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00:01this is the first state's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:14is possible will you pique my interest there's no nobody's losing their cool an instant attraction
00:25gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden
00:36shock to
00:37the senses none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village all moth what
00:49happens next is up to them would you like to see each other again romantically yeah i would too
01:01oh jesus christ i was gonna have a heart i do my hair toss check my nails baby how you
01:09feel
01:11are you one of those guys who prepare for the date or is that just the last minute
01:17future did that run not much needs to be done to this you can polish
01:22do you have any strategy when it comes to a date none whatsoever none i'm going in blind
01:34it's just that thing of like just rocking up and just going for it like
01:38i'll have the hair washed and i pour have a bit of tan because i think whatever about your hair
01:43and makeup if you're tan you'll feel better in yourself trying to do things that remind me like
01:47alice you're great you got this you got this girl you got this brocco we look gorgeous thanks
01:57some people just can't get enough attention but mince not one of them she's maxed out do you get
02:04chatted up sometimes i do go out and i'm just like if people just leave me the fuck alone i'm
02:09like just
02:10fuck off
02:14sometimes i look at them i'd be like where are you coming from i'm coming from clerny
02:19you know what's wrong with the kerry men there's just something wrong with them especially the
02:23clerny men really something wrong with them what hobbies have you what hobbies have i i like to go to
02:32the
02:32gym i like to go for hot girl walk what's a hot girl walk so it's when you put on
02:37your sunglasses
02:38you chew a piece of gum and you look straight and you walk you walk like you own the town
02:45describe yourself in three words for me pretty a tad bit obnoxious and funny so would you say that
02:52you are particular like do you need a person i guess that has things or is successful and has
02:59to be a certain way definitely okay okay so what would you deem as a successful person someone i guess
03:05it was a good job has their life together knows what they want is able to drive a hundred percent
03:12yeah i'm built to be a passenger princess if you don't have a full license you don't have a car
03:18i'm
03:18like immediately no i'm not driving you around the place i'm sorry not at all it can't be a car
03:24for a
03:25follow they give me the a what are you looking for like a bentley or austin martin if one wants
03:30to go my way
03:31than like soviet can you find me one well i'll try to find myself one first then i'll get you
03:37one
03:37after to see if they have siblings wow okay god love the person coming in you should ask them that
03:43straight away oh my friend i'm jack i'm 21 and i'm from kerry
03:55boy racer or trusty pickup will you be the judge from the first day's restaurant to find my new
04:02woman to find a bit of love it's a bit uh a bit exciting a bit exciting
04:09i could chat to a wall ah it's it's all the charm the charm is my biggest thing uh compliments
04:16for us
04:16and then a bit of laughter and it always works hello how are you mr how do you think so
04:21how are you
04:21nice to meet you jack nice to meet you jack how are you yeah you like that you like that
04:26beautiful for
04:27you yeah and you have success with that i like to think so but uh not often i wouldn't be
04:34i wouldn't
04:34be too busy on the old dating scene so it's that is what it is are you ready to do
04:40this ready to
04:41okay to the bar your date is at the bar yeah all right all right get your shit together
04:51i've met people before that have you know i've brought the confidence out and i like that that's
04:56what i love make people happy and you know feel confident about themselves but i'd love to meet
05:02someone who's comfortable themselves hi hi how are you hi it's nice to meet you what's your name sorry
05:09mim mim yeah jack i got you a little uh i would say definitely i am a tough cookie i
05:16am hard to
05:17impress definitely where you from i'm from clarney no way yeah who yourself yeah i'm from clarney
05:25can you tell me yeah i hear it what i'm just outside castle island castle island just outside yeah
05:33only down the road so how did you come up uh drove up i stayed in mace uh last night
05:38uh family uh okay journey up i was working what car do you drive let's hear it no you go
05:45first
05:45now what do you drive i drive a passage no i have a few i have a few a few
05:53so i suppose i've gone into
05:59cars when i was about 11 or 12 through my father and uh car collection has just grown okay let's
06:06hear
06:06them all i have a few japanese cars okay um but i daily a bmw oh wow okay
06:20the pain is blunt
06:25for old school romantic liam love is the gift that keeps on giving oh life could be a dream
