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00:00:00Previously on Before the Ninety Days.
00:00:04Hola, Trish.
00:00:07Oh, you're here.
00:00:09I'm here, baby.
00:00:11I really believe that she's the one.
00:00:14Don't love me.
00:00:15I love you so, so, so much.
00:00:18I know, but I've been very suspicious of Trish
00:00:21after the ghosting incident.
00:00:23But right now, all I want to focus on is our bond.
00:00:27Surprise!
00:00:30Damn!
00:00:33You know what I really like in the States?
00:00:35The Chinese food out there.
00:00:36If you bring that for me, I'll marry you.
00:00:39My boyfriend is just a charmer.
00:00:42He is a famous singer and rapper in Belize.
00:00:46But my aunt hears a lot of rumors.
00:00:49They actually just did a big concert.
00:00:51The first song that was performed was Vicky,
00:00:53and I was getting messages that she was at the concert
00:00:57and that they left together.
00:01:00I hope that Stig and I prove everybody wrong,
00:01:03but there's definitely a whole part of me
00:01:05that wonders if what my aunt is saying is true.
00:01:12BeerCon is absolutely like the hot main character
00:01:17straight out of a romance novel.
00:01:19I'm ready to take the next step with him,
00:01:22but I think my best friend, Michael,
00:01:25has feelings for me that are more than just friendship.
00:01:27You want my time and attention as though I am your girlfriend,
00:01:32but it can't go both ways.
00:01:34You said you'd never leave.
00:01:37I want a man who wants to be a man.
00:01:39I want a man who wants to make me a priority.
00:01:45I'm heading to the Philippines today,
00:01:47but last night, Sheena tells me
00:01:49she has been giving all her money
00:01:51to her parents this entire time.
00:01:53I am not happy and I don't feel like I can trust her.
00:02:00I'm worried that Molly would try to break up me
00:02:03and Forrest when she's alive here.
00:02:05And I would have the most painful heartbreak in my life.
00:02:16It's a beautiful day.
00:02:33I hate packing.
00:02:35I feel like I'm going to forget something.
00:02:36So, yeah, I don't like that.
00:02:38I'm, like, super nervous.
00:02:40Did not expect to be this nervous.
00:02:42I've never gone on a trip for this long.
00:02:45I've never flown over the ocean.
00:02:47I've never left the continent.
00:02:49But I am leaving for Turkey today.
00:02:52I am so incredibly excited to finally be on my way
00:02:56to meet what could be the love of my life.
00:02:59I've been talking about doing this for so long,
00:03:01for so many months.
00:03:03And now that it's here,
00:03:05I'm, wow, like, way more nervous
00:03:07than I thought I was going to be.
00:03:08The situation with Michael
00:03:11is giving me a little bit more anxiety, too.
00:03:14When I confronted Michael,
00:03:18I really was trying to give him a chance
00:03:21so I could have a clear head
00:03:23before going to Turkey to meet BeerCon.
00:03:26But Michael does not seem like he's ever going to come to terms
00:03:31with his feelings and his emotions.
00:03:33And that's not fair to me.
00:03:36So I'm ready to take the next step with someone else.
00:03:40Michael and I have a really great friendship.
00:03:42We do a lot of things together.
00:03:43We spend a lot of time together.
00:03:46And I know that that is not really common
00:03:49to have that kind of male-female friendship
00:03:52in other cultures, other religions.
00:03:55And so that's scary to feel like
00:03:57I might possibly have to choose
00:04:00between somebody who's my best friend
00:04:01and somebody who could be the love of my life.
00:04:07It's open.
00:04:09Hey.
00:04:09Hey.
00:04:10How are you?
00:04:11Good.
00:04:11How are you?
00:04:11Oh, hi, Laura.
00:04:13Are you excited?
00:04:14Yeah.
00:04:14A little terrified, actually.
00:04:16I know.
00:04:17I'm terrified for you.
00:04:19My parents offered to take me to the airport,
00:04:22which is really nice.
00:04:24But my relationship has felt a little bit strained
00:04:27with my parents since I started dating BeerCon.
00:04:31They are very conservative and very Catholic.
00:04:37And BeerCon is not at all who they would expect
00:04:41to see me end up with.
00:04:43So I've tried not to talk about it with them very much.
00:04:48You're ready for your big adventure?
00:04:50So excited.
00:04:56I can't believe today's the day.
00:04:58I appreciate you guys taking me to the airport.
00:05:00I know it's a little bit of a drive.
00:05:01Oh, well, I wanted you to feel supported.
00:05:05But I'm not in favor of all this.
00:05:09I can't believe you would go clear to Turkey
00:05:13and meet a guy you've never met
00:05:15who is a Muslim.
00:05:17It's not even in my wheelhouse
00:05:19to think that that would ever have been something
00:05:21that was possible.
00:05:22You know what I'm saying?
00:05:24It seems irresponsible to me.
00:05:27But it's not like I'm going in completely blind
00:05:32or without the same concerns and questions.
00:05:37The age thing is the single biggest concern that I have.
00:05:41I mean, how old is he, Laura?
00:05:45He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:05:48Oh, my God.
00:05:51Laura, are you serious?
00:05:52I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:05:56Don't make jokes.
00:05:57That's not funny.
00:05:59What is he thinking?
00:06:00What is he thinking?
00:06:01I'm awesome.
00:06:02What is he thinking?
00:06:02I think he's thinking I'm awesome.
00:06:04No, I think he's thinking he wants a ticket to America.
00:06:09That's what I think he's thinking.
00:06:13Were you ever suspicious?
00:06:15Like, gee, he's a young man talking to an older woman
00:06:18and saying all the right things.
00:06:19Has he told you he loved you?
00:06:23Yeah.
00:06:23Okay, big red flag.
00:06:25Because he doesn't love you.
00:06:26That's not what love is.
00:06:28You haven't even met this guy yet.
00:06:31You've had a conversation with an unknown entity.
00:06:36Right now, it's not love.
00:06:38It's some infatuation or some...
00:06:40To me, I will not be convinced it's nothing but...
00:06:45That guy wants out a turkey.
00:06:47I don't...
00:06:47Like I said, it's a concern.
00:06:50I agree.
00:06:51A concern?
00:06:51It's more like ten giant red flags.
00:06:56My word in heaven.
00:06:59You actually think that there's a possibility
00:07:03that this could work
00:07:04and this could be a lifelong commitment?
00:07:08Yeah, I do.
00:07:09You do?
00:07:10If I didn't think that there was a possibility,
00:07:12I wouldn't be getting on a plane and flying to Turkey.
00:07:15My...
00:07:17Oh, my God.
00:07:22We're just pointing out all our concerns.
00:07:26You know?
00:07:27And all I can hope is that you make the right decision.
00:07:33I feel blindsided.
00:07:35I knew that they didn't really approve.
00:07:39I just didn't know that they felt this strongly.
00:07:44I just...
00:07:45Honey, I disagree with the whole thing.
00:07:47All of it.
00:07:50I want to be happy for you.
00:07:53But I can't.
00:07:55I'm already so overwhelmed.
00:07:58I'm feeling every emotion possible.
00:08:00And for my mom to unleash all of these concerns on me
00:08:04at this point,
00:08:06it is just messing with my head.
00:08:09It keeps me awake at night,
00:08:11thinking about you going over there and doing all that.
00:08:14Don't sell yourself short.
00:08:16Don't ever settle.
00:08:25I got a funny feeling
00:08:27ain't nobody gonna understand.
00:08:30No trouble in the alley.
00:08:32We have to make a pit stop.
00:08:33Why?
00:08:34Because your mother is picking out condoms.
00:08:39Are you sure you don't want to come in with me?
00:08:41Yeah.
00:08:42Yeah.
00:08:42No, that's...
00:08:43That's a show we're gonna happen now.
00:08:45Yeah.
00:08:45I'm gonna do it once.
00:08:48Do it twice.
00:08:49Take the cake, not just a slice.
00:08:51I got a funny feeling ain't nobody...
00:08:53What did you tell me earlier?
00:08:54You're how old?
00:08:56I'm 52.
00:08:58And you said you're an adult?
00:09:00I am an adult.
00:09:01You don't need my help picking out condoms.
00:09:05My name is Lisa.
00:09:06I'm 52 years old,
00:09:08and I live in King of Pressure, Pennsylvania.
00:09:10I thought you would feel better
00:09:12knowing that your mother's taking precautions.
00:09:15I mean, he did say he was a playboy, so...
00:09:17I said a lot of women seem to like him.
00:09:20No, you said he used to play the field a lot.
00:09:24Is that not a playboy?
00:09:25Playboy's somebody who's like, um, a gigolo.
00:09:29He didn't say he was not...
00:09:30No, gigolo and playboys are way different.
00:09:32Oh, gigolos are male hooker.
00:09:34No, that's not.
00:09:35That's what a gigolo is.
00:09:36That's a pimp.
00:09:37A pimp is the one who takes out female hookers
00:09:41and gets the money.
