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00:02Do you feel a bit rusty? Yes, very rusty. Definitely need a WD for our day.
00:09I need some help. It's hard out there.
00:12I am very single at the moment. I've run out of swipes. I've completed Tinder.
00:18In the heart of Britain's most romantic city...
00:22Hello.
00:23Fred and his team...
00:25This is Captain Fur Potato.
00:27...are matching hopeful singletons.
00:29We're getting married, Merlin.
00:31...in a place where love is always on the menu.
00:35I've got a bit in your finger. You didn't go that far down the strip.
00:40These daters...
00:41He probably thinks I'm having a poo or something.
00:43...are searching...
00:46...for the one.
00:49Would you chase me around the bedroom? Absolutely.
00:51Get your coat. I'm in.
00:53For some, stepping into the unknown...
00:57...can lead to surprising sparks.
01:00I work in the adult industry.
01:02Do you have an office for that? I have a dungeon.
01:05But finding a connection...
01:07A love story is about to begin.
01:10Shut up!
01:11...isn't always easy.
01:12Please tell me you actually last longer than three minutes.
01:19Help me!
01:21In the end...
01:22Hi.
01:22...it comes down to one...
01:25Nice to see you here.
01:26...big...
01:27...question.
01:28Would you guys like to see each other again?
01:30This isn't a total crit, is it?
01:32This is the First Dates Restaurant.
01:44How are you?
01:45Terrified.
01:47Take a break.
01:48Yeah.
01:49I think every single person...
01:51...that walks into our restaurant...
01:53...is nervous.
01:54You excited?
01:55Shitting my pants.
01:56You have no idea who that person is.
01:59I'm so nervous.
02:00It's like high-stakes gambling.
02:02Which is kind of exciting...
02:04...and kind of nerve-wracking.
02:06Some of us are more confident than others.
02:08It's fine. Everything's fine.
02:11You can't give up on love.
02:13You owe it to yourself.
02:15And you've got to go for it.
02:19Hi, my name's Jack.
02:21Oh, I feel sick.
02:24This is 23-year-old insurance salesman, Jack.
02:29Would you like to fall in love?
02:30Yeah, 100% I like to fall in love.
02:33It's just taking its time.
02:35So what's your dating experience so far, though?
02:37I don't really do it, to be fair.
02:39In public, I will never make a move on a girl, I can't lie.
02:42Would you not?
02:42No, I'm just like a nervous wreck.
02:44Right, okay.
02:44And I'll be sitting there like...
02:45All right.
02:48I'm not the best, I can't lie.
02:51There's been girls, but it's never led to anything serious, basically.
02:54I struggle to find that emotional connection.
02:56It does get to me sometimes.
02:58What kind of girls do you like, Jack?
03:01Strong, independent, outgoing women.
03:03Right.
03:04I don't care if she's short or tall.
03:06I do like lips and eyes, though.
03:07Lips and eyes do attract me, I can't lie.
03:09Enjoy it.
03:10I'll come around and check on you in a bit, okay?
03:11All righty.
03:12Shall I stand up?
03:15Oh, bro, I don't know.
03:20Hello.
03:2325-year-old Rochella works in communications,
03:26but can't seem to talk her way into a relationship.
03:30I have become the butt of the joke at the moment.
03:33I know that my friends love hearing about how bad my dates are,
03:36but it's getting to the point where it's like,
03:38this is just not funny anymore.
03:40You've got the biggest smile.
03:42Are you always like that?
03:42Are you just happy to see me?
03:43I'm just really happy to see you.
03:45Oh, that's very nice.
03:46Yeah.
03:47Oh, my days.
03:49So, have you been single for long?
03:50My whole life.
03:51I've never had a boyfriend, anything like that.
03:52Never had a boyfriend?
03:53No.
03:53It's not like I haven't dated or haven't had, like,
03:56a series of situationships, but that's not really what I want.
04:00I can't do another, like, Bumble match or Hinge match or Tinder.
04:04My, like, brain is just sick of them.
04:06I don't have the best luck.
04:07When I first meet people, I can be a bit shy and guarded,
04:10so I do think it takes me a little bit of time to warm up.
04:13Shall we go?
04:13Yeah.
04:15Here we go, here we go, here we go.
