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Married at First Sight UK (2015) Season 10 Episode 6
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00:00I don't struggle to meet women.
00:03Previously.
00:04I just haven't met the right person.
00:06Two more single strangers.
00:09I'm really ready to find the one.
00:12Married at first sight.
00:14But Bailey's bravado.
00:16So much.
00:176'4".
00:186'4"?
00:19There's no way he's 6'4".
00:20Fell flat for bride Rebecca.
00:22He's putting on like a bit of a show and it worries me.
00:26And Devani's negative nature.
00:28Everything is so intense and so deep.
00:31Prompted a heated heart to heart.
00:33The last thing I want to do is have a talk about our traumas and then like get into bed with you.
00:38Hurling them head first into heartbreak.
00:40There's trouble in paradise isn't it?
00:45Tonight.
00:46I know what I want and what I don't want.
00:47It has to be right.
00:49One more couple says I do.
00:51But expectations.
00:53I would like to be matched with someone who is a silver fox.
00:57Sense of humour.
00:59Are quickly tested.
01:01Here's my nose.
01:02Oh you're a choker.
01:04He's not the silver fox I had in my head.
01:08Bailey seeks a more intimate connection.
01:11I feel more comfortable now with my hands on you than off you.
01:14I personally wouldn't kiss somebody as soon as I've met them.
01:17That's just a bit too soon for me.
01:19And for Julia, Ruth and Devani.
01:21Devani and I slept separately.
01:23I haven't seen him since.
01:24The Road to a Honeymoon Reunion.
01:27You don't really get a second chance with a woman like that.
01:29Is heading for a dead end.
01:31This is not how I wanted my honeymoon to go.
01:39Oh my God, look at the sea.
01:40It looks so beautiful here.
01:43In Mauritius, Rebecca and Bailey have arrived on their honeymoon.
01:47Look how romantic this is.
01:49Nice big bed.
01:55Bailey has described himself as an alpha, but I'm not sure.
02:00So I want to spend quality time with him on the honeymoon
02:03and to see if he fits into that alpha mould.
02:09Cheers.
02:10Cheers.
02:12Looking at Rebecca, she looks absolutely gorgeous.
02:15I'm definitely hoping it progresses.
02:17The next step is hopefully getting that little kiss from her
02:19and that will probably make me happiest man right now.
02:22When I turn around, that moment seeing you,
02:25let's just say I had a big smile on my face.
02:27Oh, good.
02:28Yeah.
02:29So for me, I'll just say how I feel.
02:32Yeah.
02:32I am interested in seeing if there is that spark
02:34and we can, like, kind of build on this.
02:36I think the pace that we're taking it at is nice.
02:38I'm just getting to know, yeah?
02:40I do feel like we don't need to put pressure on it.
02:42We don't need to label anything.
02:43Like, it just is what it is.
02:45We're still, like, kissing on the cheek level.
02:47I don't see the necessity to rush something like that.
02:51I personally wouldn't kiss somebody as soon as I've met them
02:54and I've only, like, it's our first day of our honeymoon.
02:56I've only known Bailey for, like, a matter of hours, really.
03:00That's just a bit too soon for me.
03:01Davani and I slept separately and I haven't seen him since.
03:18He was really mad at what I said and what happened to the camera ride.
03:21And then last night when we're travelling back to the resort,
03:24Davani just started shouting at me out of nowhere.
03:26He was coming at me with a lot of energy.
03:30One of my deal-breakers that I said is a temper and anger.
03:33I've been very clear about that.
03:35And there was no need for it.
03:39On the way back, I spoke to Julia Ruth about how annoyed I was.
03:43I was coming from a dinner that was very intense.
03:46There was a lot of emotions and I'm feeling like I've been mugged off.
03:49And that's something that I'm not standing for in this experiment.
03:51I want to be respected.
03:54I told him, like, I just need space, I just need time,
03:56we just need to kind of, like, back off, just, like, step away.
04:00This is not how I wanted my honeymoon to go.
04:07As Julia Ruth and Davani's honeymoon hangs in the balance,
04:11back in the UK,
04:14another couple's journey in the experiment
04:16is about to begin.
04:18Now, then, here we go.
04:25I wouldn't know how to purposely flirt.
04:29I ain't no peacock.
04:30Check that out, girls.
04:33And they go,
04:34My friends would describe me as odd.
04:39A bit quirky.
04:43Unlovable.
04:45Verbal diarrhea?
04:47It's my middle name.
04:48My approach to life is carpe diem.
04:52It's as simple as that.
04:53Being 60 doesn't prevent you from doing anything.
04:56It's a state of mind.
04:57I'm old school.
04:59I'm proud of it.
05:00Cheers.
05:02Recently we went into Ibiza.
05:05Champagne, cocktails.
05:08I don't remember the rest.
05:09I think you need someone who's really patient, really understanding.
05:16You keep emphasising the word really there.
05:17Really.
05:18My outlook on life is just positive.
05:21Wake up in the morning positive.
05:23Woo-hoo!
05:24Ding, ding!
05:27But positivity is something that you have to learn.
05:31It's not a given.
05:31My life's been very tough, very checkered.
