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00:13Hey ladies, welcome in!
00:16Oh, ain't such a good smell in here!
00:18Oh, thank you!
00:20At the end of the week, the Bells are planning the speed date for Marie.
00:24Bring two friends for Marie!
00:28So, we're gonna style her up, honey, so that she can be ready and fresh and vibrant for
00:34her contestants.
00:36Go!
00:37Go!
00:38Yep, hashtag all star.
00:41Pretty girl in the fresh new sports car.
00:43Feeling cute, you can come take a ride.
00:45It don't matter if you're purple, pink, or white.
00:47Yeah!
00:49Yeah.
00:51Let's go.
00:53Oh, aren't you cute!
00:55Hey!
00:56How are you?
00:57You look so cute!
00:59You too!
00:59Oh my god!
01:00I love this!
01:01Thank you!
01:03I've worked in fashion.
01:04We have an online boutique, my daughters and I, so this is right up my alley.
01:09This is a fun day.
01:10I get to style Marie, and I need a mental break away from my wedding.
01:15See, that look like Marie.
01:17But see, Marie will probably grab this and put some tights on.
01:20Some video.
01:20We ain't doing no tights.
01:22No bodysuit.
01:23Please, no bodysuit.
01:24Number one, Ruth.
01:25She the bodysuit queen.
01:26With the thigh boots?
01:27No, no, no.
01:28Uh-uh.
01:29Not for the first date.
01:29No.
01:32That's my crew.
01:34Tell them that's my crew.
01:37Screaming, that's my crew.
01:40Baby, that's my, baby, that's my, that's my crew.
01:45Hi, ladies.
01:46Hi!
01:47You look so good.
01:52You do too.
01:55After the Cedric of it all, I am ready to get back out there and start dating.
02:00And Leticia and Selena are taking me shopping to style me.
02:06I am very nervous.
02:07Oh, I hope they not going to give me something grandmommy-ish.
02:12Oh, look at this little cute skirt.
02:15Oh, my God, Marie.
02:17The cutest thing ever.
02:19Oh, that skirt is so pretty and so...
02:21We just got to make sure we have your size, make sure it's long enough to cover.
02:25Yeah, this looks a little big, but...
02:27You know, the cheeks back there.
02:28This looks a little big for you, but that's cute.
02:30Well, what kind of shirt feeling like a color?
02:32You think like a pink would pop that out?
02:34Yeah, I think a pink shirt.
02:36I want to see Marie with a cute little dress on, with some colors, maybe some little flowers,
02:42you know, just something just real nice and inviting in a good way.
02:47Okay, what, hold up.
02:48So, now that you're getting back into dating, I have a few rules for you, honey.
02:52Rule number one, no bodysuits.
02:56No, no, no, no.
02:58Okay.
02:59Rule number two, don't be on your phone while you sitting at the table with him.
03:03Rule number three, don't start talking about Cedric or your ex.
03:07So, Holiday have a light conversation.
03:09So, you can learn about him and he can learn about you.
03:12See if y'all have like that little connection.
03:15Okay.
03:15I'm willing to go along with all of this just as long as the goal is to find me a
03:22man.
03:23So, what are your concerns?
03:24I am nervous about, you know, going on a date because I have not gone on a date.
03:29It's been a minute now.
03:30Yeah.
03:30He gonna be nervous too.
03:31Yes.
03:32Let me go try on some clothes.
03:33Let us see them too, Marie, please.
03:35We don't want Marie to wear no bodysuit, no boots, no jeans.
03:40She need to have on something with some colors, something that's lively.
03:44Something different out of her element.
03:47Oh!
03:48Oh!
03:49Let's go!
03:52Now that look grandmamish.
03:53That look like a robe that you're at the house.
03:55Marie, it's not for you.
03:58Ta-da.
04:00I love it.
04:02But y'all put no jumpsuit.
04:04You be wearing bodysuit.
04:05This is a jumpsuit.
04:06I think it's so cute.
04:08I love this.
04:09Do I look like a grandma?
04:10No!
04:12Just one more.
04:13Okay.
04:13So, how's the wedding planning going?
04:16I just keep changing my mind on everything.
04:18It's just so much.
04:19What do you need help on?
04:21There's just about everything.
04:22The menu, and then my guest list, I keep.
04:26And people then, taking people off.
04:28You know it's just...
04:29I'm overthinking.
04:29You are overthinking.
04:31You are stressing yourself out.
04:32I'm stressing myself out.
04:34That's exactly what I'm doing.
04:35Can Selena say that she still got some stuff to lock in for her wedding?
04:39Like, how?
04:40There's only a few weeks to Selena's wedding.
04:42Honey, you are far, far, far behind.
04:45I hope and pray that Selena gets everything done by the wedding day.
04:49But right now, honey, with these two eyes, it's gonna take a village.
04:54Just so much.
04:55You can't think no more.
04:56You gotta do.
04:57Okay.
04:57I'm gonna come over later this week to help you.
05:01I would gladly accept Leticia's invitation on helping me with this wedding.
