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00:00Door wedding, you can have it in my yard.
00:02And if she needed an emotional break
00:03due to overstimulation, tics, she
00:07could have her emotional break in the house.
00:10Balen has really been working really hard
00:12to be more independent.
00:14Having this wedding in her parents' backyard
00:16would be kind of like pushing her back into the fold.
00:20Yay, they're here.
00:22We're heading to Roanoke this weekend,
00:24and I'm excited to fill my family in on the non-existent
00:29wedding planning that's going on.
00:31We've went and seen a couple venues.
00:33Maybe you can check out some places
00:34around here on your way back.
00:37This is a private tour, right?
00:38Yeah.
00:39We are taking my mom's suggestion to look
00:42at a venue closer to Roanoke.
00:45Who is that?
00:47That's my mom and my sister.
00:48I asked them to join us.
00:51You didn't want to share any of that with me
00:53until they arrived?
00:54My mom has been dying to be a part of wedding planning,
00:58and the last person I want to hurt is my mom.
01:01I feel ambushed.
01:14I wanted to invite them because I don't know when we would
01:18have gotten a chance to include them in the wedding planning
01:20or anything like that, so.
01:22I feel caught off guard.
01:24We both decided we would involve our families
01:27in wedding planning after we pick a venue.
01:30So I think if my mom knew that Marlene and Colleen were here,
01:34she would feel left out.
01:36My mom drives a Pussy Prius.
01:39Good afternoon, folks.
01:40Good afternoon.
01:41Hi.
01:42How are you?
01:43Baylen?
01:43Yes.
01:44Nice to meet you.
01:45Nice to meet you.
01:45Nice to meet you.
01:46Appreciate you guys coming out today.
01:49Where did you travel from?
01:50You OK?
01:51Yes.
01:52I have Tourette syndrome, which is an involuntary motor
01:54and vocal condition.
01:56I just want to make sure.
01:57Yes.
01:58I appreciate you.
01:58Thank you so much.
02:00I've never been around anybody with Tourette.
02:01I learned it.
02:02I didn't know she had that until she brought it up.
02:04And obviously, there were some signs of that.
02:07So I just feel for her.
02:10I really do.
02:11Well, I appreciate you coming.
02:13And yeah, I'll show you around a little bit.
02:15We're excited.
02:16Awesome.
02:18All right.
02:18Well, welcome.
02:22Oh, this is phenomenal.
02:24This is the grand hall.
02:33This is very grand.
02:34Raise your voice up to the stars.
02:37Raise your voice up to the stars.
02:41Yeah, yeah, yeah.
02:42This place is crazy.
02:43This is pretty spot on.
02:45I'm glad you like it.
02:47During the reception, all of these veranda doors
02:50were typically open.
02:50OK.
02:51So you have some people on the dance floor,
02:53some people on the veranda.
02:55This place is just very rustic.
02:56God damn!
02:58It's very rustic.
02:59It feels like homey and relaxing.
03:01Yeah, and the fact that you can open the doors
03:04makes it indoor, outdoor space.
03:06And with my tics, I don't feel like I'm holding anything in
03:09or anything echoing.
03:11I'm obsessed.
03:12This setup works really well for a rain plan, too.
03:15Most of the ceremonies are out here.
03:17We'll show you in a few minutes.
03:18But if it were to rain, we set up rows of chairs down.
03:22Still provides a nice backdrop if it rains.
03:24Have you guys ever had alpacas?
03:26No.
03:26OK.
03:28I'm sure we could work something out on that.
03:30OK.
03:30We had an Indian wedding up here a few years ago
03:32where they brought a white stallion up.
03:34Oh, there you go.
03:35Look at me.
03:36Colin can ride up the driveway and then, you know, yes.
03:38You are speaking their language.
03:39That's his dream.
03:40That's what he wants to do.
03:42He's like, let's get wedding pictures on a horse.
03:44A white stallion.
03:45There you go.
03:46I'm like, I could do a horse and carriage.
03:48OK.
03:48I'll drive the horse, and then you can be in the carriage behind me.
03:52We'll get that thing going.
03:54You have 911 on speed dial.
03:56Oh, literally.
03:57That's a bonus.
03:58You want to see where the ceremonies take place?
04:00Please.
04:00Yeah.
04:01Let's go.
04:01Let's go.
04:04OK, this opens up to the ceremony site.
04:07Oh, my gosh.
04:10Look at that view.
04:12This is crazy.
04:13This is insane.
04:14Wow.
04:14This is my dream.
04:15To have that kind of a backdrop behind us, I mean,
04:18that's gorgeous.
04:19That's all I've been talking about.
04:20That's all I wanted.
04:22King Julian.
04:23Are there any places on site where outside guests could stay,
04:26like grandparents or people from out of town?
04:28Dick.
04:29Yeah, well, we have one four.
04:30Joe Biden.
04:32We have one four-bedroom cottage right up here on site.
