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00:00I mean, we do look good.
00:12We're going now!
00:16You're excited to see Ronnie say, oh!
00:20Oh, okay.
00:22I like you.
00:24I feel like you're gorgeous.
00:26And I want to give this a try.
00:29You want something serious?
00:30I mean, yeah.
00:31Jane and I have been dating for three or four months now.
00:35And I can see myself really taking this to the next level with her.
00:40And I am really nervous because I don't know what she's going to say.
00:44So, let's just get married.
00:50They're water broke.
00:51Straight Niagara Falls water broke.
00:53But now I'm getting contractions.
00:55Really bad.
00:56They hurt.
00:57And I'm in the absolute worst pain of my life.
01:00It's like somebody's going into your body and just ripping it open.
01:03But I know I can't panic because if I panic, then it makes the baby panic.
01:08Nurse, epidural please, nurse.
01:12Let's get this going.
01:14I want to ask you something important later.
01:16Oh, yeah?
01:17What's that?
01:18I'll ask you later.
01:19Tell me.
01:20I've made the decision to propose to Ronnie while he's here.
01:24But what if I'm ready and he's not?
01:27Well, actually, there was something I wanted to talk to you about.
01:33This is so up.
01:35We got got one life to live.
01:36We got got one shot to win.
01:37I got got one shot to win.
01:38I got got one shot to win.
01:39I got got one shot to win.
01:40With my son today.
01:41And me and Jared are headed to the gym right now.
01:42Ready to get a four counter.
01:43Let's do it.
01:44I'm Josh.
01:45I'm a young 44.
01:46And I'm in Phoenix, Arizona.
01:58I missed you.
01:59I missed you too.
02:02Oh, that's nice of you to say.
02:07So, Jen is my 19 year old son from my previous marriage.
02:14from my previous marriage you know i do travel a lot with my modeling production company so when i
02:19do have time and i am in phoenix i try to hang out with him as much as i humanly possibly can
02:26what are we working out tonight oh i got back and by is that good with you i already did back and
02:33by but i can do biceps let's do it okay four years ago i met natalie at a modeling event
02:41in boca raton florida we immediately hit it off and we started hanging out a lot and that developed
02:50into a relationship i'm really glad that you know i'm really getting to know you
02:58thank you it was really tough because natalie really wanted um a lot more than i could really give
03:06i'm your girlfriend natalie natalie i think we're gonna take us a breather i think we need to take
03:12a step back all school since natalie and i broke up i have been on some dates but the majority of my
03:20free time really does go towards my son we made it to the gym here you are we're gonna go work out
03:29with my boy walk yeah strong strong let's see what this gym has for us
03:39february 4th 2024 i got a phone call from jet's mom that my son was in a very terrible car accident
03:49my son and his friend were driving back from their snowboarding trip and my son's friend hit
03:55a guard room which took the life of my son's friend instantly and took my son's leg broke his other
04:03leg he had some internal damages and he had a five percent chance of living actually so i got to the
04:09hospital and when i first saw him he actually had both legs but the machines just started going crazy
04:18all the nurses and doctors started rushing in and they said we have to take his leg or he's gonna die
04:27and you have to sign this paper for us to take his leg so i had to take the paper and sign it and
04:39it was the hardest thing i've ever done in my life
04:41what's first up hammer curls
04:50it's definitely been amazing to see the challenges that my son has overcome after his accident and the
04:58positivity that he's carried through this whole process i mean my son is definitely a warrior so you
05:06ready for me to um go on this date what do you think about it yeah man i'm excited for you in my free
05:13time i have been spending a little bit of time with a special someone with josh back in the dating pool
05:21we actually reached out and invited the new woman he's been seeing to tell us how their relationship is
05:26progressing hi jen hi guys we've been seeing each other for a couple months you know we're just having
05:33fun right now and seeing where things go yeah we're having fun like if he didn't make me happy
05:38right now i'd be like bye jen is elizabeth and andre's sister well andre's sister-in-law um i have
05:47developed quite a friendship with their whole family we all used to work together a long long time ago
05:52i've actually uh been friends with jen for well over 10 plus years you know she was married when we first
06:00met uh she's single now we've actually reconnected but since jen lives in tampa and i live in arizona
06:08we don't really get a lot of time together i just don't want to go on a date and then like keep with
06:15this cycle you know of not committing or it's not going anywhere yeah no i agree don't waste your time
06:24yeah so far we've kept things very casual but jen has been there for me uh through my son's accident
06:33and that was really uh important for me to have that support behind me so i can see myself really
06:42taking this to the next level with her you think i'm ready you think i can make a commitment
06:47my advice stay loyal stay loyal yeah what does that mean i just know how you act
