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Married at First Sight UK (2015) Season 10 Episode 4
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00:00:00South Africa!
00:00:02Previously...
00:00:03Right now, he's not putting a foot wrong.
00:00:05I am completely the sausage with you.
00:00:07While the honeymoon spelt marital bliss for some...
00:00:09I'm gonna kiss you now.
00:00:10I would hate if you didn't.
00:00:13Hi!
00:00:14For two new brides...
00:00:16Should we do a cheek?
00:00:17A frosty first impression...
00:00:19I don't know if she fancies me now.
00:00:21I made a mistake.
00:00:23Shit.
00:00:24How would you feel...
00:00:26...was followed by...
00:00:28...if we spent this evening on our own?
00:00:32What the hell is she doing?
00:00:34The ultimate wedding night rejection.
00:00:37How are we actually meant to get to know each other...
00:00:39...if we're not spending time together?
00:00:43Tonight...
00:00:44Marriage to me means everything.
00:00:46As more brave singles...
00:00:48I'm extremely nervous.
00:00:50...take the ultimate gamble on love...
00:00:54...there's an instant spark for some.
00:00:56It's love aversa.
00:00:57Hope the horse doesn't shut on me dress.
00:00:59But one bride's unconventional arrival...
00:01:02I can't believe she's on a horse.
00:01:03Heya, darling, you alright?
00:01:04I thought you were black for a funeral.
00:01:06...and party spirits...
00:01:08If it was Rosie, I'd be on your second bottle by now.
00:01:10...ring alarm bells for her groom.
00:01:12What are you like when you're drunk?
00:01:14Argumentative.
00:01:15I'm not 100% sure that Maeve's my type.
00:01:18Do you reckon you could do it?
00:01:19Yeah.
00:01:20And as the honeymoons continue...
00:01:22I love typu, don't you?
00:01:24...while Grace and Ashley turn a corner...
00:01:28I thought we'd go to the top of the mountain.
00:01:30Right.
00:01:31...Lia and Lee's troubles...
00:01:32Leah, I'm not excited, you are.
00:01:35...hit new heights.
00:01:37No, this is not fun for me.
00:01:39She doesn't understand the severity of things until it gets too far.
00:01:43Good.
00:01:44Just give me two sets.
00:01:45I have full stuff, haven't I?
00:02:03I woke up this morning in the dungeons...
00:02:05...whilst I gave Lee the honeymoon suite last night.
00:02:08I wasn't expecting to wake up alone on night one.
00:02:13I just feel like she's being miserable.
00:02:15When someone's got negative energy around you...
00:02:17...it just zaps your energy.
00:02:19I just want to see where her head is at.
00:02:20I want to see if she's actually arsed.
00:02:25I am glad I made the decision to spend the night apart.
00:02:27Leah wasn't my initial type, so she wasn't really what I was expecting.
00:02:31I feel like, had we had spent that night together...
00:02:33...I might have felt pressured or, like, overwhelmed...
00:02:36...without having that time out.
00:02:38How are you?
00:02:41How are you feeling this morning?
00:02:42I'm a little bit tired, can't lie.
00:02:44Oh, yeah.
00:02:45I feel like I've been in a dungeon.
00:02:46It was freezing.
00:02:48How did you sleep?
00:02:49Yeah, really well, actually.
00:02:50As soon as I got to sleep, I just act like I like it.
00:02:52I slept terrible, as you can see.
00:02:54My eyes are tired.
00:02:56How did you feel staying on your own?
00:02:58I mean, not ideal.
00:03:00I could have easily stayed in a bed of yet.
00:03:02I'm just, like, very protective of myself.
00:03:06Like, I'm quite guarded.
00:03:08Mm.
00:03:09I don't think that's necessarily an unhealthy thing.
00:03:11I think you should protect yourself.
00:03:13Yeah.
00:03:14But I think with this whole experiment, like, you need to be open and vulnerable.
00:03:21And I'm, like, willing to do it.
00:03:23Mm.
00:03:24100%.
00:03:25Getting to a level of being fully vulnerable, that's going to take me a little bit longer,
00:03:29but that's not going to stop me from getting to know you.
00:03:33The spark and the romance between me and Leah isn't there yet, but I'm not completely closed off to it.
00:03:39I'm open to building the relationship and seeing where that goes and if that can come.
00:03:44Shall we have a little look where we're going?
00:03:45Go on, then.
00:03:46OK.
00:03:48Leah and Lee, congratulations.
00:03:50We hope you enjoyed your first night as newlyweds.
00:03:52I didn't because I was freezing.
00:03:55Now it's time for your honeymoon in Switzerland, where your love can find its perfect setting to blossom.
00:04:03I genuinely think she's gorgeous.
00:04:05But I think I've got concerns, like, are we going to form more of a romantic bond?
00:04:09Because right now I can't see it.
00:04:12I think I can turn it around.
00:04:20How are you? What do you reckon we're doing?
00:04:21I haven't got a clue.
00:04:23I feel like Grace and I are moving forward.
00:04:31I'm happy with where we are and the progress we've made.
00:04:34Look at that.
00:04:35I know what it is.
00:04:37If it isn't my favourite pastime.
00:04:39Today I've organised a little massage.
00:04:42Something we can do together and hopefully just have a bit of fun.
00:04:46Are you OK with it?
00:04:48Messages are probably never going to be, like, my favourite pastime.
00:04:52I don't love skin-to-skin contact.
00:04:54It's something I've been dealing with for as long as I can remember.
00:04:58But I need to be more open-minded.
00:05:01I want to do this for Ashley.
00:05:03I didn't feel I had to sleep like a pencil last night.
00:05:10You're very respectful.
00:05:11I've got respect for you being that night.
00:05:13Grace and Ashley had a bumpy start to married life.
00:05:18Big no for me, double standards.
00:05:20I just feel like I shouldn't be going.
00:05:22I'm like, am I stupid to go?
00:05:25Which continued into their honeymoon.
00:05:27I said I want a tomboy Barbie.
00:05:29What?
00:05:30Oh, fuck.
00:05:31It's offensive.
00:05:32Like, every now and then he just says something and I think, like,
00:05:33do you know how that sounds?
00:05:36But a recent small breakthrough.
00:05:38I'd love to just work on, like, the friendship part.
00:05:41Ultimately, I'm in here for a different reason than friendship.
00:05:45Put them on a surer footing.
00:05:47Sorry.
00:05:48Don't apologise. Getting to know each other.
00:05:49Exactly.
00:05:51I understand that friendships make the best marriages.
00:05:54I'm just hoping that we build a connection from there.
00:06:02Oh, God.
00:06:06You OK?
00:06:08Yeah.
00:06:14OK, is that enough now?
00:06:17You OK?
00:06:18Yeah.
00:06:19I always thought I was pretty good at giving massages.
00:06:22Obviously not.
00:06:24It was lovely.
00:06:26A little bit of a shame that she doesn't like it.
00:06:29I was kind of a little bit hopeful that she might have been all better with it
00:06:33and it might have sort of maybe even taken us up to another stage.
00:06:38But, yeah, I'm not sure that happened.
00:06:41So it's a no to massages then.
00:06:43I didn't know that you were such a determined masseuse.
00:06:45Is it a deal breaker?
00:06:47Do you need me to...?
00:06:48No, if you don't enjoy them, it's not worth doing them, is it?
00:06:51Yeah.
00:06:52Are you feeling better, feeling any looser?
00:06:53I felt like that was a good solid, like, 15 minutes.
00:06:56Did you?
00:06:57Was it not?
00:06:59I'm never going to be, like, a massive massage enthusiast.
00:07:02But I'm gradually getting way more comfortable with Ashley.
00:07:06I want to make this marriage a success.
00:07:12As the newly married couples continue on their honeymoons...
00:07:16...over in the UK...
00:07:17Hey, I hate this one!
00:07:19Right, are you ready?
00:07:20..a new single is about to join the experiment.
00:07:23Hiya, you all right?
00:07:26I've only got one true relationship.
00:07:29I've been with Tara for 16 years now.
00:07:33It's my longest ever relationship.
00:07:35The only one that can put up with you.
00:07:37I am a typical Newcastle Raji, and that means the life and soul of a party.
00:07:45A good-time girl.
00:07:46I like having a good laugh with the lasses.
