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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:04Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep, and time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar
00:00:16the second I landed at the airport.
00:00:19I'm here.
00:00:22Wonderful, mama.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:27I know how many concerns my mom has
00:00:29about our relationship.
00:00:31So mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35She ain't pretty much here.
00:00:37So I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:43Birkan has admitted to me that he has
00:00:46a substantial amount of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about dambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it
00:00:57if he would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05OK.
00:01:06We should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that you were here,
00:01:18so I cannot go back.
00:01:22I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting
00:01:25with her family.
00:01:26Trish is starting to warm up a little bit,
00:01:29but it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:34I've been married five times,
00:01:36and I am still married.
00:01:39Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture
00:01:41is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:02:00So you're breaking up with me
00:02:02because I was with a guy before you.
00:02:05Because you're lying to me,
00:02:06I can't move on with you.
00:02:08I make a lot of my energy
00:02:10to be with her,
00:02:12but I feel betrayed.
00:02:15You're just going to walk out
00:02:16and leave me here by myself?
00:02:18You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:20You're an asshole.
00:02:22I did all of this
00:02:23to try to be with someone
00:02:25and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:02:35I don't know what you're doing.
00:03:17I'm too worried about Daniel
00:03:18and what's going on with Daniel
00:03:20and what's going to happen next,
00:03:22and I don't...
00:03:25I don't know.
00:03:26I don't know.
00:03:29Last night, I told Daniel
00:03:30that I was married five times
00:03:33and I'm still married.
00:03:35He didn't react very well at all.
00:03:37So I decided to get another room.
00:03:41I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:43I've lost respect.
00:03:45I feel hopeless.
00:03:47What am I going to do now?
00:03:50Did you see him or talk to him?
00:03:52I tried to call him,
00:03:53and then about 11.08 p.m.,
00:03:56I said, I love you with all my heart.
00:03:57He says, I don't think you do.
00:04:00Then what stops you
00:04:01from telling me those things?
00:04:03I said so many fears.
00:04:04He's asking me fears of what,
00:04:06and I say fears of losing you.
00:04:08He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:11He has not said he wants to be with me.
00:04:15So basically, yeah, he...
00:04:19I don't know.
00:04:20I don't know where he is right now,
00:04:22what he's thinking,
00:04:24or what his feelings are.
00:04:33Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans
00:04:36to take him away for a few days,
00:04:37and we're supposed to leave today.
00:04:39Really bad timing for me to tell him all this
00:04:42when I've already paid me plans
00:04:44to take him somewhere special,
00:04:45and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:48So what I'm hoping is seeing him,
00:04:52telling him that I made plans,
00:04:54it's already paid for,
00:04:55and hopefully he'll come with me,
00:05:00and hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:08Last night, I couldn't sleep
00:05:10because of what she was.
00:05:13She was drunk.
00:05:16And she left the room,
00:05:18so I didn't go after her.
00:05:21I left her.
00:05:29She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:31I will talk to her,
00:05:33but I have to let her know
00:05:34that she have gone wrong.
00:05:38I'm kind of like on a mission.
00:05:41I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:44And I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way
00:05:47shows that he's desperately in love with me,
00:05:49and he's heartbroken.
00:05:52So I'm going to wipe the tears,
00:05:54and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:57I'm not giving up and walking away
00:05:58like I have every other relationship.
00:06:01This one is good,
00:06:02and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:21I can't say it enough.
00:06:24I'm really, really sorry
00:06:25about not telling you everything.
00:06:32Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:36No.
00:06:37Around 5 a.m.
00:06:38Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:41Because I never expected you
00:06:43to behave the way you did.
00:06:47I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:49I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:52I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:55Just work with me
00:06:57and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:07:07I'm not rejecting you yet.
00:07:11Okay?
00:07:12But, um,
00:07:14you have to talk to my, um, uncle.
00:07:19This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:23You and I have defined the rules, the law,
00:07:26because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:33I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:35I don't understand why everybody
00:07:37has to be involved in everything,
00:07:40because it's not going to end well.
00:07:42I'm asking you.
00:07:44You.
00:07:48I'm relieved that Daniel
00:07:50is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:52But at the same time,
00:07:55I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:58I don't understand.
00:07:59It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:08:04We have to talk to my uncle.
00:08:07If I didn't talk to my uncle about this,
00:08:09the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:17Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:22I already planned for us to have
00:08:24a small romantic getaway,
00:08:26and I want to know
00:08:27if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:33Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:36Today.
00:08:42Is this a kind of a trap?
00:08:44I had already planned it.
00:08:46It wasn't...
00:08:47There's no agenda.
00:08:49It's just me and you together.
00:08:52I planned it.
00:08:53I paid for it.
00:08:54I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it,
00:08:56and I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:09:10I am upset about all her lies,
00:09:14all her stories.
00:09:15But I still love Lisa.
00:09:18She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:20She spent the money,
00:09:22and she told me that she had not been with her ex
00:09:25for nine years.
00:09:27It's been a long time.
00:09:29So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:34You should start packing.
00:09:36The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:40That's fine.
00:09:46Before his uncle knows about my lies,
00:09:49I need to tell Daniel the full truth
00:09:51about being with women.
00:09:53I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing
00:09:55and then have to go back and tell him again.
00:09:58Let's go.
00:09:59Whether he forgives me or not,
00:10:01I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:22Oh, I love mountains.
00:10:24I do, too.
00:10:26This is the mountain by me.
00:10:29This is Mount St. Helens.
00:10:31I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:35From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:39That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:41You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:45Boops bounced.
00:10:53I love that you figured out
00:10:56all of the things that I really like
00:10:58and surprised me with them.
00:11:00I have been doing, you know, homework.
00:11:05So sweet of you.
00:11:06We are mixing everything.
00:11:07History, art, holiday, vacation, love.
00:11:10Everything evolves.
00:11:12Everything on this trip.
00:11:14It's fantastic.
00:11:16Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir
00:11:19after our romantic getaway in Cheshmay.
00:11:23And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip
00:11:26to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:29Are you excited?
00:11:31I'm really excited.
00:11:32Are you excited?
00:11:34Yeah.
00:11:35Are you full of surprises all the time?
00:11:38It's like I'm a Vulcan surprise machine.
00:11:42I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him
00:11:45as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:48But since my conversation with Michael,
00:11:51I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:55It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:58And then something happened this morning
00:12:00that I need to tell Birkan about.
00:12:03And I know he's not going to be happy.
00:12:10Okay.
00:12:12Oh, my God.
00:12:13This is amazing.
00:12:26It's like so peaceful through here, too.
00:12:32It is one of the oldest places that Greek people built
00:12:38from Texas Central, D.C.
00:12:41Yeah.
00:12:41That's adorable.
00:12:44The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient historical places
00:12:49in the world.
00:12:51This place is huge.
00:12:53This place trying to talk.
00:12:56Nobody to listen.
00:12:59I love this place.
00:13:00I love this place, too.
00:13:02Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old,
00:13:05which is insane to think about.
00:13:07And being a teacher, I love seeing some of this history.
00:13:11So good.
00:13:13Every single surface is, like, carved or etched
00:13:16and just stunning.
00:13:19The detail in everything, even the floor, is incredible.
00:13:23Let's take a picture.
00:13:24Okay.
00:13:25With the hearts.
00:13:27No, it's mine's heart.
00:13:28Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:29There it is.
00:13:30There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:32Love it.
00:13:33That's adorable.
00:13:34I like it.
00:13:39Hey, kitty, kitty.
00:13:43I believe these all are some protective spirits about this place.
00:13:49No?
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Chats.
00:13:51You want to have a seat?
00:13:52Okay.
00:13:54Okay.
00:13:56Okay.
00:13:57That's cold.
00:13:57It is a little chilly, but...
00:13:59Yeah.
00:14:04I hope you know that I really do want this relationship to work.
00:14:13Yeah.
