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00:01this is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:14is possible will you pique my interest there's two of them no nobody's losing their cool
00:22an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven
00:33i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:40none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village called what
00:45what what happens next
00:54is up to them would you like to see each other again romantically
01:05is that you no is that you no it's me
01:09no no do you ever go on a date no a double date with one of your siblings
01:18and then there's my family and then my sisters at the table look at what hippies we all look
01:25they know too much oh yeah and here's mateo and nappies
01:32oh not the curtain i had the curtains i was the curtain queen
01:36like if you've got like a friend kind of relationship with your siblings and you go
01:40everywhere together like it makes sense to go on a date seems like you're two close
01:44siblings in my opinion that's when the data's right he looks like you're going on a little side
01:49all right today we're going to have no house so let's see yeah let's go guys let's do it
01:54give them some extra love
01:58how are you how's it going if her voice seems familiar the chances are you know mary
02:06or do you what do you think is the biggest misconception that people have about you
02:12i'm rich hello darling how are you welcome pleasure to have you nice to be here pleasure
02:18mateo pleasure to meet you mary mary mary do do i know you from a restaurant you know me from
02:24the x
02:24factor ah my name is mary born i'm from bally firma i sing for a living and do a little
02:30bit of
02:31acting as well and i was also on the x factor so i'm very nervous about this but i'm gonna
02:36enjoy it
02:37what an experience and would i do it again in a heartbeat we were all ordinary people just
02:43singing the people be screaming your name they were screaming for one direction they were screaming
02:46for rebecca ferguson but then i'd hear my name in the mist and i'm going oh hello i'm like i
02:51was the
02:51mommy but they'd come out and take an autograph get a photograph see you recognize yeah i recognize
02:57you but i didn't know which i was a lot bigger on them after the car so well you look
03:01beautiful now
03:02let's talk to you later you can have dinner with me tell me when is the last time you did
03:07a bit of
03:08dating about 10 years ago i had a date but look but that's you know now you're ready mentally now
03:14i'm
03:14ready and let's hope he likes me yeah yeah i don't know how i'm going to react or how they're
03:20going to
03:20react if they recognize who i am i prefer if they didn't that person is not acting the same i
03:26get you yeah
03:26i really understand what you're saying so let's not mention in this let's enjoy this exactly okay
03:31well in my 20s i was a fantastic date i'm not too short of me 65s but i'm out for
03:38a laugh i want to
03:40have fun and yeah i think if it's the right person i can be a damn good date go for
03:45a meal maybe travel
03:47on holidays i'm just generally a nice person good yeah they're hard to find though they are very hard
03:54but they are out there yeah they are out there you just have to put it in the water as
03:57long as
03:57they love animals i'm a happy woman oh that's it do you have animals i have i rescued a lot
04:03of dogs
04:03in my day and i now have rescued four cats ah some people they only find it once and
04:10some people find it five or six times i think i can find find that love again that's so good
04:16the cat ruled the house she came in last by the way wow and ruled the house typical cat yeah
04:21typical cat behavior she was a female of course yeah this is facing the fear i'm living in the fear
04:27now at the moment that's me sorry just thought i'd do that and on that note
04:38i hear the train please welcome jerry the man in black ready to wine dine and walk the line i'm
04:48stuck in fulsome prison and time keeps dragging on
04:55that train keeps on rolling on down to san anton
05:00i'll be nice i'm sure we'll be rolling around on the flower laughing and slagging i'll never live
05:04it down and we'll never live it down right i'll know it i don't care because i don't got that
05:09long
05:09to live on you jerry quickie mr quigley welcome yes how do you feel all good yeah not bad yeah
05:18a bit nervous you know you know you're out of your comfort zone like everybody else yeah
05:24every crack every little man hey somebody got a bit of crack and your sister older than you how's your
05:31man hello hello how are you how are you i'm going over here good how are you good how are
05:38you good
05:38good to see you you look well what's your name sorry jerry's mary mary mary how are you doing mary
05:44nice to meet you jerry yeah look what's yeah a bit nervous yeah yeah yeah so we can have a
05:49bit of
05:49fun anyway listen that's it why don't you have a bit of fun that's the main thing you're looking
05:52well so thank you for the sunday afternoon looking what how would you be going thank you
05:58so where are you from uh i'm from where are you really where are you from yourself i'm bali
06:14eight in ten years okay don't be saying those things to me i wouldn't really have a type to be
06:25honest i'll try not to and go with personality and talk to everybody you know because look i haven't
06:30been out with anybody a long time later so i love the airing he's a cool dude you still got
06:37it
06:37too vague you're the same age as me i don't know hey 65 i'm 67 in october oh are you
06:44a labourer
06:45yeah oh for fuck's sake are you no i'm scorpion my dad yeah i used to think it was a
