00:00How to meet women on social media. Now if you're hunting around on social media to try to meet
00:03women it probably means you don't have a lot of options or if you're a guy who does have a lot
00:08of options you're trying to expand your options that's not necessarily a bad thing but for most
00:13guys if you're limited to social media you pretty much run out of ideas. I mean you can meet women
00:18on social media but the majority of the time it just really doesn't work because think about it
00:22women attractive women on social media get messages all the time and it's usually really
00:27bad messages. Now on the positive side that means the bar is really low so if you actually send a
00:33well thought out message it has some chance of working but most likely it's going to drown out
00:37with all the other messages that that girl has been sent. And one of the worst things I see is when
00:42guys friend somebody on social media or start following them and just leave these comments or
00:47hearts or say how attractive the girl is along with a long list of other guys who are all saying
00:52exactly the same thing about how cute she is or whatever. And you really think you're going to
00:57stand out when you're leaving exactly the same message as every single other guy on an attractive
01:01girl's photo. She gets all the validation and you get absolutely nothing except for looking kind of
01:06weak honestly. It's just not a good way to meet women at all and it'd be much better served to actually
01:12grow some balls and go meet somebody in public. But of course that takes work and that takes
01:16conversation skills. You got to figure out how to do it. So most guys are not going to go for that
01:21option. That's just realistic. So if you still want to meet somebody on social media here's one
01:25way you can do it. Now I got a date many years ago from a friend's friend on Facebook. I think she
01:32might have made a comment on on his post or something that and I saw her picture. I thought
01:36wow she's really cute. And I messaged her. First I told my buddy I'm like hey you know I want to
01:40message this girl and he's like yeah that's cool. He knew her in real life. And so I just messaged her
01:44and said hey I'm friends with Mike and you're friends with Mike and I saw your comment on his post and
01:48I think we should have a coffee. Something along those lines right. Pretty direct very short message
01:53and I got to the point. So if you're messaging somebody through your social network somebody
01:57that knows somebody that you know that's going to make it a lot easier and your options may open up
02:01that way. But if you're messaging a complete stranger which you have no connection with it's
02:06going to be a little harder. But that doesn't mean that doesn't happen. I have talked to girls before
02:09who have gone out with guys because the guy liked their post or maybe sent them a message and then
02:15they checked out their profile. And the guy had a really good profile aka he was really attractive
02:20and so things happen that way. So if you're a really good looking guy this is one option that
02:25actually might work for you. But for most of the rest of guys on this planet that's just not going
02:29to be something that's going to have any effect at all. Or if you have a really expensive car I have
02:34one former client who has a few dollars. He really likes Porsches and he gets these really good videos put
02:40together by professionals because he has the money for it. He can just blow money on whatever he wants.
02:44And so he has pictures and videos of his Porsche and his dogs. The cute like Pomeranian kind of dogs.
02:52And he gets a lot of contacts that way as well. He actually gets dates on social media. So again
02:57if you have a Porsche and some cute dogs or you're really attractive then you'll probably have some
03:03options on social media. But it's going to be a lot harder for all the rest of the guys out there
03:08who don't have Porsches or cute dogs or not really attractive. Online dating generally will heavily favor
03:14more attractive guys. That's just the way it is because we're talking about photographs. But
03:18there are of course other ways to make it work. I'm not going to go into everything on this video.
03:21So if you really want to try to meet somebody on social media give it a shot. Make sure your profile
03:25is good. Make sure you have good photographs. And then go for it. Shoot your shit. But what's your
03:29opinion? Do you have a method that works for you on social media? Leave a comment in the comment
03:33section below. And until next time, conquer and win.
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