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Married at First Sight UK (2015) Season 10 Episode 1
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00:00:00I know my soul mate is out there. I just haven't met them yet.
00:00:08Though the path to happiness can often seem dimmed.
00:00:12Doubt does start to creep in. Why haven't I been enough for somebody?
00:00:16Still, we yearn for our happy ever after.
00:00:19I really hope my person is out there.
00:00:22I'm scared, but I'm definitely ready.
00:00:26Trusting each new day will bring new hope.
00:00:29I'm willing to do anything to find a perfect one.
00:00:32That we will find our forever person.
00:00:34I've been waiting for this moment my entire life.
00:00:37I want to have my happily ever after.
00:00:40That love's light will shine on us.
00:00:43Marriage to me means that person that's always there in your corner.
00:00:49A brand new set of brave singles.
00:00:52I want someone who makes my life brighter.
00:00:55I won't settle for anything less.
00:00:58Are stepping out of the shadows.
00:01:01I don't know what it feels like to have someone love me.
00:01:05To greet their new dawn.
00:01:07From this moment on, everything changes.
00:01:11Starting a bold new chapter.
00:01:13The love of my life will make every day brighter.
00:01:18As they put their hearts on the line.
00:01:21I believe there's somebody out there for everyone.
00:01:24And take the ultimate leap of faith.
00:01:26I'm ready to meet the person I'm meant to walk beside forever.
00:01:30In TV's most extraordinary experiment.
00:01:33This is the first day of a whole new beginning.
00:01:36As they marry at first sight.
00:01:40Oh my God.
00:01:42This does feel like someone that I could fall in love with.
00:01:44I'm putting all my faith, my trust into this.
00:01:57I'm ready to meet the man of my dreams.
00:02:00Oh my God, I'm first!
00:02:03I am a romantic guy.
00:02:08I am looking forward to having a happy ever after.
00:02:11To have that person that loves you for you.
00:02:15I can't wait for that.
00:02:16Hi!
00:02:17Oh, lovely to meet you.
00:02:20What's your name?
00:02:21Nelly.
00:02:22I'm Sarah.
00:02:23It's so surreal, isn't it?
00:02:24I wasn't sure if I'd be the first one.
00:02:25No, absolutely.
00:02:26Nice to meet you.
00:02:27Yeah.
00:02:28Oh my God, it's so exciting to be here with the Stags tonight.
00:02:30I'm hoping it's the beginning of the next chapter of my life.
00:02:33So what did you ask for?
00:02:34I'm a hopeless romantic and...
00:02:36I just want to find someone who likes me for me.
00:02:38Next.
00:02:39Yeah.
00:02:4018 brides and grooms to be.
00:02:42My name's Maeve.
00:02:47...are marking the start of the experiment with their Stag and Hen parties.
00:02:51You know what?
00:02:52I'm not the type of guy that's, like, nervous in social situations.
00:02:54This has ruined me.
00:02:55I've had, like, three poos today.
00:02:59Woo!
00:03:00Cheers, girls.
00:03:01Oh, shit yourself.
00:03:02Oh, God, I can't drink that. My hands are shaking.
00:03:05We'll be fine. We'll be fine.
00:03:06We're all on the same boat.
00:03:07We're absolutely grand.
00:03:08Exactly.
00:03:09I know.
00:03:10What's your type, sis?
00:03:11Girl, I like a bad boy.
00:03:13Lots of tattoos.
00:03:14They look like they've probably just come out of jail.
00:03:16Fantastic.
00:03:19I definitely get judged by the way I look.
00:03:22When people see me, they might assume, you know,
00:03:25I'm, like, an ex-convict or something like that.
00:03:29But as soon as they start talking to me,
00:03:31they realise I'm a big softie at heart.
00:03:35Hey.
00:03:36How you up?
00:03:37Hey, fella.
00:03:38How you all right, man?
00:03:39How we doing, lads?
00:03:40We all good.
00:03:41Yeah, what's your name?
00:03:42Joe.
00:03:43Joe, nice to meet you, mate.
00:03:44Whoa, this guy's, like, looking in a mirror.
00:03:45Bye-bye.
00:03:46What are you hoping for, then?
00:03:47You'd think I'd be into tattoos, but it's not, like, a deal-breaker.
00:03:50No, no, yeah, yeah.
00:03:51Do you know what I mean?
00:03:52Like, if she doesn't like tattoos, I'm .
00:03:54She'll be gone.
00:03:55She'll be gone.
00:04:00I am tired of modern dating.
00:04:03People are ghosting.
00:04:04People are breadcrumbing.
00:04:05It's hell out there.
00:04:07It's torturous.
00:04:09Too much?
00:04:10Yeah.
00:04:11Yeah.
00:04:12Oh, my God.
00:04:13Hi, guys.
00:04:14Ultimately, I do want a great love.
00:04:15I believe in it, and I'm willing to do everything I can to make it a success.
00:04:20Have you always thought about getting married?
00:04:22I kind of just always assumed at some point I would get married, and then was like, wait.
00:04:27Wait a minute.
00:04:29I'm in the thirties now.
00:04:30Where is he?
00:04:31I've always been a bit of a front-runner.
00:04:35How's it going?
00:04:36You all right?
00:04:37I'm just super confident.
00:04:38Bailey, nice to meet you.
00:04:39I like to kind of lead the way and be a bit different.
00:04:41Does it?
00:04:42Yeah, I can't wait, mate.
00:04:43I'm so excited, yeah.
00:04:44What are you, like, picturing in your head, then?
00:04:45No, she's standing.
00:04:46Or I think she's standing.
00:04:47Do you know what I mean?
00:04:48Hopefully she thinks I'm all right.
00:04:49I'm sure she will.
00:04:51That's all right.
00:04:52That's a banker.
00:04:53Have we all done the vows, then?
00:04:54I'm going to rap.
00:04:55What?
00:04:56I'm going to rap.
00:04:57Are you?
00:04:58Oh, that's quality, mate.
00:04:59The whole year, like, a little bit.
00:05:00No, but I can freestyle.
00:05:05Here we are getting ready to meet our bride, our wife,
00:05:08whatever you may say.
00:05:09Gonna be something super great.
00:05:11Can't wait to find my bride that day.
00:05:13It's probably not a good idea, Dean, rapping at the end of the aisle,
00:05:16to be fair, no.
00:05:19He's a brave man, isn't he?
00:05:21I don't think I could rap my vows and play to him.
00:05:24Oh, that's great.
00:05:29Hi!
00:05:30Oh, hello!
00:05:32I started thinking about my future husband.
00:05:34I was actually in the shower, you know, a couple of weeks ago,
00:05:36washing my hair, and I was thinking, I wonder if he's standing in the shower
00:05:39washing his hair, and I thought, he might not have any hair.
00:05:41LAUGHTER
00:05:44My granddaughter saw my wedding dress hanging up in the spare bedroom
00:05:47last week.
00:05:48Oh, no!
00:05:49She was like, Grandma, why is there a wedding dress?
00:05:51And I was just like, erm...
00:05:53LAUGHTER
00:05:54Being a grandma is the best.
00:05:59LAUGHTER
00:06:00I adore my three grandchildren.
00:06:03LAUGHTER
00:06:04But I don't feel my age.
00:06:06I would say I was a little bit wild.
00:06:11I'm always doing something a little bit crazy.
00:06:15LAUGHTER
00:06:18I don't want to be sitting later in life and having regrets.
00:06:21Of course I'm the best grandma.
00:06:24LAUGHTER
00:06:29For you, for your husband and you don't like him,
00:06:30do you think you'd be able to...?
00:06:31I think there's got to be some initial attraction.
00:06:34Yeah.
00:06:35We have to give it a chance, because we're all single for a reason.
00:06:37Let's call it for what it is.
00:06:38It's not our fault.
00:06:39LAUGHTER
00:06:42I am desperate to fall in love and meet the right person.
00:06:46I'm excited.
00:06:48Hiya.
00:06:49Oh, hello.
00:06:50Oh, you all right?
00:06:51You all right?
00:06:52What's your name?
00:06:53Leah, what's your name?
00:06:54I'm Bailey. Nice to meet you.
00:06:55Yeah, I'm a bit shook.
00:06:56Like, she's pretty all right, isn't she?
00:06:58Didn't expect that, to be fair.
00:07:01I'm interested in your type,
00:07:02because obviously you're here on the stag.
00:07:03So, I have always been bi.
00:07:05OK.
00:07:06But I have asked for a girl.
00:07:07OK.
00:07:08I was with men until I was 25.
00:07:09OK, yeah.
00:07:10And then I started dating girls, and then I was like,
00:07:12no, I need a man.
00:07:13And now I'm, like, bored, I need a girl.
00:07:15Is it definitely no more, man?
00:07:16I'd never say never.
00:07:17Why do we get married?
00:07:18Yeah.
00:07:19That was the wrong answer.
00:07:20Oh, thanks.
00:07:21Do you think you've been in love before?
00:07:24Yes.
00:07:25I think I've never been in love, but I've been in love.
00:07:27You've never been in love?
00:07:28Come here, give me a cuddle, mate.
00:07:29Come here.
00:07:30Give me a cud.
00:07:31Someone's obviously told you they love you, though.
00:07:33I've always been the one.
00:07:34They've been the prize.
00:07:35I've never been the prize, you know?
