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00:02this is the first state's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:14is possible will you pique my interest there's two of them no nobody's losing their cool
00:22an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it the match made in heaven
00:33i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:40none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village all moth what
00:48what happens next is up to them would you like to see each other again romantically
01:10hello my love again yes it's doyle bringing so much sexy back it's a potential fire hazard
01:24this is going to sound very self-absorbed but i'm hot
01:37you drop two hot people in a place the temperature is going to increase so it's basically science
01:46so i'm gonna align my energies my chakras you know to make sure that i like embody the kind of
01:55person
01:55i want to be and i want to meet you never learn buddy huh
02:02we call it the humble doors mr you look familiar do i yeah well you do yeah thank you do
02:10i look
02:10familiar to you very familiar here we go now all right let's see you again
02:23oh yeah did you learn anything from the last time just be yourself smile like hopefully this time
02:31has something in store for you oh let's see now my new mantra is kind of like
02:37nothing is that serious mr doyle is back mr doyle's been jacking up has he yeah you know we try
02:44nice to see you but the family's back family is back how are you feeling really scared actually
02:50really more than the last time more than the last time which is really weird lewis beautiful boy
02:55beautiful skin love that really funny looked like a great match last time you know he got a boyfriend
03:02oh did he he did yeah harder than you i find that hard to find we love a happy ending
03:09but i am still
03:11single maybe someone slightly older not too old
03:21behold benicio an absolute stunner if you catch him on a good day some days i'm five sometimes some
03:29days i'm going i'm gonna be 10. i'll give myself a 10 because if i don't give myself a 10
03:33who give me
03:34a 10 and i need a 10. today i'm feeling 10.
03:44nobody thinks that i'm an affection person because i look very tough
03:49i look like a big mountain but inside like i'm just like a
03:52dedicated flower so mr and easier nice to meet you nice to meet you judging by the name brazilian
04:01yes sao paulo sao paulo good-looking fella it doesn't matter how you look if you look amazing
04:09if you don't have the confidence you don't look attractive and i think that's the most attractive
04:13thing no hello hello nice to meet you nice to meet you how are you hi i'm all right an
04:21easy
04:21yeah where are you from brazil doyle where are you from nigeria nigeria i'm 25 nigerian the name is
04:29very nigerian do you think and how important is that initial sexual attraction a hundred percent
04:36because if you don't if you don't have the sexual chemistry you just get a friend oh you're very
04:41pretty i think you're gorgeous too thank you yeah when someone is talking and i love what they're
04:46saying i just kind of move around like this i'm in a flow state i'm just enjoying what they're saying
04:52hi how are you i'm good thinking yourself you look well oh god you're matching tank tops galore here
05:00i'd love a bit of romance i'm a bit of a sock like you know flowers oh
05:08my time will come
05:12whatever happens next won't surprise bria she's already considered every possible outcome
05:20my physical comedy is going to peak i can see it already like oh there she comes i would have
05:28thought
05:28about like you know don't fall don't walk past the door that'll all go out my brain and i'll walk
05:33up
05:34oh it's heavy i definitely overthunk the situation already i'm so sorry i made so much noise there a
05:41second ago i didn't hear nothing what's your name lovely ria lovely thank you likewise a bit of leopard
05:48hoppa feisty the animal in me is coming out i i'm thinking like if i wear heels am i kind
05:55of limiting
05:56myself then because i'm tall and like what if i make it awkward then with the whole the fears in
06:01my
06:01eyes i won't let it get into my spirit you're good looking girl you had your dates before no you
06:06had
06:06your dates before so you know how to do this i'm good looking to me i think that's the main
06:10thing
06:11like i find myself attractive to myself i went and i did the camino last week try and find myself
06:19right
06:19oh you did it can mean that whole walk thing is it how was it i did the whole walk
06:22and i didn't find
06:23myself anywhere oh yeah i mean it's hard to find yourself walking i find i know i got the tattoo
06:29though
06:29oh did you show me tattoo look ah jesus it's tiny it's tiny i know i went with 50 women
06:37right yeah
06:3850 women 15 of us can't imagine tattoos oh wow
06:45everyone's type is tall dark and handsome like that's the easy answer to give but like there's
06:49always a bit of leeway there you'd like the height you'd like the handsome you'd also like the dark
06:53hair but like you'd take a ginger if you had to back home elliott struggles to express himself up here
