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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days...
00:00:03My little chef.
00:00:05Oh, babe.
00:00:07Oh.
00:00:09You have a pregnancy cribbing?
00:00:11Even though we started using protection
00:00:13since we left San Pedro,
00:00:15we had plenty of sex without a condom
00:00:17the first few days I got here.
00:00:20Do you want to take a test?
00:00:21I think we should.
00:00:27The annual income for petitioners
00:00:29for K-1 visa is $26,500.
00:00:33And, you know, disability benefits
00:00:35is not an income.
00:00:38It's easier for me to stay here.
00:00:40We got the Filipino visa.
00:00:42I don't know if I can leave my family.
00:00:45But I don't want to be apart from you that long.
00:01:09Where is the honesty?
00:01:11Up to 20 something years,
00:01:12with your fellow woman.
00:01:14This is an abomination.
00:01:18¿Hay alguna manera que podemos solucionar esto?
00:01:24¿Alguien puede ser un consejo de los hermosos de los hermosos y el chief priest?
00:01:30¿Te acuerdas?
00:01:34¿You got that final warning at work, and Nat's helping you out?
00:01:39These question marks make me feel like it's super unstable.
00:01:41I'm just sick of the peppering and peppering, peppering.
00:01:44You're flogging the same horse, like...
00:01:45Because when I get a f***ing warning like that, when you send me...
00:01:48It happened, but now I still have a job.
00:01:51Okay, but it makes me worried that you could be using me.
00:01:55If you think that, then I would not expect anything less than you wanting to go.
00:01:59So, please, please let me know.
00:02:09Are you kidding me?
00:02:11He said he has a f***ing fiancé.
00:02:16How dare you dump me and leave me alone in the desert?
00:02:19Mohammed standing me up.
00:02:21Like, I'm just so over it.
00:02:23F*** this ring, and f*** everything that it represented.
00:02:27Now I'll find love somewhere else.
00:02:44You know that I like that.
00:02:51You know that I like that.
00:02:53Give you what you want, you want, you want.
00:02:56I feel like I'm chipmunk.
00:03:12I just want to stay here like this.
00:03:48No estoy seguro que estoy listo para ir a otro país.
00:03:54Sheena, we have some real big decisions we have to make, but I'm looking forward to tonight
00:04:02and I really just want to put that down for tomorrow.
00:04:06I understand my love.
00:04:09I can't wait to visit the beaches.
00:04:13At least no one's going to disturb us.
00:04:17I'm bringing forth the Batangas, the province along the south area.
00:04:21It's quite popular for beautiful sandy beaches.
00:04:25Since talking to the immigration lawyer, it causes a lot of emotional stress.
00:04:30I'm hoping that some alone time will be relaxing and that it will give me the opportunity to
00:04:36get him to really consider living here with me.
00:04:43Also looking outside here.
00:04:45Mm-hmm.
00:04:46One thing I don't like about the beaches, the jellyfish.
00:04:51Well, let's hope that we don't get stoned by jellyfish, but turns out I did bring the jelly.
00:04:57Maybe if we have a kind of a special night tonight.
00:05:01Oh, that would be great.
00:05:05I'm going to have to ask you if mom approves about this.
00:05:11Mom's going to be there watching and cheering the entire time.
00:05:15You're creeping me now.
00:05:18All right.
00:05:19All right.
00:05:19I think this is it.
00:05:20Nice.
00:05:21It's a very tight fit.
00:05:24Oh, that's tight fit.
00:05:26Oh, my gosh.
00:05:29Sheena and I talked about it and now, not having anybody to kind of hold us back, I think now
00:05:37is the perfect time to kind of let our sexual tensions go.
00:05:41Yeah.
00:05:42Either way, honey.
00:05:42Yeah.
00:05:45Oh, look.
00:05:46There's a hammock, honey.
00:05:47Wow.
00:05:48This is such a beautiful place.
00:05:50Oh.
00:05:51Oh, wow.
00:05:53Wow.
00:05:55Did you prepare this, honey?
00:05:57That's so sweet.
00:05:58I did.
00:06:00To be honest, I am quite nervous to lose my virginity and I'm quite excited as well.
00:06:06I was like, oh, wow.
00:06:09Hey, baby.
00:06:10Boom.
00:06:13I'm quite happy because I wanted to give this to the person who had loved me for the longest
00:06:20years.
00:06:21And I think Forrest deserved that kind of love more than anyone else.
00:06:28Oh, wait.
00:06:29You know what?
00:06:30I had to freshen myself up and get some sexy lingerie.
00:06:35Mmm.
00:06:36Okay.
00:06:37It's see-through.
00:06:42When I was younger, I always thought, you know, my first time would be great and extravagant
00:06:47and amazing.
00:06:48And I got older and it wasn't happening.
00:06:52I did worry that that's just one of those life experiences that other people just get
00:06:57to have, but not me.
00:06:59So going into this love nest that I have made for Sheena and I, I am extremely nervous on what
00:07:09to do or how to do things, but I have no doubts that I'm doing it with the right person.
00:07:27You're looking so sexy.
00:07:29What do you think about me?
00:07:30Oh, yeah.
00:07:31You look so handsome, I know.
00:07:32I got it all ready for you.
00:07:34You're so making me love her.
00:07:39I'm finally getting to be with the woman of my dreams, the vixen of the internet.
00:07:48And I'm glad that I'm getting to give you my virginity.
00:07:52And I wouldn't want to give it to anybody else but you.
00:07:55You're going to have to help me get this on, by the way.
00:07:57Oh, really?
00:07:58Oh, my God.
00:07:59Oh, there it is.
00:08:00Oh, what?
00:08:01It's not.
00:08:02It's not like this.
00:08:03You're ready to go, honey?
00:08:04Ready.
00:08:05Oh, yeah?
00:08:06Mmm.
00:08:07Mmm.
00:08:08Well, wait.
00:08:13You're going to have to keep me waiting.
00:08:15Here I come, baby.
00:08:17Oh, you're super macho.
00:08:20What?
00:08:23Thank you.
00:08:24You're the sweetest honey beer, all right?
00:08:26Yes, ma'am.
00:08:27Mmm.
00:08:27Ow!
00:08:29Oh, no.
00:08:31Oh, no, no, no, no.
00:08:39Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:08:45I love your dress.
00:08:46Are you a princess?
00:08:47I wish I was a princess.
00:08:48You're so sweet.
00:08:49That's beautiful.
00:08:50Thank you.
00:08:52Oh, no, no, no.
00:08:52Oh, no, no, no.
00:08:57I kind of lost my appetite.
00:09:00I'm really nervous.
00:09:02It's not something I would do every day in my world.
00:09:07So, yeah, it's scary.
00:09:17You're a cancer.
00:09:19It's not true.
00:09:31Is this where we're going?
00:09:33Oh, this is a big market.
00:09:41Okay, we'll get our goat.
00:09:45Last night, Daniel's uncle was able to talk to the elders,
00:09:48and he talked to the chief priest.
00:09:51And the chief priest says, we have to do a cleansing.
00:09:54But first, I have to buy a goat.
00:09:56Two yams, and bring money.
00:10:02We are going to the Makoko Market to get the items.
00:10:05And then we'll go to see the chief priest in his shrine.
00:10:09And that's where the ceremony will take place.
00:10:12You're overly dressed.
00:10:15This whole thing is crazy,
00:10:17but I'm willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
00:10:22What are they washing?
00:10:23What is that?
00:10:24This is a homo.
00:10:26This is what I put in this suit.
00:10:29So that's how they prepare each.
00:10:31Be careful.
00:10:34My shoes are going to be a mess.
00:10:36My feet are going to be a mess.
00:10:37It's my case.
00:10:39Oh, God.
00:10:40This place is so crowded, baby.
00:10:42How are we going to find goats?
