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00:00Previously on Bell Collective.
00:02Girl, what is that on Marie's finger?
00:04This is my wedding ring.
00:06It's beautiful.
00:07It's blinding me.
00:08Did you re-propose?
00:09You a champ, man.
00:10What can I do to make sure you're all right?
00:12Now, I know you got a lot on your plate,
00:14but I think I expect more, just a little bit more effort.
00:16But it's like, it's only so much time and a day.
00:20Have you ever been attracted to someone in the group?
00:23That's weird as hell.
00:24What kind of group is that?
00:25No.
00:26No.
00:27He alive.
00:28What are you doing?
00:30Why are you saying this in front of all of our friends?
00:32If it's something, you need to tell me,
00:33because we can't skate past that.
00:35What, do you want to have a conversation outside?
00:37Oh, we're playing a game.
00:38Nuh-uh.
00:39Hell no.
00:40We ain't gonna sit here and play no game.
00:42Girl.
00:58They can hate if they want to.
01:12I've seen the DMs, the man kept it.
01:15What you mean?
01:16Come on, man, I don't gotta go back and forth with you, man.
01:19I saw the DM.
01:20I saw you DMing this.
01:21What the ?
01:22I saw you DMing this.
01:23What the ?
01:24I saw you DMing this.
01:25What you mean?
01:26What you mean?
01:27I see it.
01:28Come on, man.
01:29Stop that with me, man.
01:30Don't do that.
01:31Stop that with me, man.
01:32Don't do that.
01:33I feel like what my friend have done to you.
01:34Tisha, come get Glenn.
01:35Come get Glenn.
01:36Come get Glenn.
01:37What?
01:38She telling him, Javon telling him she saw the DMs to Mandy.
01:41Go get Glenn.
01:42Get Glenn.
01:43No!
01:44No, don't you do that.
01:45Stop playing with me.
01:46Don't do that.
01:47Didn't you just come up?
01:48Man, come on.
01:49I've been around.
01:50I was around with you, man.
01:51What the ?
01:52I was around with you.
01:53I was around with you for the hell.
01:55I was around with you, man.
01:56Come on, baby.
01:57I was around with you for the hell.
01:59For the hell, for the hell, for the hell.
02:01This accusation is total pure bull .
02:04You smell that?
02:06Mandel, can y'all, can me and Mandel
02:08please have a conversation?
02:10I don't like to be lied on.
02:12So for this to be, you know, blew out of proportion,
02:17it really gets under my skin.
02:19Pisses me the off.
02:21We was trying to get out of like that.
02:22You know exactly what he was trying to do, Marie.
02:24You know, Glenn.
02:25This may, it may not be nothing between he and Mandel.
02:29But if you know what you've been through in the past,
02:33like, why would you put yourself back in this situation?
02:36Glenn is supposed to have a baby, an outside child.
02:41Is this your baby?
02:43My baby, Tisha.
02:45People send him inbox messages.
02:47These young ladies sent her breasts.
02:49He was like, damn.
02:51Man, they were eight size, bro.
02:53I ain't never seen no eight size breasts before.
02:56Who is Shorty in there talking about she seen my DM?
02:59Who the is that?
03:00Come on, bro.
03:01I was in her place.
03:02She said, I seen the DMs, bro.
03:04That's exactly what she said.
03:05The DM?
03:06Am I lying?
03:07Man, look.
03:08She said that I ain't deaf.
03:09Come on, bro.
03:10I've been privy to hearing about things
03:12that Glenn has done in the past,
03:13but I thought it was over and done with.
03:16But being here today and seeing it happen
03:18and blow up in real time, we both shocked.
03:20Shocked.
03:21Can we please have this conversation?
03:23Please.
03:24I ain't getting heated.
03:25Because we cool.
03:26We with each other every time,
03:27regardless of what happened.
03:28You been tired of me and told me and Tress,
03:29get our together.
03:30Get right.
03:31Like, despite of it, I always try to keep it
03:34to like a bare minimum with Glenn.
03:36But Glenn have always, always been at me in my DMs.
03:41What?
03:42On Instagram?
03:43Yes.
03:44And what he said?
03:45And Facebook.
03:46What he said?
03:46OK.
03:47Can we, uh?
03:47No, we're having a conversation.
03:49Latrice coming outside, inserting herself in my conversation
03:52is not cool.
03:53Latrice needs to go away while I try to figure this out.
03:57Listen.
03:59These are the Instagram messages.
04:02OK.
04:03May 29th.
04:05OK, this was last year, right?
04:07That's his birthday.
04:09No problem.
04:09You said happy birthday.
04:11OK, that's Sunday fun day.
04:13We invited you.
04:13This was last year.
04:15And I know what day this was.
04:16I can tell you what day this was, because this was my birthday
04:18weekend without even signing.
04:20So this is this app.
04:21Or y'all deleted some of this it right here.
04:23This it right here.
04:24I'm aware of Glenn's unfaithful past.
04:26But we've recommitted this year.
04:29Had those DMs been inappropriate and sent
04:34after the recommitment, then it'll be a different type of party
04:37going on right now.
04:39You don't go to Facebook.
04:40This Facebook.
04:41Wait, this Instagram.
04:42What's your number?
04:43Oh, OK, I'm going to hit you.
04:45You in the city.
04:46Oh, and these 2023, I'll hit you.
04:48Call me now.
04:50OK.
04:50There's nothing in these DMs to say anything.
04:53This is something that I've already seen.