06:35look to me you do happen for somebody you care about them you have interest in them
06:43you want to take care of them and you want them to take care of you welcome
06:49how's it going very good mr yourself great your name please name mateo nice to meet you liam
06:54nice how is everything heaven is great yeah heaven is great hopefully you'll get better yeah yeah yeah
07:00if the attraction is there initially brilliant i'm not going to try and impress them
07:05purely to impress them as i used to do i like that there they'll give a bit of a gift
07:10there
07:11be nice to cuddle up to somebody at times just like the intimacy
07:15you know that'd be nice it's not for you no i've actually stopped focusing on you i'm focusing on the
07:22chocolate that's not good i know that's what i'm saying it's not for you
07:26choco choco yeah oh that's a decent box of chocolates as well is it oh god yeah absolutely
07:31chance though fair play to you smart as i said you can't eat flowers i got married in 86
07:37split up in 96 i was in another relationship after a few years for a few years and i have
07:46not been in
07:47any relationship since then listen at least you put yourself out there that's very number one yeah
07:53absolutely you see what happens we see what happens nothing stops esther putting herself out there
08:00certainly not the neighbors i'm 64 i'm not doing too bad like i wouldn't care to opens i go out
08:09into
08:09the back garden in my bikini if somebody's didn't want to look at me i couldn't care less
08:21i suppose i'm not the normal nanny yeah that's what they tell me
08:27i would like somebody to get their knickers in a knot over nothing no time for that life's too short
08:43but it doesn't define your night ahead oh i so didn't want to get that wrong i used to be
08:50very
08:50confident i think i need to get my competence back no don't be but you're a gorgeous lady why would
08:55you be nervous oh why would you be nervous but he's gonna be nervous when you come there can i
09:01look
09:01around you know he can't no be cool okay be cool be cool she's beautiful she's very beautiful yeah yeah
09:08they've done well here they're doing well they're doing well they're doing well i can't stop looking
09:12at your eyes blue same like yours oh my god no yours is so blue anyway i need to behave
09:20myself okay i think
09:21you're ready you do okay good yeah let's do it i suppose it'd be exciting i kind of like to
09:30get
09:30don't know you know and go out there and feel sure about esther you don't look half bad all right
09:37now
09:37hello hello hello hello hello how are you i'm good how are you great i'm liam how are you uh
09:43are you
09:43hungry all right it's nice to see you look fantastic beautiful dress do you like chocolates i do
09:57oh my god i do indeed somebody kind of looks okay hair no hair whatever you know we're all getting
10:07a
10:07little bit older here will you have a drink i surely will yeah um a little bit of everything that
10:13you
10:13have puttered one glass with about 12 straws i'll have a glass of wine that's what white red uh
10:21white please what are you having i just sparkly water oh yeah yeah yeah that's a baby show
10:33so how many siblings have you two sisters okay yourself i just have one older brother one older
10:39brother how old is he he's 22 for just like a year and like nine months apart we would be
10:44close but
10:45we still do absolutely kill each other till this day and is he living with you yeah four of you
10:50in the
10:51house no my parents are divorced so my parents got divorced when i was like maybe like eight or nine
10:55so it's just myself my mom my brother oh okay do you want me to talk to that no i
11:02haven't spoken to him
11:03i'd say like five or six years that's mad yeah no like we live in the same town and everything
11:07like
11:07there's no hate no nothing we just don't talk yeah it's just i'm the same you're the same it's great
11:12fact yeah i live with my dad okay so you live with your dad then so uh yeah i haven't
11:16talked to my mom
11:17in nine years okay and how old were you when they kind of got separated and stuff uh 12 well
11:23they
11:23separated was very young i can't even remember it's probably a toddler like and then i live with my mom
11:29until i was about 12 okay and then my father then when i was starting it my father just he
11:36took me in
11:37he taught me everything you know i i was a proper little scumbag when i was younger like and
11:43uh oh it's just i'm happier way more respect for everything you know i feel like i'm a nice person
11:49though because of him and yeah he changed me 100 but my brother is still ironing so it's uh it's
11:57his fault
11:58i'm in the car is you know yeah i like i thought i love it so it's just the two
12:03of you living at home
12:03just two of us yeah yeah that's not right
12:09are you divorced or are you past or i'm divorced i'm married i was um i met my husband when
12:17i was
12:1815 yeah and we married when i was 18 and then we separated after 15 years yeah and it was
12:31a hard