00:10:44The uncle has said in the olden days they slaughtered the goat.
00:10:47Now, they don't do that anymore.
00:10:48So now what it's done, it must be a female goat because I'm female.
00:10:52But the goat gives milk.
00:10:54So he will feed the tribe with the goat milk.
00:10:57But what are the yams for?
00:10:59The two yams.
00:10:59It's what the ancestors demanded.
00:11:04We don't know why.
00:11:08This is what we're looking for.
00:11:10They're huge.
00:11:11These are the biggest yams I've ever seen in my whole entire life.
00:11:14Have you seen it before?
00:11:15No.
00:11:15We have big yams in Nigeria here.
00:11:18Oh, my God.
00:11:18This one is as big as me, right?
00:11:22Yeah.
00:11:24All right, so this one we need.
00:11:27How much is this?
00:11:28Five, five.
00:11:30Five thousand five hundred.
00:11:31For one or?
00:11:33One.
00:11:34Ah.
00:11:35It's too expensive.
00:11:37But, baby, we need it for the cleansing.
00:11:39Negotiate.
00:11:40We'll give you ten thousand.
00:11:42This two.
00:11:43Yes.
00:11:43Okay.
00:11:44How much?
00:11:45Ten thousand.
00:11:46Ten thousand?
00:11:47Yes.
00:11:47So you're giving him full price.
00:11:49You're not negotiating.
00:11:50You need to negotiate better once we get to the goats.
00:11:54Daniel is spending my money like it's water.
00:11:57He spent ten thousand on two yams, and I still have to buy a goat.
00:12:01I feel like we were ripped off.
00:12:03I don't think Daniel is a good negotiator.
00:12:04Look, look, look, look.
00:12:07Is this where we buy goats?
00:12:09Yeah.
00:12:09Yes.
00:12:11Which ones are females and which ones are males?
00:12:13This is female.
00:12:14This one is female.
00:12:17Yeah.
00:12:18Eh!
00:12:19Is she going to be good enough to cleanse me, though?
00:12:21Thanks.
00:12:22What?
00:12:23What's the price?
00:12:24Eh!
00:12:25Two hundred thousand.
00:12:25What?
00:12:26Two hundred thousand for a goat?
00:12:28No.
00:12:30I don't know.
00:12:31A lot less than that.
00:12:34How low would you go?
00:12:36How low would you go?
00:12:37I'm not paying two hundred for her.
00:12:38I'm not.
00:12:39Baby, hold on.
00:12:39No, you're letting me.
00:12:41How much?
00:12:41Not two hundred, no.
00:12:43Give me a hundred.
00:12:44A hundred.
00:12:44Yeah.
00:12:45We are not paying.
00:12:46Hold on.
00:12:46Oh, God.
00:12:47We are not paying a hundred.
00:12:47We are paying $70,000, please.
00:12:52And take it.
00:12:53Oh, my God.
00:12:54We just bought a freaking goat.
00:12:57I have enough money for this, but we still have to pay the priest.
00:13:04Poor goat.
00:13:14Everything comes down to this priest and this cleansing.
00:13:18He can say that I can't be cleansed, and that will be the end of everything.
00:13:23I will lose Daniel forever.
00:13:33Where are you taking me, baby?
00:13:35Just be careful.
00:13:36I am.
00:13:38This one right here?
00:13:39Yes.
00:13:40Go in.
00:13:41Oh, my God.
00:13:43Oh, my God.
00:13:47Hold on.
00:13:49He's yelling at me, Daniel.
00:13:50Give me your shoe, please.
00:13:52I will.
00:13:53Hold on.
00:14:09I have to be dreaming.
00:14:11This can't be real.
00:14:14Damn bitch, I want to run.
00:14:26I'm about to take this pregnancy test.
00:14:29Wait.
00:14:30Should we get it over with?
00:14:32Aviva is really hoping that she's pregnant.
00:14:34But if she's not, I'd be a little relief.
00:14:38Okay.
00:14:41Babe.
00:14:42Oh, my God.
00:15:06¡Suscríbete al canal!
00:15:13And after talking to my parents, I am just so confused.
00:15:18My parents think that I'm judging Josh too harshly.
00:15:21And like, I don't know, I am the queen at self-sabotaging.
00:15:25But I'm just trying to protect myself and my family.
00:15:27And it sucks because my heart wants one thing, my mind's telling me another right now.
00:15:32And it's scary.
00:15:45You all right?
00:15:48Yeah.
00:15:49Are you?
00:15:52Yeah.
00:15:53I'm going to get out of the apartment.
00:15:56Okay.
00:15:58Cool.
00:16:01I'm still feeling hurt by Elise.
00:16:03I'm starting to have a little bit of doubt creeping.
00:16:07I know I've fallen for her.
00:16:08But I don't want to be in a relationship where I have to explain myself 400 times.
00:16:12If she thinks that I'm using that, then I could use her.
00:16:15And that's not the case.
00:16:17And I would never want to use someone.
00:16:20It feels like she's attacking my integrity.
00:16:25So like, last night sucked.
00:16:31And I know you've got these worries, right?
00:16:33But like, I don't want you to think that, you know, I would use you, you know, or I'd be
00:16:38like your past relationships.
00:16:40I'd take advantage of you.
00:16:42But that's what angered me.
00:16:44Because it's the last thing I want to do.
00:16:47Okay.
00:16:48I just, I really like her.
00:16:51You know, I feel when you sort of say, you know, that I'm dependent on other people and I might
00:16:56be dependent on you.
00:16:58You know, and that, you know, she gave me a place to be.
00:17:00That's her.
00:17:03That's weird.
00:17:03It's not weird.
00:17:04It's weird.
00:17:06You know, you've said it.
00:17:07You've made your point.
00:17:09I had nothing to hide with her.
00:17:11Have you, let me ask you a question.
00:17:12Have you given me a reason for me to trust you?
00:17:15Do you not trust me?
00:17:17Not right now, no.
00:17:18I want to.
00:17:20I do.
00:17:20But let me earn that trust then.
00:17:22I'm showing you that, you know, I can look up for myself.
00:17:24I can depend for myself.
00:17:25I can be a partner for you without having to lean on, you know, friends or, you know.
00:17:58Please, I'm telling you right now, please.
00:17:59That's made me settle in my entire life with every relationship.
00:18:03I fell for words.
00:18:04And, like, I don't want to fall back into that.
00:18:06Like, I've been engaged three times.
00:18:07Like, I'm 32.
00:18:08I want to get married and I want to have kids.
00:18:10And it scares me because I do like you.
00:18:15And I didn't expect to like you so much so soon.
00:18:28You know, it's good to hear.
00:18:48I'm glad that Elyse is having a little more faith in me.
00:18:52The relationship needs to be built on mutual respect and not this sort of toxic takedown mentality that I can
00:18:57see that she's doing.
00:18:59I'm hoping that things get better and we just keep building because I do see a future with Elyse.
00:19:03So, I think we get the s*** out of the way and then we can just get stronger and stronger.
00:19:11You know what?
00:19:13Isn't it really sexy when the wind almost blows your top off?
00:19:16Hopefully it gets a bit windier.
00:19:42Moment of truth.
00:19:44Moment of truth.
00:19:47Okay.
00:19:48How are you feeling, babe?
00:19:50I'm freaking out.
00:19:53I am too, actually.
00:20:01All right, should we get it over with?
00:20:04I'm going to go in there alone.
00:20:07Why?
00:20:08Because I just want to do it on my own.
00:20:11How long does it take?
00:20:13I don't know.
00:20:14It's in Spanish.
00:20:15Oh, my.
00:20:18It just feels so surreal thinking about how far Stick and I have come over the past few weeks.
00:20:23Come on, let me get a little good little kiss.
00:20:27A few days ago, I was convinced we were breaking up.
00:20:30Now I'm taking a pregnancy test.