04:55Girl, please, you're giving thirsty right now.
04:58Like, come on.
04:58If you can show something to me that I hadn't seen,
05:02you just all talk right now.
05:03Hell, every time I see you, you empower me.
05:05And we .
05:06I too, but it has been situations
05:09to the day where it has been awkward.
05:11And he's like, I with you.
05:13And I respect you as a person.
05:15Yeah.
05:15I don't think that Glenn and Amanda had anything
05:18or had anything going on.
05:20But I can't trust Glenn after all he's done in the past.
05:24I definitely know that Mandy, she doesn't move foul.
05:27Yeah.
05:28I have not known Mandy to be a lawyer, right?
05:29Yeah.
05:30But at the end of the day, this has been
05:31your husband for 30 years.
05:32Mm-hmm.
05:33So just roll with how you feel.
05:36One thing about it, I'm not that girl that's like, oh,
05:38I want to get an understanding.
05:39Like, I'm not like, oh, I'm going to believe him.
05:41I'm going to do this.
05:42Let me talk to you.
05:43So it was still like, damn, both of y'all moving foul
05:46around me if that's what it is.
05:48This is exactly why I never want to get involved when it comes
05:52to anything with Latisha Pearson and Glendale Pearson.
05:56Why is she in Amanda's ear and not pointing fingers
05:59at Glendale, who is public enemy number one?
06:01And I saw she's not lying about that.
06:03The stuff that I can pull up, the Facebook, Instagram,
06:06that's all there right now if I'm on my phone
06:08because I'm in this stuff.
06:09You're talking to Mandy.
06:10It's Mandy in my face all the time.
06:12We're kicking it.
06:13We don't have no beef.
06:14So she did tell us that Glenn had recently contacted her.
06:18Recent?
06:19I mean, there's something more outside of the DMs
06:22that I need to know.
06:23I need to know right now the truth.
06:26Hey, don't get upset.
06:29Stay with me.
06:30I want to get upset.
06:34I don't want to get upset, man.
06:35Don't, don't.
06:36Guilt, it just ain't on the .
06:38I know, I know.
06:39I've never been that girl because I respect marriages.
06:43And I ain't even going to hold you.
06:44If I wanted Glenn, I could have had Glenn yesterday.
06:47But out of respect for you and being married, I feel that.
06:50He said something recently to you.
06:51If we talking about what, 2025?
06:532025.
06:54February the 3rd.
06:55Exactly.
06:55February the what now?
06:56February the 3rd.
06:57In February, he was trying to with you.
06:59Yeah.
07:00Right now, all of this is messy.
07:02I'm going to confront Glenn about this, get his POV,
07:06and get this clear up.
07:07If you want to me up on gas,
07:09then let's figure out what the .
07:10I was out.
07:11They're going to expose you.
07:13Just stay calm.
07:14Just stay calm.
07:15So, Amanda Lyons, I'm asking what happened.
07:18If the first of the year, right now it's the clean slate,
07:21if we both recommitted the first of the year,
07:23because I've done my , you've done your ,
07:25I've told you several times, don't put me in position
07:28to have nobody coming to say nothing to me.
07:30I ain't had you in no type of position.
07:32Even though that's 2023, we can move on with the move forward.
07:34I ain't had you in no type of position.
07:35Come on, man.
07:36Let's clear this right here.
07:37Ain't clear.
07:38You know me and Mandy be close, bro.
07:41It's Amanda a liar.
07:43It ain't clear, bro.
07:45We got to squash this right now.
07:49But what happened because ever since then,
07:51don't ask me, ask your husband.
07:52You bringing it to me, and I'm asking him.
07:54Well, your husband.
07:54What happened?
07:55Did you have sex with Mandy?
07:58Hell no, we ain't know we slept together.
07:59No, but if we're going to be clear,
08:01am I'm lying about anything?
08:04Am I'm lying about anything?
08:06We danced.
08:07We danced.
08:08That's it, all right?
08:09OK.
08:10Finally.
08:10We danced, bro.
08:11That's it.
08:12I ain't nothing.
08:13I ain't taking nothing home.
08:14Ain't it happening.
08:15Wait, wait, what?
08:17What we not going to do?
08:19Wait, what?
08:20I'm humiliated.
08:22I'm hurt again by Glenn.
08:24The questions that Latrice put on her paper,
08:28they were aimed at me and Glenn and my marriage.
08:31We about to play a game.
08:32Have you ever been attracted to someone in the group?
08:35Why would you do that?
08:38I don't know.
08:39I don't know.
08:40I don't know.
08:41I don't know.
08:42I don't know.
08:43I don't know.
08:44I don't know.
08:45Coming up on Bell Collective.
08:46All of that was a setup for me and my husband.
08:47She have shown you over and over the snake she is.
08:49I'm sorry, it's like, sir, your ass just right.
08:51You know that bed over there?
08:52Yeah.
08:53That bed gotta go.
08:54Why had the bed a trigger for you?
08:56Because so many different women have been in and out
08:58that house.
08:59It's a reminder.
09:00Anybody else that you see, don't bring no around me.
09:03I didn't bring nobody around you.
09:05Leave me alone.
09:06Leave me alone.
09:08You're not mine.
09:09I can't forget you, babe.
09:10I'll be honest.
09:11You're a tank.
09:12Fragments of a stone line are taking over me.
09:15Oh.
09:16How are you?
09:17Look, you deserve your flowers but be a fly girl.
09:18I know, right?