00:09:42Okay.
00:09:44I live with my daughter, Faith,
00:09:46where Faith lives with me.
00:09:48We live with each other,
00:09:48and she is the apple of my eye.
00:09:52We talk about everything,
00:09:53whether it's a topic of sex
00:09:55and masturbating
00:09:59to dirty dishes in the sink
00:10:01and who's going to do the laundry tomorrow.
00:10:04I don't know what I'm looking for.
00:10:06What if I buy the wrong one?
00:10:08How do I know what size it is?
00:10:11Has he ever told you
00:10:12in inch...
00:10:14Well, I guess it wouldn't be...
00:10:15in kilometers?
00:10:17No?
00:10:19I have never used a condom before.
00:10:21Every male I was with, I married.
00:10:25I have been married five times.
00:10:27Husband number one,
00:10:29I was young, I was dumb,
00:10:30and it led to an annulment.
00:10:33Husband number two,
00:10:35he was my very best friend,
00:10:36and it led to my daughter, Faith.
00:10:39But after a few years,
00:10:41I realized he made a better friend
00:10:42than he made a husband.
00:10:44Husband number three,
00:10:45he was actually my favorite of all of them.
00:10:48He was a really good guy.
00:10:51So why did I leave him?
00:10:53I realized I was a lesbian,
00:10:55and for the past 21 years,
00:10:57I've been with women only.
00:10:59Let's go with the flow.
00:11:03Relax and watch what happens.
00:11:06Women are nice and curvy and soft,
00:11:09and I've had one wife,
00:11:11and then I've had another wife,
00:11:12but neither of them worked out.
00:11:15But I forgot about men,
00:11:17to be quite honest with you.
00:11:18I wasn't even thinking
00:11:19that I'd be interested in a man
00:11:21after 21 years.
00:11:22But sure enough,
00:11:23Daniel came along,
00:11:25and...
00:11:27Yeah, Daniel came along.
00:11:32Hi, beautiful.
00:11:33You're my everything.
00:11:34You're the lights in my...
00:11:36my show.
00:11:39He is 39 years old,
00:11:40and he lives in Oweri, Nigeria.
00:11:44He's not built like a woman
00:11:46in any sense of the way, shape, or form,
00:11:49so I don't know what it is.
00:11:51He messaged me on social media.
00:11:55We didn't know each other
00:11:56from Adam or Eve.
00:11:59So at first,
00:12:00I thought,
00:12:01this is a scam artist.
00:12:02I said,
00:12:02I'm not talking to you.
00:12:03You're not real.
00:12:05But he kept trying to talk to me,
00:12:07and you know what?
00:12:08He is a smooth operator.
00:12:10He says the sweetest,
00:12:11most charming things
00:12:12I've ever heard.
00:12:14I love you much.
00:12:15I'm much like
00:12:16I love the food to my soul.
00:12:18I just fell in love with him.
00:12:21He is so sweet,
00:12:23it hurts my teeth
00:12:24like a bad candy bar.
00:12:25I love you, Lisa,
00:12:26and I will continue to love you.
00:12:29Daniel says,
00:12:30I'm exquisite,
00:12:31and I'm beautiful
00:12:32and gorgeous daily.
00:12:34And he's better
00:12:35because this damn thing
00:12:37is itchy as all hell,
00:12:39and it's uncomfortable.
00:12:40Can I take it off?
00:12:51I love you.
00:12:53Oh my God,
00:12:53I'm feeling so much better.
00:12:55One of my exes
00:12:57had me cut off my hair
00:12:57really, really short,
00:12:59and I miss my long hair
00:13:00so much,
00:13:02so I wear wigs.
00:13:04Daniel saw me
00:13:04in my natural hair first,
00:13:06and then he saw me
00:13:07in my wigs,
00:13:07and he was like,
00:13:08damn.
00:13:11So now I wear wigs
00:13:12every day,
00:13:13and I plan on wearing
00:13:14my wig the whole time
00:13:15when I go visit Daniel
00:13:16in Nigeria
00:13:17in less than a week.
00:13:19Okay,
00:13:20here goes nothing.
00:13:21Try a flavored one.
00:13:23You might like it.
00:13:23No, I'm not getting flavored.
00:13:25You'll be rubbed.
00:13:26No, I don't know.
00:13:30Growing up with mom
00:13:31was in a roller coaster.
00:13:34My mom is somebody
00:13:36who's always fallen in love
00:13:38so quickly,
00:13:39at least what she thinks
00:13:40is love.
00:13:42She's been through
00:13:43a lot of relationships.
00:13:44We've moved so many places.
00:13:47I've been to 15 different schools,
00:13:49if that tells you something.
00:13:51Part of me is surprised
00:13:52she's switching over to men
00:13:54after 21 years.
00:13:56I didn't see this one coming.
00:13:59Oh, gosh.
00:14:02Oh, it's a very small selection.
00:14:05Oh, there's different sizes.
00:14:08Holy crap.
00:14:10Daniel and I,
00:14:11we've had video sex.
00:14:12We've sent pictures
00:14:13to each other,
00:14:14and I am attracted to Daniel.
00:14:18But the idea of
00:14:19laying with a man
00:14:21after 21 years,
00:14:22I can't even think about it.
00:14:24They have different body parts
00:14:26than women.
00:14:27The smells,
00:14:28the tastes,
00:14:29the feels,
00:14:30the cleanup.
00:14:32I mean,
00:14:32I remember 21 years ago
00:14:35just walking to the bathroom
00:14:37to have to take care of myself
00:14:39and still dripping.
00:14:40That's disgusting.
00:14:41You don't have that with women.
00:14:43It's a whole different ballgame.
00:14:45Oh, I'm gonna be sick.
00:14:48Um, sir?
00:14:49If you have a moment,
00:14:51could I ask you a question, please?
00:14:53I'm not gonna help you.
00:14:54So embarrassing.
00:14:55I'm sorry.
00:14:55This is my first time
00:14:56I'm buying condoms.
00:14:57Okay.
00:14:58They have to be latex-free.
00:15:00I'm allergic to latex.
00:15:02I'm...
00:15:03Oh, gosh.
00:15:04When it says thinnest,
00:15:06does that mean that
00:15:07you feel more like
00:15:08it's a natural skin?
00:15:10Yep.
00:15:10On it,
00:15:11it's just,
00:15:11it doesn't feel like
00:15:12there's plastic going in you,
00:15:13or,
00:15:14I'm sorry,
00:15:15I'm crying.
00:15:15No, you're good.
00:15:16I'm just really,
00:15:16really embarrassed.
00:15:17No, no, it's good.
00:15:18I'm buying the condoms myself
00:15:20because I'm worried
00:15:21that I'll get there
00:15:22and there won't be
00:15:23a latex-free condom.
00:15:25But this is incredibly overwhelming
00:15:29and emotional for me.
00:15:30This is not just about
00:15:31the embarrassment
00:15:32over the condoms.
00:15:35All I can think about
00:15:36is Daniel
00:15:36and how he has no idea
00:15:38that I lived my life
00:15:39as a lesbian
00:15:40for 21 years.
00:15:41Thank you so much.
00:15:42I appreciate it.
00:15:45A couple of months ago,
00:15:46I went into Tessa Waters
00:15:48to see if I could come out
00:15:49with my whole truth.
00:15:51And I told him
00:15:53in the past
00:15:53that I had a fling
00:15:54with a woman.
00:15:57Daniel said to me,
00:15:58how could I do that
00:15:59to myself?
00:16:00How could I do that
00:16:00to God?
00:16:01God doesn't believe
00:16:02in same sex
00:16:03as being together.
00:16:05And he was disgusted.
00:16:08There you go.
00:16:09Thank you.
00:16:10Yeah, no problem.
00:16:10Let me get the rest of your time.
00:16:11I can hide them
00:16:11in my purse.
00:16:12I plan on telling Daniel
00:16:14the truth in person
00:16:15because I am not ashamed
00:16:17of who I am.
00:16:18But I'm terrified
00:16:19to tell him
00:16:20because of how he responded
00:16:21to the fling.
00:16:22I'm terrified.
00:16:26I'm worried
00:16:27that he's going to say
00:16:28that this is a mistake
00:16:30and walk away.
00:16:31And I'm going to be
00:16:32left heartbroken.
00:16:34Okay, that's over
00:16:35and done with.
00:16:36Thank God.
00:16:46So you're really serious
00:16:47in this girl, bro.
00:16:48Yes, I am.
00:16:50I was a player
00:16:51for most of my life.
00:16:52Now, I actually want a family.
00:16:54I want somebody
00:16:55to be there for me.
00:16:56So you want to stop
00:16:57all the parties?
00:16:58I stop all the parties.
00:16:59That's part of my life.
00:16:59That's part of my life.
00:17:01How do you think
00:17:01she's going to react?
00:17:05I have a check-in
00:17:07flight and I landed.
00:17:08But I'm worried
00:17:09since he's not texting me.