00:07:49But my current love life is a shit show.
00:07:54Tara!
00:07:56The men I attract on a night out probably isn't the type of man that's going to be my future husband.
00:08:02And it is a bit of a problem.
00:08:05I think you need someone that's going to be opposite to what you usually go for.
00:08:10There's something going wrong?
00:08:12Yeah, me.
00:08:14The lads I introduced to my friends, they cannot stand them.
00:08:19Because they know it always ends up in tears.
00:08:22Do you think you'll show your vulnerable side to them?
00:08:24If I generally like them and I get to know them from a deeper level, then obviously I'll open up.
00:08:28But until then, it's going to take a lot of time to break these barriers down like an eight.
00:08:34When I'm in a new relationship, all the hurt from my past relationships comes with me.
00:08:40I am thinking, you're going to cheat on me, you're texting someone else, you're not going to come home.
00:08:47I don't want anyone really to say how vulnerable I can be.
00:08:50Because I think when people say your vulnerable side, people can take the piss out of you more.
00:08:53And I've had people treat me like shit and I don't want that anymore.
00:08:58It sounds like the place that you feel most comfortable is the bubbly, big character.
00:09:06Yeah.
00:09:07But when it comes to being vulnerable...
00:09:09Oh, I hate it.
00:09:10Yeah.
00:09:11I think if I act like they're big and nothing bothers me, then if they do hurt us, I'm not going to show them that they're hurting us.
00:09:17I understand that.
00:09:18And it sounds like because of what you've experienced in the past, that maybe there's a part of you that's kind of put some walls up to protect yourself.
00:09:24Oh, massive walls, yeah.
00:09:25I just don't want to go through the heartache and be vulnerable.
00:09:29I just don't like crying and being sad over people.
00:09:32But you know, with relationships, vulnerability is key.
00:09:40I would love nothing more than a little family unit.
00:09:43Because I have my son, Archie, and he's the best thing in my life.
00:09:51I've had my own business since I was 18.
00:09:53It is so important to me to be financially independent because I'm the only breadwinner.
00:09:59So I have to work twice as hard.
00:10:02So the first day I opened my salon, that night I found out I was pregnant.
00:10:06That is just insane.
00:10:08Insane.
00:10:09Everything I do, I do it for him, don't I?
00:10:11Definitely like a whole nother job itself.
00:10:14Of course it is, especially being a single man.
00:10:16Archie is my biggest achievement.
00:10:19And just looking at him, honestly, it melts my heart.
00:10:22When I see him so happy and smiley and doing so well at school, I just think,
00:10:26I've done this.
00:10:28I know you act all tough on the outside and...
00:10:31But I'm a proper softie on the inside.
00:10:33Yeah, you're a softie.
00:10:34There's not many people say that, do they?
00:10:35No.
00:10:36I don't let people say that.
00:10:37I like people that think that I'm this big, outgoing, bubbly, charver lass that loves to party.
00:10:48But deep down, I just want someone that's going to be a lot kinder to me.
00:10:54So I can be a little bit more Maeve instead of Raji Maeve.
00:11:00It would mean that absolute world if I could actually find me happily ever after.
00:11:06That person that makes me feel safe, that I can be vulnerable in front of, and that my son absolutely adores.
00:11:13I would give everything in a relationship, because I want to settle down, and I want a nice person to settle down with.
00:11:22I would like a man that is motivated, rough and ready, tattoos, but with a heart of gold.
00:11:32Deep down, I just want someone to love us, for who I am.
00:11:44I definitely get judged by the way I look.
00:11:47With the tattoos, a tan, good shape.
00:11:51I think people assume certain things about me, but it is actually the opposite.
00:11:55I'm just a lot more deep than people might first think when they see me.
00:12:00Halfway.
00:12:01Come on, push.
00:12:02There we go.
00:12:03Been a personal trainer for about a year now.
00:12:05Probably the best decision I've ever made.
00:12:07It literally changed my life.
00:12:09Not only has it transformed me physically, but it's also really helped me mentally as well.
00:12:14Right to the chest.
00:12:15Push.
00:12:16Easy.
00:12:17So my client base is mainly girls, to be fair.
00:12:20Push, push, push.
00:12:22I try and keep business and pleasure separate.
00:12:25I maybe have failed a couple of times in the past.
00:12:29Boom!
00:12:30How's love life going, Joey?
00:12:32It's not existing, to be fair, mate.
00:12:34But I'm ready for it now.
00:12:35But I just keep going for the wrong-blooded girls, don't I?
00:12:37Could do with someone, then.
00:12:39Makes you work a little bit.
00:12:41Keeps you on your toes.
00:12:42Because it's always come quite easy, hasn't it?
00:12:44That's what you like to think, anyway.
00:12:45I do get carried away pretty quickly when I meet someone I'm attracted to.
00:12:52It's probably a lot of lust and a lot of physical attraction, rather than anything stronger.
00:12:58I am pretty guilty of rushing into things with people I'm attracted to.
00:13:01I'm a very impulsive guy, and I've got a very addictive personality, particularly when I was younger.
00:13:07I kind of went a bit off track with my life, just partying all the time, and that had a really negative effect on me.
00:13:16I lost a load of weight.
00:13:18I was mentally very unstable.
00:13:20And I probably didn't realise how bad it got myself till I met with my mum and she burst into tears.
00:13:28That really inspired me to make a change and better my life and become a better person.
00:13:33I owe her a lot, definitely.
00:13:36I wouldn't say I was a mummy's boy, but if I could sort of bring her a nice wife home, I think that would make her really happy.
00:13:43You've settled a lot with work and things, so do you think that's a good time for meeting somebody now?
00:13:48Yeah, definitely. Obviously, I'm not going out anywhere near as much.
00:13:52I'm packed in the drinking.
00:13:54Well, I'm just pleased that it's all starting to work out and maybe this is the next step.
00:13:58I'd really like to see you meet somebody that you could be happy with.
00:14:02Yeah.
00:14:03So, Joe, what would it mean to you to find love?
00:14:07It'd mean the world to me.
00:14:09My only sort of substantial girlfriend, she made me fall in love, basically,
00:14:14and, like, I realised what kind of, like, a powerful thing that is,
00:14:18and it's definitely something that I'd want to rediscover.
00:14:21I want to get married because I've done the single life now,
00:14:24and having experienced love, it's something that I want to experience again.
00:14:28I've tried so many times to rediscover falling in love, but it's failed every time.
00:14:34Love is the most important thing.
00:14:40The type of person I'm looking for is quite rare,
00:14:43because I am looking for someone that's got a real kind, soft, sensitive side,
00:14:49but also has a bit of a spiky, fiery side as well.
00:14:52I'm looking for a woman that's a strong character, strong opinions,
00:14:59and enjoys life to the full.
00:15:02Marriage, to me, it means everything.
00:15:06I'm 100% ready to be a husband.
00:15:09What's interesting about Maeve and Joe is both see themselves as books
00:15:14that get judged by their covers.
00:15:16Joe's perceived as macho, bit of a player.
00:15:19People assume Maeve is a loud party girl.
00:15:22Behind these exteriors, they're not what people first assume.
00:15:26Both admit to being massive softies.
00:15:29It will be important for them to keep that in mind,
00:15:32and not jump to conclusions about each other.
00:15:34We know that Joe's put his party days behind him,
00:15:37and that's something that Maeve wants to start doing.
00:15:40Her new husband could be just the calming influence she needs.
00:15:44Absolutely.
00:15:45Equally, Joe said he likes a partner who could be fiery,
00:15:49so he'll enjoy that aspect of Maeve's personality,
00:15:52so long as the temperature doesn't get too hot.
00:15:55I get the sense that's not Joe's approach to resolving conflict.
00:15:59Exactly.
00:16:00We know Joe respects strong women.
00:16:01His mother is a strong presence in his life,
00:16:03so I think he'll admire the resilience Maeve's needed
00:16:06to be a single mum.
00:16:07And the softness that Joe brings will be new for Maeve,
00:16:10who's used to partners less able to display emotional vulnerability.
00:16:14I'd hope that it will allow her to show vulnerability in return.
00:16:18If they can spot how they both have the capacity
00:16:21to bring out the best in each other,
00:16:23this could really go places.
00:16:26Maeve and Joe.