04:36But most of the guests would definitely stay in Lexington.
04:38OK.
04:39So we're about 14 miles from the heart of Lexington.
04:43OK.
04:44For a place that we didn't really know much about,
04:46and we kind of just booked a tour last minute.
04:49This venue checks a lot of the boxes that we have.
04:53It's really accommodating towards my family specifically,
04:56just because it's a lot closer to them.
04:59And they also have a cottage on the grounds
05:02that my older grandparents can stay in.
05:05But all of our guests wouldn't be able to, like,
05:07stay on the property like the last venue that we saw.
05:11What's y'all's availability looking like from, like,
05:13spring to summertime?
05:15I think we have, like, two dates left.
05:18The quicker you can book something, the better.
05:19We need to get on that.
05:21I appreciate you guys making the trip out of here.
05:23Appreciate it.
05:24Of course.
05:25It's about to start.
05:25Thanks, guys.
05:26I'll walk back down with you.
05:27All right.
05:28Yeah.
05:30I think I'm able to picture Colin as a groom.
05:32I'm also very excited to see Colin as a groom.
05:34He's going to make me cry.
05:36Um, phew.
05:38I'm going to cry my eyes out the day of the wedding.
05:41But I'm very excited to see him as a groom.
05:43Sorry.
05:47Y'all be safe coming back, OK?
05:49I love you.
05:50I thought you guys liked it.
05:51Y'all be safe.
05:51Oh, I did.
05:52I've got some things to think about.
05:53Yes.
05:54Yes.
05:54For sure.
05:55All right.
05:55All right.
05:56Bye, guys.
05:56Bye, guys.
05:58See ya.
06:00It's starting to rain.
06:01We're leaving just in time.
06:06What did you think of the venue?
06:08It was really nice.
06:09Mm-hmm.
06:10I can just picture everything there.
06:14Like, me actually walking down an aisle there.
06:17Like, maybe not you on a horse.
06:20Like, I just don't know, like, what is up with that.
06:23I'm not getting on.
06:23Maybe that's something that we can work on.
06:25Oh, my god.
06:27Can you imagine the story that we could tell our kids?
06:30I'm not saving money for our wedding budget for there to be a horse.
06:34Your mom's a dirty, fat, filthy horse.
06:36What if he can find a good deal on a horse?
06:40There's still one ride it.
06:42The one you got a good deal on probably has a discount for a reason.
06:46It has a discount for a reason.
06:48I'm telling you right now, it's going to be a donkey.
06:51So it sounded like he has really only two available weekends.
06:56Whenever we get back the numbers from these places,
06:59we're really going to have to sit down and make a decision.
07:02If budget is the number one factor,
07:05then the wedding should be in my parents' backyard.
07:08It's affordable.
07:09I'm sure that if we told him tomorrow,
07:11my dad would plan everything out to a T.
07:13He would make everything for us.
07:15I mean, it would be really easy to accommodate everybody there.
07:18Me personally, I don't really want to have your dad's backyard as an option.
07:29We're trying to build a life together.
07:32Yes, but that has nothing to do with my parents' backyard.
07:35Yes, it does.
07:36We're trying to make decisions on our own.
07:40And the decisions that we make may not align with your parents' or my parents' vision.
07:49And that's okay, because it's our life.
07:54Having the wedding in Alan's backyard would save us a lot of money.
07:58But I want us to focus on building a life together
08:01without Baylen's parents influencing or questioning every decision we make.
08:06But Alan's not going to back off unless Baylen says something.
08:10I know you don't like confrontation,
08:14but I do think that it's a conversation that you should have with your father.
08:24I just don't know if it will break his heart or hurt his feelings if I tell him.
08:29And I just don't really want to find out.
08:31Your father is having a lot of influence on our lives right now.
08:40I've asked Baylen to have a conversation with her father.
08:44So you don't want Baylen to go communicate for you every time there's a concern.
08:49How do you feel about having a conversation with Alan?
08:56The next time we go to Roanoke they're coming with us.
09:11Okay.
09:12We got back from Roanoke last night.
09:14I really loved the venue we saw yesterday.
09:16However, I'm not telling my family about it
09:19because I know my mom probably won't be too happy
09:22because of Collin's family being there.
09:25And because I know my dad is really insistent on having the wedding in the backyard.
09:29It's my mommy.
09:33She's coming.
09:34Hey, mom.
09:36Hi.
09:37Hey, bae.
09:38What up?
09:39So your dad and I had like this little idea.
09:42Oh, you guys always have little ideas.
09:44The last little idea you had, we had therapy.
09:46Yeah, I think this one's better than therapy.
09:51Your mom and I want to celebrate your engagement.
09:54I was hoping that you guys would be open to maybe come to the house,
09:57bringing some of your buddies and having a big party.
09:59What do you think?
10:00Like an engagement party?
10:01Absolutely.
10:02Oh, my God.
10:03That would be so sweet.