09:19Today I'm meeting Carrie to check on Leticia.
09:21She's not doing well.
09:22I haven't been the biggest fan of Carrie, but she expressed major concerns, you know,
09:43last night and I just, you know, asked her to come and let's check on our girl.
09:48I know she probably been crying.
09:50Oh.
09:51Hey, hey, hey.
09:54Leticia.
09:55Hey, hey.
09:56Come on.
09:57It's me and Carrie.
09:58Oh.
09:59Oh, look what y'all are doing.
10:01Wait a minute.
10:02Oh my.
10:03Y'all gonna make me cry.
10:05This means a lot to me.
10:07Them showing up.
10:09I feel loved.
10:10I feel supported.
10:12Then I didn't have to tell them to show up.
10:14They just knew.
10:15How you feeling?
10:16Mm.
10:17Mm, mm, mm, mm, mm, mm.
10:22Last night, we got home.
10:24I got in the bed with Josh.
10:26I tried to replay the whole situation in my head.
10:29And I didn't get any rest.
10:31So what happened?
10:33What happened?
10:34I'm just trying to do it.
10:36Let's go.
10:37That ain't that bad.
10:38Yeah, let's go, y'all.
10:39All right.
10:40That's too much.
10:41Let's go.
10:42I haven't had a chance to talk to Glenn.
10:44He immediately went to work today.
10:46And I'm just still trying to process things right now.
10:49So where do you and Glenn stand right now?
10:52So right now, when it happened, I was so confused.
10:55I end up just, like, sleeping with, like, Josh.
10:57Just a process.
10:58Like, hold on.
11:00But I also gotta say this.
11:01Glenn, he's giving somebody the thought of,
11:04oh, I'm looking at you or I'm interested.
11:06Yeah.
11:07Carrie, Glenn has put himself in this position
11:08because the world knows what he's been doing.
11:10And that's why he has to be so serious about not doing it.
11:15Yeah.
11:16She's just saying.
11:17Like, they didn't really have anything,
11:18but maybe it was some flirting.
11:19Yeah.
11:20See, this Latrice calling me now.
11:21Mm-mm.
11:22But the way that they set me up, ambushed me,
11:27this whole thing was for me.
11:29It's so hurtful.
11:30It really is, y'all.
11:32It is so hurtful.
11:33Well, Latrice, as a woman, I'm proud of how you handled it.
11:36Because I cannot stand to see where people, you know,
11:39it's a tale as old as time.
11:40Mm-mm.
11:41Like, the man, oh, my man, da-da-da.
11:43So you all on the woman, rah, rah, rah, rah, rah,
11:44forgetting about the man.
11:45No, you were talking to both.
11:46You were trying to figure it out.
11:47Mm-mm.
11:48You were trying to get to the bottom of it.
11:49And you did it in a way with class.
11:50Mm-mm.
11:51And as a bell should.
11:52Mm-mm.
11:53I don't know what Latrice is telling me about she and Glenn
11:56have been in a good place up until this moment.
11:59But let me just tell you, if it was me and Matt,
12:02baby, we are getting down to the bottom of what's going on,
12:05because I need a resolution for peace within my heart.
12:08Right.
12:09I just think it's unfortunate after seeing the camaraderie
12:12that everybody has been having the last few, you know,
12:15the last few weeks, everybody's been cool, chill, copacetic.
12:18Mm-mm.
12:19Everybody's for everybody.
12:20They're part of a collective with anybody.
12:23But you are the collective.
12:24Who's moving like that.
12:25You started this.
12:26And you know what?
12:27It wouldn't be a collective if it wasn't for you.
12:28At the end of the day.
12:29At the end of the day, too, it does not matter.
12:32No friend of mine could come in and do that to any of y'all.
12:35No.
12:36I definitely can't trust Latrice now.
12:38And I feel like she betrayed me.
12:41We've had our ups and downs over the years.
12:44But this is below.
12:47The low of the low, I would never.
12:49And for Mandy to come into her home and feel comfortable enough
12:52to do pool or something like that, Latrice knew.
12:54They knew.
12:55It was a set up.
12:56It was a set up for me.
12:57All of that was a set up for me and my husband.
13:00And I don't want to be harsh, and I may be wrong for saying this,
13:05but Tisha, she have shown you over and over the snake she is.
13:10And you didn't believe it.
13:11So it's almost like, I'm sorry.
13:12It's like, sir, your ass just right.
13:14Because she done showed you.
13:15I told you Latrice and Latrice is a snake.
13:18If they bite you, then, hey, that's on you.
13:21Because you knew she been a snake all the time.
13:24I didn't want to be in her presence.
13:26Because all I could think about is what the she did to me.
13:29They tried to ruin my bed so they ain't forgot that .
13:32The same girl that I tried to tell you was a snake in the grass.
13:35I believe her.
13:36Yeah, you come down to me.
13:38I did believe Latrice.
13:40Every single time I go to bat for you,
13:44you end up beating me with that same bat.
13:48I'm just, like, so freaking tired.
13:54I'm just...
13:55I love you, friend.
13:56I love you.
13:57I love you.
13:58You gonna get through it.
14:01We are here.
14:03We gonna get through it.
14:05We love you.
14:06We love you so much.
14:13Coming up on Bell Collective.
14:15The Bell's gonna blame me for every single thing.
14:18In taste.
14:19He had his hands around my waist.
14:21Hey!
14:38Girl, I am literally in your neighborhood,
14:41and I was gonna pull up on you.