00:20:32So much has happened, but I'm leaving in less than two days and I have a lot of mixed emotions.
00:20:39I would love to find out that I'm pregnant and get this incredible news, but leaving Stick is going to
00:20:46be really difficult.
00:20:48After this, there might be no drinking, no partying, none of that.
00:20:52For you, too?
00:20:54No, no, no, no, no.
00:20:56If it's this positive, I've got to celebrate later on.
00:21:02I would be excited about all this.
00:21:04We would make, like, beautiful kids.
00:21:06For what?
00:21:07And I would love to have a son.
00:21:08And by the grace of God, he wants to sing.
00:21:13I'm not saying he has to be an artist because that's what I did.
00:21:16No, I agree.
00:21:16Nothing like that.
00:21:17Mm-hmm.
00:21:18I'm scared.
00:21:21All right.
00:21:22We'll do your thing.
00:21:23Okay.
00:21:25I just like boys because I know they're, like, mama's boys and they...
00:21:30It's going to be daddy's boy.
00:21:31What are you talking about?
00:21:32No.
00:21:32No, the girls always favor the dad.
00:21:34That's what I heard.
00:21:35The boys always favor the mom.
00:21:35That's what I heard.
00:21:36I've seen it.
00:21:36Not to sound bad, but I don't want the sins of my past to fall on me, so I'm scared
00:21:41to have a daughter.
00:21:42I don't want to have to kill anybody.
00:21:45Whatever.
00:21:46Gives me baby fever.
00:21:53Okay.
00:21:57I really want to know now before I leave.
00:21:59I don't want to find out when I'm back in Arizona without him because that would suck for him and
00:22:04me.
00:22:09Even though we only had unprotected sex for, I don't know, four to five days, I still just feel like
00:22:18I might be pregnant.
00:22:20I just have that feeling.
00:22:25Babe.
00:22:26Mm-hmm.
00:22:27How's it going?
00:22:28Are you done?
00:22:29Not yet.
00:22:30Be patient.
00:22:34Here goes nothing.
00:22:36Moment of truth.
00:22:42I'm talking.
00:22:54Bruh, my palms are sweaty.
00:22:57I can tell that she's really hoping that she's pregnant.
00:23:00If she is, I'm going to be right by her side.
00:23:04But honestly, if she's not pregnant, I'd be a little relief.
00:23:10Babe.
00:23:11Oh, my God.
00:23:16Okay.
00:23:44I feel like so much has happened in the last couple days.
00:23:47I feel like so much has happened in the last couple days.
00:23:47I think this has shown me I just want something different.
00:23:50I'll just be a few minutes.
00:23:53Before I leave Morocco, there's just one last thing that I need to take care of.
00:24:17I'm going to be a little bit of girlfriends.
00:24:23I feel like so much is she's pregnant.
00:24:27I think she's pregnant.
00:24:28¿No?
00:24:45Yesterday was another emotional day for me.
00:24:48I got stood up by Muhammad.
00:24:51I am single.
00:24:53I have no reason to be in Morocco anymore.
00:24:55And I'm ready to go home.
00:24:59I just know that this wasn't meant for me.
00:25:04I feel like so much has happened in the last couple days.
00:25:07And I think the best thing to do in this moment is to just get back home as soon as
00:25:12possible.
00:25:13So I am flying back to the U.S. today.
00:25:20Last night, when I got back to my hotel, I received a text from Muhammad.
00:25:27And he said, are you serious?
00:25:30You came to Morocco for someone else, not for me.
00:25:33I'm not your plan B.
00:25:36I think this was his plan all along.
00:25:38To bail on me and humiliate me one last time.
00:25:43He knew I came here for someone else.
00:25:45And he was really mad about it.
00:25:47So he just had me running around Morocco and jumping through hoops for him like I always used to do
00:25:53in the past.
00:25:54And I fell for it.
00:25:57I feel kind of dumb getting ditched by Muhammad.
00:26:01But at least now I don't have to wonder about any more what ifs.
00:26:05That door is closed forever.
00:26:13I'll just be a few minutes.
00:26:16But before I leave Morocco, there's just one last thing that I need to take care of.
00:26:34Hi.
00:26:38I really want to leave Morocco in peace after both of these failed relationships.
00:26:43So when I changed my flight, I decided to let Ziad know.
00:26:48And he actually agreed to meet me to say goodbye.
00:26:56Good morning.
00:26:58How are you?
00:27:00Okay, how are you?
00:27:02Fine.
00:27:04I mean, this day you're going to travel to your country.
00:27:07Yeah.
00:27:10So I wish you a good word.
00:27:14And that's all what I have to say, so.
00:27:17You don't want to say sorry for anything?
00:27:19Me?
00:27:20Mm-hmm.
00:27:21It's me who should say sorry.
00:27:23I mean, I think we both have things to apologize for.
00:27:27Come on.
00:27:28What do you want to find out?
00:27:32I'm hurt with what happened.
00:27:35I came here because I loved you and because I wanted to be with you.
00:27:40Did you ever love me?
00:27:44Before you come here, I was in love with you, really, yeah.
00:27:47But when you come here, we see each other in the reality how we are.
00:27:51Everything about us, it's not work.
00:27:56I'm really sorry.
00:27:59It's fine.
00:28:22I tried to ride on love again, but it took me down the dead end streets.
00:28:45Talking to him didn't make me feel better.
00:28:47It's almost like it doesn't matter to him.
00:28:50I was just expecting him to care a little bit more.
00:28:56This has definitely been a learning experience.
00:28:59I think this has shown me and taught me what I don't want in a relationship.
00:29:09Thank you so much.
00:29:15Thank you.
00:29:17Thank you.
00:29:18Thank you very much.
00:29:20I want to go home and focus on becoming the best version of me.
00:29:31How many bags?
00:29:32Three.
00:29:33A lot of makeup.
00:29:34Here you go.
00:29:35Thank you so much.
00:29:40But I'm not giving up on my search for love.
00:29:43I'm a hopeless romantic.
00:29:45I love love.
00:29:46And no matter how many times people have left me or dumped me, that's never going to stop me because
00:29:52I know true love is real.
00:29:55And I know somewhere in the world, my person does exist, who's happy to be with me.
00:30:03And I know that I'm going to find it.
00:30:06I know I'm going to find it.
00:30:07And I'm not going to stop until I do find it because I know it's out there.
00:30:16And this isn't the end of my journey.
00:30:20And you never know.
00:30:21It could happen tomorrow.
00:30:25Or on the plane.
00:30:30Morocco, it's been real.
00:30:31A lot of ups and downs.
00:30:33But I'm ready to go home.
00:30:37I'm ready.
00:30:38So, goodbye, Morocco.
00:30:45This is the water.
00:30:48Let's do this.
00:30:50I'm making a real effort here to fit in.
00:30:56You never had a washing machine?
00:30:59Remember you called me boozy?
00:31:01I'm not boozy.
00:31:02I think I got to take that back.
00:31:06My wife, to me, I'm affair with half a little woman.
00:31:14Woman, is it true what your husband said?
00:31:17Yes.
00:31:19This is totally sacrilege.
00:31:22The nursing is over.
00:31:47I love the door.
00:31:52Yeah.
00:31:54Yes.
00:31:55That's it.
00:31:57I'm going to do some squats with this.
00:31:59Oh, yeah, yeah.
00:32:00Fine.
00:32:09Oh.
00:32:10It's not one time.
00:32:11OK.
00:32:11I know it's not.
00:32:12I'm not going to say.
00:32:13All right.
00:32:16It's my second day with Trisha's family.
00:32:19And I've been trying to make myself useful today.
00:32:22You know, helping around the house.
00:32:25This is the water.
00:32:26Yeah.
00:32:27Yeah.
00:32:29All right.
00:32:29Let's see.
00:32:30Let's do this.