05:39When I was around five years old, my father walked out and left and disappeared.
05:45Forever.
05:45I was desperate for a father figure growing up.
05:50I had no contact with him, period.
05:54Then 35 years later, I received the phone call from the good old Salvation Army.
06:00We've found your father.
06:02Immediately decided the next day to go and visit him.
06:10Got to the front door.
06:14And walked away.
06:16Didn't knock on the door.
06:21Unfortunately, the day my son was born, he died.
06:26I wake up every day, every day, regretting that I didn't knock on the door.
06:43I think with hindsight, not having those values and those teachings from my father has affected me in the long run.
06:54I think it's certainly affected my marriage.
06:56I don't think I knew how to be a husband.
06:59I had no yardstick.
07:01I had nobody to follow.
07:03My experience of marriage has made me very, very cautious.
07:07I haven't dated since.
07:10So there's been no dating at all?
07:14Zero.
07:14Period.
07:16My last relationship was my marriage, 15 years ago.
07:20I'd love to have made it work and I just failed.
07:22And I feel a little bit of failure for that.
07:24And I don't want to go through that failure again.
07:26Right.
07:27So tell me why now.
07:29I'm always the life and soul of the party.
07:31It's like, hey, watch.
07:33But I'm actually quite lonely inside.
07:35So all my children are in a good place.
07:39So my job is done.
07:41It's my time now.
07:42I know that I've got a lot of love to give.
07:49But I'm not sure if I've just found a person yet that's able to bring that out of me.
07:55I would love to be matched to somebody positive, loving, funny.
08:06I think somebody who has a nice, friendly, smiley face.
08:10My future wife should bring a lot of fun to the party.
08:16Let's have an adventure.
08:17I'm Anita.
08:23I'm 54.
08:24I'm from Durham.
08:26Oh, my God.
08:28I need cue cards, me.
08:32I'm a devoted mother of two children.
08:35I love being a mom.
08:36But also I love being a grandmother as well.
08:38Cheers, big ears.
08:40Cheers.
08:40My grandchildren probably think I'm a little bit wild.
08:45I'm always doing something crazy, whether it's fire eating, learning to fly a helicopter, riding motorbikes.
08:54Of course I'm the best grandma.
09:01My love life is non-existent.
09:05Eighteen months ago, my whole world was turned upside down.
09:12My mom suddenly passed away in November.
09:16I got made redundant the week before Christmas.
09:19And my partner walked out Christmas Eve.
09:22Within six weeks, I felt like I'd lost everything.
09:27I was devastated after the relationship broke down.
09:38I had no inkling to think that it was going to end.
09:43I thought that we wanted the same thing at the end of the road.
09:47Obviously, he didn't have the same ending as what I wanted.
09:51I just sat and cried, to be honest.
09:55But then I just thought, I've got to get up and start planning for the month ahead.
10:00So I had something to look forward to.
10:04So I started putting a list together of things I've always wanted to try.
10:08First on the list was a super club in Ibiza.
10:11Had my eyes opened.
10:14I got a tattoo from my thigh right up to my ribcage.
10:17And breast enlargement.
10:19I would like to be matched with someone who is a silver fox.
10:31Sense of humour.
10:34Adventurous.
10:35Someone with the same lust for life who I can grow old with.
10:39After everything I've been through, I still believe in love.
10:46Paul and Anita have so much in common.
10:48They've both been married before.
10:50They both have grown up children.
10:52And they both have a wealth of life experience.
10:55Good and bad.
10:57Absolutely.
10:58Anita's been through some tough times.
11:00But she's dealt with them by throwing herself into exciting new adventures.
11:04Which speaks to her resilience and strength of character.
11:07Her optimism and zest for life are qualities that should really excite Paul.
11:12And Paul is a real character too.
11:14He's a titan in his friendship group.
11:16And his humour and sense of fun should really appeal to Anita.
11:19But importantly, he also brings a steady, laid-back energy.
11:23Which she should find attractive and grounding.
11:26They both want a meaningful connection with a partner they can really embrace life with.
11:30And of course, their shared family values and life experiences are things they can use to connect and build strong foundations.
11:36I think this is a fantastic match.
11:40Anita and Paul.
11:51So how are you feeling?
11:53Nervous.
11:54Apprehensive.
11:55Worried.
11:57Jordie is getting ready with me today.
11:59She is my daughter-in-law.
12:00She will calm my nerves.
12:03And I know she'll just be there having my back.
12:07So what are you expecting at the end of the aisle?
12:10What was it?
12:11Silver Fox, James Bond, Bear Grylls and Finney Jones all mixed into one.
12:17And funny as well.
12:19And yeah, sense of humour.
12:20Yeah, good crack.
12:21I'm hoping for a Silver Fox.
12:23But if he's not what I expect, I can change my mind any time I want.
12:28I've got my trainers in the bag.
12:29The day has finally arrived, and I'm feeling like an excitable puppy.
12:42Hi.
12:43Wow.
12:45Stunning.
12:46Thanks.
12:47Well, there's only one person I could choose to get ready with me today, and that's my best man, Emily, my beautiful daughter.
