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00:02this is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:14is possible will you pique my interest there's two of them no nobody's losing their cool
00:22an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven
00:33I'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:40none of these data's know what to expect I'm in a village hall what what happens next
00:54is up to them would you like to see each other again romantically
01:00a successful career and an active lifestyle
01:21Makayla would appear to have it all the biggest misconception people have about me is about my
01:26shit together I do have that air of I know what I'm doing realistically I know as much as the
01:36next
01:36person I'm just bumping into walls ready for a bit of dating ready yeah no need for the small
01:44chat but let's go please follow me at the moment I don't date so much I'm making the most of
01:50being
01:50single while I can hey how are you know I'm great thank you fantastic thank you so much I keep
01:55very
01:55busy after work I love to train I do pole as a sport I'm really excited obviously that nervous
02:00fuck god what a lovely day so what else would you be doing fine I'm independent then it's like actually
02:07would be nice actually to have someone to enjoy this with me I always find that I go for men
02:11who
02:11were very good with their hands so they usually like have a background in trade or something like
02:15a man's man a man's man exactly a man's man hey okay meet Richie not just a man's man he's
02:28several
02:28men's man that's the sound of the men working on the chain I walk in a pharmaceutical plant it's kind
02:35of cool because what most of the lads walking there are kind of a bit older so it's like walking
02:39on a couple of dads yeah you've got crack with them things like they're almost trying to live
02:44their life through you so I was asking what you do with the weekend or this and that it is
02:4912 more
02:49shifts and it's a grueler but like you're all kind of in the shit together like they're great
02:54crack it doesn't really seem like walk to be honest where exactly your car yeah okay okay okay
03:00so I came up last night so you look great man you look relaxed cool man I'm looking forward to
03:04it
03:05do you want to get one first impression obviously so you want to make a good one
03:10yeah yeah you okay hi Richie how are you I know I wasn't sure how far where you're going there
03:15yeah what's your name Richie Richie lovely to meet you and Nicola Makayla Makayla oh yeah cool
03:25yeah where are you from I'm from Dublin originally just in century okay cool that
03:30what about you Cork yeah oh cool yeah I came up last night because I said I want to get
03:34myself settled
03:35and ready like and all that to have a wedding tomorrow so I'm like do I stay tonight I forget
03:39about carried away I'll stay overnight but I had seven weddings over the course of this year all the
03:44close friend group and all that it's like slowly running out so what do you do so I work in
03:48pharma
03:49you're a fireman you're a fireman you're a fireman you're a fireman
03:56fireman so like pharmaceutical fireman yes you get used to the accent after it
04:07heads up it's construction foreman James off-site but still focused on the big project
04:16I'm looking for my wife I was straight like I'm ready to find the girl for me now
04:22I do believe in everything happens for a reason and I believe in salmites and all that
04:28as soon as that guy walks through the door other now straight away
04:39I'm
04:39how are you bro I'm good James nice to meet you nice to meet you how you feeling buddy feeling
04:43good bro just can't wait to get into it now do you know what man looking forward to it yeah
04:47I've been
04:47waiting for it my fucking ages now so I just want to get I just want to get going now
04:50I'm
04:51playing for my auntie like you know what man yeah exactly I'm ready to go like you know man
04:54you have a spirit on you I have a vibe you know man it's all about fires brother you know
04:59it is all
04:59about vibes I'm grey crack I was straight like I am I'm grey crack should we get you to the
05:04bar
05:04let's go bro we'll do that yeah spirit buddy I walk into a room you hear me before you see
05:10me
05:10everyone knows I'm going on it so like it's the talk of the building sites around Dublin like everyone's
05:14talking now when you're going on four states me ma my family everyone the family group chat is
05:19huffing that don't be embarrassing me you heard me heard me I've raised you better
05:22let me mouth speak properly now of course and what are you hoping for
05:25apart from a good time ah bro I'm looking for love
05:32as she makes her way through the world faith is guided by a higher power
05:41definitely learned to always take my mama's advice when it comes to me
05:44mama said there'll be days she gets one sort of bad five there's no going back from that
05:51and I doesn't like it I can't like either
06:03hey everybody needs a bit of faith in their life
06:07you look lovely thanks I'm so nervous okay stay here for a minute with me so you have absolutely
06:12nothing to be worried about thank you when I force me someone I can tend to be like a little
06:16bit shy so
06:17I feel like they need to be not as shy as me to get it going what you do for
06:21living I'm a health care
06:22assistant cool my lady's also a nurse in the hospital really so I do the home nursing rewarding yeah it's
06:28such a rewarding job yeah has to be funny also just someone that's very chatty can have a laugh
06:35with bounce off each other should we do this let's go
06:43now james how's the crack
06:45what's up how are you you look gorgeous nice to meet you thank you nice to meet you good yeah
