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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days
00:00:03Wow
00:00:04This is your room
00:00:06Wait, wait, wait, what?
00:00:09You could have put a picture of me
00:00:10Didn't have one
00:00:11I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate
00:00:15But our chemistry, it's there
00:00:18Good night
00:00:19Good night
00:00:19Feels very surreal having Elise here with me
00:00:22But I'm a bit worried that she might find parts of my life
00:00:25that she's not exactly happy with
00:00:28You keep talking about your ex, you keep bringing him up
00:00:30I'd rather stay single than back to my ex
00:00:34I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family
00:00:39I told you, yes
00:00:41These issues just keep popping up
00:00:43And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me
00:00:48I'm feeling this is like make or break
00:00:53It just felt like the right time to propose to Sheena
00:00:56I asked you to hold off so she could prove herself
00:00:59And then you just pull this little sneaky
00:01:02Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
00:01:05Sheena and I are going to move forward
00:01:07You're going to be in our lives, but
00:01:08You might be surprised, Forrest
00:01:10I'm so disappointed
00:01:12My mom would actually step away
00:01:13Rather than accept Sheena as my wife
00:01:16It's tearing me apart
00:01:19I feel like your idea of being a husband changed
00:01:23You see, it's like a power
00:01:25I don't have any
00:01:26Because when I tell you to do something, you don't listen to me
00:01:30You want traditional roles when it applies to you
00:01:34I think that you got comfortable
00:01:36Don't ever get too comfortable, ever
00:01:38You don't want a bitchy wife
00:01:42Don't be a asshole
00:01:45Don't come home, ever
00:01:48I love you so much
00:01:50But stop telling me lies
00:01:52There is more to tell him
00:01:54And I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle
00:01:57So, my last marriage wasn't with a man
00:02:01I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel
00:02:03You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years
00:02:08It's not
00:02:09Don't come
00:02:10It's not as bad as
00:02:11Don't come close to me
00:02:17Yeah, I can feel your energy
00:02:23It's passing through me
00:02:26I feel so alive
00:02:37Good morning
00:02:39Good morning
00:02:40Hi
00:02:41How are you?
00:02:42Okay
00:02:44Thank you for taking care of me last night
00:02:46That's alright
00:02:47I can't have you feeling sick as soon as you get here
00:03:00I feel so bad, like every hour I was making you
00:03:03Get up and get me water
00:03:04So, who needs sleep?
00:03:06You're a very big caretaker
00:03:08Yeah, well, long flight
00:03:10And you weren't feeling this
00:03:11So, you know
00:03:13You're such a good boy
00:03:16I arrived in Sydney yesterday
00:03:18And I met my boyfriend Joshua
00:03:20For the first time, face to face
00:03:23The plan was for Josh to sleep on the couch last night
00:03:26But I was up every hour of the night
00:03:29I was coughing, I was shivering
00:03:32And he decided to come in the bed with me
00:03:34And take care of me all night
00:03:35It just feels like it's like a sinus infection almost
00:03:38Like it's just like
00:03:39Yeah
00:03:40Swollen here
00:03:41Maybe you can go get me, like, nose spray
00:03:45Yeah
00:03:47I am a needy bitch
00:03:49Especially when I'm sick
00:03:50I need my man to attend to me
00:03:53Like a golden retriever puppy, like, running
00:03:55Like, catching a ball
00:03:56Joshua does that
00:03:58I feel a little better now
00:04:00With, like, all the water you've been making me drink
00:04:02Yeah
00:04:02And I took my medicine
00:04:04It's good, it's probably a good start
00:04:07What is it?
00:04:09It's regimite
00:04:10What's that?
00:04:11You have to try it
00:04:12It's a big thing in Australia
00:04:13It smells like sardines
00:04:16There's no fish in it
00:04:20Just take a big bite
00:04:26Suck
00:04:26Is it good?
00:04:28It's not bad
00:04:30No, I don't like it
00:04:32I don't like it
00:04:34Joshua, what is that?
00:04:36Is that fish?
00:04:37It's not fish
00:04:40Do you want a tissue?
00:04:43It's a condiment
00:04:45I don't know how to explain it
00:04:46And you love it?
00:04:47Yeah, I do love it on toast
00:04:49You're not Australian if you're not eating Vegemite
00:04:51Tastes like s***
00:04:53I hated it
00:04:58Alright, take this Vegemite away from me
00:05:00Alright, there's other stuff like berries and yogurt and stuff
00:05:04So I'll grab you that
00:05:05Yes
00:05:06And then if you feel a bit better
00:05:07Maybe do you want to go wander up to the beach and see Bondi?
00:05:12Yeah
00:05:12Alright, well don't make me sick
00:05:17I feel like you already got sick by kissing me all night
00:05:21Well we might get times too then
00:05:28Wow, so this is your beach?
00:05:31This is it
00:05:31Oh my god, all the guys that wear the what's the speedo thing
00:05:35Budgie snugglers?
00:05:37I can't, I can't, I can't
00:05:42Wow, the sand feels so nice
00:05:44Very different than Miami
00:05:45It's like really soft
00:05:49Do you want to go in?
00:05:50Yep
00:05:51Wait, I have to change
00:05:53Towel's in my bag
00:05:55So let's figure this out
00:05:57So here's to cover me
00:05:59Okay
00:06:02How do I do that?
00:06:03Like this?
00:06:03Well this one I can just go like this
00:06:05Yeah
00:06:09My top is off
00:06:11Hold me, hold me
00:06:13How do you do this part?
00:06:15Alright, so now we're going to go down
00:06:16Yeah
00:06:17So
00:06:18What are you going to do that now?
00:06:25I'm losing it
00:06:27Hold it
00:06:30Voila!
00:06:31Well done
00:06:35That was pretty impressive
00:06:38Are you going to protect me if they're sharks?
00:06:41Yeah, I'll do my best
00:06:42Let's go, ready?
00:06:43Okay
00:06:45Crookin' that skin
00:06:46Don't hold on, hold on
00:06:47I'm holding it
00:06:48Crashin' like the ocean
00:06:51Oh my god
00:06:54Can I kiss you in slow motion?
00:06:57It's actually insane to even think that I haven't even been here a full 24 hours and it's so natural
00:07:04There's a lot of sexual chemistry there
00:07:06We're so touchy-feely
00:07:09But he seems a little reserved
00:07:12So I'm just trying to feel him out
00:07:17I mean, I do have three weeks here and I came here to find my potential husband
00:07:22So getting to be alone with Joshua
00:07:25It's nice because I want to get into the deeper stuff for sure
00:07:32Holy moly, I'm poor
00:07:34It's funny, you see adults in there freezing and then you see like little kids and they're just like pollucking
00:07:40around for hours
00:07:41When I was a kid, I spent every day at the beach
00:07:44We'd be swimming in the pool every morning
00:07:47Okay
00:07:47But then in the afternoons, we'd be like doing the board training every single afternoon
00:07:54I love learning about you
00:07:55I want to get to know everything about you
00:07:57Yeah, good
00:07:58I want to know the heart
00:07:59Like I want you to open up
00:08:00I feel like you're reserved
00:08:04Were you reserved in your last serious relationship?