12:54When you get married and they say, oh, you may kiss the bride, are you actually going to kiss her?
12:57Well, there's certainly been no tongues.
12:59Well done.
13:00Ew.
13:02Like this, isn't it?
13:03Ew.
13:05Please don't.
13:05Something like that.
13:06TFI.
13:07I get you.
13:08I get you.
13:08Meh.
13:10Even if you just find one little thing of common ground, I think you're all right.
13:16I've been waiting for Dad just to find somebody, and he just doesn't have anybody apart from me, basically.
13:22I know your sort of coping mechanism is joking a lot.
13:29For someone that doesn't know you, it can come across a bit like, ooh.
13:33Yeah, but sometimes Shurer gives a bit of light-heartiness to the event.
13:37Yeah, oh, definitely.
13:38It was a bit tense.
13:39Yeah, but don't forget, it is a wedding, so maybe keep it a bit, not too much humour.
13:45My dad's very eccentric and loud and gets, like, verbal diarrhoea, basically.
13:51But hopefully that won't come out and hopefully that will stay hidden.
13:54I hope she gets past sort of the initial just blurting out stuff.
14:00You hope or you pray?
14:01Pray, probably.
14:14Wow.
14:15You look amazing.
14:17Oh, my God.
14:19I actually can't believe it's now, today, it's happening.
14:23It's come around so quickly, standing in the dress.
14:27It's bloody real.
14:28What are you doing?
14:30What am I doing?
14:32Oh, honestly, I just want to get out there now.
14:34I just want to meet him.
14:35I just want to get to know him.
14:37For the last few years, Anita has just been to hell and back,
14:40and I think she's stayed strong throughout it all.
14:42I think she just deserves the world now.
14:45She really does.
14:45I'd really like to have a soulmate, somebody who gets me.
15:10I hope she's happy with what I've got to offer her.
15:17Time will tell.
15:18We'll soon find out, won't we?
15:19I'm Paul.
15:36Hi.
15:36How is she?
15:45Is she nervous?
15:46I'm not nervous.
15:48I'm ready.
15:51Ooh.
15:53Is she a bad timekeeper normally?
15:56She'll be here.
15:59My only reservation would be, like, can you get serious?
16:03Is she a little bit too much of a joker?
16:08Woo!
16:16There's a lot riding on today.
16:17I'm not in my 20s or 30s anymore.
16:20This is it.
16:21It has to be right.
16:24The last two years, I've done a lot of soul searching.
16:28I know what I want and what I don't want now.
16:30And I'm ready to find my other half.
16:38I'm hoping that he's the one.
16:40I'm looking for a missing piece of the jigsaw.
16:42Hey, hey, hey.
17:10Hello.
17:11Wow.
17:12You look amazing.
17:16And Paul?
17:17I'm in a death.
17:19Where'd I sign?
17:22Wow.
17:24Poing.
17:24First impressions of Paul, he's not the silver fox I had in mind.
17:39He's not the type I would typically gravitate to.
17:41Hey, hey, hey.
17:43You ready?
18:00Um.
18:04Anita and Paul, you're going to make your vows to one another.
18:07I've not got my glasses.
18:13Yeah, I think so.
18:15Right, well, here's my vows.
18:17Are you ready?
18:18Are you a choker?
18:19No, I'm not kidding.
18:21I want to keep mine short and sweet.
18:25Although we've never met, we've been matched for a reason.
18:29Yeah.
18:29Our love will be built on patience, please, trust, respect, and unwavering support for
18:39each other.
18:40Yeah.
18:40I'm looking forward to the journey ahead and the possibilities it may bring.
18:45One step at a time, we can build a loving, respectful partnership till death is due part.
18:51Oh, that's really nice.
18:52Out of all the people we could have possibly encountered in this world, here we are today
19:09standing together, you and me.
19:11Two strangers, two missing pieces of a jigsaw, and I can't wait to get to know you.
19:17So as we embrace this crazy adventure together, united as one, there's no doubt we are going
19:24to have moments that feel surreal and overwhelming, but hopefully more that feel amazing and just
19:28right.
19:29Yeah, nice.
19:29With mutual respect, trust, and honesty, I'm sure we'll be able to grow together.
19:34So, Paul, I will laugh with you, cry with you, support you, and definitely surprise you.
19:40And hopefully we will both find the happiness we never knew was missing in our lives.
19:45Wow.
19:46Well done.
19:47And I swear.
19:51Anita's vows were nice, weren't they?
19:53There was no GBT there.
19:55Not a chance.
19:57She probably used a quill in paper, like I did.
20:01By candlelight.
20:03Ready?
20:03Oh, yeah.
20:05Anita, I give you this ring.
20:08Wear it with love and joy.
20:10As it has no end, neither show my love for you.
20:12LAUGHTER
20:13Where'd you get it from?
20:17Oh, my God.
20:20Oh, my God.
20:20Oh, my God, it's a war.
20:22Go on.
20:23Yes!
20:27Phew.
20:27Paul, I give you this ring.
20:31Wear it with pride and joy.
20:33As it has no end, neither show my love for you.
20:36I choose you to be my husband, this day and forevermore.
20:43Oh, easy.