06:50scorpion
06:50but my brother put me straight on that one oh yeah yeah what date in october 16th of october yeah
06:58yeah saint gerard's day yeah oh for god's sake type and saint of uh saint john
07:20meet siblings harry and ava they're about to try a little tenderness for a change
07:29there used to be a lot of like fighting and like tickles and stuff like that yeah
07:33they used to hate it i used to get kicked in the face no i learned so this is no
07:37rule and whenever
07:38your older brother is trying to attack you with whatever tickle tickle yeah but you get down on
07:45your back so you can kick with the legs because that's the strongest part of your body it was the
07:49cockroach approach and you actually look like one as well so
07:51the smell of you in every single dream number one word would be charmer i think that's how he likes
07:59to describe himself as but no i think harry's actually very kind she's such a lovely person
08:04i couldn't say much bad about ava which is a pity but uh we've arrived we've arrived
08:08nice to meet you what's the connection brother and sister mama's gonna get a shot
08:17i wouldn't like avoid talking to somebody if harry was there i'd let her know that i know what's
08:21happening you have to as the older brother it'd be rude if you didn't it's gonna be you watch my
08:25sister oh we'll have to see you i'll have a little look i'll have a little look i think i'm
08:30a bit of a
08:31goody two shoes you make yourself out to be yeah there's a few stories i think i like yeah that's
08:35true it makes it easy on ava when i'm around because of my actions of what i've done yeah i
08:40get away
08:40with a lot more when he's around what is the last time we got a brother and a sister what
08:45did we i
08:46had one last night oh this is the way we start that's a good start i know what the standard
08:54is
08:55like now i definitely think i don't know the full story of you know his history of dating and
09:00obviously i don't know how he is a girl so maybe maybe he is the problem we both have really
09:04really
09:04nice smiles and very similar same orthodontist oh really the one unnatural part of ourselves that is
09:10the best part of myself who's your orthodontist i want to go there myself and my sister have had
09:14our own work done so when you've had your own work done maybe you just look at others and compare
09:18yourself i'm straight teeth it's just something i always saw was nice and attracted me we'll bring
09:23us car next time do there is a next time yeah i hope there's another next time because japanese this
09:27one won't go well i don't think you put yourself out there enough no i don't think i do either
09:31i think
09:32you're probably at a stage in your life now where you're like you're actually ready to do that and
09:35i think you really do deserve to find the right person now we're feeling well i actually feel
09:39relaxed yeah we look great first blind date it's my first blind date ever yeah it could be our last
09:44date ever hurry i'll go out with this group yeah yeah gigs and stuff like that and i've been out
09:52with
09:52a few people from there all right but we'll be going to concerts and stuff like that gotcha relationship
09:59was i was married for 25 years and two two little children and we kind of grew apart i suppose
10:05over
10:05over the years we were together very young so no but i have a friend called jerry and we go
10:10out often
10:10for a pint oh yeah and then we might go there might be a show on in the book gosh
10:14and he'll ring me and
10:15said you fancy going yeah as a young girl i was always out and about and meeting fellas and i
10:20even had a
10:21you know a lesbian relationship in me very early 20s she was a friend and all of a sudden she
10:27wasn't she
10:28was more and that lasted for two years but i i mean she knew i wasn't gay i didn't know
10:32what the hell
10:33i was doing but we had a good time and we've traveled the world i met a fella that i
10:37i met down
10:37in tribolga and i was with him for a bit probably about the same yourself to be honest yeah it's
10:42just
10:42a friendship really but you know things happened okay so then i met my daughter's father who i fell
10:50head over heels with that didn't work out after that every other relationship i'd walk away from
10:57before i got any further because i wasn't getting out again so i built a wall a plumber very nice
11:04good you were a plumber yeah well you couldn't look at that one yourself jesus when you get out of
11:09one now
11:09when you're younger it's different it's a little bit hot and sweaty and you know you're meeting people
11:14all the time really and that's how you get to know people and you can start going out on dates
11:18and
11:18stuff like that someone met me miss isn't that though we were quite young like then so then when you
11:22when
11:23you come back into onto the scene as they say or you know you're available again you don't know who
11:27you are even like you know so it's all brand new what kind of person is it that you're looking
11:35to
11:35meet definitely a dancer we can dance we can leave your friends behind not like a good dancer really
11:43bad dancer at my last family wedding i got shin sprints the next morning from the height of dancing so
11:49i need someone about level i'm ready to do that oh my god are you ready for it i am
11:54a dancer now
11:55whether i'm good or not i don't know but especially after a few drinks and a night out i'm the
11:59first
11:59person to go up to the front and i do these kind of crazy dance moves like the lawnmower and
12:03playing
12:04tennis i don't know if they're actually real ones let me realize like why we're single yeah michelle's