12:32breakup yeah yeah yeah but we have the best relationship that's great at the end it didn't
12:39work out and it was a difficult breakup but all we had been doing was just trying to keep stuff
12:45together it wasn't working and we were doing it for the kids and i'll tell you i am so glad
12:52i'm married yeah yeah yeah because i have two daughters yeah yeah yeah and i have grandchildren
12:58yeah yeah yeah it's brilliant you get on so well now oh yeah yeah yeah he drives me bad
13:05he would not be with me for all the tea and shine yeah yeah and i wouldn't be with him
13:11but you see the relationship you have us both yeah grateful yeah yeah yeah how about you
13:19myself and my ex though we could hardly be in the same room oh yeah sure that happens
13:27introducing cavern from leash well that's one way to describe him and here's another
13:33uh okay just a basic old game man that's all yeah
13:42i'm always the one doing the chasing usually i like i want to do like a full research
13:51i thought maybe if i take it out with my own hands it might make the situation a bit easier
13:58welcome hello how's everything i'm good thanks how are you when you get a little bit older you
14:02realize that love is not all rainbows and lollipops and fizzes in your tummy all right mr no it's about
14:11who's your lobster what's her name calvin nice to meet you nice to meet you calvin yeah like the
14:17county like the county you probably get that all the time do you where's that look it's a conversation
14:20starter isn't it yeah um my grandmother was from calvin okay and then there's everyone that calls
14:25me kevin and kelvin and calvin and gavin and i'm just like yeah no problem yeah call me tom if
14:30you
14:30if it makes you happy i don't know it doesn't bother me where are you from uh leash strabelly oh
14:36i'm
14:36from durrell very good fellow leash man yes it's tough isn't it dating's not that good though it's not
14:43no no no that's why i'm standing here a few small kids as well so they keep me occupied how
14:50many
14:50kids are there three how old are they so 13 11 and eight so you've only recently come out kind
14:57of
14:57really you're like recent as uh like january 21 that's pretty recent how do you feel
15:20about the food or how do i feel inside
15:26i'd love to say there will be tea to come here
15:32i'm fussy fussy i'm not fussy either yeah don't eat onions tomatoes peppers okay when i get pizza
15:39red onion is a must yeah but we can get a half and half
15:46in the grand scheme of things martin believes that size really matters i'm looking for love a big love
16:00i'm i'm very soft inside when i have a bad day i have a bad day if i want to
16:04cry i do cry so i like
16:06someone who's going to come and hug me and say everything's going to be okay instead of coming
16:10to me and say grow up you're a big man i like man kind of bigger maybe both maybe beard
16:18not skinny
16:22come and compose hello how are you nice to meet you nice to meet you too your name please martin
16:27martin polski it's possible how is everything good yeah stress a little bit just follow your instincts
16:35man he got you so far your date is at the bar oh really so i'm the on the second
16:41either
16:42he jimmy in a gym out breathe in breathe out i'm gonna be very shy at the start i'm actually
16:50even
16:50thinking don't bring me a very hot kind hi hi hi how are you how are you nice to meet
16:58you nice to meet
16:58you how are you what's your name calvin calvin yes marching my nice nice to meet you you nervous i
17:05am
17:05a little bit well i was thinking like if i'm gonna sit down have a drink then it's gonna be
17:08up here you
17:09know yeah it'll be fine where are you coming from uh i live in dublin okay i live in in
17:15chukor but i'm
17:15from poland okay originally i live here 20 years very good where are you from uh leash leash never been
17:21leash
17:21yeah i don't even know actually where it is well it's like right in the middle i feed off vibes
17:27and look even if it's not somebody that i match with i mean let's have dinner and have a drink
17:34and have a
17:34laugh tell me your name sorry calvin come in one more time i'm sorry i'm so that's okay don't be
17:41stressed
17:49and then so
17:57do you enjoy your job i do i kind of fell into it when i was like 17 i was
18:01like christmas style
18:02so i started working in pharmacy when i slowly made my way up sometimes it can be stressful but
18:07at the most times i do like interacting with people from all types of backgrounds did you go to college
18:11or no no no that's straightforward yeah same as myself okay yeah yeah yeah so i build it to wind
18:17turbines because we go into the back ass of nowhere what i do is i take them down and put
18:24them back up
18:24right so those big windmills the big windmills right this week now i got thrown in tipperary the week
18:30okay but i have the choices like staying overnight and coming back every day okay and where do you
18:35usually stayed i'm on my own so i just stay away there's no point in going home if i had