00:08:07Yeah, I probably was a bit reserved in my last relationship
00:08:10I was, yeah
00:08:11One big fear is probably, I don't know, opening up
00:08:13And then having it used, like, against me
00:08:18You know
00:08:22In my previous relationship, we dated for seven years
00:08:27But I never felt secure
00:08:29I just felt like I wasn't good enough for her
00:08:32She just wanted me to be, you know, super successful
00:08:36And I was constantly being told if I wasn't, she would walk away
00:08:42So I was always living in fear, I guess
00:08:45She could just end it at any time
00:08:48Ultimately, I had my heart broken
00:08:50And I'm closed off because of that
00:08:54Like, are you constantly thinking like it's something on your mind
00:08:57Or like, it's just
00:08:58Yeah, I'm always thinking
00:09:00Always, always thinking
00:09:01What's your top thought right now?
00:09:04This is
00:09:05I like that you're sort of asking these questions
00:09:08But, you know, it's scary at the same time
00:09:11Because it's opening up and being vulnerable
00:09:13No, I get it
00:09:15Like, opening up can be scary
00:09:19But, you know what?
00:09:21You made me feel safe already
00:09:22Really?
00:09:23That's like an early, early call
00:09:26So, hopefully I'll do the same thing
00:09:28Yeah, I feel safe with you too
00:09:32Hi
00:09:33Hi
00:09:39I've never really had a guy say that to me, actually
00:09:41Like, guys have said a lot of things to me
00:09:44But feeling safe is not one I've heard
00:09:47It feels good
00:09:49I don't think there's anything sexier than a man being vulnerable
00:09:53So, yeah, the plan was to wait
00:09:56But like, he's so sweet to me, he's so attentive to me
00:10:00He's letting his guard down
00:10:01Like, it's hard to resist a sexy man that's treating you well
00:10:04So, we'll see
00:10:19It's not...
00:10:21It's not as bad as...
00:10:22Don't come close to me
00:10:25Daniel
00:10:28You're telling me you have been a lesbian
00:10:32Listen
00:10:32Don't, don't, don't try it
00:10:34Listen to...
00:10:35Don't, don't, don't try it
00:10:37Listen, I'm telling you the truth before we talk to your uncle
00:10:43I want it all out
00:10:44That's why I said I needed another day
00:10:46I wanted you to know everything
00:10:52Daniel
00:10:54Daniel
00:10:55Don't come close to me
00:10:57Please try to understand
00:11:00You don't know how hard it was to...
00:11:03You have a lot of secrets
00:11:04I have no more secrets
00:11:06Just listen, please
00:11:08I'm trying to tell you who I am
00:11:11Jesus Christ
00:11:12I'm not a lesbian
00:11:14I'm not straight
00:11:15I'm not bisexual
00:11:17I just believe that people should love people
00:11:20People should love people by their soul
00:11:22And people should love people for who they are on the inside
00:11:25Not on what is on the outside
00:11:30I don't think there's anything wrong with that
00:11:32You told me you have had serious of, you know, relationship
00:11:35I didn't know it's your fellow women
00:11:38Same sex
00:11:41Yes
00:11:42And you have been lying to me
00:11:45I'm sorry
00:11:49You are evil
00:11:51I'm not evil
00:11:52You know me, I take care of people
00:11:55And I've even taken care of you
00:11:57I'm not evil, I have a good heart
00:11:59And I'm a good person
00:12:01What makes you a good person?
00:12:04Sleeping with your fellow women?
00:12:06That doesn't make me evil
00:12:08I'm still the same person you fell in love with
00:12:11The same person who tell lies
00:12:13And who keeps secrets
00:12:15I love you
00:12:17I don't want to hear that from your mouth again
00:12:19I love you
00:12:21Don't say that again
00:12:23You can't tell me not to say those words because I mean it
00:12:26I am in love with you, Daniel
00:12:27That's why I'm coming clean to you
00:12:29I could have kept this a secret forever and not told you
00:12:33But I'm telling you
00:12:34You don't have to...
00:12:34Shut your mouth, you have been tortured by a woman
00:12:37Not even woman, women
00:12:42You are a liar
00:12:44I'm just a person who has been lost
00:12:53Don't
00:12:53Can you hold this ring?
00:12:55No
00:12:57Hold the ring
00:13:00I've seen that from your head to toe it's full of secrets
00:13:03And lies
00:13:05So you're full of evil
00:13:08I'm not full of evil, Daniel
00:13:11I'm staying in my room tonight
00:13:14So you might be doing the
00:13:17Yes
00:13:26I thought I've seen it all
00:13:28But she keep on vomiting secrets
00:13:32No no no
00:13:33Why cry cry cry?
00:13:37I didn't think he appoint evil
00:13:41no, no, no, no, no, no, I only believe a person loves a person
00:13:45and I don't think there's anything wrong with that
00:13:53Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am
00:13:56you know what, him, him
00:14:03¡Gracias!
00:14:12¡We're officially on the jeepney!
00:14:15¡I only have a week left here in the Philippines!
00:14:17¡And I don't want to waste any time bringing Sheena to America!
00:14:21¡So, I have to be very clear here!
00:14:24¡If you file today for the K-1 visa, it will be denied!
00:14:37¡Suscríbete al canal!
00:14:38¡We are like me!
00:14:44¡The tattoo is coming!
00:14:52¡This is light out so we can see!
00:14:56¡We are here!
00:14:58¡I'm tired!
00:14:59¡Just get a rest!
00:15:01¡Oh!
00:15:26¡Oh!
00:15:27¡I went to Fort Duffin, my hometown!
00:15:30¡We arrived late so we stay in a hotel!
00:15:34¡And now we are going to my family's village for a few days!
00:15:40¡Can't forget my baby wipes!
00:15:42¡I don't know how you guys wash your ass in the village!
00:15:44¡We use water!
00:15:47¡Oh!
00:15:48¡Oh!
00:15:54¡Oh!
00:15:55¡I want him to meet my family!
00:15:57¡I want him to meet my family!
00:15:57¡But I don't feel like everything is resolved yet between me and Rick!
00:16:05¡I don't want him to ruin this vacation!
00:16:07¡I don't want him to ruin this vacation!
00:16:08¡But the way you talked to me yesterday, I don't like!
00:16:16¡I went a little overboard!
00:16:18¡I'm sorry for that!
00:16:21¡I'm sorry for raising my voice to you!
00:16:25¡It's just I was so frustrated, you know, hearing about your ex-boyfriend constantly!
00:16:33¡I mean, I can't move forward if you're going to keep going back!
00:16:42Okay, I promise I'm not going to talk about my ex.
00:16:49Okay.
00:16:50We are going to see my family and I don't want to go there in a bad mood.
00:16:56I want them to accept you because I want this relationship work.
00:17:03I do too.
00:17:07I overreacted yesterday.
00:17:09It seemed like she was taunting me over something that she already knows that I'm insecure about.
00:17:15Then it just totally set me off.
00:17:18I want to be here and, um, I want to really give this a chance.
00:17:24Yeah.
00:17:26There's definitely a strong connection between her and I.
00:17:31And I'm glad that Trish is willing to forgive me.
00:17:37So, I think we can, like, get a quickie in before we go.
00:17:42What?
00:17:43No!
00:17:48Let's go now.
00:17:55Nice touches right here.
00:17:57Yeah, it's nice.
00:18:10It's quiet, you see?
00:18:12Not much fickle.
00:18:14Not what I expect.
00:18:19Rough roads.
00:18:23The roots are made of aluminum.
00:18:25Must get noisy when it rains, huh?
00:18:28Yeah.
00:18:30No!
00:18:35I'm excited to see my family and go back to my village.
00:18:40Everything is just simple.
