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Married at First Sight UK (2015) Season 10 Episode 7
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00:00:01Today is the biggest day of my life.
00:00:04Previously, 18 love-seeking singles...
00:00:08Hi!
00:00:09..went from strangers...
00:00:10I made a mistake. Shit.
00:00:12I wouldn't say he's my type.
00:00:14Can't we do it, sorry?
00:00:16..to spouses...
00:00:18It's love aversa.
00:00:19My husband is fit.
00:00:22..some couples settled seamlessly into married life.
00:00:25One could say Stephen is quite good with his hands, yes.
00:00:28Does that make you happy?
00:00:30Makes some part of me happy.
00:00:32While others...
00:00:34Said I want a tomboy Barbie.
00:00:36Every now and then he just says something,
00:00:37and I think, like, do you know how that sounds?
00:00:39..were thrown into marital mayhem.
00:00:41You really piss me off. Why?
00:00:43Because you're f***ing all, man. You're actually f***ing all.
00:00:45Would it be any different if I wasn't as big?
00:00:47Probably.
00:00:48I am starting to feel rejected.
00:00:50The last thing I want to do is have a talk about traumas
00:00:52and then, like, get into bed with you.
00:00:54You've hardly asked any questions about me.
00:00:57I don't want to ask.
00:00:58I don't know if there's hope for the marriage, truthfully.
00:01:01I don't think there is.
00:01:05Tonight...
00:01:08..our newlyweds...
00:01:11..move in together.
00:01:12We're so few!
00:01:14..but for some couples...
00:01:16I guess I'll just be coming a little bit real now.
00:01:18..domestic harmony...
00:01:20I know your three children's names.
00:01:22Do you know my two?
00:01:23..is short-lived.
00:01:25It's crunch time for me.
00:01:30At the first dinner party of the experiment...
00:01:33Oh, she's on her own.
00:01:36..it's showtime for Dean.
00:01:38Here we are on this mad experiment,
00:01:40seeing things not in our element.
00:01:42..but Sarah serves a scathing review.
00:01:45Can you ask me if I'd ever slept with anyone's house?
00:01:47OK.
00:01:48He keeps calling himself the funny fat kid.
00:01:51He's like a hair bear.
00:01:53That's not a very hot thing to say about your partner.
00:01:55No.
00:01:56No.
00:01:57..while some are falling head over heels...
00:02:00I've got that, like, fuzzy feeling in me.
00:02:02You've got to move me!
00:02:04..others are falling apart.
00:02:07You...
00:02:08..are very negative.
00:02:11I just want something genuine.
00:02:13Honey, I'm home!
00:02:26..as our newlyweds return from their honeymoons...
00:02:29Yes, sir!
00:02:30Let's do it!
00:02:31Our first key together!
00:02:32..it's time for them to embark upon the next big milestone
00:02:35in their married lives.
00:02:37We're doing it, eh?
00:02:38Living together.
00:02:40Right.
00:02:41Oh, my God! Look at this!
00:02:45Morey, morey.
00:02:50How do you feel about being here together?
00:02:52What, being married?
00:02:53I mean...
00:02:54..feels quite normal.
00:02:55Doesn't it?
00:02:56Do you know what I mean?
00:02:57Yeah.
00:02:58I'm really comfortable around you, like, really comfortable.
00:03:00I mean, we're sharing a toothbrush.
00:03:02Do you know what I mean?
00:03:03Like, that is gross, but it's one of those things.
00:03:06Good luck!
00:03:08Settling into here and just being with you, like, that's...
00:03:10I'm excited for that.
00:03:12We're here, we're home.
00:03:13Honeymoon's done.
00:03:14Next step, baby girl.
00:03:16We're so cute!
00:03:18This is beautiful.
00:03:27I barely recognise you there.
00:03:28You actually look like a different person to who I know now.
00:03:31Yeah?
00:03:32Yeah?
00:03:33Yeah, that's...
00:03:34Is this the one you didn't like?
00:03:36We're different people.
00:03:37I can...
00:03:38I can touch you and everything.
00:03:40When I left the honeymoon, I was feeling really on edge
00:03:42and unsure about Ash's character, and I was kind of looking for
00:03:45flaws and negatives and being quite reactive to everything he said.
00:03:48But now the pressure's off, yeah, we're just getting to know each other
00:03:51and, yeah, it's a lot more chilled, which is how I prefer things.
00:03:56It will be nice to meet everyone else and hear how they've got on,
00:03:58and it will either make us feel way better or a million times worse about Ash.
00:04:03No, I think, look, everyone's different, but I'm quite happy with where we are.
00:04:06Are you going to be jealous if the other couples are, like, all over each other,
00:04:08like, snogging on the table?
00:04:09I just said I'm happy with, like, where we are and the progress we're making.
00:04:20What a day.
00:04:21Who would have known? Didn't even know each other then?
00:04:22Yeah, it's so surreal.
00:04:24What was you thinking in that moment?
00:04:26I think, I mean...
00:04:28I don't know.
00:04:29I'm not going to lie, that does feel like a lifetime ago.
00:04:33I'm just very overwhelmed by everything, and...
00:04:36You know, Dean is so lovely, and he absolutely is,
00:04:39and, you know, he's great in things, but I'm just...
00:04:41I don't know, it's just kind of, like...
00:04:44I just thought it would be different, you know?
00:04:49If he doesn't look like what I would usually go for,
00:04:52it doesn't matter.
00:04:53I'm going to be open-minded.
00:04:55On their wedding day...
00:04:59No, I don't fancy Dean.
00:05:01Despite Sarah's intentions,
00:05:02she struggled to find an initial attraction to Dean.
00:05:05Take a seat.
00:05:06Take some heat off these feet.
00:05:07Have you loved turning things into wraps?
00:05:08Oh, I love wrapping.
00:05:10And on the honeymoon, Sarah's spark never ignited.
00:05:14Have you ever been with anyone bigger?
00:05:16No, I have to admit that.
