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00:00When I leave the house, I have to click the lights
00:03three times before me because if I only do it once,
00:05then something bad's going to happen on the way to the airport.
00:08Sammy's anxiety and OCD becomes disabling.
00:11I can only say certain things.
00:13She has done a very good job at hiding it,
00:17but it has become more difficult.
00:22We have been talking about our marriage,
00:25and it started with some premarital counseling.
00:30If someone gets involved in our relationship
00:33or marriage too much, where does it end?
00:38Colin, did anything come up for you?
00:40I've been holding on to something for a while now,
00:44and it's not easy to say out loud
00:46because I know it's going to affect Baylen.
00:48Um...
00:55So, Colin, did anything come up for you
01:07that you thought would be important to bring up together?
01:11Yeah, I mean, there is something I want to talk about.
01:16Yeah.
01:17So, obviously...
01:19Dick.
01:20You know that here soon I have to make, like, a career decision.
01:23Mm-hmm.
01:24That is, like, a super, like, heavy burden
01:30that I guess I could say that I have.
01:34I feel like the pressure is on me to either stay in the military
01:38or go into some kind of government job.
01:41Mm-hmm.
01:42That way we have health insurance.
01:44Being able to have that kind of benefits,
01:46especially with someone with her condition,
01:48I know is, like, huge.
01:52But I don't necessarily really want to do either one of those things.
01:57Right.
02:00I've been in the military for about five years now,
02:02and my contract will be expiring in about a year.
02:07I joined at 19, and I was just a kid, immature.
02:12The military is the reason that I'm the man who I am.
02:15But now I'm headed into a completely different phase of life,
02:19and lately I've been wondering if there's a different career path
02:24for me outside of the military.
02:26But if I do decide to change careers,
02:28I need a job that I'm going to be successful in,
02:31be happy in,
02:33and also still be able to provide for me and my family.
02:35I feel like I'm being pulled almost, and so it's just like...
02:41Between what?
02:42Like, family members and friends, especially your dad,
02:46want me to, like, choose a career path that's secured financially,
02:51and it scares me that I, like, may not go in that direction
02:55that everyone else wants me to go in.
02:57Yeah, but none of that would make you happy.
03:01Yeah.
03:02Colin discussed feeling really concerned
03:05about the expectations from family and friends,
03:07stressors that he's been holding in for quite some time.
03:11And while a lot of couples struggle financially,
03:14they're already dealing with more of a challenge
03:16as a result of Phelan's conditions.
03:19Do you feel like it is solely on you
03:21to provide for the both of you and your future family financially?
03:26Yeah, I mean, it's just really hard for her to work a regular job,
03:28so it kind of has to be, like, on me to be able to make the main source of income.
03:35That's a lot of pressure on you.
03:37Yeah.
03:38There's a lot that goes on trying to take care of Phelan on a day-to-day basis.
03:43Just the weight of trying to fill the shoes of her parents,
03:48making sure that she's okay, she's taking her medicine,
03:52taking care of three dogs, the weight of expenses in the future.
03:56It's a lot, and I have to make sure that I don't let it affect Phelan.
04:01I don't let Phelan see that I have all of this going on up here.
04:05But it is weighing on me a lot, and everyone has a breaking point somewhere.
04:10I just don't want to hit mine.
04:11So what I hear you saying, Colin, is that you don't want to bring her that stress.
04:18You don't want to share that with her.
04:20But, like, I don't want you to hold it, like, into yourself.
04:24Like, you wouldn't want me to do that to myself.
04:27Yeah, but it's different.
04:28And, like, when I hear that, it just is, like...
04:30It's different, though.
04:31It's like you already have a lot of moving parts in your life.
04:34So then for me to, like, add on, like, my stress to that,
04:39I don't want to do that to you.
04:41Like, I don't want you to be overwhelmed and be stressed out.
04:45Like, it's just, like, that way, like, it almost makes me feel like,
04:50like, okay, I have to do this on my own, in a way.