18:39a reason to go home i go
18:41home i love the lads you know it's like a second family the views as well when you're working like
18:47go
18:47up there two o'clock in the morning and then you hit the sunset at five or six in the
18:52morning it's
18:52beautiful how long have you been doing that then i think two years now okay what age are you 21
19:0021 yeah
19:01when's your birthday september i'm 20 i'll be 21 like a week and a half on the 13th she's not
19:08gonna get
19:08cut for a birthday present so i'm like okay oh wow i have your steak oh thank you and the
19:25chicken
19:25supreme lovely thank you another good choice enjoy thank you i'd like to be somebody with similar
19:31values as myself i believe happiness is being grateful for what we have instead of being
19:37miserable about what we haven't got so what do you do then um for the pleasure enjoyment are you like
19:48me you do me you do all i do i get annoyed myself and i didn't do something did you
19:55yeah i'm doing a
19:57good bit of walking lately because i've booked the camino and you have not oh yeah my life only started
20:05when i gave up drinking it'll be 20 years ago this year since i gave it up and it's the
20:10best thing i
20:10ever did in my life my greatest achievement no i love doing the whole lot of it why why it's
20:20too
20:20fucking long i wasn't happy i wasn't happy it was far from happy and i used to go to the
20:27pub for three
20:28or four points and that was the story of my life but i never left after three or four points
20:34have you ever done it i have not and i never will i'll be second taken off you must be
20:40joking me
20:43relationships when i was younger people i grew up with people women and it wouldn't last long
20:50and they'd all tell me i'm a lovely person but they never told me the but but i am convinced
20:56now that
20:56both was i was an alcoholic something i want to do i'm totally on my own because like i never
21:02really
21:02went anywhere without people before there was somebody with me or whatever and it's meant to
21:08be a spiritual kind of journey yeah it's all to be comfortable totally you know but it's a challenge
21:17well done you i haven't done it yet it doesn't matter when i got married i found a girl that
21:24loved me
21:25and i was afraid to let her go because i believed nobody else is going to love me and that's
21:33part of
21:33the reason i married that girl you know i'm so insecure in myself and that's how i put all that
21:42down to
21:45i've learned to be comfortable on my own be happy yeah yeah i'm content i've learned to like myself
21:52i think because i never liked myself too much but since i've been on my own i've learned to like
21:58myself that i'm not that fat of a person really believe it or not i'll give you a reward
22:11i have my sister with me she lives with me now oh i brought her here uh two years ago
22:17good good
22:18you having a siblings i have um two brothers and a sister yeah who is the oldest i'm the oldest
22:24you're
22:24oh you're taking care of everything yeah yeah um i'm not nervous about being rejected but sometimes
22:31people are not willing to date um men that have uh kids and that's fine that's on them but i
22:39feel
22:39like it's not something that i need to declare but then sometimes they're a bit shocked like oh you
22:43didn't say you had kids like well did i need to um so i also have um three kids you
22:51have three kids
22:52yeah so they keep me busy too nice to hear yeah yeah um do you like kids or i do
22:57like kids and i have
22:58son as well do you yes wow that's the another reason i came to ireland yeah is he here yes
23:05and how old
23:06is he uh he's 21 years old right now he lives in leeson varna okay so after one year when
23:13i got the
23:13job and everything and i was feeling safe yeah i brought his mother and him and does she still live
23:21in
23:21mr varna we're still there with him we've been friends forever and we still not love each other
23:26i can't say love each other but like you know what i mean like we've been in this together let's
23:30say you
23:30know what i mean yeah so uh i have one song you know but you have three like so you
23:35have fun yeah
23:36yeah they're they're they're great kids i want to know more um they're they're they're the love of my
23:42life yeah we have a lot of fun uh so when i do when i see them i really make
23:46the most and we do stuff
23:48but then like i won't lie i get really lonely then when they leave and i don't want it to
23:56be just me
24:06what would you say you're looking for then what am i looking for yeah it's a cool question that yeah
24:13um
24:18uh i'm just looking for someone someone i can like uh be around you know like put the foot
24:26life before i don't know i get a bit serious like okay i'll put it on too oh
24:32no i'm looking for someone i can come home to do you know when i'm working or something
24:36yeah yeah so i want someone to give my free time time and look after them like i know what
24:42i want
