00:00My partner controls my every move and I love it.
00:02Coughing this?
00:03Dismissed.
00:04He serves me.
00:05He's owned.
00:05He has a little pet tag and it matches the rest of the cats and animals in the house.
00:09I've had a lot of people be just disgusted with the relationship.
00:12A lot of people say it's like degrading for the man, it's emasculating.
00:16His mum carried him around for nine months for him to do this.
00:19I'd feel like a complete let down as a father if my son was openly this .
00:23My sister Juanita is going to come over and we're going to tell her the truth about our relationship.
00:27Are you serious?
00:28Are you okay?
00:30I might have to stop visiting.
00:34I'm Sarah.
00:35This is Bradley.
00:36I control him and he lives by my rules.
00:39Brad, Brad, can you make me a coffee?
00:43I'm sending an order to Bradley telling him to get ready for the day.
00:46He needs to make me a coffee and get out of bed.
00:48We first met online.
00:49We were introduced through his previous owner.
00:51He reached out to me, stated that he needed someone to put Bradley with for a new dynamic
00:57and it kind of went from there.
00:59I've always sort of wanted a relationship like this and finally been able to achieve that.
01:05Morning, miss.
01:06Here's your coffee.
01:09You can go.
01:10Thank you, miss.
01:10I tell Bradley what to do.
01:12He serves me.
01:13It's very much servitude based.
01:14So it's basically like a housekeeper slash personal assistant role.
01:18It's a lot of serving me, saying yes miss, no miss.
01:21Being told what to do sort of gives me purpose.
01:23It sort of directs my day.
01:25I love how secure I am in myself.
01:29I love the power it gives her.
01:31I like feeling that I can trust someone enough to give them control over decisions I make in life.
01:38It gives me a lot of confidence in the relationship.
01:40It's just very nice to have someone give you that kind of trust.
01:42It's very rewarding.
01:44We've been in this dynamic six months.
01:46Come on, now count.
01:48Two, ladder, three, four.
01:51I receive a wage.
01:53I get to travel.
01:54I get to keep house.
01:56I get a lot of my stuff taken care of, like health and everything like that.
02:00So yeah, it's all I have to do is look after her, the house and the animals.
02:05This is the contract that I have in brass.
02:06It basically just details that we have an arrangement and we have an agreement.
02:10The purpose is this document outlines the expectations, boundaries and practical arrangements
02:14for a consensual live-in service and power exchange relationship.
02:17He still has full autonomy and doesn't remove his rights as an individual.
02:23Do you have any reservations about signing a contract with Sarah?
02:25No, not at all.
02:26We sort of, we had a conversation beforehand and a few conversations actually to
02:32work out sort of what we both wanted from this dynamic.
02:35So it's working for both of us.
02:37So I was more than happy to sort of sign that.
02:40Brad's collar is a fixed collar.
02:41So you can't remove this without someone else getting in there with the tool to remove it.
02:45It's on there to just remind him that he belongs, he's owned.
02:49He has a little pet tag and it matches the rest of the cats and the animals in the house.
02:53In our dynamic, we do have rules, basically just the structure,
02:56like things that he has to do, like keeping things, certain things decluttered
02:59or things that he has to say, like, yes, miss, addressing other people, opening the doors,
03:05just general manners, kind of things like that.
03:07Bradley.
03:08Yes, miss.
03:10What does that say?
03:11Keep all benches clear, miss.
03:13And what's that?
03:15Benches not clear.
03:22What are you writing?
03:23I'll keep the benches clear.
03:25Good.
03:25If Bradley doesn't do what I ask him to do, there's an array of punishments I like to do.
03:30It could be writing lines, writing things he likes about himself, paddling.
03:35It could be going to visit his mother, things like that.
03:37Our family reacted pretty well to the relationship.
03:39Some people were a bit confused.
03:41Some people don't know and may have a bit of an adverse reaction.
03:45But for the most part, it's been pretty supportive.
03:48Yeah, my family's been pretty supportive as well.
03:50They don't know sort of every detail, but for the most part, they sort of know what's going on.
03:57And they're, yeah.
03:58My sister Juanita is going to come over and we're going to tell her the truth about our relationship.
04:02And I think she might be a little shocked.
04:04She'll definitely have some opinions, which worries me.
04:07I don't know if she has an idea of how our relationship works.
04:10She knows that Brad's my assistant and that he lives here, but that's as far as she knows.
04:19I don't know too much about her relationship with Bradley.
04:23I know that they live together, but I'm not 100% sure what the relationship is, what it entails.
04:29You know how Brad's my assistant?
04:30Yeah.
04:31Yeah, and he like lives here.
04:32Yeah.
04:33Well, I also pay him a wage and I control everything he does.
04:38He does whatever I want.
04:39That's crazy.
04:41That's actually crazy.
04:42Yeah.
04:43Are you serious?
04:44Yeah, but he's okay and everything.