05:06Because right now, I need all the help I can get.
05:10See?
05:10You are so cute.
05:11I was not thinking that was gonna look like that.
05:13I told you.
05:14It's so cute.
05:15It's giving first date.
05:17Grab a pair of shades right here.
05:18Ooh!
05:19Just trying to complete the look, boo.
05:21Oh!
05:23See?
05:23I know!
05:24Look up!
05:26I see I already know.
05:27Yeah, see?
05:28Yeah!
05:30Everything that I've tried on today, it's been good.
05:33It's nice.
05:34However, I am going to do my own thing and wear something out of my closet.
05:40All right, ladies.
05:41I'm back.
05:42This was nice.
05:43Yeah, it was.
05:44Okay.
05:45Were you on your journey to finding love?
05:47I know, right?
05:49Healthy love.
05:49Did you really like it, boo?
05:51I did.
05:51Yeah.
05:53I got the bounce.
05:54I got the vibe.
05:55I got the drip.
05:56It's all on me.
05:57I got the ice.
05:58Look at my neck.
05:59Look at my wrist.
06:00It's all on me.
06:00They don't win.
06:01They know what they did.
06:02Look how I live.
06:03It's all on me.
06:04I do it big.
06:05It's all on me.
06:06I do it big.
06:06It's all on me.
06:09What's going on, man?
06:10What's going on, baby?
06:11Hey, what's good?
06:12What's going on?
06:13What's going on?
06:13What's going on?
06:14What's going on, man?
06:16Save old .
06:17Save old .
06:18Man.
06:19I'm going to hit my dog, Mike, up, man.
06:20We come from the same places.
06:22So, you know, if I'm going to talk to somebody, I want it to be somebody that's real.
06:26Somebody that can relate to me.
06:27And Mike, he's the perfect person for that.
06:30Ever since I've known him, he's kept with a honey.
06:32I see you, boy.
06:33You both got that collar loose.
06:34Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
06:35Got that collar loose.
06:36I took the collar off tonight.
06:37Yeah, I did.
06:37I know.
06:38You've been dancing a little bit.
06:40I had to get out.
06:41You know what I'm saying?
06:42Get out.
06:42Clear the mind for a minute.
06:44You know what I mean?
06:44He's a .
06:45Okay.
06:46Here you go.
06:47I appreciate that.
06:48Hey, welcome.
06:49I ain't know what you want.
06:50You want it on the rocks?
06:53Yeah.
06:53Okay.
06:54So what been going on, man?
06:55Man, I'm trying to figure out, bro.
06:58You know what I mean?
06:59What?
07:00Got to give, bro.
07:01I got so much on my shoulders right now.
07:05It don't even make no sense.
07:07I know you about to get married, right?
07:09Yeah.
07:09We didn't get a prenup before we got married.
07:11We didn't get none of that.
07:12You going to get a prenup?
07:13Nah, man.
07:14I don't care nothing about that.
07:15I don't care nothing about it.
07:16You feel me?
07:17If I lose, I lose.
07:18I lose, man.
07:20The other day, she hit me with, she want me to sign a post note.
07:25What the hell is that?
07:27A post note is basically protecting all her assets if this marriage don't work.
07:37So business-wide, everything that she's bought in, everything that she bringing to the table,
07:42it still hurts if we decide to go our separate ways.
07:45Trying to secure herself, I guess.
07:47I don't know.
07:48It sounds like security, right?
07:49But to me, it sounds like signs of divorce coming up, bro.
07:56You've been divorced, so what were the signs for you?
07:59I went through some .
08:00You know what I'm saying?
08:01I came in.
08:02I kind of like the same.
08:04So y'all went through a totally different situation than what I was going through?
08:07Yeah, because y'all still at the house.
08:09It's like roommates.
08:10I went and seen an attorney.
08:13I ain't never went through no divorce or nothing, right?
08:15You ain't about to go through now, man.
08:17I don't feel like I am, but I think she really want my .
08:20She really want my attention.
08:21You know what I'm saying?
08:22I'm surprised Glenn wouldn't see a divorce lawyer, because it'd be hard to turn back once
08:26you started.
08:27So I hope both of them just work it out and get everything together.
08:31Yeah, with everything going on with Glenn and Letitia, I'm still going to ride with my boy.
08:35I'm glad you came out, bro.
08:37I had to get this out of my chest, bro, so.
08:40Boy, I came all the way down the highway.
08:41You did.
08:42I had it.
08:43I went 75.
08:44My truck don't go with 74.
08:46I went 75, too.
08:48Say less, man.
08:49Say less.
08:49It's real talk, man.
08:52Coming up on Bell Collective.
08:54It usually takes a year to, like, plan a wedding.
08:57Do you think that this is enough time?
08:59It's pushing it.
09:00It's really, really pushing it.
09:02Why y'all wait so late to lock this stuff in?
09:05I was talking to Mike, okay?
09:07And Glenn brought up a divorce lawyer.
09:11Who?
09:12Wait, what?
09:12Who, man?