04:17Here we are.
04:18Hello.
04:19Nice to meet you.
04:19I'm Jack.
04:20Nice to meet you. I'm Rochella.
04:21Nice to meet you, Rochella.
04:22Sorry.
04:22How are you?
04:23It's all good.
04:24It's pretty hot in here.
04:25It is, isn't it?
04:26I was just thinking I might have to take this bad boy off.
04:29Hello.
04:29Can I get you a drink?
04:30Can I get a mojito?
04:31Yeah, of course.
04:32Sorry, should have asked what you were drinking.
04:34Can I match up?
04:34I'm on a non-alcoholic beers.
04:37Okay.
04:38Yeah.
04:39I mean, I have, obviously, I'm a bit nervous,
04:41so I've had a little sip already.
04:42A little sip.
04:43No need to be nervous.
04:44Yeah.
04:47What do you do for work, then?
04:49I'm in communications.
04:51Oh, yeah.
04:52What's that about?
04:52Everyone asks me that straight away,
04:54and I don't know how to give an answer,
04:55because it's literally everything, so...
04:57How about you? What do you do?
04:58Yeah, so I'm a salesman for life insurance.
05:02Oh.
05:03Yeah.
05:03As in, like, death.
05:04Yeah.
05:05Sorry, that's the first thing I jump to, and I think...
05:07Yeah, that is literally what I'm chatting about all day.
05:09Yeah.
05:09Just, like, death, funerals.
05:11Oh, hello.
05:12How are you?
05:13I'm all good.
05:13How are you feeling?
05:14Yeah, I'm better now.
05:15Yeah, I'm all good now.
05:16Or is it a smile just making you feel relaxed?
05:18I know.
05:19It's a lovely smile.
05:19You can't complain.
05:20Yes.
05:20We've delivered, right?
05:21Yes, you have.
05:23Are you ready to go to your table?
05:24Yes, sir.
05:25Okay.
05:25It's lovely.
05:25It's lovely.
05:26Happy days.
05:27I love a timid man.
05:29I think it's really cute.
05:30I really do.
05:30I love a timid man, but I don't know if I would want to date a timid man.
05:34I would probably out-talk him in every aspect.
05:38Have you ever been to, like, a proper fancy restaurant like this?
05:41No.
05:42Mine either.
05:43It's got a big-ass ceiling.
05:44Yeah.
05:46Wow.
05:49God, what have you done?
05:52This is stable manager Louise.
05:54Having recently turned 60, she's on the hunt for unbridled romance.
06:00I've always really been into animals all my life.
06:04i had a horse when i was a teenager when i was going through all my teenage dangst i just
06:10used
06:11to sit in my horse's stable and i think that magnetic connection with animals has always
06:16remained with me i just need to find a man that loves me as much as my horses do hello
06:22fred how
06:24are you i'm very good you're looking so chic it's like you're coming from paris thank you
06:30come from a farm i'm usually in wellies so what have your animals have you got land donkeys
06:36shetland ponies horses yeah so you can't meet any farmers like a jeremy clarkson type they go to you
06:43i can't meet anyone it's hard as you get older because i think sometimes you forget that you
06:48are actually older yourself when people turn up and they look very old you feel like oh is that
06:55really my date you've been doing much dating or no i've been having a break men broke my
07:02heart okay not tonight definitely not tonight i think my slogan for life is to be healthy happy
07:09and horny you're full of beans full of energy yeah i am this is good i want a best friend
07:16with nice kind generous values shall i get you a little drink oh yes please could i have a glass
07:23of champagne glass of champagne yeah i should have known yeah why did i ask someone that's got an
07:30adventurous side and energy to do stuff and has just got kind of a spirit about them
07:41louise's date is former windsurfing british number one simon he's hoping to ride a new wave of love
07:49i represent the great britain gbr team in 1988 olympic games in sol korea the opening ceremony
07:56closing ceremony it was unbelievable just going through the tunnel and then suddenly the cheer
08:00like a couple hundred thousand people in the crowd can still feel it on the back of my neck
08:04now it's like gives me tingles i'd love to have that feeling in a relationship olympic level love
08:11if not greater gold medal love how are you nice to meet you and you congratulations to your daughter
08:17by the way thank you very much yeah yeah because i was at 88 games were you what were you
08:22uh doing
08:23i mean surfing is such a cool sport so is it difficult to find women being a surf man come
08:29on
08:29i was married for a long while right so it came out of that dating scenes changed quite dramatically
08:35okay so um out of sync i learned to find my person i have not had that feeling in my
08:43life
08:43i've come close i thought i'd love somebody but it was one-sided i'll take you to your date she's
08:48already here oh okay it's 1482 sporty lady i want to find somebody for me this equal a partner in
08:54crime