12:11date should choose their next move very carefully less freestyle more quick step i'm a bit wild so i
12:19need someone who will match my energy nice to meet you michelle nice to meet you michelle and what
12:23they're nice to meet you you look lovely thank you very much thank you mom i'd say i'd be happy
12:27enough
12:28for like anyone who's just nice my sister will probably if they're cool with her kids then
12:34she'll be happy my brother would probably be hard to impress as well your date is at the bar okay
12:39with another girl but we can get rid of her okay yeah yeah so we do this yeah oh great
12:43this year
12:43all right michelle let's do this like i can be a bit awkward but when they go in for a
12:47hug then i'm
12:48like okay that's fine we're gonna get on great how are you doing how are you how are you what's
12:52your
12:52morning michelle michelle how are you doing harry harry nice to meet you hi hi nice to meet you
12:58yeah it might be a little bit confusing we can explain everything his siblings yes i think for a
13:04split second i was like oh my god what's happening and then like their faces are the same so who's
13:12older you have a bit of a baby face absolutely yeah i get that oh gosh you don't know yeah
13:20okay i'm 24
13:21okay and i'm 21. oh lovely what are you 24 24. very good very good yeah so yeah i do
13:28the baby face
13:28he keeps telling me that it's gonna be good when he's older and that's the longevity of it
13:35trust me it's the future plan because i might just save it to you instead yeah don't bother don't
13:40why not this is better well maybe not maybe you're like actually no
13:46i worked in tescos for years it's true yeah and i'm one of those people just goes in and yaps
13:51to
13:51everyone there you go i'd like to have a little bit of a connection it doesn't mean i have to
13:59be
13:59instantly attracted to him just that little bit of i like him you know if he makes me laugh
14:05well you see that's what i'm trying to do i mean i was i was 21 stone and i've gone
14:10down i've gone
14:10down about six stone at the moment and i'm still going we are all broken in a certain way something
14:18small in some people something big in others but we all have to try and get the sticky glue and
14:23stick
14:23the bits back so that they start to shine again i don't care if they're posh or if they're from
14:30cork and
14:31have an accent like it doesn't not that cork isn't posh baby don't put that in the show too late
14:38that said how could anyone take exception to a lovely fella like john
14:45i'm honest i think i'm kind and uh really handsome as well mr how's it going how are you your
14:55name
14:55john mighty john huh mateo yeah yeah let's go i think firm handshake or like a soft handshake
15:01like i said the standard yeah all right there's nothing worse than a limp hand no no yeah i'm doing
15:08the brother yeah yeah okay this is this is getting too real why is it cool when you make all
15:14contact
15:15with someone that you're like flirting with like pretty cool hi how's it going how are you john
15:30i'm sorry what's your name this is a bit a bit of a different yeah it's a bit weird i'll
15:37offer
15:37the chair because he got lost john isn't it wait wait how about how about we just say one day
15:44oh yeah
15:45thank you yeah that makes it well they say they might be younger than that's lost
15:54would you like a drink yeah i would love a drink um can i get a jameson and ginger please
15:58absolutely
16:01honestly somebody could ask me for dinner and i would just be like yeah it's just us friends
16:04rather than me being you know and unless unless they say like oh i actually kind of like you would
16:08you
16:08like to on a date then it's completely different story we don't want to mateo and i was like
16:12it was like your date's over there and i was like all right why is there like three people over
16:16there
16:17you get to choose it's like it's like straight away who do you want you can choose hard if you
16:21aren't like you yeah maybe no i don't really say that way so we got yeah i do like a
16:26little bit of
16:26onto you maybe not on the first date though i only just got a job on monday okay tell me
16:32about it
16:32up in dublin okay yeah doing like kind of consulting kind of stuff yeah enjoy deloitte
16:38yeah i don't know big four yeah i know i way before just meeting somebody in person i think
16:43that's kind of where i strive the best and especially somebody that doesn't have any kind
16:46of pre-judgments of me or pre-ideas what are you doing in college uh commerce in spanish
16:57i'm a person trainer yeah i'd be busy so if they want to see me they're going to have to
17:02do
17:02a lot with me it's the most amount of people i've seen at this bar
17:05i haven't seen what's going on holiday kind of stuff like where you can go loads loads of them
17:18over there now i'd go with a bunch of girls but i would kind of go just off on my
17:22own well go away
17:23the lads in the book club and stuff like that yeah are you a motorbiker oh god bless you that's
17:28why you have the earring yeah badass rocker yeah it would be good if they were into music yeah you
17:35know not necessarily playing instruments or anything like that but just you know just to be you know
17:38open to go to concerts and what have you you know that's what gigs do you go to yeah go
17:43to
17:44wheel instead of stuff on there kind of blues music and stuff like that they'll make a bit of blues
17:48now
17:48it's quite nice it's going to do a bit of blues dancing then as well what's blues dancing dancing
17:53to the blues music oh just yeah look it up it's really good like is it holding with somebody else