24:42and when i do find someone who has everything i want i'll go for it until then i won't like
24:47what are
24:48your interests like clothes so you like dressing up and you look lovely so i'll give you that one i
24:55say
24:55people think right off the bat that i'm like so like self-obsessed and just like a bitch really but
25:00like like once you get to know me people do think i'm lovely well you look after yourself that's
25:06amazing that's lovely yeah like i like to look done up every day yeah like i wake up at 5
25:1045 most
25:10mornings i start work at like half seven so i like to have like my hair and makeup done for
25:16like half
25:16seven in the morning so you wake up just under two hours before work to get ready yeah i gotta
25:23look
25:24perfect every day yeah i think going to drive you mad do you wash your face in the morning don't
25:29even
25:29answer it i don't know i don't want to hear it anymore ew i'm hardy like
25:36i'll tell you auntie now i would come back here tomorrow for that study it's lovely sweet
25:41cheese always gorgeous and the pepper sauce sorry my tea doesn't want to lose your family
25:49oh don't worry about it i have that problem as well don't worry about it you're grand
25:56what's the most embarrassing date you've ever been on we met and we had dinner which was quite nice and
26:02it was lovely and he said can i give you a kiss and i said yeah okay i said we'll
26:08have to buy him dinner
26:08or whatever i'll have to give him a kiss if i'm at home they come out i don't have to
26:12be
26:12what okay obviously wear it but but when i'm at home they come out oh i would not would you
26:19not
26:19i would not he kissed me and he says to me i have a present for you in the car
26:31maybe come out with a bag of fish
26:35do you not use fixing it i do it doesn't when you start eating it seems to come loose
26:41top or bottom top really yeah yeah yeah maybe i'm doing something wrong no you're not used enough
26:49i said god or the days of the military and roses i'm thinking back a fish
26:57if you'll excuse me i'm going to live and take them back
27:13how does a penguin build a house he glues it together
27:19why do the norwegians put barcodes on their ships so when they dock they can scandinavian
27:26did you hear about the cheese factory that uh exploded in france the brie was everywhere
27:35will is hoping to be just as good a dater as he is a comedian
27:40it's all in the delivery hey how's it gone
27:42men with a gift absolutely 100% healthy
27:48i've never dated in secondary school i just didn't feel like
27:52anybody like me that sounded really bad i felt like i had no flirting game whatsoever
27:58how do you feel buddy i'm a little nervous but like i think they're good nerves as i've grown up
28:03a
28:03bit i've kind of become more confident in myself and uh just trying to put myself out there a little
28:08bit now you know and what's your regular type or do you have a type that's a great question i
28:13don't
28:13necessarily have like a particular type um just somebody who i can just get on with it's a bit of
28:18a
28:18app or like someone who loves to talk maybe someone who shares the same obsession for football as i do
28:23you know ah yes the beautiful game until that is cuiva starts handing out red cards since 2022
28:32i have been compiling like an ik list someone who doesn't like garlic dip now that's a strong one
28:40malibu and milk being your choice to drink on a night out
28:43apparently it's like called a malib moo or something
28:48i bet you're proud of yourself now you didn't do it properly
28:51that's like the scariest part that's like the scariest part how are you i'm cuiva cuiva look at
28:57yourself yeah girl you look lovely thank you so much he's gonna be very nervous when he sees you
29:04so what kind of person then are you looking to meet tall handsome family orientated a kind
29:14considerate person but also is willing to listen to me yeah he's looking over there in a mirror so he's
29:20getting nervous let's go there enjoy it okay all right hey how are you how are you all good i'm
29:30believe i'm watching well how's it going happy to meet you i got you some chocolates oh that's so sweet
29:36you're very welcome no worries at all is there anything that you definitely want to find out about
29:40them oh that's a great question uh their football alliance i go back and forth to the uk quite a
29:46bit
29:46for football matches just like different areas okay now who do you support because this is going to be like
29:50a deal breaker now is it oh my goodness so i'm a chelsea fan okay it's not too bad who
29:56do you support
29:58liverpool that's actually okay yeah like if you said like united right yeah if you said spurs
30:10how old are you how old are you how old are you how do you think i'm 40 you're 40
30:13i'm 39 39 yeah
30:15you're behind the corner yeah just about exactly and the sir lights thank you so thank you so much
30:25but do you feel bad that you're getting old older like it's funny like i feel um i feel a
30:31lot better
30:32now i feel like i look better and i feel a lot more confident because i think i'm a bit