00:14:14That makes two of us.
00:14:16But I think I have way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:25So, the other night, I called my friend Michael.
00:14:31Why?
00:14:32Because I wanted to get his opinion on my concerns
00:14:37and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:41You have concerns about our relationship?
00:14:47I have concerns, and now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:51I have f***ing concerns because you are still communicating with Michael
00:14:57and talking about our relationship.
00:15:02He has no place in our relationship.
00:15:08Well, he wants to come here.
00:15:13Perfect.
00:15:17No, there is no point.
00:15:22He already bought a flight.
00:15:29What?
00:15:32He's coming.
00:15:35Yeah.
00:15:38Without asking, without telling anything, nothing.
00:15:45This is ridiculous.
00:15:51You know how much I've been anticipating her coming?
00:15:55Yeah.
00:15:55But, you know, I'm glad you came because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:59Cheers.
00:16:00Cheers.
00:16:01I feel like that cheers was to go, Chris.
00:16:05Yeah, it was.
00:16:05Thank you.
00:16:06Thank you for coming.
00:16:07I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:16:11Who does that?
00:16:15So, you ready to meet my family?
00:16:17I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:16:22I told you, yes.
00:16:23So, what else do you want?
00:16:26It seems like you were hesitating.
00:16:28Just tell me.
00:16:43Thank God you guys are here to do my luggage.
00:16:45Maybe put that little one in the back.
00:16:48Maybe you should offer to open the door for me so I can get in the car because I'm really
00:16:52full.
00:16:52Yeah, you put her in, I'll do the bag.
00:16:54I don't know how this is going to go, actually.
00:16:55Jump in, we'll get the rest.
00:16:59Thank you, boys.
00:17:01That's why I have two of you.
00:17:03Two boyfriends.
00:17:04Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:17:05We could be a trio.
00:17:06Oh, Jesus Christ.
00:17:19Elise, you're going to have to give me a horse number.
00:17:20I'll back it for you.
00:17:22And I've got about $1,000 on the thing, so I'm not watching it.
00:17:26You're an idiot.
00:17:27What do you mean?
00:17:28I'm going to win.
00:17:29No one ever wins in the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:30Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:31I'll give you the names and you tell me which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:34Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:35Okay.
00:17:36What's the name?
00:17:37Chevalier Rose, Prasage Nocturne, Middle Earth, Maidan, Al Riffa.
00:17:43No.
00:17:43Buckaroo.
00:17:44I like Buckaroo.
00:17:45That was two, there's 24 of them.
00:17:47Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:47Yes, I do.
00:17:48Okay.
00:17:50It feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:17:53Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:55I can touch and, you know, kiss and hug the girl that I've been speaking to for so long.
00:18:01I wanted to be excited about being here with me.
00:18:03So we're taking her out on the town, see the biggest event of the year, the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:09But unfortunately, we're running quite late.
00:18:12Traffic today sucks.
00:18:14What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:18:17It's cute.
00:18:18Like, oh, wait, you're going down the wrong way.
00:18:20Ah, you scared the out of me.
00:18:22No, we're not.
00:18:23We're in Australia.
00:18:25F***ing hell.
00:18:26I thought you were on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:28Oh, that scared me.
00:18:31At least 200 metres to our ride is the place that we're going to be living.
00:18:34What metres?
00:18:37Oh, f***, you guys working feet.
00:18:38F***, I don't know.
00:18:41I'm excited to see it.
00:18:47You're f***ing kidding me.
00:18:49Oh, we missed the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:51Oh.
00:18:52Ah.
00:18:53But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:54Oh, good.
00:18:56Well, I'm down 1,000.
00:18:58I'm going to get drunk.
00:19:01We missed one of the biggest days of the year because of airport delays and traffic.
00:19:06We're here.
00:19:07But honestly, I don't care.
00:19:09Who's this man?
00:19:11I have a lease with me, so I'm happy exactly where I am.
00:19:16There'll be another one next year.
00:19:17Think about me for a moment.
00:19:19I lost money.
00:19:20I came to the airport for no.
00:19:21I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:19:23Nah.
00:19:26Wait, this is so bad.
00:19:28I literally am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:30That's a bold choice with that dress.
00:19:34Like the games are very bullshit.
00:19:37Perfect.
00:19:48Oh, you guys have McDonald's here.
00:19:50Yep, we're not that out of the way.
00:19:52That third world.
00:19:54Third world?
00:19:55We have health care.
00:20:03Yum.
00:20:03Thank you.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05Oh, this is much needed.
00:20:07No.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:09Wait, I think we need to make a cheer.
00:20:11Yeah, my cheers is, I was about to do it.
00:20:12So, you know, you know how much I've been anticipating her coming.
00:20:16Yeah.
00:20:16But, you know, I'm glad you came.
00:20:20Because you're one of my best friends.
00:20:23And, you know, as soon as you come, I want you to meet my best, most entertaining friend.
00:20:30So, let's say cheers to you getting here.
00:20:32Cheers.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:34Cheers.
00:20:38I feel like that cheers was about Chris.
00:20:41Yeah, it was.
00:20:42Thank you.
00:20:43Thank you for coming.
00:20:44Yeah, I'm like, wait, what is going on?
00:20:46I'm like, hold on.
00:20:48I just flew around the world, but you're toasting to your buddy over me.
00:20:53I'm lost.
00:20:54Like, who does that?
00:20:57Okay.
00:20:58Let's start again.
00:20:59I know how far you've traveled, what you've given up, and, you know, what it's taken to
00:21:03get here.
00:21:04So, I am so excited for the next three weeks.
00:21:07So, this cheers is to you.
00:21:11To you.
00:21:12Thank you.
00:21:14Thank you so much for letting me drag you out.
00:21:18I didn't realize it was just, like, such a big holiday.
00:21:20It's a national thing.
00:21:21We have to go out and get drunk on Melbourne Cup.
00:21:23It's the rules.
00:21:24I would imagine the Miami party scene's wild, right?
00:21:27It is wild.
00:21:28I used to be out probably five nights a week.
00:21:30But, like, I would say, like, this past, I don't know, seven, eight months, I've slowed
00:21:34down.
00:21:35Don't get me wrong.
00:21:36Like, I like a fun night, but I'm definitely trying to chill out.
00:21:40Do you guys go out a lot here?
00:21:44Um, we party a bit, yeah.
00:21:50Like, I socialize a lot.
00:21:51It's part of my job.
00:21:53He's out on boats most weekends.
00:21:56His job is to drive boats, and oftentimes, there's parties involved with that.
00:22:00Okay.
00:22:02I mean, give me a reason to not want to go out.
00:22:05I think I've found it.
00:22:07Yeah?
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:11Listen, like, there's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time.
00:22:15But I'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down, like, having nights in with me
00:22:19and my cat and snuggling.
00:22:21And I want Josh to be ready to change for himself, not me, you know?
00:22:25On top of that, like, it seems very weird to me that Josh was struggling financially,
00:22:31but he parties a lot.
00:22:33Like, I'm concerned.
00:22:34Is he, like, really irresponsible?
00:22:36I just got here.
00:22:37I really just want to focus on the positives, but I worry about that.
00:22:41Yeah.
00:22:42Yeah, all right.
00:22:44Cheers.
00:22:45To not party anymore.
00:22:48I'm not cheesing to that.
00:22:49No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:22:51No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:23:13How is he?
00:23:14He's okay.
00:23:15Hey, look at you standing, my baby boy.
00:23:25He seems better.
00:23:28Oh, no, no, no, no, don't let him run.
00:23:31Last night, Giovanni and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:35A little dirty.
00:23:36We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom,
00:23:39but my cat, Mito, got sick, so we had to run him to the vet.
00:23:46I look at you and your comb.
00:23:48You don't like the comb.
00:23:50Nobody likes the comb.
00:23:51Yeah, obviously.
00:23:53Unless it's ice cream comb.