06:52you're from goblin i am i live around the corner
06:56fuck off yeah yeah whereabouts in east wall yeah yeah where are you from yourself
07:01from clindagan hi yeah would you like a drink
07:04savvy on blunt you'll be crying in about 10 minutes telling you i'll be loving you know like so
07:15don't be saying that he's only dying for you to do that
07:18so much
07:27you don't you don't seem nervous at all or anything were you kind of okay coming in i am nervous
07:31oh yeah well i mean i was really excited i wouldn't have known you're nervous okay yeah
07:36well thank you you didn't see nervous no i was yeah well at the start i mean yeah that was
07:40a
07:40shit show yeah what was that that's just me all up now to be fair oh is it really my
07:44skills on a date
07:45now would be rusty i was here modern dating is an absolute disaster the dating apps and stuff like that
07:52and like i'm not on them now for a long time what's the worst that can happen like oh so
07:56much can go
07:56wrong so nearly oh no it can get worse oh yeah i do want to kind of find
08:01someone as well so you have to kind of push yourself into an uncomfortable situations like
08:05like this so otherwise like you're just going to end up alone and what time is the train tomorrow
08:10if you to be there at 11. um i'll worry about that tomorrow i hope i'm a good date i
08:17haven't
08:17heard any reviews i haven't asked so what's the dating scene like for you have you been kind of
08:21going out a bit or um recently no actually no i used to like to date i used to have
08:25a lot more free
08:26time ago yeah yeah just i'm just busy i have hobbies i have a competition at the end of the
08:30year
08:30so i need to prepare for that as well and what are you training for i do you pole as
08:35a sport like a
08:36stationary pole like pole fitness like pole dancing oh yeah we do competitions we do photo shoots
08:41i like to say i do competitions i did a competition i won the lucrative certificate of participation
08:46do you live in cork then did you live in cork yeah i'm renting with me and my best mate
08:50and then
08:51another fella it was a year ahead of us in school and then just some random guy i got off
08:54daft daft
08:56good men on daft yeah because it was just like a room to rings yeah
09:05so i missed the joke no i said big men on daft oh yeah yeah yes cracking myself up here
09:10yeah straight over
09:21now here we go cheers cheers here we go how will we know if you fancy your date i'll be
09:29very obvious
09:30i'll just keep telling her she's gorgeous now i'll tell her out straight there'll be no hiding it
09:33and if i don't like her i won't be saying that so you can get the blatant taxi ready
09:38you're gorgeous i have to say you look fucking lethal i was like i was like oh yeah she's gorgeous
09:43like she's gorgeous like you know i'm like i'm just a lawyer from dublin i'm not being bad or i
09:47am
09:47what did you expect i didn't want any of from the country like oh okay they wouldn't know how to
09:52take me right do you know what i mean this is great they are very outgoing yeah i thought it
09:57was going
09:57for someone that's real quiet no no jesus no i've never actually been on a property my friends sent me
10:03up on tinder before but i had no idea how to use it i was out shopping right every morning
10:08i walked
10:08my mouth like oh that could be her that could be her and i was like oh my god stop
10:12me now my man wants
10:14a phone call or not yes yeah yeah my man wants to talk to you like so you know really
10:18hello hello
10:20what's the crack you already i'm good how are you guys doing i'm all good much better now as in
10:24after
10:24a drink or after arriving or i was about to say that i was walking over and i could see
10:34two of you
10:35smiling so it was like that's always a good start well this man would make an empty room smile
10:43what do you look for in a guy they have to be over six foot because i'm quite tall myself
10:48so over six foot definitely how tall are you actually
10:54six foot yeah yeah no i'll be honest with you right right i'm not actually six foot but i say
11:03i'm six
11:03foot you know what i mean i'm a little bit on that six foot right like a couple of male
11:07but
11:07i have a pair of shoes on don't worry i'm i'm six foot like all right what are you i'm
11:13five nine without
11:14heels five eleven yeah i felt a bit intimidated when you came over you gotta change your shoes for this
11:30so
11:30anyone dating linda should expect a little to and fro but they'll be all the richer for it well first
11:37of
11:37all i'm a cheap date
11:41i usually play table tennis with like one or two bottles of beer so that's like what five euro
11:53what's that nice to meet you your name my name is linda how are you doing mateo where come from
11:58linda berlin well pleasure to have you thank you so much you look lovely yeah thank you yeah i tried
12:03a
12:03little bit um i even put on the heel oh yeah i'm a quite bubbly outgoing person i tend to
12:10date more
12:11introverted guys because they kind of balance me out i have a dog and i'm besotted with most of my
12:17spare
12:17time i spend with the dog and then i also play volleyball a little bit and i got my finger
12:21fractured oh jesus oh my god i broke my finger while playing volleyball that was it painful it's um
12:30it's okay stuff like that can happen so i had like ligaments fractured fingers everything yeah that
12:35mach nix that's not yeah but that's is actually normal how can you speak how can you speak german
12:40i have no other job at this time 25 years ago so you your germans fluid i suppose yeah i
12:46used to
12:46no no i forgot 90 percent what are the curse words he definitely knows them i cannot