00:05:18But Dean remained optimistic he could make it out of the friendzone.
00:05:22Have you been cuddling any pillows?
00:05:23No, I've not been cuddling any pillows.
00:05:25I'm waiting for the real thing.
00:05:26Is there anything Dean could do to ever get a sexual spark?
00:05:36Get some tattoos and lose some weight.
00:05:39Maybe.
00:05:41It's nice to be home, like, and feel home as well now,
00:05:44because we're so far away.
00:05:46I do wonder if living together is going to progress anything,
00:05:50if the intimacy side of things is going to happen,
00:05:52or if it's going to go the opposite way.
00:05:55It's not the first time I've kind of been in the friendzone,
00:05:57you know?
00:05:58It kind of does change.
00:05:59It does change.
00:06:00So just trust the process.
00:06:01Trust me.
00:06:02It will come.
00:06:04Touch wood.
00:06:06All the wood, all the wood.
00:06:10It's all just becoming a little bit real now.
00:06:11Is it? Yeah.
00:06:12Yeah.
00:06:14I don't want to get upset.
00:06:15I don't want to make me upset.
00:06:19It's okay.
00:06:20It's a lot.
00:06:21It is a lot.
00:06:22Like, you know each other for a week.
00:06:23Do you know what I mean?
00:06:24Yeah.
00:06:25I don't like seeing anyone upset, especially, like, my wife.
00:06:28It's making me a bit anxious.
00:06:29I wasn't expecting that.
00:06:30Because you're so positive, but, like, you just don't let anything sort of...
00:06:34Rain on my parade.
00:06:36Yeah.
00:06:39Trust the process and don't think that.
00:06:40Because if you do, that's half the battle lost in my head, you know?
00:06:46It's all about mindset.
00:06:47Life's all about mindset.
00:06:48Your life's as good as you want it to be.
00:06:51I thought I'd fancy the pants off my husband and I don't.
00:06:55I just thought my experience would be different.
00:07:00Yeah, that's classy.
00:07:01Oh, that's cute.
00:07:03I think that's the best fight I've ever had.
00:07:05Yeah, same.
00:07:07Next chapter I'm really looking forward to.
00:07:08I want to jump in with two feet.
00:07:10If anything, how the honeymoon's gone, then this will be a breeze.
00:07:13Compatibility is probably off the scale at this point.
00:07:15Let's have some snacks.
00:07:17Yeah.
00:07:18I've never lived with a guy before, so I don't know what to expect.
00:07:21Go on, tuck right in.
00:07:22I do really like Stephen.
00:07:23The honeymoon was amazing, but now we're in the real world.
00:07:26I'm just a bit apprehensive of how it's going to go
00:07:29and the bubble's going to be burst.
00:07:34This is probably going to be the biggest test living together.
00:07:36Yeah, it'll be the biggest test, absolutely.
00:07:38Is there anything you think I could work on?
00:07:40Obviously, the side way, like, you just want that little bit of reassurance from me.
00:07:47I think reassurance for me can be quite hard to give if I felt like I've given enough.
00:07:52Mm-hmm.
00:07:54A lot of my friends, they say, like, I'll self-sabotage,
00:07:57but I need reassurance because boyfriends in the past have blindsided me
00:08:02and I've had no idea.
00:08:04So I do need a little bit of reassurance sometimes.
00:08:10I don't think we're going to really have many issues living together.
00:08:14I reckon?
00:08:15No.
00:08:17At the moment, I think me and Leah are in more of, like, a friendship.
00:08:20She's just not my initial type, so for me it's just been a little bit difficult
00:08:23to build that romantic and physical connection, but I'm not going to force anything.
00:08:28I'll have to see if you get on my nerves.
00:08:29You actually get on my nerves too. I'm just a more reserved, chill person.
00:08:33I think it'll definitely test us moving in together.
00:08:36It worries me.
00:08:37She's going to be this annoying little princess that wants this and wants that
00:08:40and gets her own way.
00:08:42I think we should have delegated jobs, though.
00:08:44OK, but I'm not doing your washing.
00:08:47There isn't really any intimacy.
00:08:49I have been definitely trying a bit more
00:08:51because I know I need to be trying in this process.
00:08:54Got to go somewhere.
00:08:55It can't just keep...
00:08:57As a friendship, it's not going to work like that.
00:08:59I think we've had, you know, our ups and downs, and it's been quite tricky.
00:09:07Mm-hm.
00:09:08But I feel like I'm glad that we've had it, like, early on as well,
00:09:11and now we can, like, understand how to, like, tackle conflict
00:09:14and that when it comes up.
00:09:16That kind of energy and that, like, tornado between us,
00:09:20do you know what I mean?
00:09:21Yeah.
00:09:26Hi.
00:09:28It's love a birthday.
00:09:29Despite having instant chemistry on their wedding day.
00:09:36I've woken up with, like, a different thought this morning.
00:09:39I'm not having that desire.
00:09:42Devani didn't measure up to Julia Ruth's expectations.
00:09:46I have dated, like, taller guys.
00:09:48Yeah, that hurt. Shit.
00:09:51Different energy levels.
00:09:53Growing up, I was always alone.
00:09:55And I think knowing that I could potentially be alone for the rest of my life.
00:09:59That would be the worst.
00:10:00Yeah.
00:10:01And Devani's outlook on life...
00:10:03He doesn't see any positives with me.
00:10:05It's just too much.
00:10:06...cause deep divides in the marriage.
00:10:09The last thing I want to do is talk about traumas
00:10:11and then, like, get into bed with you.
00:10:13There's trouble in paradise, isn't it?
00:10:16You know what? Conflict isn't a bad thing.
00:10:18Like, I'm glad we had it so that we know how to proceed.
00:10:22Yeah.
00:10:23It's not a nice thing to have, but, like, it's important.
00:10:25Imagine if we were, like, it's all happy daisies and roses, and it's like...
00:10:30I feel like just a honeymoon.