00:16:29Right, moving on to our next couple.
00:16:32All right.
00:16:36We have to be on nipple watch.
00:16:37Just make sure the girls are in.
00:16:38I'm a professional dancer.
00:16:45And I'm from New Zealand.
00:16:49Give me a little hip roll.
00:16:51The life of a dancer is chaotic.
00:16:54It's unpredictable.
00:16:57Like me.
00:16:58Nice.
00:17:02Dating in the dance world is a disaster.
00:17:07Everyone that is straight is either, like, taken.
00:17:09Yeah.
00:17:10Or they're dating every girl
00:17:12and in and out of relationships every five seconds.
00:17:14Everyone else in my industry is gay.
00:17:16We'd marry each other, but, like, I don't have the bits.
00:17:18They're not interested.
00:17:19They just love me.
00:17:20But, like, not my bits.
00:17:22I'm sorry.
00:17:27I'm very open about my sexuality and my intimacy.
00:17:29Sexual chemistry for me is super important.
00:17:33I know exactly what I want and how I like it, so.
00:17:39In my spare time, I'm out with my friends.
00:17:42They're my family in the UK.
00:17:44I'm ready to be like, so can you handle her?
00:17:48So my family tree is so complicated.
00:17:52I was born in South Africa,
00:17:54and I was adopted really, really young.
00:17:56This is so cute.
00:17:57Good day.
00:17:58I was with my dad and then my sister.
00:18:01He was, like, the best.
00:18:06My dad, he loved me so much,
00:18:08and I was this little princess.
00:18:09I think he would have given me the world
00:18:11and done anything for me.
00:18:15Sorry.
00:18:19When I was about 14, my dad got sick,
00:18:22and it's really hard to see the person
00:18:24that you care about the most get so sick.
00:18:28I didn't get enough time with him.
00:18:33Ugh.
00:18:42He passed away when I was 15.
00:18:46It was just weird to see him,
00:18:47and then 30 minutes later he's not there anymore.
00:18:50It's a lot to go through at a very young age,
00:18:56but I was very lucky that I had a really strong mother figure
00:18:59and my sister,
00:19:00and I think that made us, like, really, really close
00:19:02because we had to go through a lot of that together.
00:19:04And then my sister adopted me,
00:19:08and now she's my mum.
00:19:10Yeah.
00:19:11Oh, wow.
00:19:12So you call your sister your mum?
00:19:14She's my mum.
00:19:15Yeah.
00:19:16She is, like, my world and my everything.
00:19:18She got married to a guy named Frank.
00:19:20Yeah, that's, like, my little immediate family.
00:19:22Yeah, we're thick as thieves.
00:19:23We're very, very, very close.
00:19:25One attribute that this husband must have
00:19:28is he must have a full-time job.
00:19:30What does that mean?
00:19:32Have you not liked the DJs?
00:19:34No.
00:19:35No.
00:19:36Not having my mum there on my wedding day
00:19:38were definitely going to be, like, the hardest thing.
00:19:41This man, whoever he is,
00:19:43he just needs to be reminded that you're very special.
00:19:47Yeah.
00:19:49And on the day,
00:19:51just know Dad is watching you from heaven.
00:19:54Yeah.
00:19:55Yep.
00:19:56Love you, my angel.
00:19:57Love you more than you know.
00:19:59I definitely look at my parents,
00:20:00and I'm like, what they have is so beautiful.
00:20:04Marriage is a commitment.
00:20:05It would be nice to have someone
00:20:07make that promise to me
00:20:08and to share that with someone.
00:20:12A future husband needs to be confident
00:20:13and sure of himself.
00:20:16He needs to be driven.
00:20:18I am definitely drawn to creatives.
00:20:20My partner needs to love music.
00:20:26I want an epic love story.
00:20:28I definitely believe in fate,
00:20:29and I know that there's someone out there for me.
00:20:35I'm pretty much the perfect man, to be honest,
00:20:37you know what I mean?
00:20:38So...
00:20:40I'm just open.
00:20:41Like, even if people are just walking down the street,
00:20:43I'll just go and just say, hey, or...
00:20:46just what's up.
00:20:48When people first meet me, they think I'm confident.
00:20:50I'm confident.
00:20:51Some people might say cocky,
00:20:53but deep down I am a grizzly bear,
00:20:55and I'm...
00:20:56Teddy bear.
00:20:57Teddy bear.
00:20:58Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:21:02I'm a singer, composer, producer, writer.
00:21:05It kind of stemmed from when I was a kid,
00:21:07playing classical piano.
00:21:09Music is my life.
00:21:10I love athletics.
00:21:16Running is a big part of my life.
00:21:18When I'm on that track, everything gets laid on it.
00:21:20That's it.
00:21:21It's me and the track.
00:21:22I trained with Team GB for, like, two and a half years.
00:21:25That's where the confidence and the competitiveness
00:21:27kind of started.
00:21:29I grew up, always wanted to have powers.
00:21:33I did have action figures.
00:21:35Superhero films are a big part of my life.
00:21:37I'm actually just a kid at heart.
00:21:40Being a dad has changed my perspective,
00:21:42so I want to be the best superhero for my son.
00:21:49My son is two.
00:21:50It's just the best feeling
00:21:51when you're hearing Dada when you're calling.
00:21:53Tell me a little bit about your little boy.
00:21:55Me being a father has changed my life dramatically.
00:21:58Growing up without a dad pushed me,
00:22:00motivated me more to not continue that cycle.
00:22:03And, yeah, he's just my world.
00:22:05He's my everything.
00:22:07I'm ready.
00:22:08I'm done with the dating.
00:22:09The gap that I've always wanted to fill was true love.
00:22:13To have a partner on my side that I can give the world to
00:22:16at the same time, that is the ultimate goal.
00:22:19Together.
00:22:20Like Bunny and Clyde.
00:22:23Not as extreme.
00:22:25So in my partner, I look for independence, free-spirited, someone spontaneous as well.
00:22:34Someone that is physically active, beautiful smile, and someone that is very affectionate.
00:22:40I'm ready to commit.
00:22:42Julia Ruth and Devani, two very creative people who both share a love for music, movies, and the arts.
00:22:51So some real common ground there to start with.
00:22:53And, of course, both of them have careers that often have chaotic schedules with periods away from home and long hours.
00:23:01So they'll both be understanding of how that can put pressure on a relationship.
00:23:06Yeah.
00:23:07Julia Ruth has been through quite a lot emotionally.
00:23:10Devani is very grounded and, as a father, already has a degree of emotional maturity.
00:23:15He has that quieter confidence and earnest sincerity that will help give Julia Ruth that stability and security that she needs.
00:23:23Equally, I think Julia Ruth will be really good for Devani, bringing a sense of fun and spontaneity into his life.
00:23:30And bringing out those characteristics in him.
00:23:32Yeah.
00:23:33There's no denying they're both very attractive people.
00:23:36If these two have chemistry, I think sparks could fly.
00:23:40So we have a match.
00:23:42Julia Ruth and Devani.
00:23:44Oh, look, that must be it.
00:24:00I am definitely still a bit guarded.
00:24:02There's a lot of why I am who I am in a relationship that is affected by things that have happened to me previously.
00:24:09But I've come into this wanting to find something.
00:24:12I'm ready to just be on the honeymoon, have some fun, enjoy ourselves and get to know each other properly.
00:24:17Oh, my God, look.
00:24:18Oh, how sweet.
00:24:20Oh, that's where all my clothes are going to go.
00:24:24Oh.
00:24:25I've actually met someone who's bossier than me.
00:24:27And it's mad.
00:24:28How cute is this?
00:24:29Oh, my God.
00:24:30We won't have it till later, though, shall we?
00:24:32You're like the boss, aren't you?
00:24:33We can sit in our little...
00:24:34OK, we'll do that later.
00:24:35We'll do this later.
00:24:36Yeah, we will.
00:24:37We can't do that.
00:24:38My clothes go there.
00:24:39Maybe I have my match.
00:24:40So, are you a morning person?
00:24:45No.
00:24:47It takes me an hour to, like, be my best self. Do you know what I mean? I just need a minute.
00:24:54Are you a morning person?
00:24:56Yeah.
00:24:57That's not for me.
00:24:58I do wake up puffy, I can't lie.