00:23:55I am so relieved that Mito is okay.
00:24:01And so today, my mom will come over to make us breakfast
00:24:05and finally get to know Giovanni more.
00:24:08Oh, Giovanni!
00:24:16What?
00:24:17Did you throw something in the toilet?
00:24:21It's clog.
00:24:23What happened?
00:24:25What did I do wrong?
00:24:27No tissues in the toilet.
00:24:29It's not going to flush.
00:24:31I don't remember doing that.
00:24:33Like, maybe I did and I wasn't aware.
00:24:37I don't want to see it now.
00:24:38Why?
00:24:38I don't want to keep looking at your big American poof.
00:24:43Are you crazy?
00:24:45Okay, my bad, then.
00:24:48Here's the thing.
00:24:48The papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:53Mm.
00:24:54Oh, that's why I put this here.
00:24:56I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper that I've already wiped with my butt into the garbage.
00:25:04That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:25:07How do I do it?
00:25:08Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this, and then I just...
00:25:14Yes, that's the point of the water.
00:25:17Water was created to clean your butt.
00:25:22I'm going to go wash off Mama's house.
00:25:25All right.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:38Oh, Mama, you cooked.
00:25:41Looks good.
00:25:43Thank you.
00:25:45Morning.
00:25:45Yeah, good morning.
00:25:47That's a lot of food.
00:25:48Are we going to be able to eat all this?
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51Oh, okay.
00:25:54You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:58Tilapia.
00:25:58Okay.
00:26:00And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:26:06Oh, okay.
00:26:07And, of course, we have some rice.
00:26:09Okay.
00:26:10Biggie.
00:26:11This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:26:15I was like, damn, is this breakfast or is this dinner?
00:26:18But the food is great, and I'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time with my mother-in
00:26:23-law.
00:26:29My mom's asking, how was your sleep last night?
00:26:33My sleep was okay.
00:26:34The cat was making a lot of noise.
00:26:37The rooster.
00:26:39The karaoke.
00:26:40There are a lot of things that happen.
00:26:42Yeah.
00:26:43A lot of things that happen to me.
00:26:44Yeah.
00:26:45But I'm happy that you're here.
00:26:48She says she's happy that you're here.
00:26:50Okay.
00:26:52When are you here until when you're here?
00:26:55Till when are you staying here?
00:26:57I'll probably be here, like, I don't know, probably like two more weeks.
00:27:02It's so fast, right?
00:27:03She said it's too fast.
00:27:05Is it not one year?
00:27:06Why not one year?
00:27:10Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:27:12I don't want to.
00:27:16It was about my daughter.
00:27:19It's all about my daughter.
00:27:25I'm happy that Jibon came here, in the Philippines, in our home.
00:27:53She said for six years, as my daughter has been waiting for you, I was so worried about her.
00:28:03Because she was, sometimes, I could see she was losing hope.
00:28:07And also me.
00:28:09I'm sorry it took so long, though.
00:28:11But I'm gonna make it up.
00:28:13I'm gonna come back very soon.
00:28:14I promise, okay?
00:28:16All right?
00:28:32I understand why my mom is being skeptical.
00:29:05I mean, it took him six years to see me.
00:29:06I mean, it took him six years to be secure, about the future.
00:29:13Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:29:18Don't be mad.
00:29:20But don't be mad.
00:29:26Who's it?
00:29:27Mohammed.
00:29:28Oh, my God.
00:29:55Oh, my God.
00:30:06It's been a couple days since I got dumped and left in the desert.
00:30:13I didn't want to go back to the same Riyadh that I was staying at with Ziyad.
00:30:17It just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself.
00:30:23Luckily, I was able to make some calls.
00:30:26Um, I'm looking for a Riyadh, and I was wondering if your place is available for tonight.
00:30:35Um, just one person.
00:30:37I just got dumped.
00:30:42Thankfully, the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to Marrakesh.
00:30:55And somehow, I made it back to the new Riyadh in one piece.
00:31:03But now, I'm just not totally sure what I'm doing.
00:31:20Emma!
00:31:21Emma!
00:31:21Maddie!
00:31:22Hi!
00:31:23I miss you!
00:31:24You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
00:31:27I love you so much.
00:31:30What's up?
00:31:31What's wrong?
00:31:32What, can you tell I'm sad today?
00:31:34Yeah, I can tell in your eyes.
00:31:36No, I'm, like, really sad.
00:31:38I, like, don't want to...
00:31:39Wait, I don't want to cry already.
00:31:40Hold up.
00:31:43Sorry.
00:31:44What happened?
00:31:47Um, so, yesterday, basically, I, like, told Ziyad everything about, like, Muhammad.
00:31:55And it literally, Maddie, went to s***.
00:31:59Like, we got into a huge fight, and it ended up with him, like, fully breaking up with me
00:32:04and leaving me alone in the desert by myself.
00:32:09This is odd.
00:32:10Yeah.
00:32:13Like, I knew he...
00:32:15There is crazy behavior.
00:32:18To leave you alone in the desert, in a country where you don't speak the language.
00:32:23Yeah.
00:32:24Like, he obviously doesn't care about you.
00:32:27And he hasn't spoken to you since.
00:32:29He's been sending me, like, like, rage texts.
00:32:33Like, saying that I'm, like, a demon and, like, a liar.
00:32:38And, like, this horrible monster.
00:32:44And it's just, like, really annoying.
00:32:46Like, I'm really upset about it.
00:32:48You know, it's like I did all this, like, again.
00:32:52And, like, just to get, like, treated like a piece of s***.
00:32:57Like, what?
00:32:57Like, no, I'm sorry.
00:32:59You're a catch.
00:33:00And for him to, like, act like you're a gremlin is crazy.
00:33:04Why is he?
00:33:05I mean, like, he's just, like, Ryan Gosling as, like, Morocco.
00:33:11Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:33:18Don't be mad.
00:33:22But don't be mad.
00:33:25What?
00:33:26So I may have been texting Mohammed.
00:33:32Emma, Emma.
00:33:34Maybe.
00:33:36Maybe.
00:33:46Why are we doing this to yourself?
00:33:49I mean, I don't know.
00:33:50I think just because things got so bad with Ziyad, it's just making me, like, go back to Mohammed.
00:33:56Because.
00:33:56That was terrible.
00:33:57Because he was just as bad.
00:34:01But, like, the last time I was here, like, this was, like, a happy moment for us, like, when I
00:34:06was in Marrakesh.
00:34:07So it's kind of made me miss him a little bit.
00:34:10Are you going to go see him?
00:34:13If he wants me to.
00:34:15Oh, my God.
00:34:17Okay.
00:34:18What are your intentions out seeing him?
00:34:20I mean, is your, are you going there to get closure?
00:34:23Or are you going there with the intent of rekindling your relationship engagement?
00:34:31I don't know.
00:34:32My mind is, like, everywhere right now.
00:34:34I mean, I don't know.
00:34:36I'm, like, getting emotional for you.
00:34:39Stop, Maddie.
00:34:41Stop.
00:34:41I don't know if you're going to get hurt again.
00:34:43Like, this happens to you all the time.
00:34:45Stop.
00:34:46I just don't get it.
00:34:47Like, it makes me so sad.
00:34:50Like, I just want you to feel so loved.
00:34:52You deserve that.
00:34:54Mohammed hasn't ever been any better to you.
00:34:56It's, like, I just, I just want you to come home.
00:35:00Please don't cry.
00:35:01Like, I just don't know what you're going to gain out of this.
00:35:05Yeah, I don't know.
00:35:07I guess we'll see.
00:35:18Uh, Emma, interview, I'll take one.
00:35:23Hmm.
00:35:24Who is it?
00:35:25Mohammed?
00:35:26Oh, my God.
00:35:29I'm going to answer it just one second.
00:35:33Hello?
00:35:35Hey.
00:35:38No?
00:35:40I don't have a boyfriend.