08:55a friend someone you can laugh like enjoy life with there she is thank you hello
09:01i am nice to meet you i'm louise yeah simon thank you allie this is the menu thank you
09:10oh thank you very much enjoy it appreciate it i got you something there you are oh bless you
09:17so you can remember it i've actually got you something too but i i left it on code
09:28and i actually haven't looked at the menu because i'm starving yeah trust i was just thinking that
09:31we've been chatting but we aren't actually learning i didn't see that no of course you didn't
09:38to see um the table over there yeah is the most nervous data i have ever seen in this restaurant
09:45so this is going to be your table make sure you look after it for sure
09:49i'm kind of like drawn to the steak but i don't know if i've ever had a steak in my
09:53life before
09:53i mean we can start it now okay yeah see you see i'll get one as well
09:58hello in here if that's all right my pleasure do you want any uh recommendations at all you need
10:03some time i think we've decided on a steak okay great we're going medium rare as well medium rare
10:08fantastic i'm guessing you're not having wine um i'm okay so yeah great if you change your mind you
10:13know gorgeous thank you so much yeah it's like um um i don't drink anymore good for you do you
10:20smoke or something both kinds crack and cigarette no i'm joking i've got my pipe right
10:28yeah no that's because um basically a little trauma dump on you right now let's go yeah so
10:34basically i got diagnosed with epilepsy when i was 19. i went out with my mates i had a pretty
10:40heavy
10:40sesh and yeah i just drop that was bail out that's why i only drink this now i've sorry
10:47said no that's calm yeah after a pretty wild night out i was just waiting for the bus the next
10:54day and
10:54i just i dropped to the floor basically the thing is where epilepsy it doesn't mean anything the first
11:01time so i thought nothing of it and then i had another one after another night out and then i
11:05got
11:05tested basically and i got diagnosed with it it was pretty heartbreaking to be honest it was very sad
11:11because obviously i got to take medication for the rest of my life now and i used to be a
11:17really big
11:17drinker socially so i've had to stop that might be one of the reasons why i'm single as well to
11:22be fair
11:22i just can't make a move in public unless i'm plastered so that's kind of halted it
11:29it's tough at the start yeah because it's just like denying it but like now i've just come to
11:34terms with it you know yeah and i'm just chilling yeah yeah you're a good looking guy who's got a
11:40great sense of style yeah what are you getting nervous about i don't know i think it's just like
11:46the fear of rejection and just like having to be in the bar or pub with that girl for us
11:51tonight
11:51knowing she said no like that's just what runs through my mind do you do anything with like raise
11:55awareness or i'll post it on my instagram but that still takes a lot yeah to do that it's very
12:03what's this so to start we have a complimentary amuse boo amuse what it's a fancy word for starter
12:10cool thank you very much enjoy it in one or yeah straight in okay thank you i'm just gonna nab
12:17it in
12:41what are you doing million toasting i'm gonna set the whole house on fire
12:45yeah it's actually going aphrodisiac in it oh yeah so that's exciting in there whoa that's quite
12:53spicy like me that's just louise thank you very much louise thank you thank you how long have you
13:02been single way too long i mean yeah work and that type of stuff and just takes a
13:09just hold on doing that i think i question my ability to actually uh choose the right person
13:14so hence the reason why i'm here you were hoping people would choose for you so how old are you
13:20uh 58 are you oh god i'm not older than you no i am i turned 60 last year no
13:28way i know i had a real
13:30crisis about it as well because it feels so old and like i just thought i've not met anyone and
13:37then
13:37being single when you were 60 wasn't what i was imagining where my life was going to be
13:43yeah i thought sorry it gets emotional
13:51i thought that i was going to end up being on my own for the rest of my life and
13:56i couldn't understand why i had never met the right person
14:04and i just felt like all these social pressures of being 60 that i should start thinking about
14:12retiring that i should downsize from living on a farm and you shrink as you get older and i wasn't
14:20ready
14:20to shrink now you've been married yeah i've been married but that was a long time ago 20 years ago
14:29since i was married yeah for some reason it all came crashing in last year and i had a little
14:34bit