00:17:12You're going to need
00:17:14your passport.
00:17:14Let's get through here.
00:17:15I don't know.
00:17:16I left him somewhere.
00:17:17What are we doing now?
00:17:18Oh, God.
00:17:23My flight to the police
00:17:24boards in 20 minutes.
00:17:27I'm still on the other side.
00:17:41I'm rushing to my next gate
00:17:43right now.
00:17:44I don't want to miss my flight.
00:17:46It's a good thing
00:17:47that I've been keeping up
00:17:48in the gym
00:17:49because I am having
00:17:51to run to my connecting
00:17:52flight to police
00:17:53to meet my boyfriend,
00:17:54Stig, for the first time.
00:17:56Stig, you better be worth it
00:17:57because running through
00:17:58the airport
00:17:59is really embarrassing.
00:18:01Stig's a famous musician
00:18:03in Belize
00:18:03and the women there
00:18:05love him.
00:18:05So the last thing
00:18:07I want to do
00:18:07is look like a sweaty mess
00:18:10when I meet him
00:18:10for the first time.
00:18:11But I don't really
00:18:12have a choice right now.
00:18:14Four minutes.
00:18:15I'm just getting
00:18:16to my gate.
00:18:20I'm making it
00:18:20with sermon timing.
00:18:23Thank you, Lord.
00:18:25Next stop, Belize.
00:18:28After waiting for so long
00:18:29I'm super nervous
00:18:31to meet Stig
00:18:32but I cannot wait
00:18:34to get my hands on him
00:18:35and start a future together.
00:18:38My second plan
00:18:39to believe
00:18:40I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:43I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:50Listen.
00:18:53Give up the world
00:18:54for the next micro
00:18:55and if you got some magic
00:18:57we're out there
00:18:57doing it right here.
00:19:00Ladies.
00:19:01I'm going to want
00:19:02to want
00:19:02to want
00:19:02to want
00:19:02to want
00:19:03to want
00:19:03to want
00:19:03to want
00:19:04to want
00:19:04to want
00:19:08to
00:19:24What's up?
00:19:25I am
00:19:25Erlin Dwayne.
00:19:27I go by
00:19:27Stig the Artist.
00:19:29I'm a musician
00:19:30from Belémopont,
00:19:31Belize, Central America
00:19:32and I'm 30 years old.
00:19:34You know the vibes.
00:19:36I think I'm a cool guy,
00:19:38you know.
00:19:38I'm just chill
00:19:39for the most part.
00:19:41But when I'm performing
00:19:43it's just a different feeling.
00:19:44I just get alive.
00:19:46I love what I do.
00:19:48I love music.
00:19:49I love singing
00:19:50for the ladies then.
00:19:51And the girls,
00:19:52you know,
00:19:53they can get
00:19:54pretty wild
00:19:54at my show.
00:19:57There's this one time
00:19:58this girl was literally
00:19:59trying to get
00:19:59in my pants.
00:20:00She was front stage
00:20:01and I'm like,
00:20:01yo, chill.
00:20:02But if that's what
00:20:03my music gives them
00:20:04that kind of joy
00:20:06then I'm doing
00:20:07the right job.
00:20:08I can't take you
00:20:09off my mind.
00:20:10About 10 years ago
00:20:11I put out my first song
00:20:13my first music video
00:20:14I recorded every single
00:20:15day in the studio
00:20:16I grew my fan base
00:20:18and now I'm at
00:20:19the highest level
00:20:20of Belize
00:20:21as an artist.
00:20:22So everybody
00:20:23recognized me
00:20:24and I'm very grateful
00:20:25for the love
00:20:25and support
00:20:26that I get there.
00:20:33I'm very proud
00:20:34of what I've become
00:20:35but I couldn't
00:20:36have done it
00:20:37by myself.
00:20:38Perf is my producer.
00:20:40He produced a lot
00:20:41of my biggest songs.
00:20:42Richie is my manager.
00:20:45Six is my G.
00:20:47He's one of my
00:20:47best friends.
00:20:48They're still my homies
00:20:49since we started
00:20:50everything and I know
00:20:51they're always looking
00:20:52out for me.
00:20:54I have a special toast
00:20:55for my gallery tomorrow.
00:20:58Cheers, yeah?
00:20:59World, world.
00:21:00World, yeah?
00:21:01You really like
00:21:02the American girls, bro.
00:21:04You really like them.
00:21:05Farina!
00:21:05Yo!
00:21:05You like my gallery?
00:21:06Farina!
00:21:08Farina!
00:21:09I go straight,
00:21:10Farina, we are dead.
00:21:12Ah!
00:21:14Listen, my friends,
00:21:15they could joke around
00:21:16as much as they want
00:21:17and tease me
00:21:18but I'm very serious
00:21:19about my girlfriend Aviva.
00:21:22Two years ago,
00:21:24I started talking
00:21:24to Aviva on social media.
00:21:26At first,
00:21:27we were both
00:21:27in a relationship
00:21:28but when we both
00:21:30became single,
00:21:31it was way beyond friends.
00:21:35Aviva's super hot.
00:21:36She has the most
00:21:37beautiful blue eyes
00:21:38but one of the most
00:21:40attractive things
00:21:41about Aviva
00:21:41is her personality.
00:21:44She has a beautiful heart.
00:21:46So humble and gentle
00:21:47and she has a cute little laugh
00:21:50with her.
00:21:51I don't have to be
00:21:51stick the artist,
00:21:53you know,
00:21:53I don't have to impress her.
00:21:54I can be
00:21:55Erling Dwayne
00:21:56and that's why
00:21:57I feel like
00:21:57she's the person
00:21:58I want to spend
00:21:59the rest of my life with.
00:22:01So you're really serious
00:22:02in this girl, bro?
00:22:03Yes, I am.
00:22:05You think you'd have
00:22:05settled down really
00:22:06with this woman?
00:22:07Start a family,
00:22:08let's get married,
00:22:10let's have kids.
00:22:10I don't know.
00:22:12I might wanna be a bitch.
00:22:15You're a breather.
00:22:17You wanna bury her, girl?
00:22:18Hello?
00:22:19I mean,
00:22:20woof, woof, woof, woof, woof.
00:22:22Damn.
00:22:24So you're right
00:22:25and she, you know,
00:22:26why she can have
00:22:26your baby over here
00:22:27over America?
00:22:29America?
00:22:29America because
00:22:30you want to be a ton
00:22:31since, you know,
00:22:32why you get citizens
00:22:33and...
00:22:33I mean,
00:22:35because...
00:22:37I get serious, bro,
00:22:38it's getting serious,
00:22:39you know?
00:22:41So you wanna stop
00:22:42all the party?
00:22:43I stop all the party,
00:22:44that's part of my life.
00:22:45I mean,
00:22:46he's, you know,
00:22:46like,
00:22:47I plan to take her
00:22:48to San Pedro for the show.
00:22:51You're taking her
00:22:52to San Pedro for the shows?
00:22:54You ready for that?
00:22:55I mean,
00:22:56I hope she's ready.
00:22:57You know what it call
00:22:58San Pedro, right?
00:23:00Temptation Island.
00:23:01Yee-haw!
00:23:02So what if you fix
00:23:03at San Pedro
00:23:03when a hundred girls
00:23:04jump out to you?
00:23:06I could bet you
00:23:06as you reach San Pedro
00:23:08I want to bother you.
00:23:09I'm sorry,
00:23:10I'm sorry,
00:23:10I'm sorry.
00:23:11Ha ha ha ha.
00:23:13My pa's in the relationship.
00:23:14I tell him,
00:23:15like,
00:23:15you're gonna get jealous?
00:23:16No, no, no.
00:23:17He always trips,
00:23:18so I told Aviva,
00:23:19we're gonna see,
00:23:20I hope you don't trip.
00:23:22And she's like,
00:23:23no, I'm not like that,
00:23:24I'm not jealous.
00:23:25But,
00:23:26I don't know.
00:23:28I want somebody
00:23:28up on my side,
00:23:29you know,
00:23:30to sit up and worry
00:23:31about all that kind of stuff.
00:23:33Yeah, but everywhere we go,
00:23:35people always say,
00:23:36you have XYZ girls.
00:23:38How do you think
00:23:39she's going to react?
00:23:41I hope,
00:23:43I hope I pray
00:23:44I could be the best version
00:23:45of myself.
00:23:46This time I could do things
00:23:47a little bit different.
00:23:49No disrespect, right?
00:23:51I heard that sound
00:23:52too many times, bro.
00:23:53Ha ha ha.
00:23:55I can't control that.
00:23:57I can't control that.
00:24:00A lot of my relationships
00:24:02in the past
00:24:03have failed
00:24:04because of this very issue.
00:24:06You know,
00:24:06I was a player
00:24:07for most of my life.
00:24:09Now,
00:24:10I truly want a family.
00:24:11I want somebody
00:24:12I can go home to at night
00:24:13and they're there
00:24:14to listen to me,
00:24:15to be there for me.
