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00:00Previously on Bell Collective.
00:02I lost my mother, her birth me, and then to my son.
00:05It's now going on five years since my son's life was taken.
00:10I was angry, I was hurt, I was pissed,
00:13and it's very, very painful.
00:15I am planning a trip to the Secret Coast, baboo!
00:18Oh, God!
00:20So who all will be there?
00:21Everybody.
00:22When I brunch, I brunch on purpose.
00:24Getting back to work and hosting my first brunch
00:28on the Mississippi brunch tour is just
00:30the distraction that I need.
00:31I'm ready for this trip.
00:32All right.
00:33I am looking forward to going out of town with the girls.
00:37I'm just sick and tired of people playing in my face.
00:39I'm in a weird space with that.
00:41Two are going to have to bulk together.
00:43Carrie, seriously?
00:45Uh-huh!
00:46Is there anything that Glenn is doing inappropriate?
00:50That's your answer right now.
00:58Two are going to have to go to big places.
01:00Two are going to be good.
01:01Two are going to have to go back,
01:02if it's not our last Professorlee tener that you're not Merry
01:19or two are going to be great.
01:23So my question is, like, after all of this,
01:38have you, with your eyes, seen Glenn do anything inappropriate
01:42that you feel like I need to know about?
01:47Or that you had shared with me?
01:49I don't think so.
01:50But with Amanda, like I always say,
01:52like, I don't know her to be a liar.
01:54So, you know, I don't know what conversations
01:56you and Glendale have had.
01:57But, you know, whatever conversations definitely
02:00take heat if she said something, for sure.
02:04I'm not satisfied with Latrice's answers.
02:06And she's deflecting, putting it on Glenn.
02:09I can handle my own marriage.
02:11I just need Latrice to take accountability
02:13for her own actions.
02:14And it don't look like I'm going to be getting that tonight.
02:18Let's move forward.
02:22I'm all about my paper.
02:33They can't deal with me.
02:36Them females that be petty.
02:38They can't deal with me.
02:40Good morning.
02:42Good morning, Monroe.
02:44I know you hate I slept in here.
02:46But I told you, I was sleeping in here with you.
02:48After dinner last night, I mean,
02:50everybody was pretty much exhausted.
02:52And we went home and went straight to bed.
02:54I was supposed to sleep in the room with Latrice,
02:56but I didn't want to do that.
02:57So I'm bunking with Marie.
03:00So how you feel about your Latrice conversation last night?
03:04My thing is, when people show you who they are,
03:08as they say, you have to believe them.
03:10I was just sleeping in the rain.
03:11I thought Tisha would ever.
03:13Tisha did not sleep with me last night, baby Tisha.
03:16He said I'm not sleeping in this wind.
03:19Things didn't go well at dinner last night.
03:22And frankly, I expected that.
03:25But it kind of leaves us at an awkward point.
03:28So how you feel like you and Tisha's talk?
03:30Y'all done talk now?
03:31I just feel like they, like,
03:33she wanted me to be at fault for what went on.
03:37But at the end of the day,
03:38it's still damned if I do, damned if I don't.
03:40Because at the end of the day, Tisha,
03:42you're not gonna leave Graham, right?
03:44And don't try to make it seem like it's my fault
03:46for something that your man did.
03:49I feel for the position that Latrice is in.
03:54When I first found out about the DMs,
03:58I didn't want anything to do with it.
04:00I don't want to be the person who, you know,
04:03everybody knows a situation,
04:05and then we're around Latisha.
04:07Like, this is something that I literally wouldn't take to her.
04:09I wouldn't either.
04:10I am grateful every day that I missed that pool party.
04:14I want to stay out of the drama.
04:17We in each other's presence.
04:18Let's be cordial.
04:19Like, I don't need no hostility, no animosity.
04:22I'm not about this.
04:23And we're gonna see how today just goes.
04:25Oh, God.
04:25I think today's gonna be good.
04:27It's gonna be good.
04:28It's gonna be good, because we make it good.
04:30I am in a hard space,
04:38because Latisha's my friend, Latrice is my friend.
04:41I've been knowing both these ladies for years.
04:44This is definitely not what Carrie wanted on this trip.
04:47Can we just all get along?
04:49Are you ready for this brunch to get back to your purpose
04:52and what God called you to do?
04:54Absolutely.
04:55And let's brunch.
04:56And let's brunch.
04:57Today is very important.
04:58I am relaunching the Mississippi Brunch Tour,
05:02Women Brunch Mississippi.
05:03And it's not all about entrepreneurship.
05:05It's also about home ownership
05:06and connecting women together.
05:09I love you.
05:09I love you more, friend.
05:11Yeah.
05:12Party every day till the sun up.
05:17We do what we want.
05:18We don't waste no time.
05:20Party every day till the sun up.
05:23We do what we want.
05:24Better fall in line.
05:26We're having a brunch.
05:29Yes, you should join us.
05:31I really feel good being able to show up
05:33as Latisha's friend and help her with this brunch.
05:35It is of the utmost importance
05:37that this brunch goes well.
05:38I know that these ladies know that I'm a boss,
05:40but seeing is believing.
05:42And this is my chance to show them that,
05:44hey, Keri's working with something.
05:48Girl, it looks really good.
05:50We're going to wait for Latisha and them
05:52to get here before we get started,
05:53but they're coming.
05:55I put on something comfortable
05:57because you know I'll be moving around at the brunches.
06:04Brunch fashion is very important.
06:07The fascinators, the flowers,
06:09the Southern Belle attire, all of that.
06:12I'm dressed to impress.
06:14Y'all know I'll be extra nice,
06:15so it's important for me to show up and show out.
06:18I think my dress is cute.
06:20I think people should dress their personality,
06:23especially when you're showing up to a brunch.
06:25When it comes to Latrice Rogers,
06:27she steps each and every time.
06:28I don't care if she's taking out the garbage.
06:31So brunch is no different.
06:32I mean, I'm going to show up as my fabulous self.
06:34I am wearing 4S collections today,
06:37and I'm going to top it off,
06:39pair it with a cute hat.
06:41I am representing Jackson very well.
06:45True Southern Belle style.
06:47We are headed to brunch, y'all.
06:50Go brunch!
06:51It's back!
06:53Woo!
06:54Okay!