04:54Oh, I don't want you to feel like that.
04:56Yeah.
04:58I'm hearing that you're also struggling with other people's opinions
05:04and separating that from yours and mine.
05:08Like, you don't want to upset them or, like, not please everybody.
05:14Kind of like how I am.
05:16I knew that Colin was stressed about his career,
05:19but I didn't know that he was this overwhelmed.
05:23This is something I've always worried about.
05:26Because with my Tourette and other conditions, it can be a lot.
05:30Not just for me, but also for Colin to take on as my partner.
05:34So the last thing I want is Colin to protect me
05:36from these type of difficult subjects.
05:38It's not healthy for him or our relationship.
05:41It breaks my heart that he's been keeping this in.
05:44You don't want to put anything onto me, and I understand that.
05:51However, you doing that is hurting yourself,
05:55and I don't want to feel disconnected from you.
05:58Regarding the pressure he feels from family and friends' opinions,
06:03I know it sucks because I feel it too.
06:05I feel like I'm stuck in the middle of Colin and them.
06:08And that's going to be a harder issue for me to address because I usually see both sides.
06:12Everything that everyone else says almost shouldn't be a burden.
06:18And I know that it's still going to be.
06:20Mm-hmm.
06:21And I'm telling you, like, suck fat .
06:27I'm telling you that, like, that's between us.
06:29That's not between my dad, your parents, no one.
06:32And if we believe that it can work, then it'll happen.
06:42It's just really nice to know that no matter what I decide, she just wants me to be happy.
06:49You have a few things to focus on until I see you next.
06:52Thank you so much.
06:53But I still have a lot to figure out with our financial future,
06:59and I have a feeling Alan isn't really going to let it go until I make some real decisions.
07:03What you say to me?
07:11You're telling me what to do.
07:13Don't let the rules down.
07:15If me or cut you, we're independent.
07:18We've got the hot wheels.
07:20We've got a little cash.
07:22You have to keep it from here.
07:23Hey!
07:24Can I just do something?
07:27What?
07:28What are we doing?
07:29I'm starting something for a project.
07:31Don't try to block it.
07:35You're clearly trying to hide something, which is weird.
07:41I'm making something for someone.
07:42It's a surprise.
07:43Okay.
07:43What?
07:44Right?
07:45You're acting weird.
07:48I can usually tell when Al has something up his sleeve,
07:51and there's always something crazy going on in this head of his,
07:54where he's conjuring up some silly ideas.
07:56The sooner I find out, the better, because this is just awkward.
07:59Yeah, so I've been working on a surprise for Balen, just in case she can or can't have
08:06certain things at her wedding.
08:08But we don't know that much about her wedding or her venue yet.
08:10Like, we only know she needs the dogs there.
08:13That's really all we know, so I don't know how you are coming up with this and thinking that it's
08:20just going to fit into whatever.
08:22It's going to fit in.
08:23Yeah.
08:23It's going to fit in.
08:26So here's the deal.
08:26I've been thinking a lot about Balen's wedding and how sensitive she is to her surroundings.
08:32And I want to pitch an idea to her.
08:34But before I pitch it, I want her to envision it.
08:38And that's what my secret little project is all about.
08:40Do you want it to be a surprise for me, too?
08:42Am I not allowed to see this again?
08:43Yes, of course.
08:44I'm just going to do this, and I'm just going to show you this.
08:46And then you can say, wow.
08:48Or you can say, that's never going anywhere.
08:51Will you let Sammy and Burke see it when they fly in for their long summer weekend with their
08:55mom and dad?
08:56Yeah.
08:57So you're telling me it's going to be done for the weekend?
09:00Yeah.
09:01And the longer you bother me about it, the less I'm working on this.
09:05You know what I mean?
09:06Like, I got to get some things done.
09:10I'm a little nervous.
09:11I mean, with the wedding coming up and with Balen's condition, we know that she needs help.
09:18But I also don't want us to overstep our boundaries.