20:47We will all be delighted if you would like to seal your commitment to your marriage with a kiss.
20:54Oh.
20:55Oh.
20:55Oh.
20:56Oh.
20:56Oh.
20:56Come on.
21:00I'm feeling very relieved.
21:03Anita is very attractive.
21:05Jackpot.
21:06She looks like she's just a battle of laughs.
21:09She seems very nice.
21:12Seems a bit of a joker.
21:13He's not the silver fox I envisioned.
21:16But I do want to get to know him.
21:18So I'm just going to wait, see what happens.
21:21And, hopefully, the attraction part will come later.
21:35Oh, God, there's another one.
21:36You take that one.
21:37I'll protect you, don't worry.
21:39All right, back off, son.
21:40That's my wife, yeah?
21:41Behaviourself.
21:43Bailey and I are now at a point where we're really comfortable in each other's company.
21:47But I'm still not sure if he's my type.
21:51So the pace that Bailey and I are at, at the moment, feels absolutely fine for me.
21:57Yeah.
21:58Come on, son.
21:59Let's get some action.
22:01Must be on his honeymoon, eh?
22:08Fucking hell.
22:09There's tortoises going at it everywhere.
22:11They're having a better time than me.
22:13But, you don't know, we've still got a bit of time, haven't we?
22:21I would have never imagined falling out with my wife on a honeymoon.
22:38Being apart from Julia Ruth today, it was difficult for sure.
22:41But, I feel like this space was needed.
22:47I've reflected, and I feel like there was just a lot of miscommunication.
22:52It was a lot of emotions that played a part.
22:55I don't want my wife to step away from the marriage.
22:59And you don't really get a second chance with a woman like that.
23:06But, we shall see you.
23:10Hey.
23:10I missed you today.
23:33Yesterday was an emotional day.
23:35From our previous conversation at dinner, and then the elevated levels of stress that
23:42she went through the roof.
23:47There's just no need for that situation to happen.
23:51Just doing it in the heat of the moment.
23:53Mm-mm.
23:54There's no need for that.
23:58But, I do want to apologize for how I approached you.
24:03I feel like I came a bit too strong.
24:05I just wanted to get things off my chest, but it was the wrong time.
24:09And, the way I articulated it wasn't the best.
24:12So, I do understand why we are in this situation.
24:18I appreciate that.
24:19And, I understand that, like, there's a lot of emotions to deal with.
24:23Next time, I just need to just, you know what I mean, give it some time.
24:26100%.
24:27Do you forgive me?
24:32It's all right.
24:33Baby steps, I feel like it's good to iron out and have those things now.
24:38But, this is the crucial part about relationships.
24:40Yeah.
24:41We're figuring out each other.
24:43That was nice.
24:44It does feel like it's got way too meaning behind it, and it's not just words.
24:48I have one other surprise for you, but, it is outside.
24:54Okay.
24:55Yeah?
24:56Yeah.
24:57Let's go.
24:59I think tonight went well.
25:01Obviously, going into it was a bit nerve-wracking, but I apologized.
25:04So, I feel like we're definitely heading in the right direction.
25:08Open your eyes.
25:09Okay.
25:12Oh, you got the keys.
25:16I got the keys.
25:18Yeah.
25:18I've been writing this for a while.
25:20It's just like a little introduction to us.
25:25Okay.
25:25The first time I laid my eyes on you, I turned around, oh, you made me smile.
25:34Don't run away, don't run away, don't run away, I'm feeling you.
25:42Don't run away, don't run away, don't run away, I'm feeling you.
25:50Oh, that was amazing.
26:05I feel like I'm able to appreciate Devon a little bit more, and I think we understand each other's boundaries,
26:10and how to communicate with each other and what we both need.
26:12But there is a lot more to still work through, so that's definitely going to be a challenge for us.
26:18Thank you for that and sharing with me.
26:21Nice.
26:21It was beautiful.
26:22Yeah?
26:23Mm.
26:30Hello.
26:32Congratulations.
26:33I'd like you to try and nuzzle her ear from there, if that's okay.
26:37What?
26:38No.
26:39A bit of, like, in the crook of her neck there.
26:40I'm going to blow it.
26:42Are you tickling?
26:44She's very tickly.
26:48Getting the photographs taken, it's a bit too close for comfort.
26:51Yeah, it's a bit early for that.
26:54This is my first top three questions.
26:55How many times have you been married?
26:57One.
26:57How many children have you got?
26:59Three.
27:00Where do you live?
27:01Five miles south of Middlesbrough.
27:04Right.
27:05That's not too far.
27:06Geography-wise is good.
27:07We've both been married, we've both got children,
27:09so hopefully there's got to be some common ground there somewhere.
27:14So were you born in Scotland?
27:16Oh, I'm jock-a-nees.
27:17A what?
27:18Jock-a-nees.
27:18What?
27:19Oh, you better believe it.
27:20What is that?
27:20I dare to leave an arse.
27:21He's obviously got a good sense of humour,
27:23and that's one of the things I did ask for.
27:25Let's get your armour on, let's go.
27:27Let's get physical.