00:07:36Growing up, I was always the friend and never the boyfriend,
00:07:38but the friend that the girls would tell everything to,
00:07:39and they're like, I need to find a guy just like you.
00:07:41And I'm there like, I'm literally just like me,
00:07:42so why won't it be me?
00:07:43And they just couldn't see it.
00:07:44And I'm like, one day you'll see it.
00:07:45But it just never came.
00:07:46I've not felt accepted in all my relationships at all,
00:07:48because I've had somewhere they asked me to change.
00:07:50I was with a girl, and she said I was too fat,
00:07:52so that's the thing that you kind of take with you.
00:07:55So, yeah, I've definitely felt like I'm not enough
00:07:57before in relationships.
00:07:58My friend said to me, someone will love you for who you are.
00:08:01And I was like, oh, my friend is like you are.
00:08:03I'm like, oh, my partner is like you're going to do it.
00:08:05And I'm like, oh, I'm like, oh, my brother,
00:08:07I'm like you're like me.
00:08:09You're like, oh, my brother, I feel like you're like you.
00:08:11And I'm like, oh my brother, you're like, oh, my brother,
00:08:12I'm like, oh, my brother,
00:08:13I'm like you, oh, my brother.
00:08:14Someone will love you for who you are, and you'll find that person.
00:08:17And now I'm ready to find my person. I'm ready for love.
00:08:22I think I've always loved more, and I want the same.
00:08:25Oh, I hope yours really puts you on a pedestal.
00:08:26I hope so.
00:08:27I'm going to make sure she does.
00:08:28Dean, like, he's my favourite straight away.
00:08:31Like, I'm just hoping he finds the one more than anything,
00:08:33because he's just too nice.
00:08:35I'm going to make sure she does.
00:09:05My standards are very high.
00:09:07Hello!
00:09:08And I'm here for my perfect match.
00:09:11Wow!
00:09:13Beautiful!
00:09:14Getting up again!
00:09:15Everyone is very sophisticated.
00:09:18You're awesome, darling.
00:09:20And I'm, like, a bloody highlighter.
00:09:23So, Rebecca, 32, tell everybody I'm 29.
00:09:27Sounds good.
00:09:28And I'm a nurse, but I've got an aesthetics clinic.
00:09:31Nice!
00:09:33Has anyone got kids?
00:09:34Oh, yes.
00:09:35Has anyone got children?
00:09:35I don't know.
00:09:37Do you?
00:09:37Yeah.
00:09:38So, I've got a little boy.
00:09:39Yeah.
00:09:39Oh, yeah, I know.
00:09:40I am a MILF.
00:09:41I know.
00:09:41Yes!
00:09:42Oh, I know.
00:09:43He's nine.
00:09:44Nine.
00:09:44Ten this year.
00:09:45Wow.
00:09:46Nearly ten years of being a MILF.
00:09:47Yes, girl.
00:09:49You're right.
00:09:50Yes, girl.
00:09:50You're right.
00:09:50Hello!
00:09:55Oh, my God.
00:09:57I'm Lee.
00:09:57I'm from Romford.
00:09:59I'm gay, so I'm marrying a woman.
00:10:00What?
00:10:01What?
00:10:01What?
00:10:01What?
00:10:02What?
00:10:02What?
00:10:03Bitch!
00:10:06I knew you'd be...
00:10:07I'm not alone!
00:10:10So, I knew no one would be expecting that, so I'll just get that out of there now.
00:10:13Do you mind me asking, when did you come out?
00:10:15I think I was about 15.
00:10:16I didn't have, like, this big coming out story.
00:10:18So, my mum was like, as long as you're happy.
00:10:20My story could not be any different.
00:10:22What was your story?
00:10:24Dad kicked me out.
00:10:25Oh, my God.
00:10:26You want such a long spot.
00:10:27Oh, I'm so sorry.
00:10:29He just didn't understand it.
00:10:30He didn't get it.
00:10:32Have you been able to rebuild that relationship?
00:10:34I love my dad, and he loves me.
00:10:35Oh, I love that.
00:10:38Are they coming to the wedding?
00:10:39No, but I'm FaceTime with my mum on the day.
00:10:42Amazing.
00:10:43Dad already says, like, you got this.
00:10:45Oh, I love that.
00:10:46Anything will be better than the last one.
00:10:51My previous relationship, we were engaged for two years.
00:10:55I wanted kids, get married.
00:10:57I thought we were on the same page.
00:10:59Turns out we weren't.
00:11:02And that broke me.
00:11:04That broke my heart.
00:11:05And now, here I am, again, at 33, studying again.
00:11:09And, yeah, I'm ready for this.
00:11:10I'm here to find love.
00:11:15I've been through a lot.
00:11:17I've been through a lot.
00:11:18But I don't want to settle.
00:11:20The only thing that settles in this household is dust.
00:11:22I'm not dust, so I'm not settling.
00:11:24I love that.
00:11:25Is that my next tattoo?
00:11:31I think during the experiment, I'll end up as Papa Smurf,
00:11:34whether I like it or not.
00:11:35That's the honest truth.
00:11:36Someone new?
00:11:37Hello.
00:11:37How's it going?
00:11:38I'm Paul.
00:11:38Yeah, I'm good.
00:11:39Nice meeting you, Paul.
00:11:39I'm Joe.
00:11:40Good to meet you, man.
00:11:41You OK, yeah?
00:11:42A man of my generation would come to me for all kinds of advice, I would imagine.
00:11:47Hopefully not on zoom or frames and, you know.
00:11:49When you get to a certain age, sexual attraction is not number one.
00:11:54It might not seem that way at your age, but it's not.
00:11:57The sexual attraction will grow if you're on the same wavelength.
00:11:59If you're not, you'll just go like that.
00:12:02Plus, like, I don't know how old you are, but at that age, chicken.
00:12:07He's being well nice.
00:12:10Have you been married before?
00:12:11Yeah, once.
00:12:12OK.
00:12:13How long was you married for?
00:12:14Seven years.
00:12:14Which seemed much longer at the time.
00:12:16I'm feeling apprehensive, anxious, terrified.
00:12:26Kia.
00:12:26Nice to meet you.
00:12:27Yeah, I'm fine.
00:12:27Ashley, next to you.
00:12:29I've been hurt and I've put a lot of walls up in relationships, but I want to find love
00:12:33more than anything else.
00:12:34How are you feeling, Kia?
00:12:35A little bit nervous, but good.
00:12:36Good.
00:12:36Are you nervous?
00:12:37Yeah.
00:12:38I'm about to marry a stranger.
00:12:39You're not a little bit nervous.
00:12:41What have you asked for?
00:12:42Someone understanding, someone patient.
00:12:45Are you a nightmare?
00:12:45I would say individual, but nightmare's another way of looking at it, I suppose.
00:12:56I'm definitely ready to say goodbye to my, like, single life.
00:13:04I'm ready to put a ring on my finger.
00:13:05It's cold.
00:13:06It's naked.
00:13:07It doesn't look right.
00:13:08I kind of just want to go get married, like, now.
00:13:10Like, if I can just today.
00:13:14Like, now.
00:13:15Where are you from?
00:13:17I'm New Zealand, but I love here now.
00:13:19Yeah.
00:13:21She's traveling.
00:13:22There we go.
00:13:23Exactly.
00:13:24What a fabulous ball of energy.
00:13:26Absolutely love her.
00:13:28Whether it's on your, like, honeymoon or whether it's on your wedding day, is anyone gonna...
00:13:33And the, mm, and the, and the...
00:13:35I'm just gonna play it by ear.
00:13:38I'm not.
00:13:40We'll get married.
00:13:40You're gonna do it on the first night?
00:13:41No.
00:13:42Loveless.
00:13:43Yeah.
00:13:43So un-gay of you.
00:13:44I know.
00:13:45That thing is the emotional and then the physical for me.
00:13:47Mm-hmm.
00:13:48Because if I, if I give you the emotional and the physical, there's nothing left for me
00:13:52to give you.
00:13:53But my problem is, what if you fancy the absolute arse off of them?
00:13:56Then do it, girl.
00:13:57Oh, hello, baby!
00:14:00Do what makes you happy!
00:14:02I mean, sex on the wedding night obviously will depend if I fancy him or not.
00:14:07Please be fit.
00:14:10I just want to see if he takes out the bins or not.
00:14:13If he's like, I'm sorry, I can't do that, I can't.
00:14:16Wait, wait, wait, I have a good tip for that.
00:14:17So there's pink jobs and blue jobs.
00:14:19Blue jobs are boys jobs.
00:14:21In my last relationship.
00:14:22I had to do laundry, I had to do dishes.
00:14:25I was doing all the girls' jobs.
00:14:28Why have I considered girls' jobs?
00:14:31I don't want to do them either.
00:14:35People suggesting that women should be doing women jobs.
00:14:40Which is bullshit.
00:14:43We want to go more, like, feminist.
00:14:46Let's keep them equal.
00:14:4950-50, like if someone's cooking, the other person cleans.
00:14:51It's very easy.
00:14:52I agree with that.
00:14:53It doesn't have to be pink and blue.
00:14:58Jesus.
00:14:59That was controversial.
00:15:00Wasn't it?
00:15:07I'm here on a mission.
00:15:09I'm excited to meet the person of my dreams.
00:15:18Devonnie.
00:15:18Devonnie.