10:06Surprise, surprise.
10:08We want to hold the engagement party
10:10because what better way to get involved in the wedding planning?
10:15And hopefully they see that we can pull things together when needed.
10:18So where is this party going to be?
10:20We're in the backyard.
10:22It's pretty amazing for Alan and Julie to offer their backyard.
10:26for an engagement party.
10:28But also at the same time, like this is definitely Alan's way of saying,
10:32hey, the backyard could definitely be a wedding spot for you guys.
10:35Bailyn really loved the venue that we saw yesterday.
10:38So I just don't want her to feel like she's being pushed in a certain direction.
10:42You would do all the inviting of your friends.
10:45We'll give you the time and the date for this weekend.
10:47Hopefully that gives people enough time.
10:49Is Sammy going to be there?
10:50Yeah, she's promised to fly out.
10:52Obviously, you know, she hates to fly, but she's been a little better lately, so...
10:57That sounds promising.
10:58Yeah.
10:59We're definitely excited for this, so...
11:01Thank you guys so much for putting this together.
11:04Yeah, thank you guys. I'm excited.
11:06I love you.
11:07Okay, love you.
11:08Bye.
11:09Bye.
11:10Okay, bye.
11:11I'm pretty excited for the engagement party.
11:14It's awful that they want to do something for us,
11:18but do you think that your parents throwing this kind of a party,
11:23they have some kind of ulterior motive behind it?
11:26Why do you think my dad has ulterior motives?
11:29I mean, your dad really does want us to have our wedding there.
11:34That's what I think.
11:36But regardless of their motives,
11:39I do think that you still need to be able to have that conversation with your dad
11:44regarding the boundaries in our relationship.
11:48I don't want to have that conversation.
11:50I understand where Colin's coming from,
11:53but my parents have been there through the ups and the downs of my tics and my condition,
11:58and they not only are my parents, but they're my best friends.
12:02So I know Colin sees it as my dad overstepping in our relationship,
12:06but I don't really want to talk to my dad.
12:19Phelan sounded so excited for the engagement party.
12:22Yeah.
12:23Listen, I'm going to the rental place tomorrow,
12:25and I'm ordering a tent,
12:27and generators with lights and tables with the chairs,
12:31games with the cornhole and things like that.
12:35It sounds fun.
12:36It sounds a little overboard and extra for an engagement party,
12:39but it sounds fun.
12:40You're lucky I'm not coming home with a bulldozer.
12:42Okay.
12:44It's a little much.
12:46It's a little much,
12:47but that aligns perfectly with who Al is.
12:51Not so much me.
12:52I would be like, all right, let's dump off some pizzas,
12:55throw in a couple of tables.
12:57Al's like, no, this is how it's going to roll.
13:00I'll help you do it.
13:03Yeah, I'm going to call the rental company tomorrow.
13:05You won't have to do hardly anything.
13:07Okay.
13:08Just be there and enjoy the whole thing.
13:11I'm going downstairs to get this stuff ready.
13:13I'm going to make sure I got everything, okay?
13:15Okay.
13:16It'll be fun.
13:17Oh, this is going to be epic.
13:18You got this, Al.
13:19We're both hands on the wheel.
13:20Turn in two, bitch.
13:21Are you excited to go to therapy?
13:22Yeah, I'm excited.
13:23Oh, you sound excited.
13:24You sound really excited.
13:25We're headed to couples counseling.
13:41The last time, it was pretty intense,
13:43so I'm a little bit nervous to see what's going to come up today.
13:47Especially with the engagement party right around the corner.
13:50Till Beth do us part.
13:52Nah, bitch.
13:54Did you invite your family to the party?
13:56Yeah, they're coming.
13:57It's just a long drive for them, as you know.
14:00But I do think that that is like the perfect time to maybe tell everybody.
14:05That you suck George Washington's .
14:08Tell everybody what venue we chose.
14:13Once we decide what it is, we can just tell everybody there.
14:16It does add a little bit of pressure.
14:19But if there's no deadline, I mean, we could be doing this for the next six months to another year of debating back and forth between venues.
14:27I think...
14:28I think you sucked Joe Biden's .
14:33I thought it was George Washington.
14:36You're changing up presidents on me.
14:39All right, we're here.
14:44I like the hand action.
14:46Can we sway him too?
14:47No.
14:48Okay.
14:49Hello.
14:50Hi.
14:51It's so good to see you again.
14:54It's nice to have you, Ben.
14:55Lovely.
14:56How are you?
14:57Good.
14:58Hey, Colin.
14:59How are you?
15:00Good.
15:01How are you?
15:02Good to see you again.
15:03How have you two been since the last time you were here?
15:06Lovely.
15:07I've been good.
15:08Yeah.
15:09I have been opening up a lot more about just things that overwhelm me or stress me out.
15:13And it's almost just, like, nice to be able to, like, talk about it.
15:17Ho, ho, ho your ass out the door, bitch.