27:29But I think he's going to be one of those people,
27:32if it's in here, it's going to come out here.
27:34Ha-ha, I got you.
27:36I got her.
27:37No, seriously, I've got her.
27:39Obviously, I don't know him.
27:40I've got a lot more to find out about him.
27:42But it was a lot.
27:44It was really overwhelming.
27:45Come on, then.
27:50CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
27:52CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
27:54CHEERING AND APPLAUSE
27:56You all right?
27:59Yes?
27:59Oh, I did.
28:00Hey, darling.
28:00Hey.
28:01You all right?
28:02Yeah.
28:03I need a drink.
28:04I thought you were a big one.
28:06What did you ask for then?
28:08I asked for...
28:09Silver Fox.
28:10Silver Fox, I think so.
28:11It's just by DNA, Silver Fox.
28:13Bit of a Bear Grylls, a bit of adventurous.
28:17Yeah, I could do that, yeah.
28:18Old-fashioned values, but young at heart.
28:21Emily reckons that's one of my failings,
28:23having old-fashioned values.
28:25Yeah, of course she's interested.
28:27She'll be interested.
28:28Yeah.
28:28I think we're maybe two peas in a pod.
28:33Jackpot.
28:34We have potential in the future, my dear.
28:39MUSIC PLAYS
28:40Hi.
28:47How are you?
28:48Nice to meet you.
28:48Nice to meet you.
28:49I'm Rebecca.
28:50Nice to meet you.
28:51Going to some dancers, yeah.
28:53Latin dance.
28:54Are you ready for me to tread on your toes?
28:56Yeah.
28:57Come on.
28:58You look lovely.
28:59Very lovely.
29:01A saucy dance, good location.
29:03But not used to people maybe not fancying me.
29:06And it's been so hard to tell at certain moments.
29:08So I'm going to put on the moves a little bit,
29:10pull her in a bit closer,
29:11show off a bit of my skills,
29:13and I'm sure she'll like that.
29:15One, two, set.
29:16One, two, three.
29:18Five.
29:18One more time.
29:19Five.
29:20I've lost my rhythm.
29:20Five.
29:21One, two, three.
29:22You're all right.
29:23Three, two, three.
29:26You're very distracting.
29:31Two, three.
29:32Five, six, seven.
29:33She's trying to unspun herself.
29:34Oh.
29:35Three.
29:35Oh!
29:36Oh!
29:37You spun me too.
29:37Sorry.
29:40I've lost him.
29:42You're good, you're good.
29:43All right, I'm done.
29:43Fucking freestyle.
29:45Oh, this is a bit of me.
29:49It's nice feeling that closeness with Bailey.
29:53He's huge.
29:53He's like a big bear.
29:54So it is a nice feeling when he's got his hands around my waist.
29:58He's quite touchy-feely.
30:00I'm really starting to see that alpha side come out of Bailey.
30:03So today's been better.
30:04Yeah.
30:07This is nice.
30:08This is very nice.
30:10Do you know, he was actually...
30:12This is going to sound so bad, but he was actually better than I thought.
30:14Come on, Jim.
30:15How'd you...
30:15I feel more comfortable now with my hands on you than off you.
30:19Ah.
30:20Do you know what I mean?
30:21I'm embarrassed.
30:21I feel like today, probably because of the dance class, it's like a physical thing, isn't
30:29it?
30:30You know, like, PDA is, like, I enjoy it.
30:33And, like, I like to know that somebody who's with me, like, wants to get hold of me.
30:37Do you know what I mean?
30:38And I do.
30:40Yeah, love grabbing over your hand, walking about, having chats with you.
30:43And those feelings, like, they're, like, I mean, you know, you know, like, I've catched
30:47a little bit of feelings for you.
30:49Do you know what I mean?
30:49It's going in the right way.
30:50What?
30:50Well, no, I am.
30:52Well, you must be able to feel it.
30:53Do you know what I mean?
30:54Like, I like speaking to you, getting to know you.
30:57Do you know what I mean?
30:57But I feel like, for me, it's happening a bit like...
30:59And I like speaking to you and getting to know you, too.
31:00Like, I really do.
31:02I don't think there's anyone I'd rather be here with you than you.
31:05Aw, you're very cute tonight.
31:08What he said about catching feels, that vulnerability brings you closer.
31:13It was nice to hear.
31:15I think we both find each other attractive.
31:17I do think things are progressing in the right way.
31:30Congratulations, Paul.
31:31Definitely punching, though.
31:33Do you reckon?
31:33100%.
31:34You're punching above your weight, man.
31:35She's attractive, lass.
31:36I don't think she is.
31:37Real please, she's in order, lass.
31:39Is there a bit of chemistry there, is there?
31:42There's a bit of biology coming on.
31:43Oh, let's do some biology.
31:45Yeah.
31:47How are you feeling?
31:47Still a bit nervous, to be honest, yeah.
31:50It's overwhelming, isn't it?
31:51It's like...
31:52Obviously, there's going to be a lot of laughs.
31:54Yeah, yeah, definitely.
31:56Honestly, I love that, because he's...
31:58He can be serious, but he loves to laugh.
32:01He just wants to have fun.