07:04he's unleashed i think i was just i was doing things other things people wanted me to do so
07:09i want to find who i am i know it sounds a bit cringy but yeah i actually can't go
07:15i can't deal i can't breathe
07:18hello nice to meet you what's your name is anyway a little bit nervous a bit nervous yeah well you
07:23should be
07:24i love that i love that hey jacket you're dressed nicely thanks very much yeah yeah i wouldn't like
07:30to dress like amber that's actually i mean like i thought but then i'm like come up here and like
07:34you wouldn't stand out but you go home importantly should you think you're the king
07:38i'm bria nice to meet you i'm bria bria nice to meet you it's lovely to meet you are you
07:44nervous
07:44i'm so scared i'm so scared i'm here and eddie i think eddie is his name he brought me a
07:51pornstar
07:51martini now i have to say they're divine if you want to get a drink i actually wasn't going to
07:54get
07:55a pornstar martini honestly you're unreal where are you from elise what's your name uh vicarsand
08:00no i don't know that it's near stradley oh jesus we're very midlands people aren't we jesus
08:06do you know uh durable scully oh my god she's my cousin first cousin yes she's my first cousin
08:12i went and i did the camino with her there last week that's good like it's a very small world
08:19that's a very small world and do you live in vicarstown then yeah yeah yeah the chances of
08:23being related to someone from offaly is so high i live in dublin so i don't live in i know
08:29i don't
08:29live in offaly anymore jesus oh too good for offaly then no i don't think i'm too good for offaly
08:34you know i think it's just like there's nothing to do yeah i was so bored release is the exact
08:38same
08:39as soon as i lock eyes with someone like my brain and my mouth just disconnect and i'm just like
08:45blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah what do you think my name is eddie eddie oh you're spot
08:50on
08:50no it's not an eddie at all it's neil do you remember his name elliott well you can't forget that
08:59it's close to eddie so that's your second time in the show yeah it is yeah okay so and you're
09:07looking
09:07for love okay i feel so bad now that you know i've been on the show before i'm glad that
09:14you're black
09:14because i love black people hey like if i have to choose between 10 white guys and one black guy
09:21i
09:21would go for one black guy because i love black growing up in brazil brazil is like so racist and
09:29i always wanted to be white that was my dream growing up as a black person and a queer person
09:35in brazil was very hard all i knew was as like as a gay man was sex because we never
09:43experienced love
09:44like i've never seen like a couple when i was a kid now it's different because we have like people
09:49that
09:49represent ourselves like you know but like love was my mom and my dad when was all of this like
09:57process happening mentally was it happening in brazil when you were here it took me 34 years to love
10:02myself it was like only like two and a half years ago i was actually getting prepared to go to
10:09the gym
10:09and i stopped and didn't look at the mural and i felt something that i never felt before
10:15oh i just loved myself for the very first time after so many years of you know therapy and you
10:22know
10:22analysis i am very confident and i love myself that is so beautiful yeah but it's beautiful and sad at
10:29the same time 34 years love myself is too much yeah i get that moving on to the latter topics
10:35yeah what do
10:36you want to eat today okay so you have been here before so you tell me oh no don't put
10:41me on the spot like
10:42uh i'm in my clothes legs era so i'm very much more into like get to know me there's gonna
10:50church
10:51together you know i want to be quoted and i also want to court you know i also want people
10:55to feel
10:55special as you make me special the prime iris beef strip loin yeah yeah yeah because you're very beefy
11:03i'm obsessed with your the most i don't know what they are here uh shoulder muscles i'm trying to grow
11:08mine
11:09yeah no i was in a cruise last like two weeks ago and i haven't gone to the gym in
11:14a gay cruise yeah
11:15wow it took us from uh athens how long seven days seven days is a lot of days in gay
11:24world and before
11:25that i was in madrid for the gay pride oh so it's almost a month that i don't go to
11:30the gym and i'm
11:30eating like a pig so where am i going feeling a little lost james not to worry every journey has
11:42to start somewhere i got the door out hey yeah that's a good start nice to meet you mr james
11:48james
11:49nice to meet you how you keeping james not too bad not too bad i like barbara man i have
11:53same one at
11:54home yeah yeah it's a cool jacket yeah second hand i couldn't afford the full thing that's the job
11:58does the job i made new year's resolution to put myself out there more because i've never been a
12:02date apart from last year and by god i did hate so uh that's when i started like realizing what
12:08i
12:08liked and what i didn't like hi how are you yeah no i'm james james james just very quickly there's
12:13not enough room for two mustaches at the bar one of us has to go this bar isn't big enough