17:57yeah yeah it's like a social kind of tea oh that sounds good so you keep yourself occupied yeah
18:03i do guitar as well for a couple of people a couple of days a week if i can really
18:08nice yeah i never know
18:10if the person wants to be with me or because of who i am and that scares me and that
18:15kind of puts me
18:16off being with others as well yeah i do a bit of singing myself so yeah yeah yeah where'd you
18:21go
18:22vocal down the pool karaoke yeah i do i do that as well yeah i do we go to the
18:27canadys
18:28up a couple thomas street yes with uh mckelley and all them yeah yeah good crack you don't recognize me
18:35you don't know i don't know i love it i love it don't know it no no no okay yes
18:42do you ever watch the
18:44ex back there no good that's even better again oh i'm very bored are you sorry you do do a
18:52bit of
18:53singing about you right do you know what i like we got to know each other a little bit better
19:01without
19:01even knowing who the hell i was you know that's that's brilliant that's exactly what i want oh
19:07really that is what i asked you didn't ask the question didn't you and never said it because
19:11you think i only asked because i'm trying to tell you what i did when you said do you sing
19:15in the local
19:16pubs i i kind of panicked when i came over at first i it was like a blur i couldn't
19:23because you're in
19:24a bubble and you come over and you're i was scared and they wanted me to stay in the uk
19:28and i i didn't
19:30want to stay in the uk i didn't mind going back and forth and doing gigs but in order to
19:34do what they
19:34wanted me to do i would have had to stay there for another six months i got my album i
19:39was doing the
19:39tour i was happy as anything and then i got the call to say i was opening for neil diamond
19:43so i mean i was
19:4550 odd years of age 51 i was at that stage and it was a fabulous opportunity and i was
19:50happy enough
19:50with that i mean i had a one-woman show that told my whole life story are you serious and
19:55music it was
19:55very good it was only last year and it's going but hopefully coming back next year to do smaller
20:00places around the country that haven't seen it and for me scariest thing i've ever done standing on the
20:05stage on my own telling a story and singing singing it didn't bother me telling the story it was the
20:11biggest success than i ever thought oh it comes back definitely if we're still kind of talking to
20:17each other or even if we're not just give me your number you just don't know what that person's agenda
20:23is until you get to know them and then sometimes it'd be too late you know you're falling for them
20:28and
20:28then you realize they're only there for one thing and wanting only i know people who have met later their
20:32age and gone on to have very happy life moved in together i said to my friend i said if
20:42i come back
20:42pregnant from this it's not my fault that's good i'll be honest to say i'm more mains desserts i am
21:01saying are you michelle let's go this is going great that's a good start if i had to have that
21:07started i know yeah because like why would you even paint i'd love the wings imagine the struggle
21:13if i'm dripping wings like the wings juice ballsy it is ballsy it does take balls it does take balls
21:19it might intimidate your man john over there if i get to it i know yeah he sees it all
21:23over my mouth oh my
21:24gosh it must be such a mad thing for you seeing that we're here like i'm assuming you and your
21:28sister must be good friends we get on quite well really well yeah like i'd always put myself out
21:32there a bit more than her you're still going to be without the banter like yeah go off the bread
21:36like this should crack which i'm not they have to make me laugh a lot on the first date and
21:42then
21:42like like a little bit of flirtiness when i was younger i was like i love makeup and beauty and
21:47stuff
21:47so i did beauty therapy then i somehow got into a job doing dental nursing oh yeah i was an
21:55orthodontic
21:55dental nurse i spotted your braces oh i was good it's a beautiful smile thank you i appreciate
22:02that no listen oh yeah i even asked i was like dark hair small nice teeth were like three features
22:08that i am mad about oh my god yeah no smile is everything no way oh my god so i've
22:14done okay
22:15then because it's probably the only compliment i get michelle's but you probably get a lot though
22:20look it's it's the only thing i get really so it's it feels like a lot it feels like a
22:25lot oh my god
22:26no i would be quite confident in my appearance i suppose i don't think i'm brad pitt but at the
22:30same time i've accepted who i am was everybody managed cars as well yeah i was applying for everything
22:35got the car dealership and sales psychology oh my god so interesting oh i'd say so i do a lot
22:42of social
22:43media and stuff like that on the tick tock account for the dealership which is really fun i used to
22:47love
22:47making videos and stuff like that when i was younger i always want everything i want to like try a
22:52bit
22:52of everything how about you pick something okay and if you're going between something i'll get the
22:57other thing because i already i know okay interesting that's a good one i like that yeah i really want
23:04someone i can look after you know i can bring out and spoil and stuff like that like harry and
23:10i are so
23:10close in age that like at home like all my friends are all his friends and all his friends are
23:14all my
23:14friends so yeah we can't really be dating each other's friends either so i definitely had crushes
23:19on his friends growing up 100 i remember all his friends would come over for sleepovers and i'd be