12:56martin is about to cross the line into the restaurant and out of his comfort zone this is totally brand
13:04new
13:04for me at the age of 51. so this is your first ever first date might be the last ones
13:09now we'll see
13:10we'll see how it comes off you know
13:17well mateo how are you your name martin mateo nice to meet you nice nice to meet you all right
13:21good yeah i like your outfit that thanks very much yeah i'm not very flirty i look at other people
13:27doing it you're gonna go oh yeah that's that's a good skill to have i don't have that facet
13:32all right linda thanks okay how you doing nice to meet you okay hello i'm linda nice to meet you
13:37nice to meet you good good martin hi nice to meet you linda linda how are you feeling um yeah
13:44it's a
13:44bit of a weird experience all right like you know at the moment it's kind of deer in the headlights
13:47kind
13:47of syndrome i have to put myself in the frame of mind look this is this is important you need
13:51to
13:51have your game face on i've got a 21 year old at home got a 20 20 21 yeah it's
13:57about an 18 year old who's
13:58finishes leaning so he's waiting for results and then i've got an eight year old oh he's a whirlwind
14:03my main life is just busy household as well as work so i'm looking for a person who has a
14:08busy life
14:09too how are we feeling good good yeah shake up all that nervous energy now it's all you know
14:15that's all gone are you nervous martin all right it's been a long while we're just gonna have a nice
14:20nice even have a nice evening and see what goes and stuff like that exactly yeah sure we're away now
14:23come martin cheers cheers thanks very much
14:26two hours two hours
14:27no wait hold on is that it's the outside in but that's so small
14:47no i don't know no i don't know that's how big it should be like a white flag you can
14:51raise them
14:52go wait what are you things yes yeah do i use the big one and a little one i have
14:56no idea
14:58which one is for the pasta you can't do anything wrong here right it's not that like you have to
15:05follow a certain way it's like no to call them and all that like no not at all getting all
15:10push
15:10brenda gibson now
15:15my last long-term proper relationship was about it sounds like two and a half years about this
15:19point what about you reminds me of five or six i'd say years oh years yeah okay i had one
15:25kind of
15:27serious relationship that was for four years so like we lived together in australia and stuff
15:31look things finished up over there and i came back on my own but i suppose that was the biggest
15:35moment
15:35in my life where i just thought like yeah look you need you need to just grow up now like
15:39you know you
15:40need you need to decide what you want from yourself i'd love to meet someone around that but i'm
15:43quite independent so maybe i think probably the same like that yeah yeah but obviously it would
15:48be nice to someone to step in as well at the same time so 100 you want someone that complements
15:52your
15:52life don't you yeah yeah and can add to it you know i'd love to find a best friend that
15:56i fancy
15:57like someone to wake up in the morning and be like wow i can't believe i get to spend my
16:02life
16:02with you this is brilliant if you bought it the same interest and you're never going to really learn
16:06it and it's going to be a bit boring whether it's you you could teach me something new that i'm
16:09not
16:10used there or try a new experience and i'm going to be excited to do that because it's something you
16:14enjoy you want to try pole dancing i don't have the car for that i need to go
16:24were you moved today i was only in nine till eleven so do you go around to the gaffes or
16:28do you do it in
16:29a homely around to the houses that's the job yeah that's the job ever yeah i absolutely love my job
16:35and
16:36my clients especially and all their stories about the olden days they've became more like family than
16:42clients i work in construction management as a sci-fi man i love it like i get out of bed
16:47like
16:47halfway in the morning like skip out of bed half six i'd go to bed yeah yeah yeah takes me
16:52a long
16:52time to get ready if i go on holidays with you like am i going to be sitting there yeah
16:56for hours
16:56like ah go out would you have a nap while i get ready i can't sleep before i have adhd
17:00so i'll be
17:02up the walls while you're getting ready get a shot of that hair dryer get a shot of that if
17:06i'm not
17:06busy i struggle with my mental health so i need to keep myself constantly busy so i was in therapy
17:13for
17:13a long time and i love me therapy yeah i love therapy as well yeah yeah i love it yeah
17:18just an hour of
17:20anything getting help was the best thing i've ever done i got diagnosed and now i can take tablets
17:24for idhd and it all just keeps me brain quiet i suffer a lot with anxiety i think tablets like
17:31temperature today normally that's something that i'd like wouldn't tell something about yeah proud of
17:36how you are yeah i would straight when we're getting deep deep like i feel like maybe a good boy
17:42up
17:42though because like i make you a little bit nuts yeah and then like you'll just kind of like sound
17:46very
17:47quiet i am out there as it is you take i am who i am at the end of the
17:52day i've had me battles with
17:53i've tried to contain it i can't stop it i embrace it i could have came in here now and
17:58just being real
17:59nice and real quiet one of those like another fella and then like the second day you're like
18:05are we going on the second day what are you going on
18:19is that where you're from is it right in the middle right wow i'm like from the previous soviet
18:24part in east berlin watch the wall coming down as well like that's fascinating people like kind of