06:58why don't you a lot of girls so jet calls me out all the time and you know he might
07:05say i'm a player or uh you know that i have this fear of commitment you know he's not wrong
07:10okay but with jen it's different like i feel a stronger connection with her so do you have a
07:18date planned yeah what are you doing i want to take her on a tiki boat in the in tampa bay area
07:31so i've decided that i do want to ask jen to take it past the casual dating part and make this more of
07:38you know a serious relationship and i am really nervous because i don't know what she's going to
07:43say all right so me and jet just finished working out so let's head the road jack let's do it
07:52all right so today i'm in tampa florida i'm here uh this weekend to uh spend some time with jen
08:10uh you know let's be honest my relationship dating history track record hasn't been the best so uh i'm
08:19trying though i'm trying to like really commit and see if this can be something i don't want to mess this up
08:32come on
08:35okay um i think that she's here pick me up so
08:42let's do this nervous hittin a little um a little nervous happy excited you got this it's okay okay
08:53i'm good now i'm good
08:54i'm good now let's do it hello hi what are you doing here i just thought that i would be a good
09:03night sister
09:08okay that's good let's do it happy to see you it's good to see you too gosh how are you
09:15welcome to my city good to see you you too well this is a little weird and unexpected because you
09:21know i was getting myself ready to see jen you know the butterflies were there i was getting nervous
09:26and the last person i want to see right now is her sister well i'm happy to see you i know it's good
09:33to see you too yeah can i get some pointers maybe oh you're like a little school boy right now
09:42i don't know what to do maybe maybe you'll be my sister-in-law yeah i don't know about that
09:48yeah maybe we can finally be family yeah first you tried with me and you've never tried with
09:57libby now you're trying with jen oh boy does jen know that me and you tried at all
10:04uh no she doesn't i mean does anybody know well they do now becky and i used to date way way way
10:20back and it was more of a fun physical intimate relationship it never really turned into anything
10:27so i don't think i'm going to bring it up to jen today um maybe that's another conversation later
10:34on maybe on our honeymoon who knows we'll see what happens oh my goodness hello hi how are you good
10:44how are you good you're beautiful thank you i'm a little nervous to see jen today but i have to bite
10:51the bullet and really tell jen how i feel i just hope that she feels the same way bye wish us luck bye
11:13okay i'm ready i think so far i got the man he's got his uniform on his tie's a little crooked
11:21but he is ready to see ronald his father his biological father my name's tiffany i'm 34 i'm
11:30from frederick maryland i'm on my way to pick up ronnie at the airport and i am really happy
11:38if you're excited to see ronnie say oh okay if you're if you're excited to see ronnie say oh
11:46my journey began about eight years ago when i met ronald number one we very quickly fell in love
11:54and got married you may kiss your bride
12:03but soon after that things started going downhill very quickly
12:07after my divorce was finalized i decided to go to a singles retreat in mexico where i made a very
12:24strong connection tiffany who would you like to stand here next to you rocky
12:31all right but once i got home we decided to just stay friends which worked out for the best
12:41because then i met ronnie so ronnie had slid into my dms and we started talking and i was a little
12:50apprehensive because he is an irish guy living in montenegro and i was like uh no not long distance not
12:57again but there was a lot of chemistry there and he started planning a few trips to come visit me and
13:04that's when kind of we hit it off i love you baby i really love him i'm really happy with him and i
13:14don't want to be patient anymore i don't want to keep waiting so i've made the decision to propose to
13:19ronnie while he's here i'm so excited this is going to be the first time i see him since putting
13:30in my aligners so i don't know what it's like to kiss with these things on
13:39who's there come on go to the window come on who's there papito say hi
13:42get it where we do who's there papito you're gonna have to wait a second
13:57oh my god let's go get out of here let's go oh my god did you feel them when i can see them
14:01no no i'm just looking hello
14:12oh god i planned to propose today i got this ring
14:23which is very specific and i know everything he likes so i got him his beautiful ring and i had it
14:30engraved and it says tamil and it has our anniversary date i'm getting ready for dinner and i'm popping the
14:37question tonight uh the plan is we're gonna go to dinner i'm gonna play him the song uh i'm not
14:44getting on no knee but i will definitely kind of just nudge him and be like so want to be together
14:52forever or what but i'm just nervous i don't know what my problem is is this how guys feel when they do
14:59this oh my god okay so you look so good yeah uh okay wait i wanted to ask you yeah teach me how to
15:13say i love you in irish is problem is problem is problem so the next thing you gotta do is help me