00:35:44I swear I don't.
00:35:46Why?
00:35:47You want to see me?
00:35:49So do you want to talk?
00:35:50We can get, like, lunch or something.
00:35:56All right.
00:35:56Well, I'll call you when I'm there.
00:36:01Two.
00:36:01Bye.
00:36:02Bye.
00:36:04Bye.
00:36:09What did he say?
00:36:12So Mohammed just asked me.
00:36:14Oh, my God.
00:36:15Hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety.
00:36:17Really?
00:36:18I don't know, because I haven't talked to him in a while.
00:36:20So it's, like, um.
00:36:23What was his voice?
00:36:23How am I?
00:36:24He sounded cute.
00:36:27He asked me if I was with a guy.
00:36:30I told him no.
00:36:31He asked if I have a boyfriend.
00:36:33I said no.
00:36:36He wants to see me.
00:36:38He told me to text him a place that we could meet.
00:36:42I don't know.
00:36:43It's just, like, a lot of old feelings are coming back.
00:36:48Me and Mohammed have been through a lot.
00:36:50And we were madly in love for a lot of years.
00:36:55So that's something that doesn't just go away.
00:36:59And I think if I don't see him, I'm always going to regret it.
00:37:07I mean, you keep talking about your ex.
00:37:11You keep bringing him up after.
00:37:13I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:37:17I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me because of what I did.
00:37:23So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:37:43So you're ready to meet my family?
00:37:46I think I'm ready.
00:37:48I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
00:37:51Just relax.
00:37:53You have to show them that you are a good guy.
00:37:57It seems like you are not happy.
00:38:00Are you sure you want to go?
00:38:03Are you sure you want me to go?
00:38:05Yeah.
00:38:06I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:38:12I told you, yes.
00:38:14So what else do you want?
00:38:25It's like you were hesitating.
00:38:27Just tell me.
00:38:28Make things clear, Rick.
00:38:30Please.
00:38:33I mean, you keep talking about your ex.
00:38:37You keep bringing him up after.
00:38:39I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:38:45Tonight, we're packing up to leave Nosey Bay to go to Trish's hometown to meet her family.
00:38:52But after the merengue fight, we were walking around, and she gets to talking about this great place that her
00:38:59ex took her to when they were here.
00:39:01That upset me.
00:39:03I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex just to get back at me, you know, because of what
00:39:09I did.
00:39:11All you're trying to do is just make me jealous, and it's a game for you.
00:39:18Shut up.
00:39:19No, see, that's exactly what you told me when I responded to you bragging about.
00:39:25Yeah, because you said, like, oh, this is a place that your ex took you, and this is cheap.
00:39:30I like it.
00:39:32I like the place.
00:39:33Why do you keep bringing it up?
00:39:34Because I like it.
00:39:36I love it.
00:39:37I enjoy it.
00:39:39But do you think I want to hear that?
00:39:41Where's the problem with that?
00:39:43That means you appreciate what he has done for you more than what you appreciate what I've done.
00:39:49That's what it is.
00:39:50So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:39:56I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:40:01I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:02Oh, okay.
00:40:03I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:04Because that's what you did.
00:40:07I'm not like you.
00:40:08No, I'm not.
00:40:09I will never be back to that ex.
00:40:12I'd rather...
00:40:13Well, then leave him alone.
00:40:14Then stop talking about me.
00:40:16I don't want to hear it.
00:40:17Because you hide your ex?
00:40:18No.
00:40:19I don't want to talk about my ex, and I don't want to hear about your ex.
00:40:22Because you're hiding your ex.
00:40:24No, it's not that I'm hiding.
00:40:25Look what you did.
00:40:25You went to Columbia for your ex.
00:40:27I just don't feel like it should be brought up.
00:40:29I'm trying to work on us.
00:40:32I want a relationship with you.
00:40:35That's the goal.
00:40:40You're getting far away from the finish line.
00:40:44You're running backwards when we should be running forwards.
00:40:50This is so ridiculous.
00:40:53I'm telling him I had a good experience to that place, to this place, and it was nice.
00:41:00That's it.
00:41:00It's not like something, oh, I'm talking with him, or I'm still with my ex.
00:41:08I didn't cheat on him.
00:41:10That's his action, not me.
00:41:16So if you want to go, just let's go.
00:41:19If you want to stay, stay here.
00:41:23I want to go if you're going to be committed to this relationship.
00:41:30If I know that you're committed, I'm 100% on board with going to meet them.
00:41:41Okay.
00:41:46I love Trish so much, and I want this relationship to work more than anything.
00:41:53But I think all of this is just hitting me all at once.
00:41:59Maybe I'm, you know, in my head, but I'm afraid that Trish won't be able to fully trust me.
00:42:06After what I did, and the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me, it's just all too
00:42:15much.
00:42:16I'm feeling pressure, massive pressure.
00:42:20This meeting with her family is like make or break.
00:42:30I am miserable.
00:42:33Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:42:36I just feel frustrated right now.
00:42:40She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:42:43You don't respect me.
00:42:45That's not true at all.
00:42:46And now I have doubts.
00:42:48This, us, could be a mistake.
00:42:58Michael, he's coming.
00:43:01Yeah?
00:43:01Without asking, without telling anything, nothing.
00:43:17He cares about me and said he wants to protect me from making a bad decision.
00:43:26I told him, you know, that I would think about him coming, but I woke up this morning to a
00:43:33bunch of texts from him saying that he already booked a flight.
00:43:41The other night in Cheshmay, Michael offered to come to Turkey so he could give me his perspective on my
00:43:48relationship with Birkan.
00:43:50I had planned to talk to Birkan about it, but before I even had a chance to, Michael texted me
00:43:57and said he booked his flight.
00:44:00Given Birkan's very strong feelings about my friendship with Michael, I am concerned that this will complicate the progress that
00:44:09Birkan and I have made.
00:44:11But on the other hand, Michael is always the person that I'm going to turn to when I need advice.
00:44:18If Birkan and I are really going to move forward, I need my best friend's opinion.
00:44:25This is not normal.
00:44:29Something's wrong with him.
00:44:30Is he out of his mind?
00:44:32Is he out of his mind?
00:44:33Yeah.
00:44:33No, he wants to give me his opinion on this whole situation.
00:44:39Or some chance to blow this relationship so he can have his.
00:44:45Am I right?
00:44:47Michael and I have only ever been friends.
00:44:51He's very logical.
00:44:53He's very insightful.
00:44:55And I value his opinion.
00:44:59Your friends have scoped me out.
00:45:02So why don't I get to have that same opportunity to have my friends meet you and have you get
00:45:07along with them?
00:45:08My friends doesn't want to f**k me.
00:45:13He made that move.
00:45:14It's over.
00:45:15He has no chance.
00:45:19Before she came here, Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael.
00:45:26And he said that I am the obstacle, those two having a relationship.
00:45:31I took it as a move.
00:45:33She said that it was meaning just friends, but I don't trust Michael.
00:45:40This is his opportunity to break us up while she is confused about our relationship.
00:45:51Look, I want this relationship to work with you.
00:45:59I would never let a third party come between me and you.
00:46:07Maybe you should try to calm down and just meet him.
00:46:16I think that he just wants to see if everything is okay and that I'm not making a bad choice.
00:46:31I just feel frustrated right now.
00:46:36I feel like I have no choice.
00:46:39He's already f**king coming.
00:46:41She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:46:45I just hope that Michael doesn't f**king up my entire future and my relationship.
00:46:54Let's go.
00:46:55We have a reservation.
00:46:58Okay.
00:47:07You can speak Turkish.
00:47:11Az Az Turk-Chain.
00:47:12Maybe I can speak English.
00:47:13Okay.
00:47:14Thank you.
00:47:15You know what the Turkish say?
00:47:16Cheers.
00:47:17How?
00:47:17Cheers.
00:47:18I'm just cheering.