15:21Berkey turkey beef jerky headass.
15:24That tick came from forever ago where I would make fun of my brother Berk by calling him that.
15:29Berkey turkey beef jerky headass.
15:31Banana whoop your ass.
15:33What are your own biscuits?
15:34Fat ass.
15:35Um, how's the wedding coming along?
15:38Wedding planning.
15:39We have seen a lot of venues.
15:42We have a lot of good options.
15:44My dad offered my back, my parents' backyard as a wedding venue.
15:48Okay.
15:51And that's where it stands.
15:52Yeah?
15:53Okay.
15:54It's just...
15:56It came from a good place.
15:58I think they're still just, in their own way, still trying to figure out how to let you go.
16:07Hmm.
16:08Do your parents trust the two of you?
16:14You don't think so?
16:15Hmm.
16:17I don't think they 100% trust us.
16:20Hmm.
16:21And why?
16:22Just making, like, big decisions.
16:27Like, whether it's the venues, or what career I want to go into, or healthcare, or taking care of Baylin.
16:35Mm-hmm.
16:36Their father's having a lot of influence on our lives right now.
16:43There's a lot of pressures that I'm feeling, so I've asked Baylin to have a conversation with her father about allowing us to be able to have the freedom to be able to make whatever choice.
17:01And she does not want to have that conversation.
17:04Okay.
17:07Collin keeps bringing it up.
17:08I just don't like the situation with it feeling like it's Collin versus my family.
17:14My parents will always be my parents, so what else do I do?
17:18Like, I see both sides, I understand both sides, but I just don't want to be in the middle.
17:23So, one of the things that I'm picking up on is that you are feeling the pressure.
17:28Yeah.
17:29And so, Baylin is the closest to her parents, and she's your fiancé, therefore it makes sense that you would want her support in having this conversation with them.
17:38I wonder what type of relationship you want with them.
17:44You don't want Baylin to go communicate for you every time there's a concern, right?
17:51Yeah.
17:52So, how do you feel about having a conversation with Alan?
17:59This is your future father-in-law, and right now you're...
18:10Alan's bald, and Chuck is bald, and Marlene's a dirty, fat, filthy, horny whore.
18:15Whoop!
18:16And Alan's going to be your future father-in-law.
18:20Uh, I've had a lot of conversations with Alan in the past.
18:24Mm-hmm.
18:25Nothing better happen to my kid.
18:27If she's over there on your watch and something happens to her, I will find you.
18:31I would like to have both of your blessings to have your daughter's hand in marriage.
18:36I don't really have an answer.
18:39Um...
18:43I don't know.
18:44It's really important that Colin does have that honest, direct conversation with Alan.
18:50If he continues to go through Baylin, there's a potential for miscommunication, lack of trust, and potentially even some more resentment.
19:02We can still both talk to him.
19:05Do you want me to sit there with you?
19:07I am fine with us both going and talking to him.
19:13Maybe he will, like, bring down his guard a little bit more if you're there.
19:21I don't know when the conversation with my dad will happen, but I'm a little nervous because I don't really know what he's going to say, don't really know how it's going to go.
19:29You can handle it, it just won't be...
19:34Comfortable.
19:35It won't be comfortable.
19:37It won't be.
19:41Alrighty.
19:42So we'll see you guys next time, and we'll check in and see how things have gone.
19:49Take care.
20:00Bing!
20:06Bitch.
20:08It's margarita time!
20:10Colin went out golfing tonight, but my sister just got here for the engagement party, and her and my mom are heading over to have drinks.
20:17I don't know much of the party plans for this weekend, however, what I do know is that this will be a great distraction from the conversation Colin wants me to have with my dad.
20:25And Sammy's definitely going to need a drink after flying with her OCD and her anxiety.
20:32And she just turned 21, so...
20:35Shut, shut!
20:36Sorry.
20:38Coming!
20:40Who the heck is here?
20:42Who the heck is here?
20:44Hi!
20:46Hi everybody!
20:48I'm going to need a drink too, because I'm going to have to tell them that Colleen and Marlene came to the wedding venue tour with us.
20:53Will you get the bartender so I, like, don't have to do anything?
20:56Nope, you don't have to do anything.
20:57We'll just hope it comes out fine.
20:59I'm just going to move that out of your way for a second.
21:02You just use this.
21:04God.
21:05All right.
21:06How was the travel here?
21:08It was just a flight.
21:10An anxiety, and then I got on the flight, landed, now I'm here.
21:13She's minimizing it.
21:14So you slide the plane.
21:15She's minimizing!
21:16You know I don't like to talk about my flights after I...
21:18No, you're like, I made it, I'm done.
21:20I have to wait like a week.
21:21I mean, I'm glad you're here, and you made it safe.
21:24Me too.
21:25Go feed on the ground.
21:26Yeah.
21:27I always hate flying with my anxiety, but I would never miss Balen's engagement party even though my parents threw it together last minute.