00:18:42There is no running water.
00:18:45No fancy toilet.
00:18:47But everybody are kind in my village.
00:18:51And it's beautiful.
00:18:54Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
00:18:56Yeah, to see me.
00:18:58What about me?
00:19:01They going to be happy to see me, baby?
00:19:03I don't know.
00:19:04Can you meet me?
00:19:06They're happy because I bring a boyfriend.
00:19:09Oh, OK.
00:19:10And they will tell me if you were the good person for me or not.
00:19:19Yeah, I just hope those questions don't come too hard and fast.
00:19:24I feel a little bit scared.
00:19:28My family won't accept Rick.
00:19:32Men in my tribe is very strong.
00:19:36When they don't like something, they are really aggressive.
00:19:41Rick thinks he can handle any situation, but he can't.
00:19:47I'm worried he doesn't know what he's in for.
00:19:54Is it right here?
00:19:56Yeah, it's here.
00:19:58There's no turning back, man.
00:20:10So we're going to have to call a GP.
00:20:13I'm super duper nervous about writing one.
00:20:15Oh, you're going to have to.
00:20:16How's that work?
00:20:17Well, you can see those sign boards.
00:20:19Uh-huh.
00:20:20Just have them on the floor.
00:20:20We have to find the right location.
00:20:22Then we just have to kill Para.
00:20:25Para is the south.
00:20:26Oh.
00:20:31So here.
00:20:32Oh, here?
00:20:33Yes.
00:20:34All right.
00:20:36We're officially on the jeepney.
00:20:42Oh, there it is.
00:20:44The big floor.
00:20:46Oh!
00:20:49I'm surprisingly not tapping the top too hardcore.
00:20:53Yeah.
00:20:53It's hot.
00:20:54It smells like diesel.
00:20:59It's been a couple days since I proposed to Sheena,
00:21:01and we are just over the moon in love with each other.
00:21:06But not everyone's happy.
00:21:08Oh!
00:21:09My mom is still mad at me because I proposed to Sheena against her guidance.
00:21:16And the vibe in the condo is just really awkward.
00:21:22So Sheena and I have been trying to do our own thing.
00:21:25Oh, my gosh.
00:21:26So this is the volunteer.
00:21:28All right, here we go.
00:21:30We're getting off.
00:21:30Oh, yeah.
00:21:31Thanks a lot, Mom.
00:21:33While it really hurts that my mom has distanced herself,
00:21:35right now is not the time to put the brakes on things.
00:21:38I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:21:40And I don't want to waste any time in bringing Sheena to America.
00:21:46Good morning.
00:21:47Will you have an appointment with Mr. Alexander King, please?
00:21:51Yes.
00:21:51Now that we're finally engaged,
00:21:53I called an immigration lawyer in Manila
00:21:55just so we can get a consultation.
00:21:58Hi.
00:21:58Oh, hi, sir.
00:21:59Hi.
00:22:00Good morning.
00:22:01Hi, this is Sheena.
00:22:03Hi, her.
00:22:03Nice to meet you.
00:22:05Nice to meet you.
00:22:06There you are.
00:22:07Good afternoon.
00:22:08Good afternoon, Mr.
00:22:09Welcome to our office.
00:22:11And welcome to the Philippines.
00:22:13Thank you.
00:22:13I've been enjoying my stay.
00:22:15Okay.
00:22:15So for this consultation, I would like to, you know, make an assessment.
00:22:21Of course.
00:22:21Sure.
00:22:22If you are eligible for the K-1 visa.
00:22:25Yeah.
00:22:25Now, how long have you been in this relationship?
00:22:29Seven years.
00:22:30Seven years.
00:22:31Mm-hmm.
00:22:32And you have never been convicted of any crime in the U.S.?
00:22:35No.
00:22:36Okay.
00:22:36Speak clean.
00:22:38Yeah.
00:22:40When I walk, you can hear.
00:22:40Yeah, so, uh, are you, uh, working right now?
00:22:46Currently, I'm not working.
00:22:49But I can prove that I'm getting paid monthly.
00:22:52Okay.
00:22:52I'm receiving, uh, disability benefits, which is, it's a good enough amount to have me,
00:23:00you know, live my basic life and, you know, get an apartment, get food, all that good stuff.
00:23:07I see.
00:23:09So, I have to, um, uh, be very clear here.
00:23:13You know, disability benefits is not an income.
00:23:19You know, you cannot consider that income.
00:23:22The annual income for, uh, petitioners for, uh, K-1 visa is more or less $26,500 USD.
00:23:30Now, is that shared between the both?
00:23:32No, it's only the petitioner.
00:23:34Okay.
00:23:34That's for the petitioner.
00:23:37So, um, if you will file today, for example, it will be denied.
00:23:47My suggestion is you build your financial capacity, you know, find gainful employment,
00:23:53then, uh, you can proceed.
00:23:58I am in complete shock right now.
00:24:01I feel devastated to find out that my disability payments that I get monthly does not count towards the amount
00:24:09that I need to bring shit into the United States.
00:24:11To be honest, because of my autism, I am terrified about working full-time and starting a job.
00:24:22In the past, I've had jobs that ended awfully because I didn't understand or I messed up.
00:24:31But my back is at a wall right now that if I don't get a job, our entire dream of
00:24:39bringing Gina to the United States is done.
00:24:43So, let's say, you know, I go back home and I instantly start working.
00:24:48Yeah.
00:24:48How long is enough to have a stable form of income, you know, before the K-1 is actually granted?
00:24:54So, yeah, uh, you need probably a year, uh, employment history.
00:25:02Okay.
00:25:02And then, uh, you will meet another year, uh, at least, uh, to have the petition approved and bring your
00:25:10fiancé to the U.S.
00:25:11Yeah.
00:25:16It's quite frustrating for me that I'm the only one who's been working.
00:25:21If he happened to have a job, then he could have acquired the CAVA visa sooner.
00:25:29I'm worried that since Forrest has a disability, it will be quite difficult for him to get and hold a
00:25:37job long term.
00:25:39Is there any other options?
00:25:42So, depending on your goal, here in the, uh, Philippine immigration, we have a straightforward process.
00:25:49If you get married here and he comes to the Philippines and live here, there is no requirement of financial
00:25:54capacity.
00:25:55Okay.
00:25:56Okay? So, there will be, um, a hundred percent chance that the petition will be approved.
00:26:02Okay.
00:26:03Okay.
00:26:05So, these options will depend on your goal.
00:26:12At this point, it's sounding almost impossible for Forrest to bring me to the U.S.
00:26:18I know it's going to be difficult, but I think he's going to have to consider other options.
00:26:34I don't know. I'm just real pissed off. And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads. I don't know how
00:26:39to move forward.
00:26:52Can I at least have my wallet?
00:26:54No.
00:26:56Okay.
00:26:57Don't talk to me. Don't come to me.
00:26:58Don't talk to me.
00:26:59Don't talk to me.
00:27:06You think you can just treat me this way, humiliate me all the time?
00:27:10All right. I'm going to just give you space. All right?
00:27:19Gracias por ver el video.
00:27:43Gracias por ver el video.
00:28:14Gracias por ver el video.
00:28:42¿Am I allowed to come in?
00:28:46¿No?
00:28:47¿No?
00:28:50¿No?
00:28:50¿No?
00:28:51¿No?
00:28:52¿No?
00:28:55¿No?
00:29:01We're just going to leave her for now.
00:29:03Just give her space, man, so she can just calm down.