14:35of a breakdown i started having panic attacks and anxiety i hadn't got in touch with my inner
14:41vulnerabilities and understood that i was missing having a partner because i've been on my own for
14:48years you missed the company the companionship i'm really happy i love my life and i've got lots of
14:55great friends and family yeah but be nice to do something with someone and be able to plan things
15:02and stuff yeah definitely yeah i want this third act of my life to be the most exciting and and
15:10have a
15:10really great time and i want to share my life yesterday to a new life new chapter yeah
15:18you look beautiful oh thank you you look smart in your blue suit yeah thank you yeah
15:24this morning i woke up not feeling confident right and i did you ever do affirmations yeah i just
15:30have affirmations i put this 15-minute affirmation on saying you are brilliant you are confident you are
15:35special you are all these things that by the end of the 15 minute thing i was like oh damn
15:42these things
15:45i was going to do the exact same i have a habit where i have to eat chips in size
15:51order and in
15:54like the smallest of the biggest oh okay but it would be really insufferable to be everyone i've been
16:01on a date with is like when did you get diagnosed yeah what have your past relationships been like
16:09so my ex was four years ago now that was really it to be honest if you had any past
16:16relationships
16:16them i've never had a boyfriend before really yeah oh my god i think i missed like fun time for
16:23dating and i was thrown into it when it was like awful and shambolic as it is now and i
16:28just don't
16:28really enjoy it and i've never really met anyone that i want to be in a relationship with so
16:33i think i'm a very bottled up person and was really really really really shy as a kid
16:40i remember at school all the comments would be she doesn't talk to people
16:45i didn't really have many friends to hang out with so i would just always go to the library and
16:50just sit down and read books i never got that innocent kind of romance where someone fancies
16:58you in class as an adult here i never really got attention from guys it was always very negative so
17:05i'm like if anyone's giving me attention it must be for a bad reason or for a joke
17:12every time i'm on a date i'm just thinking what do they want from me rather than they want to
17:18be
17:18with me yeah i'm always like yeah i'm going to throw myself out there i'm going to date and then
17:23i'll be out there for like a minute and i don't want to be here anymore it's not fun just
17:28like sucks
17:30i feel like i'm a very trusting person so i don't want to just
17:34go to someone and be giving them all this love and affection and then have it thrown back in my
17:39face i don't want to be hurt basically and i think i'm very guarded damn your first ever state
17:45hmm see i have to leave that for last but now what you eat it in order yeah i eat
17:51in order oh you eat
17:52your chips first well i save my chips for the end the meat is like if i'm an animal in
17:58the world
17:58i want to like save that i love that this is scott hey costumier to the stars who loves a
18:14bit of
18:15dress up himself in his spare time he becomes the drag diva castor hex she is my gay suit of
18:25armor
18:25she is my stronger heart she's a time-traveling immortal sorceress who could snap her fingers and
18:34set someone on fire whereas me we will see how this goes i'm quite soft looking i'm quite
18:46unassuming i'm not physically very strong or powerful that's so stupid how are you not bad
18:54comment allez-vous very good nice to meet you scott you too tell me what you do for a living
18:58i work in
18:58costume for film and tv actually oh dear when i was little like i would draw dresses a bit of
19:04a
19:04nerd really yeah yeah so when was the last time you were in a relationship a couple of years ago
19:09it wasn't long summer fling kind of so why do you think you're sick of that's the million dollar
19:17question i think on paper i'm a catch i have a good job i love to cook i'm very doting
19:23there's
19:24lots about me that i think is great quite long that coat no worries thank you much i do want
19:31marriage
19:31and i would like kids that whole fairy tale why wouldn't you want to find magic and enchantment
19:57i'm a bit wild i would describe myself as a fire
20:08you have to be able to handle the heat can i just say this is the most runway walk are
20:15you always
20:15walking like that like you're on a runway maybe maybe you're looking fabulous give me a twirl
20:20wow that class are you excited yeah i come across as very loud and outgoing and out there and and
20:30i'll
20:31talk to anyone and very sociable but when it comes to boys that is very much not the case what
20:37violent
