00:00I let my fiance sleep with other men.
00:02People judge us because we can get intimate with other people,
00:05but only if it's for work.
00:07Pull out the negative comment.
00:09The relationship isn't real.
00:10The relationship is based off money.
00:12I hope they all catch STDs.
00:14My brother Colin is coming over today to talk about Jacobi
00:17and the fact that we make spicy content.
00:19He is a religious man, so he does have a lot of opinions about it.
00:22It was very, very shocking.
00:25How do you guys deal with jealousy, like?
00:28So, yes.
00:30I'm Jacobi, and this is my partner Alex.
00:32And we can get intimate with other people,
00:34but only if it's for work.
00:36I am one of the biggest black, gay, spicy content creators in the world.
00:41I mean, you can check the numbers.
00:43We work at about three to four times a week.
00:45We have to keep our bodies right.
00:47For the spicy content.
00:49For the spicy content.
00:50So we met.
00:52I was getting ready to create some spicy content.
00:55I had a co-star.
00:56Get that burn.
00:57They canceled.
00:57So then I called Alex and he came through.
01:01Yes, I was a replacement, y'all.
01:05We realized we were attracted to each other at first sight.
01:08There was just something about this one right here.
01:10I was like, you know what?
01:12We can do some stuff off camera.
01:15I wouldn't say that there's a lot of pressure to be muscular when you're making gay content, but I will
01:20say that the preference of most people is to see muscular people.
01:23So we came to the agreement that we would continue to work with other people even though we were together
01:29because at the end of the day, this is our job.
01:31Our situation is monotonous.
01:33So yeah, I can have multiple sexual partners.
01:36But if I don't have that emotional connection, it's just not going to hit the same.
01:41And for me, that's the difference between a work partner and a life partner.
01:50Today we're going to read some crazy comments we get online.
01:52They come by the thousands.
01:55Pull out the negative comments.
01:57Stop calling spicy content content.
02:01Some of it is just straight up.
02:03Can we say that word?
02:06Especially being paid.
02:07I hope they all catch STDs.
02:09There's not going to be any men left for us.
02:12And that was from a woman.
02:13Us hearing over and over and over again how our relationship doesn't match up with the traditional monogamous relationship is
02:20definitely our biggest critique.
02:22How could y'all truly love each other?
02:23There's no way.
02:24The relationship isn't real.
02:26The relationship is based off money.
02:27It's not something that I'm proud of.
02:29But if you have the audacity to take your free time out of your day to come and judge me,
02:34I'm going to go to your page and judge you.
02:36And then I block.
02:37And my block list is definitely in the tens of thousands.
02:39That block button.
02:40It's going to help you out.
02:41It works.
02:43We have to check with each other before we decide who to film with.
02:46Typically, we just search the social medias.
02:49Once we find the people on those platforms, we show each other and we evaluate what we think would be
02:54best for our business.
02:56What do you think about this guy right here?
02:58Hmm.
03:00It's big, right?
03:01It is.
03:02So I will message him right now.
03:05Give me something they want.
03:06All right.
03:06Looking great, looking great.
03:08Oh, they're going to love this.
03:09Mm-hmm.
03:09The way that we deal with jealousy is addressing it in the moment.
03:13You got to make sure that you just communicate with your partner.
03:15Right there.
03:16Want me to get him a little squat?
03:17Yeah.
03:18So he tells me like, hey, I don't like this.
03:20I'm not going to immediately get defensive.
03:22I'm going to ask him why.
03:23I'm going to say, how can we assess the situation?
03:26But I haven't been feeling jealousy in a while.
03:29Hmm.
03:30Mm-hmm.
03:32You got any people you like?
03:33There's a couple people.
03:35Ooh.
03:36Dump truck.
03:37Ooh.
03:39There you go.
03:39I like seeing my man or my partner being pleasured.
03:45You know what I'm saying?
03:45It doesn't necessarily have to be me doing it.
03:48Like, as long as we're all enjoying the moment.
03:52One of the biggest misconceptions about spicy content creators is that, number one, we're all diseased.
03:57Well, bigger misconceptions about spicy content creators is that they can't be in relationships or they can't find love.
04:02Seventy percent of creators, even though they present to you as single, they're in relationships.