00:10:32I feel like whether it was smooth sailing or not for other people,
00:10:36we came back stronger anyways.
00:10:37I think that's just the key part to it.
00:10:39Going into this dinner party, we've come through our trials and tribulations.
00:10:43We've come back stronger, and I'm here to show off my wife,
00:10:46and walking loud and bold, confidence, head up.
00:10:50I've probably got the most beautiful wife out there.
00:10:53We're unpenetrable right now.
00:10:55Hopefully, we can be an inspiration to the other couples as well.
00:11:00Damn, an inspiration.
00:11:01Yeah, definitely an inspiration.
00:11:09Um...
00:11:10We don't have the same reality.
00:11:11We do not have the same reality.
00:11:13I'm absolutely breaking it for this dinner party.
00:11:16We have to show the confidence and not be going into this thing,
00:11:19be like, okay, cool, we've had our troubles,
00:11:21but we're still lingering on the issues.
00:11:23We're coming in as a team.
00:11:25We know what we've been through.
00:11:27We've got our chest out high.
00:11:28Yeah.
00:11:31Well, that was wonderful.
00:11:40Mm.
00:11:41And I'm glad we raised it.
00:11:42Yeah, same for sure.
00:11:43Definitely worth it.
00:11:44Yeah.
00:11:45And doing it in our own bed.
00:11:46Yeah, in our house.
00:11:47Probably try again.
00:11:48Yeah.
00:11:49Practice makes perfect look.
00:11:50Absolutely.
00:11:51Let's just keep trying it and trying it and trying.
00:11:53Yeah.
00:11:54We have finally gotten intimate.
00:11:59Feeling absolutely fantastic.
00:12:01We never thought it was going to be a problem,
00:12:03and it definitely wasn't.
00:12:05I think we both felt very safe with one another emotionally,
00:12:09and we've built really strong connections.
00:12:11Yeah.
00:12:12So that was always going to be the easy part.
00:12:14Right now, I feel like me and him, there's nothing we cannot handle.
00:12:16We're really good.
00:12:17I just really want this next chapter to start,
00:12:20because I feel like we're in a really good space right now.
00:12:23Crikey.
00:12:24That's a good one of you.
00:12:25Don't you think?
00:12:26You didn't rock me, so that's good.
00:12:27Yeah, yeah.
00:12:28I think the next chapter's going to be exciting.
00:12:29I'm going to ask you on best behaviour.
00:12:30Where's the washer-dryer?
00:12:31Hang on.
00:12:32Sink, so water will be here.
00:12:33Oh, dishwasher.
00:12:34My heart sank a little bit within minutes of arriving here.
00:12:35Yay.
00:12:36Feeling very nervous, apprehensive about sharing.
00:12:38a compact space of poor.
00:12:39Hoover.
00:12:40Washer-dryer.
00:12:41Washer-dryer.
00:12:42Ironing board.
00:12:43Happy days.
00:12:44Yeah, he's just...
00:12:45He's overwhelming, he's frantic at the moment.
00:12:46Now we're talking.
00:12:47Now, we're talking.
00:12:48I found the bathroom.
00:12:49I need to have a conversation with Paul with regard to how we're going to move forward.
00:12:55Things have cropped up, so we're in one of my new shoes.
00:13:10And it is diamond, which is when we're Fred Nord,
00:13:14going to move forward things have cropped up during the honeymoon that's kind of been little
00:13:19red flags for me i'm worried about the cupboard space though why not sure if i'm going to get any
00:13:24i need to be honest with paul i need to see how i'm actually feeling it's crunch time for me
00:13:32i need to have a little chat with you paul is that all right yeah yeah i've tried to get to know paul
00:13:39i've asked him lots of questions however paul has took no interest in my life when i get nothing back
00:13:47from paul my heart sinks i have to have a conversation with him how have you found it
00:13:55um difficult at times do you think you know a lot about me
00:14:02do you think you've asked questions about my family no
00:14:12not at all no so i know your three children's names do you know my two children's names
00:14:19no
00:14:27paul never listens he doesn't even know my children's names
00:14:30i've told him a hundred times i mean take some interest paul to me that is the basics
00:14:39i need some time out so
00:14:42i won't be living in this apartment with you
00:15:00i feel rejected at the moment from anisa i've had in my life many rejections i'm used to i'm
00:15:06i'm skilled at it i have a master's in it a phd in it my job now is to convince her to get back
00:15:13together we'll wait and see
00:15:18paul's not the person i was hoping for my life sounds really harsh but
00:15:25he's not
00:15:36i just want to see everyone yeah she think everyone got along
00:15:48my biggest one is that yeah like other people are you know maybe further along in their marriages
00:15:52than we are i think that's my main concern everyone's got a good place which can't let
00:15:57affect us too much no definitely not yeah
00:16:00you know
00:16:06obviously the honeymoon there was ups and downs but myself and julia roof have come back on the
00:16:10stronger terms
00:16:12going into this dinner pipe we're just there supporting each other
00:16:15i'm feeling a little bit nervous in terms of like questions that might come our way we might be
00:16:20kind of microscope tonight i just hope that devania and i can stand united together
00:16:30are you ready for the first dinner party yes absolutely all the couples have now returned from
00:16:34their honeymoons and are settling in together in the marital homes now this dinner party will prove a
00:16:39real challenge for our newlyweds it will test their early connections and in some cases highlight their glaring differences
00:16:46oh my gosh wow first in we have sarah and dean and they're holding hands i feel like this is possibly a good sign
00:17:02just be our fun selves you know have a good time it'll be fun absolutely
00:17:06i had a fun honeymoon you know sarah looks really tense actually doesn't she
00:17:17just keep the wrapping to a minimum singing oh no but the wrap will be on request that will be fine
00:17:25oh my god so there's there's the first uh boundary so we laid down it's a wrapping to a minimum yeah
00:17:33oh my gosh who's here
00:17:36nelly and steven they look happy
00:17:41good to see you how you been bro it's lovely to see the energy that both nelly and steven are bringing
00:17:47and i'm hopeful that they're in a really good place it looks like they are