00:24:17I hope Aviva
00:24:18can be that person
00:24:19and that I can be
00:24:20a faithful partner.
00:24:22You guys are going
00:24:23to love Aviva.
00:24:25You know,
00:24:25I love her.
00:24:26So let's see how it goes.
00:24:28I have
00:24:2920% faith.
00:24:31God.
00:24:32Damn!
00:24:33We're starting.
00:24:33We're starting.
00:24:39So update on the food.
00:24:41Ooh,
00:24:41that's strength.
00:24:43Look at that.
00:24:45Good.
00:24:45Good stuff.
00:24:47Oh,
00:24:47Sheena and I
00:24:48get good
00:24:48airline food
00:24:49like this.
00:24:50Let me take a flight
00:24:51back home.
00:24:52Yeah.
00:25:02Bye, ma'am.
00:25:20Forrest is arriving today
00:25:21with his parents
00:25:22and I feel
00:25:24like super happy
00:25:26and excited.
00:25:28I'm on my way
00:25:30to the airport now.
00:25:31We rented
00:25:32a bigger apartment
00:25:33where we can
00:25:34all stay together.
00:25:35So I'm carrying
00:25:36quite a few bags.
00:25:43Also,
00:25:44I am bringing
00:25:45jackfruit.
00:25:46I want
00:25:47Forrest and his family
00:25:48to taste the local
00:25:49goodies here
00:25:49in the Philippines.
00:25:54I'm really quite
00:25:55nervous
00:25:56and I don't know
00:25:57to react.
00:26:01It's possible
00:26:02that I would
00:26:03kiss him
00:26:03or not.
00:26:05I would be
00:26:05quite too nervous
00:26:06to kiss him
00:26:07for the first time.
00:26:10Honestly speaking,
00:26:12we would both
00:26:12enjoy with each other.
00:26:14But I'm worried
00:26:16regarding with Molly
00:26:17that she would
00:26:18say bad things
00:26:19to me.
00:26:21So I'm trying
00:26:22to get rid
00:26:23of my nervousness,
00:26:24especially meeting
00:26:26the first time
00:26:26with the love
00:26:27of your life.
00:26:28It's once
00:26:29in a lifetime
00:26:30so why not
00:26:31enjoy with it?
00:26:38Look,
00:26:39here we go.
00:26:41We're touching now.
00:26:44You're after so long.
00:26:48Sweetie!
00:26:48She's not a nervous.
00:26:51Forrest,
00:26:52this sure is
00:26:52a long way
00:26:53to come traveling
00:26:54for a girl.
00:26:56Yeah.
00:26:57But she's not
00:26:57just any girl.
00:27:03Thank you.
00:27:04All right.
00:27:24After 30 hours
00:27:26of being on an airplane,
00:27:28I finally made it
00:27:29to the Philippines.
00:27:30I'm feeling ecstatic.
00:27:33I feel like I drank
00:27:34like six energy drinks.
00:27:47and I'm just...
00:27:48in there.
00:27:49Right?
00:27:50I don't know.
00:27:54It's in the brown.
00:27:55Yeah.
00:27:59Sí, tengo la check-in, la flight, y la landed.
00:28:03Pero también estoy worried,
00:28:05ya que no me haces.
00:28:08No, me haces el mismo.
00:28:14Gracias.
00:28:15Gracias, con la información,
00:28:17necesito tu pasaporte.
00:28:18No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
00:28:22no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:28:25No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
00:28:33no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
00:28:36no, no, no, no, no.
00:28:37I'm starting to fall more in love with Trish,
00:28:40but I think it's important that we're completely transparent with each other.
00:28:45And I wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you were doing for those five days
00:28:53y por qué no estaba en contacto conmigo.
00:29:18¿Te duro bien?
00:29:19Es un grave, baby.
00:29:22Es un beau día en el día de mañana.
00:29:36He was really tired
00:29:38de lo que hicimos.
00:29:42¿So fue todo lo que esperaba
00:29:45ser?
00:29:46Even más.
00:29:56He's older and I didn't think
00:29:58like he can do all of the
00:30:01stuff he did to me.
00:30:02Like, for
00:30:03the second round, it was
00:30:06oh my god.
00:30:09You wanna go one more round?
00:30:11Let's do that.
00:30:24You good?
00:30:25Yeah, we're here.
00:30:28Wow, so this is the market.
00:30:31I only gave Trish a little sample
00:30:33of what I could do.
00:30:34I had some more tricks up my sleeve.
00:30:38If it were up to me,
00:30:39I'd just stay at the hotel all day.
00:30:41But this is our first day
00:30:43in Madagascar together,
00:30:44and Trish wants to take me
00:30:45to explore her city.
00:30:48What is that fried fish right there?
00:30:49Yeah.
00:30:50This is so different
00:30:51from anywhere I've ever been
00:30:52in my life.
00:30:55Today, I want to show him
00:30:57everything around
00:30:58in Antananarivu.
00:31:03First, I'm taking him
00:31:05to the market
00:31:07in Alakili.
00:31:09The butcher shop right here,
00:31:11huh?
00:31:11Mm-hmm.
00:31:14And they just leave
00:31:15the meat out like this
00:31:16without refrigeration?
00:31:20Yeah.
00:31:22Big face.
00:31:23Yeah.
00:31:24Oh my god.
00:31:25What is that, babe?
00:31:26What is that?
00:31:27That's the stomach
00:31:28of the cow.
00:31:30That's the stomach.
00:31:31Yeah, yeah.
00:31:31And then is this also
00:31:33like intestines or what?
00:31:34Yes.
00:31:35I think I see a heart
00:31:36over there.
00:31:37See?
00:31:37Let's see it.
00:31:39Oh my god.
00:31:40I'm feeling like
00:31:42Trish deceived me.
00:31:44I mean, this is our first date.
00:31:45All this raw meat
00:31:47is going to mess up
00:31:47the sexy vibes
00:31:48we had going this morning.
00:31:51So this is all
00:31:52the leftover stuff
00:31:53that people usually don't eat.
00:31:55Oh, you know.
00:31:56We don't see that.
00:31:58In my culture,
00:31:59we eat everything.
00:32:01We don't waste something
00:32:03in the cow.
00:32:05Oh my god.
00:32:06Even the feet,
00:32:08the head,
00:32:09intestine,
00:32:09the heart,
00:32:10liver,
00:32:11everything.
00:32:13Break.
00:32:14It's just food.
00:32:15Relax.
00:32:16Baby, I know
00:32:17that's not a brain right there.
00:32:19It's a brain.
00:32:20Oh, Lord.
00:32:21Yeah.
00:32:22Why?
00:32:22Would you eat that?
00:32:24Of course.
00:32:26Well, baby,
00:32:27don't put that
00:32:27in those stews
00:32:28that you cook for me.
00:32:30Please don't.
00:32:44I hope somebody's
00:32:46going to enjoy it.
00:32:47Wow, baby,
00:32:48what a view.
00:32:49You can see
00:32:51all Madagascar here.
00:32:53Wow.
00:32:54I can see
00:32:55the whole island.
00:32:56Yeah.
00:32:57Oh, my gosh.
00:33:20You don't know how to taste that.
00:33:23Like this.
00:33:52I know how to tap dance,
00:33:53but this is not tap dance.
00:33:55This is something foreign to me.
00:33:56I've never seen
00:33:57this style of dance before.
00:33:59But I'm realizing
00:34:00that there's a lot
00:34:00that I don't know
00:34:01about Trish
00:34:02just from talking
00:34:03to her over the phone.
00:34:04Like she's an amazing dancer.
00:34:07I didn't know
00:34:08she had that in her.
00:34:10Hey, all right.
00:34:12Woo!
00:34:14Woo!
00:34:16Woo!
00:34:16Woo!
00:34:16Woo!
00:34:20Woo!
00:34:20Woo!
00:34:23And they were completely
00:34:24transparent with each other.
00:34:27Wow.
00:34:28That was something.
00:34:29Was that your traditional dance?
00:34:31No, that's not mine.
00:34:32I just dance like that.
00:34:35You like it?
00:34:37Oh, it's beautiful.
00:34:38The name of the place
00:34:39is a rufa.
00:34:41Rufa.
00:34:42A rufa.
00:34:42That means a palace.
00:34:45Oh.
00:34:46OK.
00:34:46Now, where's the palace?
00:34:47Is it?
00:34:47It's there.
00:34:48Oh, that's the palace.
00:34:49OK.
00:34:49Yeah.
00:34:50It's beautiful.
00:34:52Oh, I'm tired even.
00:34:54Wow.
00:34:57This is so beautiful, baby.
00:34:59I'm having such a great time with you.
00:35:02But, um, you know, there's some things
00:35:05that I want to talk to you about.
00:35:10So I wanted to touch bases with you
00:35:14about what exactly you were doing
00:35:17for those five days
00:35:18and why you weren't in contact with me.
00:35:24I already told you, like, you want me
00:35:28to explain to you everything that happened.