09:24Okay.
09:25But I guess I have no choice but to wait and see what's up Alan's sleeve in this carving situation.
09:32Yep, hurry up and wait.
09:35I can still see you.
09:38And I have so many questions for you.
09:40So many questions.
09:44Hi, baby.
09:46Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
09:48They live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
09:51Did I tell you guys that me and Connor are in premarital therapy?
09:54I didn't know he was carrying stress with like the future and him getting out of the military.
09:58And because he knows you can't work a normal job.
10:01Yeah.
10:01I want to show you something that we got outside.
10:06What?
10:06Yeah, what are we doing?
10:08Julie doesn't have a clue.
10:10I keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined,
10:15is to invite her into my mind space on these.
10:18You're being creepy and weird right now.
10:20It means brush your teeth for the day.
10:35Flop gets a whole one.
10:36We have no food.
10:42Are you not hungry?
10:44No.
10:44We can go grocery shopping and get food and then we can cook something.
10:48Okay.
10:48So what are you up to today?
10:50Any plans?
10:51I am going to go hang out with Sammy and Burke.
10:54She finally got to be able to be on a plane because of her OCD and all of her rituals, so.
11:00Yeah, that's good.
11:00I'm glad.
11:01How are you feeling after therapy?
11:03Fine.
11:07I'm like, I feel closer.
11:10Mm-hmm.
11:10I don't know how I feel.
11:13What?
11:13I feel fine.
11:17Okay.
11:19After one session of premarital counseling, this marriage stuff is getting
11:23down in Dallas.
11:25It's getting real.
11:28Stop.
11:28I knew you were going to laugh.
11:29I look over and there's just a...
11:30I didn't know that you carried a lot of weight and a lot of burden on your shoulders with finances
11:38and wedding planning and saving money and the stress of work and the unknown of that.
11:47I had no idea.
11:47Yeah.
11:49I just don't want you to carry the stress by yourself.
11:55I can handle some stress.
11:59I honestly really appreciate Baylen saying that she wants to help out with
12:03all of the burdens that I've been carrying, but there's a reason why I haven't, you know,
12:09brought this out to her and it's because I know that stressful stuff sets off her anxiety.
12:16But a part of this whole counseling thing is learning to trust. If she says that I need to
12:21be open about something, then I need to be. Let's talk about some of the big expenses that we have
12:27coming up.
12:29Do I need to get out my calculator for this?
12:31Wedding. House, eventually.
12:35Bachelor, bachelorette trip.
12:37Honeymoon.
12:38Let's stop adding all of this stuff.
12:41A lot of money right there.
12:45It's okay. It's fine.
12:46So, I mean, we need to find ways to be able to save money so that we can be able to not have to worry
12:53about all of those in the next year.
12:57What do we cut?
12:59Well, we spend a lot of money on...
13:00Dick. Sorry.
13:02Good?
13:03Yeah.
13:03Sure?
13:04Yep.
13:05Dick.
13:05Yep.
13:05Dick.
13:06Okay, here we go.
13:08I mean, we can start cutting by you not shopping as much.
13:18It's so hard to save when your love language is overpriced deliveries
13:23and shopping. It's kind of hard.
13:26Every day, she's looking on some website.
13:31The reason why I have, like, the shopping addiction is because I don't go out and regularly
13:37go shopping because of my tics.
13:41No, you're just addicted all around.
13:45Well, you name it, I got it.
13:49Just about.
13:50Wow.
13:51Also, if we can start cooking more meals here,
13:54the both of us not ordering food deliveries.
13:56Yep.
13:57We do that a lot.
13:58A lot.
13:59Wow.
14:00I really want to cook more, but as you know, as we get later into the day and, like,
14:04making meals and, like, just with my tics, it gets a lot harder. So I know that I go to almost,
14:11like, ordering food as, like, a comfort because I'm just too scared. But I feel like I can, like,
14:17come out of my comfort zone a little bit because I need, we need to save some money.