32:02Literally, sometimes it comes across the wrong way when he says something.
32:06Yeah.
32:06And if you're willing to be a bit...
32:08Patience, yeah.
32:10Yeah, a bit of patience.
32:11You know what I mean?
32:12Yeah.
32:12There's a lot of the boxes ticked.
32:14Yeah.
32:14So...
32:14And it's an experiment, so we're just going to have to trust the process and see what happens.
32:18Yeah.
32:18Yeah.
32:19Just going to stick with it.
32:20Yeah.
32:20Give it 100%.
32:21Yeah.
32:21Yeah.
32:22I really like Emily.
32:24Very protective of her dad.
32:25And she just said to bear with him for maybe the silly things that he does come out with.
32:29Hopefully, the jokes and the nervous energy.
32:33There's a mask.
32:33And I think I just need to get to know him a little bit more.
32:36Yay!
32:45Ah, sweet last.
32:50Emily, she's very nice.
32:51She's very protective of you.
32:53Is she?
32:54Yeah.
32:54Oh, that's interesting.
32:55She knows you best, doesn't she?
32:56She knows that kind of...
32:57Maybe not.
32:58The jokey, nervous energy is kind of a mask.
33:02Of course it is.
33:02Yeah.
33:03I think a couple of times I've been in deep, you know, relationship-wise, and it's not been the best outcome.
33:10And I kind of want to bear it all, but very carded.
33:12Yeah.
33:15So, what are you expecting from this marriage, then, Paul?
33:19I'm expecting mutual respect to reach through.
33:22Yeah.
33:23I think we've got to have each other's back.
33:25I think that's quite important, because there'll be some...
33:27I think there'll be some tough times here and there.
33:29He seems like a genuine, lovely person, but I'm struggling with the attraction part.
33:36So, I think talking and being honest and being open is going to be the only way forward for me and him.
33:44We seem to be cut from the same cloth in respect of that respect thing and that kind of old school.
33:50Well, that's what I'm hoping from the marriage, a little bit of trust, respect, honesty.
33:55Honesty.
33:56Good one.
33:57Yeah.
33:58I'm just going to take one day as it comes.
34:00Yeah.
34:01Yeah, go the flow.
34:02And just try and enjoy it.
34:03I'm feeling super-duper pleased.
34:14I feel relieved that she thinks I'm somebody that she can get on with and build with.
34:19It's been a little bit of a mixture of funny and serious today.
34:23I think the laughs have covered a lot of nerves.
34:26For this marriage to work, I think we've got a lot of common ground,
34:30but I do think we've got a lot of work going forward.
34:32Felt like we got closer yesterday.
34:49Did you?
34:50Mm-hmm.
34:51There has been slight progression.
34:55Bailey and I did kiss last night.
34:57HE LAUGHS
34:59HE LAUGHS
35:01I think yesterday was my favourite day, actually.
35:04Yeah?
35:05Had a little kiss for the first time, which was nice.
35:07I think the cheek's firmly gone away now.
35:10Those kisses have progressed.
35:12Definitely a bit more my style.
35:17Look at the size of the waves.
35:19It is looking worse and worse.
35:21They've literally just put a letter through the door.
35:23Let's see.
35:24It's about this weather.
35:25Right, so class three cyclone warning.
35:28Fucking hell.
35:30Oh, my God.
35:31For your safety, any movement outside the resort is strictly prohibited.
35:35Please do not leave your room unless absolutely necessary.
35:38I'm sure we can think of a few things to do.
35:40Yeah, we're going to have to entertain ourselves then.
35:41Yeah.
35:42If we're in all day.
35:43Maybe we can progress on last night a little bit.
35:46I feel like the time will go really quick for us.
35:48Yeah, we can just sit in all day, get a bit closer.
35:50How nice is this?
35:59It looks actually beautiful.
36:01Can't wait to get changed and do some...
36:04Oh, I think I know she's naked.
36:05No.
36:07Paul is talkative.
36:09He hasn't switched off yet.
36:11Oh!
36:12I don't know if it's nerves or whether that is truly Paul.
36:16Have a smell.
36:16So, the next few days is going to be pretty crucial.
36:22The swans, together.
36:24You've got to be careful about the swans because they look all grey.
36:26So, but underneath they're going...
36:27I feel fantastic after arriving, settling in, seeing our beautiful suite.
36:33I feel really good.
36:35Oh, it's all right, actually.
36:37Paul is loud, he's brash.
36:39But that could be a mask.
36:40So, I'm looking forward to getting to know the real Paul.
36:43But at the minute, it's a lot.
36:44A lot for me.
36:45Because of the cyclone, the restaurants are all closed in the hotel tonight.
37:01So, Bailey has told me to get dressed up and he's going to sort it.
37:06Hello, trouble.
37:08How's it going?
37:09Oh, Bailey, this is so nice.
37:11Boy, do good.
37:12It's so nice to see him be really romantic and gentle and go to loads of effort for the date.
37:17You look bloody lovely, by the way.
37:20You look nice, too.
37:21Cheers.
37:23So, is, like, this what you do for all of your first dates?
37:26No, only for you.
37:27I don't know.