12:17for two
12:18okay okay i don't know i know how are you feeling too bad not too shabby alonso
12:24that's a new one i like that i like that okay you're set for the fire buddy all right xavi
12:30alonso see you soon if i need to be all and then i'll be is that i'm a bit mad
12:34in the sense like i'm just
12:35a bit a bit of crack and all this one i'm like i am but i'm also like i can
12:40be really serious all the
12:42say i'm like if i need to be where are you from uh my place called far just beside dundalk
12:48fart far harsh not far say that again far part far heart far heart okay okay so you're what you're
12:55in nordia are you no i'm on the south side okay i'm northern to you south to me i know
13:03you sound
13:03nor your accent is amazing thank you very much really nice appreciate that so what are you hoping
13:07for her this evening sabrina carfano my mom's delighted that i'm single well she did tell me
13:17to go on first date emma's ideal date long before she meets him she'll hear him
13:26i usually go for the loudest person in the room someone who's smiley outgoing well look at you huh
13:34you look lovely thanks damn girl you look lovely yeah thanks your name is emma beautiful emma so are
13:42you mateo well it's not about me it's about you today she's got a microphone in her hand covered in
13:47diamonds she has an espresso martini i mean what are the chances this happened he's going to be nervous
13:52when he sees you yes this is where he's going to be is he already over there yeah okay yeah
13:58well like
13:59going on a date in general is going outside your comfort zone never mind a blind date that's even
14:05scarier hello nice to meet you nice to meet you too i'm james emma emma nice to meet you nice
14:10to
14:10meet you emma you look stunning thank you wow you look like a classy lady well you said dress to
14:15impress
14:16yeah well i didn't of course i did yeah yeah i do love a mustache but only if you can
14:24rock it i think it
14:25shows that you're confident i guess what do you do anyway i'm in college yeah yeah i'm doing international
14:33commerce in ucd very good is that language as well yeah french that's class what are you doing yeah social
14:38care oh okay i'm such care worker so i work with children care at the mouth lovely yeah where are
14:43you
14:43from eh dundalk okay just a wee bit outside first thing i'd look at is actually what they're wearing
14:49you're gonna look at what someone's wearing and you can get a good depiction of them so i look at
14:53that
14:54and then you subconsciously make away this person's about x y or z you're nervous no not really not
15:02really no oh he was absolutely crapping it here i was actually crying just okay oh it is right so
15:08you know having one of us oh right fine here we go okay all right you guys do a great
15:13day folks yeah
15:14best of luck thank you very much so what do you do what's your job well i'm a social worker
15:24um my own kids like really that's so cool you think so that's so cool cook them dinner to clean
15:31the house like uh look after them the funniest job i've ever had like um i love working with the
15:35kids like so what do you want to end up doing like i want to be an educational psychologist like
15:40that's so cool the looks only gets them so far it does until they open their mouth and then you're
15:47like oh how is camino actually the camino oh my god yes i just already told you yeah yeah i
15:52just
15:52come up with that i know it's like i actually pre-stocked your instagram that'd be so weird
15:56that'd be so weird i was like i actually believed you i was like i don't even have instagram so
16:00i'm
16:00like what do you don't have instagram no no no that's a green flag oh is it yeah yeah that's
16:05oh yeah good it'll be so obvious that i can't see them like i'll be awkward like i won't make
16:10sense
16:10my sentences will not make sense on the camino we're gonna go we're walking i love the vitamins right 5k
16:19into the cafe coffee takeaway sangria dervla yes my joke so yeah yeah that's so i can't believe she's
16:27your cousin i know first first cousin was i like honestly like it's like you proper know each other
16:32like she lives literally across the road oh really yeah so if you get pissed i'll text her and be
16:37like
16:37by the way they're like i'm leaving your cousin at the door i was so afraid so like i was
16:52on tiktok
16:52this morning and like someone a gentleman in his 40s came up and he was like prepping for a flying
17:02date
17:02yeah and i literally was like what if that's it and then no like not in a bad way but
17:08i was kind
17:08of like right and he's prepared oh you're an ageist no i'm not an ageist if i do when you
17:13said when they
17:14were asking you like who are you looking for you like open anyone kind of yeah and not really i
17:19did
17:19say that as well i did say i wanted uh someone who could talk i'm glad sorry yeah i actually
17:25like i
17:26i do stop only when there's food in my mouth but in fairness a couple like they're best friends i
17:31always think like if you can spend all time together like uh it's pretty nice like one guy
17:38literally tried to enlist me into the army oh what he basically was like jesus you have a good bit