14:20Mm-hmm. I would appreciate that.
14:25The more we talk about it, the more I realize this isn't going to be easy.
14:28You little bitch.
14:29Yep.
14:30But we're going to try.
14:31Yep.
14:32You little bitch.
14:35What is setting that dick off?
14:37I don't know.
14:45We're going to have a good time.
14:46We're going to have a good time.
14:47Get your paper off.
14:49We're going to have a good time.
14:50We're going to have a good time.
14:51Yeah.
14:51Live it up.
14:53Live it up.
14:57Bitch.
14:59Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
15:01They both live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
15:04So we're meeting up in a bar around my neighborhood.
15:10Where are Burke and Sammy?
15:14I don't like this.
15:22Of course they're late.
15:24I absolutely hate walking into anywhere alone.
15:29It's kind of like torture because I am just worried about the other people's reactions that are in the building.
15:44Oh, thank God they're here.
15:46Oh, thank God.
15:46My baby.
15:49Don't ever let me be the first one at the function ever again.
15:52Hi, baby.
15:54I love you.
15:56I haven't seen Sammy in a long time.
15:59You look so good with your hair like this.
16:01Oh, thanks.
16:03She has severe OCD and anxiety, so it's always been hard for her to leave her comfort and travel home.
16:10Hi, Burke.
16:11What's up, babe?
16:12What's up?
16:13What's up?
16:14My oldest brother Burke's living in Tampa.
16:16He is currently honestly thriving down there and loves it.
16:21How was your flight today?
16:22I was worried that you weren't going to get on the plane.
16:23Dude, I was at mass this flight.
16:26I can't get up and walk around, but I like can't sit still.
16:28I like can't watch a movie.
16:30I just, it's just a lot.
16:33Traveling with my OCD and flying is-
16:36Obsessive compulsive dick.
16:38Disorder is very challenging for me and some days are harder than others.
16:44Objection!
16:46Where the is the function?
16:47Your mom has one life and she's 30% off this week.
16:50It's very common for Baylin to have new tics after you haven't seen her in a while because
16:55she can pick up anything from a TV show, a movie, music.
17:00Take a dick.
17:02Self-serve that dick.
17:03They don't really surprise me that much anymore because there's been some crazy ones.
17:07Yeah.
17:07I mean, you really can't get much more crazy, especially with that airport one with the gun.
17:10Yeah.
17:10You know what I mean?
17:11I have a gun.
17:13Oh my God, it's right there.
17:16I have a gun.
17:17Maybe try to whisper it.
17:20Is it going to play truffleboard?
17:21Yeah.
17:22Yeah, sure.
17:24So, do you want to be red or blue?
17:27I'll be blue.
17:27So, we're going to try to knock each other's off.
17:29Wait, this is going to take a little bit because you just got to barely let go of the thing.
17:34Oh, that one broke.
17:36Not bad though.
17:37Bro.
17:39So, now you want to try to knock his off because, oh, right.
17:43The three of us being the oldest and hanging out is a lot different than like the three younger
17:47ones hanging out because we're not fighting over boogers or like baseball bats.
17:54Too hard.
17:55That's what she said.
17:56Your mom's too hard.
17:59That's money too.
18:02Bitch.
18:05I'm exhausted.
18:07We should have stretched out beforehand.
18:08Dude.
18:09Did I tell you guys that me and Connor are in pre-marital therapy?
18:13So, who brought that up?
18:14Mom and dad.
18:15I think it's a great idea.
18:16I'm all for it.
18:17It's great to be on the same page about children.
18:20Like, do you want to go to church every Sunday?
18:22Do you want to do this stuff?
18:23How?
18:23And we're so...
18:24Well, some of that stuff should be basic conversations you have with each other.
18:26Yes, like there's multiple things.
18:28Like, I didn't know he was carrying stress with like the future and him getting out of the military.
18:32Saving enough, having enough money for all these expenses and all these things.
18:36And because he knows you can't work a normal job.