00:32:33How often you do this?
00:32:35Every day or?
00:32:36Yeah.
00:32:36Macaron sanando every day.
00:32:38You watch every day, huh?
00:32:39You cook every day.
00:32:41Oh, cook every day?
00:32:42So you got to get the water for laundry,
00:32:46for cooking, everything.
00:32:48I'm making a real effort here to fit in,
00:32:51to, you know, do some of the chores that they do.
00:32:55There's my shoulder.
00:32:59What up, Mura?
00:33:02Slut.
00:33:02Man.
00:33:03Hey, babe.
00:33:06Check out your man, baby.
00:33:08All right.
00:33:10You're good.
00:33:11This is not easy.
00:33:13Put it there.
00:33:13Bring the water here.
00:33:14Okay.
00:33:15Thank you for showing me where the water was.
00:33:18Let me show Chetik.
00:33:19Show her.
00:33:24That's it.
00:33:26Yeah, this is not my soap here.
00:33:28Yeah.
00:33:29It has soap.
00:33:33It's going to take forever.
00:33:36I think this is easier.
00:33:39I've never washed my clothes to the machine.
00:33:43Babe, are you serious?
00:33:44You never had a washing machine?
00:33:46We never had one.
00:33:48You even do this in Tana, huh?
00:33:50Yeah, even in Tana.
00:33:51I'm doing this.
00:33:55Remember you call me boozy?
00:33:57I'm not boozy.
00:33:58Babe, I think I got to take that back now.
00:34:01I know you be doing this s***.
00:34:05Man.
00:34:08So how was with my dad?
00:34:11Did you understand each other?
00:34:12Oh, yeah.
00:34:14But we didn't talk about anything serious.
00:34:18He didn't talk about babies or I don't know.
00:34:22Nah.
00:34:23I thought it was best just to leave that subject alone for now.
00:34:28He's not going to leave the subject alone.
00:34:32He's really, really worried about the baby more than I thought.
00:34:41So you should not take a long time.
00:34:46He wants that you should decide it before.
00:34:49Here you go.
00:34:53What do you think your dad would do if I don't come up with an answer in the next couple
00:35:00days?
00:35:02I don't know, Rick, but it's not just my dad.
00:35:07To me, having a baby, it means a lot.
00:35:13I want the mother-child relationship that I didn't get to have.
00:35:17You know, my mom, she left for another person.
00:35:29When I was one years old, my parents break up and my mom found another man.
00:35:40In my culture, when two people broke up and they have a child together and the girl decided to marry
00:35:55with another man,
00:35:56she cannot touch the baby.
00:35:59She cannot see the baby unless her husband buy animals and she has to cut the throat.
00:36:10The blood, they put it here on the babies.
00:36:14My mom didn't do it after she left us because her husband didn't accept for doing it.
00:36:24So she left me with my dad.
00:36:29She just followed the guy.
00:36:33She didn't care.
00:36:40Wash your clothes.
00:36:42I love you so much, you too.
00:36:45I know.
00:36:48I'm not used to talk about my mom because she makes me a little bit upset.
00:36:54Like, how, how she could not love a baby?
00:36:59It's cute, though.
00:37:02She left.
00:37:03I was just one years old.
00:37:05I know you're precious.
00:37:09You had a daddy that loves you more than...
00:37:15That's why I want, I want to make them happy.
00:37:19They want grandchild.
00:37:22I think that Trisha's trying to fill a void.
00:37:26And I want her to heal and have the life that she's envisioning.
00:37:31She deserves to be a mom.
00:37:33And I don't ever want to take that away from her.
00:37:36But at the same time, I'm not even financially prepared right now to have another child.
00:37:44My worst fear is to lose Trish.
00:37:48And it hurts me to think that I might have to let her go.
00:38:04Hi!
00:38:05You look sexy driving that boat!
00:38:08Today, Josh is taking me out on one of his company's boats.
00:38:11But he got a final warning because he took out a boat for a joyride and crashed it.
00:38:17I have so many questions.
00:38:18This whole boat thing is just super confusing to me.
00:38:20It's squared away, so you can be at ease and put it to rest.
00:38:25Joshua, it was $20,000 worth of damage.
00:38:28How did you pay for that?
00:38:45Chris?
00:38:46Yes?
00:38:47I think I have to poop.
00:38:49Could you leave?
00:38:49Just pretend I'm not even here.
00:38:51No, you have to leave.
00:38:53I haven't gone in seven days.
00:38:56You look like a serial killer.
00:38:58Ah!
00:39:18I feel so much better.
00:39:20I could finish shaving now.
00:39:21I sprayed.
00:39:22Don't worry.
00:39:23It doesn't smell.
00:39:24Yeah.
00:39:26I like Chris.
00:39:27I do.
00:39:28He's a great roommate.
00:39:29Really fun.
00:39:30And he's like a brother.
00:39:33That's hot.
00:39:34Whatever.
00:39:36But I'm not dating Chris.
00:39:38I'm dating Josh.
00:39:39Woo!
00:39:40And things have been a little rocky with Josh and I the past few days.
00:39:45Hopefully this red light mask did wonders.
00:39:47I need to get cute to go on this boat.
00:39:50We had an intense conversation at the beach the other day.
00:39:52But ever since then, things are starting to move in a better direction.
00:39:56And today, Josh is taking me out on one of his company's boats.
00:40:01You'll have a fun day out there.
00:40:02It'll be awesome.
00:40:03It's a fun job.
00:40:04Well, I know it's fun.
00:40:05A little too much fun.
00:40:08Please, focus on the positives for today.
00:40:10Let's have a positive day.
00:40:11Period.
00:40:11I like that.
00:40:12I'll give you a report card tonight.
00:40:14Okay.
00:40:14I get along well with Elise.
00:40:16I like Elise.
00:40:17But she's definitely looking for problems.
00:40:19Since she's been here, I've seen them go up and down very quick and very fast.
00:40:22Almost like a perfect little toxic relationship.
00:40:26So, short term, I think it's going to be fine.
00:40:29But long term, I don't know.
00:40:31I don't know.
00:40:43Thank you.
00:40:43Have a good day.
00:40:51Hi.
00:40:54Does...
00:40:54Do you guys know if Josh is here?
00:40:56He's not here right now, no.
00:40:58He works here, right?
00:40:59Yeah, he does.
00:40:59Okay.
00:41:00Yeah, that's actually his desk.
00:41:01This one?
00:41:02Yeah.
00:41:03Should I sit at his desk?
00:41:03Yeah, go for it.
00:41:04Go for it.
00:41:05That's his desk.
00:41:06That is where the magic happens.
00:41:08Hi, I'm Joshua.
00:41:11You just go down here, turn right.
00:41:13Straight down to the right.
00:41:14Yep.
00:41:24Hi!
00:41:25You look sexy driving that boat!
00:41:29Hi.
00:41:33Hi.
00:41:34Hi, baby.
00:41:34Hello.
00:41:37I know Alyssa's been a bit worried about my position at work because of some of the mistakes
00:41:41I made.
00:41:42Of course, the main part of my job is selling boats, but I wanted to see with her own eyes
00:41:46that I've still got a job and, you know, she's got nothing to worry about.
00:41:50Are you ready?
00:41:51I'm ready, baby.
00:41:54It's so pretty around here.
00:41:56Wow.
00:41:57Yeah.
00:41:58It's a beautiful day and it's a beautiful boat with a beautiful man.
00:42:02So when I walked in looking for you today, I went into your office and I met someone and
00:42:08I sat at your desk.
00:42:09Did you?
00:42:10Yeah.
00:42:11Did you get some work done?
00:42:13No, not at all.
00:42:15It was fun to show off a little bit.
00:42:17I do like being out on the water any chance I get.
00:42:20That was my first impression of you when I saw you on social media.
00:42:23She's on the front of a boat looking fabulous.