09:13I don't like to see Letitia as a woman on this emotional rollercoaster.
09:20So right now, we're gonna get a five to ten second touch.
09:25No lip licking!
09:27No lip licking!
09:29No lip licking!
09:31I feel like Fergie in 2006.
09:36Everything in my life is glamorous.
09:39First class everything.
09:41Nothing less for the queen.
09:44Now I'm talking about A.
09:45I invite the ladies over today to have a little girl time
09:49to unwind.
09:50And Selena suggested yoga.
09:52So why not have yoga, drinks, food by the pool?
09:56I don't really do yoga.
09:58So I think this will be fun.
10:00I got all the boys knocking at the door.
10:02Lined up when you want to move.
10:05But it ain't easy.
10:08Knock, knock, knock!
10:11Hey!
10:14Hey, girl!
10:15Hey, girl!
10:18Yes!
10:19Now you're gonna brought the yoga, man.
10:21Yes, yes, yes!
10:22Look, I'm excited.
10:24This is so cute.
10:25Do you know how to do yoga?
10:26You know what?
10:27I do meditational yoga.
10:28OK, so we're gonna meditate and yoga.
10:30Selena, like, surprisingly does do yoga.
10:34I cannot see it.
10:36That's what she said?
10:38Baby, I won't tell if you don't tell, uh.
10:41Baby, I won't tell I keep a secret so well.
10:44Baby, I won't tell if you don't tell, uh.
10:46What y'all talking about?
10:48You know?
10:49Y'all talking about me?
10:50Hey, girl!
10:52We are talking to what?
10:54Good health.
10:54Good health.
10:56Good mindset.
10:56Good health in all things.
10:58Yeah.
10:59And champagne yoga.
11:00And champagne yoga.
11:01OK.
11:03And then you breathe in through your nose,
11:07out through your mouth, OK?
11:09Just listen to the water and listen to the birds.
11:17This is probably the most peace we're gonna have in the collective.
11:20It's right here and right now, OK?
11:23I love you, ladies.
11:25I love you, too.
11:27We're in this way, and we're just gonna bend.
11:32We're gonna open up those hips.
11:33Oh.
11:34And we're gonna do this.
11:35OK.
11:36No, no, no, no, no.
11:38It hurts.
11:41Oh, we have to hold it?
11:43We gotta hold it.
11:44One, two, three.
11:45OK, go.
11:45One, two, three!
11:47That was the quickest hold ever!
11:50With my history of health issues, the blood clots, the fibroids,
11:54I could see incorporating this into my daily life.
11:58And with all the drama that's been swarming around in the collective,
12:01it is definitely nice to stretch, breathe, and relax.
12:05We have to talk about Carrie's event, girl.
12:07Sure, do we.
12:08OK, then.
12:09I'm gonna hold it, girl.
12:10Do you mean?
12:11Me and Carrie's event?
12:12Yes.
12:13Thank you, friend.
12:14Yeah, I said Selena's in there.
12:15You're putting it right here in front of me.
12:16Yes, I enjoyed it.
12:18It was fun.
12:18You know, I love to see people coming together and having a good time.
12:21Clean, go, clean, go, little, go.
12:24That's how I wanna know when you are.
12:28Yeah!
12:31Leticia and Marie behind the saddle was like...
12:34You know, all the things that they have...
12:35Rook was just...
12:35Their head had to do with pushing apart it.
12:38I don't know.
12:38It'll be over in a minute.
12:40The thing was, it was planned last minute.
12:43So you don't know the complete picture until you actually get there.
12:46When it comes to Leticia and Marie, the whole thing is just petty.
12:51At some point, I do hope that the Bells can leave that type of energy alone.
12:55So remember, you're supposed to be finding me.
12:58I'm fishing.
12:59You told me you found one.
13:00Yes, but he's not gonna be able to do it.
13:02But I have one now.
13:03Latrice called her mom's pastor.
13:06And he's gonna do the wedding.
13:08He's gonna do the wedding.
13:09Awesome.
13:10So yeah, so I'm so excited.
13:12So thank you for him.
13:13Girl, this is teamwork.
13:14Because the wedding is right around the freaking corner.
13:18It feels like tomorrow.
13:19It feels like it.
13:20Yeah.
13:21I'm really glad that I can help Selena find an officiant because honestly,
13:25I've been feeling a little left out of the whole wedding planning process.
13:28Selena puts a lot on herself, even though it stresses her out.
13:32I honestly believe that she's more behind than what she's actually telling us.
13:37While I have you both here, I want to talk to y'all about something I heard.
13:42I'm wondering if Latisha know about this because I was talking to Mike.
13:46Okay.
13:47And Glenn brought up a divorce lawyer.
13:51Who? Wait, what? Who's that?
13:52Man, I think my wife trying to split, trying to roll out.
13:56They probably gonna see a divorce lawyer or something.
13:58A what?
13:59Probably gonna be all right.
14:00I don't know if it's gonna be all right or not.
14:03I think he probably think Latisha is probably trying to move on.