00:15:19Devonnie is handsome.
00:15:22Very handsome guy.
00:15:23Joe's really jealous because he's not the best looking now.
00:15:26Ah, he's fuming, look.
00:15:27He's fuming.
00:15:27Oh, here's an even better looking guy.
00:15:34Oh, here you go, man.
00:15:35Oh, here you go.
00:15:36Oh, here you go.
00:15:37Nice to meet you.
00:15:38What's your name?
00:15:38Steven.
00:15:38Nice to meet you.
00:15:39Steven, I'm Bailey.
00:15:39Yeah, nice to meet you.
00:15:40Steven's dressed to impress, so he's doing all right so far.
00:15:43He's showing everyone up.
00:15:44What do you do, Steven?
00:15:47Investment banking manager.
00:15:48Oh, okay.
00:15:48In London?
00:15:49Yeah.
00:15:50What are your red flags?
00:15:51What's something that's a complete turn-off?
00:15:53Neediness.
00:15:54Oh, is it?
00:15:55It's a turn-off.
00:15:56I'm all about neediness.
00:15:58Want me, need me.
00:16:00What are your red flags?
00:16:01I'm so sorry.
00:16:04A man that works in finance is the biggest red flag for me.
00:16:07I'm so sorry.
00:16:10Is anyone like family members, like coming to the wedding?
00:16:13My dad is walking me down the aisle.
00:16:14Oh, nice.
00:16:15Which is lovely because he's just my absolute rock in my world.
00:16:18Love that.
00:16:19But, yeah, I lost my mum when I was 22.
00:16:23She passed away.
00:16:24Yeah.
00:16:25So she won't be there.
00:16:26My mum was my hero, but around the age of 12,
00:16:33I noticed that she had a problem with alcohol.
00:16:38I would come home from school and I would find her intoxicated on the couch.
00:16:45So I had to take on a carer role, essentially, at a really young age.
00:16:50She almost became a different person, didn't she?
00:16:52And it was unpredictable.
00:16:53I think I used to get nervous coming home from school.
00:16:56By the time I was 22, she was admitted to hospital for the final time
00:17:03and she passed away three days later.
00:17:09And then we went back to see her and she was so at peace,
00:17:15which is the comfort that I take from it.
00:17:18I miss her all the time.
00:17:20So I've sort of gone into most of my adult life, obviously, not having my mum.
00:17:34I do find it quite hard, especially going into life events and not having her there.
00:17:38One of those things, like, it's never really this, like, the same, but you just get on with it.
00:17:42I'm totally upset.
00:17:46She'd be absolutely buzzing.
00:17:47I know she will be watching this, being like, go on, Saz, like, you've got this girl.
00:17:52So she's going to be so proud of me.
00:17:54And yeah, her name is Julie.
00:17:57So to Julie.
00:17:59Thanks, everyone.
00:18:00With the stags and hens acquainted,
00:18:05it's time for the experts, Mel, Charlene and Paul, to kick off this year's experiment.
00:18:15We're so good, people!
00:18:16We really hope you're enjoying getting to know each other on your final night of singledom.
00:18:33You are standing at the beginning of a journey that has the potential to change your life forever.
00:18:40We've worked hard for many months to match you with a perfect partner.
00:18:49What lies ahead will test you in ways that you could never have expected.
00:18:55It might be one of the toughest experiences of your life.
00:18:59But you're not doing this alone.
00:19:02You have Mel, Charlene and me to guide you every step of the way.
00:19:07And on that note, we will leave you to enjoy the last night of your old life with new friends.
00:19:19This is the craziest thing I've ever done.
00:19:22I'm marrying a stranger.
00:19:23It's become very real, very quick.
00:19:28I can't wait.
00:19:29My wedding's around the corner.
00:19:31I'm buzzing.
00:19:32Let's get married!
00:19:34I am dying for these experts to get it right.
00:19:41Like, if they can, I can't wait.
00:19:44I want the fairy tale.
00:19:45Bring on the wedding.
00:19:46This is it.
00:19:47Oh, wow.
00:19:57Look at that.
00:19:59He looks so beautiful.
00:20:00My baby.
00:20:02Across the UK.
00:20:03I'm excited to see you get married.
00:20:05Because you're my first granddaughter.
00:20:07I get married.
00:20:09Favourite, aren't I?
00:20:10You are.
00:20:1018 nervous singles.
00:20:12So my impending nuptials.
00:20:14Yes.
00:20:14Are just days away from entering the life-changing married at first sight experiment.
00:20:23Hello, hello.
00:20:24Hi, hey, all right.
00:20:25Who's your perfect woman?
00:20:26You've got a match on more than just that primal level.
00:20:29I'm just ready for a fairy tale now.
00:20:31I'm ready for my prince.
00:20:32It's just leaning.
00:20:33Oh, hello.
00:20:35Do you feel like there are stereotypes that people put on folks from Newcastle?
00:20:41Yeah, I think everyone thinks we're all, like, proper loud rajis and that just, like, to party.
00:20:47I mean, they're not wrong.
00:20:48And of all this year's many applicants, the first to enter the experiment is 31-year-old Sarah.
00:21:02I usually don't get approached by men that often.
00:21:05I'm having too much of a good time.
00:21:07I'm on the dance floor, giving it the best moves.
00:21:09I'm like, yee-haw!
00:21:17My friends would describe me as a bit of a wild one.
00:21:20I am the party girl.
00:21:21I go out a lot, enjoy life.
00:21:24I'm definitely the one that's always in the dance floor up for a good time.
00:21:27I'll be carrying the trays of shots, bringing back to everybody, making sure everyone is living their best life.
00:21:32Hey, girls!
00:21:33My usual type of guy would be referred to by my friends as a walking red flag.
00:21:42I just love a bad boy.
00:21:45Tattoos, big builds.
00:21:47I mean, sign me up.
00:21:49Like, hold my hands up.
00:21:52The usual types that I go for are just guys that, yeah, are just a bit of an asshole.
00:21:57Like, you know what I mean?
00:21:59So how's that been working out for you?
00:22:03Not great.
00:22:05I really want to find a nice guy and, yeah, that somebody is just going to be my night and shine armor.
00:22:12Yeah, I like that one with your mom.
00:22:14That's a nice one.
00:22:15It has been a really hard few years since the passing of my mom.
00:22:20I have been through a lot.
00:22:22She's adored you and she was very, very proud of you.
00:22:25I initially felt unsure how to process that I wasn't going to see her again.
00:22:31But my mom's passing definitely brought my dad and I's relationship a lot closer.
00:22:37We now have an inseparable bond.
00:22:40I tell my dad everything.
00:22:42He is my rock and I would be lost without him.
00:22:45My dad has never approved of my past relationships.
00:22:52He has felt that they have just been, yeah, horrible to me.
00:22:56They usually start off very nice, very charming, lots of fun.
00:23:03They end up being super toxic.
00:23:05Usually they have cheated, ghosted.
00:23:08One of my exes was controlling.
00:23:11He had to know my whereabouts at all times.
00:23:14He completely isolated me from my friends and family.
00:23:16And I completely lost myself during that relationship.
00:23:22I was known as the bubbly, outgoing, confident person.
00:23:26And my friends, I'm going to get upset.
00:23:30Didn't recognize me at the time.
00:23:33Oh my gosh, I'm sorry.
00:23:34And it took me a good bit of time to get myself back.
00:23:39I just pray that I never go through that again.
00:23:45It was hell at times.
00:23:50It has sort of put my walls up, put my barrier up.
00:23:53So I think it would probably take a really special person for me to sort of let them in again.
00:23:59So what needs to change then for you?
00:24:01I would say look for other qualities and realize looks aren't everything.
00:24:06And I do know that, you know, just look beyond the looks.
00:24:09Yeah.
00:24:12I absolutely do deserve love.
00:24:14I've got so much love to give.
00:24:16I've been giving it to the wrong people.
00:24:19I am now ready for the nice guy.
00:24:21I feel I deserve a nice guy.
00:24:24I need help from the experts to meet someone because I keep picking the wrong guy.
00:24:28So I am now putting all my faith and trust that they will find Mr. Right.
00:24:33My perfect husband would be someone who can match my energy.
00:24:40Absolutely lovely.
00:24:41Hilarious.
00:24:42A bit of a joker.
00:24:44Who can have fun with me.
00:24:46Have great sense of humor.
00:24:48And a big heart.
00:24:51If he doesn't look like what I would usually go for, doesn't matter.
00:24:55I'm going to be open-minded.
00:24:58I want to settle down with the nicest guy in the world.
00:25:03I've always been the cute, nice guy.
00:25:05My favorite thing to do is to make people smile.
00:25:09My friends would describe me as a cheeky chap.
00:25:13I love to make sure people laugh and around me are having fun.
00:25:16I'm a wind-up.
00:25:17I'm more the clunky, awkward, fun guy that you'll hopefully fall in love with.
00:25:20I've been lucky enough to work in a variety of professions all based around entertainment.
00:25:27I started years ago as a redcoat at Butlins, Panamines, cruise ships.
00:25:31Also a jack-of-all-trades.
00:25:33I do magic.
00:25:34I've done puppeteering.
00:25:35I can do circus skills.
00:25:36Singing, rapping.
00:25:37But now, team building is the perfect job for me.
00:25:41Let me show you what you'll be doing for your first challenge.