21:33Time that we spend together right now is so very meaningful because Balen's life is really going to change with getting married and whatever else comes after that.
21:42This isn't going to happen as frequently.
21:44It's going to be few and far between, so we have to take all the moments while we have them.
21:49Valenia!
21:50All right.
21:51We're just going to keep...
21:52Okay, do you guys want these?
21:53Yeah.
21:54She's already been drinking.
21:55Ooh, big old titties.
21:56All right.
21:57Okay.
21:58How's Bigman as a bartender?
21:59Oh, she's going up.
22:00You know, if she turned the thing around for Tiff, I'd...
22:04No.
22:05Like, you know.
22:06Okay.
22:07Cheers to being 21.
22:08Dick.
22:11No, absolutely not.
22:12No.
22:13Okay, you don't have to.
22:14I hate this.
22:15I just don't like tequila.
22:17Oh, I'm trying not to judge you, but I'm kind of judging you.
22:19Yeah.
22:20Our goal for the wedding is to help Balen expand her alcohol palette.
22:24Yeah.
22:26So, on a scale of one day, what's our excitement for the engagement party?
22:30How is the backyard looking?
22:32Your dad has spent more time on the mower.
22:34I'm like, I met him in the driveway the other day.
22:36I was like, you actually missed a blade of grass, and I think you should go back out there with the scissors.
22:42It might be overkill.
22:43It's okay.
22:44Al's vision seems to be coming together.
22:47It's with the high hopes for Colin and Balen to flip a switch and go,
22:51Oh, we definitely want our wedding here.
22:54So, I guess we're just going to see how it turns out.
22:57So, how was your trip to Roanoke that we haven't had a chance to chit-chat about?
23:03It was good.
23:04We had a really good barbecue.
23:06It was really, really nice.
23:07With like all his family or whatever?
23:08Cray cooked the best barbecue chicken.
23:10Yeah, I was just saying, would you eat?
23:11He made like homemade brownies with sprinkles on top.
23:14That's right up around.
23:15Barbecue chicken.
23:16Yeah.
23:17And then we went and saw a wedding venue that we decided last minute to see.
23:26Kind of like close to them?
23:28Yeah.
23:29Okay.
23:30It's a good distance.
23:31I couldn't.
23:32So, we looked at that and they ended up coming.
23:34They surprised me there by coming.
23:36What do you mean that they like surprised you at the venue?
23:41Like you didn't invite them?
23:42They just showed up?
23:43I turned around and they were right there.
23:45Did Colin invite them?
23:46Colin invited them.
23:48This is one of her biggest moments in life.
23:51And as a mother of the bride, I still haven't even been able to see any venues.
23:56I wish my parents were a little bit more involved because I feel like Colin inviting his family to the wedding venue that they toured stripped them of it a little bit, of experiencing that with their daughter.
24:06It was really nice.
24:11So, truly, how close do you think the two of you are to coming to a decision on the venue?
24:19We're coming to a conclusion.
24:20Okay.
24:21All right, ladies.
24:22Cheers to hopefully finding a wedding venue.
24:25Yep.
24:26Cheers to more of these girl dates.
24:27Or choosing one.
24:28And talking about future wedding plans after the venue is secured.
24:32Are you okay?
24:33Sweet.
24:34Cheers.
24:35Ready?
24:36Sweet.
24:37Cheers.
24:38Cheers to more planning.
24:39He's like .
24:40Oh, that was not a good ending.
24:42That's okay.
24:43And we have to really hurry up and pick up the red.
24:45Oh, my God.
24:46It's fine.
24:47Don't freak out.
24:48It's fine.
24:49Okay.
24:50Where's your towels?
24:51Yeah.
24:52Okay.
24:53I'm relieved that my mom knows now that Colin's sister and mom went on the tour.
24:56And moving forward, I would like to involve my family more.
24:59I mean, look how great they are at helping me clean up all my other messes.
25:02After I just cheers to more of these get-togethers.
25:05Let's do it.
25:06Yeah.
25:11Hi.
25:12Hi.
25:13Today's Van Collins engagement party, and it's looking pretty amazing.
25:17This is so beautiful.
25:19My dad is making this wedding venue decision really hard.
25:23We're making the right decision, right?
25:25I don't know, are we?
25:35Boys, let's go.
25:37Your dad needs help with the outdoor stuff, and it's gonna go right in that area over there.
25:43Today's Van Collins engagement party, and it's looking pretty amazing.
25:47But what we've set up today is just the beginning.
25:50And if they want to have the wedding in the backyard, I would build ten times better than this to have these guys have an amazing day.
25:56Hey, y'all.
25:57Lila!
25:58How are y'all?
25:59Hey, girlfriend.
26:00Okay, huggies.
26:01How are you?
26:02I'm so glad that you came to help.
26:03Thanks.
26:04Oh, yes.
26:05Okay, we're gonna throw these over here for now.