00:25:00Listen, as long as you're not, like, screaming in my face, like, volume 10...
00:25:04No, I'm not like that.
00:25:06So, can we make that an agreement, then?
00:25:10OK.
00:25:11What are you most excited about doing here? Can you ski?
00:25:15I've never skied before, have you?
00:25:16Yeah.
00:25:17Of course you have.
00:25:19Oh.
00:25:20You don't really like adrenaline things, do you?
00:25:22No.
00:25:23That's all of me.
00:25:24All adrenaline things, all the activities.
00:25:27Yeah.
00:25:28She's probably going to want me to get involved in some things that she's into.
00:25:32But I do still have my own boundaries, and I will still stay stern on if there's something that I don't want to do.
00:25:36So, I don't know if, moving forward, she's going to struggle with that a little bit.
00:25:49It's quite cool, actually, isn't it?
00:25:50Very cool.
00:25:51There's been a shift in our relationship, and I'm starting to feel a lot more confident and comfortable.
00:25:57It's been very, kind of, up and down, but I'm hoping to keep it upbeat, and I'm hoping she's kind of a bit of a turnaround as well, and we just keep it going for the night.
00:26:06Just have a bit of fun.
00:26:08I love doing stuff like this with proper culture.
00:26:15It's nice to be out.
00:26:17We're having more of a laugh.
00:26:18We're relaxing in each other's company.
00:26:20He's just a really kind, nice person.
00:26:22It's hard to not have a good time with Ashley.
00:26:25I'm going to do a small scorpion.
00:26:27Are you?
00:26:28Yes.
00:26:29The only one I don't really want to do is that one.
00:26:31Is that what you're doing?
00:26:33Fair play to you.
00:26:38Oh my God, it's amazing.
00:26:39I need them.
00:26:40I'm getting another one.
00:26:41That's just one.
00:26:42One work.
00:26:43I'm not...
00:26:44That was fun.
00:26:48That was very fun.
00:26:49That was really good.
00:26:50We're sort of going like this.
00:26:51I know.
00:26:52Yeah.
00:26:53I don't mean to be so up and down.
00:26:54I know.
00:26:55I just want to explain, like, the physical touch thing, because I feel like maybe I'm making
00:26:59it seem like it's you, personally.
00:27:02I've been this way since I was a kid.
00:27:04It's a sensation that I don't like.
00:27:06Yeah.
00:27:07It's not even, like, touch.
00:27:08It's, like, skin.
00:27:09Yeah.
00:27:10And also, it's not always like that, but it's especially bad when I'm out of my comfort
00:27:15zone, a bit stressed, a bit overstimulated, and with people I don't know.
00:27:18I get that, okay.
00:27:19And so, yeah.
00:27:20I know that is my own work, my own thing to work with.
00:27:24I don't mean to project it onto you as, like, rejection or anything like that.
00:27:27Look, I've said it all along, and just communicate with me.
00:27:30Just tell me, like, I'll work with you.
00:27:32Yeah, thanks.
00:27:33I've almost felt like, like, is she in it?
00:27:35Like, does she want it?
00:27:36And we kind of signed up for the same thing, and I'm like, it's very hot and cold.
00:27:40Yeah.
00:27:41Use me.
00:27:42Like, I am your husband.
00:27:43I know.
00:27:44Rely on me. Use me.
00:27:45And such a good husband for two days, really.
00:27:46Yeah.
00:27:47I'm really grateful that she made it known that touch is, like, a big thing for her,
00:27:52because it just slots the jigsaw into place, and it makes me understand what was happening.
00:27:56A lot more.
00:27:57Here, let me put my hand on your shoulder as we depart.
00:28:02You're welcome.
00:28:03Being able to work through these issues we're having, it makes me more attracted to her.
00:28:08We're here now walking through the market, and she's bubbly, fun, enjoying her company.
00:28:13And Grace looks stunning tonight as well, doesn't she?
00:28:15She's a really pretty girl.
00:28:17Yes.
00:28:18I think, given how tense things have been, a nice fun night of eating maggots, dancing
00:28:28the night away was such a tonic.
00:28:31It was great atmosphere, good vibes, just what we needed.
00:28:35I wonder what he's hoping for.
00:28:54I hope it's not a quiet blonde, cos that ain't me!
00:28:57LAUGHTER
00:28:58Getting married is a huge thing for me.
00:29:03I've put the party side behind me, and I'm hoping to make the love of my life today.
00:29:09I'm a forever person.
00:29:11Who do you hope walks down the aisle, then?
00:29:14I want someone, like, bubbly.
00:29:17Yeah.
00:29:18And that, like, sort of matches my energy.
00:29:20Woo-hoo!
00:29:22Come here, then, girls, give your glasses.
00:29:24That's your one and only one today.
00:29:26Are you joking?
00:29:27I'm going to have four off the belt.
00:29:29I'm really hoping that my future husband does enjoy a jolly lass, because here I am!
00:29:36LAUGHTER
00:29:38So my ideal man, when I walk down the aisle, needs to be tanned, tattoos, and a bit of a bad lad at the same time.
00:29:45Do you think choosing bad lads has worked out for you?
00:29:48No, but it's fun.
00:29:51LAUGHTER
00:29:53Maeve's dating life is the same man in a different font, and it never ends well.
00:30:01So I do really hope it works, because Maeve is the most loving, loyal person that you could ever meet.
00:30:11You don't need to put an act or a defence up, just be yourself and they'll love you.
00:30:16I know.
00:30:17I'm just a big softie at heart, but it's just hard to win it, because I always put, like, the loud Maeve on all the time, do you know what I mean?
00:30:24Come in. Hello. Hello.
00:30:32What do you reckon?
00:30:34You look great.
00:30:35You crying?
00:30:36You don't really cry.
00:30:38You OK?
00:30:40Yeah, I'm OK.
00:30:41Yeah?
00:30:42You look gorgeous.
00:30:44Sorry.
00:30:45You teared me up now as well.
00:30:46Sorry, I'm really sorry.
00:30:47You all right?
00:30:48Yeah, I'm fine.
00:30:49Yeah?
00:30:50What do you think it's out?
00:30:51Amazing.
00:30:52You made me cry already.
00:30:54My mum's the most important person to me in the world.
00:30:57I've always relied on her for advice.
00:30:59Obviously, we got a little bit emotional and I didn't expect that at all, but it just means so much to me that she's here just to see this day.
00:31:07How are you feeling?
00:31:08Good.
00:31:09You nervous?
00:31:10A little bit nervous today, yeah.
00:31:11It's a big thing though, isn't it?
00:31:13You don't know what to expect.
00:31:14And people say that, like, lads go for girls that, like, have similar, like, characteristics to the mothers, don't they?
00:31:23Yeah.
00:31:24Oh, well, you're going to be very lucky.
00:31:30Are you ready, girls?
00:31:31Yeah.
00:31:32Come on in.
00:31:33Are you definitely ready, cousin?
00:31:34You're impressive.
00:31:35Surprise!
00:31:36Oh, my God.
00:31:37Oh, my God.
00:31:38You look amazing.
00:31:39What do you think?
00:31:40You look stunning.
00:31:41Of course I do.
00:31:42Wow.
00:31:43That is beautiful.
00:31:44Do you want to know why I've gone for black?
00:31:46Yes.
00:31:47Because I'm thinking, are I painting me single life?
00:31:50And I'm a bit of a dark horse anyway, aren't I?
00:31:52Yes, sister.
00:31:53I wish I had a drink.
00:31:54Look at you.
00:31:55I'm so ready to settle down and find the love of me life.
00:31:59And I don't want to be a single mom forever.
00:32:02There is someone that would love to be here, but unfortunately can't be here.
00:32:07So here is a little message.
00:32:09Hi, Mum.
00:32:10Love you loads.
00:32:11Going to miss you.
00:32:12I hope you find someone who loves gaming or else.
00:32:15Aww.
00:32:16I'm crying.
00:32:18Don't cry.
00:32:19Don't cry.
00:32:20Audrey.
00:32:21No, don't cry.
00:32:22Don't cry.
00:32:23Don't cry.
00:32:24Babe, don't cry.
00:32:25He loves you.
00:32:26Archie would love nothing more to see his mom settle down.
00:32:30He is my absolute world and he's always going to come first.