18:39It's hard for me to work a nine to five as much as I would love to.
18:42It's hard with my tics.
18:45Yeah.
18:46But I do want to help contribute in like some way.
18:51Yeah.
18:53So, what's Colin's plan after he gets out of the military?
18:56He doesn't honestly know.
18:58He officially gets out next year.
19:00Kind of like that's when he'll like be transitioning out to his next job if he has one.
19:04What do you...
19:05If he has one?
19:06Yeah.
19:08I mean, it's important when you have a job, you don't want to leave it until something else is lined up there.
19:12I know.
19:12That's the thing.
19:15I can definitely sympathize with Colin because
19:19the responsibility and due diligence of taking care of not only yourself but two people and
19:26providing for dogs and doing all that, I definitely empathize with him.
19:31But I think it's also like a you know what you signed up for.
19:34You knew she couldn't work a normal job.
19:36He needs to find like steady income, a job.
19:38Yeah.
19:38Not even a stable job.
19:39Just a providing job for the both of them.
19:42But it's not our job to tell him what's job.
19:44Yes.
19:44You know what I mean?
19:45Yes.
19:45He's got to come up with that himself.
19:46It's...
19:47I'm not going to go to Colin and be like,
19:48Hey, you need a 40 hour work week with health insurance and this.
19:54That's my dad's.
19:55My dad can do that.
19:57I just think it's hard for you.
19:58Like, let's say he gets out of the military and then waits like six months,
20:01like Burke did after college for a job.
20:03Who knows on the time frame?
20:04Yes.
20:05That's why he's stressed.
20:10I do love spending time with Burke and Sammy.
20:12However, they both do have very strong opinions.
20:15They're very, very protective of me.
20:18Weaning.
20:19All right.
20:19That's okay.
20:20Do you want a nap?
20:22No, let's just go.
20:25Colin and I just talked about in therapy the pressure he feels
20:28when my family weighs in on our business.
20:31If Sammy and Burke are doing all this questioning,
20:33I can't even imagine what my parents are going to think.
20:39This is the first time that I've had a solid,
20:41tight group of girlfriends.
20:43Pump that dick, bitch.
20:45It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus
20:48isn't about finding Colin's future.
20:52It's great.
20:54It's great.
21:00Between therapy and wedding planning lately,
21:11things have been very stressful.
21:14So since Colin is working late tonight,
21:17I'm having a girl's night where we are just going to let loose
21:19and have tons of fun.
21:21Take a dick, bitch.
21:22I'm having a girl's night.
21:28Since I moved to DC, I actually met a lot of new people
21:31through my best friend Lila, as well as through Colin's friends.
21:35Okay, so who's in charge of the liquor?
21:37Wait, aren't you a bartender?
21:38Oh, yeah.
21:39There we go.
21:41This is the first time that I've had a solid,
21:43tight group of girlfriends.
21:47It's great.
21:47So how's your wedding planning going?
21:51We've looked at one venue.
21:53When we went there, it was beautiful.
21:54It had these huge stairs that were filled with flowers.
21:57However, it's very echoey, which turned out to be
22:01a very big trigger.
22:02I'm just hearing myself echo as I tick.
22:05Me and Colin agreed that it just wasn't the right place for us.
22:08It's going to be somewhere where you're comfortable.
22:10The first time that I met Baylen, she was ticking,
22:13but at the same time, for me personally,
22:15I grew up having a friend that had Tourette's,
22:16so I kind of already knew what it was and that
22:19it's an uncontrollable thing and it's worse to hold him in
22:21than it is to just let it all out.
22:23And so she would tick and then we'd just kind of move on
22:26with our conversation.
22:27There were some other things that I didn't realize
22:28that I didn't like.
22:30Like, I didn't like circle tables because, like,
22:32it only got you secluded to the people that were at your table.
22:35So I kind of want, like, long tables,
22:37and then I would want to be separated, like him and I.
22:40Like a sweetheart table?
22:42Mm-hmm.