17:44of
17:44fitness on you now you'll be great in the army i was like huh and he started asking how much
17:47money i made
17:48and compared it to how much money he made and he had no accommodation to pay for or no food
17:52to pay for
17:52no gym today was he saying like he was going to go to lebanon or something he's like and you
17:56have
17:56great travel opportunities i was like yeah in the lebanon yeah yeah i was like pass hard pass
18:04will i get you another drink uh yeah i want to be fancy now because of that character in front
18:08of me
18:09mojito no can i get an old-fashioned old-fashioned you can please great choice thank you perfect no
18:15bother on the way for you i've actually never had one i just want to act fancy i've never had
18:19one in my life
18:19i just don't want to taste test yeah can i waste it for that yeah nice yeah is it spinach
18:24in it
18:26mint all right i'll just get my spinach in my drink it's nice hey it's elderflower and mint
18:33not spinach once again just no not no spinach in there no papa isn't there no spinach in there
18:39everyone in my family is like jesus do you know what it's james let him out it
18:44okay my parents are going to see me flirt and i don't flirt whatever way i do flirt they're going
18:50to see it my sister was like don't put out too big of an accent when you go on this
18:53thing oh what
18:54don't say hey and don't say bye and don't say aye and really hey bye yeah you can't say it
18:58off your accent's your accent i know you can't hide that i know i probably does it probably does amplify
19:03a wee bit when i'm a wee bit nervous oh nervous i'm not nervous nervous i'd say my accent is
19:10amplified
19:10if i'm like passionate about something you're like what are you passionate about so i don't know
19:15if i was like in an argument or like if i was getting like really into something i'd be like
19:19that is spinach that is spinach that's not spinach it's not it is it's not it should be if we're
19:26having a laugh that would be how you know that i'm having a good time showing a lot of interest
19:31in
19:31the things that they say or things that they're interested in but yeah i get it a lot in the
19:34coffee shop
19:35you've been like where are you from i've uh i've actually never drank coffee
19:42what i'm a hot chocolate and tea man okay tea yeah coffee never why what's the reasoning
19:50uh any reasoning just i just don't like the thought of it i have enough energy as it is i
19:55don't need
19:55coffee right you could have decaf no i just don't want it there's just something about it i okay i've
20:01said to multiple people i'll do everything i will do everything in life apart from two things
20:07let's take meth and drink coffee what you're that passionate about i'm not passionate about
20:12i will not drink coffee really no not a chance oh okay good for you yeah thank you stand by
20:18that
20:19thank you don't let people tell you what to do it's never right actually great though if you can have
20:23a laugh and like take the piss out of someone and they can they can give it back and they
20:27can take it
20:28i think that's great yeah okay hot chocolate is fine with all the shavings yeah marshmallows and cream
20:34everything myself yeah i deserve it yeah i like the people they're very nice like the brazilians you
20:45know they love party they like drinks they're very loud we love that being here in ireland it was life
20:53changing events because when i came here i couldn't speak english i didn't know anyone here so i had
20:59to start a new life and being in an environment that you cannot speak the language you don't feel
21:05the culture it's so hard and that makes me the person that i'm today did my irish citizenship in
21:13december i remember thinking i wasn't gonna cry but then i was at the ceremony she said something about
21:19how like oh we thank you for choosing ireland and then i said to myself oh my god i actually
21:25chose
21:25this country like i chose here to move actually ireland chose me it happened because i went to a fortune
21:32teller then she said that's me you you're gonna live abroad you're gonna live in a in a country that
21:38you've never been before and because i was very poor there was something that was like impossible for me
21:43and then at some point someone in the same company that i was working said they were coming to dublin
21:51and so i want to go as well and before i never heard about ireland before ireland wasn't like nowhere
21:58in the map and everything happened so to be here i i always felt home here always always and if
22:06you
22:06write my name back words and take e is oh singh is what oh c i'm amazed to be here
22:14i meant to be
22:15literally destiny destiny yeah definitely child i'm the old state
22:23is it taking you ages to eat this or is it just me also taking ages no i'm just taking
22:27ages because
22:28like i feel like conversation's flowing like we've way too much to talk about you see it's probably not
22:33the worst thing to complain about like it's like cue the 15 minutes of silence and it's just me going
22:39would be the worst thing ever like
22:44i didn't have a girlfriend until i was like 21 and i was in that relationship until the start of