00:17:49yes i know i hate to say out loud when i met with nelly before the experiment started she talked
00:18:00about finding it quite hard to open up so it's really nice here at this very early stage to hear
00:18:05her saying i quite like steven how do you feel about deany boy obviously he is lovely lovely yeah
00:18:15i was disappointed oh he's super high energy yeah it gets annoying yeah and i sort of need
00:18:24need the space yeah he does this thing where he like starts rapping
00:18:33he loves to rap do you like him no really he's just rapping that bad
00:18:41my sense is the rapping is code for something else yeah
00:18:48as a movie yeah like we get on like we get on really well it's kind of just not been that
00:18:52like intimacy side yet really but i said i was like i've been in the friend zone before trust me
00:18:57you'll fall for me she's like i'm like trust me
00:19:01although dean is laughing that must be quite hurtful for him
00:19:05there's a happy and confident entrance yeah absolutely look at this man look at this man look at
00:19:24this man oh and the big passion that's a lot going on right there yeah
00:19:30missed you missed you everything yeah okay you oh we're great i can see that
00:19:37it was instant as well we are discussing i do apologize right now
00:19:42because we are very very very strongly falling for each other wow i mean isn't that an incredibly
00:19:50strong statement at this early stage we are falling for each other how's it going how are the
00:19:55wedding days so that's about yours first yeah yeah i want to hear about yours yeah he's perfect in
00:19:59every way i have no complaints every way every single way oh
00:20:05i want to ask these questions everyone else is good why what's happening it's just not what i thought
00:20:17i only heard really good things oh he's lovely the attraction is just nothing there's no nothing
00:20:23there have you guys talked about yeah yeah he's not bad looking at all just i don't know he's
00:20:30does that like is it something you cannot pass no it's just he's got no tattoos okay you can get
00:20:37tattoos he doesn't want tattoos what's so interesting about sarah is she's someone who has said her past
00:20:45type didn't work for her right and her past type was mainly based on physical characteristics and she
00:20:51wanted someone different and she wanted someone nice this is exactly what we've delivered in dean but
00:20:58yet she's very quickly shutting him down
00:21:07hello jerry may they look happy yeah
00:21:16do you know what it is i'm actually so happy with him yeah he's funny it's just everything he says
00:21:24like in his accent is just where's he from where's he from is he from yorkshire yeah
00:21:29i keep remembering because that's who i bank with so
00:21:32so has anyone um christened there
00:21:45conversation's got a little bit
00:21:48okay guilty yeah fine that's the confirmation yes yes
00:21:54have you yeah wow it was not a i'm happy for you well no today
00:22:05it must be hard hearing another couple talk about their sexual escapades when she isn't at that stage
00:22:11with dean i think i'm a bit nervous for about tonight because she said she kind of compares like just
00:22:18naturally and she's hearing like everyone probably doing well and she'll be like oh we should be
00:22:21forever along yeah there's a few rules come in like because i sing a lot and rap a lot and she
00:22:25was like it was annoying her of it she's like you sing all the time and she's just getting used to it
00:22:28now no she told me to kind of she's like can you stop it like why are you doing it oh really yeah
00:22:32all right okay so how do you think you're going to be like living together like that
00:22:37you sharing a bed yeah sharing a bed and all that yeah like all fine because i'm just like just
00:22:40i'm like look no rush no pressure nothing have you had like no intimacy at all no not not even
00:22:45kiss or anything really yeah yeah yeah she's kind of never really been with a bigger person you know
00:22:49type thing okay and i'm like i'm like oh that's okay i was like i'm like i'm not bad looking i'm just
00:22:53fat like that's it like it's quite clear that right now he's he's feeling rejected well it's fine
00:22:57like it doesn't bother me yes it does
00:23:01it doesn't bother me yes
00:23:08bryce and ashley looking good looking happy relaxed tell us the story yeah how's it going i think uh
00:23:15sort of found out quite early like we're completely different in the way we like
00:23:19flirt and everything so oh god i'm like very hands-on touchy and that she hates being touched
00:23:26we all have a right to enjoy touch or not we probably need to learn a little bit more
00:23:31about what that means for her but then we just had a conversation and like it's learning we
00:23:37communicate so well yeah so like turn the relationship 180 like we're really really
00:23:42good getting on really well yeah yeah she couldn't look at me to start with and now she's snorting
00:23:46laughing and all sorts i'm doing something right yeah more of this he's saying i'm trying to learn my
00:23:53partner i'm trying to listen i'm trying to understand her how are you yeah good thank you everything's
00:24:00going in a good place he's a very nice bloke we had some uh sort of spiraled at my wedding i just
00:24:07sort of panicked i think ash very naturally put all this trust in the experts and was like you're my
00:24:13wife we're together let's go and i was like oh whoa you're a stranger kind of did what i always do
00:24:19which is just like instead of even thinking about one thing i liked i was like no i don't like this
00:24:24okay but then we pulled it back he's so patient he's so tolerant he's like makes me laugh and that's
00:24:32about building a good solid foundation isn't it in the relationship having those early struggles
00:24:36overcoming them but it's all like settled down yeah yeah definitely the communication we've got is
00:24:41fantastic yeah i feel like quite proud of us like i think we do it better than people have been married
00:24:46for 10 years like amazing girl yeah that's a bold statement very we're getting on so well you know
00:24:55for me no attraction there okay and it's very much friend vibes fine
