How To Meet People In Real Life

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In this video, I will share my tips and tricks for meeting new people in real life. From joining clubs and attending events, to practicing good body language and conversation skills, I'll cover it all. So if you're looking to expand your social circle, be sure to watch until the end!  WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc  IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN THIS KIND OF CONTENT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ARTICLE: https://www.conquerandwin.com/why-women-go-cold-on-text-messages-and-how-to-write-messages-that-work/  WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00How to meet people in real life. This is going to be a short video because this is a pretty simple

00:04question to answer. I'm going to cover how you can get more social so you can start meeting

00:08more people in real life and do it confidently. So let's go. How to meet people in real life.

00:16Meeting people in real life is all about working on yourself because typically when people are not

00:20meeting other people in real life it's because there's some lack of confidence. There's some

00:24lack of understanding on how to start conversations, how to use body language and eye contact and maybe

00:29the fear of rejection. So I'm going to teach you a few basic methods you can use right away to start

00:32building up your social confidence and start meeting people in real life. Number one, good

00:36mornings. Literally when you're walking down the street in the morning on your way to school or your

00:40way to work just say good morning to people or just say hi. And it doesn't have to be the morning it can

00:45be afternoon just say hi. It doesn't really matter what you say but the point is this is going to be

00:48a very quick greeting as you walk by. Obviously allow enough room, enough space so you can say that

00:54before you get to them and before you pass by so they have time to respond. One thing that I see

00:58commonly when guys get this wrong is that they'll say hi just as you're passing by that person

01:03doesn't know what happens they don't have any time respond and then they're gone. And the person who

01:07said hi the guy said hi thinks that maybe they were unfriendly but actually you said just said it too

01:12late. Number two, the eye contact game. Just like when you're walking down the street and you're saying

01:15good morning to people you can use it at the same time actually. We'll call this soft eye contact right

01:20so you'll be walking down the street just kind of scanning around looking at things and your eyes are

01:26going to pass the eyes of somebody else who's passing by and if they don't look at you you just

01:30you know continue on your way. You don't keep staring at them and trying to get them to engage

01:33you. But if they look over at you and smile then smile back. This also can be a great way to be

01:38women too when you get a smile from somebody you can open up using the fact that they smiled at you

01:43and start a conversation that way. If someone does make eye contact with you but then they look away

01:47and they don't smile just continue on your way. Don't stare at them. Number three, start conversations

01:51with anybody who serves you. Basically anybody you run into, a cashier, a barista, a waitress. Don't

01:56just say the typical hi how are you? I'm great. How are you? And then stop right there. Continue

02:01further. Ask them about their day. Make a comment on the place you're in. Look for anything basically

02:07you can start a conversation on. It doesn't have to be a long conversation but go beyond the typical

02:11hi how are you so you can go into a bit more of a real conversation and practice your conversation

02:15skill. Now these three basic methods will help build up your confidence and start developing your

02:19conversation skills. It'll make it more easy and more comfortable to talk to strangers but obviously

02:23you take it further and start making friends with people or to get dates. You have to develop your

02:27conversation skills further and also develop the courage just to ask people out. Another way you

02:32can meet people in real life is just by going to sporting events or going to clubs or associations

02:37or meetup groups. Just pick an event or even a class. You know take a class for something you're

02:42interested in learning and start meeting people in those situations. They'll be a lot easier than on the

02:46street but if you combine that with this street approach here to those exercises that make

02:50yourself more confident you'll be well on your way to meeting more people in real life. What's your

02:54favorite way of meeting someone in real life? Leave a comment in the comment section below and until

02:58next time conquer and win.

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