06:55On my way to the brunch,
07:02I do have mixed emotions
07:03because I'm not hands-on with this brunch
07:05as I normally would be.
07:07I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
07:09It's here.
07:10Hello, ladies!
07:12Hi, hi, hi!
07:13Hi, hi, hi!
07:15Good to see you again!
07:17So you guys
07:18have y'all a little spot right here.
07:22I love Keri's restaurant.
07:25I smell food.
07:26I see people enjoying themselves,
07:29having a good time.
07:30This is what I get excited about.
07:32Black women owning businesses,
07:35owning your brand.
07:37Can we have your attention, please?
07:40First, I would like to say
07:41thank you for coming out.
07:44It is an honor to be able
07:46to relaunch Women Brunch Mississippi.
07:48And for those of you who may not know
07:50what Women Brunch Mississippi is,
07:52it is a platform for female entrepreneurs
07:54throughout the state of Mississippi
07:55to network, connect,
07:57and we promote collaboration
07:59over competition.
08:00Can you say that for me?
08:02Collaboration over competition!
08:05I just want to thank you
08:05for coming here
08:06and highlighting my restaurant
08:08and choosing us
08:09to have your launch.
08:10And I really just love women.
08:13And I love to see women grow
08:15and achieve the dreams of their heart.
08:18And y'all know I get emotional
08:20every time I do this.
08:22I don't know why.
08:24Keri's so emotional right now,
08:26she didn't even realize
08:26her eyelash down here
08:28by her nose, honey.
08:29I've never had an entire lash
08:32to come off my eyelids.
08:34How can you not see it?
08:35It's right there.
08:35This eyelash is just hanging.
08:38I just want to touch it,
08:40but I'm too far away.
08:41Keri, this is really important
08:43to me, girl.
08:43Grab your lash off.
08:44Where my lash going?
08:47Girl, help me!
08:48You got to grab my lash.
08:49No, it really is!
08:54I was trying!
08:56Child, I don't give a darn.
08:58Okay, as the line goes,
09:01one monkey don't stop no show,
09:03two lashes ain't gonna stop my...
09:05You know.
09:08I know, well, Tisha,
09:10you cry a lot and so do I.
09:11That's probably why we're
09:12drawn to each other.
09:13Yes, thank you, Keri.
09:14Y'all, let's give it up again.
09:15I love it.
09:16I can't be crying, girl.
09:17You know I get emotional.
09:19Keri and our girl
09:20crushed over each other
09:21for years on social media.
09:24We've been social media besties
09:25for a long time.
09:27Don't be afraid to slide
09:28in somebody's DM.
09:29Nope.
09:32Don't be afraid to slide
09:33in someone's DMs.
09:34That may not be
09:36your ministry right now.
09:37You may need to try
09:38to rephrase it
09:39and preach something else
09:40because your husband
09:42is practicing
09:42what you preach.
09:44So, with that being said,
09:46what I've learned
09:47brunching since 2017
09:48and traveling the world,
09:50there are so many
09:51entrepreneurs
09:51and aspiring entrepreneurs
09:52and women in general
09:53who can share their story.
09:55So today,
09:55I want you guys
09:56to actually tell
09:57your story
09:58and to inspire me
09:59as well
09:59and the bells, okay?
10:03What we know
10:04is when women talk,
10:05that's when things happen.
10:06Yes.
10:07When we talk
10:07and we get together,
10:08we can become vice president.
10:10I'm a realtor.
10:12I'm in management
10:13and consulting
10:14and I'm a purpose coach
10:15for single moms
10:16because I am
10:17a single mom.
10:18And one thing
10:19about women in Mississippi,
10:21we stand for a lot.
10:23And you see that vision
10:24in all of us.
10:25Yes.
10:26Thank you to everybody
10:27for coming.
10:29This is Women Branch Mississippi
10:30and we are back
10:31and I love you all.
10:32I feel like the branch
10:34went great.
10:34Anytime there's an opportunity
10:35for me to connect
10:36with other women,
10:38it's a win for me.
10:39I think that it was
10:39a great collaboration
10:40between me and Carrie
10:42and I just hope
10:44that the trip continues
10:45to be peaceful
10:46and good energy.
10:47It's time to get out.
10:48It's so good to see you.
10:52Coming up
10:53on Bell Collective.
10:54Oh, Lord.
10:55The bread, girl.
10:56You're burning the bread.
10:57Y'all.
10:58I thought you could multitask.
11:00I can't.
11:01Y'all got Jackson,
11:02the city,
11:03but we got Jackson County
11:04for all that ratchetness.
11:05I know you ain't
11:06kind of Jackson ratchet now.
11:08Y'all know Jackson is ratchet.
11:09I'm definitely not ratchet.
11:11We're going in circles,
11:12so I really want to know
11:14like where we stand.
11:19Feeling like a million bucks
11:20for a one.
11:21You think I'm a baddie
11:22and I know it.
11:24Sprinter is here.
11:25Let's go.
11:25The Sprinter is here.
11:27Bye, Shauna.
11:27Bye, babe.
11:29Love you.
11:29I'm proud of you.
11:30Bye.
11:32What did y'all think
11:33about the brunch?
11:33Baby, it was nice.
11:35Valentisha, for real,
11:36you're extemporaneous speaking.
11:37Baby, you got that down.
11:38Yes.
11:39It comes from
11:41in the heart every time
11:41and it just flows.
11:42Carrie, you really have
11:43a really nice venue.
11:47How did y'all like it?
11:48Why you tell us
11:49don't eat that much?
11:50What you got planned, Carrie?
11:51Y'all know I'm going to give
11:52Creole all day long.
11:53I'm going to give my
11:54I love Creole.
11:55I don't eat spicy.
11:56What you have for me?
11:59When I saw Martin,
12:00I knew you liked
12:00that unseasoned chicken.
12:01Oh!
12:02Unseasoned chicken?
12:05That's the one right there.
12:08That's for Carrie.
12:13Ooh!
12:14Yes!
12:14That was good!
12:16Yes!
12:16That was really good.
12:18Home sweet home!
12:20I felt like the brunch
12:21went swimmingly.
12:23It was great.
12:25Now I've got
12:26a few surprises
12:27and I don't know
12:29what the ladies
12:29are going to think about it
12:30but I'm hoping
12:31they're going to love it.