00:32:34I want someone that's actually level-headed and quite calm to calm me down.
00:32:38Oh, my God.
00:32:39It's a bit emotional.
00:32:40It's going to be fine.
00:32:41I need a drink.
00:32:50How are you feeling?
00:32:51I'm feeling good.
00:32:53I didn't get much sleep last night, so yeah, hence this.
00:32:57I literally cannot believe the day has arrived.
00:32:59It feels a little surreal.
00:33:01Fuck.
00:33:06I feel a lot more calm like having you guys here as well.
00:33:10I have Drew and JJ, my two best friends who are getting ready with me today.
00:33:14They're my UK family.
00:33:16Who would you want to see me with?
00:33:18Like, what kind of person do you think I need?
00:33:20Someone secure, confident, that can really handle you, you know?
00:33:24In terms of like your emotions and like, you know, your energy.
00:33:28Yeah.
00:33:35Even going back to my childhood, I've always pictured the perfect wedding.
00:33:39To actually have this day right in front of me today, couldn't be any more ready than I am now.
00:33:45Hello, superstar.
00:33:46Hi.
00:33:47How are you?
00:33:48I'm good.
00:33:49You?
00:33:50Nervous?
00:33:51100%.
00:33:52Hi.
00:33:53How are you?
00:33:54So today, I am getting ready with long-term friends, Dominic.
00:33:58Okay.
00:33:59And then Gabby, she's my longest.
00:34:00I've known her since she was in primary school.
00:34:03Are you excited?
00:34:04100.
00:34:05I literally haven't slept all night, so.
00:34:07Yeah.
00:34:08Oh, God.
00:34:09That's nerves.
00:34:10100.
00:34:11It's unfortunate that I don't actually have my immediate family actually coming here, but
00:34:14you guys are family to me.
00:34:16We love you.
00:34:18I love you guys too, man.
00:34:20What are you looking for out of this person, like, as your partner?
00:34:24What do you need?
00:34:25Someone that's strong, strong character.
00:34:27You know, independent.
00:34:28That's what I'm looking for.
00:34:30I do think Devarni's putting everything into this.
00:34:33I think he just wants what we all want.
00:34:35To have that partner to share life with and to share beautiful memories with.
00:34:39I do think he's ready for it.
00:34:42I'm very curious about your vows.
00:34:44It's not as long as you think.
00:34:46I want it to be something memorable.
00:34:49Bang. Short, snappy.
00:34:50You just get to the point.
00:34:51Boom.
00:34:52But I did incorporate some Marvel references in there.
00:34:54It goes, we're at the endgame.
00:34:55Literally.
00:34:56That's how I ended it off.
00:34:57We're at the endgame.
00:34:58Yeah.
00:34:59It's deep.
00:35:00It's deep.
00:35:01Hello.
00:35:02How's it going?
00:35:03It's definitely tough not having my mom and my stepdad, Frank, here today.
00:35:08They might not physically be here, but I know that they're with me in spirit.
00:35:13You will be with me.
00:35:14Oh.
00:35:15You will be with me in spirit.
00:35:16And he's very proud of you.
00:35:19Okay?
00:35:20You're very proud of me.
00:35:21Yeah.
00:35:22He was our friend.
00:35:23Yeah.
00:35:24He's very proud of you.
00:35:25Yeah.
00:35:26He was our shining star, and now he's got heaven looking down on you.
00:35:31Yeah.
00:35:32Yeah.
00:35:33Thanks.
00:35:35Marriage to me means everything.
00:35:47I've finally come to a point in my life where I truly know who I am as a person.
00:35:52And having discovered that, I'm ready to share that with someone else and meet my forever
00:35:57person.
00:36:01I'm so ready to be a wife.
00:36:04But I'm not a traditional girl.
00:36:07I like to do everything my own way.
00:36:09And I'm hoping that he accepts me for being me.
00:36:16I hope the horse doesn't shit on me dress.
00:36:18It's scary thinking this is it now.
00:36:41This could be the rest of my life.
00:36:43There he is.
00:36:44Oh, good.
00:36:45Is that not?
00:36:46Oh, my God.
00:36:47Yes.
00:36:48Hi, Ops.
00:36:49Hi.
00:36:50Hi.
00:36:51Hi, everyone.
00:36:52Hi.
00:36:53Hi.
00:36:54Hi, Charm.
00:36:55She's gonna panty him.
00:36:56She's gonna absolutely.
00:36:57Oh, my God.
00:36:58I'm shitting my panty.
00:36:59My turn.
00:37:00She's going to fancy him.
00:37:02She's going to absolutely.
00:37:04Oh, my God.
00:37:05I'm shitting my panty.
00:37:18I'm so nervous today.
00:37:21This is my next chapter in my life.
00:37:26I want this to work more than anything.
00:37:30It's a massive commitment.
00:37:32But that is what I am ready for now.
00:37:40Hiya. You okay?
00:37:42You're not my wife, are you?
00:37:44Hiya.
00:37:45Hiya.
00:37:46Hello.
00:37:49Here we go.
00:37:50I know, it's so good.
00:37:51Look at the time.
00:37:52I know.
00:37:53You feel me.
00:37:54Maeve is going to love her.
00:37:59Oh, look.
00:38:00A horse. I can't believe she's on a horse.
00:38:16Hello.
00:38:17Hello.
00:38:18Hiya, darling.
00:38:19You all right?
00:38:20You okay?
00:38:21Hello.
00:38:22Hiya, darling.
00:38:23You all right?
00:38:24You okay?
00:38:25It's all right.
00:38:26Hello.
00:38:27How are you?
00:38:28You okay?
00:38:29How are you?
00:38:30Yeah, you?
00:38:31You look amazing.
00:38:32Of course I do.
00:38:33What's your name?
00:38:34Maeve.
00:38:35Maeve.
00:38:36Maeve.
00:38:37It's like rave, but with an M.
00:38:39That's easy.
00:38:40So, like, yeah.
00:38:41What's yours?
00:38:42Joe.
00:38:43Joe.
00:38:44He's in the top five fittest men I have ever seen. The experts have done really, really
00:38:50well.
00:38:51He's got a lovely smile, he's covered in tattoos, and I'm struggling, actually, to make eye contact
00:38:56with him.
00:38:57You like tattoos, don't you?
00:38:58LAUGHTER
00:38:59I'm covered in horse hair, like, thank you.
00:39:00Did you come on a horse?
00:39:01Yeah.
00:39:02Did you?
00:39:03Yeah.
00:39:04Woman of many talents, me.
00:39:05I certainly didn't expect to be riding in on a horse, wearing a black dress. I thought
00:39:08you're men are wearing, like, the black dress. I thought you're men are wearing, like,
00:39:10the black dress.
00:39:11I thought you're men are wearing, like, the black dress.
00:39:13It's so weird, isn't it?
00:39:14I just want to drink down my neck, like...
00:39:15My first impressions of Maeve is her big, brash personality.
00:39:18Can I drink?
00:39:19What do you drink?
00:39:20I'm getting wet right now.
00:39:21LAUGHTER
00:39:22I'm getting wet right now.
00:39:23Yeah, I'm getting wet.
00:39:24I'm getting wet.
00:39:25I'm getting wet.
00:39:26I'm getting wet.
00:39:27I'm getting wet.