14:06Look, I heard Tisha saying that when she left Glenn, he left her with like $4.
14:12When I left Glenn the first time, I couldn't even buy me a hamburger.
14:18My cousin told me when I called her, I said I have $4 and some chains.
14:22Mmm.
14:23What would make you go back to a man that left you with $4?
14:27I am all for working on your marriage.
14:30Yes.
14:31Beautiful marriage, successful marriage.
14:32We're staying to make it work.
14:34What I am not for is trying to encourage someone to stay in a toxic marriage
14:38that is not what you need it to be.
14:41And it's toxic. It's toxic at this point.
14:43Right.
14:44If you're not building while you're in that marriage and it's hurting you more than it's
14:49helping you, why would we support that?
14:53We love to see black love, especially in our community.
14:56But we should also want to see healthy love.
15:00I don't like to see Latisha as a woman on this emotional rollercoaster.
15:07I would think Latisha would file for divorce before Glenn.
15:11Me too.
15:11I need to have a talk with Latisha.
15:13Whatever Latisha and Glenn decides to do, if they want to stay together, I am going
15:18to support them.
15:19If they want to get a divorce, I am going to support them.
15:22I'm going to be there for my friend.
15:24Let Mike stay clear away from Glendale because if he's putting it in his head...
15:28We are planning a wedding.
15:30Yes!
15:31We are 30 days away!
15:35Coming up on Bell Collective, my dad is a great listener and he's a straight shooter.
15:42I guess they didn't feel like I was submissive and soft enough.
15:45Do you feel like I'm soft?
15:47Or do you feel like I'm hot for it?
15:49Do you feel like I'm hot for it?
15:51Do you feel like I'm hot for it?
16:15Hey, man.
16:15How you been?
16:17I'm doing.
16:18I'm doing.
16:18My father and I talk every single day.
16:21Every day.
16:22However, we don't get a chance to do a lot of one-on-one because my children and grandkids
16:29are always present.
16:30So today, I am meeting my father for lunch.
16:34My dad is a great listener.
16:37He's an advisor and he's a straight shooter.
16:39He don't sugarcoat.
16:40He tell me things that I need to hear and not things that I want to hear.
16:45Where you coming from practice?
16:46Coming from practice.
16:47Another good day.
16:48Yeah.
16:49You know, we play tomorrow.
16:50You know, the girls did well today.
16:52Traveling a lot lately with the girls, basketball teams.
16:56Yeah.
16:56Mm-hmm.
16:57I'm proud of them, you know.
16:58I know you are.
16:59It's been a long season.
17:01Yeah.
17:01But, you know, they all just want to be the best version of themselves.
17:04Mm-hmm.
17:04You know.
17:05How you been doing?
17:06You know, over the last few weeks, it's been, man, it's been rough.
17:11I've been really going through.
17:12Like, buried with my white blood cell count being low.
17:15My numbers just been out of, just crazy.
17:18Just out of whack.
17:19Mm-hmm.
17:19I've been buried.
17:20You know, fatigued, tired, can't get out of bed.
17:23Just, I've been in bad shape.
17:26Just remember, you know, to take care of yourself, you know.
17:30Everything else is going to be okay.
17:32I've been dealing with a lot of health issues lately.
17:35I have some cysts in my breast that I need to have removed.
17:39And I have planned to have those removed in the springtime.
17:44It's not that I'm prioritizing my businesses over my health.
17:49It's just, right now, there's still a lot of work to be done.
17:53Did I mention to you that we're opening up a new facility in Pearl?
17:58These are therapy rooms.
18:00Okay.
18:01How many therapy rooms you have?
18:03About 22 rooms.
18:04Oh, girl.
18:06Yeah.
18:07This place is huge.
18:08We haven't did the grand opening yet, but it's coming up.
18:10Did you ever think that Hamilton Davis Home Care and then Hamilton Davis Mental Health,
18:15when we first started those businesses,
18:16did you think it would equate to this level of success?
18:19No.
18:20To confidence.
18:21Let me tell you something.
18:21When I knew that you all had made it.
18:24Our first billboard.
18:25We got that billboard.
18:26Yeah, your first billboard, and your picture was up there.
18:30I said, well, I'll be doggone.
18:32My dad has been a major help in supporting me with my boys throughout the years.
18:39I could not have excelled in my businesses nor in school without the support of my father.
18:46I'm turning 46 in a few days.
18:49Right.
18:49When I reflect over my life and I look at these big companies I've built,
18:55not many people from where we from can say that they have two successful,
19:03multi-million dollar healthcare businesses.
19:06And I told Jay, when I was your age, I said, Jay, how are you 27?
19:10Right?
19:10He was like, yeah.
19:11I said, okay.
19:12I was a millionaire.
19:13Mm-hmm.
19:13In my 20s.
19:14So with that being said, you know, I had been talking to Jay.
19:19He would like to start a business.
19:20Mm-hmm.
19:21He wanted to do a dispensary.
19:24How would you feel about something like that?
19:26With the type of business you want to start, a dispensary.
19:30Where's the capital going to come from?