18:28mocked us for like not having access to bananas and stuff but it was good like you know as a
18:34child
18:34you can't miss what you don't know i loved the unity um in how i grew up um that's probably
18:43partly
18:43because everyone was spying on each other i grew up in an 11 story house with like they had four
18:49flats
18:50on each level and and a great thing about it was that um there were kids on each level and
18:55we all used
18:56to play with each other had loving parents and i have an older sister that was really i am really
19:02close
19:02with still so it was a good childhood definitely we didn't have much in the 80s but it was a
19:06good
19:07life you have three children and do they all live with you at all we share custody so it's like
19:1350 50
19:14day yeah yeah so we got we got separated five years ago so we got a divorce there last month
19:19met my next partner at work when i was apprentice fell in love married kids um life kind of got
19:26very busy
19:2820 years kind of of marriage and it fell away then and basically common interests weren't so common
19:34then i thought once i got married like you know you get 2.4 children get the white picket fence
19:38in
19:38labrador that's it job done box upon the shelf work on i didn't respect that the marriage kind of
19:43needed constant work like you know i was totally self-centered on on work and providing i was working
19:48two jobs the kids were young i was constantly providing but like i didn't i didn't see them grow up
19:52but my core value is now to kind of check in with the kids make sure they're working fine make
19:57sure
19:57everything's going on with them fine as well like you know i have the children uh saturday sunday monday
20:02and tuesday so then when wednesday thursday friday kick in the house is empty i haven't dated now in what
20:10four god six seven years and now you are here so yeah i know yeah i know no that's amazing
20:16putting
20:17yourself out there gotta get out of the comfort zone uncomfortable here yeah i feel you
20:29once upon a time in mexico it's so long to see the world but then she found herself here
20:37i was very shy growing up but then i realized that i was missing out on a lot that's when
20:47i started
20:48to travel and then i started to become more comfortable in my own self when you feel comfortable
20:53in your own self you like yourself you want to share who you are with other people welcome well look
21:00at you thank you thank you girl i've seen your boots huh oh yeah yeah i'm from the north of
21:06mexico
21:07my cowboy boots they are part of me uh growing up my parents they used to own kettle and and
21:14horses
21:15so we used to go horse riding every single weekend and what brought you to ireland a relationship that
21:22didn't work out but now i'm here have you dated anyone since no no okay so you're really putting
21:31yourself out there um here on my own with my cat now i'm just trying to integrate myself into like
21:39the
21:39romantic life again what's your normal type hot tall okay i would like to meet like a soft kind
21:48personality gentle i meant to like you know like that like irish type that is like brown hair like blue
21:55eyes someone that appreciates small things i just appreciate the beauty of being alive
22:03with kira there's so much to appreciate maybe too much i could probably do a bit more social anxiety
22:12because like i just don't care i knew i was going to do that everybody does the same i've been
22:23single
22:23like a year and a half and i just feel like i'm ready to put myself out there again and
22:27start dating how
22:28do you feel good i'm looking forward to just getting stuck in now do you know what i mean
22:33a bit apprehensive but i also like doing things for the plot and just thought it would be a good
22:37story
22:37hey hello lovely to meet you sorry what's your name kira kira nice to meet you kira there is it's
22:47l
22:47it's l oh yeah yeah where are you from calcani i'm living in dublin at the moment i've been here
22:54for
22:54nearly a year how about yourself i am from mexico oh yeah are you living in dublin yes right now
23:01i'm
23:01child-minding like and i do like tours with do you know like those groups of italians are like 15
23:09year olds and they're going around town well i have to mind them hey how are you good you both
23:15hit the
23:16jackpot i think here huh you're very well nice enjoy it lovely thank you oh how cute will we just
23:26go
23:27right down the middle yeah do it oh it's actually quite soft go on these we are years at this
23:34look how
23:35are you married how would you make it known that you fancy someone i think i can't take this part
23:42you can tell by someone's eyes and if they're into you or you're into them you know because you might
23:47be catch yourself staring for a second you're like jesus christ cougar cool here i want you know
23:51i have a bird back there yeah oh i just seniors i was in the wars all right the kind
23:56of a mark here
23:58i was trying to kick a ball when i was younger and i fell along the red parents had to
24:02bring me to
24:03any burst open jesus but then in my 20s out on the night out i went to go open the
24:08door and when
24:08the lads kicked it swung shot bang split my eyebrow so all here yeah all this side of the head
24:14is not
24:14a good area for me oh my god how about you indoors actually i broke my neck last year when
24:20i was bull
24:21dancing oh i wasn't expecting to say that yeah one day i went into it's called a shoulder mount
24:28not a hard move it's one of the basic moves i do it all the time i do it now
24:31and i just went up and
24:34i came straight down when i got the hospital i got all my scans and everything it was absolutely