23:24so excited but they'd be hanging out with harry they wouldn't be hanging out with me i'd just be the
23:28annoying little sister you know well i should have brought my sisters on the show yeah do you have
23:32sisters i've got three sisters yeah would you be close with them would you say yeah yeah yeah i'm really
23:36close with them okay like yeah do you live at home with them now yeah yeah and to keep his
23:40college
23:40show something yeah which college you're in tree oh very nice yeah yeah so i don't feel like i'm
23:46maybe gonna find the love of my life you know in a nightclub um it's very rare that that would
23:51happen
23:51it would be nice to just meet somebody that i'm i'm aware that we're both looking for something
23:56i want to do something like finance like yeah like big four deloitte yeah you want to be me
24:07i'm ambitious in relationships but i'm also ambitious in what i want to do in my own life
24:11not to make it deep running but i want to have a family yeah yeah not too old but not
24:16too young
24:16yeah my parents always say that they kind of grew up with us okay that's kind of fun yeah i
24:22kind of
24:22want that if i met the love of my life tomorrow it wouldn't bother me that i haven't like dated
24:26loads
24:26of people you know i don't think there's any need to kind of say oh like explore loads of different
24:31things or i think once you know you know i don't think i've left europe before really no no says
24:37you've been to america twice now yeah it's like my personality trait i actually was just in new york
24:41this weekend this weekend i came back on tuesday yeah what yeah so i spent the two of my last
24:47summers
24:47in like a camp in america i was supposed to do that last year i paid my deposit and i
24:53canceled it
24:53it's like the best day ever like genuinely the highlight of like my life i would say
25:02well you're not nervous at all weird no no i thought you'd be nervous like before i go on stage
25:11i am pacing the floors left right and center i am shaking i am praying i am asking mommy and
25:17daddy to
25:17walk out on the stage with me then i go out on the stage i believe that's not unusual it's
25:22not
25:22it's not unusual tom john said that as well yeah i am quite insecure in my looks in me and
25:32even in
25:32my singing i'm very insecure in i i dread rejection because i've been rejected so many times so i try
25:38to
25:39not get involved too close to someone because i know i'm going to be rejected at some stage
25:43because i become very needy because i'm scared so would you drive down the country on it and all
25:50that yeah yeah up or down the mountains or out around health and places like that up the coast
25:54they're going up that way well for an hour or two that's lovely that's great freedom that's it you
25:59know get out and just forget about everything that's there you know it something you can get on
26:03with everybody wants that don't they so gold dust if you find it as you can see i haven't found
26:08it yet
26:10i'm looking at a long bloody time i'll tell you that i've called me out with women since it was
26:1514. come here from the time you walked in there really walked in we slagged each other straight
26:20away okay yeah there you go that's nice yeah that's a good connection that's a dumb thing as well
26:26yeah it is a dumb thing and the fact that we're not taking each other too serious
26:36as far as jose is concerned love is a five-letter word that starts with an s i wanted to
26:44find the
26:45spark you know i wanted someone who's smart i wanted someone who's positive someone who's aligned in terms
26:51of our values someone who's are reliable and someone who's kind so s-p-a-r-k but i think
26:57that's too much to
26:58ask so i think i'm just looking for someone who's hot
27:05mister hey how are you pleasure nice to meet you your name joseph joseph joseph yeah sweet
27:11mary and joseph yes nice to meet you i feel like i'm meeting an old friend
27:16thank you hopefully i make it feel homey for you thank you thank you if you give me the right
27:22energy
27:22i'll give it back to you and so i think it's always important for for a date oh it's first
27:27one
27:28sit over here you're first don't i stay there well somebody's gonna get there somebody's gonna get
27:33there relax and enjoy i'm quite cheeky you know i like to strike a balance between intelligent
27:40conversation and you know silly conversation nervous nervous ah come on i think i prefer to be first
27:48get my my bearings first exactly i'm getting positive vibes thank you thank you feel it so i'm rooting for
27:55you oh my god this is huge for me this is a really big question oh god because i did
28:00like an assignment
28:00and everything on this oh no oh now i'm worried yeah you should be lions or barry's okay oh no
28:09are we
28:10finished oh no oh no that's this like that's no like we'll continue it just to be civil but like
28:15it's just wow no i'm actually not that bad into it it's just funny like lions yeah oh yeah now
28:23can i
28:23give my reason okay can i explain oh it seems like i could have been to you more than i
28:30know
28:30i was like this before and now you're actually like oh yeah i know i'm big that's a curveball
28:35is this is i wasn't expecting it okay we can move faster my explanation is that's what i was at
28:41home
28:41family person comfortable memories lion's tea okay taste i haven't really drank barry's tea so when it
28:48comes to flavor taste okay but i could say put my hands up and say barry's potentially could be better
28:53that's why i'm a salesperson i managed to work okay yeah i know you come and see there yeah okay
29:03hiya