12:32Oh, Lord!
12:33These shoes
12:33got to come out.
12:34Well,
12:35I want everybody
12:35to go and change
12:36into their PJs
12:38and we are going to have
12:40what is called
12:40a lemon squeeze.
12:42Okay!
12:43So a lemon squeeze
12:44is something
12:45we used to do
12:45in our sorority
12:46whenever we had like,
12:48you know,
12:48something that needed
12:48to come to the surface.
12:50Like, just imagine
12:50we getting together
12:51squeezing lemons together
12:52for the lemonade.
12:53They're trying to make,
12:54you know,
12:54lemonade out of a lemon,
12:55right?
12:56So change.
12:58Okay.
12:58Okay.
12:59And then we're going
12:59to squeeze the lemons.
13:00Okay.
13:01Okay.
13:01I don't understand
13:02the lemon squeeze.
13:03This is another scheme
13:05that Carrie set up
13:06to stir up some drama
13:09between me and Latrice.
13:11I just know
13:12that anytime
13:12they say
13:14let's have a conversation,
13:15we're about to
13:16squeeze some out.
13:19Hey, y'all!
13:21What's y'all got?
13:22What's y'all got married?
13:24Hey, deal.
13:25How you doing?
13:26We got gumbo
13:27and roast.
13:28Oh, good.
13:30So I need to get a pot
13:31and we need to warm this up.
13:32Oh, do y'all have a pot
13:33large enough for the gumbo?
13:35Oh, no.
13:37That is desecration.
13:38We will not.
13:40Food definitely
13:40brings people together.
13:41I know that
13:42from just being
13:42a Southern belle myself.
13:44I think that
13:45the combination of gumbo
13:46and the lemon squeeze
13:47will bring tons of harmony
13:49back to the group.
13:50At least we're hoping so.
13:51Oh, they cooking food!
13:56Hi!
13:58We got the family here.
14:00They done brought
14:00the food to us
14:01and if you bring
14:02food to me,
14:04you get an A in my book.
14:05Food is my everything.
14:06That's why I cannot
14:07get rid of these thighs.
14:09Y'all know I promised
14:09y'all some good
14:10Creole heritage
14:11so I brought my Creole crew.
14:12Yes!
14:13I'm so glad you did.
14:15All the diamonds.
14:16This is my mother-in-law.
14:17This is Matt's mom.
14:20And y'all know my mom.
14:23Nice meeting y'all
14:24and all that.
14:25Nice meeting you too.
14:27Nice meeting you.
14:27Nice meeting you, baby.
14:29Bye.
14:29Enjoy.
14:30We're going to go ahead
14:31and get started
14:32with our lemon squeeze, okay?
14:33I am ready.
14:34Can I fix y'all
14:35bowls of gumbo first?
14:36Yes.
14:36Go ahead.
14:37Okay.
14:38Minus me.
14:39I'm not eating that.
14:41We're going to get
14:42the lemon squeeze started
14:43as we are multitasking,
14:44but we're going to eat
14:45as we go.
14:46So what exactly
14:47is a lemon squeeze?
14:48It is a time
14:49when women get together
14:50and get everything
14:52off of your chest.
14:53We need to put it
14:53all out in the open
14:54so that we can maintain
14:56our sisterhood.
14:57You know what I mean?
14:58Okay.
14:58And I must always say
14:59this...
15:00I smell so...
15:01Oh, Lord.
15:02The bread, girl,
15:03you're burning the bread.
15:04I thought you could
15:05multitask.
15:06I can't.
15:08Y'all need her
15:08and put that in a bag
15:09and take it outside.
15:11Oh, my God.
15:12And one fell.
15:13Oh, my goodness.
15:15Kara, we know
15:16you can't cook.
15:16I can cook.
15:18I just don't do it often.
15:20You burn bread?
15:21How do you burn bread?
15:22She was just heating up
15:23the food,
15:24so how do you burn
15:24heated up food?
15:28I see why
15:29her family cooking food
15:30for she can't cook.
15:32Um...
15:33That's probably
15:35for me.
15:36That ain't, that ain't,
15:38that ain't, that ain't
15:38the dark chocolate is.
15:40Who's at the door?
15:42Kara, did you hire
15:43a stripper or something?
15:44I hope not
15:45because Dr. Monroe,
15:47she can't control herself
15:49around strippers.
15:50Baby,
15:51you just have it.
15:52Oh!
15:53You remember
15:54what happened last time,
15:55so I hope you
15:56know what you're doing.
15:58Oh, that might be her food.
15:59That's my pizza.
16:00That's my food.
16:01Oh, Kara, grab the napkins.
16:05You want a piece?
16:06I do.
16:06Huh.
16:07Okay, anybody else
16:08want a piece?
16:09Okay, thank you.
16:11I have never,
16:12I would never
16:13order food
16:15when going
16:15to a person's house
16:17as a guest.
16:18I don't know,
16:19that's just a little rude
16:20to order pizza.
16:21I think I would've
16:22went to bed hungry.
16:23This is typical, Marie.
16:25Right now,
16:25this piece is the best
16:26piece I've had
16:27because I'm starving.
16:28Now that we got
16:30the food settled,
16:31let's get back
16:32to the lemon squeeze.
16:33So I know
16:34we did the brunch today
16:35and I enjoyed it.
16:36I know you guys enjoyed it.
16:37Mm-hmm.
16:38Now, I can say, though,
16:41I do think,
16:42you know,
16:42Jackson shows up
16:43and they show out, baby.
16:44Mm-hmm.
16:45Oh, of course.
16:46Every time.
16:47But I didn't notice
16:48the coast is like
16:49more dressed down.
16:50Oh, okay.
16:51Coastal casual.
16:52So coastal casual.
16:53Yeah, I got Jackson
16:55in the city,
16:55but we got Jackson County
16:56for all that wretchedness.
16:57So if that's what you mean,
16:59I'm like, you got a wretchedness.
17:00You see you?
17:01I know you ain't
17:02kind of jacked and wretched now.
17:10Coming up
17:11on Bell Collective.
17:13When I confide in somebody,
17:14it's wholeheartedly
17:15and once they cross me,
17:16bitch is up.
17:17I always get the smoke.
17:19Y'all always coming for me.
17:20Latrice, you bring the smoke.
17:22No more bulls.