22:49this
22:49year i've never been with that young i don't know i i just can't do it no i feel like
22:56there's something
22:56there stopping me as well like yeah like i'd be like a mommy do you know what i mean
23:05i literally would be like oh my god do you want me to butter your bread for your ham sandwiches
23:09even if like a month older like it's all in my little brain like yeah yeah oh no i'd be
23:14the same
23:14i won't go with a girl older me though because of that like because she'd be like mommy i won't
23:19be like
23:31oh my apologies interrupting uh chicken it's for me really winner chicken dinner thank you
23:45i'm gonna be really weird and put them to the opposite sides yeah i just did that oh did you
23:49yeah did you didn't cop it no i'm not left-handed though no this is classic you're the only person
23:55i've ever met that does that you're the only version yeah oh my god what the hell so why do
24:01you do that
24:02screw it i like it i suppose same but i'm like mad at my parents that they never corrected me
24:07because
24:07like it's seen as like not correct like it's not the right way to eat yeah can i pick up
24:13an extra
24:15where did i get this extra knife from oh that's party for the steak i have to cut the steak
24:19oh wow it is
24:20just always a magician yeah you're like great magic trick
24:28when was your last relationship uh relationship relationship relationship relationship you say
24:33relationship because uh situation was a year ago it just broke my heart what do you do it's very
24:40complicated it's gonna take three days six days ago it was a year ago a year ago he's not in
24:45ireland anymore
24:46now okay okay that's fair so no competition no competition i don't have many requests like you
24:53know it's just like free confident lovable funny beautiful inside and outside i think for me i like
25:04older guys i don't discriminate we love a good you know a good younger guy but i'm not into older
25:12guys
25:12i want to make sure at least we have chemistry and have a good laugh and get chat and everything
25:20else would be a plus my family is everything for me i love my family have you met any of
25:26your exes
25:27yes my ex-husband oh yeah i've been married i was married uh since 2016 until 2021.
25:37i was i'm separate for him like four years interesting concept how vulnerable does dating make
25:44you feel it's very vulnerable actually because you're opening yourself to someone that you don't know
25:49even though you're not going to tell your whole life you're just exposing some parts of your life
25:54that's you wouldn't but it's an exchange thing you know if you give you receive you know
26:00other situations for six years situation for six years is so long it should be a relationship it's
26:08called love baby is it i know right it's not it's not it's not so yeah six years i've
26:14five years and not defining what you have i know it's not love growing up game
26:22can be an extremely lonely experience he was black was in the closet i i really found myself respect
26:32last year and i was like this has to end yeah because i remember like when i met him i
26:36was what
26:37like 24 i was 23 and now i was 30 and we couldn't even say like i love you i
26:43i could say that i was
26:44saying it well whatever i would say he just look away i know i know yeah i do feel lonely
26:55quite a lot
26:55actually romantically yeah but like having some relationship or situation with someone in the
27:03closet it's never gonna work i thought i would be the one no you cannot change people yeah that's why
27:11i
27:11love when people are like themselves because that's so much power being new it's power
27:29anyone looking to get guard and nikki's motor running will need to obey the rules of the road
27:36my motorbike yeah that's very much my space my nobody can get through to me on the phone
27:46i'm very very independent i do find it hard probably to let people do stuff for me but you
27:52know just because i don't need somebody to do it doesn't mean i don't want somebody to look after me
27:56a little bit hey hi there how are you welcome welcome your name please nikki nikki where you come
28:01from cork oh cork lady a little bit a little bit a little bit you don't you don't you don't
28:07show
28:07them you don't you know no no you're okay till you make it yeah yeah i probably come across as
28:12more confident than i actually am yeah what would you like to know everything let's start from childhood
28:23so let's go oh jesus how long have you got yeah start with your hobbies what you like to do
28:29in your
28:29free time walk dogs uh ride my motorbike oh wow is that how you say it motorcycling or motor riding
28:37riding yeah yeah because we all think that we like about by don't we um i think i just somebody
28:47who
28:47groans me how old are you do you want me to ask you you are not just since february well
28:52jesus you
28:53look amazing i would never have said that in a million years wow jesus fair play to you it must
28:59be
28:59the motorbike you can take years off emmett's hoping the girl of his dreams will take him
29:07to a magical place wonderland he's smiling like a cheshire cat too