14:43I got a little happy for you.
14:45Are you busy?
14:46Girl, I just literally just rapped.
14:50Just sent my last client at the door.
14:52Okay.
14:53Perfect timing.
14:54I'll just get done.
14:55Perfect timing.
14:56I'm about to pull up on you, honey.
14:58I'm in a neighborhood near Amanda's salon,
15:01and since me and Amanda have not had a conversation
15:03since the fiasca at my pool party,
15:06I just thought that I would pop up on her with some coffee
15:09and hash things out.
15:11How you been?
15:12I been good.
15:13Um, of course, working, taste, got his lens.
15:17Yeah, my husband, that's a whole job in itself.
15:19You already know that.
15:20He been coming home, or you been compromising?
15:23Listen.
15:25We getting it together, honey.
15:27We are getting it together.
15:28We are figuring it out, okay?
15:30Things with my husband has gotten worse.
15:32Not only is he still staying at the condos above taste,
15:37he's spending more and more time there lately.
15:40At the end of the day, I feel like it's gonna work,
15:42because, you know, that's my meaning.
15:44Yeah, as long as you compromise and be willing to stay
15:47in the bachelor pack with him.
15:50Girl, OMG.
15:52You know, I love my, I love home.
15:55Like, home is my sanctuary.
15:57Speaking of my house, the pool party.
16:00Have you ever been attracted to someone in the group?
16:03Well, I'mma be honest.
16:05Glenn.
16:06Have you ever been attracted to her?
16:07I'm attracted to my wife.
16:09Okay, that's bull .
16:11The bell's gonna blame me for every single thing,
16:14and I just feel like this is one of those times
16:16that they're gonna be like,
16:17oh, Treece, you invited Amanda to come at Letitia and Glendale,
16:22and, you know, that's not even the case.
16:24I told my team to create a mixture of questions.
16:28This is the couple's game that I wanna play.
16:30So, I'm thinking, like, ten questions,
16:33and whichever couple knows the most about their spouse,
16:36that's who wins.
16:37That's who wins.
16:38Maybe that one was a bit too much,
16:41but, y'all, I can't do everything.
16:43That's why I have a team.
16:45I feel like it didn't go left until,
16:48you know, Glendale got up.
16:50I seen a DM, the man kept it.
16:52What you mean?
16:53Stop that with me, man.
16:54Don't do that.
16:55No, don't you do that.
16:56Listen, I know the drinks was flowing, baby.
16:58The Taste Girls kept, the glass is full.
17:01I didn't do nothing wrong or nothing bad to you.
17:06That wasn't already happening.
17:09Mm.
17:10So, you think if the drinks wasn't flowing,
17:14you would've told her, like, in another setting, maybe,
17:17if y'all would've had a one-on-one?
17:18One-on-one.
17:19Possible.
17:20Because I feel like that was weighing heavy on you.
17:22Mm-hmm.
17:23Like, and I'm willing, like, and like I said,
17:25I apologize to you because I'm never too big
17:27to take accountability and know when I'm wrong.
17:30Because it shouldn't have happened at your house,
17:32no matter if we was drinking or not.
17:34Amanda apologizing, while I sincerely believe
17:39that she meant it from her heart,
17:41this still doesn't fix the situation.
17:44Someone was still hurt.
17:46Friendships were damaged.
17:47And I'm still stuck in the middle.
17:49I know that the girls are gonna be mad at me.
17:51They're gonna blame me, of course.
17:52But at the end of the day, Glendale, you sent the first DM.
17:55You initiated everything.
17:56And if you didn't send a DM, we wouldn't even be here.
17:59Girl, that's my whole thing.
18:02Like, we would not be in this position.
18:04Like, learn to control.
18:05And you know how yourself, even back in February,
18:09like, in taste, he had his hands around my waist.
18:13What?
18:14And Vaughn was like, come on.
18:15Like, she was hot about that.
18:17And I was moving his hand.
18:18I was like, she over there in the corner or whatever.
18:20If Latisha knew about this information,
18:23I don't think it'd be no different.
18:25You know your man.
18:27It doesn't surprise me.
18:28I'm sure it does not surprise Latisha.
18:31It's just a sticky situation because, girl, you know my man.
18:34When I say he is on one because of him and Glendale's friendship,
18:38he wants his friends to feel like they have a safe place
18:41when they come to his house.
18:43And I think that was because Glendale is pissed.
18:46Like, he's not even answering his phone at this point.
18:49For me, Cliff is family.
18:50So I hate for us to be in a sticky situation
18:54because of something me and his friend had going on.
18:58You know, I get it, Glendale.
19:00You like what you like.
19:01And you do it how you do it.
19:02And you out here free as a bird.
19:05Mm-hmm.
19:07But you just have to think.
19:09Yep.
19:10Think about your wife.
19:11How much you love your wife.
19:12Like, none of this should have happened.
19:13And some things you just don't do, like, out of respect.
19:15Yeah.
19:16Even though me and Amanda is in a great position right now,
19:19I can't help but to feel that me and Leticia's friendship
19:23is dwindling real fast.
19:26Like, this can't happen again.
19:28I got you.
19:30Coming up on Bell Collective.
19:32But, babe, when you start to see other people
19:34and some of the things that they have going on,
19:35don't it make you think, like, golly,
19:37I'm glad we don't have that kind of stuff.
19:39You came to talk about drama.
19:42No, I just came to visit with my husband
19:43because you've been working so much,
19:45I haven't gotten to see you in a long time.