17:22Y'all got Jackson
17:26in the city,
17:27but we got Jackson County
17:28for all that wretchedness.
17:29So if that's what you mean,
17:30I'm like, you got a wretchedness.
17:31I'm like, you got a wretchedness.
17:32I know you ain't calling
17:33Jackson wretched now.
17:35Well, what, what, what, what, what, what,
17:37what I would say.
17:38What, what, what, what, what,
17:38what I would say.
17:39Are you calling Jackson wretched?
17:40Yes.
17:42Period.
17:43Jackson is definitely wretched
17:44and I stand on that.
17:46It can also be
17:47sophisticated ratchet as well,
17:48but for the most part,
17:50ratchet.
17:51And the girls are acting all
17:53clutching their pearls,
17:55but they know good and darn well
17:56that Jackson is wretched too.
17:58Yeah.
17:59Listen.
18:00I'm from Jackson.
18:01She's from Jackson.
18:02I have love to wretched.
18:03She's from Jackson.
18:04Nothing wretched about me.
18:05Not y'all.
18:07But y'all know Jackson is wretched.
18:09Well, look, we ain't look wretched today
18:10at that front.
18:11Y'all ain't right, baby.
18:12Okay.
18:12We shut it down.
18:13I'm definitely not wretched.
18:15So it opened up saying
18:17that people on Gulf Coast
18:20were dressed down.
18:22Fair.
18:22So Keri got offended.
18:24Uh-uh, I wasn't offended.
18:24Well, why did you say,
18:25Keri, let me help you?
18:27Yes.
18:29I've had enough
18:30of the deflection
18:31and the projection.
18:32I'm gonna need y'all
18:33get down to the real nitty-gritty
18:35of what's going on
18:36in this group.
18:37But moving along,
18:38I will ask y'all this.
18:40The elephant in the room,
18:41Latrice and Leticia,
18:42are you harboring anything
18:44because now is the time
18:45to get it off your chest.
18:47I don't want y'all
18:48to leave the Gulf Coast
18:50and go back
18:51into the beautiful
18:52City of Jackson.
18:52Squeeze the lemon dry.
18:54With anything on your chest.
18:55So what y'all need to squeeze
18:57and get out
18:57because we leaving it here.
18:58Okay.
18:58We done squeezed.
18:59We need to squeeze some more
19:01because we done squeezed out.
19:02I done squeezed our stuff.
19:04This season in my life,
19:06I'm gonna move in accordingly.
19:07When people show me
19:07who they are,
19:08whether it's you,
19:08Teresa, whoever,
19:09when I confide in somebody,
19:10it's wholeheartedly
19:11and once they cross me,
19:13bitch, it's up.
19:14If you do that
19:15or you mess with my marriage
19:16or anything,
19:16that's what I'm saying.
19:17I don't want to be surrounded
19:18about nobody.
19:19I have to question.
19:20And it's okay.
19:21It's okay for people
19:21not to get along.
19:22It's okay for people
19:23not to like people.
19:24But it's not okay
19:25for people to weaponize
19:26vulnerability.
19:30Latrice definitely violated
19:31my trust.
19:33And trust in a friendship
19:34is top priority.
19:37If you're friends
19:38with someone,
19:38that means that you
19:39have to be able
19:40to trust them
19:41and you believe
19:42that they're gonna be
19:43right there
19:43to have your back
19:44even if you're
19:45not in the room.
19:46I'm telling you,
19:47your vulnerability
19:48is what makes you you.
19:50That's what I have
19:51grown to love about you.
19:52And I think it's beautiful
19:53that you do share.
19:54Thank you, Keri.
19:55You are always fun to me.
19:57And I feel like
19:57it's a gift and a curse
19:58putting your business out there.
20:00You know,
20:00just being authentic
20:01in certain spaces.
20:02Well, I vibe
20:03to not get caught up
20:04in no damn boo-
20:04no more bulls***.
20:06This how I am.
20:07Pretend I'm Latrice.
20:08You my girl
20:09and she my girl.
20:10Something going on
20:11with your husband,
20:12with her, right?
20:13I ain't gonna say
20:13nothing to you
20:14and I ain't gonna say
20:15nothing to her.
20:15I'm gonna step to his ass
20:17and I'm gonna say,
20:17look, bruh,
20:18I know what you're doing.
20:20I'm gonna check his ass
20:21and let him know
20:22if you don't stop,
20:22I'm telling both of them.
20:23Well, everybody
20:24held a situation different.
20:25You just said that.
20:26That's how I'm handling it.
20:28Because I ain't gonna be
20:29in the middle of no s***.
20:31Latrice,
20:31why you so quiet?
20:33I'm listening to y'all.
20:34Baby, I ain't listening to you.
20:36Riri,
20:37I knew it was a matter of time
20:38before you showed
20:39your true colors again.
20:40I'm tired of being
20:41a scapegoat for this group
20:42and especially for Glenn
20:44and Latrice's marital problems.
20:46Samma knew the same
20:46information I knew, child.
20:48Latrice,
20:48this is something
20:49she not saying.
20:50With you,
20:50you see me
20:51and then you see
20:52what he married to.
20:53Girl.
20:54I'm like,
20:55girl.
20:56You see?
20:56But I'm not
20:59gonna throw her
20:59under the bus.
21:00Marie, you ask
21:01why I'm so quiet.
21:02It's because
21:03each and every time,
21:04I don't care what it is.
21:05The sky could be
21:05blue, yellow, pink.
21:07I always get the smoke.
21:08Y'all always coming
21:09for me.
21:10Latrice, you bring
21:11the smoke.
21:11No more bull s***.
21:12If we're gonna be
21:13a collective,
21:14let's be a collective.
21:15If it ain't no trust,
21:16I don't want to be
21:17around nobody
21:17that I don't trust.
21:18Where is the sisterhood?
21:20Where is the womanhood?
21:22Marie,
21:22where are you doing
21:23all this dramatic s***?
21:24s*** the life out.
21:25Baby,
21:25I don't have no more life.
21:26You wanted the
21:27lemon squeeze.
21:28I mean,
21:29I wanted to squeeze it.
21:31Why we keep
21:31doing this, Latrice?
21:33You're the same s***.
21:34Because it comes
21:35right back to this.
21:36And that's not
21:36where I'm set up
21:37in my life right now.