30:37more me now
30:39i'm so happy to be 40 and sometimes i even think like if i'm going to be 45 i'm going
30:44to be even better
30:44than that to be 50 i'm going to be like on the top of the world like people used to
30:49say oh i wish i'll
30:50be younger i would like to go back to being 30 never i think i was so stupid i was
30:5530 years old well
30:57you know not the same like i think my priorities were different like for my 20s and for a lot
31:04of for
31:05half of my 30s i feel like i just i had my head down i was married i was trying
31:11to raise babies
31:13you know i just didn't have time to think about anything but i i definitely know more now
31:20than i did when i was in my 30s i had my situation a little bit easier i would say
31:27because
31:29when my son's mother got pregnant she knew that i'm gay but i told her that i don't want to
31:36be gay
31:36please take it away from right i have to be honest i was so in love with her i was
31:42we were together for like four years and i was i got very protective about her
31:47yeah i loved her to bits okay as a human you know what i mean you you need to kind
31:55of learn
31:55from your mistakes and and grow you don't trust the mistakes you learned those mistakes for the
32:00reason you know they brought you here you know
32:09hi how are you would you like sour sweets now summer sweets yeah no one gets sweetened on chocolate
32:17sweet right we'll say movie night bang right what are we getting like a pack of fingers i can inhale
32:27a
32:27pack of fingers i feel like that's luxury then i've never had fingers fingers like a pack of cadbury
32:33fingers right then we're gonna have a pack of cadbury fingers yeah lovely she's gorgeous you were
32:41nervous well yeah nervous and i don't get nervous um no she uh but she brought it out of me
32:47she brought it
32:48out of me like i'd say i'd kind of more go for like crisps than popcorn geez what do we
32:55have
32:55in the opposite opposite to attract it's uh i'd say the biggest problem is not deciding if i want to
33:02go
33:02on a second day but deciding what to do on the second days are you happy you came oh yeah
33:07yeah deadly yeah
33:08yourself oh no no no you can't really right no i didn't grow my eyes oh i didn't would you
33:14like to see
33:15each other again romantically we go three two one yeah okay three two one yeah yeah thank you so much
33:31you're good don't worry about it don't worry about it don't worry about it don't worry about it i think
33:36you're very down to earth you're very like humbled i'm like down to you're like the opposite of me
33:41whereas i'm like very jumpy and like intimidating whereas you're more like no one's here in the
33:45day i feel like you're an honest person i feel like you'd be good at communicating now yeah
33:51that's really nice that doesn't say beautiful for you don't look the label
33:56don't look at it yeah wait till you get home stay with me forever you guys fancy each other yeah
34:03yeah
34:08he's lovely he did win my heart over like he's so much time for people and stuff like and like
34:13the main thing is really finding someone who has time for someone hello how are you how are we getting
34:20on
34:38a glass of wine please of course white wine all good absolutely gorgeous brilliant and how's the
34:47company yeah well he's a lovely man yeah yeah thank you so sweet he brought me chocolates
34:55it can be something that will lead to something else yeah which you can yeah i do in teaching in
35:04college oh wow yeah that's real cool secondary school i love that do you i've always wanted to be a
35:10teacher
35:10like yeah i was like when i was like five years old and because my mom works in a school
35:14yeah she's like
35:15bring home like little like stamps and stuff and i used to like always pretend to play school i qualified
35:21as an
35:21s and a there oh my god did you my mom's an s and a stop yeah no way yes
35:26yes what got you do s and a
35:29i do um like voluntary work uh with barrettstown oh my god so um yeah then kind of that led
35:35me to
35:36doing like the special needs kind of yeah yeah but like i don't do it per se i just have
35:41the qualification
35:41still trying to find my feet you know that way like i think that's the same way everybody around my
35:46age
35:46it's like you're still trying to find out what you really are passionate about you know i applied
35:51actually for a firefighter paramedic a couple of days ago so see how that goes that could be another
35:57route as well you know what do you do in your spare time it's a great question what do i
36:01do in my spare
36:01time um hanging out with mates obviously the boys um the boys the boys yeah the boys the lads
36:08definitely feel like i'm better in person i'm shocking a texting for the life of me like i can't
36:14text at all like i love just going for like ice cream or something like with the girls i love
36:18a sweet
36:18treat yeah at easter i love mini eggs mini eggs are like my you like do not say you don't