04:45He's fine.
04:46Like he's fine.
04:47Like willingly?
04:47Yeah, yeah.
04:48He's fine.
04:49100% willingly.
04:50Mm-hmm.
04:50Okay.
04:50It's kind of weird.
04:53So how did that like happen?
04:54Well, I've kind of seen it online and you know, he was my assistant and it kind of just evolved
04:58from there.
05:00Right.
05:00Um, we kind of just like got to know each other and each other's wants and kind of just wanted
05:03to explore that kind of thing.
05:05Right.
05:06But he's fine.
05:06I'm fine.
05:07Both consenting adults.
05:09As long as you're happy, I guess.
05:10Are you okay?
05:11Yeah, no.
05:12Yeah.
05:13Are you sure?
05:14I've got to think about this for a little while.
05:17I might have to stop visiting.
05:21Just for a little bit.
05:23You know, I'm giving you some space.
05:26No, you don't have to stop visiting.
05:27It's the same.
05:28It's just the same.
05:29Yeah, and we don't like practice the lifestyle.
05:33Yeah.
05:34Well, yeah, we're not weird.
05:35Like it's just the same.
05:36It's weird.
05:37It's weird.
05:37The dynamic like behind closed doors is us behind closed doors.
05:42But when you visit and everything, it'll still be the same.
05:45Business as usual.
05:46Okay.
05:46Yeah.
05:47Okay.
05:47Yeah.
05:47Cool.
05:48How much does Sarah pay you?
05:50I get paid a weekly wage of $1,100 and that involves everything from cleaning, driving, making beds.
06:01I'd probably do all that for $1,100 a week too.
06:04Yeah.
06:05Okay.
06:06Well, as long as you're both happy and consenting adults and, you know, just doing whatever you're doing.
06:13Yeah.
06:13I just don't want to see it.
06:15You have a good afternoon.
06:17Keep it all to yourselves.
06:19Catch around like a whistle.
06:22Bye.
06:23Bye.
06:39See ya.
06:47Bye.
06:53Bye.
06:53Bye.
06:58Bye.
07:00Bye.
07:00Someone said his mum carried him around for nine months for him to do this.
07:04Why do I feel like this is leading up to her actually him?
07:08Grown man, by the way.
07:09This type of never lasts.
07:11Always end in tears.
07:12I'd feel like a complete letdown as a father if my son was openly this .
07:17WTF man.
07:18What the actual F man?
07:20You're already getting off from emasculating him.
07:23Someone said this is completely consensual.
07:25He loves it and I believe she pays him a wage to be her service .
07:28It's a symbiotic arrangement and they both consent to it.
07:32It's pretty cool, I think.
07:33I don't really have an online presence, so I don't really see the comments.
07:37But yeah, you've got more of an online.
07:39Yeah, just knowing we're authentic in this is how we respond.
07:42I choose, like, sometimes I'll like challenge people in the comments,
07:45but I just let people comment because it's a good engagement.
07:48Sometimes it makes me feel pretty bad, but I understand the relationship and the dynamic a lot
07:52and there's a lot of people that do understand it a lot.
07:54So it kind of offsets the judgment.
07:56I'll talk to Bradley about it sometimes, but we just reassure each other that this is what we want.
08:00We're both happy with that.
08:01So yeah, you get the door.
08:04Yeah, of course.
08:05We're getting Bradley a nice tattoo in honor of my sister.
08:08Brad's tattoo is going to be a little love heart with my sister's name in it
08:11just because we're trying to win her over after telling her the big shocking news.
08:14I've decided to get him to have this because I feel like it's symbolic of our relationship
08:18and it kind of cements that he's in this for the right reasons
08:21and he cares about my family as well.
08:23Brad just got done with his tattoo. How do you feel?
08:25Good.
08:26Sore, but good.
08:27Think she's going to love it?
08:29Don't really have to hide anything because people know.
08:32Stop it!
08:34Oh my god!
08:35What the hell?
08:37Sick.
08:39This actually isn't the first tattoo I've made Brad get.
08:42He does have another one.
08:43Show on, Brad.
08:46Would I ever get a tattoo of Bradley's name?
08:48I might, under good behavior, under the right circumstances.
08:52But as a reward.
08:53I think Brad's changed my life for the better just for the amount of confidence he's brought into it.
08:57Just the way he serves me just really helps.
08:59And I think Sarah's changed my life for the better because I just feel openly supported and
09:05a lot of love.
09:06I think I love most about Brad how he's just so authentic in his servitude
09:09and he's just really genuine in what he wants in his life.
09:12The thing I love most is probably the ability to just be myself and
09:18don't have to feel like I have to change to be with anyone else.
09:22It's good.
09:22To people that judge our relationship, I would definitely say it's important to
09:25take a step back and just understand that everyone's different and just to
09:29take everything with a grain of salt.
09:31Everyone's different.
09:42Thanks a lot, son.
09:46You
Comments