29:07james back for seconds after working up an appetite first time round
29:13yeah it was really really good um it was nice to see you i was all happens to go on
29:18a blind date
29:18how are you mate oh i recognize you yes
29:21what was it it's called me boomerang i always come back
29:25we got on really well um i don't know if there was a spark there
29:30oh sorry i've taken over this is the homo flexibility
29:33the homo flexible
29:34they go for two minutes so we'll share the seat now
29:40oh my god that's what we're doing tonight
29:42i like to say the first time was at the starter this is the main course
29:48are you one of those who waits for dessert or no yeah yeah oh hopefully let's see what happens
29:53i kind of go for a darker look at men dark features dark hair brown eyes that kind of look
29:59what i get at this stage
30:00all right hello hello nice to meet you joseph james james james james pleasure pleasure
30:30okay yeah yeah yeah sorry yeah nice to meet you it was very nice to meet you too yeah i'm
30:35yeah
30:36pleasantly surprised happily did you expect someone else i've been on more first dates than mateo
30:43you know so i'm pleasantly surprised to be greeted by you it never changes like your
30:50world's going to be nervous but again i project confidence but it's like i'm dying inside this
30:54calm is in the north is it do i sound like in the north no you're from the west you
31:01know you
31:01actually know well done you they do have a soft spot for you know um boy next door irish types
31:08you
31:09know those who are not overly suave not overly chiseled but you know good looking but they don't
31:15quite know it thanks for dropping by over a little bit you're really like i came especially to see
31:21you oh i feel so honored now how far did you come um half an hour i'm joking i'm only
31:28joking with you
31:28by the way you know if i'm laughing and joking that i'll make proper eye contact with them because i
31:33just
31:33really want to be like looking at them from the philippines you can tell from the accent really yeah
31:38i honestly was going to say i thought you were like from tara oh really yeah like straight away
31:44the first one i thought i was like yeah tell her for the peas wow not sure if you're like
31:49you know
31:50picking the fist but okay
31:55were you going to do like a camp counselor kind of thing i think i was going to do something
31:58i play
31:59music okay oh very nice so i was going to teach kids music i think that's what it was i
32:03think they
32:03wanted me to send videos of me like playing the guitar and you're like that's too crazy i'll just go
32:08on
32:08first date on tv do you play like a bond or is it just like yourself do you always play
32:19with myself
32:20like that sounds really weird
32:26dark room no one's ever seen no i play music by myself but um i'm a couple mates i play
32:34and every
32:35end and i play with them growing up always did dancing singing shows and i think it's something
32:40that really like formed me as a person but then i like ruined my vocal cords you can even probably
32:45hear like my voice is usually gone so today you're actually lucky it didn't go i came back from america
32:53my problem is that sometimes it's kind of you're in the friend zone or i friend zone into people and
32:58that's kind of then they're going for me and it gets a bit complicated would your usual type be
33:02what would it be what would it be what would it be my type be yeah um girls that come
33:08on dates with
33:09their brothers and you know what i actually respect it because i've already met the brother now
33:14you know yeah yeah what is your type gingers um i have dated gingers in the past yeah yeah make
33:21sure
33:22they have three sisters and that's really important actually you know what i did say i did say i like
33:27pretty eyes and oh wow that's the first thing i know is in fairness yeah yeah oh wow they've done
33:34well so yeah good i'm glad do you date around them do you go on dates often no i've been
33:42on a few um
33:43in the last few months i kind of get them in for the first day so i can get a
33:47kind of idea of what's going
33:49you've been practicing no no properly not properly i hate to be any of the girls he's actually been
33:56training to meet me
33:59how is it going let's go nice yeah but just wait yeah he's a lovely man yeah just the way
34:04you smile
34:04are it cool yeah cool go marry yeah that was a hail mary yeah definitely he's such a sweet guy
34:12he's
34:13funny he loves music he loves the blues i've always wanted to do a blue song never had the courage
34:18he
34:19said he plays guitar but he plays three chords he said he would sing to me sometime i don't know
34:23how
34:23he feels about me but i like him now he wouldn't be smiling if he doesn't like everybody needs a
34:28bit of
34:29marrying them oh i don't know i don't know about that but let's hope they do a bit of a
34:32double
34:32humor going on there i'll take you know so it was a good crack and you really enjoyed it yeah
34:36yeah
34:37nice male nice lady good heart you can tell that you know he didn't recognize you know no he didn't
34:44and i actually told him i had to tell him no but okay but the reason i had to tell
34:47him was because
34:47he asked me what i did yeah i said i do a bit of singing yeah and he said in
34:51the local pubs and bears and i
34:52said karaoke i didn't know what to say then and then i was raised and i said maybe i said
35:00it too early
35:01because he he literally went up in the face he's different where somebody really really likes you
35:06yeah uh from the tv and then he he wants that mary from tv doesn't give us about that's exactly
35:13what