26:06Is there a lot of people gonna be here?
26:07Probably 50 or more.
26:08Today, I am mostly excited about the food table.
26:10Mostly the desserts.
26:11That's where I'm gonna spend most of my time.
26:12The backyard definitely looks way better than I expected.
26:13There's a tent, food, tables, chairs.
26:14Like, literally everything.
26:15Kobe.
26:16Is there anything missing from this party?
26:17I would add a DJ.
26:18Then I would add, like, maybe a surprise gift, like a car for one lucky, like, brother.
26:22Like me?
26:23Like, one who's like 17.
26:24Sammy's out getting the cake.
26:25So I'm so excited about the food table.
26:26I'm so excited about the food table.
26:27Mostly the desserts.
26:28That's where I'm gonna be spending most of my time.
26:29The backyard definitely looks way better than I expected.
26:30There's a tent, food, tables, chairs.
26:31Like, literally everything.
26:32Kobe.
26:33Is there anything missing from this party?
26:34I would add a DJ.
26:35Then I would add, like, maybe, like, a surprise gift.
26:36Like, a car.
26:37For, like, one lucky, like, brother.
26:39Like me?
26:40Like, one who's like 17.
26:43Sammy's out getting the cake.
26:44So, oh my gosh, I appreciate you so much.
26:47Yeah, of course.
26:49That's just weird because it's feeling very wedding-esque.
26:51I know.
26:52Are you so excited though?
26:53Like, how do you feel about, like, all the planning and everything?
26:56I don't know.
26:57It's just odd still because I haven't really contributed anything to her planning.
27:03So this feels like this is my opportunity to do something.
27:08Yeah.
27:09No, I'm excited to see, uh, what wedding venue she picks.
27:12Did you know that her father wants it to be here?
27:15Has she told you that?
27:16Oh, no.
27:17I didn't know that.
27:18Low key though?
27:19Yeah.
27:20I mean, it would be amazing.
27:21Like, that would be amazing.
27:22Maybe she'll see this and be like, okay, this is, this will work.
27:25Like, overwhelmed with trying to sell this backyard venue idea.
27:31I've come around to seeing the benefits of having the wedding here.
27:35And I can see the potential, especially how everything is coming together.
27:39But it's, like, exhausting at the same time.
27:41It's like, Elle, like, when do we stop?
27:44These look good.
27:45I'm sending her inside.
27:46I'm sending her inside.
27:47Like, then they're engaging rings.
27:48I'm sending her inside to make some punch.
27:50It's kind of funny, actually, how hard we're trying.
27:55Well, that's all set up over there.
27:57Okay.
27:58Got it.
27:59What else do you have to do?
28:00This is literally it for me.
28:01Listen, this looks amazing.
28:02I got it.
28:03Those look really pretty.
28:04I'm stressing.
28:05I got a surprise coming for Palin.
28:07I got alpacas coming here.
28:09What alpacas?
28:10From the farm that we went through.
28:12Oh, I can't.
28:13We're not bringing alpacas here today.
28:15They're coming right over here.
28:16Put them in the yard.
28:17I literally can't with you.
28:18No, I'm selling this whole outside venue.
28:20This whole thing.
28:21I'm going to be one of those event planners.
28:22I'm going to get a suit.
28:23Oh, .
28:24The alpaca surprise is so next level.
28:27But I kind of wouldn't expect anything less from him.
28:31If he's going to do a surprise, he's going all in.
28:35I just can't believe he went that far in.
28:38Everything looks so good.
28:41Yeah, this looks amazing.
28:42I'm going to go get dressed.
28:43And you have to get dressed, too,
28:44because you're dripping sweat.
28:45We missing anything?
28:47Yeah.
28:48The alpacas, apparently.
28:49For the love.
28:50Ha!
28:51You ready?
28:52Yep.
28:53Hey, y'all.
28:54Hey.
28:55Can you clean up, Nas?
28:56Oh, they're here.
28:57They're here.
28:58They're here.
28:59They're here.
29:00Oh, my gosh.
29:01I am so excited.
29:02Today is our engagement party day.
29:06And we finally made the decision about our wedding venue.
29:09And we are going to tell all of our guests.
29:12Hi.
29:13Hi.
29:14Hi.
29:15They look good.
29:16Oh, my gosh.
29:17They kind of overdid themselves.
29:19What do you think?
29:20It's amazing.
29:21Oh, my God.
29:22Y'all got wood tables and everything?
29:23My initial reaction to everything being set up was,
29:24I got one.
29:25Alan really went all out with this.
29:26He went full throttle.
29:27And it's amazing.
29:28Mm-hmm.
29:29What do you think, sweetheart?
29:30Oh, my God.
29:31You guys are amazing.
29:32Oh, my gosh.
29:33They kind of overdid themselves.
29:34What do you think?
29:35It's amazing.
29:36Oh, my God.
29:37Y'all got wood tables and everything?