24:38terrifying i was so scared i was so so scared but luckily i didn't have any paralysis it was fixable
24:47i was out of work for about six months i couldn't train for like a year yeah you did get
24:53back on the pole
24:54100 percent yeah first thing i did was a shoulder mount get on that horse i actually have a broken
24:59toe at the moment oh really yeah i see why they paired us up there too close to liabilities there
25:05yeah
25:08so when you ever had one relationship i was 16 until i was 18. i'm at 20. i was in
25:16a seven year
25:16relationship oh fourth day until 21 22. i feel like the whole time i was in that relationship i was
25:23still
25:2315. and since the breakup i feel like i've only grown up i am a soft as fuck i love
25:30love i'm mad about
25:32so do i the next girl i'm getting with is the girl i plan on being with forever like i'm
25:37not doing
25:37this whole situationships i'm not doing the same people i'm not getting my award unless i'm marrying her
25:43just letting you know
25:45right
25:47why am i quick now we could be married in two years like oh things going well married and three
25:51kids
25:53do you want to get married yeah yeah definitely want to get married that's good
25:58definitely want to have loads of kids i'm white to have kids i have a timeline when i'm having kids
26:04what's that mean well i have endometriosis you've probably never heard it before so it's like
26:09basically a thing where it affects you having children why i start experiencing very bad pain
26:15in my early teens and i was in the hospital for years on end and they didn't know what was
26:20going
26:20on they told me it was all in my head and sent me home at 16 i was diagnosed and
26:26then at 18 i had
26:27my fourth surgery which needs to happen a lot for it to actually stay at bay knowing that i wanted
26:34kids
26:35knowing that that can affect it was hard for me but i've gotten to accept that yeah this is going
26:42to be the way it is 25 26 is probably the age where it'll be harder no it'll be much
26:50harder to happen
26:51so i don't want to get busy sound like is it come on we just like it will you
26:57do you want to get going are you nervous i am a bit nervous yeah i am i feel like
27:05it takes a bit
27:06of time to like you know get to know someone and chat away physically i don't really have a type
27:12but i
27:13guess a nice smile is something i really like nice hair but yeah overall i think personality is is more
27:21important to me i'm in the border i'm in juarez like it's like next to el paso texas what is
27:26texas
27:27like i would say like texas it's mexico texas was mexico so yeah in my brain it's like we won't
27:32get
27:32into colonization in the best oh yeah i have a native american heritage uh through my dad he's a 80
27:43percent chiricawa there's this whole little story that we come from a reservation in texas
27:49and then we were running away uh in the 1800s we ended up in chihuahua and we had to change
27:56our name
27:56do you go to texas much i would go every single weekend to visit my auntie in el paso oh
28:01no wow
28:02i have like a border crossing visa i have a permit to go there and i usually fly through the
28:10united
28:10states to get to my city like i just have to cross the border and now i'm like should i
28:15go through the
28:16united states like are they going to look through my phone are they going to see them for a policy
28:21yeah are you into politics ah everything it's political everything is political every single
28:29thing it's political i actually i did my undergrad in political science and then i did a master's in
28:35public health which i loved like i really wanted to go i was going to do a phd girl
28:41yeah i love that i love you educated i know i would have loved to gone into that kind of
28:47sphere
28:47and make a difference but i'm in tech sales now so your soul soul my soul but i'm involved in
28:58like
28:58other aspects in the company like i run their pride and employment resource group so i feel like that
29:04kind of feeds my soul i would love to be in that that sector maybe further down the line but
29:10i definitely
29:10um enjoy doing it on the side and something i'm very passionate about yesterday i was at the botanic
29:16gardens and we were looking at the squirrels and i was telling the kids like those gray squirrels are
29:22colonizer squirrels the redhead squirrels like they they were killed by them just bringing it back to
29:28what you're saying like everything's political you know everything is political yeah it is
29:35i just see the sun outside they got right on the bike so they should be right on the bike
29:38and that's it
29:39in the back in so when you say mountain biking is that then this what's it called like when you're
29:44in the woods and then yeah that's it yeah trails yeah all trails yeah yeah yeah no i love that
29:48yeah
29:48that's amazing has that not hurt on your bump you need to have a really good well you probably do
29:53yeah
29:54do you get chatted up at all no but i don't get out much i know i get out like
30:01i do mountain biking
30:01myself and i go up the mountain for two or three hours and stuff like that and you might meet
30:05the odd sheep
30:06that's about it you know the reservoir lake in boherna bring it i do so that's what i do out
30:12there
30:13yeah the whole loop that's what i do once a weekend so i bring my dog to that and it's
30:18like that's like
30:19five minutes from my house oh wow yeah and then you kind of drive into that scenery yeah i have
30:25to pinch
30:25myself sometimes and i'm like i live like that like this is so amazing dating over here is a little
30:31bit
30:31different than at home in germany um you know as germans we tend to be quite forward and and direct
30:39also in germany you'd usually split the bill so i ended up kind of having arguments then with the