22:42Oh, that's, I love that.
22:43Honestly, having a sweetheart table was so nice.
22:45Like at, like, my wedding, because it was like,
22:47we got to sit there and enjoy each other.
22:49Mm-hmm.
22:50And not be surrounded by a bunch of people.
22:51Mm.
22:52The fact that my tics are not being brought up,
22:55like, no one's just dying laughing out of anywhere.
22:57That's why I pause it.
22:58I feel accepted and I feel like I belong in this group
23:02because we're all just being ourselves.
23:04Cheers.
23:05Two broselights.
23:06Boys.
23:07This is so strong.
23:14Okay, so I'm going to do something you guys have never seen before
23:16and I'm going to make us all some cotton candy.
23:17Oh, my gosh.
23:18It's cotton candy.
23:19Has anybody ever made cotton candy before?
23:21A long time ago.
23:22Absolutely.
23:22I have never.
23:25It's coming out.
23:26Look at it.
23:26Pump that dick, bitch.
23:28Oh, my gosh.
23:29That looks good.
23:31Oh, thank you.
23:32That's literally perfect.
23:34A little sugar hangover.
23:35By the way, with wedding planning, me and Colin decided
23:38that we were going to start premarital therapy.
23:41One thing that was brought up was finances and saving money
23:46and it's kind of like this huge stress that he has with this,
23:49like, him getting out of the military.
23:51So when you heard Colin say that in that bitch,
23:56is that something that, like, you knew that he was feeling?
23:59No.
24:00And I know it was hard for him to say it.
24:02He's, like, holding it onto himself,
24:03thinking that, like, I can't help him.
24:06Hearing that Balin and Colin are doing premarital counseling,
24:09I thought was really inspiring.
24:10And I think that's something that a lot of newlyweds
24:13or fiancés aren't really talking about as much anymore
24:16when it used to be a lot more common to do,
24:18especially with what she's dealing with, her Tourette syndrome.
24:21They can set themselves up for a healthy marriage
24:23and hopefully for the rest of their life.
24:25So I was like, you know what?
24:27We'll save money with, like, not ordering out so much.
24:30And it's like, okay, well, now I have to start making food.
24:33So fun times.
24:34So what kind of foods are you going to be making?
24:36I haven't figured that out yet.
24:37That's a good question.
24:38What happened?
24:38We should figure that out.
24:40We'll make a recipe book.
24:41Yeah.
24:41Ooh, that's a good idea.
24:42We could all literally send in our favorite recipes.
24:45Make sure to do half of it so I can put in the air fryer.
24:47I love the air fryer.
24:49We should get you a crock pot.
24:51Crock pot is so easy.
24:51You can just throw it in there in the morning, turn it on,
24:53and then you don't have to deal with it all day.
24:55And it's so nice.
24:56Crock pot.
24:57I have a gift for everybody.
24:59Right, punky boy?
25:00I have a gift.
25:02Tonight, I have a special fun surprise for my girls.
25:07Girls' night with a twist.
25:10Twist that dick around.
25:11Wrap it, slap it, tap it, that dick.
25:16Everybody, pick a bag.
25:17Ooh.
25:18Here you go.
25:18Just hand it to us.
25:19Oh, gosh.
25:21I'm scared.
25:21All right, can we open it?
25:22Ooh.
25:23Mine's multicolored.
25:24Mine is literally multicolored.
25:26I don't remember it.
25:27I got purple.
25:28So the theme for the night is wigs.
25:32This is so fun.
25:33Oh.
25:34I don't think I have my underwear.
25:35I love my underwear.
25:39This is what girls' night is all about.
25:41Show it, show it, show it, show it, show it.
25:44Oh, oh, oh.
25:46Oh, oh, oh, oh.
25:55We've had candy.
25:57We've had the jungle juice, like the crazy wigs.
25:59Sophie time.
26:01This is a very Baelin night.