20:38to myself i've not always felt super super confident in how i look i remember moving to
20:46clapham and i was like wow i actually just look like a potato compared to all of other these men
20:50your date is here oh my gosh let's let's do it let's do it keep doing the runway walk i'll
20:57let you make
20:57your way hi hi are you all right i'm good thanks how are you george lovely to meet you
21:02your hug person hello hi i'm good i'm good i'm good sorry what was your name again george george george
21:15oh my god this is wild yeah it is a bit wild oh my gosh so yeah um how are
21:25you i'm good i'm i'm good
21:26i've been i've had a great day a lovely lovely morning yeah nice nice what do you like do for
21:33fun
21:33like have you got hobbies i love to learn languages what ones so i speak english french norwegian
21:46spanish serbian albanian
21:53italian german did i say german yeah no finnish
22:00english hungarian hindi and learning japanese could go to japan
22:07that's fast that's so cool you're a polyglot i think that's the word
22:11i guess so that's so cool
22:18how's it going you're right yeah good thank you how's your date a little bit of a connection oh
22:23we can laugh good luck yeah that's all you want in a relationship really no yeah yeah
22:28he's a really nice guy i'm not sure about the chemistry though like i really would love it to
22:34be good chemistry oh that's such a shame i know but i'm gonna work on it because he's a really
22:40lovely person i really like him and we're getting on really well anyway our best to go bye
22:49hey loves i have a little surprise for you on me i've got a cheesecake to share thank you so
22:54much
22:55i'll let you go first then no i'll let you go first we'll go at the same time get right
22:59into it
23:03we were just vibing the whole time which i really enjoyed personally
23:07lots of laughs going on yeah i'd say i fancy yeah i don't know i don't know i mean we
23:14were
23:14chatting loads but does that translate into ratings or not have we discussed what we'd like to do with
23:20the bill i mean we don't need to anyway no no no genuinely that's fine don't let any of that
23:26machine
23:26would you like to see each other again i'd say ladies first rock paper scissors is it fantastic
23:38perfect thank you very much thank you rock paper scissors shoot
23:44it's best of free time flies when you're having fun exactly
23:49yeah i'm done yeah yeah i'm i'm down to see you again yeah yeah happy days all right let's get
23:56out of
23:56it's good to do it was all 10 10s around for me yeah have a good evening yeah you bounced
24:04off me
24:04very well yeah and didn't get too weirded out you rolled with it really nicely yeah you're just like
24:09a really interesting person yeah oh thank you okay i'll take it back say our fancier yeah yeah that's
24:17all righty yeah happy days
24:21that's it hey pickle korean fried chicken yes thanks sir we got some champagne there's lots to
24:31celebrate yeah 100 percent breathing yeah so you've been busy oh yeah i'm always busy yeah
24:39well i live on a farm so i have horses and stuff yeah really yeah have you ever ridden a
24:44horse yeah when i was
24:45younger did you yeah but uh my passing sport was windsurfing what professionally yeah was it cool
24:52went to the olympic games did you my club that's so impressive i was sailing a lot when i was
25:01younger
25:01watched the games 84 saw the windsurfing like that self-taught and then went to the games in 88. that
25:09is
25:09a big achievement many moon ago now yeah growing up i had a bit of a broken uh family school
25:16bullying
25:17and that type of stuff i was put on uh like closed hooks punched as soon as i finished uh
25:23school went
25:23sailing windsurfing put my fear and anguish into sport as soon as i came out of school just jumped on
25:31a board and flicked around yeah bullying nearly broke me on a lot of aspects but uh it made me
25:38who i am
25:39and that's something that i am proud of what about yourself i've always been a bit sporty and
25:45like i've always been horsey and i like i can see that yeah i know you've got bigger guns than
25:50me
25:50i had to pop them up a bit my very toned flies from my house always riding
26:16it's great chemistry the eye connection they end up looking at each other i know and the way that
26:21they're sitting forwards yes like it's like they're interested in each other yeah yeah closer i think
26:27it's gonna go well so do i yeah you've got nice eyes you have great eyes thank you so much
26:46that language thing is honestly so bewitching to me i love this vote of confidence i love languages
26:51i do dip into latin that's really cool did you do that in school no mate i'm in essex okay
26:59not like
27:00glamour essex i'm from like slightly backwards homophobic kind of essex