30:44dates i take these plates out the way for you are you finished perfect yes do you enjoy it yeah
30:49all right outside in or inside out what do you start outside in small forks for the starters yeah but
30:55the small forks out for the starters yeah because i took the bigger ones over okay because we didn't
31:01have a starter yeah so what i should have done really is taking away the small ones because that
31:06was the first planet connection all right okay we'll look like idiots here
31:14i'd love to own my own restaurant as well oh yeah yeah that's my long-term dream the old kind
31:19of
31:19berlin style and then have that kind of really good music in the background yeah yeah i like that
31:23that's that nice vibe yeah you want to invest it's made the figure i enjoyed myself yeah she was
31:29stunning i think there was a little respect there yeah so she might be able to show me around dublin
31:33later and we'll see yeah i never really come to dublin unless it's like there's a gig on or like
31:38the
31:38i'll take my go to the v for my dad to watch a match oh like i wouldn't have any
31:41at the moment have
31:43any reason to go up to dublin yeah there you do yeah
31:53would you like to see each other again romantically
31:58do you want to go first there i can go first i i'd like to see you again
32:03yeah no i would yeah definitely i had a good time so definitely yeah a lovely time
32:07very relaxed very chill yeah easy go lovely to look at yeah yeah oh jesus here we go i'd have
32:12to take a
32:13confident obviously you're gorgeous too yeah two yeah no i had a good time yeah
32:20i thought he was absolutely lovely looking and i kind of could tell straight off the bat that we're
32:24gonna have a nice time together she kind of ticked all those boxes definitely so i knew that maybe
32:29within the first 30 seconds so what do you think plans are for the rest of the day then we
32:34go for
32:35drinking i suppose yeah and home turf i'll look after you yeah get you on that train yeah we'll see
32:40you
32:50i've never known me that really yeah my man had me when she was 19 on her 19th birthday my
32:56mom is like oh my best friend i love that i was great growing up having a young man like
33:00since i got older she's more like me sister and my best friend and your mom's young in it
33:05me matt is 39 oh my mom's gonna be feeling really um because you're my mom's what's out there
33:10no sorry ma how old's your mom 56 my nanny's around that age free is gonna be feeling
33:20me and my mom lived in my nanny's house up until i was like 10
33:23my nanny tells me to stay single until i find someone who'll treat me the way she treats me
33:29my nanny is my best friend hold on is your mom your best friend like a nanny
33:33both of them if one of them doesn't approve you it's like i'm very lucky though
33:37i'm a bit of a charmer you know what i mean i can play the game with them
33:48my mom is going to ring her in a minute i'm going to say what's up to her
33:53your mom is not mad about you is she what you know like a mommy's fighter like that
33:57my son my son yeah i don't know what
34:00you're going to talk for in a few minutes yeah i have to you have to talk
34:04oh my it's okay you didn't have that tongue that out your mouth
34:30with the kids and to work and stuff like that my life is busy you know so if i involve
34:34someone
34:34else who's the puzzle i want to be able to have someone that's kind of that i respect and respect
34:38my time you know that's that's where i told you from you know i just have one child with just
34:42my
34:42dog so you gotta respect that welcome yeah only that i'm fully settled in my life so i'm looking
34:50for a connection that is really convincing so you kind of make space for that other person in my 20s
34:5530s i was always looking for my place and now i feel like i found it like i live in
35:02this cute little
35:03house on the outskirts of dublin it's like living wise i finally feel like i have arrived yes what's
35:08the next phase for you then um have you thought about that i'm sorry that's that's going i don't
35:25whatever i put into a relationship now would be lessons i've learned from the past i'm not the
35:30same kind of guy who was five years ago i'm more independent more stronger i have an older sister
35:34she has two boys they are nine and twelve love them to death absolutely but her whole life evolves
35:40around the children there's literally no time for her no time to go to the hairdresser do her nails
35:44nothing yeah it doesn't look like an attractive way of life it's still
35:52you really gotta want it oh i know that too yeah if there's no going back once you go down
35:57that route
35:57there's no going you can't shove it back in maybe i'm not sure if i'm really into
36:09i think i'm happy with the dog
36:19can you cook no oh my bollocks well actually you're not cute no i'd fucking bone water no my
36:26man's great though my man has me dinner on the table every time i'm home that's like mine is there
36:29you
36:30love just makes a fair proper i mean that's what i want i want the reason
36:34to go home and be happy when they say oh will you work late tonight i'm so i'm like no
36:39i'm going
36:39out of my wardrobe do you drive no no not at the minute you live in town or so it's
36:44grand but you're
36:45living in some darkens a bit like yeah why work in town so we're grand i'll just come over like
36:49what's
36:49up after work you know i was here nannies for dinner she can cook me dinner i think love is
36:55having
36:55someone that you can feel safe and content with someone that you can just start your own life with and
37:02your own family with four people you have to impress before i can say it my mom my nanny