21:38Because I ain't squeezing
21:39no s*** about Mandon
21:40no more.
21:40Mandon is squeezed out.
21:41I planned this lemon squeeze
21:43so everybody could
21:43work out their differences.
21:45But things are going
21:46downhill real fast.
21:48I have one more
21:50surprise up my sleeve
21:51to bring the group
21:51back together.
21:53We're about to take it
21:53way back.
21:55Is that the door?
21:56Who am?
21:57Well,
21:58you know,
21:58I love a good trick
21:59up my sleeve.
22:01If a man is
22:02on the other side
22:02of this door,
22:03I am calling me an Uber
22:05and I'm getting
22:06to the closest hotel.
22:12Well, hello.
22:14Hi.
22:14Come on in, Ms. LaCara.
22:24Yes.
22:25Hello, ladies.
22:27Hi.
22:28Oh, no.
22:29You know, we've had
22:30some issues within the group
22:31and so my assistant
22:34booked Ms. LaCara
22:35and she is a minister medium.
22:38Okay.
22:39So,
22:39healing and peace
22:42is in the utmost importance
22:44to me in relationships.
22:46I don't play that
22:48keeping things all bottled up.
22:50I think it's a recipe
22:51for disaster.
22:52So, I want to be
22:53that person
22:55that can help
22:55to find healing
22:57and peace with this group
22:58and I'm willing
22:59to go the extra mile
23:00to help to bring
23:01these ladies
23:01on a spiritual journey
23:02of healing.
23:03So, formerly
23:04I'm Dr. LaCara Foster.
23:06Okay.
23:06Yes, and I am
23:07a minister and a medium.
23:09The mediumship part
23:10allows me to be able
23:11to connect to loved ones
23:12who have passed, right,
23:13to see if they have
23:14any messages
23:14that want to come through
23:15or they want to share
23:16of healing, closure,
23:18or peace
23:18and this gift just allows me
23:20to be able to tap
23:21into that energy
23:21and we're just
23:23going to get into it.
23:24Okay.
23:24I'm a little nervous
23:26about it.
23:27I've never interacted
23:28with a medium before.
23:30I don't need
23:30to dibble and dabble it.
23:31I believe there are
23:33some, you know,
23:34some legit psychics
23:37and mediums
23:37but that's not something
23:39that I take lightly
23:40or play with.
23:42It's a little scary
23:43but I'm human
23:44and I can't help
23:46but to really want
23:47to know
23:48if this person
23:49has a gift
23:50that can tell me
23:51something that
23:51I'm curious about.
23:53I guess we'll see.
23:54Girl, I,
23:55I don't do this.
23:57Like, I believe
23:58in a higher power
23:59and this is just not it.
24:00So, like,
24:01I have this huge
24:03phobia about psychics
24:05because as a Baptist,
24:06like, we grew up
24:07and psychics
24:08are not with God
24:09so I'm always
24:11taught against it
24:12and it may be
24:12a misconception.
24:13I think it's truly
24:14a misconception
24:15and I even say
24:16Jesus was a medium,
24:18right?
24:19Because Jesus
24:20was on the Mount
24:21of Transfiguration
24:21communicating with
24:23Moses who had
24:24already passed.
24:25I think I'm good
24:27with just, you know,
24:28praying about things.
24:30So I'll tell you guys
24:31how it works with me
24:32and we'll see
24:33what comes up.
24:34I don't have any control
24:35over who comes through
24:36but chances are
24:37if it's someone
24:37that wants to communicate
24:38with you
24:38or has a message for you
24:39that is usually
24:40who does come through.
24:42Did someone here
24:42lose a father?
24:43A father figure?
24:45You did and you did.
24:46Did somebody's father,
24:48I feel like they were sick
24:49and then they passed suddenly
24:50or they passed suddenly.
24:52That's you.
24:53Okay.
24:53Now he shows me like
24:54there's a sudden passing
24:55but makes me feel like
24:56some people did not
24:57get the chance to say goodbye.
24:58Does that make sense for you?
24:59Yeah.
24:59Are you one of the people
25:00that, but he's also
25:01making me feel like
25:02he owes you an apology
25:04and maybe he owes
25:05some other people
25:05an apology.
25:06Does that make sense for you?
25:07Would this be your mother
25:08that he owes an apology to?
25:10Yes.
25:11Because he's bringing
25:12and he's showing me
25:12another, do you look
25:13like your mom?
25:14I do.
25:15Gotcha.
25:15Because he's like
25:15copy paste right
25:17on the face here
25:18and so he's showing me her
25:19but he's like
25:20they look just alike.
25:22Now this is interesting here.
25:24Did he pass at home?
25:25He did.
25:26I don't know.
25:27Maybe the sudden
25:28that you keep talking about
25:30is probably my son
25:31because he was suddenly
25:32murdered.
25:33Oh wow.
25:34Wow.
25:35Wow.
25:35And can I just
25:36ask a question?
25:37Yeah.
25:38Production,
25:39did y'all have,
25:40did y'all have her
25:41write these notes
25:42or is this really
25:43coming from you?
25:44Oh no,
25:44I told them
25:45I've never seen your show.
25:46I've never spoke to this.
25:47Yeah,
25:48I've never seen the show.
25:49I told them
25:50I didn't want to know
25:51who you all were.
25:52I didn't want to know
25:53anything about you all
25:54because I believe
25:56in my work.
25:57For me to be talking
25:58to the other side,
26:01that's a first for me.
26:05That's a very fair question.
26:08But this is the work
26:09that I do
26:10every single day.
26:12What's your son's name
26:13if I may ask?
26:14Quincy Johnson.
26:17Was there not justice
26:19for him yet?
26:20It hasn't been justice.
26:21Yeah, he shows me that,
26:23but he says
26:23that there will be.
26:26You kept something of his.
26:28This makes me feel like
26:29some type of clothing
26:30or some type of...
26:31I have the clothes
26:32that he was murdered in.
26:34Wow.
26:34I have it at home.
26:35Yeah.
26:36I couldn't get rid of it.
26:37No, and that's what
26:37he shows me,
26:38that you still have it.
26:39You don't have to get rid of it.
26:41He does not want you
26:43to grieve yourself to death.
26:44I can't help it.
26:46But this is why
26:47he's saying it.