00:25:45I get to play city games that may be building marshmallow towers.
00:25:48Oh, no!
00:25:49I think it's rare to find, like, a bigger person who is confident.
00:25:54And that's the things that get thrown at me a lot.
00:25:55Like, cool, you've got a lot of confidence.
00:25:56But I think it just, anyone can be confident.
00:25:58You've just got to find it within yourself.
00:26:01Oh, my God.
00:26:02When you used to sing upstairs all the time, and I'd be like,
00:26:05Dean, shut up!
00:26:08Dean's got a lot of love to give.
00:26:09I just hope that she can give her all and make Dean as happy as I know Dean can make her.
00:26:14You were 16 when you met Dad, right?
00:26:16Yeah.
00:26:16Hey, look.
00:26:17There's our wedding pictures here.
00:26:18My parents have been together for over 30 years.
00:26:21And my mum and dad are still in love.
00:26:23They're still kissed.
00:26:24They still laugh.
00:26:24They're still taking the mic.
00:26:25They'll still go out together.
00:26:26It's like eternal love.
00:26:29And I want what they have.
00:26:32Like, life's okay.
00:26:33I'm okay on my own.
00:26:33But it's so much better with a person there who's got your back.
00:26:38When I was younger, I never really got the attention of any girls because I wasn't that sexy guy.
00:26:43Dating was non-existent.
00:26:44Get cast off into the friend zone.
00:26:46I think I got up to, like, 22 stone.
00:26:49You're like, oh, mad.
00:26:50Like, okay.
00:26:51I need to kind of change.
00:26:53And I wanted to get girls interested.
00:26:55I managed to actually lose about nine stone.
00:26:57And it added pressure to, like, stay looking a certain way.
00:27:00Like, completely change who I was.
00:27:01And my friends call it, like, arrogant D.
00:27:04And then I started to put the weight back on again.
00:27:07But I was finding myself again.
00:27:09And I was more confident in who I was.
00:27:12It's not a shameful thing to be bigger.
00:27:14It's just who you are.
00:27:15And if someone loves you, they'll love you for who you are.
00:27:17It's the person inside.
00:27:21When I'm in a relationship, I'm a hopeless romantic.
00:27:24I just love to make the person I'm with feel like a princess, feel like a queen.
00:27:28Bringing flowers.
00:27:30Sending cute messages.
00:27:31I'd write, like, love poems and stuff.
00:27:33Just to make them feel special.
00:27:35I remember one of the girls I was seeing, she's always wanted to go on a safari, but
00:27:38we couldn't afford to go on a safari.
00:27:39So I brought loads of, like, you know, toy animals.
00:27:42And I was like, oh, you know, like, just, like, I love being, I love to make people feel
00:27:46love.
00:27:47And when I'm in a relationship, I tend to give a lot, because I love to do it.
00:27:51But it's not reciprocated back.
00:27:54Why do you think it is that you give so much so early on?
00:27:59If I think about it now, it's because I don't want them to leave.
00:28:02I've always been told I'm punching.
00:28:04I'm that type of guy that's always punching over someone.
00:28:06Everyone tells you they can do better.
00:28:08Then I guess you start to believe that they can do better.
00:28:10You are enough.
00:28:12Yeah.
00:28:13But I wonder if you believe that.
00:28:16I'd like to think so.
00:28:18I know I'd never rather be anyone else.
00:28:20I'm very happy with myself.
00:28:21I think I'm a good person.
00:28:23I try to be the best every day.
00:28:24And I just hope someone can see it, really.
00:28:30The whole purpose of life is to be loved.
00:28:33And to love somebody.
00:28:36I believe in the fairy tale.
00:28:38I think if you're with the right person, every day it can be magical.
00:28:41And you can find magic in every moment.
00:28:42My perfect partner would be someone who's loving, who has a beautiful smile.
00:28:54You know when you can see someone's energy, I want to see that, just that warmth.
00:28:57When we meet, hopefully, fireworks.
00:29:02This couple are a really interesting match, with lots of similar values and qualities.
00:29:14Let's talk about Sarah first.
00:29:17Her Achilles heel is the bad boy, which she described as tall, tanned and tats.
00:29:23By her own admission, this type has led to pretty much nothing but heartache.
00:29:28Time after time, she's just been poorly treated.
00:29:30She's ready for a change.
00:29:32She's told us she wants to start looking beyond the physical.
00:29:35The nice guy is now top of her priority list.
00:29:38Absolutely.
00:29:38Dean is the ultimate good guy, with a big heart that Sarah's been searching for.
00:29:43He's got boundless positive energy and an amazing passion for life.
00:29:48Their shared love of laughter is sure to unite them.
00:29:51Dean's respectful, loving nature is something Sarah's really been lacking in previous relationships.
00:29:56Yes, Dean is a nurturer.
00:29:58He wants someone who will reward him with the same love and support that he has to offer.
00:30:03They both get a kick out of being sociable, but home life and family are also really important to them.
00:30:11The first couple of this year's experiment, Sarah and Dean.
00:30:17I'm really excited about our next match.
00:30:20Get ready for Sparks.
00:30:23Hey, gorgeous.
00:30:27Welcome to my crib.
00:30:29I hate that I said that.
00:30:30I'm like a cheerleader.
00:30:31To the bathroom.
00:30:32Bubbly, enthusiastic.
00:30:34You could get a rugby team in that shower.
00:30:35I've tried.
00:30:36It's a mess, because getting dressed is difficult, and we'll pretend it's because I'm a young professional, but mostly I watch Gossip Girl.
00:30:43I'd also say I'm really stubborn and argumentative, but we'll just stick with those positives.
00:30:49I work in marketing all in the property world.
00:30:53I've done lots of show apartment launch events, coming up with great little captions.
00:31:00Hey.
00:31:00Hello, mother.
00:31:01My mum is an icon.
00:31:03My mum is the original icon.
00:31:05She'll get cake.
00:31:06Yeah.
00:31:07I like the thought of cake.
00:31:09She supports me in whatever I do.
00:31:11As long as I'm happy, my mum just supports that.
00:31:15Proud of you.
00:31:16Would you say your mum is the strongest person you know?
00:31:23Yeah, 100%.
00:31:24Yeah, definitely.
00:31:27I don't think a parent should ever have to bury their child, and my mum lost her child.
00:31:33My brother had cerebral palsy.
00:31:37He passed away just before his tenth birthday.
00:31:40We were close. We shared a bedroom for quite a lot of my childhood.
00:31:45We'd listen to music. We'd make silly noises with each other.
00:31:49I still remember, like, my mum driving us to school, and he'd be in the back of the car.
00:31:54We'd all be singing Lionel Richie or the Carpenters or Boney M.
00:31:57So, like, yeah, I've got nothing but having memories of my brother.
00:32:02I think it's only been since I've been an adult and I've started actually working through that,
00:32:06that it's kind of sunk in, that feeling, like, the feeling of, like, something being missing
00:32:11and not having that big brother.
00:32:13But when you lose a loved one, you become closer to the people that are there
00:32:16because you appreciate so much more what you've got and how fragile life in itself can be.
00:32:23So it just, you don't want to waste any form of moment.
00:32:27What kind of husband do you think I need?
00:32:35You just need somebody who's there for the right reasons,
00:32:38somebody who's going to care about you, you know, be kind,
00:32:41but also who's going to want to have those dreams and goals with you.
00:32:47I have been single for seven years.
00:32:51It's been good to be single for this long because I think I needed that time.
00:32:55I needed time to grieve my divorce.
00:32:59My ex-husband and I met when I was 19.
00:33:03We were together for seven years.
00:33:06He was my first real relationship.
00:33:09He showed me the world. We traveled the world together.
00:33:12And he swept me off my feet.
00:33:13He showed me a life that I never even dreamed that I could have.
00:33:17So it was fabulous. It was amazing.
00:33:20But money doesn't buy happiness.
00:33:23And it is 100% the most miserable I have ever been.
00:33:30There was such a huge age difference and we were different people when we met to who we then grew into.
00:33:36And I think either you grow together and grow as one and as a team or you grow apart.
00:33:41And that led to infidelity on his side.
00:33:45And eventually we fell apart.
00:33:49I felt very isolated, very alone.
00:33:53I became a much dimmer version of myself.
00:33:58Hi, guys.
00:33:59Hi. How are we?
00:34:02It's taken a lot to rebuild, but...
00:34:04My previous marriage has prepared me for the experiment because I now understand.
00:34:09I deserve love as much as everyone else deserves love.
00:34:11All I want for you is that you find someone that makes you happy and allows you to be who you are.
00:34:23I need a husband who is patient, a gentleman, calming, because I can be, you know, a lot.
00:34:32I'm just kind eyes.
00:34:35There's nothing more beautiful than a pair of kind eyes.
00:34:40Eyes and smile.
00:34:42And hopefully funny.
00:34:44If not, I'm funny.
00:34:45It's fine.
00:34:49Hi, everyone.
00:34:51I'll describe myself as bubbly.
00:34:53A lot of energy.
00:34:54I like to make people laugh.
00:34:56If I make people laugh, it kind of means that I'm flirting with you.
00:35:02I was born in Portugal, raised in Paris.
00:35:04Mom is French.
00:35:05Dad's Portuguese.
00:35:06People find it quite attractive when I say I speak foreign languages.