19:46That's because you've been on your phone.
20:06Today at the training facility,
20:08I've got my client, Jay McQueen.
20:10You know, as a sports agent, I do a few different things.
20:12I negotiate contracts.
20:15I'm a bridge between professional baseball and the family.
20:19It's important for me to show each client that I work with
20:23that I'm willing to go above and beyond.
20:25You ever do step backs?
20:27Yeah, like this.
20:28Go through it?
20:29Yeah.
20:30Yeah, I did that.
20:31Do a couple of those.
20:32So start in front of the plate.
20:33So when you step back, it's like your normal extension.
20:36You're not reaching.
20:37Oh, my front foot?
20:38Yeah.
20:39I work in a sport where I am a minority,
20:43specifically about African Americans.
20:45I've seen just how tough it is for minority baseball players
20:50to reach the pinnacle of being a pro baseball player.
20:54She my best buddy.
20:57She my best buddy.
20:58She my best buddy.
20:59She my cutty buddy.
21:00She my cutty buddy.
21:01She my cutty buddy.
21:02She my lotty dotty.
21:03She my little, uh, she my little hottie.
21:06Yeah, yeah, yeah.
21:07Nice.
21:08Oberon!
21:09Oh, Lord.
21:11What you doing here?
21:12Coming to surprise you, Babu thing.
21:15Hey, how you doing?
21:17Good. How about you?
21:18You know Jay?
21:19Good. No, happy to be here again.
21:20Jay, this is my wife.
21:21Hi.
21:22With the whatever that is.
21:23I don't know what that is.
21:24I brought you a smoothie.
21:25A smoothie?
21:26Sorry, Jay.
21:27I should have brought you one, too.
21:28It's all right.
21:29You want mine?
21:30I mean, I'm good.
21:31Okay.
21:32Carrie has got her own way of doing things.
21:34Babe, I like to watch you play.
21:36I don't get to watch you do this a lot.
21:38You know, we both travel for work, so I was up in the area.
21:41He's up in the area.
21:42So I wanted to show him that I care about what he does,
21:46and I wanted to see what he was doing.
21:48Why are you doing your eyes like that?
21:51Because that's how I do my eyes.
21:53Well, how's your day going?
21:54Good.
21:55How's your day going?
21:56Good.
21:57I just was up here, so I was like, you know,
22:00finding out where you at.
22:01Want to come see what you got going on.
22:02Snooping around?
22:03You know, I do a little something-something.
22:06Well, what's going on?
22:08Nothing.
22:09I'm just, you know, the other night.
22:13Do you want to have a conversation outside of this?
22:15No, we having a conversation all here together.
22:17Uh-uh, we playing a game.
22:19Nuh-uh, hell no.
22:20We ain't gonna sit here and play no game.
22:22Babe, what about my little friend group
22:25that I had to introduce you to?
22:27That was a mess.
22:28I don't like stuff like that.
22:30Well, one, I didn't like that girl coming up there with that,
22:32because that is a mess.
22:33Yeah.
22:34But...
22:35I just, I don't know.
22:36I felt a little awkward, you know.
22:37I felt bad for Glenn.
22:38I actually reached out to Glenn, so...
22:39That's good.
22:40...to Instagram.
22:41Well, so you slid in his DMs, too?
22:47I thought it'd be easier to just shoot him a mess and check on him.
22:50And what'd he say?
22:51He responded, said he was doing okay.
22:52Appreciate me checking in, you know.
22:54I'm trying to stay out of the drama, though.
22:55I think that Tisha is very hurt.
22:57You know, I feel like that was kind of embarrassing.
22:59At the end of the day, like, that's my girl,
23:01and I do not want to see this for her.
23:02Yeah, I think they're both in a tough spot,
23:04and I hope they work it out.
23:06But, babe, when you start to see other people
23:08and some of the things that they have going on,
23:09don't it make you think, like, golly,
23:11I'm glad we don't have that kind of stuff.
23:13We have our flaws.
23:14We both have our flaws.
23:15You know, nobody's perfect.
23:16Well, what are yours?
23:18It's gonna take me a while to think about my...
23:20You know what?
23:21I have them. I do have them.
23:23Oh, you got to think about it.
23:24Like, Matt, you don't pay attention to us, so...
23:27And the kids will say that.
23:28I pay attention, but you got to think about it.
23:30When you have three, four people in your ears,
23:33naturally, I think your brain just starts
23:35to try to figure out ways to block some of the noise out.
23:39Carrie's got a big personality.
23:41I've got two daughters, and you're both in my ear,
23:43and then I got my son, who's...
23:45He's a big talker.
23:47The way my brain works, I'll kind of tune everybody out
23:50because there's just too much going on at one time.
23:52Right, and there's nothing right about that.
23:54And like I say, Matt, no, you have your head in the clouds.
23:57You need to come back down to Earth with us.
24:00You gonna wait till I'm done, or you headed up?
24:03Why are you putting it to go on me, and I come to hang out?
24:06Because we got to... I got to finish up with Jay.
24:10Jay come to work.
24:12Well, so did I.
24:13No, you came to... Do I look like...
24:14You came to talk about drama.
24:17No, I just came to visit with my husband
24:19because you've been working so much
24:20I haven't gotten to see you in a long time.
24:22That's because you've been on your phone.
24:24Don't... It's not on my phone.
24:26As I have to tell you, it is a device that I use for work.
24:29Matt, I'm not on there for pleasure.