29:15hi that face your name please emmett emmett pleasure to have you emmett thank you you're a
29:21little bit nervous are you yeah a little bit of pleasure come on you good looking fella there is
29:25no problem with you come on man confidence that's all what you need just bring me there you know
29:32i know in within a couple of minutes like whether you're attracted to the person or there's
29:37some sort of connection kind of would you want someone that's from cork well i'd want someone
29:42that's not in donegal because i'm definitely not
29:47do you believe in love at first sight
29:50tell you later hi how are you how are things good thanks nicky it's nice to meet you emmett how
29:57are you
29:59how are you good would you like a drink bottle of heineken bottle of heineken absolutely where's
30:03you're acting from mullingar mullingar okay we're on the right side of the tracks no where are you from
30:10all right just discussing like if i was set up with somebody up north like that's a bit of a
30:15track yeah
30:16a bit of a track mullingar's not far no and you're probably going to leave it as well so most
30:22people
30:22are you know you know i think as i get older i get that i'm not everybody's cup of tea
30:30you know
30:32so i do um hsc care assistance oh very good intellectual disability yeah yeah what do you do
30:40okay oh lovely not the usual reaction lovely i do think some men are probably a little bit
30:50intimidated it's not funny anymore the first question they ask is did you bring your handcuffs
30:54and do you bring them everywhere so here we are
31:07i was planning to come in with a different outfit totally different from where did you choose this
31:13last minute i schedule outfits three months in advance i did a little you know check back when he
31:22was walking in because i just wanted to know and when i saw his arms i was like why is
31:27that me like i
31:27i felt like i was i was in back in time like watching myself walk walk into the restaurant everyone
31:34is so scared about turning 30 but i kid you not best thing to ever happen to me yes because
31:40now i think i'm
31:41much happier on my 30th than when i was because i know who i am he's quite chaotic like it's
31:48like
31:49chaos but it's a nice way i love that he's very confident the other days that you had was better
31:56than this i think there's a clear difference i think obviously you're older and he's younger
32:01so our day was more comical more humorous yeah i think with you our date is so much more revealing
32:08i think it's more deep good would you like to see each other again yes yes of course
32:17yeah we could definitely see each other again definitely that's a nice quick answer guys i like
32:23that i like that you're black first love that i like that you dress well we have good sense of
32:29profession i love that you're loyal to our friends i also love that he loves being gay yes
32:36a lot of gay guys actually don't
32:43all right so if you're happy to follow me
32:48what do you think you would do for a second date i'd say something active actually
32:54oh no no like that i meant like
33:01you have no rush i feel like us being like older we know that you don't rush things like that
33:08you
33:08let them kind of build naturally yeah oh i'm so excited let me open the door for you thank you
33:17let's see you guys see you guys see you guys did you go up in mollinger yeah just outside it
33:30worked with my dad at windows and doors nine or ten years okay i had a bike accident that kind
33:36of put me
33:36out of service for a while this is perfect here's the juicy stuff people who are there what kind of
33:44bikes are we talking about how about i move you to a table and then we'll get into the really
33:49juicy stuff
33:50before neil starts spilling any secrets i know yeah yeah yeah watch out for this one
33:57ideally if he was into bikes that would be involved there would be a motorbike right right so back to
34:02the bike accident yeah going out the road one day and just carpooled out and that was it lights out
34:11so i came two on the road but i don't remember anything bar waking up next day so broke me
34:17femur
34:17pelvis right wrist left shoulder so it was wheelchair so i had to move home then as well
34:24landed myself in a wheelchair for about four months had a lot of time to think about life and what
34:30i wanted to
34:31do so while before i kind of got up on one but yeah i have two now i have two
34:39now so i'm back into them like
34:41oh yeah yeah well i suppose it's like there's no kind of in between with them yeah yeah they're like
34:50to be
34:50they don't yeah what's your opinion on motorbikes yeah so i bought my first bike um last october yeah
35:02yeah yeah yeah um i said neil i went to um the tt last june yeah with a group of
35:08friends with my ex
35:08and when we came back from there i was like that's going to buy your bike i am buying a
35:12bike you know
35:13yeah it's different all right when you're over there like you understand the bravery of them
35:20yeah i'm going to the laman two weeks time yeah for the manx yeah yeah yeah yeah i think relationships
35:28probably flourish on trust i suppose obviously spending time together what sort of a bike did you