27:08being gay where i'm from really wasn't great it's a little town and it's a retirement destination so
27:17there's some older values which are not the fun kind of older values a little anecdote i wore like
27:23a soft gray pink jumper and the f-slur got yelled at me from across the street as much as
27:30you like to
27:31think you're rock solid it does chip away at you so i think i'd develop a bit of an icy
27:36prickliness
27:37maybe that's why i'm single i don't know
27:41where are you based normally um so i live in clapham oh nice i've been there i've been i've been
27:46there a fair bit on a clapham night out i've performed that one oh my god yeah i do drag
27:54well
27:56that's like that's so cool side career kind of thing i suppose as scott i don't feel like i fit
28:02in with
28:03the world at large really but when you put on that inch of makeup and that wig and you tie
28:09the
28:09strings on that corset it transforms you in a way that you feel stronger what is your what's your
28:15drag name castahex castahex oh my gosh you're kind of like really witchy my character is kind of yeah
28:21witchy historical oh cool yeah so this is what i did last year a lot of pink butterflies fun that's
28:30supposed to be poisonous but i don't know if it's like the best i feel like my style is a
28:34bit wild
28:35it's important that someone has like substance a bit of ambition yeah i find ambition quite sexy
28:47what's the craziest thing you've done i've only died 11 times 11 times car boats planes gosh
28:56i've done uh stupid things have you yeah surfed on top of a roof holding onto a board strap doing
29:0370 mile an hour on a uh one of those buses dopamine junkie i thought windsurfing was on the sea
29:09yeah we
29:09have to get to the events oh my god you sound like james bond i haven't had a date like
29:16that with
29:17anyone not that i can actually remember she is a stunning lady how would you like to pee there you
29:24go he's
29:25being a gentleman i offered i did offer thank you very much as a chance of having a second date
29:31on a scale of one to ten i'd hope it'd be a nine ten i'm hoping i read the room
29:36right
29:40do you like to see you two again i'll let the lady go first
29:45i've had the best date and i i i did and i i don't think i've met anyone as warm
29:53and interesting
29:53as you for a really long time i don't know yet i felt really safe and like in a really
29:59good space
30:00with you so yeah i'm gonna do a selfie with you come here
30:05we can go this way wait i have to get my camera i felt the same i'd like to see
30:11you again even if
30:12it's just like having a friends and then see how it goes let's do that let's see each other's friends
30:18and see where it goes i like the way that you dress the carry yourself the hair the way that
30:26you look
30:26after yourself oh thanks you won't think so when i'm covered in mods
30:37so exciting i can't believe i'm actually sitting here
30:43part-time dj priscilla is looking for a plus one who can keep up with her on the dance floor
30:49oh god i could start a party in a paper bag come on paper bag let's start it off
30:58how are you nice to meet you i never met anybody called priscilla well there you go
31:02do you want my autograph yes i love that name what's your motto in life grab life by the short
31:09and curlies what do you mean you're short and curlies
31:15oh come with me i've always loved love and never is going to be somebody out there for me i
31:21mean
31:21what there's six billion is it in the world you know um you know there's going to be somebody out
31:26there how are you i'm good thank you how are you i'm very well you've got some interesting necklaces
31:32going on here so yes i've got rose quartz so that's that's crystal of myrrh oh is it the crystal
31:38of
31:38yeah love for me feels warm it's that warm comfortable feeling that safe feeling i'm here
31:48to find my forever man he needs to be ready for the party from the off maybe even before the
31:54off
31:54actually looking to dance his way into priscilla's heart is 50 year old raj
32:08father of three so you could say i'm a fun dad or funjabi whatever you want to call it yeah
32:17i grew up in the east then watching only fools and horses it's it's my happy place
32:24i love all of them you know like lovely jubbly christy morris too morris too bonnet the douche and
32:29all that how are you how are you doing i'm fine how are you yeah very good how's dating for
32:37you it's
32:37been stop start so i'm trying to get the momentum going again and i thought this would be a great
32:43way to start let's see how it goes i've been single probably coming up to about two and a bit
32:50years
32:50being in a relationship for i think 13 years so you're at the game for so long i think i've