00:35:30You know that all of these things
00:35:32that you're telling me, you know,
00:35:34kind of sounds unbelievable in a way.
00:35:39I would like you to be open and honest
00:35:42with me right now.
00:35:45I promise I will tell you everything,
00:35:48but promise me that she won't get mad.
00:36:01You sent him money, right?
00:36:04Is that not part of a romance scam?
00:36:08My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times
00:36:11right now financially.
00:36:12She's in so much debt.
00:36:14I think this topic needs to be over
00:36:16because this is ridiculous.
00:36:26I'm going to put the fire on the block.
00:36:29Add a little to the sun.
00:36:31Now we've got entertainment.
00:36:34Uh-oh.
00:36:36And we have fire!
00:36:38We drive!
00:36:39What we going to do?
00:36:40Going to break that heat.
00:36:41What we going to do?
00:36:42Going to break that heat.
00:36:44Sell the competition.
00:36:45Oh, go for it, babe.
00:36:47What we going to do?
00:36:47Call it break that heat.
00:36:49Oh!
00:36:50Yay!
00:36:50I can do it.
00:36:52Oh!
00:36:52That was so close!
00:36:55I'm ready to go.
00:36:57Let me try.
00:36:59That was way over my head.
00:37:00That was on me.
00:37:01Oh, yeah.
00:37:02That was on you.
00:37:04I love you.
00:37:04I'll give you a good one.
00:37:06Hotter, like a baseball.
00:37:07Oh, my God.
00:37:10That looks delicious.
00:37:13What kind of food do they have in Nigeria?
00:37:15Well, Daniel has showed me pictures of some of his meals.
00:37:19He's always eating rice.
00:37:20Is it like a fried rice thingy thing?
00:37:22I don't know.
00:37:23I have no clue what their food is.
00:37:25Where are you going again?
00:37:27I am heading to Africa, to Nigeria.
00:37:29Wow.
00:37:30Why?
00:37:31I am going to meet a man that I have not met in person yet
00:37:35for the very first time.
00:37:36Oh, my goodness.
00:37:38Wow.
00:37:38Congratulations.
00:37:39Good for you.
00:37:40Thank you.
00:37:40Yeah, no problem.
00:37:41But it's crazy.
00:37:43But it's crazy.
00:37:43Yeah.
00:37:43Is it not crazy?
00:37:43It's slightly a little crazy.
00:37:45I would agree.
00:37:46But, you know, the heart wants what the heart wants.
00:37:48So go for it, I say.
00:37:49Thank you.
00:37:52I'm leaving to Nigeria to meet Daniel for the first time
00:37:55in just a few days.
00:37:57I can't believe I'm doing this.
00:37:59I must be insane.
00:38:00I really must be.
00:38:03I'm very, very nervous.
00:38:05So I wanted to take the edge off by having a night out
00:38:08with my daughter, Faith, and my friend, Juna.
00:38:11Oh, my.
00:38:12There's a volcano.
00:38:13Here it comes.
00:38:18Juna is my very best friend.
00:38:21I swear to God, if she was a lesbian,
00:38:24Juna would be my ideal woman.
00:38:26Juna knows the ringer I've been through
00:38:29in past relationships.
00:38:30And she is supportive of Daniel.
00:38:33I'm hoping this is finally my happy every hour.
00:38:36I'm going to hold you to it.
00:38:37What?
00:38:38That this is my happily ever after?
00:38:39Yes.
00:38:40This is the last time.
00:38:43My issue is, you're saying it's the last one,
00:38:45as she's said every other time, which we know.
00:38:48Right?
00:38:49He's always talking sweet to me.
00:38:51He's always trying so hard to do things.
00:38:53He just makes me feel so good and so wonderful.
00:38:57It's a good thing that he's treating you well,
00:38:59but that's part of what concerns me.
00:39:02The love bomb right away, it's part of a romance scam.
00:39:09They go for single, and I don't mean to say rude,
00:39:13older women who have been hurt
00:39:16and who are desperately looking for somebody
00:39:18and want someone to give them all the compliments,
00:39:22all the love.
00:39:24Hold on.
00:39:25Do I look like an old, vulnerable,
00:39:28searching for somebody, woman on the internet?
00:39:33No, I was minding my own business,
00:39:36not looking for anybody.
00:39:37But you sent him money, right?
00:39:40Is that not part of a romance scam, sending money?
00:39:45Even though I live paycheck to paycheck,
00:39:47I send Daniel money almost every two weeks.
00:39:52Daniel works in construction.
00:39:54He makes very little money,
00:39:56and he lives in a very poor area of Nigeria.
00:39:59I give Daniel money for food.
00:40:01I have bought him clothes.
00:40:04I give him money for fuel, for electricity.
00:40:08This is my generator.
00:40:11Daniel has come straight out
00:40:13and asked for money around two, maybe three times.
00:40:16But I give Daniel money more for myself
00:40:19because I want to feel that he's safe
00:40:22and I want to feel that he's secure.
00:40:24All I know is that within the first two months,
00:40:28you sent $2,000 total.
00:40:30And that was two months ago.
00:40:32So how much more is it now?
00:40:35I don't know.
00:40:38How did he do it before he met you?
00:40:41Does he not have a job?
00:40:44Yes, he has a job.
00:40:46But lately, he's been sick,
00:40:47and he's missed work because of the malaria
00:40:49and other things that he has caught.
00:40:52And that's not a red flag to you.
00:40:54He meets you, and now, all of a sudden,
00:40:56he's getting sick all the time.
00:41:00My mom and I have been having a lot
00:41:02of hard times right now financially.
00:41:06She borrows from Juna a lot.
00:41:08She's in so much debt,
00:41:10and it has me feeling more on edge.
00:41:14You were telling me
00:41:15that Juna gave you money to help us with bills.
00:41:18She has, haven't you?
00:41:20So she's been giving you...
00:41:22How much in debt now are we?
00:41:24You already know.
00:41:25I hate that you're asking for money all the time.
00:41:27But it hasn't been the amounts that it has been.
00:41:30It's so bad.
00:41:33Daniel seems to be a really, really nice person.
00:41:36I see how happy she is.
00:41:38So I have given her money to send to him,
00:41:42and I gave Lisa the money for the visa
00:41:45to go to Nigeria.
00:41:47I do have some concerns,
00:41:50because if he's scamming her,
00:41:52then he's scamming me.
00:41:56This was between Juna, me, and Daniel.
00:41:59It had nothing to do with you and me and your bills.
00:42:03It had to do with Juna and I and Daniel.
00:42:05And you're still not seeing any red flags about this?
00:42:09Juna has talked to him.
00:42:10Does he seem like he's a real bad man from texting?
00:42:15No, he doesn't.
00:42:17But, you know, texting and talking
00:42:21are two different things.
00:42:25There's no point in me trying
00:42:26to talk to you about anything.
00:42:28That's fine, because I know things
00:42:30that are inside and out more than you do,
00:42:33because you're not in the relationship.
00:42:36And this may be the best relationship I've ever had.
00:42:42You've said that every time.
00:42:47This has all been an emotional wreck,
00:42:48and we have not had one positive conversation together.
00:42:51And it's breaking my heart
00:42:52as much as it's breaking yours.
00:42:54And I think this topic needs to be over,
00:42:56because this is ridiculous.
00:42:58It always has to be over.
00:43:01I'm done.
00:43:03I'm done?
00:43:05Done.
00:43:20This might be the start of the rest of my life
00:43:23with one girl.
00:43:25We would say one burner.
00:43:27That means you have one partner.
00:43:30Never always been a one burner.
00:43:32I used to be full of gala.
00:43:34I need to make some changes into my lifestyle.
00:43:37But I'm nervous to handle all that.
00:43:42Oh, this is crazy.
00:43:48I'm super excited, super nervous.
00:43:50And it's probably just 34 minutes until I land.
00:43:55Let me rephrase that.
00:43:5834 minutes until me and the shrimp land.
00:44:02And they actually landed on my pants.
00:44:05I have greasy, smelly sauce all over me.
00:44:09The things I do for you today.
00:44:11The things I do.
00:44:12You're welcome.
00:44:19Now it's getting warm in here.
00:44:21As the beat beat crack into the atmosphere.
00:44:24Come on, let's switch gears and the power stir and go.
00:44:27Let's go.
00:44:28Uh.
00:44:28So today, my girl is coming.
00:44:31I want to give her a Belizean welcome.
00:44:34Beautiful flowers for a beautiful lady.
00:44:38Today, I'll meet my girlfriend Aviva for the very first time in person.
00:44:47Aviva's probably thinking that we're going back to my city.
00:44:50My apartment, but she don't know that we have my nice hotel room in Belize City.
00:44:55Because I want a nice little romantic stay tonight.
00:44:59But hey, this looks a little kinky.
00:45:05I have butterflies.
00:45:07I feel like a kid again.
00:45:09This might be the start of the rest of my life.
00:45:13With Aviva.
00:45:14With one girl.
00:45:15We would say one burner.