00:47:18I don't know.
00:47:19Sherefe.
00:47:20Sherefe?
00:47:21Yes, perfect.
00:47:21To your honor.
00:47:22Sherefe.
00:47:23Sherefe.
00:47:26Cheers.
00:47:32Oh, did you take the whole thing?
00:47:35Yeah.
00:47:36After today, I can drink everything inside.
00:47:41We had previous plans to do some wine tasting in this cute little town that's right near the ruins,
00:47:48but BeerCon's pissed, and it feels so freaking awkward.
00:47:57You don't seem like you want to taste wine.
00:48:00You're, like, pounding it like a shot.
00:48:01Yeah.
00:48:02That's not a wine tasting.
00:48:05Yeah.
00:48:06I am miserable.
00:48:08You're miserable.
00:48:09I'm waiting for my best friend, Michael.
00:48:16This is 13.5% alcohol.
00:48:19This one is the three different Turkish grape.
00:48:24Okay.
00:48:25Let's try.
00:48:25Cheers.
00:48:26Thank you.
00:48:26You're welcome.
00:48:27Okay.
00:48:28Do you want to talk about this?
00:48:33Okay.
00:48:35There was no heads up.
00:48:37You declined my existence in this relationship.
00:48:43You just decide whatever you want.
00:48:47You are not respecting the person in your life.
00:48:52You don't respect me.
00:48:54That's not true at all.
00:48:55And now I have doubts.
00:48:59When we get married, it will only get worse.
00:49:04That could be my worst mistake.
00:49:07I don't know.
00:49:09What could be your worst mistake?
00:49:12This?
00:49:13Us?
00:49:17Here we are.
00:49:19It's a nice place, I hope.
00:49:21I have booked a resort.
00:49:24The pictures online looked really nice.
00:49:26So I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic
00:49:29and can help us reconnect.
00:49:31What is it?
00:49:32It's moving!
00:49:34Kill it.
00:49:35Step on it.
00:49:36Get rid of it.
00:49:37Take it outside.
00:49:38No!
00:49:39Ah!
00:49:41Daniel!
00:49:49Guess it ain't big enough for the both of us
00:49:51When they want the funk, I'm coming older us
00:49:54Guys, where are we going?
00:49:56Left here and we're dead.
00:49:57Just up here on the left.
00:50:00Here we are.
00:50:00Well, it looks super cute.
00:50:11I'm so excited to see you guys' plays.
00:50:13We'll tell you the code in about a week once we trust you.
00:50:18Cute.
00:50:19Wow.
00:50:23At this point, it's been 40 hours that I've been up
00:50:26and I am completely delirious, completely foggy.
00:50:29I put a game face on.
00:50:31I went to the mother bar.
00:50:32And now I am beyond thankful we're at the rental
00:50:35and I'm going to be getting some rest soon.
00:50:37Guys, I really have to pee.
00:50:39Where's the bathroom?
00:50:40And then you can show me around.
00:50:41I'm really excited.
00:50:42Someone didn't make their bed.
00:50:43Joshua?
00:50:44Just shut the door, would you?
00:50:46Oh, her.
00:50:48Oh, my God.
00:50:48This is a bathroom we're sharing?
00:50:50Oh, no.
00:50:51Yes.
00:50:51This is too small.
00:50:55I'm going to die here.
00:50:56You will not die.
00:50:58I'm trying to put my best foot forward
00:51:00and, like, be positive
00:51:01and show him that, like, I'm not a complainer.
00:51:03It's small as .
00:51:06Sounds positive.
00:51:08I'm super appreciative of, like, Josh
00:51:10getting the apartment in a nice location.
00:51:13Maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial
00:51:15and, like, I would have settled for a smaller place
00:51:18without a roommate.
00:51:19Like, no offense.
00:51:20Love you, Chris.
00:51:21This is your room.
00:51:23Oh!
00:51:25What?
00:51:26Wait, wait, wait.
00:51:26What?
00:51:27It's the Moaning Lisa, we call it.
00:51:29You wanted this picture.
00:51:30Chris thought it was hilarious.
00:51:32I put it up.
00:51:33You know?
00:51:34Yeah.
00:51:36Why would you let him do that?
00:51:38I didn't let him do that.
00:51:40But I thought it was quite hilarious.
00:51:42So, like, what?
00:51:43When we're having sex, we have to look at Chris?
00:51:45That's weird.
00:51:46When we have sex,
00:51:47it's pretty assumptuous of you.
00:51:51Yeah?
00:51:52Yeah.
00:51:56So I'm really confused.
00:51:58Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:52:00Didn't have one in such high def.
00:52:02All over my social media.
00:52:05It feels very surreal having Elise here with me in person.
00:52:09She's just been a voice on the other end of the phone,
00:52:11so it'll be interesting to see how, you know,
00:52:14we both react to living together.
00:52:17Where do I put everything?
00:52:20I'll find space.
00:52:22I asked you to get a steamer.
00:52:23Did you get a steamer?
00:52:24Steamer?
00:52:25Yeah.
00:52:27Do you think we should get, like, a closet organizer here?
00:52:30Do you not, do you just have a dryer?
00:52:36Um, it looks like it could be an adjustment.
00:52:40There's, like, literally only one towel in here.
00:52:44I'm going to need more pillows.
00:52:47Uh, we can organize that.
00:52:50Pillows, steamer in the morning.
00:52:53We should maybe make a list so you don't forget.
00:52:55I'll write it down.
00:52:55Set yourself up for success.
00:52:57I'll write it down.
00:52:57Promise.
00:52:57Okay.
00:52:58Let's go to bed.
00:52:59Okay.
00:53:00Come on.
00:53:00Okay.
00:53:01All right, guys.
00:53:02Good night.
00:53:04All right.
00:53:06This is your bed.
00:53:07Okay.
00:53:07I just want to get comfy clothes on.
00:53:09Yep.
00:53:10And go to bed.
00:53:10And we're...
00:53:11Okay, perfect.
00:53:11And I'm on the couch.
00:53:13Okay.
00:53:14Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow, so he's going to sleep on
00:53:19the couch.
00:53:20That way, we're both avoiding temptation.
00:53:23Okay.
00:53:26Joshua gives me butterflies.
00:53:27Like, he's hot.
00:53:28Like, sending him away, it's hard.
00:53:30But, like, I came here wanting to do things differently, like, not leading with sex.
00:53:34But at the same time, I wanted to make him, you know, see a little glimpse of what he might
00:53:39be getting.
00:53:46Josh!
00:53:53Are you going to come say goodnight?
00:53:55I'm sorry.
00:53:57Why such a serious look?
00:53:59Because it's, uh...
00:54:02You know why?
00:54:03You look like someone killed you.
00:54:06Yeah, I'm getting killed inside.
00:54:07Painful.
00:54:08All right.
00:54:09Well, come say goodnight to me.
00:54:10Thank you.
00:54:11Thank you.
00:54:22Good night.
00:54:23Good night.
00:54:26It's going to be a hard sleep on the couch.
00:54:28But, yeah.
00:54:28It's good to try and connect more on that emotional level than the sexual level off the bat.
00:54:33I think that probably, you know, that helps us.
00:54:36But would you want to have sex?
00:54:39In an ideal world, of course I would.
00:54:40As soon as I saw her, I would.
00:54:42Rolled on the airport floor.
00:54:43But, um, you know.
00:54:46I'm really happy that we have a really strong connection straight away from the moment we
00:54:51met.
00:54:52But, um, I haven't shared my whole life with, um, Elise yet.
00:54:55I'm a bit worried that she might, you know, find out some things, you know, parts of my
00:54:59life that she's not exactly happy with.
00:55:01I just hope I can show her that I'm a good person.
00:55:03You know, with flaws, but a good person.
00:55:05And hopefully she falls in love with me.
00:55:24Okay, we have to pack.