35:13i and that's cool yes must be difficult for work to do you know let me show you the real
35:20mary
35:20oh stay no more it's been 10 years since this hair was messy it has to it's been 10 years
35:29since
35:29i hit a headboard anyway he made me smile he made me feel comfortable not a lot of people can
35:36do that
35:37for me he did and i'm really grateful for that i thought i was getting kicked down when he was
35:42bringing
35:43him to this place is that okay everything okay yeah of course it's okay okay thank you what are we
35:47doing we're gonna have a pint outside we really have the aura yeah so we're gonna see each other
35:51again anyways that was a great day i enjoyed it press that button there baby so you are happy to
36:00see
36:00each other again yeah yeah i i he made me feel very comfortable and he made me laugh and when
36:07you make
36:07someone laugh and genuinely make them laugh and know that they're on the same page as you are you
36:13couldn't help but go out and have a drink with them again definitely definitely nice guy sound
36:19crack yeah yeah same ordinary good lady good lady all right that's enough all right there's something
36:28wrong with you i told you when you get to know me that's when the people run away you just
36:34can't run away can
36:35it i will i will i will eventually knock knock knocking on heaven's door knock knock knocking on heaven's door
37:03oh i'm gonna stay for a moment to be part of this chat and then i'm gonna go how are
37:07you getting on
37:07good how are you getting on good they're so chatty they're so lovely you didn't know that they were
37:11no siblings obviously no oh no i had no clue i'm so i'm gonna go and maybe keep chatting or
37:15quick fire
37:17yes no i think so or you think potential really yes i think she's lovely yeah i don't know that's
37:26what
37:26you want to hear i'll leave you keep chatting nice fun she did orthodontist work and she was like
37:32either class no she's nice things as well yeah it seems to be like proper close as well like
37:39it's always good sign when it comes siblings yeah be gentlemanly offer her some weird dessert
37:44be a gentlemanly oh i mean i mean stay gentlemanly i'd say the four of us go away after this
37:49if it
37:50goes i think so i think it'd be cool right this is our biggest fear
38:00i'm just kind of nervous that i didn't seem intimidating
38:06i work as a data scientist data analyst so i'm like geeky like that thank you so look at you
38:15i try you
38:16know sometimes you have to do with the gift that you're given you know so yeah yeah um you're so
38:21modest about it as well it's great i'm turning 40 next year i think i just want like a life
38:28partner
38:29almost you know ai is going to take it over right and i think all of the the the big
38:34companies have
38:35you know have done like they're flattening and the reorganization and all the reorgs after reorgs and this
38:40is the last one yeah here's another reorg that's for one for now yeah yeah yeah like my dating night
38:49there's a story there there's a story there there's a story there i think i've had about four uh
38:54relationships so far the most recent one in ireland um we were together with an irish fella
38:59and we were together for 10 months it was also nice he was a lovely lovely guy but i felt
39:04that
39:04um i guess we just weren't in the same frequency and before that i had some relationships back in
39:10the philippines but i feel like i was much younger and maybe in a very different headspace
39:14can i ask are you are you out yeah so are you out to people at home from here yes
39:20okay finally yes
39:21when i first arrived in 2019 it was just a big sigh of relief when i first arrived it was
39:25in july
39:26and there was still some pride flags you had your gay t-shirt i was like didn't nobody thought it's
39:31a big deal and i was working for a tech company and everybody was like bring your whole self to
39:35work you know is it something that that you're that that resonates with you strongly i work in it
39:40so i work in tech as well oh okay software company so i have a day job which is kind
39:47of like a customer
39:48success manager oh that's very cool but i have a gay job which is a voluntary role which is um
39:54you're
39:54a drag queen yes yeah yeah oh my god i'm not a drag queen i'm not sure i can't tell
40:02no no no my my
40:03voluntary role in the work is diversity inclusion okay it's an employee network group which your
40:09company would have as well i've had people come up and just say that something that we did resonated
40:14with them and helped them kind of move forward and to me that's that's fantastic to be able to do
40:18something like that for people so the waiter came over and she was like so quickfire yes or no he
40:25ensignated yes oh wow so what did you say that we'll save it we'll save it for later i can't
40:32let
40:32that out now my face goes really red i do not have a poker face whatsoever i told him i
40:39needed a dancer
40:40oh no i specifically said no as in like a bad dancer like the worst the better okay like i
40:47need
40:47bad dancing i can show you the balance moves fantastic they're horrific i guess one of those
40:52ones where it's like choreographed to the point where it's like uh driving shopping trolley job
40:58light bulb bit of those yeah oh yeah yeah yeah that's all that okay what is a dance move oh
41:05it's like
41:06the knees are going the hands are going crazy yeah yeah oh you piqued my interest
41:13where do you work remotely two days a week in the office is the mandate oh so here you're here
41:19in
41:19dublin every two to three days a week i'm going yeah okay kobe dublin
41:24i was so bad i'm so sorry you come to dublin this is where everything happens you have me and