00:42:25I think it was on the back, actually.
00:42:28You're on the front.
00:42:30Okay.
00:42:30You would know boats better than me.
00:42:32Yes.
00:42:34Can I see outside?
00:42:36Yeah.
00:42:36I got some champagne.
00:42:38Smart boy.
00:42:39This was like an ideal day for me.
00:42:41I'm glad.
00:42:46Well, I'm happy you took me on the boat.
00:42:48Did you ask your boss or?
00:42:51I did, yeah.
00:42:52And he gave you permission?
00:42:53Yep.
00:42:55Before I got to Australia, Josh had sent me a text saying he got a final warning from
00:43:00work because he took out a company boat that they were selling for a joyride with friends
00:43:06and crashed it.
00:43:08He has to pay back the damages.
00:43:10He owes $20,000.
00:43:11So yeah, I'm happy he still has a job.
00:43:13But I feel like what he did was 100% irresponsible.
00:43:17I have so many questions and I still haven't had a proper conversation about it yet.
00:43:22Listen, it's like I'm not here to make you feel any worse.
00:43:27But this whole boat thing is just super confusing to me.
00:43:38Nat and a few other, Nat and another few friends, they have friends who were going to become clients of
00:43:45mine.
00:43:46And those clients who I'm trying to network with and get closer to are then going to come to me
00:43:52when they want to buy a boat.
00:43:53So I took them out on one of our company boats and on our way back here.
00:44:00So I got a bit too shallow and flipped through the rock and I was s***ing bricks.
00:44:05But, you know, it could have been way worse.
00:44:11It got fixed straight away.
00:44:16Joshua, you told me it was $20,000 worth of damage.
00:44:20Well, look, when I first did the damage, I thought that it was, you know, going to be a little
00:44:25bit more damage.
00:44:26Because I didn't know exactly.
00:44:27I couldn't swim under the boat and see what happened.
00:44:29But no, it was like, it was a couple of grand.
00:44:32Thank God, you know.
00:44:33And is that paid off?
00:44:34Yeah, it is paid off.
00:44:36How did you pay for that?
00:44:38Well, before you got here, I sold a boat.
00:44:40I sold a share in a boat.
00:44:41So that commission did not go to me.
00:44:44The money that you sold, you didn't get that money.
00:44:46It went to that damages.
00:44:47So that squared away.
00:44:49So you can be at ease and put it to rest.
00:44:52I'm still working.
00:44:53I'm still got a job.
00:44:54I'm responsible.
00:44:55I can, I'm trusted.
00:44:58And I got worried about it.
00:44:59But all in all, you know, I have my s*** together.
00:45:03Yeah.
00:45:05Okay.
00:45:07Well, I understand that.
00:45:10And I'm really happy I came on the boat.
00:45:12But I guess the only thing that's, like, really on my mind
00:45:16and, like, putting a damper on this is the gnat situation.
00:45:20Okay.
00:45:21Why can't I drop the gnat then?
00:45:24I didn't realize she was on the boat with you that night.
00:45:27And, like, this emotional connection you have with her,
00:45:30the financial hold she has on you.
00:45:33I don't want to have to keep ten times having to tell you something
00:45:36and you not believe it.
00:45:38You're not letting things go.
00:45:39No, I'm letting it go.
00:45:40I just didn't.
00:45:41It doesn't seem like you are.
00:45:42I'm trying to get down to the bottom of this.
00:45:44Okay.
00:45:45Let's go and see her.
00:45:46Let's us three hang out so it's just us three.
00:45:48And, you know, hopefully I can put your mind at ease.
00:45:52We'll do it tonight.
00:45:55Okay.
00:45:57Of course she was on the boat.
00:45:59Did she pay for the damages?
00:46:01Should have been my first question.
00:46:03I mean, Josh clearly still has a job,
00:46:06but he depends on Nat financially.
00:46:08I'm just still really confused.
00:46:10So I'm really glad that I'm going to see Nat tonight
00:46:12so I can get some answers and just finally put this to rest.
00:46:30I swear to God, I am about to be cursed.
00:46:33I am scared.
00:46:35This is no priest I have ever seen in my life.
00:46:38They will come after you.
00:46:50So you got to wait one to five minutes.
00:47:07So two lines is pregnant.
00:47:09One line is not.
00:47:19Well, there we go.
00:47:23It's a pretty strong, dark one line.
00:47:27Not two.
00:47:29Yeah, I know.
00:47:30Well, yeah.
00:47:32Two means pregnant.
00:47:34Two means pregnant.
00:47:36Think it's going to just stay negative?
00:47:38I think so.
00:47:43I actually feel really disappointed.
00:47:46Stig and I have had so much fun the past few weeks.
00:47:48We've gotten closer.
00:47:50I've gotten to see a side of him
00:47:52I didn't know before
00:47:52and I was really excited to think about having our baby
00:47:56and starting a little family.
00:47:58I'm really sad.
00:47:59I'm really bummed.
00:48:02Don't worry.
00:48:03I feel more let down than I expected.
00:48:06I don't know.
00:48:07I thought it would be a perfect end to our trip.
00:48:11I don't know.
00:48:12If we could, you know.
00:48:14I just don't know when I'm going to see you next.
00:48:16No.
00:48:17Why are you saying that?
00:48:18Like you're acting like we're going to break up
00:48:20when you leave or something?
00:48:20That would just, I feel like
00:48:23make things happen quicker.
00:48:25Like I would have motivation to hurry up, move.
00:48:28Instead of go home and, eh.
00:48:31Don't stress yourself out.
00:48:33Don't think about it so deep.
00:48:37It's really hitting me that I'm going home
00:48:39and I just have no idea what to expect.
00:48:42Without a baby,
00:48:43it's hard to know how serious he is about our future.
00:48:50I'm worried that after I leave Belize,
00:48:53he's not going to be around me anymore
00:48:55and Stig is going to go
00:48:57just right back into his old partying ways.
00:49:00I just feel a little unsure
00:49:02about what the future holds
00:49:04and it's giving me a lot of anxiety.
00:49:14No!
00:49:43This is so not what I expected.
00:49:45This is a small, tiny cubby hole.
00:49:47It is hot.
00:49:49The priest is yelling and screaming at me
00:49:51and I don't know what he's saying.
00:49:56I know this is supposed to cleanse me from my lies,
00:50:00but I swear to God, I am about to be cursed.
00:50:02I am scared.
00:50:04This is no priest I have ever seen in my life.
00:50:35Tell me why they are here.
00:50:37¿Qué?
00:50:38¿Qué?
00:50:40¿Qué?
00:50:41¿Qué?
00:50:43¿Qué?
00:50:43¿Qué?
00:50:44¿Qué?
00:50:45¿Qué?
00:50:45¿Qué?
00:50:46¿Qué?
00:50:47Somehow he knows when he throws these shells and they land in a certain way, I'm there
00:50:51for a cleansing.
00:50:52This is craziness.
00:50:56¿Quién es este?
00:50:58He's to be my husband.
00:51:00¿Por qué estás aquí?
00:51:02¿Por qué?
00:51:02Um, my wife-to-be had an affair with her fellow woman.
00:51:09Hmm.
00:51:12Woman?
00:51:14Yes, sir.
00:51:15Is it true what your husband said?
00:51:19Yes.
00:51:20Hmm.
00:51:22There's more, though.
00:51:23I also lied to everybody.
00:51:26I wasn't married twice like I had told Daniel.
00:51:30I was married five times.
00:51:32And we're waiting on the divorce of the fifth one.
00:51:38This is totally sacrilege.
00:51:43In Africa, any woman that committed a promenation, there is something we call sacrilege.
00:51:49It requires I clean them up.
00:51:52By the ghost directing us, we are just the mouthpiece to the ghost.
00:51:58And if they mess up the cleansing, the ghost will say no.