35:36buy you bought um 100 transit oh yeah yeah very good yeah there's no comparisons to like driving a bike
35:45and just having the wind yeah that kind of sense of freedom yeah yeah it's lovely yeah it really is
35:53well yeah no i like the coffee shop but yeah after college i don't know what i'm gonna do i
35:57found it
35:57really really good that you can speak irish yeah do you really good no i did my leaving certain irish
36:03that is yeah i went to an irish secondary school that's okay well i'm running a cafe in december oh
36:08really
36:10yeah but i don't understand the word of irish they speak
36:14their accents like i actually that's like whoa you should be asking questions and not just talking
36:22about yourself don't start showing me your camera roll
36:31oh that doesn't look like you at all
36:37oh this is an ssc arena in belfast wow and then ep last year
36:46there's the mary ball is that you yeah i love a crowdsour fight what the hell how do you get
36:52up
36:52there two big fellas and you'd be like let's get me off and they're like on our shoulders like no
36:57no
36:58so you go to the lads beside you catch me and you just have to trust in the people and
37:01you just go
37:02you go get me back i i love it there's a few jacks to me try it you know i
37:06keep it close to my chest
37:06when they need to come out they don't come out like they're fake flowers they're fake but smell it
37:12actually don't i do a big garden at home as well like like vegetables and flowers and stuff like
37:16like what have you got i've got like a little it's basically we're on the cabbage and carrots and uh
37:22i actually don't know why you didn't say it yet uh loads of stuff like obviously down my farm
37:26there's a little greenhouse like down there like and do you like cook them and all like yeah i love
37:30it
37:30i'd make like stews and stuff i'd love to be able to do that but like like i said we're
37:35not going to
37:35do it over here i suppose well that smells like shite i live with three guys which definitely doesn't
37:42help with looking for a partner because well they do everything but make me attracted to men to be
37:49honest or like our garden at home was a shithole right so i was like right lads having a house
37:54party
37:55middle of july i'm inviting my friends you can invite your friends leave it with them to do the
38:01garden put in four days they didn't stop drinking every evening i saw on a tiktok there the other day
38:07and it's kind of like um these men in my generation have been handed everything their whole life
38:13that they don't know what it's like to actually settle these starters or i think mains and desserts yeah
38:22just because my daughter told me i have to get the heart oh yeah definitely
38:26how many kids have you two okay two yeah uh so my daughter's 14 and my son is 12. oh
38:37lovely yeah
38:38yeah my son he is 11 going in 12 so they're teenagers and pre-teenagers so they don't really
38:46want to spend that much time with me anymore it's important if possible like to have
38:52not a relationship but like to communicate or to be able to communicate let's say you know it's
38:58heartbreaking because the only people we talk for are absolutely kids yeah 100 and like that like we
39:02didn't you know it was amicable especially it wasn't as if anybody did anything to i think i was
39:08probably very young getting into that um and i sort of matured out of it so how do you find
39:14in gart um i love it
39:20i actually do like it's never boring no there's no two days the same you know yeah and it's what
39:27i
39:28always wanted to do oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah how did you get into what you're doing now in
39:34the mix of
39:35you know different types relationships i guess i did have one pretty crappy one going back a few
39:40years ago yeah um yeah think of some of the worst things yeah yeah um but i don't regret any
39:48of it
39:48um i learned so much about myself from it i'm really i suppose geared towards growth at the
39:54moment and i'd like to meet somebody who also has that kind of mindset one of the lads at work
39:59that
40:00we mind didn't have a passport and was never on a holiday never out of the country we flew to
40:05the
40:05iron islands from connemara airport so kind of took pictures and sent them like an eight person
40:10playing so that worked well then we're like right next stop is spain and they had a ball
40:21to love them no it's a bit of culture yeah exactly yeah i literally i'll go 50 50. not a
40:34chance like oh yeah
40:35not a fucking chance joined by the whole thing no i know oh my god another bogger but like not
40:42another
40:42bogger but like another bogger like it was a looker wasn't he thank you very much gentlemen gentlemen of
40:50course of that i think i'm basing my stuff on like oh she likes me if she likes me i'm
40:54like
40:55if i would like to see her again but i'm like if she didn't like me i'm like oh you
40:58have jackets or
40:59coats or anything he had a jacket yes thanks very much very much bye see you now
41:12would you like to see each other again romantically i would i would i would i would
41:19be covered yeah i'd love to see her again yeah there's no point in doing the whole oh my god