15:22with my irish accent top of the morning to you oh my god you're ready to rock and roll yeah yeah you
15:42look amazing putting on lipstick and we're out of here i'm excited about tonight yeah it should be good
15:47we have a reservation soon so all right i'm going i'm going oh like the pressure feels like it's on
15:55but i want to do this i'm sure i want to do this so if he says no his ass is going back to montenegro
16:02single if he's not ready to marry me now he can go himself i want to ask you something important
16:08later oh yeah what's that it's for leaders it ain't nothing special well actually there was something i
16:15wanted to talk to you about okay and i've been on the phone to home today and is that who you were
16:22on the phone with earlier yeah okay my dad needs my help so i definitely need to go back to ireland
16:29sooner than i than i thought like how much i need to go in like two weeks two and a half weeks
16:36yeah what so my dad wants me to help him with his business and you know he's retiring at the moment
16:46so there is an opportunity for me to step in and take over the family business
16:50so i have to be back there with him to train so you're gonna take over the business
16:57in ireland does that mean you have to be there always i don't know this is so up we've always
17:08talked about our future here in america um so now him telling me that he's gonna go take over his dad's
17:15business business is a bit of a shock my life i told you in the beginning i did not want to do
17:23long i laid it all out on the table i don't want to do long distancing i understand the situation i'm
17:28not stupid but like the rest of our lives is on hold no i can go back to dublin do the training
17:35and then i can come back and work from here which isn't ideal but you know my plan is to come back and
17:42we'll spend the rest of our lives together we'll make it happen yeah okay
17:55now i'm questioning everything which really sucks i can't help but think that this might be his way
18:03of taking a step back from our relationship and i'm definitely not going to propose now i mean not with
18:10so much in the air at the moment so i think the best course of action would be to take a step back
18:19see what happens in the next few months and go from there come on gerald everything's gonna be good
18:27but okay but okay yeah it will i promise okay all right
18:41can you believe we're 37 weeks pregnant can't believe it i mean it's going by slow because
19:11breaking your ankles at 31 weeks pregnant is not that fun
19:20so funny my name's amber i am 34 years old i'm originally from north carolina but i now live
19:28in seminal florida with my husband daniel i'm daniel i'm 28 years old and i'm from venezuela
19:35you can call me humpty dumpty pregnancy's going great for me
19:42our 90-day journey started about six years ago daniel and i met in jaco costa rica while i was
19:48backpacking i was like this is going to be a good hookup that's what i thought too
19:52after two years of traveling back and forth to costa rica daniel and i got engaged
20:02my love we applied for the k-1 visa and then daniel moved to florida and we got married
20:09and six and a half years later a baby on the way well the newest star of our show
20:18our baby boy i know he's in there happy he's just jumping around
20:22at 31 weeks i was just walking and basically took a misstep and broke both my ankles i just stepped
20:31off the curb and when my foot went down i heard a crack but at the same exact time i was just like
20:38belly like you got the baby i jolted out my other leg to break the fall i mean i literally broke my
20:47ankle to break my ankle to break my fall i can't walk yay me you have no idea how it is to deal
20:57with a pregnant lady that also have two broken ankles i mean it takes a lot exhilarating and joyful
21:07joyful and joyful takes a lot of patience this is what i need to feel really alive sometimes fast
21:24oh my god that's awful that's insane what did you think i thought when i said i broke my ankles
21:44after five weeks of being in bed i'm finally getting company my best friend ashton just come over come in
21:52make yourself comfortable that's what i gotta do i'm just excited to spend time with him and i mean
21:57basically just chill with me in bed because i can't do much okay this is my life it's not even funny
22:13my breath i'm so sorry that happened that's insane worse timing too
22:18but positive they're gonna induce me so i won't be geriatric thank you youth i'm still here wait what
22:29i won't be geriatric once you turn 35 you're considered geriatric high risk like okay so you're
22:35not there yet right if you have to find a silver lining i guess that's it so i'm getting induced next
22:41week and it'll be two days before my 35th birthday and with all the bad luck that i've been having it
22:48would be really nice to be considered a young mother still but more importantly i don't want to share my
22:56birthday with the baby i still have to wear both boots in the stirrups because you need strong ankles
23:02to push yeah with the epidural if i want the epidural like how to wear these and i'm getting
23:08that epidural oh my god are you gonna learn to walk with your baby we're gonna learn to walk together
23:12yes oh that's a cute moment mother-son bonding let's walk together it's a moment