32:55got a
32:55pretty established uh situation now and i i think i'm i'm a pretty decent version of myself that i can
33:02now
33:02put out there as it were shall i take you to go and meet her yes please come on thank
33:08you i guess
33:09i have that typeways beautiful eyes and a smile but for me it comes down to having a good heart
33:16hello hi hi yeah nice to meet you all right two kisses oh what's your name sorry priscilla hi i'm
33:25raj
33:26thank you this is a menu thank you oh wow there you are thank you very much you look lovely
33:33thank you
33:33very much so how are you feeling i think i'm okay i think i've got more nervous meeting fred
33:47hello how are you guys i'm good i'm good how are you very well thank you you're coming to take
33:51order
33:51i've come to do everything have you i assume you guys can you sing and dance for me then as
33:55well oh wow
33:56we do it together i'll follow you let's do it what's your normal go-to song strumming my pain with
34:02his fingers one time yeah why why why the lila oh sorry hello you okay when i was studying abroad
34:17i
34:17met loads of people from like from this like the balkan region okay okay and i got really really into
34:22the pop music from this region okay it's like a mixture of like middle eastern river rhythms like
34:28euro dance and gangster rap that's really funny i also weirdly am obsessed with eminem me and my
34:35brother used to do the ramps when we were young i love that um but i've not asked you what
34:39your star
34:39sign is taurus what are you aquarius aquarius okay that works as long as you're not on aries that's
34:46i always like the problem sign for you oh you always struggle with an aries for me it's gemini
34:53that's my there has been some some two-faced pictures some pretty interesting gemini men
35:00in my life okay not being clear about their feelings or like just being a bit weird just bad vibes
35:09in a group of friends there was a boy there was chemistry i really wanted the excitement like
35:17the things that you see in films it's like budding romance and i was like oh my gosh this is
35:22what it's
35:22like this is what it's like and it feels amazing he kept sort of like giving me just enough and
35:30then
35:31someone else came on the scene and then he started paying them a bit more attention i'm so over that
35:38like game playing it's not yeah we were out ice skating and it's really romantic there's loads of like
35:49fairy lights and stuff and they were like skating together having their film moment
36:07like the phrase men are trash is there for a reason isn't it yeah i've shut myself off
36:21and i think now i'm ready to sort of open myself up again and put myself out there
36:30how do you say men and men are trash in serbia that gave me um like eastern european mafia vibes
36:42that's in the best way that's very
36:51thank you so much
36:55so what do you do it's a boring profession i'm a qualified accountant so i don't know how to make
37:00it sound any more interesting without you falling in your coffee you know gosh like me then i've had
37:05the corporate side of things um but i'm also a part-time dj you're not we just took a left
37:13turn
37:14somewhere here how did you navigate that once like two ends of the spectrum right so i'm 54 now when
37:21i was
37:2137 i had heart attack oh damn i'd gone to bed and then all of a sudden i felt like
37:29a an ache in my
37:30head i felt this wave of heat rush all the way through me as well and i was thinking this
37:36doesn't
37:36feel right so i went to the hospital my left artery was a hundred percent blocked they couldn't believe
37:43that i'd survived for me it's like homing in on the silver lining rather than focusing on that cloud
37:53i'll get you yeah yeah for me that was my second chance at life i went through a huge healing
38:01journey
38:02i then learned to re-love myself again if you've come through anything you've survived for a reason
38:10and that's to live live your life and to love and to love yeah so yeah it's um i've got
38:21quite
38:21sort of a few facets to me if that makes sense so what do you want any music or 80s
38:28but the kind of
38:29like the the disco 80s if that makes sense you know i love having a good time if there was
38:35some sort
38:35of like soul motown disco that was happening down the road you know i'll be there surely that's not me
38:44i know what i like and if i go if i'm in a venue where i'm not feeling that music
38:48i'm not yeah not me
38:59that's feel nice oh yeah yeah are you a cauliflower fan i do love cauliflower actually
39:06i'm gonna try a bit yes please it's good thank you so much it's good how's everything going with
39:13the food dishes i'm struggling with this it just feels really chewy and uh and it was not really