00:35:09They're like, oh, my God, please say something.
00:35:10And it's normally in French.
00:35:12But I find Portuguese a little bit more sexy.
00:35:14Romantic French.
00:35:16Sexually, Portuguese.
00:35:17Being a flight attendant is beautiful.
00:35:25It's probably one of the best jobs in the world.
00:35:28One day I'm here.
00:35:29The other day I'm in New York.
00:35:30And next week I'm going to be in Jamaica.
00:35:32It's great.
00:35:33You live the luxury life.
00:35:34You are in a hotel every other day.
00:35:36But being a flight attendant is probably the hardest job to date anyone.
00:35:42It's very lonely.
00:35:43You don't see your family.
00:35:44Family is very, very important to me.
00:35:52Mommy's just my best friend.
00:35:53She always did everything to be there by my side.
00:35:58Daddy's proper poochies.
00:36:00Like, he's a man-man.
00:36:02Doesn't talk about his feelings.
00:36:03It's just, I'm here to work.
00:36:05I'm the man of the house.
00:36:06And that's how it works.
00:36:07That's how he was raised.
00:36:08When my dad found out that I was gay, my dad didn't want to see me.
00:36:14Yeah.
00:36:18I went straight to Paris.
00:36:21That's when I ended up on the streets.
00:36:24I was homeless for a while.
00:36:27It was very scary.
00:36:28I was a teen.
00:36:29I was...
00:36:31Sorry.
00:36:32Because my dad, he's not a bad person.
00:36:40He really isn't.
00:36:40He was just...
00:36:41He didn't know.
00:36:42He didn't know better.
00:36:45It took time to build up that relationship.
00:36:50It took a lot of effort from him.
00:36:51I think then he understood that my sexuality doesn't change who I am.
00:36:59It was just hard for him to understand because he never met anyone like me.
00:37:03It took work on both sides.
00:37:05But I love my dad.
00:37:07He made me the man I am today.
00:37:08At my age, definitely.
00:37:14I thought I would be married by now.
00:37:16It's probably what I envisioned when I was in my previous relationship.
00:37:21It was great.
00:37:22I loved him.
00:37:24I did.
00:37:25And eight years together.
00:37:27Eight years?
00:37:27Wow.
00:37:28Yeah.
00:37:28Engaged.
00:37:29It just didn't work out.
00:37:32So what happened?
00:37:32They fell out of love for me and they loved someone else.
00:37:37So...
00:37:38Yeah.
00:37:41Broke me.
00:37:43I was so obsessed with the idea of it's going to work that I overlooked so many things.
00:37:51And I shouldn't have never allowed that to happen.
00:37:58I'm 33 years old.
00:37:59And is it the time to find love?
00:38:01Yes, it is.
00:38:02I don't want to feel alone in that I'm doing it by myself all the time.
00:38:06I want to feel like someone is helping me out as well.
00:38:09It's my time now.
00:38:13Whenever I envision my husband, I always think of someone that is caring.
00:38:17100% themselves.
00:38:19Trustworthy.
00:38:21Energetic.
00:38:23With dark hair.
00:38:25Not massively build, but...
00:38:28Has some structure to himself.
00:38:30Has a nice little boat.
00:38:31That makes me laugh.
00:38:35And when there is a good egg.
00:38:37I just love the energy of these two.
00:38:43They're both coming into the experiment with open hearts full of optimism.
00:38:47And Daveed ticks so many of Kia's boxes.
00:38:51He's handsome and outgoing, with lots of emotional intelligence, which I think will help Kia open up and be vulnerable.
00:38:58Exactly.
00:38:59Kia tends to be loud and excitable, which I suspect is a defense mechanism.
00:39:04Daveed, more measured and grounded.
00:39:06I think he can provide that safe space for Kia to let his guard down and reveal who he is beyond the surface level.
00:39:13They've both experienced a breakdown of long-term relationships.
00:39:16Kia a divorce and Daveed a failed engagement.
00:39:19So they'll share a strong need for trust and transparency.
00:39:24Kia is ready to be that supportive, dedicated husband that Daveed has been looking for.
00:39:29If there's chemistry, then they're potentially one of our strongest matches.
00:39:35Daveed and Kia.
00:39:37Did you ever think it would be me getting married next?
00:39:55No.
00:39:56No.
00:39:57No.
00:39:58I'm nervous, obviously.
00:40:01I can't believe the day is finally here that, yeah, I'm meeting my man.
00:40:05What do you want to be waiting at the end of the aisle?
00:40:09I mean, you know me, looks-wise, that tall, tanned, hunky man, some tats on the mat, some tats on there.
00:40:14Just being mindful, there might not be what you want them to look like, but maybe that's exactly what you need.
00:40:19Someone who is completely the opposite of what you usually go for.
00:40:23You're right, I know, to look beyond the tats.
00:40:26Sarah's usual type is basically just the absolute worst.
00:40:29She has a lot of tunnel vision when it comes to guys, so it's definitely time for her to meet someone who just treats her nice.
00:40:37I'm really hoping that he has good energy and, like, good vibes, you know.
00:40:41I think, like, fun is important.
00:40:43Definitely.
00:40:43That's, like, the main thing.
00:40:44Yeah, it's so important to me, so, yeah, hopefully he's the same.
00:40:50So, come on then, looking good.
00:40:51How are you feeling?
00:40:52Excited, not nervous.
00:40:53I'm way more excited than I am nervous, 100%.
00:40:55This is the most exciting day of my life, hopefully.
00:40:59I'm marrying a stranger today.
00:41:01That's crazy.
00:41:02Literally in a few hours.
00:41:04So, I want to turn around and, like, see her and, like, my breath get taken away.
00:41:07I want a wow moment.
00:41:09But I'm just scared about if she'll like what she sees, innit?
00:41:12Dean does deserve to be happy and have someone look after him because he's so caring and attentive to his friends and family.
00:41:18And I hope the girl who he marries realizes how lucky she is.
00:41:22I just hope she gives it a chance because I might not be what she wants at first sight, you know?
00:41:27And that's genuinely, like, a little bit of a worry.
00:41:29Yeah.
00:41:29Yeah.
00:41:30I think she needs to know me, the full me.
00:41:32So, I'm going to try and come in and, like, be my full self.
00:41:35I'm ready.
00:41:35I'm excited.
00:41:36I'm excited to do this little rap as well, you know?
00:41:41Yeah, right.
00:41:42Yeah.
00:41:43At least you're ready for it.
00:41:45We've been made aware that a rap's going to be coming today at some point.
00:41:48It's a bold statement.
00:41:49Just be ready for your bits.
00:41:52Go on, tell us then, what are you expecting to see at the end of the aisle?
00:42:04What am I expecting to see?
00:42:05A man, hopefully.
00:42:06I'd really like it to be a man.
00:42:07That would be exciting.
00:42:08Wouldn't that be great?
00:42:09Your first one ever.
00:42:10I cannot believe this day is here.
00:42:12I hope my husband right now is a pool of anxiety just like me so we can be in this together.
00:42:18Are you okay?
00:42:25Yeah, I'm fine.
00:42:27Sure?
00:42:27Fine.
00:42:30As fine as one can be when you're getting married to a stranger, to be fair with you.
00:42:33Okay, true.
00:42:37Have you spoken to your mum yet?
00:42:39No, I'm going to call her later on.
00:42:41It would be good just to like hear her advice on stuff.
00:42:47It's important to ask my mum for any tips for a good, happy marriage because if anyone
00:42:53will tell me the truth, it will be blah, blah.
00:42:54This being your second marriage, how are you going to approach that conversation with
00:43:02your new husband?
00:43:04I think I, well, no, I know.
00:43:06I'm going to tell him on a different day.
00:43:08Today's meant to be about us starting a relationship together.
00:43:11I don't think it's appropriate to bring up a past relationship and make it about something
00:43:15else.
00:43:16I think it's a beautiful thing to want to make the day about the two of you, but I think
00:43:20you should start it off on honesty, personally.
00:43:22I think you definitely need to be more vulnerable.
00:43:25Yeah.
00:43:26And I think you've allowed yourself to be vulnerable very often.
00:43:30Hmm.
00:43:33Oh, um.
00:43:35It takes a lot for me to be vulnerable.
00:43:37But that's part of why I'm here, to understand how to love and be loved while being vulnerable.
00:43:52I do feel protective because she's only got the one parent, so I have to do the job for
00:44:17two people, really.
00:44:20Sorry.
00:44:22It's okay.
00:44:24It's okay.
00:44:25Come on.
00:44:26You've got this.
00:44:27Pull yourself together.
00:44:28Can you believe it's actually here?
00:44:29The day is here.
00:44:30No.
00:44:31No.
00:44:31I haven't always warmed to Sarah's partners.
00:44:34I think Sarah needs somebody who is reliable, respectful and kind.
00:44:40Some of her previous partners have not met up to those standards.
00:44:44Can't wait to meet her.
00:44:45I know.
00:44:45Neither can I.
00:44:46Are you all nervous as well?
00:45:12In my previous relationships, I've always put my partner on a pedestal.
00:45:16And I now want that.
00:45:19I want them to be proud to be with me.
00:45:23I'm excited about meeting my wife.
00:45:27Hopefully she'll like what she sees.
00:45:34I am shitting myself.
00:45:38Have an open mind.
00:45:39Okay.