24:31Like, I feel like a lot of times
24:33you're just scrolling mindlessly just for the hell of it.
24:36I'm not scrolling mindlessly.
24:37Like, I'm on there creating.
24:39I know you got a lot on your plate,
24:40but I think I expect more, just a little bit more effort.
24:43Yeah.
24:44You know, I want to do what I want to do as a wife and a mom,
24:47and it's like sometimes I feel like I'm deficient in those areas.
24:50Babe, we just got to be a team on that one.
24:53Because you know I cannot do all that.
24:55I know there's a lot going on, but we just got to, I think,
24:58really prioritize improvement
25:00and trying to put our best foot forward for each other.
25:05I'm with that.
25:07Well, let's continue to work on it.
25:09Let's continue to talk, communicate.
25:11We're seeing some stuff erupt in relationships.
25:13I don't want that to be us.
25:15Coming up on Bell Collective.
25:19I thought I had removed all the snakes from around me.
25:22They don't give a about you, me, or my son.
25:25I'm very hurt.
25:26Anybody don't give a about me or mine, they dead to me, man.
25:30Yeah, yeah, we going up, up.
25:40I got my swagger back, swagger back.
25:43Yeah, yeah, we going up, up.
25:46I got my swagger back, swagger back, yeah, yeah.
25:51Hi, Professor Abston.
25:53Good to see you.
25:55I am visiting Cedric today at his hair school,
25:58next to his residence.
26:00We met in cosmetology school,
26:02and for us to be sitting here,
26:04it just brings back so many memories right now.
26:06Oh, my goodness, are you getting ready to?
26:08Doing my beard up.
26:09So you ain't going to let that silver come on through?
26:11You want it to come through?
26:12Now, I'd be an old man.
26:13Like, if you want me to be an old man, I can.
26:15You know I used to like them old.
26:18Back in the day, I used to like them old.
26:20There you go.
26:21Yeah, you're doing a little application.
26:22Yeah, a little application.
26:23Wow.
26:24I hadn't done any hair in years.
26:26Right.
26:27Don't it bring back memories?
26:28Yeah.
26:29Let me help.
26:30Let me see what I got.
26:31Let me see.
26:32Let me see what you got.
26:33Wait a minute.
26:34I need the gloves.
26:35Let me help you out.
26:36One, two, three.
26:37Uh-uh.
26:38Just don't touch my skin.
26:39Just the hair on.
26:40OK.
26:41Dating my ex-husband is very different.
26:44We are very in sync with each other now than we were before.
26:49Infidelity caused our divorce.
26:51A year ago, me and Cedric, we did not have really,
26:55we had very minimal communication a year ago.
26:58So I know your living quarters is right next door, right?
27:03Mm-hmm.
27:04I shouldn't have said that.
27:07You know that bed over there?
27:09Yeah.
27:10That bed gotta go.
27:11I just don't want the old behaviors and the old things to.
27:15I don't want a reminder of those things.
27:17Mm-hmm.
27:18Why had the bed a trigger for you?
27:20Because so much has been done over there in that bed when we were married.
27:24And it's a reminder.
27:25And so many different women have been in and out that house.
27:28It's a reminder.
27:29That's why I don't like it.
27:30All right.
27:31Well, I'll get rid of it for you then.
27:34But I want you to want to get rid of the bed.
27:36You saying the old bed make room for a new bed, right?
27:39Is that what you talking about?
27:41So what's our plan?
27:44You just gonna be back and forth?
27:46Or you gonna be there with me and Zuri?
27:48And you want the flexibility to be over here to sleep and stay sometime?
27:53So I need you to help me spruce it up and keep it spruced up.
27:58What are we gonna spruce it up for?
27:59And you're supposed to be with me and Zuri at the house.
28:01No, but I'm saying in the interim when I'm entertaining.
28:04Entertaining what?
28:06I'm saying entertaining my family.
28:08My kids may want to stop by.
28:10Ray in school, you know.
28:12It's easier.
28:13It feels more like home, you know.
28:15To be on campus and teaching him too.
28:18Look, whatever I need to do to get out my own way,
28:22so we can really, you know, scale and do whatever it takes.
28:26Getting rid of the bed is the first step.
28:29I'm willing to listen and be flexible.
28:31I think that's what building a good future is all about.
28:34I need you to trust me.
28:37OK.
28:38Do you trust me?
28:42Yeah, I trust you. I trust you now. Yeah.
28:45Yeah.
28:46I think that we can, you know, build something great.
28:48I believe that too.
28:50Mm-hmm.
28:51But I just think that the house is going to be temptation for you.
28:56I am beyond grateful Cedric is back.
28:59He is doing everything right.
29:02But I am totally against him having, keeping this house as his bachelor's pad.
29:09Just like Cliff have his bachelor's pad right above taste.
29:13What is it with these men trying to keep their beds near work?
29:18I feel sad about how the pool party ended.
29:21What do you think?
29:23It was like up until the thing went left.
29:25I don't know why y'all want to play these games, man.
29:28Why y'all trying to play games?
29:29Baby, it was the Rogers event.
29:31I was just the guest, just like you.
29:34What's the point of the game to destroy a match?
29:36Let me tell you something.
29:39You know, I've been in a position where a mistress, an outside woman have disrespected me.
29:45Mm-hmm.
29:46I know what that feel like.
29:47For her to sit beside his wife and ask her wife, husband, ain't he attracted to her?
29:55That was a high level of disrespect.
29:57It really, really hurt me to see Leticia so hurt.