19:33And I explained to him, I said, you know, entrepreneurship is hard.
19:38You know, it requires consistency, discipline, sacrifices, and everything.
19:43And it's not for the weak.
19:46But it just makes sense for all of my children to learn what it is that I do on the
19:52home health side
19:52and on the mental health side to position themselves to be able to reinvest in their dream.
20:00Right.
20:01You know, carrying on.
20:02It's a legacy.
20:03Get all your children in there.
20:05Right.
20:05And let them all be a part of that.
20:07And just share your vision with them.
20:09You know what I'm saying?
20:10My dad is right about getting all my children together to talk to them at one time about my legacy.
20:18I want them to understand what I built and what it takes to keep it running in the future.
20:23So the bells, right?
20:25They's putting together this kind of like a, this little speed dating thing to introduce
20:30me to some different guys, different types to see what it is that I like.
20:34So what kind of guy do you imagine your daughter dating?
20:40Because when I date, I'm looking for somebody like, you know, like, I saw the example of you
20:46and my mom when y'all was in a healthy state.
20:49Right.
20:49Life's going to bring someone for you.
20:51Mm.
20:52That if that's what God want for you.
20:53Yeah.
20:54He going to bring my person.
20:55He going to bring it.
20:56Don't you go hunt that person.
20:57Right.
20:58I guess they didn't feel like I was submissive and soft enough.
21:02But I feel like women have to have a safe space to be soft.
21:08Do you feel like I'm soft?
21:09Or do you feel like I'm hard?
21:11Your daddy have soft you both ways.
21:13Mm.
21:14You can't fake it.
21:15If someone's soft with you, you're going to be soft.
21:17If someone try to handle you tough, you're going to become tough.
21:20That's a perfect assessment.
21:22You're right.
21:22The story ain't no way.
21:23Mm-mm.
21:24For now.
21:25I'm back outside.
21:27I'd have had you sitting here and talked you to death.
21:29I enjoyed it.
21:30I have enjoyed it.
21:32Let's see.
21:34Coming up on Bell Collective.
21:37So what are the things that's not together?
21:39The ceremony design.
21:42What's the wildest place you've ever hooked up?
21:46What?
21:47Whoo!
21:48Whoo!
21:49Whoo!
21:50Whoo!
21:53I wanna go outside and take a long walk.
21:56Let's run, yeah.
21:58Yeah.
21:58Check in, talk to myself, and find my peace.
22:02My wedding is weeks away.
22:05And the pressure is on.
22:07My wedding planner is in local, so I need to get Ms. Stacey on the phone so we can get
22:12everything in order.
22:16Hello, how you doing?
22:19I'm doing good, how are you?
22:21I'm doing okay, trying to get all of this stuff over to you.
22:26Stressing out like always.
22:28I know we have the bridal shower coming up.
22:31And then for the wedding, the last thing I sent you was the order of service.
22:35And before you get it printed, I'm able to proofread everything correctly.
22:41Yeah, you are able to do, look at the rough draft, but you know, you only have that date because
22:46we're already, you know, we're already, it's crunch time.
22:50You know, because the order of service is something that we should have pretty much already had.
22:55Uh-huh.
22:57Nana!
22:59Yeah.
23:00Hold on, Ms. Stacey.
23:02Tisha, is that you?
23:03Hi!
23:04I'm on the phone with Ms. Stacey.
23:05Oh, hey, Ms. Stacey!
23:07Tisha, right here.
23:08Hey!
23:09How are you?
23:10Fine, how are you?
23:12Hey!
23:13So y'all discussing business, okay?
23:15Girl, yes, because I am a total wreck.
23:18I introduced Selena to Ms. Stacey at my Friendsgiving brunch.
23:22Yeah, all right, baby.
23:22Hey, Ms. Stacey.
23:23Ms. Stacey has designed several of my brunches.
23:26She is a people pleaser, and she will go over and beyond to make sure her client is happy.
23:33But Selena needs a little bit of a push, so I need to help her get to the finish line.
23:38I was telling Selena, it usually take a year or so to plan a wedding.
23:42We still don't have everything together.
23:45So what are the things that's not together?
23:47The ceremony design.
23:50So we know what the reception hall design is, but she hadn't finalized the design as far as...
23:56How the wedding gonna...
23:57How the...
23:58We got...
23:59What the...
23:59Because I was trying to change it so that the chapel would have, like, the boho look.
24:03And then in the reception hall, I want it to be glam.
24:07So it's gonna be, like, two totally different looks.
24:10Oh, God.
24:12Selena can't make her mind up as to what she wants.
24:14And I've been saying it.
24:15She's got so much stuff, and she sends all these things at one time.
24:19And that got us way behind schedule.
24:22Yeah, because you gotta order the stuff?
24:25Yeah.
24:25Oh, my God.
24:26Why y'all wait so late to lock this stuff in?
24:29Girl.
24:32What is happening?
24:33I had no idea how much Selena had left to do.
24:38Selena, what is the problem?
24:40I just wanted to be big.