00:45:18One burner.
00:45:19That means you have one partner.
00:45:22Never always been a one burner.
00:45:24I used to be full of gal.
00:45:26But I need to make some changes in my life and my lifestyle.
00:45:29So I can be the man that I've always envisioned that I would be.
00:45:37Are you my driver?
00:45:38Yes, sir.
00:45:38Hi.
00:45:41Aviva.
00:45:42Minutes away from picking you up.
00:45:48I'm nervous.
00:45:50I'm about to meet my manlies.
00:45:56After two years of talking and six months of dating, I'm finally meeting Stig for the first time.
00:46:02We're here.
00:46:03We made it.
00:46:05I'm super, super nervous, and it's making me nauseous.
00:46:16Oh, the flight just landed.
00:46:19I'm ready.
00:46:23You like my bro?
00:46:24This is my Alex.
00:46:25I like a musical.
00:46:26I appreciate it, bro.
00:46:27You got the best music.
00:46:28I will say about subscribe to you.
00:46:29Yes, my love.
00:46:30Thanks, my bro.
00:46:31Blessings.
00:46:34¡Gracias!
00:47:02Deep down, there's things I'm worried about.
00:47:06My biggest fear is that I'm going to go in with this big loving heart and it's just going to
00:47:14get crushed.
00:47:17Here we go. This is what I've been preparing myself for.
00:47:22Oh, I'm a mess.
00:47:30This is crazy.
00:47:35Oh my . I'm going to throw up.
00:47:38I'm going to throw up.
00:47:41Okay.
00:47:49Oh.
00:47:51Oh.
00:47:53Oh, crazy.
00:47:55I am.
00:47:57Oh.
00:47:58Oh.
00:48:06Oh, you're looking more beautiful in person.
00:48:10No.
00:48:11Social media don't, nah, I ain't got nothing on you.
00:48:16She's a good kisser.
00:48:18You know what? It felt good.
00:48:20It felt natural. It felt good.
00:48:22It did.
00:48:23You're getting red.
00:48:24You're blushing.
00:48:25You're blushing.
00:48:26I love it.
00:48:27Oh.
00:48:30You're here.
00:48:31I know.
00:48:32Oh.
00:48:33You're very beautiful.
00:48:34Thank you.
00:48:35You look really good too.
00:48:36I'm super happy.
00:48:38Love that.
00:48:44Aviva got a fat ass.
00:48:46I had no idea.
00:48:47I know she's been in the gym a lot.
00:48:48But what?
00:48:49I like it.
00:48:52Hello.
00:48:53I was like.
00:48:53Mmm.
00:48:54Mmm.
00:48:55Mmm.
00:48:55Okay, well, I brought you Chinese food since you asked.
00:48:58And, uh...
00:48:59No way.
00:49:01It's up.
00:49:02Yeah.
00:49:03Don't eat that.
00:49:04Don't eat that.
00:49:05Please don't.
00:49:05Just throw it away.
00:49:07You did say that if I bring it to you, you'd marry me, so...
00:49:11I mean, I brought it.
00:49:13I brought it.
00:49:14It's here.
00:49:14It's a little...
00:49:15I bet.
00:49:16I'm a man of my word.
00:49:17Ask anybody.
00:49:18Ask about me.
00:49:18Okay.
00:49:19Okay.
00:49:20Ready?
00:49:22Let's go.
00:49:23Let me get that one for you.
00:49:27I definitely feel a spark right away.
00:49:31I couldn't have asked for a better first kiss.
00:49:36It was a very magical moment.
00:49:38He definitely smelled better than the Chinese food I was carrying.
00:49:43Please throw this away now.
00:49:45I'm gonna eat it.
00:49:46You'll eat steak.
00:49:47We're throwing it away.
00:49:48It's going.
00:49:49It's going.
00:49:50It's going.
00:49:50It's gone.
00:49:51Steak is just making me feel really special.
00:49:54And I know I only just got here.
00:49:56But it just seems like the rumors Aunt Spring brought up,
00:50:00that he hasn't been exclusive with just me,
00:50:03seem a little silly and not true.
00:50:06You're actually here.
00:50:08I know.
00:50:09What are we gonna do?
00:50:11Well...
00:50:11I did bring some lingerie.
00:50:17Laura is coming to Turkey,
00:50:19and it makes me feel excited.
00:50:22Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaked out.
00:50:27I know that's something that I should tell her.
00:50:35But I don't know if she's gonna react.
00:50:42Bye.
00:50:43Thank you.
00:50:44You're welcome.
00:50:46Take care.
00:50:47I'm sure to ride.
00:50:49You too.
00:50:49Goodbye.
00:50:50Goodbye.
00:50:52Just be safe, okay?
00:51:01I'm about to head to Turkey so I can meet BeerCon in person for the very first time.
00:51:06And I'm trying not to think about all of the things that my parents were saying.
00:51:11Bye.
00:51:12Love you.
00:51:13Bye.
00:51:13Bye.
00:51:23There's an absolute possibility this is gonna blow up in my face,
00:51:27and everyone that was naysaying against it will tell me that they told me so.
00:51:32But I feel like life is a series of calculated risks.
00:51:36And if I'm not willing to take a risk for love,
00:51:39then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:51:53I have about 13 hours until I get to meet the love of my life.
00:51:58And I need to decompress from just all of the negative energy from the car ride with my parents
00:52:06with a good smutty book.
00:52:08With some really steamy moments.
00:52:18This is the best part.
00:52:21It's darkness, you know?
00:52:23It's what I love about Nietzsche.
00:52:25He lightened the people around him, but he is the darkness himself.
00:52:30He was the part of the reason I wanted to find the light.
00:52:35I am into philosophy because life is deep, but we are living on the surface.
00:52:42I am trying to learn lives that I never lived.
00:52:46I discovered Nietzsche on my toughest time of my life.
00:52:51I had the chance to have a professional career of football player.
00:52:56I was on the training, and my knee collapsed with the other one's knee,
00:53:02and my ACL crashed.
00:53:04I know it was over.
00:53:06But I still play football for fun.
00:53:11You know, I love the game.
00:53:12You just have to keep moving and embrace the pain.
00:53:16Life is like this.
00:53:18One part is struggling, and one part is surviving.
00:53:26One shot!
00:53:30After I ruptured my ACL, it was just the end of everything, you know?
00:53:35Everything I dream of, and now I rebuild it from the bottom.
00:53:41And what's helping me the most is finding Laura, actually.
00:53:46It was destiny.
00:53:50I met Laura in Snapchat.
00:53:54We started talking and joking around.
00:53:57She was so supportive, so optimistic.
00:54:00She made me believe that dreaming is okay.
00:54:06That's the point that I realized she was perfect for me.
00:54:10I'm in the darkness, but I can see the sun.
00:54:15It was about third or four weeks I told her I love her.
00:54:20And now Laura is coming to Turkey, and it makes me feel excited.
00:54:26Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaking out.
00:54:31I want to move things to the next level.
00:54:34And maybe propose.
00:54:35I don't know yet.
00:54:37I'm waiting for just meeting.
00:54:47Memo and Yutuba are my best friends in Izmir.
00:54:52I'm not close with my family, so they are the closest people I have.
00:54:58I'm not close with my family.
00:55:00I'm not close with my family.
00:55:01I've seen my family.
00:55:04What are you doing?
00:55:04How are you doing?
00:55:05How are you doing?
00:55:07How are you doing?
00:55:08Laura is coming tomorrow.
00:55:10But we will die.
00:55:13You are really excited.
00:55:16You are the first time.
00:55:16You are the first time.
00:55:18I heard your voice.
00:55:20I heard your voice.
00:55:21I said hello.
00:55:23But I didn't see you.
00:55:50She's old.
00:55:52It's okay.
00:55:53Because...
00:55:53I dated older woman before.
00:55:56The thing I'm attracted with older woman is...
00:56:00They understand, you know.
00:56:02Not childish.
00:56:05Laura looks good when you consider her age.
00:56:09She looks young.
00:56:12You are the only one.
00:56:12You are the same in your life.
00:56:14You are the same.
00:56:20You are the same.
00:56:22Especially when you know.
00:56:23You are the same, but you are the same.
00:56:26You are not sure about it.
00:56:28But it doesn't happen to be never as a phone.
00:56:30You are the same.
00:56:31We are the same.
00:56:31¡Gracias por ver!
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01:01:14Can I talk to you for a minute?
01:01:21I'm trying to understand your feelings,
01:01:23and I'm trying to not fight about it.
01:01:26Is your biggest fear that I'm going to marry him
01:01:28without you knowing him,
01:01:29and that I'm going to choose him over you?
01:01:34You never listen.
01:01:36Listen, I'm telling you to think about us first.
01:01:45Listen, I understand your point of view.
01:01:48I'm listening to you,
01:01:49and I'm going there to get to know him better.
01:01:51I'm going there to see if we are compatible.
01:01:54I'm not going there just to run off and get married.