41:25do you want to do it no i'd literally get sick i'd be like oh no because then it leaves
41:31too much
41:31anticipation yeah no i would yeah well like when i saw you first i was like oh my god he's
41:38cool and he's
41:38really good style right you started talking i was like oh he's a bogger as well i was like okay
41:43right
41:44uncomfortable like i was like i don't need to like start doubling to find myself not that i do but
41:49i do
41:53obviously she's pretty pretty good looking like um actually i never even thought about that did you
41:58i don't know uh well i don't
42:08and is there bikes in family no no no no no no no no no no have you her father
42:15would be
42:15disgusted if i buy her bike next year yeah i have a big family um okay i lost my mom
42:20when i was very
42:21young and when i was 12 so yeah um so my sister looked after us um and my dad he
42:29just wasn't around
42:30from when i was very young yeah geez my 19 year old sister had to step up and take us
42:38on my dad had
42:39been gone since since i was a baby and um he just yeah he didn't step up i guess
42:49and i suppose look if she wasn't there you know we'd have just been separated and put into care
42:54homes and and who knows but look i suppose that's probably why i chose the job i chose you know
43:03there
43:04wasn't too many people that we could have looked up to in that time you know who you are today
43:09100
43:10yeah that's the way i look at it you know what there's nothing we can't do anything about no where
43:15we
43:16come from like 100 definitely no so there was two girls three boys and then me so i suppose that's
43:24where my masculine energy comes from jenny it's funny because like last week i went off on the
43:29bike and i went down to um one of my favorite beaches in west cork and i sent my sister
43:33a picture
43:34and she was like oh looks fabulous i'd have gone and i sent a back picture of the bike and
43:37i was like
43:38no you wouldn't she was like no i wouldn't happy days to see you grand i brought the first one
43:43home
43:44okay and there was war barter went out with a shotgun i was gonna do a shoot about it oh
43:51yeah
43:51oh yeah you couldn't hold it back now shoot the fella who's sold it to you like no
44:01it's just the right thing to say i don't like strawberries are you having a laugh are you messing
44:07are you messing no you don't like strawberries no i really like you should have said that why
44:11i think we're both chatterboxes i think the time just flew like we were chatting away
44:21there's a mustache a bad thing or a good thing good thing good thing yeah oh yeah oh yeah i
44:25said i
44:26like oh yeah yeah yeah yeah she's gorgeous gorgeous girl i'm not really a picky eater but like i have
44:33notions what are the notions cabbage turnip get them away from my face no okay don't even love fish and
44:39beans get them away from my fish now i was gonna order fish it wasn't stick no fish and beans
44:43no like baked
44:46beans or any beans kidney beans all the beans kidney beans and a chili is nice though no would you
44:52ever
44:52spill them oh yeah but i wouldn't be eating the beans neither of us knew each other i don't think
45:03that's fair it's different if someone's like i'm gonna take you out but this is i would really like
45:07i would really like to pay for this meal and i'd appreciate it if you'd let me do so
45:11would you like to see each other again romantically ladies first i think we got on really well
45:19but i don't think it's there romantically i agree really okay okay great i was gonna say i got more
45:25drink later but i didn't think okay it was okay i'm glad you feel the same yeah great grand
45:33man came prepared he's insisting he was super chatty and i think he's a great guy and i think
45:39really funny and i loved all things he was saying but i don't think it was quite there for me
45:45don't look at our secret our secret messages
45:49prick
45:51he's gonna go crowd surfing with him i don't know i'll see you at the agro voice
45:57yeah an electric picnic see ya
46:07see ya
46:12hi
46:15grand how are you how's it going
46:17it's all chat anyway
46:19my thoughts was he's not my usual type
46:23yeah just gonna drop this on the table there for you i'll let you guys work it out
46:27not really my usual type no but um yeah he done good work
46:34he has a son who is um 11. um he's two motorbikes
46:42oh did you have much in common
46:47i'll get this oh for god's sake
46:50no just at least now that i've sat and chatted with him and relaxed a little bit yeah yeah
46:59so have you any plans for the rest of the evening no no all this time to myself pity i
47:04didn't bring the
47:04bike i give the whole evening free would you guys like to see each other again romantically
47:13i'm gonna let the lady answer first here we go
47:18i'm gonna say yeah yeah
47:21did you guys fancy each other yeah
47:25yeah perfect man has spoken absolutely don't argue
47:31calm seems genuine it's just yeah easy to talk to guys thank you so much
47:37thank you thank you
47:54yeah
47:57what would day two look like
48:00good about what it looks
48:04all right now baby it's all
48:09do it may continue possibly yeah
48:14christy did a good job
48:15good job
48:16good job
48:17good job