23:27daniel you got everything my bag baby bag you're back yes i go over too
23:36we're headed to the hospital and i'm going to get induced heart is racing my blood pressure feels high
23:46and i just feel really stressed and i know i can't panic because if i panic then it makes the baby panic
23:51and i just i'm just internalizing a lot like a lot's about to happen i'm leaving as amber but i'm gonna
23:58come back as mom i can't believe i'm gonna go have a baby i am a little nervous because
24:05i do have to give birth with the boot it just makes me nervous because the doctor said that i
24:11needed strong ankles and i don't have strong ankles to push i have no idea what that looks like
24:24dad how you doing
24:25we're getting induced well i'm getting induced i just took my first dose of medicine
24:37um contractions are hitting they said i could take the broken foot boot off so i did
24:45and we're just waiting on baby luca could be hopefully a couple hours
24:51three hours could be one day she said it could be up to three days but we don't want them coming on
24:56my birthday
25:06i'm three hours into getting induced and i'm in the absolute worst pain of my life
25:11the contractions are hitting i'll tell you what a contraction is the worst pain you will ever feel
25:17it's like somebody's going into your body and just ripping it open
25:26i took all my dosage of medicine and it's six and my water broke straight niagara falls water broke
25:36but now i'm getting contractions really bad they hurt
25:39it as the time is going i'm getting more worried for ember she's just having a really hard time
25:51they say just breathe but i don't know how that helps it still hurts
25:54i don't know how that helps nurse epidural please nurse let's get this going
26:17it is baby luca finally with us
26:24the c-section was a really scary moment but he's perfect he's my favorite little c-section baby
26:40also when you give birth on your birthday you get really beautiful flowers from his daddy
26:49baby yes he was born on my birthday i know i know but it actually was the best present i could have
26:57ever asked for and i wouldn't change a thing no i win because this is worth it oh yeah you know my
27:09little baby
27:26hi mama hi babe how are you doing i am holding all these clothes
27:33clothes that nobody ever told me when you have a baby you get thousands and thousands of clothes to
27:38hold every single day thousands and thousands my name is benjamin i'm 40 years old and i live in
27:46phoenix arizona my name is akini and i am wait how old am i how old are you
27:52you're 32. hey baby hey did you say hey to your mommy did you say hey and baba
28:10since you guys last saw us i had a huge belly and now it's gone which means we have a baby now in the last
28:18couple of months we welcomed our new baby girl my name is hannah bless you mama
28:26are you looking at mommy's ring this is a rock that you're about to get
28:30yeah it's nice and shiny our 90-day journey began when we met online
28:37and i just saw a picture of benjamin and i was like oh he has a nice smile and so i just liked his
28:43quick chat and then i sent her a message i love your smile i love your smile too after dating online
28:50i knew that i had to go meet akini in person oh my god
29:00thank you oh my god you're huge i thought you'd be smaller it's true americans are huge
29:09later we filed the k-1 visa makini came to the u.s and we were married
29:15benjamin you may kiss your brother
29:20and now we have a baby
29:26okay hold on here
29:30you ready for your diaper to get changed all right
29:33i feel like i'm always under akini's watch
29:58i can feel her eyes watching me scrutinizing every single move it almost feels like i'm under
30:04surveillance by the fbi
30:09you have to ruffle this out and then where the color meets the color is where you you know put it
30:19together well i have to make sure that you're like holding her nicely feeding her nicely
30:24the fbi action
30:31all right are you ready are you ready
30:36you forgot to put the um pants on huh
30:39the pants oh the pants you can never forget the pants
30:44i've had a long day it's hard being the entertainment the food and um
30:51they can't take this one little person has taken all my strength yeah you have taken all my strength
30:59being a stay-at-home mom it just feels like everything is all of me when he's at work i am
31:04do i'm just doing everything from the morning
31:10the way to the evening
31:17even though i'm exhausted and i'm tired for the most part i just can't relax
31:22so i've got something for you um i've got a surprise um so we are going to go get into the car
31:37what surprise today i'm going to give akini a day of luxury and pampering so i can show her my
31:44appreciation for everything that she does we're going now
31:50akini has been so worn out lately taking care of hannah and i really think that akini just needs a break
31:57from being mom all right so where are we going um there's a game that we used to play when i was a
32:04kid and it's called the guessing game we're going to the park no we are going to the bank to get money for me
32:16to buy stuff from this store no not exactly and here we are okay so i got you a 90 minute massage
32:31petty manicure package and i'm gonna go home with uh with hannah i can't go in with a baby no
32:46well i've never left her i know you haven't babe