00:45:40Don't rush to judgment too quickly.
00:45:43Yeah.
00:45:43All right?
00:45:44All right.
00:45:46Oh my gosh.
00:45:48Here we are.
00:45:49Here.
00:45:51Are you okay?
00:46:01Are you okay?
00:46:06Hi.
00:46:11Hi.
00:46:11looks are very important to Sarah and he is definitely not Sarah's type but in the past
00:46:22Sarah hasn't always chosen the right sort of guy so I think it's a good thing
00:46:28today is the biggest day of my life I have dreamed of the fairy tale wedding since I was a little
00:46:39girl I really want to fall in love but my typical type hasn't worked for me ever so I am praying
00:46:51that Mr. Perfect is at the end of the aisle
00:47:09oh my god
00:47:26what's your name Sarah what's your name my name's Dean Dean you look beautiful by the way
00:47:37she's smiling she's looking at me and I think this is the woman for me it started off good
00:47:49the personality is there I hope she's feeling the same
00:47:51no I don't fancy Dean
00:47:57I'm so sorry I should wait
00:48:03welcome all to the wedding of Sarah and Dean
00:48:14please speak the vows you have written for your husband
00:48:17okay
00:48:20after months of waiting and manifesting this moment I cannot believe that the day of our wedding is
00:48:29finally here I promise to give this opportunity everything to make you laugh respect our differences
00:48:36and always support you I can't wait to see how our adventure unfolds through the ups and downs as
00:48:44we embark on this crazy journey
00:48:45that was beautiful that was really nice thank you
00:48:48Sarah I don't know anything about you yet but I can't wait to discover all the idiosyncrasies that make you who you are
00:48:59like how you like your tea in the morning what makes you happy but most importantly what makes you you
00:49:04I promise to make you smile every day this is one hell of a crazy journey we're about to embark on together
00:49:10and I can't wait to see where it leads us now I did mention making you smile and there's something I've prepared
00:49:17oh my god okay all right when I saw you in that dress today you did more than take my breath away all my fears alleviate I know we're gonna be okay I know we'll have hard times it's true but I'll never ever give up on you why we match we want to be okay I know we're gonna be okay I know we'll have hard times it's true but I'll never ever give up on you
00:49:38why we match we may not know trust experts and build a hope oh god oh god like what the hell
00:49:44he is just over the top that's put me right off never seen anything looking so clear you and me
00:49:52plain to see end of time hopefully everybody sing with me when I say wed you say ding
00:49:59wait when I say wed you say ding wait when I say wed you say ding wait
00:50:07I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed the rap is not something I envisioned I have to say I was not expecting that
00:50:27she joined in that big rap she was loving it it was a way better than I could have ever hoped
00:50:33this is my type of lady
00:50:35Dean no Dean's not my typical type
00:50:39make sure it's on there
00:50:43it's staying on
00:50:44you can share your first kiss if you wish to
00:50:50she has passed the vibe check the vibe check is off the scale you know
00:51:05I've lucked out so yeah I'm happy very happy
00:51:09Dean is such a lovely guy but I'm gonna be completely honest I don't want to rip his clothes off
00:51:18oh sorry no
00:51:24oh my god you look gorgeous mom
00:51:39I was my hero I think my mum a lot of the time can
00:51:47know me better than I know myself
00:51:48I wasn't always I wasn't supportive the first time you got ugly
00:51:53you got married okay because I just spoke you were too young
00:51:57but this time my plan is to be really supportive I think you've grown
00:52:01you've matured and I think you know a lot more about what you want
00:52:05so sorry for the first time around
00:52:07I'll be here for this one okay
00:52:11I'm proud of where he is today after having seen him struggle to do this takes courage it takes bearing your soul and that to me I am incredibly proud of anybody that can sorry
00:52:15that can step up and do that I think just go into it with your eyes wide open and just just take everything you can from it and if it's the love of your life hey ho hopefully fingers crossed that's what we want
00:52:22hopefully fingers crossed that's what we want
00:52:29it's the biggest day of my life I'm so nervous
00:52:36I'm trying to call my mum she's not picking up
00:52:43nope I would mean the world if my mum could be here today
00:52:50but my family lives in Paris and they can't be here for the wedding
00:52:54I'm trying to call my mum she's not picking up
00:52:58nope I would mean the world if my mum could be here today
00:53:02but my family lives in Paris and they can't be here for the wedding
00:53:08yeah let me try my brother
00:53:15all I want is just talk to my mum
00:53:20no
00:53:33no
00:53:34no
00:53:35no
00:53:36no
00:53:38no
00:53:40no
00:53:41no
00:53:43no
00:53:44no
00:53:45no
00:53:46no
00:53:47no
00:53:48no
00:53:49no
00:53:50no
00:53:51no
00:53:54do I don't think she's not here
00:53:55no
00:53:56no
00:53:57no
00:53:58no
00:53:59no
00:54:00no
00:54:01You have the right to cry.
00:54:03It's my mom.
00:54:07Having my mom here is just great.
00:54:09Love her to pieces, hearing her voice and just a hug from her.
00:54:13Sorry, I can...
00:54:19I'm more relaxed, way more relaxed now that I have them with me.
00:54:23You guys are crazy, you can do that to me.
00:54:29Oh God, I'm really happy.
00:54:31I'm so happy.
00:54:33I'm so happy.
00:54:35I'm so happy.
00:54:39Do you have any advice?
00:54:41For a marriage.
00:54:43For a good marriage.
00:54:45I hope you'll find someone who will recognize the person you are inside.
00:54:51You are a good boy.
00:54:53You are a good boy.
00:54:55He will make you happy.
00:54:59If it's not good, we'll see.
00:55:03Your mum...
00:55:05Is yours anxious as well?
00:55:19Your mum.
00:55:30Is yours anxious as well?
00:55:32He's French. I know French too.
00:55:34My English is not perfect, but I understand everything.
00:55:37Is he anxious? Worried?
00:55:40Yes.
00:55:40Mine too.
00:55:41There's a lot riding on today.
00:55:50I want to be someone's priority.
00:55:53I don't think I've been a priority for a very long time.
00:55:58I deserve to be loved.
00:56:00And I want the next one to be the one.
00:56:11Hi.
00:56:15Hi, everyone.
00:56:17Hi, you're the mother of the groomer.
00:56:18I am the mother.
00:56:20Oh, bless your heart.
00:56:22My name is David.
00:56:23I'm Yvette.
00:56:23Nice to meet you, Yvette.
00:56:24Nice to meet you.
00:56:26Hi, everyone.
00:56:27Good? Nervous?
00:56:28What?
00:56:30Hi, Yvette.
00:56:31You all look gorgeous.
00:56:32Damn it.
00:56:33You look so stunning.
00:56:34What a good bunch.
00:56:37All right.
00:56:38We're doing this.
00:56:39You got me flowers.
00:56:44His mum raised him well.
00:56:46Did a good job.
00:56:56I've never been so nervous in my entire life.
00:57:00It's my second marriage.
00:57:01Everything is riding on today.
00:57:04I really hope this is my happily ever after.
00:57:12I really hope you like it.
00:57:14I really hope he's being here.
00:57:23Oh
00:57:50Very very very nervous
00:57:53How are you?
00:57:54I'm good.
00:57:55You look amazing.
00:57:56You look gorgeous.
00:57:57You look fantastic.
00:57:58So are you.
00:57:59Hi.
00:58:03This is calming.
00:58:06He's very handsome.
00:58:08Beautiful jawline.
00:58:10He gives really good eye contact.
00:58:13He has a good energy.
00:58:17I'm beaming.
00:58:18I'm so happy.
00:58:19I fancy him massively.
00:58:21And he's got a freaking great smile.
00:58:24Like that infectious smile of just like a pure soul.
00:58:29Hi, everyone.
00:58:34Kia?
00:58:35Uh, I did.
00:58:36Oh, stop.
00:58:37That's so lovely.
00:58:39Are you good?
00:58:40Don't shake.
00:58:41Yeah, I'm shaking a lot.
00:58:42Sorry.
00:58:43You got this.
00:58:44We're good.
00:58:45We're dancing it off.
00:58:46We're dancing it off.
00:58:47You're fantastic.
00:58:48Shake it off.
00:58:49Shake it off.
00:58:50Yes.
00:58:51Very happy.
00:58:52Beautiful smile.
00:58:53Very happy.
00:58:54Oh, you're great.
00:58:55I'll come here.
00:58:56I'm very happy.
00:58:57Me too.
00:58:58I'm very happy.
00:58:59Good.
00:59:00Awesome.
00:59:01Yeah, we've got this.
00:59:02Yeah.
00:59:03Amazing.
00:59:04This is brilliant.
00:59:05Hello.
00:59:06Hi.
00:59:07We come together on this wonderful day to celebrate a truly special and memorable moment.
00:59:14It is time for you to both read your vows to one another and we will begin with you, David.
00:59:20I hope you're feeling as nervous and excited as I am in this crazy adventure we're about to embark on.
00:59:33All fairy tales end with happily ever after.
00:59:35I guess we're meant to live our own ever after now.
00:59:38And like the rest of those fairy tales, we have no idea what happens next.
00:59:44Did Elsa ever come out as gay?
00:59:47How about us?
00:59:52So for the beginning of this crazy fairy tale of ours, I'll make you some small but very important promises.