30:03She's my friend, and it's just not right.
30:06Especially being the one of the bells is the one who inflicted the hurt.
30:13This is truly a treat to get all this good attention.
30:16Yeah.
30:17Mm-hmm.
30:18It's your word, mama.
30:21Yeah, you on it.
30:23It's your word, mama.
30:26They just in it.
30:28Banana!
30:30This is, like, amazing.
30:33It is definitely giving Beach Coast soul.
30:35Yes.
30:36My man, my man, my man.
30:37Yes.
30:38Go head on, girl.
30:39He's been talking about how he wants to feel more appreciated, so that's why I'm doing this for him.
30:43Okay, awesome.
30:44Matt and I have talked about spending more time together and me not being on the phone, so I have planned this romantic night for us out of the veranda.
30:53I've sent the kids away, and we're really going to take some time to just be with us, be centered, and have a little romance.
31:01What's going on here?
31:16Don't worry about it.
31:17I got you.
31:18I got you.
31:19So, you know how you've been talking about, you want me to be more present.
31:28Mm-hmm.
31:29And I'm taking it serious because you, you my man, my man, my man.
31:33Oh.
31:34So, I want to do something special for you.
31:36Really?
31:37And, ta-da!
31:42Oh, wow.
31:43Date night.
31:44Mwah.
31:45Now, this is, this is nice.
31:47Let's see.
31:48We've got your favorite, a charcuterie.
31:51We've got a mimosa station.
31:53This is beautiful.
31:54Might be the nicest thing you've ever done for me.
31:57Aww.
32:00I've never had anything like this done for me before, not with Carrie.
32:04But, you know, I'm a bit excited.
32:06I want to know what it's about, um, and, and what, what's she trying to set me up for.
32:11Babe, you can tell I'm not really used to doing all the stuff.
32:14Yeah, that's okay. You're trying.
32:17Oh!
32:22That was so fun!
32:25My king.
32:27Thank you, babe.
32:28So, I think we need to have a toast.
32:30Okay, what are we toasting to?
32:31To non-traditional marriages, yet traditional love.
32:38Okay.
32:40Cheers.
32:41Whatever that means.
32:42I want you to know that you're my priority.
32:48Not just today, right?
32:49Not just today.
32:50Every day.
32:51And I plan on showing it.
32:55We have been together for a long time.
32:57Obviously, we've been through a lot together.
32:59And we've had our ups and our downs.
33:03We continue to fight through it.
33:05You're the one person that I want to, you know, do everything in my power to spend the rest of my life here on Earth with.
33:12Matt, I knew you and my husband at 16 years old when we met.
33:15I'm serious.
33:16Like, I knew.
33:17I might have, you know, had my days of trying to be wild, whatever, whatever.
33:20But, like, I always knew that, like, Matt Paul was going to be my husband.
33:24My friends knew it.
33:25You know, I'm just glad that we...
33:27We found our way.
33:28We found our way.
33:29Back to each other.
33:30Yes.
33:31We found our way.
33:32She's winning me over.
33:34I'm telling you.
33:35I'm big on affirmations.
33:37I'm big on tone.
33:38Big on energy.
33:39So, the fact that she's saying all these positive things, it means a lot.
33:43You know, I just think this is a time in our lives where we put in the work.
33:48And I would like to be able to slow down a little bit more and put in my work for you.
33:55Aww.
33:58We can save this for the bedroom, right?
33:59Yeah.
34:00Okay.
34:03Lately, I'm thinking about love.
34:06It kinda makes me act crazy.
34:09There's just something about love.
34:12Yeah, it makes me really wanna scream.
34:17What's going on, son?
34:18You all right today?
34:19Oh, yeah, man.
34:20Just out here trying to free my mind a little bit.
34:22I'm good, though.
34:23You'll be all right.
34:24God got you.
34:26He got you.
34:27God's hand wrapped around you, baby.
34:29I don't get it, man.
34:30Like, it's like I'm always under attack.
34:33My family always under attack for no reason.
34:36You know, anytime you're doing good, respect bad.
34:39Latisha and I haven't had much conversation since the pool party.
34:42Just giving each other the eyes.
34:44The house is cold again.
34:45I hate that.
34:46My stepfather being there, it's a plus for me.
34:51It's just, man, I hate, you know, this situation that happened the other day.
34:55It threw a wrench at me and Tisha, you know what I mean?
34:57I've been getting a silent treatment, you know what I mean?
35:00The last couple of days, it's been...
35:03I try to really stay in a good place.
35:05Son, you the good man.
35:06You the good man.
35:07Always have.
35:08I appreciate hearing that.
35:09Yeah, you always have, son, you know?
35:11You know, this whole situation at Cliff House, you know, I consider Cliff family.
35:16And Latrice family as well.
35:18I feel like we were betrayed and it hurt coming from people that you consider family.
35:23I'm really trying, man.
35:25You'll be all right.
35:26That's life.
35:29Hey, hey.
35:30Y'all coming along, coming along.
35:32Hey, hey, beautiful, how you doing?
35:34Hey, hey.
35:35Babe, we getting in, baby.
35:36Yes.
35:37Well, you take a break.
35:38I'ma take a break.
35:39I'ma talk to him.
35:40Love you too much, baby.
35:41I love you more.
35:43All right, baby.
35:45Yes, ma'am.
35:46The pool party is still weighing very heavy on my mind.
35:49And I have to talk to Glenn now.
