stable income.
05:18The youth prefer late marriages.
05:22One is higher education and the other is career.
05:24Many people prefer higher education,
05:29instead of degree, engineering, or passing exams.
05:32If you become an M.S.,
05:33you can go abroad and study well.
05:36If you settle well, you will have a good career.
05:38You will get a better job.
05:40Why are women getting married late?
05:43They have realized the oppression they have faced in their childhood.
05:49They want to start earning after they grow up.
05:54Now, girls are also equally competent with men.
05:57Generally, women have blood deficiency, iron deficiency, and vitamin D deficiency.
06:02It increases after the age of 30.
06:05Doctors say that after the age of 35,
06:08men face severe birth problems.
06:12So, mothers who are unwell at that time
06:15have to think about how to give birth to healthy children.
06:19On the other hand, IVF has become a habit.
06:23Doctors say that there will be good results only if it is done in a normal way.
06:27Parents have started judging their children from the 7th grade.
06:33Judging them,
06:35whether their son should get an IIT,
06:37MBBS,
06:39or become a C.A.,
06:41they have been pressurizing them since then.
06:44So, from the 7th grade,
06:46they have a feeling that their parents are judging them.
06:49So, after completing their engineering education,
06:53they have a feeling that their parents are still judging them.
06:57They prefer late marriages.
07:01They want a house, a flat,
07:03a salary of Rs. 6,000,
07:05a salary of more than Rs. 1,00,000 per month,
07:07and a good flat.
07:09So, they want to get married.
07:12Similarly, girls are also thinking the same way.
07:14If we compare it with the marriage bureau,
07:16the number of people who don't believe in the marriage bureau has increased.
07:19The marriage bureau says that
07:21girls think more about earning in the boy's house,
07:24and want to achieve their rights.
07:26Then, families say that they are looking at the property.
07:29So, it depends on the parents' decision.
07:31If the family is good,
07:34or if there is a good relationship
07:36with the children,
07:38at some point,
07:40they compromise and get married.
07:42But now,
07:45kids and adults
07:47don't like to compromise in many things.
07:49Why do we have to compromise?
07:51At that stage,
07:53they have to get married socially at this age.
07:56No one has that anxiety.
07:58Only if there is a good relationship,
08:00kids and adults will like to get married.
08:02By getting married late,
08:04the time between children also becomes difficult.
08:06With that, the father who reaches old age
08:09has to see his 15-year-old child.
08:11In the world,
08:13our country is very young.
08:15Instead of getting married at the right age,
08:17career and employment
08:20will not be useful.
08:22If that happens,
08:24the number of young people in the country
08:26will also increase.
08:28The difference between generations
08:30leads to problems.
08:33This is not only in human relations,
08:35but also in the economic situation of the country.
08:37Human resources will be reduced.
08:39To see the generation gap,
08:41scientists are saying.
08:57When young people say career building,
08:59parents are raising their own opinions.
09:01Young people say that
09:03getting married at a late age
09:05will give justice to their job.
09:08Parents are worried
09:10that they are missing the real joy of life.
09:12Doctors and nurses warn
09:14that getting married late
09:16will cause problems.
09:19It is true that
09:21to have a bright future,
09:23you have to work hard.
09:25In the future,
09:27young people should think
09:29about the doctors and nurses
09:32who are spending money on medicines.
09:34If husband and wife understand each other
09:36and overcome difficulties together,
09:38everything will be wonderful.
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