00:25:00yeah i would like to find a reason why i've been struggling can't find anyone
00:25:09hearing all of the other couples and all of galvin having sex on honeymoon and i'm just like
00:25:14i let him hold my hand today he's now said to me like um i'm gonna leave you to make the move and i'm
00:25:20like i'm frustrated i'm annoyed dean is so far away from my usual type i wish i was like being intimate on
00:25:28honeymoon and we weren't i'm gutted i'm gutted i'm not there like joke all the time do you know
00:25:35what though maybe he's desperately trying to like make you feel better i think of the key word that
00:25:41you just said there that's what you're trying to yeah just yeah it's giving me the egg it's starting to
00:25:48feel like sarah is mocking dean this is getting really frustrating to watch isn't it
00:25:54i mean once you've got the icky you've got that you can't yeah it's the way that sarah's going
00:26:00about it that feels so disrespectful telling everyone about all the issues that dean has does
00:26:11that's a sign of immaturity someone who has no clue as to what it is that they need in life if he
00:26:20went in for a kiss i'd be like whoa i need that attraction i just wanted that spark that fire
00:26:27there's no spark there
00:26:32yeah it's just cute this is horrible oh oh oh
00:26:51and there you go oh no oh she's on her oh are you all right oh nita's alone
00:27:02i've been thinking about you she seems happy to see her support group yeah
00:27:09where is your husband somewhere i'm not too sure where though yeah you guys okay you good
00:27:15uh we do get on yeah it's kind of there it's sense of humor and he's a gentleman yeah but the
00:27:22deepest stuff but total opposite yeah just needed some time apart so i've moved into a different
00:27:28apartment fine absolutely fine yeah space is the best thing yeah it was just kind of a make or
00:27:34break for me whether i was going to stay in the apartment and i just said paul what's my two
00:27:38children called you went oh no yeah it's the basics isn't it i've just got up got the case and
00:27:48went my sense is she's putting such an emphasis on that because that's a real value for her
00:27:54actually she shouldn't really be testing him at this stage because they are getting to know one
00:27:58another so that feels quite a shame he's never been in a relationship for 15 years either so you're
00:28:04feeling a bit like why would you not date for 15 years and then get married to a complete stranger
00:28:09you're a bit like what's that all about he hasn't dipped his skin along the way it's been more of a
00:28:14self-discovery experiment for him rather than a a love journey what it's been for me kind of
00:28:21maybe he does need some time to adjust but it doesn't sound like anita has that patience right now
00:28:27hi hi hi hi hello hello how are you doing you okay yeah good sir we all right are you okay yeah good
00:28:40what about um you and d he's an absolute honestly he's a sweetheart oh he's he's lovely
00:28:50but attraction's not there for me do you think i'll never come or you know i'm gonna be honest
00:28:56yeah looks wise tall tan tats was my thing i was like would you get a sleeve or something or a
00:29:04wee neck tap oh she's creating this really rigid fixed mindset yeah and we're so early in the piece
00:29:12she's literally going around to everyone in the group and and and talking about this i didn't really
00:29:19realize how big the attraction thing was for me if you know what i mean so it is what it is
00:29:26it's a lot of emotions and there wasn't like that instant spot and then since our honeymoon
00:29:55like literally adore him he's such a gorgeous person like little best mate i fancy him like so yeah
00:30:05we've just been on the off oh i can feel the electricity in the room with everyone i am surrounded
00:30:14by and i am like what is going on why is it not me why is it not me it is so hard i want to have that
00:30:22bye they're all kissing and like you can just feel it and we don't have that
00:30:35and here's our gorgeous ladies lee and leah style
00:30:39so were you in dresses or suits both dresses it's been an adjustment for me to try and get used to
00:30:47like the feminine element yeah and i wouldn't say we're at a romantic point we've we've said that
00:30:52we're gonna like build the friendship first how's yours how are you good the sexual connection isn't
00:30:58there yet it's still not there no no no but you feel like you're a bit more friendship level at the
00:31:02minute yeah but the deeper connection yeah is there and it has been growing isn't it nice to hear
00:31:07this time someone talking about having a type but being open to someone different where are you at
00:31:13oh like i'm obsessed with them yeah we get along really well we've both been like really honest
00:31:21about everything yeah like everything from the very start good so like and i've never had that
00:31:26with anyone have you what shagged him yeah yeah oh you have you're good yeah we love i think she's
00:31:34trying to tell us that they've had more than one or maybe two intimate moments together which is just
00:31:40really lovely so much is that you two yeah can you say what john yeah they're getting on like a
00:31:48fucking house are you i hate the fact that how's it been like a week and a half yeah and i'm really
00:31:57freaking me out man it's freaking me out it was freaking me out don't you can't i'm so worried
00:32:06about becoming emotionally dependent on someone that they will then learn who i am think i'm too
00:32:11much and then break my heart and be i want out nelly is leaning into her past of having all of these
00:32:17traumatic experiences so then she begins looking for red flags so right now her friends are saying no
00:32:23no no no no no if things are good look for the green divani and julia ruf
00:32:40hi david nice to meet you so we've got julia ruf that's coming really high energy lots of fun and
00:32:46divani looks a little bit subdued to fill us in like what's the energies and everything like it
00:32:54seems good mad bro because that was the big thing i remember we said we're literally like yin and yang
00:32:59like we're literally the exact same person bro yeah yeah yeah so now i'm very happy man 100.