00:39:28black for a funeral not a wedding this is so weird i just want to drink down my neck my first
00:39:33impressions of maeve is her big brash personality can i drink yet what do you drink i'm getting wet
00:39:39right now i get the vibe that she's a bit of a party girl she's very lively very bubbly
00:39:48think she's going to be a handful so that is a worry
00:39:54you ready yeah you i'm not sure
00:40:01maeve would you please read your vows to joe right never in a million years did i think
00:40:08i'd be marrying someone at first sight but here we are and honestly i'm so excited
00:40:13i vow to be your unofficial therapist just don't expect good advice i vow to laugh at
00:40:22your jokes even though we both know mine will be better i vow to ask you how you are and actually
00:40:27listen and most importantly i vow to give you my all because if we're going to do something this
00:40:33crazy we might as well do it right so here's to whatever comes next our new totally unexpected
00:40:40and slightly ridiculous adventure let's do this nice yes mave i know you must be a little bit
00:40:50crazy like me since we're both standing here today preparing to marry a stranger a stranger is a friend
00:40:56you haven't met yet in this case a wife i haven't met yet but i can't wait to learn everything about
00:41:02you and build an amazing connection which will hopefully last a lifetime i've been waiting for the
00:41:07moment that i can meet someone i can be my full self with and share all of life's magical moments
00:41:11together and i hope that this is that moment so let this be the start of many amazing memories
00:41:19we share together and i can't wait to see what the future has in store for us that is super cute
00:41:24like a minute that's super cute soppy like so you will now exchange your rings i forgot about the
00:41:34rings i was going to go straight in for a kiss me um i think that's a bit weird
00:41:44i give you this ring as a symbol of my commitment and my hope of a bright future together yeah
00:42:07get it on we're on shall we have a round of applause as they take their first kiss
00:42:23my husband is bait he's got the tan he's got the tattoos he's got proper blue eyes
00:42:36my new husband is ticking all the boxes so far
00:42:43i don't know i'm still trying to work things out
00:42:48may have said she was like desperate for a drink
00:42:51but the party lifestyle for me was very much a thing of the past
00:42:56i'm not 100 sure that name is my type
00:43:10ladies and gents please make some noise for your bride and crew
00:43:15hello everyone hello guys
00:43:21i've settled into it well haven't you this is absolutely mental
00:43:28what do you want i'll have white yeah come here then look at me being all sophisticated now if it
00:43:34was rosie i'll be on my second bottle by now i have probably been with someone like maeve before
00:43:41but maeve's probably like times 50
00:43:46so it scares me up to be honest
00:43:48i need the toilet already do you think yeah he's got nice eyes though
00:44:00i know what did you think when you seen maeve coming down
00:44:09um like i wasn't like 100 sure at first
00:44:24er the black dress threw me off a little bit i was like
00:44:28i think because we were both like nervous we like didn't really make eye contact
00:44:31i could make eye contact with you so it's like hard to like vibe in it yeah we are a handsome
00:44:35couple mind always yeah we are you got in newcastle much then yeah i love going to town
00:44:42what are you like is like when you're drunk it's wild
00:44:46argumentative argumentative yeah that's a good way to describe it's one way
00:44:54in past relationships i've had argumentative
00:44:58girlfriends when they're drunk it's just something that i never thought that i'd get myself involved
00:45:03with again there's two different people it's drunk maeve and sober maeve they're very very
00:45:10different from each other when she wakes up and she's sober she's all lovely and fantastic and loving
00:45:16again and you just have to forget about it maeve's definitely the most fiery woman i've been involved
00:45:21with so that might become a problem in the future
00:45:28i would like to believe that there is someone out there for me
00:45:59this person could be my everything
00:46:08oh my god you're gonna have a heartburn i'm really nervous
00:46:13i'm glad you're here holding my hand oh i love you so much baby
00:46:28it's cute this is good
00:46:42it's super important for me to be able to share my life with someone
00:46:58this will change my life i think in ways that i can't even imagine
00:47:04it's actually so crazy she's about to get married
00:47:20i'm extremely nervous
00:47:27this is it it's terrifying
00:47:30this is
00:47:41this is
00:47:42I'm good how are you I'm good man I'm good you're beautiful man thank you
00:48:06Wow absolutely blown away it's love at first
00:48:12time he's a really gorgeous man I love his hair he's got a great smile he is a
00:48:30little bit shorter than I expected but physically he's really really handsome
00:48:37I'm nervous I'm literally shaking all right I'm good I'm sensing Johnny's very calm very collected
00:48:55and very like strong and sturdy that's a really nice energy to have so I feel calmer oh okay
00:49:05to my husband Devani as a little girl I dreamed of this moment the dress I'd wear who'd walk me down
00:49:14the aisle and most importantly the person standing here before me my life has been anything but
00:49:20conventional and easy and every trial you got it you got it and every child has taught me to forgive
00:49:31lead with love kindness and understanding these lessons have prepared me for this commitment to
00:49:37you I promise to always laugh with you to listen to you protect you care for you cherish you and support
00:49:45you in return I ask that you be my rock you be my big spoon and my partner in crime that you laugh at all of my jokes
00:49:52surprise me with forehead kisses and bum grabs I cannot wait to embark on this crazy journey with you by my side
00:50:04your wife Julia Ruth
00:50:15Thank you
00:50:17all right it's not going to be as long as yours but sorry
00:50:19for that all right so I'm gonna be as long as yours but sorry all right all right
00:50:23The moment I've been dreaming of is standing right in front of me
00:50:25through life's ups and downs I stand here gratefully manifesting last possibilities with you I promise to stand by you through the bricks of your world
00:50:27Through life's ups and downs, I stand here gratefully manifesting life's possibilities with you.
00:50:31I promise to stand by you through the bricks of it all, for our endless pain has driven our fates to this moment.
00:50:38I look towards our possibility of love, peace, and harmony.
00:50:44We're at the endgame now.
00:50:48Oh, we left you.
00:50:54With this ring, I make my promise to you.
00:50:57As we start this wild and crazy adventure, yeah.
00:51:03Make your memories, sharing laughter, and good times.
00:51:10I now invite you to share your first kiss as husband and wife.
00:51:17Yeah.
00:51:18Thanks.
00:51:19That kiss was a bit passionate.
00:51:31It was a bit saucy in the kiss.
00:51:34The snug.
00:51:35I got like soft lips.
00:51:40Yeah, it was really nice.
00:51:43Yeah!
00:51:44Yeah!
00:51:50Junior Roof.
00:51:52Definitely my type.
00:51:55Ref instantly taken away.
00:51:57Completely.
00:51:58I don't think I will get it back at this moment in time.
00:52:03Devani has got a really, really, really nice presence and energy about him.
00:52:07I really do think that he's lovely. I think I got a little crush.
00:52:11Hey! You're getting the skills up.
00:52:28The couples are continuing to bond on their honeymoons.
00:52:32Is that your dance moves?
00:52:34I like a sporty man. It does make me feel more attracted to Stephen,
00:52:37knowing that he's got a cute little talent like that.
00:52:40Yeah, it's nice.
00:52:44You're getting there.
00:52:49This is amazing!
00:52:51Yeah!
00:52:53I love him, Sam!
00:52:57South Africa is amazing. The more I'm learning, the more I'm seeing,
00:53:01the more I'm completely besotted.
00:53:04It's the most incredible experience I've ever had in my entire life
00:53:07and I'm so glad that I'm sharing it with him.
00:53:10Oh, warm.
00:53:16So hot.
00:53:17Sweaty batty.
00:53:18Grace and Ashley are visiting an elephant sanctuary in Koh Samui.
00:53:22Sorry, are you... Oh.
00:53:24Can I touch you?
00:53:25Yeah, just so I get on this.
00:53:26You reckon you could do it?
00:53:27Yeah.
00:53:28It looks like that.
00:53:29Although, I hasten to add, this is an elephant sanctuary for elephants
00:53:33giving rides their whole lives.
00:53:35And you're giving an elephant a ride.
00:53:36You seem to have missed the point, but no worries.
00:53:39What's that all about?
00:53:40I am buzzed to be on honeymoon.
00:53:43I'm definitely getting way more comfortable with Ashley.
00:53:46And I'm feeling a million bucks.
00:53:48Oh, my goodness.
00:53:49It's a woody car.
00:53:51What's your favourite animal?
00:53:52Dog, I think.
00:53:53Yours?
00:53:54Well, something.
00:53:55You didn't hear that, okay?
00:53:56Flap those ears closed.
00:53:57Mine's an elephant.
00:53:59Idiot.
00:54:00I do feel like that rocky start we had, we have moved forward from that.
00:54:07I'm feeling really positive.
00:54:09She is just gorgeous.
00:54:14Are you jealous that I'm way more into touching Sunpen than I am you?
00:54:21I feel weird saying it, but massively.
00:54:23Well, I could feed you bananas.
00:54:25I'm so much softer as well.
00:54:27That's a bold statement.
00:54:29My mother gives great advice and she said marriage is hard and you've got to work at it.
00:54:34So this is us working at it, but we are both giving it effort.
00:54:38And this honeymoon just keeps getting better and better.
00:54:41It's amazing that we're here.
00:54:42I just can't believe it.
00:54:43Enjoying your company, Luc?
00:54:45First time for everything.