36:24like them i love
36:25mini eggs okay i thought you're gonna say you don't like so at easter i stock pile stop no we're
36:31the
36:31same person i do the exact same exact same i'd rather it be like you swiped and then all of
36:39a
36:39sudden they're right in front of you and you're on the date right there and then because then you
36:42actually get to know the person you know what is your favorite food that's a great question i love
36:46a bit of coleslaw do you yeah would you have on everything now if i'm making like a toasty or
36:51something
36:51i thought you were going to say like you get a spoon and eat it i was like no no
36:54no i wouldn't
36:54just get a top of coleslaw slamming in front of me instead of the spoon and earn it to my
36:58mouth like
37:04i was imagining you you know what you want i don't know i haven't been looking at it to be
37:12i just
37:12was lost in the conversation in the moment to be honest take as long as you need one more minute
37:18is
37:18that okay yeah of course you can have as long as you need thank you thank you thank you great
37:22conversation you're interrupting sorry sorry and so what made you come to dublin then uh i was looking
37:30for life right and i wanted to have some kind of gay scene as well yeah which i'd never seen
37:35before
37:36did you go out on the scene much very no very shy so i was trying and trying and trying
37:42but still very
37:43good to see you know what you're doing yeah like i'm i'm still relatively new to this um i used
37:50to go
37:51to the bar beside the george yeah i could hear the phone inside but i was too nervous to go
37:57in there
37:57by myself i always had to be a little bit drunk to walk in and especially panty back because you
38:04know
38:04how you walk in yeah it's a bit don't all eyes on you yeah you know what i mean it's
38:08like a walk yeah you
38:10know i couldn't live my life in poland as a gay person so that was the first main reason why
38:17i
38:17left with the place i lived you know it was like a gangs everywhere drugs everywhere everybody expect
38:24for me to prove what a man i you know everybody will fight with you and everything and i was
38:29none of
38:30that and i was pretending to be someone else for a long time and it was painful to hide how
38:37soft i was
38:39inside i had to become you know so i was like i'm doing all of these bad things and everything
38:44but
38:44inside me i was terrifying okay you know every day was a challenge for me just because i was scared
38:50that if they will see that softness inside me i'm gonna be in trouble so then after work after school
38:56and i was going back home and there was nobody at home closing the door and britney spears straight away
39:03yeah hit me baby one more time
39:10oh my god what was i saying there i don't care what you said i'm just eating a bloody raspberry
39:17you don't like them i know beautiful you'll have people out there over there and i said i want whatever
39:25she's having yeah she looks all right she's a lovely lovely woman go crack go crack are you driving
39:37i am not where do you have to what um i have to get to lewis from here yeah to
39:43bus iris and then i get
39:46a bus i'll escort you back to the jars if you want that'd be great because i'm getting loose
39:53that'd be great yeah yeah yeah i'd appreciate that there was a little something there you know
39:58but it like did today i wouldn't give up on the romantic bit thank you and everything was lovely thank
40:09you oh it was just perfect i'm so happy to hear that would you guys like to see each other
40:15romantically
40:15again i'm not answering i'd like to see yesterday again i'm 50 50 on the romantic bit but if i
40:25don't
40:25mean any offense to that in any way same yeah yeah of course no i would like to see you
40:34again good
40:34cool i think he's a lovely guy you know i am yeah oh are you so thank you again so
40:46much thank you
40:47to have you oh thank you thanks all right bye now thank you you think if you were to have
40:54a friendship
40:55meetup what would you do we'd discuss that on the lewis specs and placards
41:15last year i went to three times haven't been this year yet need to go i try and get there
41:20at least once
41:21every season i try and get over the stanford bridge at least once did your family like kind of bring
41:25you up into liking football or is it something that you that was my granddad gone kind of five years
41:31now but like that memory but having those memories of being able to go there with them i do find
41:37it
41:37emotional my mom like she'd be one of my best friends like i could tell her anything really that's
41:42i love and she's never judged me like like she definitely she would be like my role model she's
41:46someone i look up to really yeah that's lovely that's so nice i love my family my mom is like
41:53my
41:53best friend my mom got sick when i was young that was definitely a bit of a oof then she
41:58got sick again
41:59and i'm like okay i remember as well the second time me and my brother moved in with my nanny
42:05and it was