00:33:04wow strong statement we're literally yin and yang they are the same person wow
00:33:14he's a lot shorter than me oh without him like we get on very well but like sometimes he's like
00:33:23trauma dumping his past and everything and i'm just like there's no chance for me to get a word in
00:33:27it kind of feels like with two very different energies there it's like we're peering into two
00:33:32very different relationships here what do you know so far oh he's really happy they might challenge
00:33:38you and that's really cute okay they're like um like the same person okay super cute i don't know
00:33:45like super super happy okay i don't know you didn't look like it not like
00:33:50i don't know you don't know you don't know you don't know you don't know you don't know
00:33:57yeah now we've got too much too much similarities too much similarities in a good way or a bad way
00:34:02very good very good way everything's great i'm not gonna lie i mean there's clearly two different
00:34:08narratives going on here i don't know about you guys but i'm feeling a little bit confused right now
00:34:13yeah two very separate individuals
00:34:21oh there they are
00:34:26c'est moi where's my wife where's my wife where's my wife oh here's paul
00:34:32do you want to stand up yeah i'll do whatever you want to do yeah i'll just stay with you it's nice to
00:34:37see grace having anita's back yeah where is she yeah go on excuse me oh gosh you all right yeah
00:34:45thank you had a good day uh it's been a long day yeah i'll tell you what you look nice
00:34:51my main plan of action is to speak to my wife anita i really want to make sure
00:34:55she's in a good head space and she's ready to move forward
00:34:58paul is it that you panicked in the moment where you forgot the name of anita's children or was it
00:35:06that you didn't know or take interest it's taken me eight days to remember the groom's names so you
00:35:13think it's a memory issue i have four tattoos my children days above and their names right
00:35:20now you get the experts so they can help you with all this stuff perhaps i said to you when
00:35:27your past what what has been your past relationship breakdowns um you avoided the question again
00:35:35sometimes you have to be show a little bit of weakness pardon vulnerability as soon as it comes
00:35:42down to relationships and personal stuff for some reason they just divert listen you know what i
00:35:49spent the day doing steaming my clothes there's the other meaningful deep stuff that also matters
00:35:58in a relationship other than making you laugh
00:36:04did you know um yeah and anita's paul anita said that they'd spent the day apart today god i felt
00:36:11like i was the only one going through the fucking ringer i was like me because you know what it's been a
00:36:16lot he said different it's been hard like yeah because you just said it's been easy sailing
00:36:26as soon as everyone walked in when it was like yeah he said oh like
00:36:31you can see young kind of thing
00:36:35we've had issues like this where it's just like one of us is not receiving the information but you
00:36:39had more of a deep chat to say like look we have who knows so this is interesting julia rick is getting
00:36:46feedback from the group but davani thinks they're really well matched is it that julia roof is
00:36:51presenting in a way that makes him feel like everything is fine or is he someone that sort
00:36:56of has his head in the cloud i don't love it up no you wait what i was going on i mean we're going
00:37:04step by step the spark is definitely there yeah did he just said the spark is definitely there he said it's
00:37:10definitely there i'm so happy you're happy julia roof this is so it's really hard
00:37:19because it's not what you wanted isn't it
00:37:22waste your issues don't bite at him yeah please don't do that i feel awful you just don't feel it
00:37:30yeah i want to i know i'm trying i know but you can i'm trying so hard we spoke about having
00:37:39each other's back and being honest and open it makes me look stupid telling people that that we
00:37:43have a hard times you're saying it's great hello guys i'm coming over is that okay
00:37:53okay okay do you want to step up hi where's your wife gone she is somewhere i don't know
00:38:14davani not even knowing if julia ruth is in the room it's like these two are not even on the same planet
00:38:21i just feel awful because i just feel like i'm gonna be like a because i feel this way like and
00:38:28i'm trying the best i can smiling through everything but you don't have to though i'm gonna cry if i don't
00:38:36i can cry
00:38:39so are you happy very happy yeah both of you vibing with each other 100% vibing i think it's really hard
00:38:46to work out why divani has such a different view of the relationship
00:38:50it don't ever feel like you're being a horrible person by voicing what you want
00:38:55no blah blah no no no no no no i do i feel like a one star
00:39:01no blah blah
00:39:05ORCHESTRA PLAYS
00:39:17Wow!
00:39:18Oh, it's gorgeous!
00:39:20Woo!
00:39:21Maeve.
00:39:22Sarah.
00:39:23Yay!
00:39:24Boom!
00:39:25Head of the table, madam.
00:39:26Thank you, darling.
00:39:27Hello, hello, hello.
00:39:28Hello, Paul.
00:39:29Hiya, mate.
00:39:30Fancy seeing you here?
00:39:31It's a bit posh for you, innit?
00:39:33Very posh for me.
00:39:34Oh, Dad.
00:39:35Oh, that.
00:39:36Yeah, we're the Mum and Dad of the crew.
00:39:41Nice things.
00:39:42Yeah?
00:39:43It disappeared for a minute.
00:39:44Yeah.
00:39:45It's all good.
00:39:48Oh, you could cut the tension with a knife.
00:39:55Hey, guys!
00:39:56I know a few of you have probably heard that I rap sometimes.
00:40:00Yay!
00:40:01All right.
00:40:04Here we are on this mad experiment.
00:40:06Seeing things not in our element.
00:40:08Learning what we may grow to be.
00:40:10You, her, own.
00:40:11I feel like I have experienced a lot of the raps now.
00:40:14Hands up in the air.
00:40:16I mean, he's rapping in the shower.
00:40:17He's rapping, like, I can hear him and stuff.
00:40:19And I'm like, the novelty for me has worn off.
00:40:22Yay!
00:40:23Yay!
00:40:24Yay!
00:40:25Yay, dude.
00:40:26Tess!
00:40:27So good.
00:40:28What?
00:40:29It's awkward, innit?
00:40:30We're all good.
00:40:31So...
00:40:32Fabulous.
00:40:33What?
00:40:34Oh, no, you've got lots all over here.
00:40:35Was it bad?
00:40:36No, just leave it on there.
00:40:37Lots of physical affection.
00:40:38Maybe love is in the air.
00:40:39Have you guys actually sat and spoken about what it is that you would like to sort of change?
00:40:54I think we knew quite early that we're on different paces.
00:41:12I'm quite a talker.
00:41:14And then she said to me one day, you know nothing about me.
00:41:17Why don't you ask me questions?
00:41:19And I say, because it's not my style.
00:41:21I volunteer the information.
00:41:22Right.
00:41:23I did this, I went here, I did that, and I did that.
00:41:25She likes to have a conversation and be asked.
00:41:30And do you find it hard to be like, sorry, can I talk now?
00:41:34No, she's quite polite.
00:41:36I'll just let them.
00:41:37Ah, fuck that.
00:41:38Why don't you maybe have a signal where like...
00:41:40Cut!
00:41:42Shut the fuck up!