00:29:08We'll talk about it when she's ready.
00:29:13I just feel really hopeless with Anna
00:29:17because I'm putting in massive effort
00:29:20to show Anna that I can be romantic.
00:29:23And, you know, she storms out of the nail salon place
00:29:28and it's just, I don't know, I'm just real pissed off
00:29:30that she would make a scene in public like this.
00:29:34And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
00:29:38I don't know how to move forward.
00:29:41Mama, your day good?
00:29:43It's okay.
00:29:46Every time we're having a good time,
00:29:50he would do this to me, right?
00:29:52In front, in public.
00:29:54It's so humiliating.
00:29:57I don't think he's powerless.
00:29:59The fact that he could upset me this much
00:30:01definitely has power of his relationship.
00:30:09Hello.
00:30:12Kumusta nung baby ni Nana?
00:30:17Nainis ako kay Joon.
00:30:19Bakit?
00:30:20Makaka bad trip kasi.
00:30:23Bakit?
00:30:23Kasi gusto niya yung relasyon na amin.
00:30:25Dahil lalaki siya, siya dominante.
00:30:27Ganito, ganyan, ganyan.
00:30:29Ayoko nang ginaganyan ako.
00:30:31Nainis ako.
00:30:34Huwag makikita yan.
00:30:40Isawa na kayo.
00:30:42Usap kayo.
00:30:43Pag-usapan niya.
00:30:44Oo nga, ayoko nga makipag-usap
00:30:45kasi nang uwi is sa pagkatalo.
00:30:50Ayoko nga, ayoko nga makipag-usapan niya.
00:31:14Haya, huwag mong hayaang masirang relasyon niyo.
00:31:26Haya, huwag makipag-usapan niya.
00:31:42Haya, huwag makipag-usapan niya.
00:31:45Haya, huwag makipag-usapan niya.
00:31:48Huwag makipag-usapan.
00:31:51Das Mae, huwag makipag-usapan niya.
00:31:53Du ja?
00:32:00Oh.
00:32:03the following the show
00:32:05ha, huwag makes day of km
00:32:13No, no, no, no, no.
00:32:45Every thing here is gold!
00:32:53I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:32:56Maybe.
00:32:57But Joshua and I are both super sandy and gross from the ocean, and I mean, like, I wanted
00:33:04to save water.
00:33:05I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:33:10I'm trying to control myself, but Josh is just, like, so hot, and we've been making
00:33:15out all day.
00:33:17You know, in the back of my mind, I do have some questions, and I do want to see more
00:33:22of him and more of his life.
00:33:23But, like, at this point, like, it feels right.
00:33:26So, I bought some massage oil, and then I think there's some wine.
00:33:31Maybe we can have a glass and relax?
00:33:33I love it.
00:33:34Okay, perfect.
00:33:45Babe, are you coming?
00:33:47Yeah.
00:33:51Everything feels really natural.
00:33:53Everything feels like it's progressing between us.
00:33:56We're just drawn to each other, which is, you know, really exciting.
00:34:01We had an amazing day together, and I want to pamper Elise.
00:34:05Now's the time to pour some wine, you know, light a candle, and, you know, show her that
00:34:10I've got skills.
00:34:16Wow.
00:34:18Look at this.
00:34:19Yeah.
00:34:23Welcome to Sydney.
00:34:25Making you feel better and more relaxed.
00:34:29Cheers.
00:34:29Cheers.
00:34:34Feel like a massage?
00:34:35Yeah, I would love one.
00:34:37I'm going to lay it out.
00:34:38This doesn't mean you're necessarily sleeping in the bed tonight.
00:34:41It's like how I didn't sleep in.
00:34:44Lay on your stomach.
00:34:46Okay.
00:34:54Is that all right?
00:34:55It's not okay.
00:34:59Wow, that's a lot of oil.
00:35:03You can go harder.
00:35:05Harder.
00:35:05Wait.
00:35:08You should go down lower.
00:35:11You're, like, trying to be, like, a little respectful, but come on.
00:35:16Don't be a little bitch.
00:35:18Give me, like, everything.
00:35:19Slap on the ass?
00:35:20Yeah, slap on the ass.
00:35:21Like, grab my hair with the oil in it.
00:35:24I mean, I don't have extensions for nothing.
00:35:26F***ing ripped me around a little bit here.
00:35:29Wow.
00:35:31It's a family show, I thought you said.
00:35:35You know that?
00:35:36Yeah.
00:35:38Shaking.
00:35:39I can feel it.
00:35:40You reckon?
00:35:49All right, guys.
00:35:54What the f*** are you doing?
00:36:00The timing on me.
00:36:03Hi, Chris.
00:36:04Yeah, hi.
00:36:05Nice.
00:36:06Now it's a party.
00:36:08Now it's a party.
00:36:09I can't stop on my car.
00:36:11I'm getting a wine glass.
00:36:15I did not see that coming.
00:36:16I did.
00:36:18I don't f***ing half naked right now.
00:36:20You know, there's better places to give a naked massage in the house than the communal area as well.
00:36:25Half naked massage.
00:36:26Yeah, you know what?
00:36:26You're absolutely right.
00:36:27Yeah.
00:36:28But, you know, I think I was just blind with lust.
00:36:32Ew.
00:36:33You have to say it's so weird for bro.
00:36:39All right, well, I'm going to go to my room.
00:36:44Well, that just ruined the moment.
00:36:47This is exactly why I don't want a guy with roommate.
00:36:52Can you button me back up?
00:36:54I'm, like, literally in my bra and underwear.
00:36:58Showing your skin to other people?
00:37:01Who is that?
00:37:02Not me.
00:37:03No, I'm not embarrassed.
00:37:04Like, I'll get naked in front of everyone.
00:37:06We know that.
00:37:06But, like, Chris f***ing walks in as your hands are groping my body.
00:37:11And it's, like, such a sexual, nice night.
00:37:13And, like...
00:37:13Yeah, I probably should have done it in the bedroom.
00:37:15Not my finest hour.
00:37:18Sorry, baby.
00:37:19Well, that f***ing killed the mood.
00:37:21For now.
00:37:24Okay.
00:37:33Andres?
00:37:33Oh, this is the shower?
00:37:37Yeah.
00:37:39Yeah.
00:37:40Oh, hell no!
00:37:43I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction in front of my father.
00:37:48Paper for the...
00:37:50Is that it?
00:37:51What?
00:37:52This is paper to write on.
00:37:53You wipe this...
00:37:54Yeah.
00:37:55Stop it.
00:38:20Wow, babe.
00:38:20This is where you grew up?
00:38:22Yeah, it's here.
00:38:35Hey!
00:38:36Is that your rooster?
00:38:38No, not mine.
00:38:40But my neighbors.
00:38:41Oh, okay.
00:38:43We just got to the area of Trish's family home.
00:38:46I've never seen a home where you have to walk so far to get to off the main road.
00:38:53Oh, this is a journey.
00:38:55Don't complain.
00:38:57But I'm happy to be here with Trish because I want a future with her.
00:39:04And if I can get her family's approval, I think that she would be able to see that I'm a
00:39:09good person and maybe it would make up for what I did in the past.
00:39:16Oh, this is my house.
00:39:17Yeah, this is my house.
00:39:20Oh, that's my sister.
00:39:22Oh, this is your sister.
00:39:25I need to meet her.
00:39:28She does look like you.
00:39:30She's very beautiful.
00:39:31Yeah, she is.