00:52:19Give him all of what you have in your pocket that I gave you.
00:52:22Give him all of it, Daniel.
00:52:23Put it there.
00:52:24Don't put it there.
00:52:29Put it there.
00:52:32What is your response?
00:52:45You are bringing goat.
00:52:46You are bringing yam.
00:52:47There is another thing you're going to do.
00:52:51That is what they have all said.
00:52:58Hmm.
00:53:02Rodis, this is your husband.
00:53:06Rodis, this is you.
00:53:09Repeat after me.
00:53:11Me and my husband is one.
00:53:12Me and my husband are one.
00:53:14Forever and ever.
00:53:16Forever and ever.
00:53:17No man, no woman.
00:53:18No man, no woman.
00:53:19Put us under.
00:53:20Put us under.
00:53:21That is what I promise.
00:53:22That is what I promise.
00:53:23Kiss it.
00:53:25Give it to me.
00:53:26You have agreed.
00:53:33You are crying.
00:53:34You are crying.
00:54:03I wish I knew what the f*** was going on.
00:54:06This is terrifying.
00:54:08I'm telling you, this is voodoo magic.
00:54:13After this cleansing today, will you mess up again?
00:54:18No.
00:54:19It's an agreement between you and Oracle.
00:54:22If you miss BF, they will come after you.
00:54:31You need to remove the rubber.
00:54:49Take him off the rubber from the goat signifies that she has been cleansed.
00:54:54That is our tradition.
00:54:56Embrace your husband.
00:55:03Am I clean?
00:55:10You are cleansed from today.
00:55:13Thank you.
00:55:24I don't know what the f*** just happened.
00:55:31I know I'm cleansed.
00:55:33I don't care about anything else.
00:55:35Point is, if it's enough for us to be accepted as husband and wife, then that's all I wanted.
00:55:41Well done.
00:55:44Maybe I love you.
00:55:45I love you, too.
00:55:52Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:55:54I am extremely happy that we are cleansed.
00:55:58We can go ahead and get married.
00:56:00I really appreciate you.
00:56:02Right.
00:56:03It's a question.
00:56:10Can we have sex?
00:56:15Why not?
00:56:16Come on.
00:56:32Last night was more f***ing sloppy than what I thought it would be.
00:56:39I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:56:41It's way better than what I thought.
00:56:42Me and my hand, I'm sorry.
00:56:44We're going to have to break up.
00:56:45I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:56:48You're so glad.
00:57:05Sheena, I feel lots of weight off my mind.
00:57:08Yeah.
00:57:10Last night, just being able to touch you and feel you.
00:57:15Just makes me so, so happy.
00:57:20It was the most special moment that I've ever had with you.
00:57:27I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:57:30I'm just glad that we didn't break the bed.
00:57:39I hate it.
00:57:39I hate it.
00:57:39You're typing me out.
00:57:40I know.
00:57:41Yeah, it's like you took the driver's seat and just kept going.
00:57:44As of today, I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:57:47It was a great sensation.
00:57:49I never...
00:57:50It's way better than what I thought, okay?
00:57:52Way better than what I do at night by myself.
00:57:56Me and my hand, I'm sorry.
00:57:57We're going to have to break up.
00:58:01I really enjoyed it last night with you, and I'm so, so happy, and I'm so glad that we've
00:58:07even come to this stage.
00:58:10Yeah.
00:58:10I was thinking about how it'd be before sleeping with you, and I thought it'd be, like, this
00:58:16magical thing, like, there was going to be, like, sparks and fireworks, and last night
00:58:21was exactly kind of what I thought.
00:58:25Well, more f***ing sloppy than what I thought it would be.
00:58:31When you got on top and started going, my legs were so f***ed, I felt like I needed a life
00:58:39preserver to make sure I don't drown.
00:58:42It was the best 35 seconds of my life.
00:58:45No, okay, I lasted a little bit longer than that.
00:58:48But Sheena, Nan, she went and hopped on top of me and just showed me who was the boss.
00:58:54Oh, I didn't do that.
00:58:56Oh, yeah, you did.
00:58:56Oh, no, I didn't do that.
00:58:57You took charge.
00:59:01I'm happy because you're quite gentle.
00:59:03You're quite the gentle one for me.
00:59:05I mean, so I felt the respect and the love from you.
00:59:08I didn't want to hurt you, so that's kind of why I kind of laid back and let you go.
00:59:16I was, to be honest, I didn't know how to put a condom twist, you know.
00:59:21But I couldn't say the right word.
00:59:24There's a lot of learning, but I think that we haven't got it.
00:59:30And giving all myself to Forrest, I felt amazing.
00:59:34It's hard to describe.
00:59:36How would you rate me 1 to 10?
00:59:39Well, let me say around 11 perhaps for me.
00:59:47Sex was great.
00:59:49Yeah, I know.
00:59:50But the connection that we got afterwards, after, is definitely something I was not expecting.
00:59:55I just feel like, you know, the world is revolving around us now.
01:00:03Yeah, it's like a magnet.
01:00:06Mm-hmm.
01:00:08And I really feel like, even though we're not legally married, we can work out the paperwork later.
01:00:14But last night, you became my wife.
01:00:19You are my wife till the end of the earth.
01:00:27And if I go back now, then I won't have you, and I won't have, basically, my wife with me.
01:00:35So, this has made me even more committed to, you know, do everything in my power to be with you.
01:00:43Having sex with Sheena definitely has changed a lot of things.
01:00:48I feel like our heart and our souls are one and the same.
01:00:53But I only have a few more days left here in the Philippines, and I'm just extremely torn right now.
01:00:58Because you can go and you can be like, oh, I love you, I love you on the phone, but
01:01:02it's not the same as holding the person in your arms.
01:01:07I'm starting to feel like maybe the right choice is to stay here in the Philippines.
01:01:13But I know that my mother, she's not going to have a good reaction to that.
01:01:19It's going to be like a typhoon hitting a hurricane and kind of just blow everything up.
01:01:28I love Trisha very, very much.
01:01:32I need more time.
01:01:35I'm not prepared to do so.
01:01:50Do you want to go see the Mayan Awards today?
01:01:53Yeah.
01:01:54What happened?
01:01:55You still in a bad mood?
01:01:59There's plenty of time.
01:02:01We're going to make babies stop tripping.
01:02:14I'm excited to see this.
01:02:16Yes, it's amazing here.
01:02:20This is our very last day together on this trip, so I want to make it count.
01:02:25I want it to be special.
01:02:26So today, I decided to take Aviva to the Mayan Awards, one of Belize's main attractions.
01:02:34You're going to love this.
01:02:36I'm going to be your official tour guide.
01:02:38Oh.
01:02:40I'm glad we're at this place.
01:02:42This is very spiritual for me, so I want to experience this with Aviva.
01:02:59Hey, at one point, this used to be just like, imagine, just mountains and hills.
01:03:05And somebody, some bright mind came and said, yo, maybe we should check it out and dig and dig.
01:03:11Imagine finding all of these stuff.
01:03:14Where's your stage, babe?
01:03:16Front and center.
01:03:17Go see.
01:03:17This is one, right?
01:03:18Back in the day, I would be right here performing for all my peoples.
01:03:22And I would have been the groupie in the front row.
01:03:24Ah.
01:03:26I'm going to marry your daughter.
01:03:32I hope you're seeing that, babe, that I do want kids with you.
01:03:35I do want a family.
01:03:36This is not something just regular for me.
01:03:39Not just a little vacay you visited me.
01:03:41This is more than that for me.
01:03:44All right?
01:03:45It makes me happy, babe.
01:03:47Aviva, I love you, mom.
01:03:48I love you, too.
01:03:52I was feeling pretty upset about the negative pregnancy test.
01:03:56But now, Stey and I are joking around, having a good time.
01:04:00And he's just making me feel so special.