24:42I wanted to be memorable.
24:43I wanted to be special.
24:45And so it's driving me insane.
24:47And Miss Stacey, we done been head to head, and we both have been stressed completely out.
24:52How many times I don't cry out on the phone with you and don't have a breakdown?
24:56Well, I know.
24:57That's why I'm asking Miss Stacey.
24:58It usually takes a year to, like, plan a wedding.
25:01Do you think that this is enough time?
25:03It's, I mean, it's, it's, it's pushing it.
25:08I have to make this work.
25:10I always wanted my wedding on the fourth month, the fourth date, four o'clock on a Saturday.
25:17Every time I look around, I see 444, my angel numbers.
25:20I have so many angels that are watching over me.
25:24I don't want to have my wedding on April 4th of next year because it's going to be on a
25:29Sunday.
25:30Either we're going to get married on this date or we're not.
25:32I'm just going to try to make those deadlines and just try to move forward.
25:36And then we will see each other at the, the Braylor shower.
25:39All right, bye-bye.
25:41What the heck, Selena?
25:43You got no time.
25:44Don't even just pick out.
25:45No time.
25:46Go any minute, mighty mode and say, I want this design.
25:48Pick out this design and go from there.
25:51I feel bad for Selena, especially with everything she don't have for her wedding.
25:57This is crazy to me.
25:59This led in the game.
26:00But right now, we cannot lose focus.
26:03Talk to Mike.
26:04Speaking of Mike, what?
26:05I want to know his thoughts with all this chaos.
26:08Mike don't let nothing worry him.
26:10He just like, it's going to work out and that's it.
26:13So he's just like, whatever.
26:15With all this wedding planning, I have to get together.
26:18I don't even want to bring up anything that has to do with Glenn telling Mike about a divorce lawyer.
26:24My main focus right now is getting this wedding together.
26:27I'm excited about the wedding.
26:29I'm here, Selena, if you need me.
26:31Everything is, like, due now.
26:34I have faith.
26:38Coming up on The Old Collective.
26:40So I think they went out and had some drinks.
26:43And so Mike told me about the conversation.
26:47And divorce came up.
26:49A divorce lawyer.
27:08Today we are at the Mississippi E-Center at Jackson State University.
27:12And I chose the E-Center because I just had my focus group here.
27:16And the people were so nice.
27:17The Bells are putting on a dating event for Marie tonight.
27:21In the past, when I've tried to set Marie up, it didn't go so well.
27:26Think that I should set you up on a blind date.
27:29Call me player.
27:30Oh, my God.
27:31I'm hosting tonight.
27:33But the other Bells, they are each bringing bachelors for Marie.
27:43What I want is what I get.
27:45Live my life with no regrets.
27:47When I start, there's no end.
27:48I didn't come to play no games, babe.
27:52Make my rules, I pave my own lanes.
27:56All the bachelors are waiting in another room.
27:59And we're going to bring them in once we start the game.
28:02Let me say something.
28:03Marie is nice when she got a man.
28:05That's why we want her to have a man.
28:07That's right.
28:08And a backup.
28:09And a backup.
28:10And another backup.
28:11That's right.
28:13What I want is what I get.
28:15Live my life with no regrets.
28:17And I start, there's no end.
28:19Watch me.
28:20Are y'all ready for me?
28:23Yeah!
28:35I don't know really what to expect, but what I do know,
28:38I have my daughter attending this date night with me
28:41so she can be in support of me.
28:44What better person to bring along with me than my daughter?
28:46So, Amber, do you direct your Mama Marie to where she's
28:50going to be sent to you?
28:51Okay.
28:52So we personally know these men.
28:55Yes.
28:56Are you excited?
28:57I am.
28:58Okay.
28:58Okay.
28:59Oh, not covering my eyes.
29:01We don't want you to see.
29:03Oh, my God.
29:03So each of us, well, not me, each of our
29:06the eligible bachelor that we think could be a great match
29:10for you.
29:10Whenever you're not feeling a connection,
29:13all you have to do is ring the bell,
29:16and they're out.
29:18The man who remains at the end will win a one-on-one date
29:22with you sponsored by Fondren Taste.
29:25Oh, my God.
29:27So, Maureen.
29:28I thought you better pick mine.
29:29So, Maureen.
29:30Are you ready to ring the bell?
29:37I am excited.
29:39I am nervous.
29:40I have the jitterbugs in my stomach.
29:42I have an open mind, a clear mind,
29:45not being judgmental.
29:46Hell, I can't even see.
29:48Bachelor number one, musician, 44 years old,
29:53a James Bond enthusiast with a heart of gold.
29:57Bachelor number two, 28-year-old personal trainer
30:03and actor.
30:05Despite his impressive physique,
30:08he's a nerd at his core.
30:11That's me.
30:13Bachelor number three, 36-year-old visual artist.
30:18Oh.
30:19Bachelor number four, 34-year-old principal,
30:24currently pursuing his PhD.
30:26Okay, now.
30:28Bachelor number five, 49-year-old aerospace
30:33government contractor.