00:59:59You're doing great.
01:00:03I promise to make you smile at least once a day.
01:00:07I promise to have your back as long as you want me to.
01:00:10I promise to hear you out and put myself in your shoes whenever you feel upset.
01:00:14In return, all I ask is that you are truthful, that you are kind and 100% yourself.
01:00:23Because at the end of the day, we are now face to face for the first time, about to start our own ever after.
01:00:30Let's do this marriage thing right.
01:00:32That was beautiful.
01:00:33Yeah?
01:00:34That was so beautiful.
01:00:35That was beautiful.
01:00:36That was really beautiful.
01:00:37I got you back.
01:00:39You did amazing.
01:00:40I got you.
01:00:44I got you.
01:00:45I got you.
01:00:53For something great to happen, we must close our eyes and jump.
01:00:57So today, that's what we're here to do.
01:00:59Committing to staying together through and through.
01:01:04I can't promise the wind speed will be perfect.
01:01:07That I won't panic along the way.
01:01:10The magnitude may be daunting, but together we'll always be okay.
01:01:17Just know that I will hold your hand right up to the edge and won't let go as we dive into the journey ahead.
01:01:26And when we land with both feet on the ground, I have no doubt a connection will have been found.
01:01:31Here, I give you this ring as a symbol of my commitment to you.
01:01:47As we begin this exciting new journey together, please wear this ring with pride and joy.
01:01:52David, I give you this ring as a symbol of my commitment to you.
01:01:58I promise to stand by you through the good times as well as the challenging times.
01:02:05Ladies and gentlemen, would you all please join me in congratulating our wonderful couple.
01:02:10David and Kia, if you would like to, please share your first kiss.
01:02:14Do you want to high-five it or can I kiss you?
01:02:16You can kiss me.
01:02:17Oh, perfect.
01:02:29Yes, David is a good kisser.
01:02:32Kia, he's very, very, very handsome.
01:02:35He makes me laugh already, so he's really good, yeah.
01:02:38There's definitely a connection.
01:02:40I am absolutely giddy.
01:02:44I'm like a bloody schoolgirl with a crush.
01:02:47I'm so, so happy.
01:02:48He's just wonderful.
01:02:52I am taken.
01:02:54Don't talk to me.
01:02:55Don't flirt to me.
01:02:56Don't even look at me.
01:02:58I'm taken.
01:03:10Just get you guys together.
01:03:12Go on.
01:03:13Go on.
01:03:14Arm around your wife there, sir.
01:03:16You guys look good.
01:03:17Yeah, the experts have smashed it out of the park.
01:03:20Like, I couldn't have asked for anything better, I don't think.
01:03:23What do you like doing?
01:03:24Do you go to the gym?
01:03:25Yeah, that's what I like doing.
01:03:26Have you got tattoos?
01:03:27No tattoos, no.
01:03:28Do you like tattoos?
01:03:29Yeah.
01:03:30Oh, God.
01:03:31I need to start focusing on the tattoos.
01:03:33I know.
01:03:36If you could hold hands there, find a nice natural way, that's it.
01:03:40Are either of you romantic?
01:03:42Yeah.
01:03:43No.
01:03:44Well, I don't know, but not too much.
01:03:47Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:03:48I'm very romantic.
01:03:49Are you?
01:03:50But how much are we talking?
01:03:51Well, I could write a rap for you, you know, things like that.
01:03:53Yeah, but you wouldn't do that every weekend.
01:03:54No!
01:03:55No!
01:03:56Wait, no, but tell me what else.
01:03:58Mike, oh, I've done so many things.
01:03:59Tell me.
01:04:00I love being...
01:04:01Do you not like being surprised?
01:04:02Er...
01:04:03Not...
01:04:04Well, I don't know, it depends.
01:04:05I guess you didn't.
01:04:06Not over the top.
01:04:07Yeah, no, I have been over the top before.
01:04:08Have you?
01:04:09Because I love poems and things like that.
01:04:11Oh, please don't write me a poem.
01:04:12No.
01:04:13No.
01:04:14I don't want Dean to write me a poem.
01:04:16I don't want Dean to write me a poem.
01:04:21I don't.
01:04:22Sorry.
01:04:23I don't know what we...
01:04:24I don't know.
01:04:25This feels a bit awkward, doesn't it?
01:04:26Yeah.
01:04:27Maybe she's not been romanced the right way, you know, but she's already not dead.
01:04:31So, I'm going to show her how I think a woman should be treated.
01:04:34Low, round the waist.
01:04:36Lift up your arm.
01:04:37There you go.
01:04:38That's it.
01:04:39There you go.
01:04:40And really, really squeeze.
01:04:41That's it.
01:04:42Nice and tight.
01:04:43That's it.
01:04:44Just fuck.
01:04:45I'm joking.
01:04:46No.
01:04:47I did not fuck.
01:04:49I'm a little bit worried because all I can think of is I don't fancy you.
01:04:54So, you can turn just to look at each other.
01:04:56Just stay connected.
01:04:57Keep that arm.
01:04:58Yeah.
01:04:59Like, physically.
01:05:00That's it.
01:05:01Yeah.
01:05:02He is so lovely.
01:05:03I can absolutely see why the experts have matched us together.
01:05:06I'm just sensing a friend vibe more than a romantic vibe.
01:05:12Cheers, thank you.
01:05:13You're done.
01:05:15That was lovely.
01:05:16It was good for me.
01:05:17It was good for you.
01:05:18And I haven't come here for a friend vibe.
01:05:20Yeah.
01:05:21How do your friends go here?
01:05:34Cheerleader.
01:05:35Like, you know.
01:05:36You're the best.
01:05:37I like to be optimistic, loud.
01:05:39Okay.
01:05:40You're very loud.
01:05:41I'm very loud.
01:05:42Yeah.
01:05:43Yeah.
01:05:44He is absolutely great.
01:05:46I'm really happy.
01:05:47I love what I've got to know so far.
01:05:50The nerves are gone.
01:05:51All I want to do is just hang out with him for now.
01:05:53How would your friends describe you?
01:05:55Funny.
01:05:56Love.
01:05:57Too caring sometimes.
01:05:59Okay.
01:06:00Yeah.
01:06:01My friends tell me all the time that I pour into everyone's cup.
01:06:04But never into my own.
01:06:05Okay.
01:06:06I'll pour into your cup.
01:06:07It's all right.
01:06:08Oh, cute.
01:06:09It's all right.
01:06:10I'll cover your cup up.
01:06:11Yeah.
01:06:12So cute.
01:06:13So cute.
01:06:14Very cute.
01:06:15I've got your cup.
01:06:16Covered.
01:06:17Shall I leave?
01:06:20It feels great being married.
01:06:24Daveed is calming, is grounding, and fun, and is just matching my energy in the best possible
01:06:30way.
01:06:31Tell me more.
01:06:32Tell me more.
01:06:33Tell me more.
01:06:34I want to know everything about you.
01:06:35I honestly want to know everything about you.
01:06:36I want to tell him that I have been divorced.
01:06:43But there needs to be the right moment because I don't want to put a negative spin on a positive
01:06:50day.
01:06:51Hello.
01:06:52Hello.
01:06:53Hi, I'm Kia.
01:06:54Kia.
01:06:55Hi, lovely to meet you.
01:06:56I'm really glad that you both came.
01:06:57Really glad.
01:06:58I'm really glad that you both came.
01:06:59Really glad.
01:07:00What do you think?
01:07:01Are you happy?
01:07:02Of course.
01:07:03I'm happy for you.
01:07:07He said we're really cute together.
01:07:09Oh, thank you.
01:07:10I can see that.
01:07:11Yeah, me too.
01:07:12Me too.
01:07:13I think my mum and my brothers are brutal means everything to me.
01:07:17But they are catching flights back to Paris.
01:07:20And they have a taxi coming up to Victor Mart.
01:07:23I promise I will look after him.
01:07:25Good.
01:07:26So you do not have to worry.
01:07:28My mum like Kia.
01:07:30Yeah.
01:07:31She really loved him.
01:07:32We have this connection that my mum straight away saw.
01:07:34We've been paired for a reason.
01:07:36And I believe that 100%.
01:07:38I want to know him more.
01:07:40I really do.
01:07:48Cheers, guys.
01:07:49Oh, yeah, cheers.
01:07:50Cheers.
01:07:51I know.
01:07:52Cheers.
01:07:53He's awesome.
01:07:54Cheers to you too.
01:07:55Cheers.
01:07:56Cheers.
01:07:57Cheers.
01:07:58Are you happy?
01:08:01You know.
01:08:02Yeah.
01:08:03Yeah.
01:08:04I knew you would.
01:08:05I knew you would.
01:08:06Yeah.
01:08:07You know, I was like, they're going to know.
01:08:08Yeah.
01:08:09Yeah.
01:08:10My main concern is, obviously, there's not that initial attraction.
01:08:13There's not that initial spark between us.
01:08:15Or in my opinion, anyway.
01:08:17He hasn't got any tattoos.
01:08:19Nah.
01:08:20Nah.
01:08:21Like, he's actually really nice looking.
01:08:22And, like, he's got a really nice smile on that, so...
01:08:24I feel like giving this one a little bit more bad, hopefully.
01:08:26Yeah.
01:08:27Mixed in with the rest.
01:08:28That would be nice.
01:08:29Yeah.