01:04:03Look at the tree.
01:04:04Pretty, right?
01:04:05It's super cool walking around the Mayan ruins.
01:04:08It's beautiful.
01:04:09So much history.
01:04:10And I just love spending this quality time with him.
01:04:15Seems lonely.
01:04:16Wow.
01:04:18That's huge.
01:04:20Right?
01:04:21That is so cool.
01:04:23I know.
01:04:25People go all the way to the top.
01:04:28That is beautiful.
01:04:29We should, for sure.
01:04:30You want to go to the top?
01:04:31Hell yeah.
01:04:31Me too.
01:04:33This feels so easy.
01:04:37I'm full of gratitude at this point.
01:04:40We've been through so much.
01:04:42And there were days when it looked dark.
01:04:45When we thought that, you know, maybe this is it.
01:04:48I'm going to race you to the top now.
01:04:51But look at us.
01:04:52I think opposites attract.
01:04:54Like, she's the missing piece of the puzzle.
01:04:56I feel like we're a perfect balance.
01:04:59And I can see the future clearly.
01:05:02Want to go to the top for real?
01:05:04Yes.
01:05:04Let's do it.
01:05:05Let's go.
01:05:07Way, way up there.
01:05:13Babe.
01:05:14Maybe you should stop.
01:05:17For real.
01:05:18I want to tell you something.
01:05:22Since the first time I met you, babe, at the airport,
01:05:25something just made me feel like you're the one for real.
01:05:28I knew I was going to do this.
01:05:29I know you were scared.
01:05:31But I actually fell in love with you, Abil.
01:05:34Mm-hmm.
01:05:36And I want to be with you for the rest of my life.
01:05:39That's so sweet.
01:05:41So, babe, will you marry me?
01:05:43Ah!
01:05:48Yes?
01:05:50She said yes!
01:05:55So sweet.
01:06:00Love you.
01:06:03What do you see?
01:06:06You got me shaking, babe.
01:06:09Is this on us left?
01:06:11Left.
01:06:13Hopefully it fits.
01:06:15Yes.
01:06:18What?
01:06:24I've engaged a stick.
01:06:26The artist.
01:06:27Like, how cool is that?
01:06:30You are full of surprises, but this is definitely the best one.
01:06:34This is the most nervous I've ever been.
01:06:36For real, for real.
01:06:38I'm an engaged man now.
01:06:41I've been carrying around this engagement ring for a while.
01:06:44But at first, I wasn't too sure because I felt like she was questioning me and who I am.
01:06:49You know, that made me a little sad.
01:06:51But then closer leading up to today, I felt sure in my heart.
01:06:57You still want to go to the top?
01:06:58Of course I do.
01:06:59Let's go.
01:07:00Let's go.
01:07:02Let's go.
01:07:02This is my fiancée, Aviva.
01:07:03This is my fiancée, Stig.
01:07:06Thank you.
01:07:09You're walking in sync.
01:07:12You got to call her in spring.
01:07:14I'm going to, oh, I have to tell you it's spring.
01:07:16Oh, no.
01:07:17I'm going to marry your niece.
01:07:23It's so cool.
01:07:24I know, right?
01:07:26Babe, there's always going to be people spreading rumors, trying to get into your mind.
01:07:31Forget about all that, right?
01:07:32I got you.
01:07:33We're a team now.
01:07:34We're going to lie to you.
01:07:35Okay.
01:07:36Promise you.
01:07:37I definitely believe you now.
01:07:48I love you, babe.
01:07:49I love you, too.
01:07:50I love you, too.
01:07:51You make me love, you're crazy.
01:08:00Okay, we're going to have you just one more job, bro.
01:08:12Oh, look, baby, that's some bananas.
01:08:13Let's get something for your family.
01:08:15You want bananas.
01:08:17I think your family likes bananas, too, though, babe.
01:08:27So the dark green one isn't better?
01:08:30Yeah, this is better.
01:08:32For it.
01:08:33Tonight, Trisha and I are flying back to Antananarivo.
01:08:37Yeah.
01:08:38There you go, Trisha.
01:08:41These past few days, I've seen more sides to Trish.
01:08:45I've fallen even deeper in love with her, but I haven't made up my mind yet whether or
01:08:52not I want another child.
01:08:54This is my grandma used to sell fruits before.
01:09:00This was her stand right here?
01:09:01Did you sell stuff out here?
01:09:04Yeah, like fruits.
01:09:05Oh, my gosh, baby, I just cannot picture you doing that.
01:09:09Yeah.
01:09:10I know how important it is to Trish and her family, but I think the best solution to this
01:09:18is for Trish to ask her dad again for more time.
01:09:22Trish's dad seems like a nice guy, and maybe they could ease up a little bit.
01:09:50You know, Mr. Ochoa, no?
01:09:52Thank you.
01:09:53Sí.
01:09:56No, Dios quiere hablar con nosotros.
01:10:29¿Qué es la cara?
01:10:30Eso es la cara.
01:10:30Yo no sé lo que es la cara.
01:10:33No, no se asca.
01:10:42¿Quieres tu?
01:10:44¿Pu distingüe?
01:10:45¡Pu distingüe!
01:10:47¡Va a las que se levanta!
01:11:00¿Cómo fue tu viaje?
01:11:02Oh, ha sido, ha sido maravilloso.
01:11:06Me encanta tu hija muy, y cada día que se va,
01:11:10me encanta más.
01:11:19No, no.
01:11:23That's good.
01:11:31We're going to leave, so that's why he's called us here.
01:11:50Um, what about your answer about the kids?
01:12:04I want to respect your dad's demands for a decision now,
01:12:11um, but I'm not prepared to do so.
01:12:26Um, I love Patricia very, very much.
01:13:01You have to decide it, yes or no,
01:13:03but if no, they have to hold me.
01:13:09Like, we cannot be together anymore.
01:13:18You guys are emotionally tied.
01:13:20Yeah, absolutely.
01:13:21So why the am I here?
01:13:22Is this just sexual?
01:13:24And she's helping you financially.
01:13:26No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:13:27If you said that one more time, I'm going to leave.
01:13:29I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
01:13:32You want me to go ask every single person here?
01:13:35Hey, guys, let me ask you guys all the f***ing questions.
01:13:39This girl's a psycho.
01:13:51Should I have a quick shower?
01:13:53I didn't shower.
01:13:55You don't need a shower at home.
01:13:57I stink.
01:13:59Maybe you do need a shower.
01:14:09Well, you're not f***ing good.
01:14:12Thank you.
01:14:13Oof.
01:14:14Is this okay for the bar?
01:14:16Or where we're going?
01:14:18I love it.
01:14:19Josh took me out on one of his company's boats today,
01:14:22and it honestly was great.
01:14:24It would be nice if he owned the boat,
01:14:26but, like, driving his company's boat, it's okay.
01:14:29I feel like I got some questions answered,
01:14:31but the Nat situation has not cleared up,
01:14:33and that's, like, the one thing kind of lingering over us.
01:14:36So we set up tonight for us to just all get together
01:14:39and put everything on the table.
01:14:42We can be dirty together.
01:14:43We'll shower later.
01:14:44I feel salty.
01:14:45It'd be two seconds.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:47Got to make sure you shower for Nat.
01:14:52I don't want this affecting our relationship,
01:14:54but, like, Josh hasn't been transparent from the start.
01:14:57He lied about his living situation with Nat.
01:14:59Now I'm just finding out she was there the night he crashed the boat.
01:15:03And on top of that, they text throughout the day,
01:15:06throughout the night, at all hours of the night.
01:15:08Like, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
01:15:12Nat, Nat, Nat, Nat.
01:15:14It's like, dude.
01:15:16Like, I haven't, like, looked at the messages,
01:15:18but it's just shady and weird.
01:15:21I need to figure out once and for all what is going on
01:15:24because I am so confused.