37:29Am I right in saying, like, we've both really had, like, one really significant relationship?
37:35No, I've had a couple, yeah.
37:37Okay.
37:37Yeah, obviously, most recent is biggest for me, yeah, because it was the longest.
37:40What happened then?
37:41I don't know.
37:42We kind of grew apart, I think, yeah.
37:43So, it's hard, isn't it?
37:45Because when you've got a child, like, I think it gives that different dynamic.
37:47You look at your relationships a bit different.
37:50I think Bluebell's always kind of in the forefront of my mind, so...
37:53Yeah, of course.
37:54Yeah.
37:55Do you think, like, you would definitely want to have children again in the future?
37:59That's what I want.
38:00Yeah.
38:01Yeah, but I'd have to be short.
38:02Like, I 100% want to be a mum and 100% know that it's in my future.
38:08Yeah.
38:08Yeah, and I would have to be with someone who would want to do that, too.
38:11I want a big family.
38:12I want loads of kids, yeah.
38:15I love being a dad.
38:16Honestly, I love being a dad.
38:18It's definitely the most important thing that brings me the most happiness, is being a father.
38:22So, yeah, definitely.
38:24It's so nice to hear that Bailey does want to be a father again in the future,
38:28and he knows how important that is to me, so it's something that we're on the same page with.
38:34I'm just really enjoying getting close, yeah.
38:36It just feels natural.
38:37It does, yeah.
38:39And share a few little kisses, which is nice.
38:42I've moved past the cheek stage now, haven't I?
38:43Yeah, no more cheeks, yeah?
38:44Yeah, no more cheeks.
38:46You're a good kisser as well.
38:49What are you getting all shy now?
38:50I am shy.
38:51You're getting shy?
38:51I am shy.
38:52Being locked up inside all day is helping us getting a little bit closer.
38:56I'm being respectful.
38:57I'm going at Beck's pace.
38:58But, yeah, I'm hoping this cyclone gets the train moving a little bit, though.
39:10Let me get this to you.
39:11Oh, thank you.
39:12Come on, madam.
39:14I'm going to pull it away.
39:15Whoosh!
39:15There's no spark there yet, but he's certainly a gentleman.
39:23He's got that bit right.
39:24To finally be here with a beautiful guy.
39:26A girl, sorry.
39:27Yeah, yeah.
39:27Got that all the way around there.
39:29But as far as revealing your emotions and sharing and all of the intimate stuff,
39:35I think he struggles with that a little bit.
39:38So, have you been in many relationships, Paul?
39:41Like, serious ones?
39:42Serious ones?
39:42Yeah.
39:43Four?
39:44Four.
39:45You've only been married once.
39:47Yeah.
39:47I can see, yeah.
39:49How long were you married?
39:51Six years, five years, six years?
39:52I mean, I was married when I was 17.
39:55Two children, divorced by the time I was 22.
39:59I think he was my virginity child was in my early 20s.
40:04I think Paul's trying to be as honest as he possibly can.
40:08However, I wish Paul had asked more questions about my life.
40:11I've prompted him to talk about his life, and he hasn't delved back.
40:15I feel frustrated because it feels like he doesn't really want to get to know us.
40:19So, why don't you think your past relationships have worked out, then?
40:23Well, different ones, different reasons, really.
40:25Yeah.
40:26Could be a common thread.
40:28I've never had a serious relationship for 15 years since the divorce.
40:32Never.
40:32So, you haven't actually had a relationship for 15 years?
40:35No.
40:36Crikey.
40:38No.
40:38I haven't had a girlfriend in 15 years.
40:41You haven't had a...
40:42Oh, right.
40:42So, not...
40:44Right.
40:44So, you actually haven't had a girlfriend for 15 years?
40:47Correct.
40:47Right.
40:49Paul was lasting a relationship 15 years ago.
40:52It's a very long time to be single, and then all of a sudden be wanting a wife.
40:56What does marriage actually mean to you?
40:59To me?
40:59Yeah.
41:00I don't know what the template says for marriage.
41:02I've not read the book.
41:06Tell me what I'm meant to do.
41:09I'm here to find a husband, but I don't think Paul's ready for marriage.
41:13So, feeling a little bit apprehensive, going forward with a relationship.
41:18I'm not sure how that's going to work out, to be honest.
41:20Oh, yeah.
41:23That's worrying.
41:40It does look a bit brighter.
41:41Oh, yeah, that looks so much better.
41:43I think we'll get out and brave it, yeah?
41:44Yeah, amazing.
41:44Sound like a plan?
41:45Yeah, let's go.
41:46Last night was really cosy.
41:48I think the little date, Beck really liked that.
41:50The cyclone did help.
41:52So, yeah, safe to say we definitely got a bit closer last night.
41:55Bailey is firmly out of the frenzo, and I do feel like the spark has ignited, you know?
42:08Come on, we're going back to the apartment.
42:11Let's go.
42:17You ready, love?
42:20Yeehaw!
42:21Perfect.
42:23What are you doing, mate?
42:23I think kayaking's an analogy to life.
42:31You've got to have good teamwork.
42:33We're off, kids.
42:34Yeehaw!