00:54:48No, it's good.
00:54:49You seem different today, though.
00:54:50You seem more bubbly, upbeat.
00:54:52Yeah.
00:54:53I'm definitely feeling better.
00:54:54I feel like Ash and I are definitely on track for that friendship that we,
00:54:57well, I wanted to work towards initially.
00:55:00I'm definitely feeling way more positive.
00:55:02Wow!
00:55:03Oh, wow, look at her.
00:55:04Oh, she's working.
00:55:06Oh, my God, you just know this was a spa day.
00:55:09I'm a little bit jealous.
00:55:10Oh, my God, me too.
00:55:13See, I'm worried about my love handles, but the way you're reacting with an elephant,
00:55:15I reckon I'll be all right.
00:55:17Why don't you worry about your love handles?
00:55:20We're body positive girls.
00:55:21I'm curvy and I like it, all right?
00:55:23Absolutely.
00:55:29I thought there was a mosquito on my back then.
00:55:32What?
00:55:33What is it?
00:55:35Get it off.
00:55:36Just your wife.
00:55:37Yeah.
00:55:38Do you know why you're here?
00:55:49I'm thinking scheme, but I'm not sure.
00:55:52So, I brought Lee here for my date day, and I'm excited.
00:55:56She hasn't got a clue what we're doing yet, but I feel like she's going to be definitely out of her comfort zone.
00:56:02I thought we'd come here.
00:56:04Right.
00:56:06Go to the top of the mountain.
00:56:07Yeah.
00:56:08And then we're going to zip line all the way down the mountain romantically.
00:56:14Right.
00:56:15Are you excited?
00:56:16No.
00:56:19I'm not really a fan of heights and being in the air.
00:56:24This is definitely just not really my vibe.
00:56:26Like, it's just not really where I want to be.
00:56:33You're excited?
00:56:36No.
00:56:37I'm a little bit excited.
00:56:38No, Leah, I'm not excited.
00:56:39Okay.
00:56:40You are excited, okay?
00:56:42Yeah, well, it's a little bit exciting to do it.
00:56:44Your feelings are yours, my feelings are mine.
00:56:48I've kind of noticed that when I'm talking to Leah about things that I'm a little bit worried about doing,
00:56:52she's, yeah, not coming with the most empathetic approach.
00:56:56No, this is not fun for me.
00:56:59I might have a panic attack.
00:57:00I'm not joking.
00:57:02I'm actually anxious.
00:57:04I don't like heights.
00:57:05Sorry.
00:57:06I can't breathe.
00:57:08We're at 2,900 metres.
00:57:10I just want to go home.
00:57:12Least scared of heights.
00:57:14And I think I've gone too far with it.
00:57:16It's really bad.
00:57:20Good?
00:57:21Mm-hmm.
00:57:22Just give me two sets.
00:57:23You all right?
00:57:24I know what makes me anxious, and I just know that this is just not my type of thing.
00:57:37Oh, God, can I just have about two seconds?
00:57:43I feel like I'm really sleeping in the dungeons tonight.
00:57:50I've balled up, haven't I?
00:57:51I know.
00:57:52She's cross.
00:57:55With Leah, she doesn't understand the severity of things until it gets too far.
00:58:00For her, it's not a big deal, but for me it is.
00:58:03I would just appreciate empathy.
00:58:04I feel like she's being insensitive.
00:58:05I'm pretty pissed off at the moment.
00:58:08I feel like she's being insensitive.
00:58:09I'm pretty pissed off at the moment.
00:58:32Absolutely stunning again.
00:58:33I'm gonna keep telling you that.
00:58:35What do you do for work?
00:58:36So, what I regularly do is I'm a singer-songwriter.
00:58:39I love that.
00:58:40Yes.
00:58:41He's creative.
00:58:43I'm a professional dancer.
00:58:44Is it?
00:58:45This is my career.
00:58:46I thought you were like a rapper or something, because your vows were, they were like rhythmic.
00:58:51Yes.
00:58:52Aha.
00:58:53That's why I did it.
00:58:54Okay.
00:58:55Did you click the end part down?
00:58:56Yeah, I did.
00:58:57Endgame.
00:58:58Yes.
00:58:59Endgame is in, because I'm thinking the movie.
00:59:00I'm in the movie bath.
00:59:01The movie Endgame?
00:59:02Fuck off.
00:59:03No, fuck off, really?
00:59:04Yes.
00:59:05Yes.
00:59:06I'm obsessed with Marvel.
00:59:07That is crazy.
00:59:08That is mad.
00:59:09Music to my ears.
00:59:11Music to my ears.
00:59:13Favourite superhero.
00:59:14No, this is hard.
00:59:15No, this is hard.
00:59:16Okay.
00:59:17Sorry, we're such dogs.
00:59:18I just feel like we're just two embarrassing nerds, like geeking over superheroes.
00:59:23I'm just so here for it.
00:59:24I feel like this is our bonding moment, and I'm just loving how this feels.
00:59:28I'm happy.
00:59:29I'm happy.
00:59:30100%.
00:59:31Lifetime done.
00:59:32Kick it off.
00:59:33Boom.
00:59:34I haven't found no red flags.
00:59:37No doubts.
00:59:38Okay, now it's warm in here.
00:59:39That was beautiful.
00:59:51How are you feeling?
00:59:52I want the sauce.
00:59:53Give me the sauce.
00:59:54Give me all the deets.
00:59:55Nice to look at me.
00:59:56Oh, yeah.
00:59:57Did you get the flutter?
00:59:58Yeah.
00:59:59Yeah.
01:00:00Yeah, yeah.
01:00:01Yeah.
01:00:02Love that.
01:00:03When I get off him straight away, like, he's a little bit more mature than me, and he's
01:00:20like, had his wild time.
01:00:21He's like, calmed down a bit.
01:00:22Do you think you could stop, like, the party life for Joe?
01:00:26I mean, yeah.
01:00:30Do you?
01:00:31I think I could, yeah.
01:00:33I keep me cards very close to me chest.
01:00:36I don't like to let anyone in.
01:00:38I would love to show Joe that vulnerable side of me, but I'm still a little bit apprehensive
01:00:44about that, because I've been hurt that much.
01:00:47And I'm not too sure what my husband's thinking of me.
01:00:51From an outside perspective on me and her, like, do you think there's a vibe?
01:00:55It's just...
01:00:56I felt there was.
01:00:57I said, she said, didn't you?
01:00:58I think they're getting a bit of a vibe going now.
01:01:00How do you feel?
01:01:01You're not sure?
01:01:02I wasn't sure at first.
01:01:04She's a very bubbly, strong personality.
01:01:08With a soft side.
01:01:09With a soft side kind of person.
01:01:12Sounds a bit like you, doesn't it?
01:01:13Yeah.
01:01:14Mates think you're perfect for her.
01:01:15I'm not sure.
01:01:16I'm not 100% sure.
01:01:17Well, you'll soon find out, love.
01:01:20Joe was a bit concerned about May's partying and I do get that because he's tried to pull
01:01:27away from that part of his life a little bit.
01:01:30I think she'll be a handful, but I don't think that's a bad thing.
01:01:45Go on, girl.
01:01:46Grace and I are getting quite comfortable with each other.
01:01:49It's nice.
01:01:50I'm very happy with where we are and what we're doing.
01:01:53And I've got to do it now, haven't I?
01:01:56Oh!
01:01:57Whilst Grace and Ashley continue to bond on their honeymoon in Thailand.
01:02:04In Switzerland, it's a frosty start to the day for Leah and Lee.
01:02:10I've woken up this morning just feeling a bit down.
01:02:14Doing that lift was too much for me.
01:02:17And today, mentally, I'm just the most, like, scrambled in my brain.
01:02:24I feel like it is definitely awkward this morning.
01:02:27I don't really know.
01:02:28I feel like I'm treading on eggshells a little bit.
01:02:31I want to put the zipline saga to bed.
01:02:36I did think of organised something a little bit more chilled.
01:02:39Hopefully it's going to give a little bit of a bond between me and Lee.
01:02:42I think this is definitely going to help this morning.
01:02:45When I'm feeling like this, some space to myself is what I would need
01:02:49and the fact that we've got a scheduled massage together.
01:02:52Probably not what I would ideally plan.
01:02:54Oh, my God, lovely.