39:19warm i'm only eating because i'm hungry so uh i can swap it for maybe a small piece of chicken
39:25or
39:25something absolutely thank you thank you thanks the problem is it came cold but again i gotta eat it
39:32i'm starving chef can i please have one book like korean fried chicken starter thank you so much
39:42so what what what is it that you look for i'm trying to get into a relationship now
39:48i'm a romantic right so i really want to be settled down you're an aries then aren't you yeah
39:53fire sign yeah okay i'm more guarded i'm not gonna be oh please marry me like that it's very
40:00right now are we i'm gonna be more do you crush yourself as a slow burner then i wasn't used
40:06to
40:06be like that but i i'm more conscious that i am now growing up watching bollywood romance those type
40:13of movies growing up and how they um kind of woo the lady there that never goes away
40:20how's the chicken much better you do eat chilis as well then my tolerance is not as good
40:27i want someone who's not given up on life like i'm 50 and i don't feel 50. i need someone
40:33who has
40:33the energy someone who can do a bit banter with me for me it's like the flavor after that you're
40:38just
40:38eating hot stuff with no flavor yeah and then if i haven't put any toilet roll in the freezer the
40:44next
40:44day i'm finished i'm doing handstands in the shower
40:52i would chase you but in the balkans it's unlucky to cheers with an empty glass
40:57like it's bad luck to give a purse without a coin in it
41:01you can't step over someone's legs or like you can't like and you can't sit like naked on the
41:05bathroom floor or you can't have like a one of these like wild superstitions i love it and like the
41:11ladder thing don't go under ladders that's just common sense they've got paint up there
41:15do you know what i mean
41:20oh my you're not gonna believe this so a new opportunity will present itself
41:28be ready to seize it mine says a love story is about to begin shut up
41:41i think it went okay i think i'm not 100 sure yet however when i opened my fortune cookie i
41:52couldn't
41:52believe what it said and then when his said a love story is about to begin i'm very much believing
41:58kind
41:58of like messages from the universe and i'm like thinking well maybe i i shouldn't really completely
42:04write it off how's it going you're okay how would you like to pay we don't just split up here
42:08in
42:08full up here and up here he's a gentleman it's all right he is very much so thank you very
42:15much
42:19yo
42:25would you guys like to see each other again i'm gonna say
42:27hey i've met a fantastic human being and a fantastic inspiring story uh but romantically i
42:34i can't see uh seeing you as a romantic ongoing situation for me i completely agree with what
42:42you're saying about the romantic spark not initially being there however i was willing to go on a second
42:51day oh really just to see outside of all of this just to see if there was something untapped here
42:59i just feel like you would run towards karaoke and that kind of music and i'm not
43:03really that's not my go-to yeah it is what it is but do you know what it's been a
43:08really lovely
43:08evening oh yeah what i want thank you no thank you as well all the best all right okay see
43:14you later
43:14like is there a karaoke song you can think of that describes this i will survive hey
43:29look at that woohoo look at the color cheers cheers
43:37a bit of ice just so i can hit my nose that's the worst isn't it choking a bunch of
43:41ice blocks
43:42just like the end of titanic i've never seen titanic that is that
43:51i don't understand i don't know i don't know why i've never seen it i just have
43:56sure how many drag queens have performed that terrible off-key like recorded version of my heart
44:01will go on i know how many people have done that bloody love that stupid recorders so funny
44:08oh i've had fun it's all great 100 it helps that you have great eyes thank you so much
44:14they're very expressive could be in silent movies maybe i was in the past
44:24would you like to see something again yeah yeah
44:28i mean if it works it works yeah five was five yeah it was fun i had a lot of
44:33fun
44:41it's been five years or so since i've been on a date with somebody i think sort of i was
44:48super
44:49nervous i was really like quite scared to put myself out there and thank you for creating like a wonderful
44:57space and making me feel like really at ease it was really nice oh that's really sweet oh great shoes
45:02by the way thank you i felt very not judged which is very important to me i'm glad so genuinely
45:08i really
45:08appreciate that you're really welcome thanks now would probably be a good little time for a quick picky
45:16yes
45:16i don't hate that