30:35Bachelor number six.
30:37Something new.
30:3839-years-old entrepreneur who said
30:41that they like to please.
30:46I saw the way that Maureen was looking at that dancer
30:48when I took her to my godson's gentleman's club.
30:51So, I just wanted to make sure that she had options.
30:56We're going to start our first round.
31:00Bachelor one, if you were a kitchen appliance,
31:04what would you be and why?
31:06I would be the refrigerator so I could keep our love fresh.
31:13This is not Maureen's first time meeting Thomas.
31:16Who was that man?
31:17He is a saxophonist.
31:21That's my role is single.
31:23That's right.
31:24Are you ready to mingle?
31:25Yes, I'm single and ready to mingle.
31:29I saw how the sparks was flying,
31:31and I hope that tonight is the same.
31:35Bachelor number two.
31:37If your ex is watching this,
31:39what would she warn Maureen about you?
31:43It'll be a good warning,
31:44because I'd be the best thing that ever happened to you.
31:48In all types of ways.
31:50Okay.
31:51Bachelor number three.
31:53If you cheated once and never got caught,
31:56are you confessing or taking it to the grave?
31:59It'll probably wear me a little bit,
32:01so I'll probably confess it.
32:03Hopefully, she'll give me another chance.
32:05Okay.
32:06I like that.
32:07Bachelor number four.
32:09Do you believe in 50-50 or 100-100?
32:14A man is a provider,
32:15so that's my job to provide
32:17our boy's responsibilities.
32:19It's a 100-100.
32:21Bachelor number five.
32:24What's the wildest place you've ever hooked up?
32:28My wildest place would be in the woods,
32:32in the wilderness.
32:33Welcome to the jungle.
32:36Bachelor number six.
32:39What's something you've done in a relationship
32:41that you'll be embarrassed for Marie to know?
32:46I slept with the auntie, the niece,
32:51the daughter.
32:54Oh, wow.
32:55Oh, wow.
32:55Oh, wow.
32:57That was a good one.
32:58That was in the past.
33:00That was in the past.
33:01That was in the past.
33:02That was in the past.
33:02That was in the past.
33:04And I had to save the mama for that.
33:08Shut your mouth.
33:10I called it.
33:12I felt it in my spirit.
33:13I said it.
33:14I was like, Latrice probably got a woman in here.
33:16This is Latrice's thing.
33:18Like, you forcing women on me.
33:20Come on out, Latrice.
33:21This is your thing, not mine.
33:25The sleeping around with the entire family,
33:27the auntie, the sister, the friend,
33:31that would be a deal breaker for me.
33:33Ring the bell.
33:34Ring the bell.
33:36Marie, you have to choose one more.
33:39Um, yeah, trust your instinct.
33:42Marie, why are you waiting and making that decision?
33:44Can I put these in your hands?
33:46I'm trying to make a decision.
33:49You can smell my...
33:51Okay, who brought these?
33:52That's number one.
33:53No, no.
33:54That's number one.
33:55The refrigerator?
33:56You have to eliminate someone.
33:58One more.
33:59I'm going to have to pass on the 28-year-old.
34:02You're going to regret it, baby.
34:03I don't...
34:03You're going to regret it big time.
34:05Y'all have a bled one now.
34:06You too.
34:07So right now, we're going to get a five to ten second touch.
34:12Y'all have to remember, I'm here.
34:13I'm her daughter now, and I'm here,
34:15so I don't want to see nothing.
34:17Bachelor number three.
34:19Can you come forward?
34:26You hella thirsty, go get some water.
34:29Don't you have no mercy, don't even bother.
34:33You hella thirsty.
34:36Why you lick no lips for?
34:38I don't know.
34:39I'm here.
34:40No lip licking.
34:42No lip licking.
34:46That's the man that know what he wants, baby.
34:48I love that.
34:49That was too much.
34:50Some of the touches is to my liking,
34:53and, you know, some is a mess.
34:55So I had to eliminate.
34:57You know, I'm just going off how I'm feeling in this moment.
35:01Like, because I don't...
35:01All I can't see.
35:02Let's remove the blindfold.
35:04These are your final two.
35:06Oh!
35:08Oh!
35:08Oh, my God!
35:09Well, Marie,
35:12go and claim your bachelor.
35:17Marie, go and claim your bachelor.
35:20Stand down.
35:20Don't nobody...
35:20Go!
35:21Uh-uh!
35:22She's about to cry.
35:22Don't nobody want to be up on the dance floor?
35:24You want to tell you from...
35:25The contractor, baby.
35:26The contractor.
35:27He is the head of the bar.
35:28Thank you!
35:32Oh!
35:32Oh!
35:32Oh!
35:33Oh!
35:33Oh!
35:33Oh!
35:34Oh!
35:35Oh!
35:36Oh!
35:37Oh!
35:38Oh!
35:39Oh!
35:41Oh!
35:42Oh!
35:42Oh!
35:43Yes!
35:44Yes!
35:45Yes!
35:45Yes!