26:03this was exactly what i needed me and the girls laughing having fun it's really nice to spend
26:09time with people where the main focus isn't about my tourette's or mining collins future
26:14i would say that tonight was a super successful girl's night holy i look like beckner
26:22i want you to be able to like think about something for a second
26:25i truly thought he was insane like this is this is no girl's dream
26:33how many blankets do we need do you think i sound good i think you sound like you got a
27:00tracheotomy actually good look for me is this a good sound sounds great means i can't yell at kids
27:07one of you jokers gave this to me this is not my fault yeah well did you come here with this i did
27:14not okay well then you're not culpable thank you since my siblings sammy and burke are in town my
27:23dad wants to have a barbecue this weekend but also my dad's been bugging me to come by the house to
27:29see something and i have no idea what it is so i decided to get a two-hour ride share from dc to be
27:36able to see everybody them kids oh baby finally made it hi how was it yeah the ride was good okay
27:49it wasn't like the other time where i got motion sickness because ride shares in dc are i know how
27:53long is it like two hours the whole way oh are we gonna eat yeah i'm just waiting for
28:01brooke to finish grilling he's out there grilling come on are you hungry yeah are you yeah a little
28:05bit where's the wieners are you almost done okay almost we're just talking about how you knew your
28:10way around a wiener these wieners are very big um you were telling me how you had a girl's night
28:15how did that go yes so it went great um me and my friends have like these regular like
28:20girls nights where they'll all come over but they're all themed nights so we did wig nights
28:26you don't have to wear it beckner because what i'm actually you
28:31that's you becker let's do a side by side see the accuracy looks like you guys both just fried
28:36ramen noodles and just plop them out there that's good it's okay we'll just get okay back there the
28:41wig look for them beckers right now honestly put it on put it on yoder so you have other wigs
28:46oh yeah yes but i only have one other wig for one person in the room who needs it looks like
28:53he shaved their pubes and just threw it on a wig look at this look at this
29:04what do you think damn i think it looks good wait no i haven't seen it
29:10i don't think you look like sven with his hair no no now i look like sven
29:14dad
29:21with a baseball bat no it's this
29:29i think you look like you should be on some sort of list maybe 200 feet away from schools or something
29:36well before we eat maylan i want to show you something that's that we got outside okay
29:40okay you guys should come all i've been working on a surprise i want to share with the family but
29:46especially balen come on what's he doing yeah what are we doing julie doesn't have a clue
29:56i i keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined
30:01does it invite her into my mind space on these where are we going we're here are we doing i want
30:08you to be able to like think about something for a second i have no idea why my dad is taking us out
30:15back i am so confused on so many different levels you're being creepy and weird right now he's like let
30:21me show you my knife collection now listen i don't know where you are with the whole wedding location
30:28search so so i know that you want animals at your wedding right goats and alpacas and
30:37ringling brothers or whatever you want and a lot of wedding venues probably aren't going to let you have
30:42animals okay you got one chance to make this amazing this this this is it you can put all those
30:51things right here let's have the wedding here in the backyard how was that funny no i'm being serious
30:59serious i've been working on a plan to have the entire yard wide open for balen's wedding rip the fence
31:08down cut trees build a platform date whatever she wants let's start doing something
31:19come on dad seriously who the hell wants a wedding in their backyard i don't even know what to say
31:28so much for trying to take some pressure off of colin this whole idea is only going to add to it this is
31:33crazy this is it let's have the wedding here in the backyard tell us that buddy no i'm being serious
31:51i'm envisioning it there's not a lot to envision you can have whatever you want here i'll get those
31:58tents put up this is where she comes up the aisle and then we pass the lump we pass we pass the lump
32:07i trip all right i truly thought he was insane like this is this is no girl's dream
32:14how many people do you think inviting we are probably thinking about inviting 175 and thinking
32:19between 125 and 150 will show up with two toilets here with two toilets two toilets one
32:25like imagine 150 people in this house oh no they'd have to get over to like the holiday end or