00:39:32Nice to meet you.
00:39:35And who is this?
00:39:37My brother.
00:39:37Oh, this is your brother?
00:39:39Yes.
00:39:39My brother.
00:39:41Hello, sir.
00:39:44How are you doing?
00:39:45Thank you.
00:39:46Nice to meet you.
00:39:47Nice to meet you.
00:39:50Trish has told me that she has a huge family.
00:39:53And they all live on this compound together.
00:39:57Hi, I'm Rick.
00:39:58It's nice to meet you.
00:39:59Oh, this is your brother.
00:40:00Okay.
00:40:03Okay.
00:40:03Nice to meet you.
00:40:05Oh, how are you?
00:40:06My sister.
00:40:07This is your sister?
00:40:09It's so nice to meet you.
00:40:10You look like my grandmother.
00:40:13I wasn't expecting that many people.
00:40:16You know, I keep seeing people pouring in one by one.
00:40:21Just when I'm thinking, that should be everybody there.
00:40:24And there's more people coming.
00:40:25Like, how am I going to remember all these people's names and who they are?
00:40:32Bye-bye.
00:40:48My dad say you sleep down.
00:40:56The bunk beds remind me of when I was a kid and me and my sister.
00:41:01I never imagined myself sleeping in the bunk bed at my age.
00:41:06But I respect her dad and their culture.
00:41:11I never imagined myself sleeping in the bunk bed at my age.
00:41:37Yeah.
00:41:40He's going to show you the bathroom.
00:41:42Okay.
00:41:44I smell something already.
00:41:48Oh, hell no!
00:41:51All I see is a wooden plank with a hole cut out of it.
00:41:57Paper for the...
00:42:00Wait, wait, wait.
00:42:03This is paper to write on.
00:42:05You wipe this?
00:42:06Yes!
00:42:06Rick, stop it.
00:42:09That's how I...
00:42:09Sit, sit, sit.
00:42:11Oh, good.
00:42:13That's it.
00:42:15I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction in front of my father.
00:42:21But I'm not surprised.
00:42:23Ever since Rick came to Madagascar, he complains about everything.
00:42:30I don't like the traffic, I'll tell you that much already.
00:42:34And they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration?
00:42:38These are tight quarters right here, baby.
00:42:41It's kind of squished.
00:42:43It's hot.
00:42:44I hope it's not going to be this hot nosey thing.
00:42:46Shouldn't they have like some long tongs?
00:42:49No, we don't need the long tongs.
00:42:51You are the only bougie here, afraid of something.
00:42:54Oh my God, terrible.
00:42:59This is the living room?
00:43:01Yeah.
00:43:02Yeah, this is the living room.
00:43:04I don't know what else.
00:43:05I don't know what else.
00:43:06I don't know what else.
00:43:07I don't know what else.
00:43:08I don't know what else.
00:43:09I'm like, what is this?
00:43:09Like a family meeting or something?
00:43:12OK.
00:43:25So they approve that you are here, and he's going to give us a blessing.
00:43:32Thank you.
00:43:33This blessing is just for accepting you to go around with me.
00:43:39OK.
00:43:40In my culture, you cannot just walk around with a man outside there
00:43:45without your parents' acceptation.
00:43:49But it's not a blessing to get engaged, no.
00:43:53It's just he's giving an authorization to having relationship.
00:44:01This is for a blessing.
00:44:02That's it.
00:44:03Too big.
00:44:03It is a silver.
00:44:04Was that a bracelet?
00:44:05Yeah, a bracelet.
00:44:09What else did you think about it?
00:44:12That's a little annoying, but I didn't even know what else.
00:44:16I wanted to know what else was right.
00:44:21I was a young girl to see what else was done.
00:44:28I was a young girl to see how she was born.
00:44:32I didn't know what else was born and I was a young girl.
00:44:38I was a young girl, so I knew what else was born in the world.
00:44:42¿Qué es eso?
00:44:45He's back there.
00:44:52I'm so sorry.
00:44:55Thank you. Thank you for this.
00:45:01Oh, is that his?
00:45:08Yeah, his wrist.
00:45:09Okay.
00:45:35¡Suscríbete al canal!
00:45:44I believe that if he just gives me a chance, he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:45:50Same sex is a disgrace. This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:45:54Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us, or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:46:38I feel miserable.
00:46:41Numb.
00:46:45Really sad.
00:46:50But I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I just don't know what happens from here.
00:46:59Last night, I came clean to Daniel. I told him everything. There are no more secrets.
00:47:06And he didn't react good. He called me evil. He didn't talk to me. He looked at me with disgust.
00:47:13He's not accepting who I am.
00:47:16So he slept on the sofa. I slept in the bedroom.
00:47:20I'm mad, and I'm angry, and I'm hurt.
00:47:24But I'm still desperately, madly, deeply in love with Daniel.
00:47:30My plan is to go back to Lagos today. I'm cutting the trip short.
00:47:35There's a big fear he's never going to trust me again, and that he's going to leave me.
00:47:39But until he says, I don't want to be with you, until he says those words, I'm not giving up
00:47:43hope.
00:47:46Telling the truth is a heavier weight between Daniel and I.
00:47:51I don't even know if he wants to talk to his uncle anymore about me lying about still being married.
00:47:57But I believe that if he just gives me a chance, looks at me as Lisa, sees me as a
00:48:03person he fell in love with those months ago,
00:48:05that he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:48:09I still want to be with Daniel.
00:48:11But now it's up to him.
00:48:19How do you feel?
00:48:20Lisa is full of lies.
00:48:23I don't think her lies is over, because she keep on cooking new ones every day.
00:48:29Why did you call her evil?
00:48:31Because she's evil.
00:48:33Keeping all these secrets.
00:48:35I've been thinking of how to talk to my uncle about the one she told me already.
00:48:41That she has not been divorced.
00:48:44Not knowing that she has been in a relationship with her fellow women.
00:48:47She's been practicing same sex.
00:48:51So, I don't know how I'm going to face him.
00:48:54It's against our tradition.
00:49:05Daniel, can I ask you a question?
00:49:10Just allow me to be.
00:49:11Like, we have to talk.
00:49:13You can't ignore me forever.
00:49:16Please.
00:49:18You need to give me time.
00:49:20I have to think.
00:49:24Can you grab your bags?
00:49:26I can't carry everything to the car.
00:49:30I'm not happy that the person I loved have engaged in this act of same sex.
00:49:37I'm not happy.
00:49:38Another love gone bad again, bad again, bad again.
00:49:44But what obsesses me the most is the lies.
00:49:48I love this.
00:49:49I want to forgive her.
00:49:51But after what she did, I don't trust her anymore.
00:49:55I don't know if I can continue this relationship.
00:49:57You're on your own, hope you feel the pain of your thoughts inside, driving you insane.
00:50:10I will love this much stronger because it can't hurt anymore.
00:50:18Hurt anymore than it's already done.
00:50:33¡Suscríbete al canal!
00:50:53Why does he need to know anything?
00:50:56Anything.
00:50:56Yeah.
00:50:57You call this anything.
00:50:58Yeah.
00:50:59Same sex is a disgrace to any family that are involved in it.
00:51:05It's against our tradition.
00:51:08But it's not against American tradition.
00:51:11But you are in my country.
00:51:12You are in my tribe.
00:51:13This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:51:17My uncle has to be involved.
00:51:19Are you promising me that you will not go back to practicing same sex?