00:41:46Observing Anita tonight, she looks like she's completely lost her sparkle.
00:41:51Yes.
00:41:52All of that zest for life and that energy that we know she possesses has just been zapped away.
00:41:59I honestly look at everyone and I'm like, I said Stephen earlier.
00:42:03I was like...
00:42:04All the girls, gorgeous.
00:42:05Like, is there anyone that you want to be with?
00:42:07And he was like...
00:42:08Is that what you...
00:42:10Oh, my God, Nelly, man!
00:42:14Oh, God, not on the first date.
00:42:17Like, why?
00:42:18She's asking Stephen, like, are you attracted to any of the other wives?
00:42:21Like, it's just an insecurity, like...
00:42:23I'm giving myself the egg.
00:42:24I say it.
00:42:25I'm like, stop.
00:42:26And it just comes out.
00:42:27Do you know what?
00:42:28I think you're surprised at how much you like him from sabotaging it.
00:42:30Because I don't think you would expect to get someone that you would like.
00:42:34Oh, my God, you're so right.
00:42:35It's fine.
00:42:36I can say it to the girls.
00:42:37Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:42:38100%.
00:42:39Not only is she showing her insecurity, but she's acknowledging that she is being insecure.
00:42:45She realises that this is a weakness that she has.
00:42:48And she is trying to work on it.
00:42:50Yeah.
00:42:52It's crazy because you think, I bet everybody else is getting on.
00:42:56I bet there's loads of attraction there.
00:42:58And it's just, like, tonight is kind of like, wow.
00:43:01It's so diverse.
00:43:04Come here.
00:43:06Okay?
00:43:07My light is being dim.
00:43:09You can talk to me.
00:43:11Me and Julia and Ruth are having the same issue.
00:43:13We don't have a spark with our partner.
00:43:15And I'm not going to lie.
00:43:17I'm actually quite, like, glad that someone else is experiencing the same thing as me.
00:43:26Okay, so I'm struggling because I think he's been glossing over how hard it's been.
00:43:32He's telling everyone that it's fine.
00:43:34Yeah.
00:43:36These two are in two different relationships.
00:43:39What we need to really figure out is how they got to that point.
00:43:44I just have a little question because I just, I think I was just a bit thrown off when you were like, that's not what I'd heard.
00:43:50Yeah.
00:43:51When I explained what the honeymoons was.
00:43:52Yeah.
00:43:53Like, your face was shocked but you were like, yeah.
00:43:55Yeah.
00:43:56I went and spoke to your husband and the conversation was entirely different.
00:44:04Entirely different.
00:44:06Like, he said that how amazing it was.
00:44:08Like, you were vibing, rah rah rah, everything he wants.
00:44:11We said that we're going to be open and honest and say, look, shit hit the fan.
00:44:16But I'm just hearing that it was great.
00:44:18Yeah.
00:44:19That's what we're hearing too.
00:44:20You're on different pages.
00:44:22Yet your reality is different.
00:44:24So different.
00:44:25Hearing how he perceives our relationship.
00:44:28Like, apparently everything's been smooth sailing and he's brushing over everything like we're a fucking power couple.
00:44:35On what planet?
00:44:38Anything closer?
00:44:46When people are asking how things are going, are you just saying, God, the honeymoon was not easy?
00:44:51100%.
00:44:52I'm not saying it's all Gucci.
00:44:53Nah.
00:44:54What I think is really confusing is that Devani has painted a picture that this relationship is great.
00:44:59But he's not actually acknowledging that now he's been called out by Julia Ruth.
00:45:03I think he's embarrassed.
00:45:05Because I sat down and spoke with Steve, Joe and Rebecca and they said they have a completely different response from you.
00:45:13Then that's what she is.
00:45:15Fuming.
00:45:16Just be honest.
00:45:19Don't.
00:45:22I'm just hearing different stories and I don't want to look like a dickhead for being like, oh, it's hard.
00:45:26And you're like, it's great.
00:45:27And then I look like a dumbass.
00:45:28No, no, no.
00:45:29Because I look like I'm being mean saying that, like, it's hard.
00:45:32No, no, no.
00:45:33And you're like, oh, it's roses.
00:45:34I just feel like, fuck me, dear.
00:45:36They've heard a different story.
00:45:39It makes no sense.
00:45:42Maybe how I articulated our issues could have been a little bit sugar-coated, which would stem from a little bit of pride.
00:45:48Look, we're a team.
00:45:49I'm here to unite us.
00:45:52But at this moment, I feel locked out.
00:45:55How's it all been then?
00:45:56Yeah, it's been good.
00:45:57Has it?
00:45:58We get on really well.
00:45:59Like, we, like, laugh all the time.
00:46:00I can see that you're both, like, proper nice, like...
00:46:02Energy.
00:46:03Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:46:04She's got such a good heart.
00:46:06He asked me if I'd ever slept with anyone fat before.
00:46:09Okay.
00:46:10And I said no.
00:46:11But people work on themselves.
00:46:13Do you know what I mean?
00:46:14Yeah.
00:46:15Do you know what I'm getting?
00:46:16Yeah.
00:46:17He did before, if you know what I mean.
00:46:18He lost some weight.
00:46:20She said I'm kind of not her normal type.
00:46:22And she's never been with a bigger party before.
00:46:24So I was kind of a bit new to her.
00:46:26And I was like, I appreciate you being honest with her and telling me, like...
00:46:28What do you mean, bigger, though?
00:46:29It's new for her, innit?
00:46:30I'm saying you're big.
00:46:31Uh, yeah, I am, though.
00:46:33The scale would and the BMI.
00:46:34You know, like, I'm okay with it.
00:46:35It's not, like, a thing for me.
00:46:37He keeps calling himself the funny fat kid.
00:46:40Oh.
00:46:43Remember when we were in the Hanzo and you said,
00:46:45I always go for the bad boy, the red flags?
00:46:48You ain't a bad boy.
00:46:49He's like a pair bear.