42:06my birthday and she just got chemo so i couldn't spend it with her i couldn't even give her a
42:11hug and i
42:12suppose like i think that's maybe why i love birthdays so much now because i miss that one little
42:17birthday do you have many siblings just the one brother oh he's older than me oh yeah yeah we're chill
42:23that's class but we're very different really he's so introverted i'm so extrovert really yeah yeah
42:30my dad brother they used to watch matches when i was younger i was like turn that off like i
42:35want
42:35to watch telly but now then since i've got like an interest in that we've become closer as well
42:41what's your dream date dream date that's a great question it really depends i suppose like for me
42:47ideally like i'd love to do like an activity date so it's like you go bowling or you go play
42:51a couple
42:52games of pool or something and then like maybe go for something to eat after what about you what's
42:56like your dream date my top top date yeah i'm going to a match going to a match all right
43:02yeah that is
43:02that like that would be like top of my list i mean that's second date sort of now but all
43:06right like
43:07are you coming to armfield or am i going to have to like i mean because they're off a daily
43:11on park and watch the balls first and then there yeah you're going to introduce me to the league of
43:24ireland yeah thank you so much it looks sexy and the chocolate heart enjoy thank you so much thank you
43:35where do you like to holiday uh usually every year i'm going to rancanaria
43:42i went most recently in may or april and the the second one is um citrus i was just about
43:52to say
43:52like you would go there and you have old dublin standing in front of you yeah i'm going to
43:56stitches in september are you yeah me too really i am yeah for bear week yes
44:03we're so basic aren't we yeah i know what is your like more far away place you've ever been i've
44:13been
44:13to canada to uh play rugby you play rugby yeah i didn't really show me your tights
44:21i like the way i look i think i've done the best with what i have you look good you
44:26look you have
44:26a good shape thank you i like your tattoos thank you bus somebody could be hitting on me and i
44:33am
44:34completely oblivious on her thank you i'm just like wasn't that a really nice person to go up and
44:41chat to me okay bye
44:45would you like no sorry thank you i should have asked you
44:55it's absolutely pleasure i have to tell her to meet you oh thank you so much it's been a total
45:01pleasure to meet the two of you too thank you
45:06so moment of truth yeah would you like to see each other again romantically
45:14you you want to go first or would i go first i can go first okay uh yes yes i
45:21would like to see
45:21you again okay um for me not romantically oh that's okay yeah how has everything been overall it was
45:31lovely yeah good food yeah great good company yeah you're a great guy yeah i really enjoyed speaking
45:37with you your handsome guy so it was it was really enjoyable yeah i suppose i just didn't feel a
45:43spark
45:43yeah yeah thanks again so thank you i was kind of pretty sure you would say no ah but i
45:50was still
45:51wanted to say uh yes i do like him and i would definitely want to meet you megan but it's
46:01like
46:01i don't feel devastated or hurt by that you know what i mean it's fine
46:13it's going really well yeah i think it's going well from my perspective anyway i think it's going
46:17really well excellent she's lovely she's honestly she's gorgeous girl the moment she walked in i was
46:23like yeah definitely it's definitely been the easiest day i've ever had like it's just been so smooth
46:29like so you're a happy man i'm very happy man yeah but game face on absolutely yeah yeah play it
46:35cool now
46:37i've never been with a girl that's kind of been as much as my type as she has conversation was
46:43just so
46:43natural she was just such a yapper which i love humor as well which is always good just so nice
46:49just such
46:50a wonderful person like you know that way
46:55but uh where where were we where were we that's a great question hello hi
47:06i'm going to get this no no no no please no no no we can split it's okay no let
47:11me get this honestly
47:12no you don't have to but i want to please let me get this
47:19would you two like to see each other again romantically ladies first
47:28yes i would yes i would
47:32thank you so much thank you bye
47:37i had a ball good vibes from the onset i felt very comfortable he's very cute
47:48the mini eggs as well that's a huge huge plus for me i'd share a bag of mini eggs with
47:52you i would as well
47:57where will the second day be a ball's match
48:01okay oh yes bring me to go watch the balls you're gonna bring me to anfield now then of course
48:05i am
48:05we'll do the stadium tour i've already done the stadium
48:08and i'm here i think i told you what no there you you kept this quiet something to talk about
48:13now
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