00:51:24Daniel, if we're married, I plan on marrying you for the rest of my life.
00:51:28There's not going to be another woman.
00:51:30If I'm with you, I'm with you.
00:51:33Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us?
00:51:36Or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:51:38I don't know.
00:51:40I don't think I will continue with this relationship until my uncle comes.
00:51:46I should have told you.
00:51:47I should have told you before I came.
00:51:50And then you could have determined if you wanted to even be with me or not be with me.
00:51:54And there wouldn't be all these emotions involved.
00:51:56And there wouldn't be all this struggle.
00:51:57I should have just told you.
00:51:59I was scared to tell you.
00:52:01And I was scared to lose you.
00:52:05I'm scared of losing you.
00:52:08This all comes down to his uncle.
00:52:10When he finds out that I lied about me being with women for 21 years,
00:52:15I'm worried that his uncle will never forgive me and never accept me.
00:52:20And this relationship will be over.
00:52:24I don't want to talk about this anymore until my uncle comes.
00:52:27Please.
00:52:45Don't help that.
00:52:46Ow.
00:52:47That does not hurt.
00:52:48That really hurts?
00:52:50It's not happening.
00:52:50That's how you know I'm so sexually attracted to you because I love popping your pimples.
00:52:54I'm good.
00:52:57I'm good.
00:53:04Did you sleep well?
00:53:06I'm pretty tired.
00:53:08I can't believe after six months I had sex.
00:53:12I feel like I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:53:15Like I'm a little mad at myself that I should have waited longer, but it felt right.
00:53:20It was a lot of fun.
00:53:24Do you think Chris hurt us?
00:53:27Uh, possibly.
00:53:30How many times did you have sex last night?
00:53:33Twice.
00:53:35It was just too hard to keep our hands off each other and just it felt like it flowed.
00:53:40It was like missionary.
00:53:41It was great.
00:53:42And then like to the side was the other one.
00:53:46Did you get a glimpse of the picture of Chris above?
00:53:49I forgot that painting was in the room.
00:53:51Well, you didn't even me doggy style.
00:53:52So I couldn't even see the painting last night.
00:53:58I feel like we're an old married couple.
00:54:00Like I'm so comfortable with you.
00:54:03Like usually like at home, like if I like sleep with a guy, like I just want to like go
00:54:08leave the next day.
00:54:09But like I'm stuck with you and I'm here with you.
00:54:12And then like I'm happy that I'm here.
00:54:14And like I came.
00:54:16Yeah, did you?
00:54:18I did.
00:54:21Chris walking in when I'm on the couch getting massaged.
00:54:24That definitely brought the mood down.
00:54:25He had a lot of making up to do if he wanted to have sex and he definitely made it
00:54:29up.
00:54:30It was everything I could have dreamed of and more.
00:54:33Everything about this man is so sexy except the uncircumcised.
00:54:39This is the first uncircumcised.
00:54:44It's a little weird.
00:54:45It's like, you know, but.
00:54:48Also, there's not like a dictionary on like how to use the extra skin.
00:54:53But like, like I'm not complaining about it.
00:54:58I can deal with that.
00:55:01I'm glad that you felt comfortable very quickly.
00:55:08I did.
00:55:09I'm like, one part of me is like super happy.
00:55:12But the other part of me is like, I should have.
00:55:14I should.
00:55:14I want to know more than and then.
00:55:16But whatever.
00:55:17Like, I shouldn't be so hard on myself.
00:55:18Just ask anything you want.
00:55:20Do anything you want.
00:55:21Say anything you want.
00:55:22Yeah.
00:55:23OK, I'll start asking.
00:55:24Don't hate me.
00:55:25OK, go.
00:55:27So, I'm confused about this rental situation.
00:55:31Like, a little annoying that Chris like walked in during that.
00:55:34Like, why is he even here with you renting it in the first place?
00:55:39Because last I knew is you lived with your parents.
00:55:44I mean, look, we were living together and then we sort of had to get out.
00:55:48After we moved out, I dropped my stuff to my parents and sort of stayed there for a week.
00:55:53But then, you know, I, um, I've been living with Nat.
00:56:00I've been staying at hers because, you know, she lives a lot closer to work.
00:56:05So why?
00:56:06I feel like I'm a detective and I'm trying to like navigate this like detective puzzle
00:56:11because you've confused me so much.
00:56:14I know Nat, we've talked on the phone a few times, but living together?
00:56:19I think their relationship's a little weird.
00:56:22If it's so platonic and you're just friends,
00:56:25why would you have to lie to me about it and tell me you're living with your parents?
00:56:28This just smells fishy to me.
00:56:32Um, I just, I mean, to me, it's a little weird that you're living with a girl.
00:56:40And like, you talk about her a lot too.
00:56:43And like, I just, I don't know, like.
00:56:46She's my friend.
00:56:48You're here.
00:56:49You're my, you're my girlfriend.
00:56:50So it's, it's exactly the same as Chris.
00:56:52I would, I would treat her exactly the same as I do Chris, you know?
00:56:55Like, do you guys like share a bathroom?
00:56:56Like, does she see you naked?
00:56:58Like, like, how does that work?
00:57:00Why is that funny?
00:57:01No, it's funny because, you know, I get it.
00:57:04That's, you know, I get why you would ask those questions.
00:57:06Um, yeah, of course we share a bathroom, right?
00:57:08But, um, she hasn't seen me naked.
00:57:11Her and I are just friends.
00:57:12She's like, you know, just a really good friend.
00:57:15But, you know, she knows about you and that you're my partner.
00:57:18And, you know, um, I really want you guys to get along because it's important for me.
00:57:21Well, you must feel some sort of way because you didn't tell me you lived with her.
00:57:29Maybe it was a part of me, you know, not wanting you to get, you know, jealous and back out
00:57:34of this before you got here.
00:57:35So, you know, when you...
00:57:35And how do I know you're telling me the truth?
00:57:38Well, that's your job to believe me and it's my job to prove it to you.
00:57:44I'm supposed to meet Josh's friends tonight, including Nat.
00:57:48So, I need to take advantage and get the whole picture of him.
00:57:51I want to see how Joshua treats me in front of her, see what she says to me.
00:57:55If there's any skeletons in the closet that Joshua hasn't told me, then I'm going to find out.
00:57:59It's like, what else do I not know that I should know?
00:58:03I want to give Joshua the benefit of the doubt, but I don't fully trust him after this.
00:58:09At the end of the day, like, you know, you're, you know, you're mine and you're my number one priority,
00:58:14so...
00:58:37They want babies.
00:59:05That's a goat.
00:59:07We call it...
00:59:33I don't know if I can hold my legs like this.
00:59:37I'm going to sit like your aunt.
00:59:39I'm going to try that.
00:59:47Only women are allowed to sit like this?
00:59:50She's not going to sit like this till the end, just serving the food.
00:59:55So far, everything is seem pretty good with Rick and my family, even though he's acting like an old man.
01:00:06My father said, you have to use to do it.
01:00:11But I know my family is going to be asking him a lot of questions, and I don't know how
01:00:17Rick is going to respond.
01:00:27Like, what is the intention to me?
01:00:42I love her very much, and I'm hoping that she could possibly love me the same.
01:00:53I love her very much, too.
01:01:09¿Cómo estás?
01:01:13¿Cómo estás?
01:01:15¿Cómo estás?
01:01:15¿Cómo estás?
01:01:16Oh...
01:01:17I'm 52.
01:01:2452.
01:01:26Ah...