32:52i don't know babe
32:56i do struggle with postpartum issues like separation anxiety when i leave the baby and i
33:01don't like to leave her and on top of that benjamin doesn't have very much maternal instincts
33:08so if something serious happened like an emergency i just picture the worst and that really scares me
33:16well the massage is an hour and a half and that'll be some good time for you get you relaxed and make
33:25you feel a little just some some peace of mind i'm not comfortable going no no all right let's go home
33:46all right so one of akini's favorite things is to have ugali but i've never made ugali before so
34:03this should be interesting yeah i feel really bad about akini not being able to take the massage that i
34:10bought her but in any case i really still want to show her how much i appreciate her so while akini
34:16and hannah are napping i'm gonna turn our house into a kenyan restaurant and make her her favorite dish
34:24the mzungu is making ugali okay folks my ugali is not ugaliing um it's kind of there but it's not there
34:33my kenyan people please forgive me i think some of this clumped up a little bit too quickly ugali is
34:43kind of more of a spongier texture mine kind of looks like wet cement right now okay we're not done
34:51yet so there is the forming here i don't have a guide for this so i'm going really off of what i have
35:00watched bikini do and i'm really trying to strive from there check it out i think i did it
35:15i made ugali for the first time ever
35:20that must be nico
35:25hey nico how's it going that's going very well good good
35:28thank you come on in hello nico hello nico's going to be helping out with our surprise today
35:36for akini um so it's going to be a really spectacular dinner my friend nico is coming over tonight to
35:42really up the ante on this date night he's going to play the waiter to make this a real restaurant
35:48experience for akini i'm just waiting on akini to come out now we're going to eat hey babe
35:58oh my goodness hi hi mama hi mama mama come here come sit down oh this looks good doesn't it oh my
36:18oh my goodness i love it oh hello oh okay i made this myself wow this is your first time making this
36:30this is my first time making it yeah i actually did not see this coming it was such a nice surprise
36:36how's that ugali oh it's very good okay so now you're going to be making ugali every day i want
36:41i can make it for you now i know how to do it i love you and i truly appreciate everything that you do
36:50for me for hannah i appreciate all that you do for us i know this is your first time being a girl dad and i
36:57i can feel a little bit too much with helicopter power into me but i'm very appreciative of you
37:04providing to me and hannah and i will try to ease up on you a little bit okay say thank you baba
37:13thank you babe
37:27oh my goodness hello hi how are you good how are you good you look beautiful thank you bye wish us luck
37:40all right so how are you good my name's josh i'm an extremely young 44 and i'm from phoenix arizona
37:51but today i'm in tampa florida because i'm going to be going on a date with jen
37:55jen and i have been casually dating for roughly about three or four months now and today i want
38:02to take the next steps maybe i can actually call her my girlfriend rocket this tiki boat
38:09i'm very nervous because i i don't know how jen is going to feel about me wanting to take the next
38:30steps with her i don't i just hope that she feels the same way i mean if jen says no
38:37it's probably gonna sting a little because i don't really put myself out and like that
38:45all right wrong shoes for them i think they're good
38:47i mean you got cute toes so you might as well show them
38:57i've never been on a tiki boat before you know what i never have either this is my first tiki boat
39:02experience um i like you i feel like my situation is crazy with my kids yeah and like you know
39:18everything you're going through you understand that yeah i definitely uh you know i i want to give
39:26this a try like yeah what like what are you looking for is that like what you're you want something
39:30i mean yeah you know what i mean yeah you are a serious uh just a relationship really like a partner
39:38yeah so let's just get married
39:47i just want to like take things slow honestly i'm trying to like feel it out and like yeah
39:55kind of see where my head's at and also like what i want out of a relationship and stuff
40:02but yeah like i'm not you know i'm still interested to see where this goes but it's more just like
40:10you know taking this yeah yeah yeah i mean i'm definitely a little disappointed because i feel like
40:17normally like the girls want that like they want more of my time and more of my attention
40:22and you know the one time that i'm ready to actually do that with the person that i want to
40:27do it with i get shut down and you know it's a little humbling because that normally does not
40:34happen i mean i'm glad that i know that because like i need to also take things slow and i 100
40:44i feel like you know she just needs a little bit more time to actually see if this can become something
40:50like so i'm still hopeful that something can develop i mean you do look good just i'm just saying
41:02you have to admit that
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