00:00hey guys welcome or welcome back to my channel i have i think we're on day 10 of day 45
00:07days
00:08where i've been just kind of venting to you guys kind of like an open diary type of thing
00:16we've shared some deep things i opened up to you guys just a couple days ago about
00:23uh the porn video if you haven't watched that go watch it um and i was reading your comments
00:29you guys are just like crying reading your comments and i'm not some people were asking
00:35me like mary jane you're not embarrassed to say stuff like that and um i think one of the great
00:42things about traveling the world is i have become very bold so i want to talk about that in today's
00:49video quickly um i also am fundraising for my mission of visiting every country in the world
00:55you know what's so interesting um traveling the world what i've never stopped traveling actually
01:03i've been traveling for eight years without really any breaks the only break i really took
01:09was when covid happened and i remember when covid happened everyone was like your life is over
01:16your career is over you're no longer a travel blogger traveling is ending um the world is too
01:22dangerous you know and they're closing all the borders and i always kept hope alive i'm like no
01:28things work themselves out things work themselves out and um i know with all the conflict going on
01:34right now a lot of people are feeling really scared and really hopeless but i'm here to let you know
01:39that the news does make things seem a little bit more scary than they are crazy stuff goes down
01:45here i'm not but all i'm saying is crazy stuff has always went down okay we've always lived on a
01:52crazy planet so anyways i'm very much not quitting anything i will be heading to the middle east very
01:59soon um and i'll be okay um i still would love to go conquer africa this year i would love
02:07to have
02:08three or four months i'm actually planning for that right now three or four good months to just knock
02:13knock out africa africa is one of those continents with a lot of countries so i i'm maneuvering that
02:20right now i also have other regions to get to so we're getting there anyways i'm fundraising uh 60k
02:27for the 60 countries i have left um so yeah i've been shouting you guys out every day i believe
02:33the
02:33last three people to donate uh donated anonymously i've been shouting you guys out every video thank you
02:39guys so much to the people who donate i believe we raised 11k 650 i think last time i checked
02:46thank
02:46you guys so much i'm trying to raise the entire thing before the month is over so i think we
02:51can
02:51do it if you can donate whether it's five dollars or whatever it is it's a piece of the puzzle
02:56and i'm
02:56so grateful so i'll put my gofundme link in the description box of this video
03:01and i will update you guys every day and tell you guys how much we raised and shout you guys
03:06out and
03:06yeah so anyways um yeah what was i saying um i wanted to talk about the three you's this kind
03:16of
03:16is like the let them theory but i think this is better than the let them theory there there's this
03:20book called the let them theory that blew up recently the book is basically about how you just let
03:26people like you don't move through life like as a reaction to people and i find that to be very
03:35true but i think my little method my little way of thinking about it is a little bit different i
03:42think
03:42there are three things in life that are very important um being unembarrassable
03:55unoffendable unoffendable and unirritable that basically means you do not give other people
04:01the power to tell you how you're supposed to feel a lot of people when i posted the video the
04:06other day
04:08and by the way that video my grandma saw it so i would just like everyone to know that
04:13that was an act of god um because my grandma called me and she was like i saw the video
04:20you posted
04:20she doesn't even know how to work youtube it just popped up on her phone and she told me she
04:24was
04:24proud of me so that was really cool because you know anyways i think you can't really be free in
04:32life until you are unembarrassable unoffendable and unirritable and that just means you do not
04:38hand other people power to tell you how to feel so was i embarrassed to make my video the other
04:43day
04:43not even a little bit i think what i said was true it was just true and i believe that
04:49so many
04:49people struggle with that in one way or another way and i didn't make the video as a joke um
04:56i made
04:57the video in all seriousness and so i wasn't embarrassed at all and i can't tell you how
05:03i'm this woman that i never thought i would be you know i used to be scared of everybody's opinions
05:08about me and i used to be somebody who heavily relied on how other people saw me and that's where
05:15i got my self-esteem if people liked me if people thought i was cool if people thought i was
05:20you know whatever if people approved of me then i felt good if people didn't approve of me then i
05:24felt bad and i'm i don't live my life that way anymore um i i love putting meaningful content on
05:31the
05:31internet not just whatever you know and um so yeah i wasn't embarrassed then i have i think three
05:40things you should never be in life is you should be unembarrassable nobody can embarrass you you're
05:47god's child um you're a walking miracle you're full of mistakes you're full of good things you're
05:55full of we're just human nobody has the power to embarrass me nobody nobody um nobody i i believe
06:05that there are certain things we shouldn't do in life um but if you believe you're walking in truth
06:11you're walking in your calling there's nothing to be embarrassed about that for um unirritable no you
06:18can't give anybody else the power to hold your emotions like that and unoffendable you shouldn't
06:24give people power to tell you who you are what you are um you don't wait for validation you don't
06:31wait
06:31for approval so yeah unembarrassed unembarrassable unirritable and unoffendable three yous and thank
06:40you guys so much for people who heard me and maybe some people saw my video and were kind of
06:46like yikes
06:46and if you felt that way i apologize um but i think there's a lot of power in being bold
06:53and um i that's
06:55how i live my life in every aspect actually so and so many people reached out to me and said
07:01mj i can't
07:02tell you how much your videos helped me and that's why i posted it so um and with everything that
07:09i do
07:09everything even if they even if i do step out and make a mistake at least i tried i love
07:14being somebody
07:15who at least tries i mean whatever i'm not even just talking about posting videos or whatever you're
07:20doing in life even if you have to look like a fool i know so many people who are like
07:24i'm gonna start a youtube
07:25channel but i'm scared i'll look stupid look stupid i don't look like who cares who cares
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