01:01:28I'm...
01:01:29I'm 53.
01:01:31You have the same age as him.
01:01:37I'm 53.
01:01:43I'm 53.
01:01:45I'm 53.
01:01:46I was 53.
01:01:46I was 53.
01:01:47I was 53.
01:01:49I was 53.
01:01:51I was 53.
01:01:54I was 53.
01:02:07No, no, no, no, no, no.
01:02:50They want babies.
01:02:59Trish and I have been talking about whether or not we're going to have kids, and I'm just
01:03:06not ready to make that decision yet.
01:03:33They want respect, and as a Malagasy, we get married and have a child.
01:03:43It's a real life.
01:03:48It's a real life.
01:03:52It's a real life.
01:04:10I understand that.
01:04:12And now that I see how important this is, it's going to be the forefront of my mind.
01:04:29When are you going to decide it?
01:04:34Before, you know, I come to your father and ask for your hand in marriage, I will make a decision.
01:04:42Okay.
01:04:52Trish, she warned me about how strongly her family felt about having kids.
01:04:59But now the heat is on and I'm starting to feel the pressure.
01:05:04My feelings have grown so much for Trish that I couldn't picture a life without her at this
01:05:10point.
01:05:12But I really don't want to have more kids.
01:05:17I don't know how I'm going to make this decision.
01:05:48Today, I found out that he was living with you.
01:06:01It's OK.
01:06:04It's OK.
01:06:13It's not OK.
01:06:15It's OK.
01:07:16So I just can't ignore him forever.
01:07:19Especially now that he's in my house.
01:07:27Hey!
01:07:28Hey.
01:07:34I like your outfit.
01:07:38Thanks.
01:07:39I mean.
01:07:41Do you want to talk anything about
01:07:43yesterday?
01:07:55¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:08:34¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:09:05¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:09:13¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:09:30¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:09:33¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:09:38¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:09:56¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:10:14¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:10:22¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:10:29¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:10:52¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:11:04¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:11:32¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:11:35¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:11:37¿Qué es lo que pasa hoy?
01:11:58Oh, God, it's a little nippley out.
01:12:01A little nippley.
01:12:04¿Dónde está el chocolate?
01:12:06¿Dónde está el chocolate?
01:12:07Sí.
01:12:09¿Dónde está el chocolate?
01:12:09¿Dónde está el chocolate?
01:12:10¿Es there upstairs?
01:12:13El plan para hoy es que vamos a ir a ver mi amigos
01:12:16para ir a la ciudad de la harbour.
01:12:19Estoy emocionada, pero emocionada más.
01:12:22I explained to Elise that I was living with Nat
01:12:24and she was not happy about it.
01:12:27But I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about.
01:12:35Are you falling?
01:12:37Yeah, I'm falling for you.
01:12:38Oh, that was cool.
01:12:42Wow.
01:12:46This is, like, stunning.
01:12:47Like, not what I expected.
01:12:50It's nice, huh?
01:12:50It's beautiful.
01:12:52Thank you, babe.
01:12:54I love how you hold my purse.
01:12:58Walking into this, I'm afraid of a lot.
01:13:00Like, I'm afraid, you know, am I going to catch him in any more lies?
01:13:03I'm nervous to see how he's going to act towards me.
01:13:06Is he going to be attentive?
01:13:06Is he going to make me feel comfortable?
01:13:08It's really important to be accepted into the friend group,
01:13:11but on the same time, like, I came here for answers.
01:13:13I want answers and I want to figure out his life.
01:13:15And, like, I don't want to be lied to.
01:13:19I want to be honest.
01:13:19Hi.
01:13:20Hello, hello, hello.
01:13:22Hello.
01:13:24Hello.
01:13:25Hello.
01:13:25Nice to meet you.
01:13:26Nice to meet you.
01:13:27Are you a y'all person?
01:13:28I'm tall.
01:13:29No, I meant y'all, not tall.
01:13:31Hey, Liz.
01:13:32How are you?
01:13:32Nice to meet you, finally.
01:13:34Nice to meet you.
01:13:35Nice to meet you.
01:13:36And I know you.
01:13:37I know you.
01:13:39I know you.
01:13:40Keep back.
01:13:41Keep back.
01:13:42What's up, Theo?
01:13:43Tobacco?
01:13:45Sorry.
01:13:45Where are we all sitting?
01:13:46We're all sitting alone, man.
01:13:48We're sitting, I guess.
01:13:49We'll get attacked by seagulls, but...
01:13:50Hopefully, no one can look up my skirt.
01:13:54Just everyone, man.
01:13:55Yeah, sorry.
01:13:56This is great.
01:13:58Oh, my favorite people.
01:14:00Thank you.
01:14:01Thank you.
01:14:02I need this.
01:14:03Thank you so much.
01:14:04To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:14:07I don't know why that's so funny.
01:14:08Like, why are you saying it with a smile?
01:14:11It's like...
01:14:11Okay.
01:14:12To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:14:15I can't.
01:14:20I've spoken to Elise before, and she comes across lovely,
01:14:24but she comes across very Miami.
01:14:27Like, a lot of skimpy clothes, right?
01:14:29Yeah.
01:14:29Very skimpy, but gorgeous.
01:14:30Like, this is skimpy for us.
01:14:32Yeah, well...
01:14:32Very skimpy.
01:14:33Yeah, yeah.
01:14:34Correct, correct, correct.
01:14:34But she'll skimpy, skimpy, skimpy.
01:14:35Yeah.
01:14:36Are you jet lagging?
01:14:3816 hours.
01:14:39I'm so jet lagged.
01:14:40I'm coming this way.
01:14:41You guys, I don't like...
01:14:42I don't like...
01:14:43They're sitting too far away, so...
01:14:44Yeah, I know.
01:14:44Wrap up to this other bar?
01:14:46Yes, let's do it.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:51Are we gonna go in here?
01:14:52Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:52We're over here.
01:14:53Oh, this place looks so cute.
01:14:55Yeah.
01:14:56My impression of Josh's friends is they're all nice.
01:15:01But when I see Nat and I think my boyfriend lives with her,
01:15:05I'm like, is there something, like, I'm not understanding?
01:15:08Because I don't think there's a sexual connection,
01:15:11but, like, I think it's weird.
01:15:12I think it's so weird.
01:15:15Guys, we need to make Elise love Sydney.
01:15:19Okay.
01:15:20So, otherwise, I'll be moving to Miami.
01:15:23I can make you love Sydney.
01:15:24I would love that.
01:15:26Why are you staying in Sydney?
01:15:28Bond diabetes.
01:15:30I'm staying in a rental that Joshua and Chris have.
01:15:35Yep.
01:15:36Because today I found out that he was living with you.
01:15:39Yeah.
01:15:39I thought you knew that.
01:15:40Yeah.
01:15:41He was staying with Hank for a little bit.
01:15:46So, how did he ask to live with you?
01:15:48Like, how did this happen?
01:15:49Well, he was confused.
01:15:50He was kind of between places and I was like,
01:15:52why don't you just come and stay with me?
01:15:53Because it was much closer for his work.
01:15:56And, you know, to be honest, I was going through a bit of a rough time.
01:16:00And I needed comfort.
01:16:03I needed someone there to...
01:16:04Support.
01:16:05Yeah, shoulder to cry on.
01:16:06So, it worked out well.
01:16:09I mean, look, as I said, like, she's one of my closest mates.
01:16:15There's a lot to unfold.