00:55:37Daniel, are you sure you're okay going on this trip with me?
00:55:40Um, yeah.
00:55:42Yeah, sure.
00:55:45Things are now settled with Lisa.
00:55:48I'm still really hot with all the offense she has committed by telling lies.
00:55:54But I decided to go on this trip with her.
00:55:57I hope we didn't forget anything.
00:55:59I don't know.
00:56:00I don't think so.
00:56:01I think we're good.
00:56:03This is going to be difficult.
00:56:05But, I will try my best to have a good time.
00:56:18Long Rod.
00:56:19We'll get there pretty late, so.
00:56:21What is the place like?
00:56:23It's a lake.
00:56:24Yeah, there will be a lot of nature in the area to look at and lots of activities to do.
00:56:30So, I thought it would be enjoyable for us.
00:56:33Thank you.
00:56:36She's not welcome.
00:56:41I'll have mercy on you, baby.
00:56:45I'll have mercy on you.
00:56:48You're thinking, where the hell is she taking me?
00:56:51You know what we call these in America?
00:56:53The boonies.
00:56:54What is she?
00:56:55The boondocks.
00:56:56Where there's no real civilization.
00:56:59It's just woods.
00:57:04Here we are.
00:57:06It's a nice place, I hope.
00:57:10I have booked a resort in Bagari, Nigeria.
00:57:15It's the western part of Lagos.
00:57:17The pictures online looked really nice.
00:57:20And it's in my price range.
00:57:23So, I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect.
00:57:29Oh, wow.
00:57:30I like it.
00:57:32What do you think?
00:57:35Nice little space, right?
00:57:37It's nice.
00:57:37It's fine.
00:57:38It's nice, huh?
00:57:39Oh, my God.
00:57:42What is it?
00:57:45Yes, it's a spider.
00:57:46No.
00:57:47That could be poisonous.
00:57:49I've not seen someone bitten by a spider before.
00:57:54I have.
00:57:55I'm not going to sleep in here with a spider.
00:57:58I'm terrified of this spider because I don't know what kind of spider it is.
00:58:01This thing is in Africa.
00:58:03This could be dangerous.
00:58:05Don't you dare fling it towards me.
00:58:11Is it dead?
00:58:12Just smudge.
00:58:13It's moving!
00:58:16Kill it.
00:58:17Step on it.
00:58:18Get rid of it.
00:58:19Take it outside.
00:58:20No!
00:58:23Daniel!
00:58:25All right, stop.
00:58:26Leave it.
00:58:26I will kill it myself.
00:58:29No, don't kick it again.
00:58:31Stop.
00:58:32Stop kicking it.
00:58:36Where'd it go?
00:58:38Daniel, get it off my shoe.
00:58:40Okay.
00:58:42Don't kick it at me.
00:58:44I have a phobia of spiders.
00:58:46It's just a spider.
00:58:48No, it's not just a spider.
00:58:50It was huge.
00:58:51It was like tarantula-sized spider.
00:58:54You are so rude.
00:58:57I am terrified of spiders.
00:58:59I told you to kill spiders.
00:59:00Why didn't you kill the spider?
00:59:02I have sandals on it.
00:59:03Just spider.
00:59:04Ordinary spider.
00:59:04It's not an ordinary spider.
00:59:06It's a vicious spider.
00:59:07This is room you paid for.
00:59:08You know where the spider's coming from.
00:59:10Kill the spider.
00:59:11Kill it.
00:59:11No, you kill it.
00:59:14We're here now, right?
00:59:18So, what are we here for?
00:59:21It's a romantic getaway.
00:59:24Romantic, you said?
00:59:25Yes.
00:59:25Yes.
00:59:30She wants us to have a romantic trip, but it's very hard for me.
00:59:37I am feeling tense because I don't know what my uncle is going to do, whether he will cancel
00:59:44through this marriage.
00:59:46I don't like waiting, you know, to talk to him.
00:59:50You should enjoy it.
00:59:51You came.
00:59:52Why'd you come if you're not going to enjoy it?
00:59:55Honest.
00:59:55You know why I'm here, right?
00:59:57No, I have no idea why you decided to come.
00:59:59No.
01:00:01I'm here because, um, I don't want the money you paid to be, um, to be a West.
01:00:08That's the only reason why you came.
01:00:14So, no, um, no sex.
01:00:17No kissing.
01:00:19Auntie, I call my uncle, and I want him to consult, you know, the oracle, the ancestors.
01:00:24Why don't you just wait a couple days?
01:00:27Just a couple days.
01:00:29We can, we can make this work for a couple days.
01:00:32Daniel, I need a couple days.
01:00:34To do what?
01:00:35Just to get my head together, and then we call your uncle.
01:00:42I need a couple days because I have to come clean to Daniel about the rest of everything
01:00:46before he goes to his uncle.
01:00:49But he's already so angry with me.
01:00:52How am I going to get through it?
01:00:54I am terrified that Daniel's going to leave me forever once he finds out.
01:01:00I need a day or two.
01:01:02That's all I'm asking for.
01:01:04I want to have a day or two with you.
01:01:07Fine.
01:01:12This is what never ends.
01:01:15Why do you do this?
01:01:17Is your mom always just bossy?
01:01:19You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
01:01:24Ah, I'm just done with this conversation.
01:01:26You know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter and...
01:01:29You don't want a bitchy wife.
01:01:31Don't be a asshole.
01:02:02You don't want to be a little girl.
01:02:16¿Qué es lo que pasa?
01:02:18¿Qué es lo que pasa?
01:02:20Sí, realmente.
01:02:21No te ayudas con nada.
01:02:23Como esto, la pared y esto.
01:02:26Esto nunca termina.
01:02:28¿Por qué te hacen esto?
01:02:30¿Qué?
01:02:51¿Qué es lo que pasa?
01:03:03Towers, everywhere.
01:03:04I feel like I have a toddler
01:03:07and I always have to pick up stuff.
01:03:10From male to male,
01:03:11is your mom always just bossy?
01:03:15What?
01:03:16I heard that.
01:03:17We just haven't got time.
01:03:19I heard that.
01:03:21No, me too loves me.
01:03:23Yeah, well, I love you too, Nana.
01:03:25I mean, it doesn't mean that you're not bossy.
01:03:28What's wrong with telling your husband to pick up their socks?
01:03:31There's nothing wrong with that, Anna.
01:03:33It's how you're delivering, Anna.
01:03:35What do you want from me?
01:03:37Instead of coming in the room, say,
01:03:39Javon, pick up your stuff.
01:03:40You know, you can just say,
01:03:43boo, if you don't mind,
01:03:44could you just pick up your stuff?
01:03:48Javon, no matter how much I put it,
01:03:50if you really would like to pick up that socks,
01:03:53you would have.
01:03:54See?
01:03:55Oh, I...
01:03:55You don't see that.
01:03:56I do, actually.
01:03:58You do, but you don't do it.
01:03:59No.
01:04:04And, like, every time I talk to you,
01:04:05you leave the room.
01:04:18We, all we do is talk.
01:04:21That's all we do.
01:04:22All right.
01:04:22Well, I'm going to try a little action today.
01:04:26Would you like to go get, like, a manicure?
01:04:29Like, a feet done?
01:04:33Well, you definitely need a pedicure.
01:04:38Okay.
01:04:47I feel sorry for whoever's going to clean your feet.
01:04:51Dang, how bad do you think my feet is?
01:04:55Anna's always complained that I'm not romantic enough.
01:04:59But it's hard to be romantic when you're being nagged a lot.
01:05:05Still, you thought it would be a good idea
01:05:07to do something nice for Anna,
01:05:08to show her, you know what?
01:05:10I appreciate what you do.
01:05:11Hi.
01:05:12Good afternoon.
01:05:13Hello.
01:05:14Hello, Paul.
01:05:14I just hope that she sees that I'm making a real effort here.
01:05:18Mmm.