26:48It's so hard.
26:50Yeah.
26:51He's like,
26:52you have to tell her this.
26:53She has to know
26:54I'm with her
26:55because she's going
26:55to grieve herself to death.
26:57That's what I've been doing.
26:58Mm-hmm.
26:59He doesn't want that for you.
27:01This is why I'm here.
27:03To hopefully bring
27:05some level of healing
27:06and closure.
27:08So whatever that looks like
27:09for you,
27:10you got to do it.
27:11You can't go
27:12where he is right now.
27:13You still have work
27:14to do while you're here.
27:16Hearing the medium
27:18tell me that
27:19my son do not
27:20want me grieving
27:21and he will get justice,
27:23it makes me feel
27:24really good.
27:25It gives me hope
27:27because I have been,
27:28like, grieving
27:30myself to death.
27:31Now let's see
27:32if we can connect
27:32with your dad as well.
27:36No, ma'am.
27:36Not today.
27:38No, thank you.
27:43Coming up
27:44on Bell Collective.
27:45Just don't bring
27:46people around me
27:47because everybody
27:47you bring around,
27:48they come for me.
27:49What you were saying,
27:50basically,
27:51Tisha not over it.
27:52She's still mad.
27:53She still got animosity.
27:54My concern is
27:55where I am
27:56in this season of my life,
27:57who for me
27:57and who not.
27:59I trusted you.
28:04Now let's see
28:05if we can connect
28:06with your dad as well.
28:08We don't have to.
28:09She said we don't have to.
28:10Okay.
28:11I promise you, we don't.
28:13Okay.
28:13I'm a little on edge
28:14when it comes to the medium.
28:17Her talking to Selena
28:19has me contemplating,
28:21but I don't want to go
28:21against my morals and values.
28:24Was there anybody else
28:25that wanted, like,
28:26had a question
28:27or wanted to tap into
28:28anything?
28:29I haven't gone.
28:30No, passed tragically.
28:32From an accident?
28:34You could say
28:34it was an accident.
28:35Okay.
28:36Let's try to tap
28:37into that energy here.
28:39Hmm.
28:40I'm seeing, like,
28:41the question marks, right,
28:43around the passing.
28:44I don't know.
28:45There's just,
28:45it just makes me feel
28:46like there's a lot of blame
28:47going around.
28:48What is that
28:49that I'm feeling?
28:50I don't know.
28:50Maybe sometimes
28:51when people
28:51are going through something
28:53and you see them
28:54and you want to help them,
28:55but you don't know how.
28:57Yeah.
28:58Yeah.
28:59And the blame might be, like,
29:00could we have stepped in?
29:02Mm-hmm.
29:02Was this, like,
29:03the overdose or suicide
29:04with your aunt?
29:10It was suicide.
29:11There's a lot of trauma
29:12that your aunt is showing me.
29:13Does that make sense?
29:15You know how, like,
29:15in families,
29:16we sweep a lot of stuff
29:17under the rug?
29:17My cousin and I
29:24talk all the time
29:26and we lament
29:27the fact that our family
29:28sweeps things under the rug
29:29and we use that term
29:31all the time.
29:32It hit way too close to home.
29:34It did something to me.
29:36I was not expecting that.
29:37I'm not gonna lie.
29:38I was wondering
29:38if you were legit.
29:39I mean, I was sitting here like,
29:41I think I want to do my dad.
29:42She said,
29:43I'm ready now.
29:44Why did you say
29:45you're ready now?
29:46Carrie motivated me.
29:49Carrie got so emotional
29:50when it came to the media
29:52connecting with her family
29:53and I felt like
29:56she really got something
29:57out of it.
29:58Maybe it was closure.
29:59It was something
30:00that she needed
30:01and maybe that's something
30:02that I need.
30:04We'll try to tap in
30:05with your dad?
30:06This is interesting.
30:07Was there a very complicated
30:08situation with your mom?
30:11Yeah.
30:12But he also shows me
30:13he walks away.
30:14Feels like he doesn't have
30:15a right to say this,
30:16but he's proud of you,
30:17right?
30:18But doesn't feel like
30:19he contributed
30:19to whatever your success is.
30:21Does that make sense?
30:24He's making an apology
30:25and saying like,
30:26I failed you all.
30:27Mm-hmm.
30:31At his funeral,
30:32I didn't even cry
30:34because I felt
30:36so much anger
30:38towards my father.
30:40He wasn't ever there.
30:42Like, I didn't know
30:43whether he was proud of me.
30:44I didn't know
30:44whether he was happy for me.
30:46So actually hearing her
30:48say that my father
30:49apologized,
30:51like, that means a lot.
30:53Hmm.
30:54Who's the woman
30:55on the other side for you?
30:56My grandmother.
30:57Grandmother?
30:58Were you very close to her?
30:59Yes.
30:59She just adores you.
31:01She's whispering in my ear
31:02that you're her favorite,
31:03but it's like she can't
31:04say it out loud.
31:05Does that make sense?
31:05Mm-hmm.
31:06But she's like,
31:06you knew that
31:07and other people
31:08know it too,
31:09but it's like,
31:10can't say it out loud.
31:10Yeah, we literally
31:11always joke about that,
31:12like me being a favorite.
31:13Yeah.
31:14And she's acknowledging
31:15that you are indeed
31:16the favorite.
31:20Even though me and Latrice
31:22are not in a great place
31:23at the moment,
31:24I still love her.
31:26I spoke to her
31:27when she was helping
31:28plan her grandmother's funeral.
31:29So of course
31:30I have empathy for her.
31:32How you feeling?
31:33I feel good.
31:34Okay.
31:34Wasn't so scary, huh?
31:35Um, yes.
31:36Okay.
31:37Well, that is what I have.
31:39Thank y'all for having me.
31:41So I'll make sure
31:41you all get my information
31:43for sure.
31:45Thank you so much.
31:45You're so welcome.
31:47It's a pleasure
31:48to meet you guys.
31:49I'm going to walk you out.
31:50Yes.
31:51Y'all have an amazing night.
31:52You too.
31:53Now that it's over,
31:54I am really glad
31:56that I planned
31:57the minister medium
31:58to come in
31:58and speak with all of us.
31:59I feel that the ladies
32:00who got something from it
32:03really did feel deeply
32:05about what she shared with us.