01:01:57I'm listening to your concerns,
01:01:59and I am going to voice them.
01:02:01I promise you I will, okay?
01:02:04Can I have a hug now?
01:02:06Okay, come here.
01:02:08I love you.
01:02:08I will start listening better.
01:02:11I'm proud of everything you do.
01:02:13You are wonderful and kind-hearted
01:02:14and loving and sweet and caring,
01:02:17and you have been good to your mother,
01:02:19regardless of what I've put you through.
01:02:21And I'm proud of you,
01:02:22and I will listen to you more, okay?
01:02:24All right.
01:02:27I understand where Faith is coming from,
01:02:29and I understand that she has been down this road
01:02:32with past relationships over and over again.
01:02:34and I hold her opinion deeply in my heart,
01:02:39but I think Daniel's different.
01:02:42I think he's the real deal.
01:02:43I think he's a very precious man who is very rare,
01:02:46and I would be a fool not to go after him.
01:02:52Can we go home now?
01:03:05You're welcome, welcome.
01:03:07Sig is everything I thought he would be.
01:03:09He looks super good.
01:03:10There is definitely some chemistry,
01:03:14but it's a bit scary.
01:03:16I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle,
01:03:19and I don't want to be super jealous or crazy,
01:03:21but I hope that you haven't been seeing other people.
01:03:27Just breathe.
01:03:29You got this.
01:03:30You're a man.
01:03:32Sheena and I have been waiting seven years
01:03:34to meet up with each other,
01:03:35and I'm hoping my mom will not fight with Sheena.
01:03:38I just don't know how to feel on this whole situation.
01:03:41Yeah.
01:03:41There's still some things that have to be discussed
01:03:44before we can proceed.
01:04:00It's your boy.
01:04:02No way.
01:04:04I love it.
01:04:06Mm-hmm.
01:04:08Celebrity status, okay.
01:04:11Can I take a picture of it?
01:04:13Yeah, sure.
01:04:15Lovely, lovely girl.
01:04:19You know you can change the world.
01:04:26So, where are we going?
01:04:28I don't even know where we're going.
01:04:29I don't know.
01:04:30You don't know?
01:04:31No, I don't.
01:04:31Yes, you do.
01:04:32The driver, you know where we're going?
01:04:33The driver's just taking us?
01:04:34He don't know where we're going either.
01:04:35Oh, whatever.
01:04:36So, I don't know.
01:04:36But I can tell you, though,
01:04:38we're going to spend the night in Billy City at a hotel.
01:04:42Tomorrow, we're going to go to the islands.
01:04:44I do have a show out on the islands.
01:04:46Okay.
01:04:48Some new songs.
01:04:49I'm excited to perform those.
01:04:51Excited.
01:04:51Hopefully, I kill it.
01:04:52Okay.
01:04:53A lot of people are going to be there?
01:04:54Yep.
01:04:55Are you ready to be there?
01:04:57Are you ready for that?
01:04:58I'm nervous.
01:04:59Do you want me there even?
01:05:01Of course I want you there.
01:05:02Okay.
01:05:06I know Stig can't stop working while I'm here.
01:05:09I would never ask him to do that.
01:05:11But I'm really shocked to hear that I'm seeing Stig perform already in just a couple days.
01:05:19We're here.
01:05:22I've been a little bit nervous about having to watch him on stage with girls and having him interact with
01:05:28fans in front of me.
01:05:30And now I'm going to be thrusted into it right away.
01:05:34And it's a bit scary.
01:05:35I'm going to be a little bit scary.
01:05:35Ooh.
01:05:37Okay.
01:05:38Welcome.
01:05:39I'll leave you here for now.
01:05:42This is super nice.
01:05:42So, I have an extra prize for you.
01:05:44Okay.
01:05:45Since you said that you love the flower, I got you some more flowers.
01:05:48Aw.
01:05:49Those are so pretty.
01:05:50Thank you.
01:05:51This was to show you that you're my one and only.
01:05:53Okay.
01:05:53And this is to show some gratitude that you're here.
01:05:56Aw.
01:05:57Thank you.
01:05:57I like them.
01:05:59They're so pretty.
01:06:00Check them out.
01:06:02Stig is everything I thought he would be.
01:06:04He looks super good.
01:06:06There is definitely some chemistry.
01:06:08What are you going to do with those?
01:06:11I'm all over you.
01:06:12We've been touching each other, kissing each other.
01:06:14So, I hope the night continues on sexually.
01:06:22Let's get comfy.
01:06:23That sounds good to me.
01:06:25I'm attracted to her even more than her in person.
01:06:28But I'm a gentleman.
01:06:30I'm not going to just push up on her and try to get some the first night.
01:06:35We'll see how it goes.
01:06:36I'm going to let it play out the way it should play.
01:06:39I'm going to get more comfy.
01:06:44So, what about you at that?
01:06:46A flower?
01:06:47Sorry, it's not a rose, right?
01:06:47What's it?
01:06:48It's a rose.
01:06:49I think it has a rose.
01:06:51What are you going to get?
01:06:52Stig on your forehead.
01:06:53You could get it here.
01:06:54Only if you get Aviva.
01:06:55There.
01:06:57Leave my ass and I have Aviva big on my neck or something.
01:07:00How do you think Aviva feel?
01:07:02I'm going to leave you.
01:07:03Mm-hmm.
01:07:05Unless you make me leave you.
01:07:06Oh.
01:07:07What would make you want to leave me?
01:07:11That's a good question.
01:07:12If you can't understand what I do for work and how I, you know, my lifestyle because of what
01:07:19I do and who I am.
01:07:21Yeah.
01:07:21I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle and I don't want to be super jealous or crazy,
01:07:27but I also want to be, like, respected too.
01:07:30Just, like, I hope that you haven't been seeing other people because I feel like we've been
01:07:36talking seriously, but I get it.
01:07:40Why are you rolling eyes like that?
01:07:41I don't know because, like...
01:07:43You don't trust me?
01:07:44Oh, you don't trust me?
01:07:45I mean, I know your lifestyle.
01:07:48There's a lot of beautiful women around you always, so...
01:07:51They're not you, though.
01:07:53Okay, Mr. Charming.
01:07:56Ooh.
01:07:57I got you.
01:07:58Okay.
01:08:05I do have one more thing for you that's not spilled Chinese food.
01:08:10Okay.
01:08:10Yeah.
01:08:11Steak makes me feel really comfortable.
01:08:13He just knows the exact right thing to say.
01:08:16And Steak and I just feel right together.
01:08:19It's just a spark, a connection, a happiness, all wrapped together with a bow.
01:08:27I don't know how to explain it.
01:08:34I don't know how to explain it.
01:08:45I don't know how to explain it.
01:08:57I don't know how to explain it.
01:08:58I don't know how to explain it.
01:09:00Yes, man.
01:09:02That is it.
01:09:03She's fine as s***.
01:09:06You think?
01:09:08I will be soon.
01:09:11Aviva just might be the one.
01:09:13But I don't think she understands
01:09:15the extent of my lifestyle as a performer.
01:09:18Sometimes girls go on stage
01:09:19dance on me.
01:09:21Girls be in my DMs.
01:09:23Some pretty girls.
01:09:24I don't know if she can handle all that.
01:09:27She said she will.
01:09:28But we'll see.
01:09:38All right.
01:09:40I'm on monster passport.
01:09:42Left it on the airplane.
01:09:44But we found it.
01:09:47We got it figured out.
01:09:50Here we go.
01:10:00He's sexing me.
01:10:02He's already here.
01:10:04Feeling so happy and floating.
01:10:08Enlightened feeling.
01:10:11All right.
01:10:12Here we go.
01:10:14I actually have to go freshen up in the bathroom.
01:10:17Go ahead.
01:10:17Oh, man.
01:10:18I'll see you in a minute.
01:10:19This way.
01:10:21Oh, man.
01:10:23I just don't know how to feel on this whole situation.
01:10:25Yeah.
01:10:26It's just, I mean,
01:10:27I think that I have these ideas of what I want to say
01:10:30because the emotions get there,
01:10:32the feelings get there.
01:10:33Settle down while we settle down.
01:10:43Just breathe.
01:10:44This is going to be good.
01:10:47Everything's going to be at peace.
01:10:49You got this.
01:10:50You got this.
01:10:51You're the man.
01:10:52Keep moving forward.
01:10:53My mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
01:10:58She sent text messages to Sheena
01:11:00that made her really upset and hurt.
01:11:05So I'm hoping that my mom will not fight with Sheena.
01:11:11Hey, Mom.
01:11:12Sheena and I have been waiting seven years
01:11:14to meet up with each other,
01:11:15and I just want everything to go smoothly.
01:11:19You look good.
01:11:20Let's get this mixed up a little bit.
01:11:23Here, let me get this little.
01:11:25There you go.
01:11:26You look good.
01:11:27Thank you.
01:11:27Are you ready?
01:11:28Yeah, I'm ready.
01:11:29This is your moment, okay?
01:11:33I'm so nervous.