37:07alex my best friend and me andy when are we meeting them well give them a ring there we'll meet
37:11them
37:11somewhere now we get to get it all out of the book away like i'm gonna be traveling to the
37:16deep end here
37:16like you know man i've been single like a year and a half and i was seeing a girl for
37:27a while
37:27maybe a year ago and then i just kind of realized i just wasn't ready today and as you know
37:32like
37:33lesbians move very quickly so yeah they do okay are you bi or are you a lesbian i'm bi yeah
37:39i'm like you perfect throughout my whole date in history and definitely now i'm very avoidant
37:46like it definitely takes me a while to get that level of giddiness and love when did you come to
37:53ireland then ah two years ago i was solo traveling met a guy so i came to ireland on and
38:00off like for
38:01that they were irish for that oh they were irish and where were you living that uh in mexico yeah
38:07yeah i had like a full-on like engineer job put my career on pause think the thing that i
38:12shouldn't have done and then i moved into ireland like uh full-time six months ago and then like
38:19the relationship didn't work out so i just like moved in on my own like did my own things it's
38:26a bit
38:26crazy how like uh he went to mexico four times to visit me within a year then i came here
38:33and then
38:33like within months like that it was like okay but you fell in love with ireland oh i fell in
38:39love with
38:40ireland like oh my god when you've been through a relationship and then you break up there is a gap
38:46that you have to go out there and find yourself and you feel lonely but then when you find yourself
38:53again having fun and being happy doing you then you don't feel sad and lonely what would you be
39:00into like girls i don't overly have any physical preferences i said a nice smile but she definitely
39:06have gorgeous teeth so that was a beauty type i said like brown hair i mean blue oceany
39:22so he's very kind he's very friendly he lives in carlingford yeah i enjoyed it i enjoyed the company
39:29as well this is good cool as soon as i've seen you chatting this is going well yeah there's like
39:35there's no quiet moments into mountain biking and he's also loving his freedom and stuff and it's
39:41it's just it's just not my time i hope it's not going to be awkward later on you know when
39:49we do
39:50like do you want to see each other romantically again uh maybe just be like oh he was super nice
39:55and everything but no spark can i say that that's a fair thing to do now you know no if
40:08he wants to pay
40:09then it's really outgoing so i'm so glad because if it was really quiet i'd be like
40:27it's going well but i can tell that it's like a like it's slowly building up i do feel like
40:32we're
40:33both like slow like we're both like girlies like feminine energy so we have to take our little time
40:41i'm down for it i like it we're very like similar like beliefs wise and morals nice like i know
40:50we
40:50probably shouldn't be talking politics on the first date but we are well if it's working that's grand
40:55i wouldn't be with someone who's kind of my values and morals weren't like similar i think you're right
41:00you know because your values affect everything yeah what do you think makes for a good relationship
41:07i think it's just when the two individuals can completely be themselves when they just have a
41:14happiness aura to them i love like going getting a coffee in a coffee shop before work reading my book
41:23are you a reader yeah i read at night before i go to bed choosing every single day to love
41:31that person
41:31uh choosing every single day to stay there yeah so that's what my sister's hat looks like he's an
41:38angel he's an angel so mesmerizing aren't they how old is he she 12 oh oh i got him when
41:46i was 15.
41:47i brought him to ireland with me like how could i not no they're such a huge comfort they're the
41:54best
41:54friend yeah thank you oh we've come to the end i'm so sorry yeah can we split can we split
42:11the bill
42:13i'm gonna pay for all of it all right all right all right yeah i'd rather do that you know
42:22my irish friend told me not to are you don't yeah because it just ends up being desperate you know
42:28that's it you're very welcome no problem at all no problem at all
42:38so would you guys like to see each other romantically again um i thought you were
42:44definitely engaging very attractive um totally respectful and great company i just kind of
42:50values kind of more or less didn't align i think it was a very nice evening i'm so i would
42:56love to
42:56kind of get to know you better on a friendship level if that's all right yeah felt the same kind
43:02of yeah yeah that's the same beautiful lady wouldn't fault anything about her but lena's coming from
43:07background with no children i'm coming from record with children so values differ totally enjoyed the
43:12experience and time went by so quickly as well if you're ever going to allow this just look us up
43:17oh
43:17for sure that's about it and mountain biking without like my bum hurting on that saddle yeah
43:23yeah with my dog in the rucksack sticking out we can deal with that
43:29have a good night take good care
43:40hello i'm still on the day here hey do you want to say hello yeah i'm on the day here
43:44and he wants to
43:44speak to you he wants to speak to you while i'm speaking to his mom his name is james here
43:53you go
43:55he wants to crack how are you oh yeah yeah all right what's your name yeah your son's a lovely
44:03umph
44:03your daughter is gorgeous isn't she yeah what's your name
44:09he's told me so much about you bleeding outside is what we're going to do which is like do you
44:13know
44:13I live in East Wall, so I live close to here where we are.