41:32ai
41:34oh my god i just gone out i think love is a bit of a bit of magic music terms
41:41maybe it's when you
41:42like have a chord that locks so nicely so i was in a choir and it was like you know
41:48that that's extra
41:49sparkle there have you family here with you no it's just me oh so yeah i'm okay i don't have
41:57a dog so
41:59yeah i have a beagle cheese birds okay what's your what's the biggest thing uh bailey i can show
42:06you so i'm not really into hookups in general i kind of um kind of turned off you know and
42:11true
42:11enough you know sometimes you just though they just say oh joe so after this fight you know um
42:15shall i see your shall i see your dog tonight you know i mean my dog bailey
42:23yeah but but and then after please have some of these chips with the way i'm probably not going
42:29to eat them you probably won't get them no way why not um the company is just filling
42:34you're smooth doctor aren't you do you write these things
42:43you're gonna sound like you're from dublin do i yeah i'm getting a lot of views for this
42:47recently so you're selling you from dublin yeah why are people calling me like you're
42:50throwing it all recently no you are giving a little bit of up bro what a little bit
43:00fair enough okay i'll take it as a compliment yeah that's what i meant yeah yeah sure i don't
43:09really believe it like love at first sight i definitely believe in connection at first sight
43:13and appreciation and you know knowing that you want to explore something with somebody a hundred
43:18percent nice watch us all thank you we're watching gold oh you are gold very ruined i have like this
43:26gold chain i should have worn a chain i know yeah i'm really matching the upro yeah grills as well
43:32is it like a gold it's great when you meet someone that's cute actually intelligent and can hold a
43:45conversation with you but it doesn't happen that often you know is it because you're in roscommon or
43:51in general genuine question straight away the smiley face put me at ease so i'm going to
43:59resummon you come to me you remember me she fucking love you she'd be like cooking and she'd be like
44:04put it on like cabbage and bacon maybe not my usual type to be honest maybe the more the evening
44:11progressed i was like yeah it's actually it's turning into my time it's my time where is they
44:17here in dublin i booked my hotel and i got a response saying they have a nightclub underneath
44:23copperface jacks have you ever heard of copper oh my god would you like to see each other again
44:30romantically let the ai answer just let's plug everything into the ai the answer is yes from my
44:38ai anyway yeah my ass says yes as well you mind the beer is after oh let's look that is
44:45the best way to
44:46do it believe me this is smart serious tender so thank you yeah and i think that um i think
44:54we're
44:54looking for the same things fantastic thank you very much you gotta cook them spaghetti
45:06i have never been to coppers yeah can i tell you about it tonight
45:17oh
45:27oh so we have a gentleman yes we do lovely
45:32no yeah she's just she was just really pretty like really gorgeous and i've really found her
45:36attractive so yeah good luck to you guys nice to meet you have a good day bye-bye yeah i
45:41think that we
45:41like got on really really well and there was definitely like no awkward really moments
45:51we didn't get brought out for desserts though yeah because we were actually we were showing
45:55everyone inside they were all like we were so interested yeah oh no see we were distracting
46:00everybody else inside so they're like oh no we need to let them have their dinner that's your brother's
46:04date she's starting on you
46:09the more we were chatting the more we were getting to talk and stuff and like find out more about
46:13him
46:14and everything like definitely ticks all the boxes i was looking for he's a yup bro i don't know her
46:19you're a hurry you're a yup bro you yourself she's calling me a yup bro
46:25it was a really nice change for me because as i mentioned before i'm usually being to quieter girls and
46:30she i felt i really matched her energy what do you mean dancing dancing as in like what you want
46:35in
46:35somebody yeah you said dancing i literally this no you didn't bad dancing oh that's me hello
46:48so we go in touch now yeah i'm kidding i'm kidding i'm kidding are you sure would you like to
46:56see each
46:56other again romantically hell yeah um i said i think we i'd really like to go out again just to
47:05like see if it's a romantic thing i said like it's really hard to tell from like a first date
47:10i think
47:10personality wise we got on really really well i feel like yeah i think i've gotten like the honest
47:14self of you i think you're pretty honest as well unless you're hiding anything i don't think so i'd love
47:19to
47:19go on a second date and figure it out yeah well we can go i think we're gonna go for
47:22some jameson ginger
47:23ales later that's i'm most excited for the drink after this to be honest
47:31do you guys want to see each other again romantically ladies first i think so yeah i would
47:37say yeah yeah obviously physically you're everything that you think to all the boxes
47:52i'm so confirmed like it's everything i asked for so i can't complain and teeth great oh you have
47:58really nice teeth i can't wait to see this dance room the thing you like is the dancing you haven't
48:04even
48:04seen it like that and it attracts all the women as you can see super oh my gosh amazing
48:16amazing amazing so do you still fancy them somehow yeah like that
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