32:08And even for the ones
32:09who decided not to partake,
32:10I respect that too.
32:11Even for me,
32:12I had no choice
32:13but to receive it
32:14because what she said to me
32:15was so real
32:17and it hit so close to home.
32:19I really feel good
32:19about how it went.
32:21Latrice, what you think?
32:22Because I know you said,
32:23you know,
32:23you don't really believe in that.
32:25A lot of stuff
32:26that she did say
32:26was very factual.
32:27I think it's stuff
32:28that we kind of already know
32:30but hearing it
32:31from somebody else
32:32that don't know you,
32:34you know,
32:34it kind of hits different.
32:36Yeah.
32:37I'm still trying
32:38to process everything
32:39but I'm glad
32:40you invited her, Carrie.
32:43When she said
32:44that my son will get justice,
32:46that was everything.
32:47That part.
32:47Everything.
32:48Yes.
32:49Yes.
32:50Coming on this trip,
32:51I'm just thinking
32:52we're just going to have fun,
32:53go to the brunch
32:55and just chill
32:56but talking to this medium
32:59and being able
33:00to talk to my son
33:02and my father,
33:04it just makes me
33:05feel a lot better.
33:06Carrie really did
33:07her big one
33:07with this one.
33:08I don't know about you,
33:10me personally,
33:10I just think
33:11I didn't connect with her.
33:13That was my,
33:13and that just could have been
33:14our energy,
33:15frequencies,
33:16whatever,
33:17I just...
33:18It's the same.
33:19You know what I'm saying?
33:19It might be...
33:20I've been wearing
33:21the hell out of my ancestors
33:22so they probably like
33:23skip her.
33:25So what are we going to do
33:26or are we going
33:27to pack up to you?
33:27I'm going to go there.
33:29Yes.
33:29Yeah, let's pack.
33:30I can start packing too.
33:32Before we go,
33:33Tisha, let me talk to you.
33:35Okay.
33:35Outside.
33:36Oh, outside?
33:37Well, give me this blanket.
33:38Speaking with the medium,
33:39she brought a lot of things
33:40to perspective,
33:41especially holding things in
33:43and not expressing
33:44how you feel to people.
33:46So with that,
33:48I want to pull Tisha
33:48to the side
33:49and express to her
33:50exactly how I feel.
33:52Yes, okay.
33:53Well, y'all better get
33:54some of this bread pudding
33:54before y'all go away
33:55because it was...
33:56No, she going to force
33:57that bread pudding down
33:58y'all's throat.
33:59Golly.
34:00You're going to take me later.
34:02Take me later.
34:03I love you.
34:04That was a lot.
34:06Baby.
34:07I know.
34:08After the minister medium leaves,
34:11Latrice asked me
34:11to join her outside.
34:13Oh, my God.
34:13This is so nice.
34:15I knew it was going to happen,
34:16just didn't know when.
34:18I wanted to talk to you
34:19one-on-one because,
34:20you know,
34:20we've been around the collective
34:21like the entire trip.
34:22And we just never had
34:23a chance to just,
34:25you know.
34:25Talk one-on-one.
34:27Basically.
34:27Yeah.
34:28Because I know
34:28your biggest thing is,
34:29you know,
34:30plenty of your face
34:31and I could have told you,
34:32right?
34:32Mm-hmm.
34:32But in the...
34:33Especially you
34:34because we talk every day
34:36about everything else.
34:38We do, Tisha.
34:39We do.
34:40With moving forward,
34:41like,
34:41I can't go back
34:43and correct
34:44what's already to happen.
34:46Yeah.
34:47And I just feel like,
34:48you know,
34:48we're going in circles
34:49and, you know,
34:50I'm constantly saying,
34:51okay, Tisha,
34:52I didn't know about this
34:53or, you know,
34:54that was not my intention.
34:55Like, you know,
34:56you know I wouldn't do
34:56anything to harm you.
34:57But I just feel like
34:58by me saying that
35:00and even you saying
35:00the stuff that you're saying,
35:02like, it's kind of like,
35:02okay, you know,
35:03still trees.
35:04So I really want to know,
35:06like, where we stand.
35:07And I just feel like
35:16by me saying that
35:17and even you saying
35:18the stuff that you're saying,
35:19like, it's kind of like,
35:20okay, you know,
35:20still trees.
35:22So I really want to know,
35:23like, where we stand.
35:24And it's no, like,
35:26no piggybacking.
35:27Yeah.
35:27No beating around the bushes.
35:29Just like, bitch, I...
35:29Let you have a conversation.
35:30Yeah.
35:31It's like, bitch,
35:31I with you or bitch,
35:33I don't.
35:33Yeah.
35:34I want to clear the air
35:35with Leticia
35:36because I want her
35:37to completely understand
35:38that I had nothing
35:41to do with this.
35:42I'm not malicious.
35:43I meant her no harm.
35:45From day one,
35:45it's been solid.
35:46Like, anything,
35:47I just straight shut it down
35:48off the rip.
35:49You know what I mean?
35:50And for me,
35:51I'm not gonna lie,
35:52it started bringing back,
35:53like, well, dang,
35:54everybody that you befriend
35:56or, you know,
35:58that you bring around
35:59a group,
35:59they come for me.
36:01Respectfully,
36:01in front of God
36:02and everybody,
36:03Leticia Pearson.
36:04It's so full of
36:05you so full of
36:07your husband.
36:08He a liar.
36:12What?
36:15How do you say that?
36:16Why do you say that?
36:17Regardless,
36:18if Antoinette come around,
36:19Mandy come around,
36:21you feel like
36:21I got them
36:22in my space
36:24to come at you.
36:25That's how I felt.
36:26And then it was constant,
36:27like, you know,
36:28just coming for me,
36:29coming for me.
36:30That was so hurtful.
36:32It was very hurtful.
36:33It was humiliating.
36:35So I just felt like
36:36in the house,
36:37how we be on the phone
36:38and everything,
36:39like, boo,
36:39this is what we gonna do.
36:40This is how we roll.
36:41You got my back.
36:41And in that moment,
36:42it was like,
36:43you said nothing.
36:45Mm-hmm.
36:45You know what I'm saying?
36:46And I'm not gonna lie,
36:48I'm not gonna cry,
36:49but that did,
36:50like,
36:51where my girl at?