01:15:37Just do me a favor.
01:15:39Don't kick it.
01:15:40Can't promise you anything.
01:15:53Don't mind me, I just brought some hand warmers.
01:15:56It's so cold.
01:15:57I'm freezing.
01:15:58It's not that cold.
01:15:59I'm freezing.
01:16:01How are you?
01:16:02I'm good.
01:16:03I'm good.
01:16:04Busy day today.
01:16:05Poured a couple of things.
01:16:06What'd you get?
01:16:07I got this nice dress.
01:16:10I feel like everyone in Australia wears black.
01:16:14Yeah, I don't know.
01:16:15I love black, so...
01:16:19I really want Elise to see that I'm taking her concern seriously
01:16:22and that I'm committed to building a relationship with her.
01:16:26But I know for that to happen, she needs to trust me,
01:16:29especially when it comes to Nat.
01:16:30What are we choosing, Gil?
01:16:31To you guys.
01:16:33We need to sort of get her to realise that we're just friends
01:16:35and that we can finally move on.
01:16:38We went on the boat today.
01:16:40Oh, DJ, how was it?
01:16:41It was...
01:16:42Yeah, it was beautiful.
01:16:43And what else is happening?
01:16:44Obviously, like, we've been talking a lot.
01:16:47Yeah.
01:16:47And, like, there's so much to digest, you know, everything.
01:16:50Yeah, of course.
01:16:53I mean, I do feel, like, uncomfortable.
01:16:55One of our problems in our relationship is not you necessarily,
01:16:59but, like, I just feel very uncomfortable about this connection.
01:17:08Every single time I see him on his phone, he's talking to you.
01:17:12You're together all the time.
01:17:14You're even on the boat together that night.
01:17:16He damaged it.
01:17:18Yep.
01:17:19So, what's the problem?
01:17:21You guys are emotionally tied.
01:17:24Yeah, absolutely.
01:17:24I wouldn't want to be friends with someone
01:17:26if I wouldn't emotionally talk with him.
01:17:28But it's not just an emotional aspect to it.
01:17:31I'm going to be honest.
01:17:32Like, I'm scared he's so close financially with you.
01:17:37So, I want to get to the bottom of this once and for all.
01:17:41Like, how does it work?
01:17:45What do you mean?
01:17:47Well, he lives there.
01:17:49He doesn't say rent.
01:17:51You help him.
01:17:52Like, yeah, I've loaned money.
01:17:55He's paid me back.
01:17:57I don't know what you want me to say.
01:17:59When people talk about money, to me, it's really icky.
01:18:02Like, that's...
01:18:03I just think it's gross.
01:18:05I think it's weird.
01:18:08I don't want a guy I'm dating and a guy that's literally telling me he's falling for me to be
01:18:13supported by another girl.
01:18:14Like, so why the f*** am I here?
01:18:17Is this just sexual?
01:18:18Because you have an emotional relationship with a woman and she's helping you financially.
01:18:23It's like, no, stop saying she's helping financially.
01:18:25If you say that one more time, I'm going to leave.
01:18:27No, f***.
01:18:28We have both said that that's not the case.
01:18:32But then what's your f***ing game plan?
01:18:36What?
01:18:36I want to know, when I leave, you are going to go live with Nat, yes or no?
01:18:44Well, I probably would go back to hers, but it is short f***ing f***ing term.
01:18:51But I don't want to f***ing think of my man living with another girl.
01:18:54Why can I not have a friend and a female?
01:18:57I think it's f***ing weird.
01:18:58Do you want me to go ask every single person now?
01:19:00Because I will.
01:19:00I wouldn't, and it would be embarrassing to you.
01:19:02Yeah.
01:19:05Okay, let it be embarrassing for me.
01:19:07I don't give a f***.
01:19:09Hey, guys!
01:19:11Let me ask you guys all the f***ing question.
01:19:14Am I crazy?
01:19:16Or is my guy living with a girl and getting financially f***ing supported crazy?
01:19:24No!
01:19:26He's f***ing lying to me!
01:19:28That's pretty crazy.
01:19:30Thank you!
01:19:32We've been talking six months.
01:19:33We've been talking six months.
01:19:34They hadn't met until just recently, though.
01:19:38He shouldn't be living with her, right?
01:19:40And getting financially supported, right?
01:19:41Yeah.
01:19:41Thank you!
01:19:42He shouldn't be living with her and he's getting financially supported.
01:19:45Do you think that's crazy?
01:19:46Thank you!
01:19:48Thank you.
01:19:50I mean, is this not crazy now?
01:19:52It could be.
01:19:52Is this not crazy now?
01:19:54Yeah, but I'm having two against one.
01:19:56What the f*** am I supposed to do?
01:19:57You're not saying you're sorry.
01:19:58You're not yelling at a bar where I leave.
01:20:00You're here!
01:20:01She's still a psycho.
01:20:03She's toxic.
01:20:04I'm sorry.
01:20:06You don't know which one you're getting, is it?
01:20:07F*** you, bitch.
01:20:08F*** you.
01:20:09F*** off.
01:20:09Good luck.
01:20:13Like, honestly, I'm not doing that.
01:20:16She's a f***ing psycho.
01:20:17What the f***?
01:20:18Who does that?
01:20:19Who yells at people in a bar?
01:20:20Like, she's creating all of these issues that aren't even there.
01:20:23Yeah, that's a big red flag.
01:20:26Huge red flag.
01:20:31Hey, Nat.
01:20:33You all right?
01:20:34Yeah.
01:20:35Are you okay?
01:20:36Cute, you guys are together.
01:20:37Cool.
01:20:38So f***ing cute.
01:20:39Give me my purse.
01:20:40So f***ing cute.
01:20:41So you run to her after this, right?
01:20:43Just both.
01:20:45Do you want to go?
01:20:46Bye, guys.
01:20:47Asshole.
01:20:51I'm just embarrassed.
01:20:52Like, I'm confused as well now.
01:20:54What do I do?
01:20:55I feel like I was falling in love, though.
01:20:58But that s***, I'm done.
01:21:06Like...
01:21:07Next time on Before the 90 Days...
01:21:12I'm sorry.
01:21:13There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
01:21:17What's that?
01:21:19Oral sex.
01:21:22My fellow women have been giving her the oral sex.
01:21:25I am not a woman.
01:21:26I have my d***.
01:21:29It's major for me.
01:21:34You ready, bro?
01:21:35Woo!
01:21:36Woo!
01:21:37In a couple of days, we're going to renew our vows.
01:21:40And I just can't wait.
01:21:42What are you looking for wedding bands?
01:21:45$268.
01:21:48I think he's not sure.
01:21:50I assume you don't want some men mistaken me as, you know, still available, single woman.
01:21:56They can have you.
01:21:57Okay.
01:21:58Okay.
01:22:00She went off yelling from the whole bar.
01:22:03F*** that.
01:22:06I'm f***ing angry.
01:22:08Angry.
01:22:09Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
01:22:11I think it was a massive overreaction.
01:22:13For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
01:22:22I'm worried I'm going to disappoint my mom.
01:22:25It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
01:22:27Not just following her orders around.
01:22:30My mother, she's always been my safety net.
01:22:32But her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
01:22:37Did you guys make any plans?
01:22:39Because we are leaving tomorrow.
01:22:43Yeah.
01:22:44I have decided I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:22:50This is our choice.
01:22:53What's that f*** that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:58Was it okay?
01:22:59Yeah.
01:22:59He's a good guy.
01:23:01But turns out, we're not so good.
01:23:06Something is going on between you and Michael.
01:23:08Will you just shut up and listen?
01:23:11Don't tell me to shut up.
01:23:14I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I tried to kiss Michael.
01:23:19BeerCon's massive reaction, that pisses me off.
01:23:26Hey.
01:23:27Hey.
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