01:08:30It's not somebody she would genuinely go for.
01:08:31But that's a good thing.
01:08:32Because we know it's not always the right choice.
01:08:33What's your usual type?
01:08:34Like, smaller than me, you know, which is hard, I guess.
01:08:35But, you know, yeah.
01:08:36But...
01:08:37Bless you.
01:08:38What about yourself?
01:08:39My usual type is probably a bit of a walking, talking red flag.
01:08:41Oh, mad.
01:08:42I'm not going to lie.
01:08:43They usually look like they've just come out of jail.
01:08:44Ooh.
01:08:45Yeah.
01:08:46Yeah.
01:08:47Yeah.
01:08:48Yeah.
01:08:49Yeah.
01:08:50Yeah.
01:08:51Yeah.
01:08:52Yeah.
01:08:53Yeah.
01:08:54Yeah.
01:08:55Yeah.
01:08:56Yeah.
01:08:57Yeah.
01:08:58Yeah.
01:08:59Yeah.
01:09:00Yeah.
01:09:01Yeah.
01:09:02Yeah.
01:09:03Oh, yeah, I'm very much not a bad boy.
01:09:08I'm actually very good.
01:09:09I'm like a mummy's boy.
01:09:10Yeah.
01:09:11Yeah.
01:09:12Yeah.
01:09:13I'm the furthest thing from a bad boy I think you could ever get.
01:09:16And maybe there's a reason.
01:09:17It's not worked in the past and hopefully she's ready to be treated properly.
01:09:20What's happening now?
01:09:25What is about to happen right now?
01:09:30So, yes.
01:09:31What is happening?
01:09:32So, so, so, so, so, like, um...
01:09:33What the heck?
01:09:34I know you don't know me that well yet.
01:09:35Yeah.
01:09:36So I wanted to paint a picture of what, like, I see what love can be, hopefully.
01:09:37Oh, God.
01:09:38See me down in front of the fire.
01:09:39See me down with a hot cup of cocoa with you.
01:09:41Like, what the fuck?
01:09:42I'm like, what the fuck?
01:09:43I'm like, what the fuck?
01:09:44Yeah.
01:09:45I'm like, I know you don't know me that well yet.
01:09:46And I know you don't know me that well yet.
01:09:47Yeah.
01:09:48So I wanted to paint a picture of what, like, I see what love can be, hopefully.
01:09:51Oh, God.
01:09:52I'm like, what the fuck?
01:09:54And I play you songs with my six-string guitar.
01:09:59Tell me stories of heart as heart.
01:10:02It's a little bit weird and a little bit awkward.
01:10:16I'm not an over romantic person at all and anything over the top does put me off I don't
01:10:27know how to react to that when things get tough then we'll get better when things get hard we'll
01:10:33make them easy again and I've known it from the moment that we met I will never be alone
01:10:46because you're my hope my love my life the one and you're my home
01:10:50the song is just a bit much for me too much too soon although to be honest I don't know if I
01:10:59would even like anyone writing a song for me after time we'll build a life together you and me
01:11:07that was a nice touch a really nice touch yeah I'm struggling a little bit can't lie and much more
01:11:25than I thought like I promise I'll like treat her with utmost respect for your daughter you also
01:11:30have this kind of you just want to make sure she's okay and protect her you want to make sure she's
01:11:34okay yeah just give you the ick a little bit that's fun vibes for me I'm not gonna lie I can see why
01:11:43we've been matched I can she's not there that's all
01:12:13welcome to the family this is literally all I have not even joking besides my family these people
01:12:26well now you have all of these people too yeah I know oh I hate that I'd be his sopies
01:12:33I feel like they've known each other their whole life yeah I'm really I'm so happy for them
01:12:42hi we're just gonna chat we're just gonna have a little chat a little good chat give us a hug you
01:12:51son-in-law oh I know I just think it's a brilliant match there's just a really good vibe there I am
01:13:01really hoping that they will come out with something very lasting how do you feel very
01:13:09very good yeah did not expect him but I'm in the nicest way possible like it's the best surprise I
01:13:15was I just love his energy his energy but it is lovely it's absolutely it has a lot of insecurities
01:13:21does it well I'm not gonna tell you anything about care I think that needs to come from
01:13:25care it's wrong okay I need to say he will open up to you yeah I'm not gonna hurt him but it will take
01:13:30time and he as much as you're seeing a vibrance here there are times when he's incredibly quiet
01:13:37and I think he spent his whole life thinking that he has to perform for everyone because that's what
01:13:44they expect okay is a good laugh you know here's the life of soul of the party I think we both just
01:13:51embrace who you are yeah I love boys though I have learned quite a lot there's a lot of barriers
01:14:00there here needs time to open up about them but I want to get to know him I need that emotional
01:14:05connection first well how are you doing yeah it's a lot seems like it's a really nice guy I know
01:14:23he'll certainly he'll look after you looks like a protective sort of type you know I mean to be
01:14:32honest with you I'd far rather you know yes you're safe with him rather than somebody who's a bit wild
01:14:39and a bit oh thank you look at the ways look at the way he's looking and I know he's listening right
01:14:52he's not he doesn't strike me as somebody who's like full of himself no he's no definitely not
01:14:57yeah yeah he obviously likes a laugh as you like a laugh oh there's no doubt about that we're
01:15:04definitely gonna have fun I think you're gonna have fun I think he's the type of guy who who would
01:15:09start with a sort of friendship with you you know I wouldn't I wouldn't judge it too early
01:15:15I would just go with the flow and enjoy it you know but you never know in life
01:15:22dad's seal of approval is obviously vital to me but I'm looking to find love in this process and
01:15:30that initial attraction just isn't there I've never really been in that position before I've always
01:15:37fancied the guys that I've had a relationship with my main concern moving forward it's more just
01:15:44will the spark come I am not sure where I'm at at the moment
01:15:48I don't know I don't know still early days
01:15:53oh this is great cheers this is cheers
01:16:07this is stunning
01:16:10mm-hmm today I absolutely love the fact that you were unapologetic yourself
01:16:20because it's cute it's fucking cute but you're not gonna be 110% all the time and I'm gonna get
01:16:29to know you besides that yeah the vulnerability is really hard for me telling someone I'm divorced is
01:16:38scary right now I feel like it is the right time to tell him
01:16:47just sorry sorry it's fine yeah take a time I married my first boyfriend
01:16:57how old were you uh so I was 19 when we met and he was 29 20 30 okay
01:17:07yeah we were together for six and a half nearly seven years okay married for the last year of it okay and then our relationship became
01:17:18you're good you're good you're good you can talk about it our relationship just became really bad um we brought out the worst in each other he and she saw me I left and filed for divorce and that was the end of that
01:17:43so I was engaged for two years
01:17:53I proposed
01:17:55so I was engaged for two years and that was the end of that he was a very difficult breakup
01:18:01yeah so we both need the reassurance and I think it's something we can build together
01:18:05yeah like the trust we can build up together it's not just me trusting you it's you trusting me as well
01:18:10it's fine we're gonna be fine
01:18:12everything you say to me after you give is just like
01:18:18everything I asked for good
01:18:24he so far is the most perfect human being that the experts could have set me up with
01:18:32I'm enjoying you
01:18:33same
01:18:34a lot
01:18:35yeah
01:18:36yeah 100%
01:18:37yeah
01:18:37we got this
01:18:38yeah we do
01:18:39it's not easy to open up to someone that you literally met hours ago
01:18:49it actually makes me happy that he's willing to be honest with me yeah
01:18:53it has been the most perfect day
01:19:05David is ticking all the boxes boxes I didn't even know I had
01:19:10it makes me happy that he makes me laugh
01:19:16what more can you want from a marriage
01:19:21today has been a massive whirlwind
01:19:23there's been a lot of emotions
01:19:28now I'm just excited for what's to come
01:19:35I can't believe we're here
01:19:36next time
01:19:37this is like dreams
01:19:38like dreams
01:19:39as the first set of newlyweds head on honeymoon
01:19:43for Daveed and Kia
01:19:44do you want to see a rhino's horn?
01:19:45is it the horn you're excited about?
01:19:47an innuendo too far
01:19:49everything has to be an innuendo or a joke
01:19:51I need the part
01:19:52calls their match into question
01:19:55and Dean's urge to perform
01:19:57say hallelujah
01:19:58no
01:19:59irks new wife Sarah
01:20:00the outburst of song and rapping
01:20:03really beginning to grate on me
01:20:05ahead of a frank confession
01:20:07have you ever been with anyone big or anything like that?
01:20:09no
01:20:11it's hard to hear
01:20:12that has left me feeling empty
01:20:14and as two new couples say I do
01:20:17I'm at a point in my life where I am looking for that real thing
01:20:21one bride show-stopping arrival
01:20:23more on entrance
01:20:25spells a hopeful start to married life
01:20:27I do fancy him
01:20:28tick tick tick
01:20:32in stark contrast
01:20:34I wouldn't say he's my type
01:20:36to the other's wedding day meltdown
01:20:39what am I doing?
01:20:40sorry
01:20:40I do fancy现��
01:20:44to the other's wedding day
01:20:52you
01:20:53I take a Olha
01:20:54what am I doing?
01:20:56we need it
01:20:58your party
01:21:01I'mabor
01:21:04you
01:21:05how are you doing?
01:21:06I'm econom 죄
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