36:52It just really,
36:53really hurt me
36:54that you know
36:55what I've gone through
36:56in my marriage
36:57and for you
36:58to allow someone
36:59to weaponize that
37:00and make a mockery
37:01out of that
37:02and embarrass me
37:03in your home
37:03and you say nothing?
37:06That was just wrong
37:07and it was very hurtful.
37:08Like,
37:08if I had a bird's eye view
37:09now,
37:10like,
37:11I would go back
37:11and do so many
37:12different things,
37:13but at that moment,
37:14at that present moment,
37:15like,
37:15it was just like,
37:16it was so many things
37:17happening so fast
37:19and I wasn't thinking,
37:20like,
37:20drinking and not thinking.
37:22So,
37:22it was just one
37:23of those moments,
37:24like,
37:25you know,
37:26I don't know.
37:28Like,
37:28I didn't know
37:29what the f***
37:29was going on.
37:30My concern is
37:31where I am
37:32in this season of my life,
37:33who for me
37:33and who not,
37:35you know?
37:35And if I'm not for you
37:37and you're not for me,
37:38we have to be in the space
37:39to say,
37:39baby,
37:40let's keep it moving,
37:41ain't no love at all.
37:41That's the point
37:42of this whole conversation
37:43because,
37:44like I said,
37:44I feel like we was
37:45going in circles
37:46and you was saying,
37:47like,
37:47okay,
37:48Trice,
37:48you know,
37:48we're good,
37:49we're good,
37:49or whatever,
37:50but I was feeling like,
37:52you know,
37:53what you were saying
37:53basically was some BS.
37:55I was like,
37:56Tisha not over it.
37:56Like,
37:57she still got,
37:58you know,
37:58she's still mad,
37:59she still got animosity,
38:00so.
38:00Not animosity,
38:01just the,
38:02I am,
38:03I am still,
38:04like,
38:04hurt about
38:05and I trusted you.
38:07I now more so
38:09understand where
38:10she's coming from
38:11and it's still
38:12going to take a lot
38:12for us to
38:13get back
38:14to where we once were
38:16if we ever get back.
38:19With the husband's
38:20not talking
38:20is definitely
38:21a lot pending.
38:22I don't know
38:22how Glendale feels
38:23towards my husband.
38:25We'll just take
38:26this entire situation
38:27back to Jackson.
38:28The Pearsons
38:29and the Rodgers
38:29definitely need work.
38:31I don't want
38:31to have any doubts,
38:32just like you don't
38:33want to have any doubts.
38:34Everybody that's around me,
38:35especially in this season
38:36of my life,
38:36I want it to be solid,
38:38I want it to be real,
38:38I want it to be genuine,
38:40I want us to have,
38:41like,
38:41a real,
38:42super friendship
38:42because I do have
38:43love for you.
38:44And whatever consequences
38:45happen,
38:46that's what happens for me.
38:47But I'm standing
38:48ten toes behind people
38:50that I genuinely care about
38:51and all I ask for
38:52is a sign.
38:53Even though Latrice
38:54and I have talked,
38:56it's going to take
38:56some time.
38:57That was a hard hit.
38:59I don't hold grudges,
39:01but I don't think
39:01that I can be
39:02100% back
39:03in the friendship
39:04like before.
39:06I can't trust her.
39:08I just can't trust her.
39:09Come on, ladies!
39:11Let's go!
39:12Overall,
39:13despite everything
39:14that happened
39:15with me and Latisha,
39:16the girls' trip
39:17went great.
39:18I love all the energy
39:20that Carrie put
39:21into the girls' trip,
39:23but you're going to have
39:24to quit talking
39:25about Jackson.
39:26Carrie did good.
39:27She want to step
39:28her A game up
39:28with the food,
39:29though,
39:29for like, for real.
39:30She was playing
39:31with me with that food.
39:33I'm headed out, honey.
39:35Carrie definitely fits
39:37in with this group
39:38of ladies,
39:38and the trip proves it.
39:40I feel like
39:42a more established
39:43part of the group
39:44after experiencing
39:45this group trip
39:46with them.
39:47It gave us
39:48plenty of time
39:48to bond
39:49and to get down
39:51to what makes
39:52each other tick.
39:53But let me be honest,
39:54baby, I walked in
39:55as a bell,
39:55and I'm going to walk
39:56out as one,
39:57so it didn't really
39:58take much.
39:59Okay.
40:00Come on.
40:01I got what I needed
40:02out of the trip.
40:03I mean, I had my brunch.
40:04I was able to get away
40:06from the house
40:07for a little while.
40:08I had a conversation
40:09with Latrice
40:10to get a little clarity.
40:12I think that this trip
40:13allowed us
40:15to really think
40:17about what we mean
40:19to each other,
40:19and is this worth
40:21fighting for?
40:22Tamara!
40:23Yes!
40:24Come on!
40:25Okay!
40:28Next on Bell Collecting.
40:30Honey, I'm home.
40:33Home.
40:33This ain't home.
40:34I know when I was
40:35on a trip,
40:35my husband did tell me
40:37he was staying home,
40:38but I honestly think
40:39he stayed at the condo,
40:40and that is not okay.
40:42This move
40:43out of your shoes,
40:45and we're going
40:46to put my stuff in.
40:47I'm coming to you,
40:48man, the man that
40:48you should have
40:50my back more than that.
40:51I ain't going to lie.
40:52No, my house is out of
40:53that shit down
40:53from the jump.
40:55I feel like y'all
40:56playing in my face.
40:57Coming back here
40:58to Prentice,
40:59where my son was murdered,
41:01is a big step for me.
41:02We love you, baby.
41:03Yes, we do.
41:05I love you.
41:06I don't know
41:06what I'm doing
41:07or where I'm going.
41:08I'm just asking
41:08what's wrong
41:09with people showing up
41:09for me like I show up
41:10for everybody else.
41:11You know what, Tisha?
41:12Forget it.
41:13We ain't got to do that.
41:13So you can't take
41:14responsibility.
41:15I'm not taking responsibility.
41:17Oh, really?
41:18Don't worry about it.
41:18it.
41:19Lord have mercy.
41:21it.
41:21I'm done.
41:22Okay.
41:22Man, bro,
41:23turn that up, bro.
41:24I love you.
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