01:05:19So?
01:05:20It's like Barbie threw up in here.
01:05:24Suits you so well.
01:05:26Look at you.
01:05:27Yeah.
01:05:28Sitting like a queen.
01:05:29It's all pink.
01:05:31I like it.
01:05:32I know you do.
01:05:36There you go.
01:05:37Yeah.
01:05:41See, I told you.
01:05:44It just feels weird.
01:05:47Oh, that's nice.
01:05:50Oh, my God, boo.
01:05:51That's a lot.
01:05:53You doing okay over there?
01:05:56I'm so tired.
01:06:02Is this being romantic?
01:06:05Yeah.
01:06:06Did I pass the test today?
01:06:07Kind of.
01:06:08Okay.
01:06:08Yeah.
01:06:09Thank you.
01:06:09Some cool points.
01:06:10I like that.
01:06:12Mm-hmm.
01:06:14You still have to be nicer to me, though.
01:06:16And I'll do more nice things.
01:06:19Like, if I leave, like, underwear or socks on the floor, you know, will you be nice?
01:06:28No.
01:06:29No?
01:06:29I mean, you can be nice to me, but not by not dropping them on the floor.
01:06:38I know, but Anna, you know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter and, you know, more patient
01:06:44with me.
01:06:45You know what I think it is?
01:06:47It's just I think that you knew I wasn't going anywhere and you got comfortable.
01:06:53Being too comfortable is not a good thing because you feel like, okay, well, I got this person.
01:07:00I don't have to try anymore, you know.
01:07:02He's always going to be there no matter what.
01:07:06Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
01:07:13I don't understand where did this come from.
01:07:16Do you get it from those videos that you've been watching about masculinity and other things?
01:07:24No, that's my, that's, that's, that's all my idea.
01:07:27I take full credit for that.
01:07:32It's just odd because I feel like over the couple of years watching all these videos, you've changed and I
01:07:41love who you are.
01:07:43But Anna, this is who I was when you first met me.
01:07:46No, you're not.
01:07:47You were not that prideful before.
01:07:50I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
01:07:55You see, it's like a power.
01:07:57I don't have any.
01:07:58That's the problem.
01:08:00Like, I feel like.
01:08:00That's the problem.
01:08:01You need to feel powerful.
01:08:02No.
01:08:02And you're not.
01:08:03I feel like I have all the responsibility with no authority.
01:08:07Because when I tell you to do something, you don't listen to me.
01:08:09So what are you talking about?
01:08:13You want traditional roles when it, when it applies to you.
01:08:18I always have to take care of everything financially.
01:08:21So as your husband, I feel like having to say is nice.
01:08:25You know, it just means you're just respectful.
01:08:30Ah, I'm just done with this conversation.
01:08:37Why did you bring me here?
01:08:40Well, I wanted you to have a good time.
01:08:43Yes!
01:08:43But if you were going to.
01:08:44Do I look like I'm having a good time?
01:08:45But you set me up.
01:08:47You were asking me questions, and I just answered them honestly.
01:08:51You ever heard the term, you know, you don't want to hear the answers, so cease from asking dumbass questions?
01:08:57You ever think about that?
01:08:58And you don't want to bitch your wife.
01:09:01Don't be a asshole.
01:09:04I can just sit here and get my feet done.
01:09:06Like, I don't have to.
01:09:09Then let's just stay here, okay?
01:09:11Don't come home.
01:09:12You need to calm down.
01:09:18I don't want to see you ever again.
01:09:22Don't come home.
01:09:24Ever.
01:09:26Jerk.
01:09:29You're disgusting.
01:09:34Hey, I will see you soon.
01:09:36All right.
01:09:37I cannot believe Michael is actually here in Turkey.
01:09:41He said to tell you hi.
01:09:43I'm nothing.
01:09:47You want to open it?
01:10:12I have a phone call.
01:10:20Hello.
01:10:23Hey, good morning.
01:10:24Good morning.
01:10:26How are you?
01:10:28I'm doing well.
01:10:30My hotel won't be ready until like 2 o'clock.
01:10:34Uh, is there any chance I can point in the eye?
01:10:37Say hello.
01:10:40It's totally fine with me.
01:10:42I mean.
01:10:43See you.
01:10:44I was just going to say I pin-drop you my location.
01:10:47Okay, I will, uh, I will see you soon.
01:10:50I'm going to start walking in your direction.
01:10:52All right.
01:10:53Be careful.
01:10:55Thanks.
01:10:56Bye-bye.
01:10:56Bye.
01:11:06I'm a little bit worried that Michael's here.
01:11:09Now, now that this is real and he actually showed up in Turkey,
01:11:14my stomach is about to explode on itself.
01:11:18I'm incredibly nervous and I feel like I'm about to die.
01:11:25Bye-bye.
01:11:26Bye-bye.
01:11:27Hey.
01:11:29Hey.
01:11:30That was Michael.
01:11:33What is he saying?
01:11:35He said to tell you hi.
01:11:38What?
01:11:40Why?
01:11:41Because he...
01:11:42I'm not saying hi.
01:11:45Well, he's going to be here at this apartment.
01:11:50This apartment.
01:11:52And about...
01:11:53Turkey is okay, but this apartment...
01:11:56Ten minutes.
01:12:01I cannot believe that Michael is actually here in Turkey.
01:12:07He dropped everything to get on a plane for me.
01:12:10I mean, it does feel pretty good that someone cares about me enough to do that.
01:12:15But it is definitely wild.
01:12:19But it is definitely wild.
01:12:19And complicated.
01:12:22So you think this is normal?
01:12:27Well...
01:12:28I think he's just concerned about me.
01:12:37That's totally normal for friends to be concerned about each other.
01:12:40Yeah, I believe him.
01:12:42He's such a good heart.
01:12:50I'm not five years old.
01:12:51I don't eat that.
01:12:55Your friend is trying to this connection.
01:12:58And you're like, yay!
01:13:00Yeah.
01:13:01Okay.
01:13:03It's like, I don't get it.
01:13:06I never wanted him to come, and I still don't want him to come.
01:13:11I think he's coming in Turkey to mix up Laura's mind.
01:13:16And maybe talk some about me, give Laura more doubts.
01:13:22But if our relationship is going to end because of Michael, I don't blame Michael.
01:13:30Well, I will blame Laura.
01:13:37You want to open it?
01:13:39Yeah, I do, actually.
01:13:41Thank you.
01:13:47Hey!
01:13:49Hi, friend.
01:13:50Oh, my God.
01:13:51I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:13:54Is it safe to come in?
01:13:55Yes!
01:13:56Oh, my God.
01:13:57Wild.
01:13:58Oh, my God.
01:13:59Are you really making a palace here?
01:14:07I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:14:09I know.
01:14:09This is amazing.
01:14:11It's the most spontaneous thing I've ever done in my life.
01:14:13I have never done.
01:14:14And I do it for you.
01:14:15I do it for you.
01:14:18So.
01:14:19Oh, my God.
01:14:21Absolutely.
01:14:22Oh, wow.
01:14:23Yeah, this is fantastic, right?
01:14:26I hope my hotel room looks like this.
01:14:27Holy cow.
01:14:28Hi, Michael.
01:14:31Nice to meet you, finally.
01:14:33Heard so much about you.
01:14:35Yeah, you probably heard.
01:14:37I'm...
01:14:38Okay.
01:14:45Okay.
01:14:48You want something to drink?
01:14:49Tea?
01:14:50Yeah, anything like that?
01:14:51Okay.
01:14:52Just have a seat right here.
01:14:53I don't know how it works.
01:14:54Yeah, that's fine.
01:14:55Do the women make tea here, or do the boys do it?
01:14:58Boys?
01:14:58The boys make the tea?
01:15:01They call men if they are grown up.
01:15:04Oh, okay.
01:15:08Um, would you like anything?
01:15:10Nope.