35:46Yes!
35:47Yes!
35:49You did amazing.
35:50You did amazing.
35:51Look, look.
35:51OK.
35:52You did good, Rue-Rue.
35:53I'm surprised to learn that, hey, this gentleman was Selena's fit.
35:57But, Selena, you did good, girl.
35:59You guys will go on a date at Fondren's Haste.
36:04Can it be a double date?
36:05Rue-Rue, OK.
36:06That's me.
36:07That's me, boo.
36:08OK, Marie.
36:09Marie!
36:10Now you're walking out with the musician flowers.
36:13Oh!
36:14Oh!
36:15Yeah, he's going to get those back.
36:16He's going to get you some more Marie.
36:18Oh!
36:18That was good, y'all.
36:20Oh, my God.
36:21That was so good.
36:23That was good.
36:23That was good.
36:23That was so good.
36:25Out of all the guys that Marie has dated, this guy is different.
36:29So it may actually last.
36:31You ladies did great.
36:34Thank y'all for this.
36:35They all seem to be very nice men.
36:37Well, we have everyone's number.
36:38If your date does not work out, go to plan B, C, D, F, G.
36:44Exactly.
36:45Yeah, but that's what's nice.
36:46I needed this.
36:47Before we all go, I want to ask you about Glen.
36:50Oh.
36:51I want to check in with Letitia.
36:53And I know it's in front of all of the bells.
36:56I really just want to know how she's doing.
36:58So I think they went out and had some drinks.
37:01Mm-hmm.
37:01And so Mike told me about the conversation.
37:07And divorce came.
37:08A divorce lawyer.
37:14He haven't mentioned anything to you about a divorce lawyer?
37:17No.
37:18He ain't said nothing.
37:19No.
37:19So you don't know anything about that?
37:21No.
37:21This is new to me.
37:22So Glen and Mike, when they hung out, Glen told Mike...
37:27Something about a divorce lawyer.
37:28You got to remember.
37:29I need you to think.
37:30I feel blindsided.
37:32Like, I have no idea.
37:34Like, Glen, are you seeing a divorce attorney?
37:36But I'm going to get to the bottom of it.
37:37What did he say?
37:39He said that Glen mentioned to him, divorce lawyer,
37:43and post-nup.
37:46I haven't heard anything about...
37:48I just heard that it was a divorce lawyer,
37:50the financial advisor.
37:52Who did you hear that from?
37:53I went to Latrice's house.
37:56I did start talking to them about the situation.
37:59I hadn't seen you at that time,
38:01and so it was just weighing heavy on me.
38:06This is the same thing you nailed me to the cross for
38:08for not telling you about the baby with Mike.
38:11So you knew about this when I came to you,
38:14about Mike and I communication problems.
38:18And why you didn't say anything to me then?
38:22See, I'm telling you now.
38:24I don't think it's the same thing.
38:27That my husband said he's going to divorce?
38:30Girl, everybody know your business but you.
38:32I definitely feel like Selena
38:34should have told me this prior to tonight.
38:37Here we go, once again,
38:38another embarrassment in front of the bells.
38:40I'm sick and tired of this.
38:43So did you know this information when I was at your house?
38:46I did.
38:46I did.
38:47I did.
38:48But I was so focused on the wedding.
38:51I was not thinking about Glenn.
38:52I wasn't thinking about no.
38:54The voice lawyer.
38:54You're going to mail Selena to the cross now.
38:56Oh, she can.
38:57She can.
38:58Did you take it seriously?
38:59Any time somebody say the voice lawyer,
39:02yes, I take that seriously.
39:04You know, I hope you find love.
39:08OK?
39:08I hope everything works out.
39:10I will see you girls later.
39:12OK?
39:13You got it.
39:14Yes.
39:15I need to go have a conversation with Glenn.
39:17And I'm done being ambushed by these bells.
39:20And if I stay any longer, I'm going to say some things
39:23that's going to make me get out of character.
39:25And I'm not giving them what they want.
39:27So I'm going home.
39:28No, but I'm still on.
39:29All right.
39:30All right.
39:31I hope she's not upstairs.
39:32She about to go get in that ass.
39:35Well, Tisha, don't mention my name.
39:36Right?
39:37You stop.
39:38You the .
39:43Hey.
39:50What's going on?
39:54Next on Bell Collective.
39:56Talena just said, Glenn said that he was getting a divorce
39:59and he went to see a divorce attorney.
40:01And I'm like, what the ?
40:02Hi.
40:03Hello.
40:04This is my first date since things ended with Zedra.
40:08Pretty lady, you're fine.
40:09You smell so sweet.
40:12I love the way you're sexing me.
40:16Let me ask you a question.
40:17What are you doing for my son?
40:19Matt's mom expects me to be this 1950s Stepford wife.
40:23You know Matt is a man of very little words.
40:25And that's why I'm here.
40:26At the end of the day, what you gonna do?
40:28Not have a baby?
40:29I'm gonna get an operation.
40:30I wish you would.
40:32That's definitely ground for a divorce.