01:16:16I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:16:19I've tried that.
01:16:19It's never succeeded for me.
01:16:21I have so many guy friends.
01:16:22Oh, yay!
01:16:22I have so many guy friends.
01:16:25And this is probably Australia.
01:16:26There's probably a little bit different.
01:16:28It's a culture thing.
01:16:29It's a culture thing, yeah.
01:16:29It's definitely a culture thing, yeah.
01:16:30It's a regular leg back.
01:16:31We're a bit more easy about it.
01:16:33Yeah.
01:16:33We trust more, I think.
01:16:35Yeah.
01:16:35We trust.
01:16:36Yeah.
01:16:38I think men and women can be friends.
01:16:40I have a lot of male friends.
01:16:42I wouldn't ever sleep with Josh.
01:16:43He's my brother to me.
01:16:45So, I find it very weird.
01:16:47Yeah.
01:16:47I think of allies around insecurities.
01:16:49Yeah.
01:16:49And hopefully, they'll grow together and grow through that.
01:16:52Yeah.
01:16:52And that's how trust is built.
01:16:57I think that he's going to have a struggle maintaining you and maintaining me, if I have
01:17:03to be completely honest.
01:17:08So, are you jealous of me and our relationship?
01:17:12I feel uneasy about it.
01:17:15Yeah.
01:17:16Well, look, I get it.
01:17:17And hopefully, that can change, you know.
01:17:19I think it's more of the fact that you're living with her.
01:17:21Yeah.
01:17:21I guess the question I have, are you paying?
01:17:24Yeah.
01:17:24Like, are you letting them live there for free?
01:17:26I'm always paying for the whole rental, right?
01:17:31Great.
01:17:31But, um...
01:17:31You have been generous.
01:17:33I've been generous.
01:17:33I'm a generous person and I love doing that for my friends.
01:17:36Yeah.
01:17:37Well, I think that she's helping you financially.
01:17:39I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of way.
01:17:43No.
01:17:43No, no, no, no, no.
01:17:45No, I don't.
01:17:46No, that's...
01:17:46No.
01:17:47That's...
01:17:48See, that...
01:17:48That offends me.
01:17:54She took me in and, like, helped me out.
01:17:57So, yeah, you could say financially, help me there.
01:17:59But, in saying that, like, it's temporary.
01:18:01Everyone knows it's temporary.
01:18:03Probably, I should have been more clearer and I should have been more transparent.
01:18:07Let's put two and two together.
01:18:09Joshua's struggling financially.
01:18:11He's lied to me about living there.
01:18:14Something's fishy, something's shady.
01:18:16I don't want my boyfriend getting financially supported by another girl.
01:18:20That's disgusting and weird.
01:18:22Like, that's not what I signed up for.
01:18:29Why do we have to live in your country?
01:18:32If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:18:35I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:18:38I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:18:40If he happened to come back to his country,
01:18:43we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:18:47I'm sorry.
01:18:48I'm so sorry, Sheen.
01:19:03So, that was eye-opening.
01:19:06Yeah, I know.
01:19:17It's just so much information all at once.
01:19:20Yeah, he's allowed to think about it, to be honest.
01:19:24Sheena and I just met with an immigration lawyer, and everything kind of blew up in my face.
01:19:32I thought this entire time that it was only going to take months to get Sheena to the United States
01:19:37and everything figured out.
01:19:38But now, after hearing that my disability payments that I get monthly does not count, and it's going to take
01:19:45years, this is the biggest setback ever.
01:19:52There's just so many things going on in my head right now.
01:19:55I just want to, you know, understand kind of what you're thinking.
01:19:59Well, for me, it's like, I wanted to move in the U.S.
01:20:04But the thing is, it's been like seven years.
01:20:08Plus, you're going to add another two, three years, while you'll find a job and save enough money for the
01:20:13K-1 visa.
01:20:17I don't know.
01:20:20I know that you wanted to go to the U.S., my love.
01:20:24But why do we have to live in your country? That's my good question.
01:20:30It's easier for you to stay here, got a Filipino visa.
01:20:35And I'm a professional here.
01:20:37If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:20:41Then I'll try to help you to find a job as well.
01:20:44I think that's the best option for us.
01:20:51I still have my worries about that, though.
01:20:54With my autism, it makes things hard.
01:20:58And I know I am fighting with my mom, but I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:21:07What makes me upset is like, he loves his mom, his family. I understand that.
01:21:13But what about me? I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:21:18If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:21:24So I will be the one who's stranded, and I will be hurt as well.
01:21:40I just really felt sad, disappointed.
01:21:43I was expecting you that I could be with my partner for the last seven years.
01:21:54I don't know.
01:22:01I don't want to be apart from you that long, and I don't want to...
01:22:08I don't want to give up my mom.
01:22:15Sorry. I'm so sorry I put you in this situation, Sheen.
01:22:20I don't want to give up my mom.
01:22:25I don't want to give up my mom.
01:22:26Now that I know that I can possibly stay here and be with Sheena every single day,
01:22:32I feel kind of stuck.
01:22:33Any option I make, I'm either going to hurt the woman I love or my mother.
01:22:42This...
01:22:43This is probably the hardest decision I've ever had to make.
01:22:47She's my second half.
01:22:48I know she's the one for me.
01:22:51And just being with her, being able to talk, joke, have everything, I don't want to lose that.
01:22:58I won't give up my mom.
01:23:03I won't keep trying.
01:23:10Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:14Teamwork makes the dream work, baby.
01:23:15I'm sorry.
01:23:17You're kind of turning me on.
01:23:19Babe.
01:23:20I did not know.
01:23:24I'm so hungry.
01:23:26I'm pregnancy clearance.
01:23:29I haven't gotten my period yet.
01:23:32How would you feel if I was?
01:23:38Tell me you love her.
01:23:39I was in love with her.
01:23:41I would have made a move.
01:23:43Dude, you made a move.
01:23:44You blow it.
01:23:45No, no, no, no, no, no.
01:23:47Laura made a move on me.
01:23:49I'm thinking about sharing my life and you are keeping secret from me.
01:23:54This is betrayal.
01:24:03This water is cold.
01:24:05You can survive.
01:24:07I hope Trish's family can see that I'm trying and that I am a good partner for Trish.
01:24:13And it was a mandate to get her.
01:24:15I'm trying to get her.
01:24:18I'm trying to get her.
01:24:19I'm trying to get her.
01:24:20I'm trying to get her.
01:24:24Going to Casablanca right now to see Mohamed, it's kind of surreal.
01:24:27I mean, I have my engagement ring Mohamed gave to me when he proposed.
01:24:33Putting this ring back on is actually bringing up old feelings.
01:24:37But I don't know how this meeting is going to go.
01:24:42My heart's racing.
01:24:49Why didn't you just leave?
01:24:51You're upset.
01:24:52So you don't care that I'm upset?
01:24:55So you just walk away from me?
01:24:58After what I found out about Nat,
01:25:00my mind is just in so many directions and I'm freaking out.
01:25:05I don't know what the f*** is going on right now.
01:25:10I want to go home.
01:25:15She has gotten married five times.
01:25:18And for 21 years, she has been in a relationship with several women.
01:25:23Why am I hearing this one now?
01:25:27This is an abomination.
01:25:28No.
01:25:29I can't help what my past is like.
01:25:31I am willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
01:25:34I can't believe you.
01:25:37Because of this, the marriage will be over.
01:25:41I can't breathe.
01:25:42I can't breathe.
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