44:16Yeah, we're still on a new.
44:18I'll be all over the camera.
44:19I know, you're going to get you a few seconds of fame, yeah.
44:24We're getting on great, he's a real outgoing person, isn't he?
44:27Right, listen, I'll talk to you in a while, right?
44:29Yeah, I'll see you soon.
44:31Nice talking to you too.
44:33Okay, bye.
44:34Bye, bye, bye.
44:37My mask got a bit light.
44:39That's right, I'll get you a few seconds of fame.
44:46Is this chocolate?
44:48What did I even order again?
44:49Ah, Sherlock.
44:51I love that you say Sherlock.
44:54Like Sherlock, like that's so Irish.
44:56You can see why you put us together.
44:58Like we definitely agreed a lot on like morals and values.
45:02My undergrad and college, I kind of focus on like women in politics.
45:06We have the first female Mexican president in Mexico.
45:09Amazing.
45:09And she's amazing.
45:10And we just connected in life, literature, like political stance.
45:17There's this like quote by like Scott Fitzgerald.
45:21Sorry to interrupt.
45:22I'm going to drop this.
45:23That's all right.
45:24I feel like I think we could just still be yapping away.
45:30Do you want me together?
45:31No, let's get happy.
45:32Yeah?
45:33Yeah, yeah, yeah.
45:33Perfect.
45:34Would you like to see each other again romantically?
45:39Yeah, I would.
45:40Would you?
45:41I would too.
45:42Yeah.
45:43You were there first and I was like, thank you for that.
45:48I want to get to know you more, of course.
45:51Yeah, for sure.
45:51You're very interesting.
45:52You're very talented.
45:53You're very pretty.
45:54Yeah.
45:54So are you.
45:56You guys fancy each other.
45:58Yeah.
45:58Yeah.
46:02What's the second date?
46:04Oh, I said like clothes and then like a spice bag and like a 99 and then like the cliff
46:09wall,
46:09like I was like, oh, we're going there, there, there.
46:13Sounds good.
46:27So do you get your nails, your lashes all done for this?
46:30I don't get my lashes done, but I have my extensions and my nails are not done.
46:36My hair is like this short.
46:37Why didn't I have my extensions?
46:39I love it now.
46:39I'm obsessed with my hair.
46:40Really?
46:41Well, it's fine now.
46:43Our fourth holiday is talking like.
46:46Do you fancy her?
46:48Yeah, definitely.
46:49I fancy that straight away like.
46:50I think that's daily if you live in here.
46:51I've always wanted to live in town.
46:53Yeah, I've always wanted to live in town.
46:53Yeah, because I walk here.
46:55I like that child as well.
46:56I feel like she'd make me a better person.
46:58I love to live in flats like.
46:59No, I don't live in flats.
47:00Not flats, like apartments.
47:02Flats.
47:05You're up to flats.
47:06She wants to be a bit more louder.
47:07I want to be a bit more quieter.
47:09And you can kind of like, meet in the middle and match my in heaven job.
47:13Do you know what I mean?
47:13I have a lot to deal with.
47:14I understand that.
47:16I'm going to annoy you.
47:17I'm going to annoy you.
47:18You haven't lied me so far.
47:20No.
47:20Would you guys like to see each other again romantically?
47:25Can we go first?
47:26Yeah.
47:26You go first.
47:27Yeah, yeah.
47:27I would, yeah.
47:29Yeah, I would too.
47:31Oh, Jesus Christ.
47:32I was going to have a heart attack there.
47:35It's a beautiful night.
47:37I just love your vibe.
47:38I just think, like, you have to be grounded a little bit.
47:40I think you were the one you were able to do for us, you guys.
47:43Like...
47:43I think I want to marry you.
47:46Him being very ill-grown and confident.
47:48Like...
47:48Yeah, I like that.
47:50I think we might not like him, so it's a yeah for me.
47:54Yeah, and then we'll have Valerie.
47:56Me and Annie.
47:59Where is the second date going to be?
48:01I want to go to the zoo.
48:02No, I'll go somewhere fancy.
48:04Yeah.
48:04Second date we can go to the zoo?
48:06Yeah, second date.
48:06Or the third date?
48:07Yeah, this is the first date, yeah.
48:09Yeah.
48:09I think I'm already on the tour date, or no?
48:11Didn't even ask for the tour date.
48:13Lovely.
48:14Ha ha ha!
48:15Is it the look in your eyes?
48:17Or is it this dancing truth?
48:20Ha ha ha!
48:21Ha ha ha!
48:21What's up, Carl? How are you?
48:22Going to Camden Street, yeah?
48:24Ha ha ha ha!
48:26Just say I poop!
48:28I think it's still there, everywhere that I stand or shouldn't even involved.
48:28I'll wait till you go!
48:28That was a great choice!
48:28I lived any gone around but I found this new method.
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