42:34I think we stroked well together.
42:36Mind you, at some points, we were stroking differently and going round in circles.
42:42That was a challenge, wasn't it?
42:44Yeah, it's a bit windy, that's why, I think.
42:46I think the key to a tandem is you've got...
42:50Communication.
42:51I think I communicate all the time.
42:53Do you know what I don't think I do?
42:54Listen enough.
42:55Yeah, maybe.
42:57I'm like that.
42:59It's like white noise, isn't it?
43:00you are non-stop i think the experts have i see why they've matched us oh yeah for the for the
43:08outgoingness the sense of humor don't take life too serious but then when it comes to the l word
43:15and the relationship what word sorry the l word no idea over oh this one no not that one i think
43:23the bond's going between us but i'm nowhere near the same level of maturity when it comes to
43:27emotions as a meter so do you think you've ever been in love i'm not really sure what in love means
43:38we've joined this experiment we are married uh-huh so are you actually ready for marriage i don't know
43:44what not ready is so therefore i don't know what ready is you never give one answer because i don't
43:50know the answers if i had the answers i'll give you the answers i don't have the answers
43:57i came on here looking for love he's even admitted he doesn't know what love is
44:03so it's really hard to kind of move forward
44:11i'm feeling very good about my final honeymoon dinner oh this is so nice things me and becca really
44:32good i'm looking forward to a beautiful meal with very beautiful company honestly i'm sitting here
44:40big smile couldn't have asked for anything more i yeah wouldn't want to do it with anyone else
44:46we are each other's kind of comfort blanket it's only been a week but it's a really nice feeling but
44:52also really like not vulnerable but a strange feeling yeah it is it is scary yeah i feel like
44:59there's a massive spark between us yeah don't you i do it there is there is some sparky there's a big
45:05one isn't there is like a big connection a big spark because of like past relationships i'm so worried
45:11about being in a place where like that spark does die yeah that's why i chased the spark initially yeah
45:19i've never gone into anything that isn't like that yeah so then when we met and the spark was there like
45:24the tiniest amount it's mad now to be in a position where we're like it's grown now it's so deep it means
45:32so much more than just like that instant like yeah sexual attraction or that instant spark i wanted to
45:38just continue and just be as like powerful and energetic and happy yeah let me keep it going
45:46yeah power couple when i first met bailey i wasn't sure if he was an alpha but over the past few days
45:55i see that side to him he 100 is an alpha man and today it feels like i've known bailey for forever
46:04yes come on
46:09fucking beautiful look at that really they look beautiful one more last one
46:24going home tomorrow are we yeah back to reality well back to the apartment is more like
46:30do you know what i'm going to do for the first two days sleep all right yeah what do you think
46:38meeting and i get around like a house on fire i think we've got a good understanding of where
46:42we're coming from so hopefully tonight could be a perfect end to a perfect week
46:50you've hardly asked any questions about me any particular question you want to ask me about
46:54no i want you to tell me i don't want to ask do you know what i mean i want you to say to me well
47:01that's what i think about that and i don't agree with that there must be something about me that
47:06you've wondered about long 374 things yeah ask is one then but why can't you tell me like i tell you
47:15why can't you open up to me our class that has been interested i always feel if people want to tell
47:20you they'll tell you
47:25i struggle sometimes to understand your train of thought when i ask you questions it's like
47:33what do you think of love i don't know what love is there's never just kind of like this is how i
47:38feel or this is what it is can i ask you a question what is love love is see the pause
47:47i couldn't play but you see the pause though yeah yeah because that's simple right well
47:52love to me is all couples in the 80s still holding hands that's what i want that's affection yeah that's
47:59showing love but what is love just at my age i need somebody who knows what they want you've actually
48:08said you don't know what love is you don't know how you're supposed to be feeling so why did you want
48:14to get married
48:18i wanted to have a life experience and take myself out the comfort zone which i've definitely done so
48:24you didn't you didn't join the experiment to find love i don't know what love is how can i find
48:29something something i don't know what it is i think the key word is experiment i think if you
48:34look at the google definition of the experiment it's to test something to see if it works or not
48:39so if we said earlier i'm not sure what love is then i don't think i'd join it to find love
48:48i find paul very frustrating i really don't know what he wants to be honest
48:54i enjoyed that steak
49:00i can't have that bit too much you enjoyed yours by the way
49:07nah i'm not gonna eat that i'm done
49:12i don't know if there's hope for the marriage um truthfully don't think there is
49:24i don't know if there's hope for the marriage um
49:26next time
49:30our newlyweds
49:33move in together we're so cute but for some couples it's almost becoming a little bit real now
49:41domestic harmony i know your three children's names
49:44do you know my two is short-lived it's crunch time for me
49:52at the first dinner party of the experiment oh she's on her own
49:58it's showtime for dean here we are on this mad experiment seeing things not in our element
50:05but sarah serves a scathing review
50:08he has me if i'd ever slept with anyone okay he keeps calling himself the funny fat kid
50:16that's not a very hot thing to say about your partner
50:19and while some are falling head over heels
50:22i've got that like fuzzy feeling in me
50:24others are falling apart you are very negative
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