29:38My initial reaction to everything being set up was,
29:41I got one.
29:43Alan really went, like, all out with this.
29:46He went full throttle.
29:47And it's amazing.
29:48Mm-hmm.
29:49What do you think, sweetheart?
29:50Oh, my God.
29:51You guys are amazing.
29:52Is that the alpaca bench that you made?
29:54Yeah.
29:55Come on.
29:56Do you want to come?
29:57Find a spot in your apartment because it's going there.
30:00We wanted to have a tough conversation with my dad.
30:03Give your alpaca a kiss.
30:05Today's not the day.
30:07Not the day, not the time.
30:09This one's not going to spit in your face.
30:11One, two, three.
30:14I think that a conversation like that definitely needs to be had.
30:18But having it on a day like this would just ruin the moment.
30:22My mom's a swinger.
30:24It's okay.
30:26It's okay.
30:27Where did that one go?
30:28We were talking about these people we know that we think are swingers.
30:30And that was on the way here.
30:31It's all good.
30:34This is so beautiful.
30:36It's so rustic.
30:37This is beginner level, Baylin.
30:38Oh, it's beautiful though.
30:39For a wedding, this could be like advanced.
30:41You can see the look though.
30:42You can see the look.
30:43No, it's so perfect.
30:44Yeah, it's so cute.
30:46My dad is making this wedding venue decision really hard.
30:51Everything that he did, he made absolutely beautiful and unforgettable like spot on.
30:58Your dad really did go above and beyond for this.
31:02All out.
31:03It's amazing.
31:04I mean, it's amazing.
31:05Those and I are having a problem.
31:09Let's just switch sides.
31:11Well, I don't want you to smash the cookies either.
31:13Okay.
31:14So just keep a proper distance.
31:15Okay.
31:16Okay.
31:17Right here.
31:18Yep.
31:19Out of reach.
31:20Yep.
31:21Here we go.
31:22This is so perfect.
31:23I didn't think that it could look like this.
31:25Like I...
31:27I didn't see the vision either.
31:29I didn't envision any of this.
31:30It makes me change my mind and now I'm stressed.
31:37We're making the right decision, right?
31:43I don't know, are we?
31:46I mean, I could really picture the wedding back here.
31:49Could you?
31:50Yeah.
31:52Seeing how good the backyard looks makes me question if we're making the right decision.
31:56Like, this just makes my heart happy.
31:59I was definitely feeling that set against it before.
32:02But now, Vaylin's second guessing the wedding venue choice and I kind of am too.
32:07I don't know.
32:08I don't know.
32:09I don't know.
32:10I don't know.
32:11I don't know.
32:12I don't know.
32:14I don't know.
32:26Are we really just flipping everything?
32:32All right.
32:33Well, we can talk about it later.
32:34After seeing this amazing engagement party set up, it can only make me wonder what they
32:39would do for the wedding.
32:41And it's making me a little nervous because we have to announce our wedding venue and I'm
32:47second guessing it.
32:50Oh, my family's here.
32:51Hello.
32:52Hey, guys.
32:53Hey, Mom.
32:54Hey.
32:55Hi, Mom.
32:56Hi, Mom.
32:57Thanks for coming.
32:58Hey, Mom.
32:59Hey, Mom.
33:00It's just a really special day.
33:01Four years ago, I would have never pictured myself here now.
33:04I've gone from needing my parents and living with them to being independent and growing.
33:25Having Colin in my life has made me the person I am today.
33:33I feel like we're doing vows right now.
33:35Damn.
33:51Hi.
33:52You look beautiful.
33:53How are you?
33:54Great.
33:55It's been a few months since Olivia has visited from Tulsa.
33:58I'm glad she's here, but we do set each other's tics off.
34:01I trust in terms of the wedding.
34:03Same.
34:05So have you, like, found a wedding venue?
34:08Um, we've seen a lot of them and it's just really hard.
34:13Yeah.
34:19So do you guys know anything about the venue?
34:21I know that you looked at one wedding.
34:23Yeah.
34:24Yeah.
34:25It is amazing.
34:26Mountains, 360 views.
34:27Very private.
34:28Yeah.
34:30I think it's a very high contender.
34:32I do.
34:33Like, have they come over to you and said, like, hey, that's the one?
34:37No.
34:38Because I know that they've looked at a few.
34:40They haven't really said if this is the right one or not.
34:42Yeah.
34:43Like, really they haven't?
34:44Mm-mm.
34:45No.
34:46No, they haven't really.
34:47No, they have not said this is the one.
34:48Yeah.
34:49Hopefully they give us some clarity.
34:50I know.
34:51I hope so.
34:52I hope so, too.
34:54them kids.
34:55Yep.
34:56Yep.
35:00Aw.
35:01Sammy looks so good.
35:02Sammy!
35:03Hi.
35:04You are so very gorgeous.
35:05I love you, but we gotta put that down.
35:06I know.