01:02:56I'm going to try and keep making an effort to get her out of this mood.
01:03:01So, what can I do for you today?
01:03:04Do whatever you wish, Leah. Just make it relaxing.
01:03:07OK.
01:03:08I don't know if I'll be able to, but I'll give it a go.
01:03:11OK, that's a lot of oil.
01:03:14That's a lot of oil.
01:03:16We're doing a massage, OK?
01:03:17OK.
01:03:18And I'm just going to add a little bit of...
01:03:20I don't think we need any more.
01:03:22I do.
01:03:23OK.
01:03:24I'm the masseuse.
01:03:25Right.
01:03:26OK.
01:03:32OK, you ready, lady?
01:03:33Yeah, I'm ready as I'll ever be.
01:03:36OK, right.
01:03:38Relax, yeah?
01:03:41Take it calm.
01:03:43I actually would like to be a masseuse, you know.
01:03:45Would you?
01:03:46Mm.
01:03:47You might need some training.
01:03:50OK, that actually hurts.
01:03:53What about this?
01:03:54Oh, no, that's not nice.
01:03:55I am trying with the massage, but she was just being a bit of a cow.
01:03:59I can't do anything right.
01:04:02What are you doing?
01:04:03What are you doing, Leah?
01:04:04You're hard work.
01:04:05No, you're hard work.
01:04:06No, you actually are hard work.
01:04:07No, you're hard work.
01:04:08What?
01:04:09Because you're not relaxing me.
01:04:10That's what we need to work on with you, is the gentleness.
01:04:14Oh, hot kettle black, by the way.
01:04:17I think I'm over our spa day.
01:04:22I feel like there's nothing I can do.
01:04:24I could offer her a plate of gold.
01:04:27She's not getting out of this mood.
01:04:29What are you doing?
01:04:32I feel like the spa morning has definitely set us a little bit further apart.
01:04:37I'm exhausted.
01:04:38It's emotionally draining.
01:04:50Whoo!
01:04:51Whoo!
01:04:52Whoo!
01:04:53Whoo!
01:04:57Yeah!
01:04:58Oh, wait!
01:05:01Ah!
01:05:03She's being useful.
01:05:04Cheers, hubby.
01:05:05Cheers.
01:05:06Cheers.
01:05:07Happy.
01:05:08Happy.
01:05:09Yes, happy.
01:05:10Happy.
01:05:14I'm completely happy.
01:05:15Yeah?
01:05:16Completely.
01:05:17You don't need eyes to see the chemistry.
01:05:19You can feel it.
01:05:20This is, like, everything I've always wanted.
01:05:24Boom.
01:05:25Yeah, 100%.
01:05:28How do you feel?
01:05:29Conversation was flowing like a fucking river.
01:05:33We were like, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
01:05:35So, like, what I've wanted in a person and, like, personality and, like, traits so far is delivering.
01:05:43I think that's just the most, like, important thing for me.
01:05:46Wait.
01:05:47Back, back, back.
01:05:48The kiss?
01:05:49I went for one of these, like...
01:05:50Yeah.
01:05:51He pulled me in.
01:05:52Did he actually see that?
01:05:53Did he actually see that?
01:05:54I couldn't move.
01:05:55I was here.
01:05:56I was like...
01:05:57Go, go, go, go.
01:06:04But did you like it?
01:06:05Did you actually like it?
01:06:06Was it cute?
01:06:07Like, I'm not gonna lie.
01:06:08Like, I liked it.
01:06:09I liked that it was, like, assertive.
01:06:10Pull me in, Daddy.
01:06:11Like, you know me.
01:06:12That's what I...
01:06:13Viva, stop.
01:06:16I packed my paddle in, like, and my vibe right up.
01:06:23Cheers to that, baby.
01:06:24Cheers to that!
01:06:25Cheers to that!
01:06:27The experts, they know what they're doing.
01:06:29They know what they're doing.
01:06:33They have matched me with someone that I've been looking for
01:06:36for the longest time.
01:06:40Tonight was amazing.
01:06:46You look pretty special, to be fair, isn't it?
01:06:47Yeah.
01:06:48You look pretty special, to be fair, isn't it?
01:06:49Yeah.
01:06:50Tonight is the final night.
01:06:51I'm just looking forward to spending time together.
01:06:54It's been amazing, isn't it?
01:06:55Yeah.
01:06:56It's been amazing, isn't it?
01:06:57I think he's amazing.
01:07:08Whoo! That's amazing!
01:07:10You look pretty special, to be fair, isn't it?
01:07:12Yeah.
01:07:16Tonight is the final night.
01:07:17I'm just looking forward to spending time together.
01:07:19Whoo!
01:07:21It's been amazing, you, hasn't it?
01:07:23Yeah, you look gorgeous.
01:07:24Thank you. You look pretty good yourself, to be fair.
01:07:26Thank you. What a pair.
01:07:28Scrub up quite well.
01:07:29Thank you so much.
01:07:31Compared to day one, when I just wanted actually to step off,
01:07:36I am feeling way more comfortable.
01:07:39I am feeling positive.
01:07:40He cracks me up.
01:07:41Oh, that's spicy.
01:07:42Oh, no.
01:07:44They're rabbits, chillies.
01:07:46Here come the sweats.
01:07:51I love Thai food, don't you?
01:07:53I know we've had our sort of ups and downs, but we've worked through it,
01:07:59so I think we've come out of it, we've come out of it better.
01:08:02Yeah.
01:08:03It's definitely becoming more, like, natural.
01:08:05Yeah, yeah.
01:08:06And easy for me, so I appreciate your patience and I'm sorry that I am a bit difficult to understand.
01:08:14I'm a little bit gutted that this is our last night.
01:08:17It would have been nice to almost start the honeymoon where we are now.
01:08:22We've naturally progressed to a really positive place.
01:08:25That friendship and respect for each other is their first,
01:08:29and I'm glad we have this foundation to work from.
01:08:31Same.
01:08:37Yuck.
01:08:38I'm joking.
01:08:41I definitely didn't see the date ending with the kiss on the cheek.
01:08:45At the start of the honeymoon, she could barely touch me.
01:08:47I feel like Grace has softened so much, and yeah, I could see myself falling for her.
01:08:53She is...
01:08:54She's a really nice girl.
01:09:02Next time.
01:09:03I don't struggle to meet women.
01:09:05I just haven't met the right person.
01:09:07Two more bold singles.
01:09:09I'm attracted to the alpha male.
01:09:13I won't settle for anything less.
01:09:16Meet and marry at first sight.
01:09:20But one bride's rigid expectations...
01:09:22I can't tell whether he's an alpha or not.
01:09:24..bring a bitter disappointment.
01:09:26He's not my type.
01:09:28You may now share your first kiss.
01:09:30Kiss on the cheek.
01:09:31I can't remember the last time I was given the cheek, if I'm honest.
01:09:34That first part, bloody hell.
01:09:36Four more newlyweds.
01:09:38It's time for your honeymoon.
01:09:40The magical Morocco.
01:09:42..set off on their romantic escape.
01:09:44I can't wait to get wavy, like.
01:09:46Joe's worst fears become reality.
01:09:48You really pissed me off.
01:09:49Why?
01:09:50Because you're fucking off, man.
01:09:51You're actually fucking off.
01:09:53And Devani's negative conversations...
01:09:56Knowing that I could potentially be alone for the rest of my life.
01:09:58That would be the worst.
01:10:01..unleash tension.
01:10:02Everything is so intense and so deep.
01:10:04..that tears their honeymoon apart.
01:10:07The last thing I want to do is have a talk about traumas
01:10:10and then, like, get into bed with you.
01:10:13There's trouble in paradise, isn't there?
01:10:14..you're really good at that time.
01:10:16I want to go back for it, it does not say sorry.
01:10:17I can get into that.
01:10:17The one that I want to do is go to the hospital,
01:10:20but then, like, get into bed.
01:10:22And I'm not going to go home.
01:10:23I have a try.
01:10:25And I don't think I can get into this day.
01:10:26I don't understand why I can get into this day.
01:10:28I can get into the...
01:10:28I think I can get into this day.
01:10:29I've been out of here.
01:10:30You are a very late year.
01:10:31You're a really late year.
01:10:32You are right.
01:10:33You're a really late year.
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