01:11:41Let's do this thing.
01:11:43Here it comes.
01:11:44You got this.
01:11:44You will do fine.
01:11:45You tell her hello.
01:11:46You say, well, just do whatever you feel.
01:11:49Okay.
01:11:49Go for it.
01:11:49Shoulders up.
01:11:50You got this.
01:11:51Go, Forrest, go.
01:11:53Thank you.
01:11:53I love you guys.
01:12:05Oh, my goodness.
01:12:22No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
01:12:32no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
01:12:35no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
01:12:35no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
01:12:35no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
01:12:35no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no
01:12:35I love you.
01:12:37I love you.
01:12:43Our journey's about to start,
01:12:46and we're gonna go to the next level.
01:12:49I love you, too.
01:12:50Oh, I love you.
01:12:56Meeting you and getting to be with you finally
01:12:59is my world.
01:13:01My everything.
01:13:03My everything.
01:13:03Oh, Papa Bear.
01:13:07Sheena.
01:13:07Oh, I'm just with you, baby.
01:13:09You're the best muggle bear ever.
01:13:11I love you.
01:13:13It feels like heaven.
01:13:15It's the best I have ever felt.
01:13:19Oh, no.
01:13:21Sheena, can I kiss?
01:13:22You kissed.
01:13:24Sure.
01:13:29Oh, my goodness.
01:13:30I'm so good, my love.
01:13:32Kissing you.
01:13:35It was ecstatic.
01:13:37She has some really good, like,
01:13:39perfume or something on.
01:13:40Actually, I put some a lot of flavor,
01:13:42like, flavored perfumes in it.
01:13:45Oh, I know you're going to love it.
01:13:46Oh, I'm loving it right now.
01:13:47I think I got it all over me.
01:13:48Oh, really?
01:13:49Yeah.
01:13:52I got mom and dad here, too, with us.
01:13:58I want us to be a big family.
01:14:00Hi, mom.
01:14:00Hi.
01:14:15Oh, boy.
01:14:16Too hot to be crying, Porsche.
01:14:17I know.
01:14:18I know.
01:14:18I'm having a same issue.
01:14:22Oh, boy.
01:14:23Seen Sheena cry, seen Morris cry
01:14:26And then the big trigger was just death
01:14:29And then that was the waterworks
01:14:31You're alright, Sheena
01:14:32You're okay, okay?
01:14:35I was surprised that it got to me like that
01:14:38I don't cry very often
01:14:40And right there I couldn't hold it back, you know
01:14:44And it kind of felt good, I guess
01:14:46I'm sorry
01:14:47I hopefully apologize for everything that has happened
01:14:51Well, thank you for apologizing
01:14:54But let's make this a happy moment, alright?
01:14:56Because we're going to be
01:14:57Today is a happy day
01:14:58We are all together, right?
01:15:00I'm so glad to see you guys
01:15:02It's been like a family
01:15:04We're family now
01:15:05We're family
01:15:07You're with family now, Sheen
01:15:11Seeing her face to face with him
01:15:13Face to face with me
01:15:15This whole thing is just so overwhelming
01:15:17I love you, my Sheen
01:15:18I love baby, baby
01:15:20And you got the softest lips ever
01:15:22Oh, really?
01:15:23And you taste like candy
01:15:27Apology aside
01:15:28There's still some things that have to be discussed
01:15:32And talked about before we can proceed
01:15:36That's just how I see it
01:15:42I would call you
01:15:43You would press decline
01:15:45And then I wouldn't hear back for hours
01:15:49I didn't tell you everything
01:15:51But, um
01:15:55During the time that Trish ghosted me
01:15:57For those five days
01:15:58I made the biggest mistake of my life
01:16:03What did you do?
01:16:15I promise
01:16:16I will tell you everything
01:16:18But promise me
01:16:20That she won't get mad
01:16:35Okay, I can promise you
01:16:36That I won't get mad
01:16:37But I can't promise
01:16:39That it won't hurt
01:16:44About months ago
01:16:45I had a lot going on in my life
01:16:48And for five days
01:16:51I didn't answer Rick's call
01:16:53He was really, really upset
01:16:56And he caused a huge problem for us
01:17:00Um, my ex-boyfriend got robbed
01:17:04Right, yeah
01:17:05You told me about that
01:17:07Yeah
01:17:07And he said that he blamed you
01:17:09Yeah, he blames me
01:17:11Like, I was complete for everything
01:17:14So I was really nervous and upset
01:17:17And also, I didn't tell you everything
01:17:20But, um
01:17:25Oh, man
01:17:26I scared them
01:17:29After my ex-boyfriend got robbed
01:17:32My brother got an accident
01:17:34He hurt someone
01:17:36Bumped someone
01:17:37On my scooter
01:17:38We did a lot of process
01:17:41Like going for the radiographic
01:17:43And the guy at the hospital
01:17:46We paying for his food
01:17:48And paying for everything he needs
01:17:51Then we went to the police
01:17:53To pay for the amends
01:17:56Baby, why didn't you tell me that?
01:17:59I mean, I would call you
01:18:01You would press decline
01:18:04I didn't press decline
01:18:06Or you would just not pick up
01:18:07I didn't pick up
01:18:08And I would text you
01:18:09And then I wouldn't hear back for hours
01:18:11I thought that you were with somebody else
01:18:16I didn't even really care about my phone
01:18:19I didn't even want to talk to anybody
01:18:23When I came back there
01:18:25Because I was nervous
01:18:26Baby, I'm not just anybody
01:18:28I'm supposed to be your confidant
01:18:30We have to work together
01:18:32I didn't see you yet, Rick
01:18:33So it's scary
01:18:34To tell all my problems
01:18:38Maybe just say
01:18:39That's not true
01:18:41I don't believe
01:18:42Maybe she just wants money
01:18:45Maybe you will judge me
01:18:48But yeah, I was wrong
01:18:56I'm really, really sorry
01:18:58To hurt you so much
01:19:00But it's different now
01:19:01Because I see you
01:19:02I see who you are
01:19:05So I can share
01:19:07Like everything happens to my life
01:19:12You okay?
01:19:19I'm okay
01:19:20I completely understand what you're saying now
01:19:24Thank you so much for explaining everything to me
01:19:29I just didn't know what to do, baby
01:19:33What she was telling me before
01:19:36Just wasn't adding up in that moment
01:19:39But now that we're face to face
01:19:42I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes
01:19:45And I feel a little bit guilty for not trusting her
01:19:51Here she is going through all these things
01:19:54And instead of being there for her
01:19:57I made the biggest mistake of my life
01:20:00What did you do?
01:20:08During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days
01:20:12I talked to my ex from Colombia
01:20:17And she said that, you know
01:20:19Why don't you, you know, come down here
01:20:22I'm missing you
01:20:23And so, you know, I decided to book a trip
01:20:28And go spend time with her
01:20:34Even though Trish started talking to me again
01:20:37In my heart, I believe that she cheated on me
01:20:40And so, I still went to Colombia
01:20:43My ex stayed with me for the week
01:20:47We were acting as a couple once again
01:20:51Did you have sex?
01:20:53We had sex all the time
01:20:56The whole time
01:20:57Multiple times a day, every day
01:21:01I feel bad for that
01:21:04So, I know that I need to tell her
01:21:06But I'm extremely scared
01:21:09That it'll be something
01:21:10That she can't forgive me for
01:21:13And it might be the end of us
01:21:20Next time on Before the 90 Days
01:21:23This is it
01:21:24I can't believe I'm about to meet him
01:21:26I'm really proud of the progress that I've made
01:21:29But I am nervous
01:21:31BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in person
01:21:35Oh my god, here we go
01:21:41I love this
01:21:44She's thick
01:21:45She has boobs
01:21:46But as an evil man
01:21:48I am worried about that she was physical
01:21:50With a woman
01:21:51We don't accept that
01:22:09We're here going to the Philippines
01:22:11Yes, I'm going to see my wife
01:22:13I've never even met my wife here
01:22:15This will be actually our first meet
01:22:18Oh, okay
01:22:20Me and Anna, we've been married two years
01:22:24He said that?
01:22:26No, we have been in a relationship for six years
01:22:29And married for almost three years
01:22:31Okay?
01:22:34Did you guys do the old knockin' knockin'?
01:22:40You're pushing too far
01:22:41It's in the right time or place
01:22:43Yeah
01:22:45Sheena already has that control
01:22:46That thumb on him
01:22:48Let's not forget
01:22:49She was giving all of her money to her parents
01:22:51Instead of saving for their future
01:22:54You haven't given me a direct answer
01:22:57As to why you lied
01:23:00The pieces aren't lining up
01:23:06I don't like that we were fighting yesterday
01:23:09But there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about
01:23:11That, like, I didn't tell you yet
01:23:14What? What is this? What's happening?
01:23:17I really want to tell Zied about my last engagement
01:23:20Because I think it's the only way that we could move forward
01:23:27No
01:23:27I don't know what I'm gonna do
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