35:07Let's go walk it up.
35:08Okay.
35:09You're bald, Chuck.
35:11Just in case you weren't aware already.
35:12Yeah.
35:13Stay away from the gate.
35:14I know.
35:15I'm trying to stay away from everything.
35:16I'm excited.
35:17It's really cute.
35:18You like it?
35:19It's so cute.
35:20You could have a wedding out here now.
35:21Oh, good lord.
35:22Thanks, Sammy!
35:23It's bottom barrel, but it's not bad.
35:26Well, from where I'm standing, the barrel looks pretty good.
35:29It looks pretty bad.
35:30I think it's great.
35:31It's a glimpse of what the wedding could be if they wanted the wedding here.
35:34But I think you did a great job.
35:37My surprise is here.
35:39Oh, my gosh.
35:40I'm going down the driveway.
35:43Perfect.
35:44Oh, hey, everybody.
35:47Holy .
35:48She's going to lose her mind.
35:50Hi, Scooby.
35:52Hi.
35:53When we were at an alpaca farm for Easter, Balen really, really bonded with one particular
36:01alpaca named Scooby.
36:03Yeah, Scooby just turned two.
36:05Good boy.
36:06Would I be able to particularly have Scooby at the wedding?
36:10If you want Scooby there, we'll make sure Scooby's at your wedding.
36:13So I really knew I had to get him here today.
36:16This is going to be absolutely amazing.
36:18You can't wait to see the look on her face.
36:20Oh, my God.
36:22Oh, my God.
36:23What?
36:28What?
36:29Good job.
36:30Good job.
36:31This is Scooby.
36:32Oh, my God.
36:33It's Scooby.
36:34Scooby.
36:35I love you.
36:36Thank you so much.
36:37You look so good.
36:38Thanks for making my kids smile.
36:39Thank you so much.
36:40Thank you so much.
36:41You're so welcome, Balen.
36:42I love you, and I wanted you to have me.
36:43This makes my entire day.
36:44It was just really thoughtful.
36:45I feel like my dad knows just how much alpacas calm me down and help my anxiety.
36:49Honestly, what a great day.
36:50I really don't like surprises, but this was the best surprise I've ever had.
36:55It was pretty amazing.
37:06Her face, it was like, ingrained, like I'll never forget it.
37:11This is the happiest I've seen Balen in a while.
37:16the happiest i've seen balen in a while you know because we see a lot of ups and downs
37:23so just to see this one moment of like authentic pure joy it's amazing okay come on turn it around
37:36oh you say that's you it means everything to me to make balen happy and i'm pretty sure balen
37:43understands just the distance that her dad will go to make her happy alan's bald we have to make a
37:51decision on the venue we still have a really big decision to make today like the clock is sticking
37:59are we on the same page take it up the ass i think i think we are
38:11come on in this moment i am extremely overwhelmed and anxious um and colin will be doing all the
38:19talking suck at you right here yeah all right hey everybody can we get you guys to come over here
38:27we just have uh an announcement and everything oh boy what do they have to tell us it's a boy
38:32chuck is bald alan is bald jv does crystal math with joe biden okay keep talking i'm just
38:44in between so we just wanted to thank everybody for coming out here friends family like this means a
38:49lot to us we wanted to give a big shout out to julian allen for hosting an event like this
38:54it means a lot you guys did an amazing job for a living so thank you guys god let's just throw that
39:01one out there poor colin can't make it through a sentence so in the quest for a wedding venue it
39:07has been our number one priority to find something that balen feels comfortable with and that in and
39:14of itself has been pretty eventful trying to find the right one that checks all of the boxes
39:19it's been a really really hard decision because of all the great options that we have with that being
39:25said where we will be having our wedding will be at
39:32miss it bitch
39:48and all nantucket they all wankers nantucket you forgot your dildo in the airport
39:56i'm on the struggle bus with the dildo tech i mean you're thinking about getting the real estate
40:01yeah i am as a realtor you're an independent contractor and so health care can be challenging
40:06i don't care who it upsets i'm gonna do what's best for me and what i think is best for the both
40:11of us if this doesn't work out what are you gonna do it's getting harder for sammy to come here with
40:18her anxiety and her thoughts so this just adds to it
40:21i really wish that sammy could be here wedding planning can be a little scary we've gone back and
40:30we've crunched the numbers we're going to need them to kind of like come back down to earth
40:35i want us to have kids sooner than later you're throwing me for another lube
40:40if you can't take care of you then you can't take care of a child
40:44you remember the link i sent you on the device
40:47yes the new pulse so this device that sits on your hand like a watch could cut her text almost in half
40:54i would love to try this device it's not available here if if you did want to try you'd have to go to
41:00the uk i'm afraid
41:01hello london okay here we go next stop piccadilly circus pick a dick bitch
41:13spotted dick dick there's a guy over there in the corner laughing at me
41:18this device would make situations like today a lot less stressful
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