04:08We've been in situations where I'm working with someone and their girlfriend is recording the film.
04:14Ooh.
04:16There you go.
04:19My friends and family reacted to a relationship.
04:21They weren't surprised.
04:23Now, I will say, what did surprise them was that I did start doing spicy content.
04:29And they were just like, wow, you are doing it.
04:30And you're really doing it.
04:33So today, my brother Colin is coming over to discuss how he feels about me coming out and about me
04:39being a spicy content creator.
04:40So he is a religious man, so he does have a lot of opinions about it.
04:44So when it came out that I was gay, it was a big thing.
04:48Like for him, he couldn't understand.
04:50He kind of like ran away from the house for a little bit because he couldn't really deal with it.
04:58Brother man, how you doing?
04:59What's going, brother?
05:01How you doing?
05:02I'm great, man.
05:03Good to see you.
05:04Same.
05:04Step on in to my humble abode.
05:09So I wanted to get into the nitty gritty of why we're here.
05:13I know that I didn't give you the space to express how you felt.
05:17I found out that you were gay before you even told us.
05:26A senior came up to me.
05:28She's like, oh my gosh, have you heard?
05:30Have I heard what?
05:31Like, you don't know?
05:32Like, your brother's gay?
05:34Huh?
05:35And then a couple days later, you brought us all together.
05:38You told us.
05:38And that was probably the most respectable way to do it, honestly.
05:42There was no ounce of judgment in me at that moment.
05:47Now, to find out that you guys were, you know, making this spicy content.
05:52It was very, very shocking to me.
05:56We knew he was going to be a star, but God damn.
06:00The overwhelming for sure.
06:02No, overwhelming for sure.
06:03It took a lot.
06:04It took a lot.
06:04One big concern was just who Jacoby was.
06:09And then that's when he had brought Jacoby around.
06:12And it was just more so like, oh, all right.
06:15He cool.
06:16Like, he not a weirdo.
06:18He cool.
06:20But the real question is now.
06:23Like, how long do you guys plan to keep this up?
06:25Like, keep this going?
06:27I mean, I'm going to be honest with you.
06:28I plan on doing this as long as my body will allow.
06:31Till the wheels fall off.
06:32Till the wheels fall off.
06:34We've built a platform and a business that can make us money.
06:38And if I can use that to help fund my other dreams.
06:41As you know, getting my own gym.
06:43Stuff like that.
06:44Mm-hmm.
06:45How do you guys deal with jealousy?
06:47Like, I know for a fact y'all ran into that barrier thousands of times.
06:53So, let's hear it.
06:55So, yes.
06:56Innately, there will be the feeling of jealousy going to come up.
07:00And it also does help that we do kind of like seeing each other with other people.
07:06Knowing the security that we have with each other.
07:08Yes.
07:09I like to see you have fun.
07:11You like to see me have fun.
07:12So, so, so, so, so.
07:14Learn new things.
07:17As long as you're doing what you love, like, keep doing it.
07:22He has helped you blossom into the person that you are becoming.
07:27The, the creative mind that you're becoming.
07:30It's very nice to see.
07:32I appreciate that.
07:34Very nicely said.
07:35I appreciate how you never made me feel any kind of way.
07:38I'm your brother too.
07:39You know what I'm saying?
07:40I'm not going to do so.
07:41No.
07:43Come on now.
07:45Better.
07:46Yeah.
07:46You going to learn it.
07:47You're going to learn it.
07:48You're right.
07:49You're right.
07:49You're right.
07:50You're right.
07:50You're right.
07:50You're right.
07:51Say hey y'all.
07:57We are on the same page.
07:59Like, we have the same goal.
08:01And we're working towards to reach that goal.
08:04So everything that we do is kind of like in sync with each other.
08:07What I would say to people who would want to judge our relationship is that relationships are not one-size
08:12-fits-all.
08:13And just do it unapologetically. If you don't like it, you don't like us, you don't have to comment or
08:17say anything.
08:18A wise man once told me, if you ain't got no haters, you ain't poppin'.
08:22Hello.
08:24Sit, couple.
08:27Bro, why you being so bad?
08:29This is my business partner. This is the person I love. This is the person who has pushed me when
08:34I didn't think that I can go any further.
08:35I'm in love with you for sure.
08:37I love you too, baby.
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