35:52I mean, although he's out there doing some much needed housework, but it's important
35:57that I just talk to him right now in this moment.
35:59I wanna just chitchat with you.
36:01I'ma sit out here.
36:02You come to work or supervise or, you know, what you got?
36:08What you got on your mind?
36:09We haven't had a chance to really have a conversation.
36:12Yeah, I've just been trying to stay busy.
36:14Like a conversation.
36:15Stay busy.
36:16Out the way.
36:17You know, I have been trying to process everything, you know, and try to figure this
36:21out.
36:22You telling me, you know, on our way home from the pool party that back in, what, three
36:27years ago, that Latrice's hairstylist even said, hey, came up to you at the masquerade
36:33party and was like, um, I'ma F you.
36:37Hold on.
36:38Let me just finish.
36:39I'm just finished.
36:40I'm finished.
36:41All I'm telling you is, well, we made a recommitment.
36:43Anybody else that you see, don't bring them around me.
36:46I didn't bring nobody around you.
36:48I know.
36:49I didn't, I know you did.
36:50Latrice bought Antoinette around you.
36:53Respectfully, in front of God and everybody, Letitia Pearson is so full of .
36:58You so full of .
36:59You so full of .
37:00The baby thing.
37:01She bought the baby thing.
37:03Latrice had, she did come to me and said, you know what?
37:06Somebody said that Glenn is supposed to have a baby.
37:10And now her hairdresser coming up talking about, I, oh, you gonna find me attractive?
37:16Have y'all been attracted to her?
37:17Are you okay for her?
37:18I'm attracted to my wife.
37:20Okay.
37:21That's bull .
37:22I have not given anyone a reason to feel like I want them or I find them attractive
37:28or, you know, I'm bringing them around you because that's foul as .
37:32The first of the year, Glenn and I sat down and we decided to recommit ourselves to each
37:37other because the trust was all over the place.
37:40We all know there's been infidelity.
37:42I've gone out on two dates when we were separated.
37:45It's just been so much in our marriage where we did not prioritize each other.
37:51I see you, you hurt.
37:53I'm very hurt.
37:54I'm disappointed.
37:55Cliff, I looked at Cliff like an uncle.
37:58I'm a little confused when it comes to Cliff and I friendship, you know.
38:02Up until now, you know, Cliff been solid.
38:05And I'm just shocked that he allowed something like this to happen in his house.
38:10They don't give a about you, me, or my son.
38:13And anybody don't give a about me or mine, they dead to me, man.
38:18I'm upset in this moment because I'm tired of people who I genuinely love keep hurting me.
38:26I just don't know who to trust and I just don't understand why can't I receive what I give.
38:32I thought I had removed all the snakes from around me, you know what I'm saying?
38:36And then I'm going out in a place I felt comfortable to my friend's place.
38:41And then here it is with that.
38:43Like, it's all this stuff.
38:45You make it so hard for me to not believe what people constantly say about you.
38:50Everybody.
38:51I get it.
38:53Nah, you ain't shedding no tears of .
38:55I'm not, I'm not shedding tears over nobody.
38:58It's just like, damn, give me a break.
39:00I'm sorry, man.
39:01We good.
39:02I think I'm tired of this.
39:04We good.
39:05Every .
39:08I have a lot of emotions right now.
39:10I'm, I've been triggered.
39:12I just don't know who for me.
39:15I'm trying to love.
39:16I'm trying to heal.
39:17I'm trying to serve.
39:18I'm trying to make peace within myself.
39:21But things just keep recircling.
39:25I'm just tired of people constantly playing in my face.
39:29You know what I'm saying?
39:31Like.
39:32Come on.
39:33Don't do that.
39:34We good.
39:35I'm dead.
39:36We're just like, you can't even be your self around people.
39:42We just want to like use you or just clean your face or just,
39:48you know what I'm saying?
39:51Don't worry like that.
39:52We good.
39:53All right.
39:54All right?
39:55OK.
39:56So we good.
39:57Then girls, you good.
39:58Like.
39:59Yes, we're good.
40:00We're good.
40:01We're good.
40:02We're good.
40:03I just ask you like, if it's not.
40:08No.
40:09If it's not, if it's not good, just leave me the alone.
40:16OK?
40:17Leave me alone.
40:19Leave me alone.
40:20You know?
40:21Just leave me alone.
40:23No.
40:28Next on Bell Collective.
40:30I'm great with money.
40:32I plan things.
40:33You kind of just wait until it happens.
40:36Have you or her ever went without?
40:38Oh, I'm not going to go without.
40:39I know.
40:40No, no, no.
40:41That's not going to happen.
40:42I need you at the house.
40:43You grown.
40:44You can do what you want.
40:45If I go out here and throw ass on another man in the club,
40:48what would you call it?
40:49They call it cheating.
40:50Sorry, babe.
40:51I am planning a trip to the Secret Coast, boo-boo.
40:54Oh, my God.
40:55So who are we'll be there?
40:57Everybody.
40:58We are pulling up to the house.
41:01Wedding beds.
41:03There are four bedrooms upstairs.
41:05Two are going to have to bunk together.
41:08Hold on, Carrie.
41:09You want me and Letitia to share a room?
41:11This is definitely giving disaster waiting to happen.
41:14You lied to me.
41:16Now you playing in my face.
41:17If I'm playing in your face, then that means
41:18your husband's playing in your face.
41:19All y'all played in my face.
41:20and that means your husband's playing in your face.
41:22All y'all played in my face.
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