32:33something no obviously 150 people are going to lay up cots here i mean come on i'm talking about
32:38people wandering around getting food i mean just imagine 150 people just hammer brutal brutal all right
32:45so we'll think of different venues but appreciate your offer let's move on but if you go to another
32:49venue and then they don't allow half of the stuff that you want in your wedding this is this is the
32:53wedding this is an option this is something that i mean let's hope it only happens once in your life
32:58it is an option the last option but it is an option it could be the last option the last one
33:03it's fine it's all right it's i am enjoying this but to me i'm not worried about the food i'm not
33:12worried about desserts i'm not worried about tents i'm not worried about outdoors cat i'm not worried
33:16about this i'm worried about is balen going to be comfortable at this location because we all know
33:23that when she gets overstimulated she could have a bad tick attack and end up on the floor having
33:28her wedding here at the house she has a safe place that she's familiar with comfortable with and if
33:34we can take some of that emotional baggage and struggle away from her to make her day amazing
33:40then then that's what it's truly about it's not everyone else's wedding it's her wedding okay
33:46it's what you want so either way whether you choose here or you choose somewhere else i want
33:53you to come over here and look at something it's one more thing for you to think about and visualize
33:57all right let's go over here come on you'll like this here balen come over here and stand in front
34:03of this look this way so i can take this off and then you can be surprised it looks like he ordered
34:06a bed frame i know wait so he's been out back making this and you guys haven't he he told me he was doing
34:13what are you guys laughing oh dear dad oh my god
34:25what are we doing so this so listen so no matter what you pick pick you you can use this for a
34:31venue all right okay well it's not gonna be oh my god oh this is going in the apartment no okay we
34:45just need to add some sprinkles you know what they are that's a horse that's fluffy and toots
34:51so sweet thank you so much this probably took you so long i am freaking so excited i love alpacas
35:02mr and mrs dooley there we go that's chop and that's marlene marlene's a dirty filthy whore
35:08okay all right whatever as our maid of honor we accept this we're not super sure about the venue
35:14i think the venue's good i could see like two big circus tents your animals running around a place to
35:19like take photos there can be like flowers in the background yeah whatever you want to do it's
35:22your wedding it ended up being a great surprise i'm totally impressed the backyard venue idea
35:31i'm not so sure of but the bench is beautiful there's probably took you so long to make how long
35:36did it take you to make this 16 hours no time oh time just stand still when you carve so i'm not
35:42given a time frame it it it's worth it when balen was at her worst four years ago in her medical
35:50journey i really questioned that a day like this would come balen deserves to have the perfect wedding
35:56day like anybody else it's been a long journey and her day needs to be as amazing as her expectations
36:05want to i want her to be able to say dad this is the best day ever
36:16you can put like a like a bow tie we can put whatever you want it's kind of like mr and mrs julie
36:22that'd be so cute okay that is really cute that's a really cute idea how heavy are these what if she
36:28well they're heavy oh yeah they got to be heavy i mean what if the venue's like four hours down the road
36:33like i'll just drive it down the road or what if it's here this sweet gift from my dad has definitely
36:42made it harder to choose a wedding venue i mean i totally get what my dad thinks it would be better
36:47for me to have it here and even though it's not exactly what i thought i wanted for my wedding
36:53he's been taking care of me a long time so i definitely trust his judgment
36:57so what do you think it's an option it it is an option me and colin are trying to
37:06save money for this specific reason so i can bring it up to him however i don't think my parents
37:13backyard is colin's first wedding venue choice and i know colin feels a lot of pressure when my dad gives
37:19suggestions even when they're meant to be helpful and honestly i'm a little afraid to ask
37:31i can't look at the chickens
37:36have you told colin no yep told me what the last time i saw my dad he pitched the backyard as a wedding
37:43venue i haven't even told colin yet and i'm not even sure i want to
37:47like to have like a sleepover with you for the weekend i'm a little like nervous i've never hosted
37:57a kid before okay i'm going to show you how to bedazzle take this and it goes in the wax is something
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