01:15:12I am perfect.
01:15:14Thank you.
01:15:27So, Bunny, what you watching?
01:15:30Scarface.
01:15:36Do you like American classic movies?
01:15:39No.
01:15:42I like mob stuff.
01:15:45I enjoy pretty much violence.
01:15:53Do you like?
01:15:55I like this movie, or?
01:16:04Uh...
01:16:06Golly, I...
01:16:06I'll be honest with you.
01:16:08I don't know what to make of Birkan.
01:16:09Um, I know I just kind of dropped it on him,
01:16:11but he's talking about violence to me on the couch.
01:16:14If that's truly who he is,
01:16:16then I can't imagine that's healthy for Laura.
01:16:20My first impression of Birkan
01:16:21is that Laura and I are more compatible
01:16:23than I think, uh, than Birkan and Shiar.
01:16:25So, I want to make sure
01:16:27that she makes the right choice.
01:16:35I love you so much.
01:16:37But stop telling me that.
01:16:39Stop with hurting some secrets.
01:16:41All I can think about
01:16:43is how there's more to tell him,
01:16:45and I have to get it said
01:16:47before he goes to his uncle.
01:16:48It has to be tonight.
01:16:50So, I have more to tell you, then.
01:16:52More to tell me?
01:17:18Good morning.
01:17:20Oh, good morning.
01:17:25You're going to sleep.
01:17:26You're going to sleep, or I'll...
01:17:28You kept me awake all try tonight.
01:17:30I know.
01:17:31I didn't mean to keep you awake.
01:17:32I couldn't help it.
01:17:33I was sad.
01:17:34Now, you almost went to bed with tears.
01:17:42I feel bad about everything that transpired,
01:17:47but I feel better this morning.
01:18:01Last night, I cried myself to sleep,
01:18:03and all I could think about
01:18:05is how I have to tell Daniel my secret,
01:18:08and I'm scared I'm going to lose him forever.
01:18:10But Daniel held me all night,
01:18:12so I'm waking up feeling a little hopeful.
01:18:16Today is a new day,
01:18:18and I'm hoping that we can explore
01:18:20and have some fun together.
01:18:21Yes, hello.
01:18:22All right, what are you breathing?
01:18:23I'd like to look at the lake,
01:18:25and I'd like to walk around
01:18:26and see what else there is.
01:18:28That's fine.
01:18:29All right, let's get dressed.
01:18:41Come on.
01:18:42Let's go down towards the water.
01:18:46Oh, my gosh.
01:18:50This is a whole resort,
01:18:51and there's nobody here.
01:18:59It's not like it's pictures.
01:19:03It's pretty desolate, actually,
01:19:06and it's a bit run down.
01:19:10You want to smile a little bit?
01:19:12Yeah.
01:19:13But maybe that it's desolate
01:19:15is going to help me with Daniel.
01:19:20Maybe it's a little bit more intimate
01:19:22for the two of us.
01:19:26Water is so big.
01:19:28It's so big, the water?
01:19:33Oh, look at this.
01:19:35This is neat.
01:19:36Let's have one.
01:19:38Two, please.
01:19:41I feel that things are going back to normal.
01:19:44I'm like,
01:19:44Lisa is trying to rebuild our relationship.
01:19:48Oh, wow.
01:19:51Delicious.
01:19:52Let's go for a bike ride.
01:19:54Can you ride a bike?
01:19:56I don't know.
01:19:57I will try.
01:19:59To me, I welcomed it.
01:20:01I want us to be together
01:20:02because I love her.
01:20:07You know, it takes muscle to pull this.
01:20:09Yes, that's why you're doing the pedaling
01:20:11and I'm doing the steering.
01:20:13Look at the pace.
01:20:15No, not that fast.
01:20:16Thank you, baby.
01:20:17Not that fast.
01:20:20Don't go so fast.
01:20:24I feel so light
01:20:26and so good in this moment with Daniel.
01:20:28He is having fun
01:20:30and seeing the smile on his face
01:20:31as he's doing it,
01:20:33I really feel like we're reconnecting.
01:20:36Are you having fun?
01:20:38Yes, I am.
01:20:39See, this is exactly what we needed.
01:20:43I want to just enjoy myself,
01:20:45but I can't
01:20:45because all I can think about
01:20:47is how there's more to tell him
01:20:49and I have to get it said
01:20:51before he goes to his uncle.
01:20:53It has to be tonight.
01:21:16It's a bonfire, honey.
01:21:18We're dancers.
01:21:20I'm enjoying the sun.
01:21:24This is beautiful.
01:21:26Have a seat.
01:21:27Let's watch him.
01:21:29Let's enjoy it.
01:21:32It's beautiful, isn't it?
01:21:37Thank you.
01:21:39Thank you.
01:21:40Woo!
01:21:42This is nice.
01:21:45Are you glad you gave me one more day?
01:21:49I'm enjoying spending time with you.
01:21:52This is what this few days is about.
01:21:54Do you feel like you're reconnecting
01:21:56with me a little bit?
01:21:58Yeah.
01:21:58I didn't want us to reconnect.
01:22:01You know, I miss the way we used to be.
01:22:05But I'm trying to respect our tradition.
01:22:09We have to call my uncle.
01:22:11When I call him,
01:22:12I will beg on our behalf.
01:22:14I love you.
01:22:15I love you, too.
01:22:17I want to make you want to, you know, love you forever.
01:22:22But stop telling me lies.
01:22:24Stop with hurting some secrets.
01:22:27Okay?
01:22:29I understand.
01:22:30Okay.
01:22:33So I have more to tell you then.
01:22:36More to tell me?
01:22:38Yeah.
01:22:40What do you mean?
01:22:44So, like, in Nigeria,
01:22:46it's not legal for men to marry men
01:22:50or women to marry women, right?
01:22:52It's not legal?
01:22:53It's not, yeah.
01:22:54In America, it is.
01:22:56Yes, I've heard of that.
01:23:01So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
01:23:07I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
01:23:12And I've been with more than one woman.
01:23:16You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
01:23:23Because, um...
01:23:30It's not...
01:23:31Don't...
01:23:32It's not as bad as...
01:23:33Don't come close to me!
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01:23:42Hey!
01:23:43Hey!
01:23:44Hey!
01:23:45Hey!
01:23:46Having female friends can be hard to juggle.
01:23:49But I want to prove to her
01:23:50that she has nothing to worry about.
01:23:52Today, I found out that he was living with you.
01:23:54Yeah.
01:23:54Yeah, I think that she has a financial hold on you
01:23:56that's making you feel some sort of...
01:23:58No way!
01:23:59Financial holds, big words!
01:24:01Are you jealous of me?
01:24:03And our relationship?
01:24:08We're officially on the GP!
01:24:11I only have a week left here in the Philippines,
01:24:14and I don't want to waste any time
01:24:16in bringing Sheena to America.
01:24:17So, I have to be very clear here.
01:24:21If you file today for the K-1 vision,
01:24:25it will be denied.
01:24:30I just feel really hopeless
01:24:33because I'm putting in massive effort.
01:24:37And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
01:24:40I don't know how to move forward.
01:24:47I'm excited to see my family.
01:24:49Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
01:24:51Yeah, to see me.
01:24:53What about me?
01:24:54I don't know.
01:24:56I feel scared.
01:24:58My family won't accept Rick
01:25:01when they don't like something.
01:25:03They are really aggressive.
01:25:06Rick doesn't know what he's in for.
01:25:15They want babies.
01:25:20You have a lot of secrets.
01:25:22I have no more secrets.
01:25:24Shut your mouth.
01:25:25You don't have to...
01:25:25You have been touched by a woman.
01:25:27Not even women.
01:25:28Women!
01:25:30What a range.
01:25:34Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.
01:25:36You know what?
01:25:38F*** him.
01:25:39F*** him.
01:25:42It's us.
01:25:44F***.
01:25:45F***.
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