00:46:52Oh.
00:46:53Yeah, it's not a very hot thing to say about your partner.
00:46:55No.
00:46:58A lot of what she's showing when she talks about Dean is disgust.
00:47:02Sarah's already entered the zone of being disrespectful.
00:47:06That just wasn't kind.
00:47:07How ridiculous.
00:47:08How petty.
00:47:09How low.
00:47:10And that's something that needs to end.
00:47:17Guys.
00:47:18Good evening, newlyweds.
00:47:19In this box are questions designed to help you navigate the problematic aspects of your marriage,
00:47:33as well as celebrate the more positive.
00:47:35Please remember they will hold little value if you do not respond with courage and absolute honesty.
00:47:40I love Charlene, Paul and Mel.
00:47:43Oh.
00:47:44Well read.
00:47:47Grace, how far do you think we've come in terms of progress since our wedding day?
00:47:54I think we've made great progress.
00:47:56We started rock bottom.
00:47:58Couldn't have got worse.
00:47:59Yeah.
00:48:01I didn't think you were coming away on the honeymoon.
00:48:03I was like, should I be going?
00:48:05I know.
00:48:06I know.
00:48:07He's so nice.
00:48:08Why is she so mean?
00:48:11I'll hold my hands up.
00:48:12I spiralled.
00:48:13I misjudged.
00:48:14He misspoke.
00:48:15And we talked it out.
00:48:17And we're good.
00:48:18We're great.
00:48:19Yeah.
00:48:20Ashley, what are my best and worst qualities?
00:48:32Best quality is 100% your personality.
00:48:36Like, you light up wherever you are instantly.
00:48:39You're a really lovely girl.
00:48:42Marry me.
00:48:43Marry me.
00:48:44Joking.
00:48:46Joking?
00:48:48Oh.
00:48:50Yeah.
00:48:51Ouch.
00:48:52Yeah, that joke didn't land.
00:48:54Your worst quality.
00:48:56It's like, how many can I give?
00:48:58Maybe just jump into conclusions straight away about something that you think is happening.
00:49:03Maybe it's not exactly as you thought it was.
00:49:06Fair.
00:49:07Fair.
00:49:08I'll take it.
00:49:14Sarah.
00:49:15Oh, gosh.
00:49:16What has been the hardest part of the experience for you so far?
00:49:23Probably the intensity, I would say.
00:49:29Marrying a stranger, going halfway across the world with someone I don't really know, moving in together.
00:49:34I have struggled and you know I have, you know.
00:49:35Yeah.
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:37So, yeah, I would definitely say the intensity has been the hardest part for me so far.
00:49:42Yeah.
00:49:43That's good.
00:49:45It's actually quite humiliating for Dean because actually Sarah has already gone round and told everyone that she's not attracted to him.
00:49:51What we need is honesty.
00:49:53It's quite cool.
00:49:57Dean, what do you hope for in our future together?
00:50:02I hope for that we can kind of just continue like getting to know each other and grow and not have any pressure on anything and just concentrate on us, you know, just make sure we're okay.
00:50:10I'm hoping it will kind of get to that place where that spark is there and it's kind of magical.
00:50:22It's making me cringe a little bit.
00:50:25I don't want magical.
00:50:26I want fiery.
00:50:29I came here to find the one.
00:50:30I've given this opportunity and this experience everything, like everything.
00:50:38There's something not right here.
00:50:52Nelly, can you see yourself falling for me?
00:51:01Go on now.
00:51:03Erm...
00:51:07It's very hard for me to say...
00:51:11You've got to do this.
00:51:12No pressure, girl.
00:51:15Yeah.
00:51:16That's fine.
00:51:17Yeah.
00:51:18Yes, let's just move on with that.
00:51:19That's okay.
00:51:20Yes, you're great, great.
00:51:23She's a tub, Anna.
00:51:25Why is it so hard for you to talk about falling for somebody?
00:51:32Do you know what it is?
00:51:33I think...
00:51:35I think I'm so afraid of being so emotionally, like, open and vulnerable to someone.
00:51:46Like, thinking, like, they know who I am and think, you know what, I'm not into that.
00:51:59And then they, yeah, and then they, like, then they break my heart.
00:52:04Just...
00:52:05I can't...
00:52:06I can't with it anymore.
00:52:07It's too much.
00:52:10But you know you're not too much.
00:52:11Yeah, you go.
00:52:12Never too much.
00:52:16Sorry.
00:52:17You cried all over me.
00:52:18I know.
00:52:20Cheers all over me now.
00:52:21No, I hate this.
00:52:23For Nelly, showing this level of vulnerability is really difficult.
00:52:27And here, she's starting to do it.
00:52:29I'm really proud of Nelly tonight.
00:52:32For me, first night together, like, seeing my family up really take care off.
00:52:36I think they're the first people you look at for validations.
00:52:39And as soon as I sat down that night at the dinner table, it was,
00:52:42yeah, Steve, this is what you've been looking for.
00:52:44So that's probably, for me, the biggest validation I need.
00:52:48Well done.
00:52:50You can see that just means the world to Nelly.
00:52:53She is craving reassurance and validation from him, and he's just given it to her.
00:52:58Which is everything she wants to hear.
00:53:00Yeah, it's huge.
00:53:03Anita.
00:53:04Yep.
00:53:05What three things can I do to make this marriage work?
00:53:13I would like you to listen more.
00:53:19I would like you to find out a little bit more about me.
00:53:23And actually start asking questions about me.
00:53:33Right, got it.
00:53:35I've got to remember now.
00:53:39Can you not remember them?
00:53:41Well, apparently that's the way he works at home as well.
00:53:43He's got post-it notes all over.
00:53:44So just because he's wrote them down, though, doesn't say that he's going to do it.
00:53:53Right, Paul.
00:53:55I'm ready.
00:53:58How much are you willing to fight for this marriage?
00:54:02Whoa.
00:54:03I'm not sure if fight's the right word.
00:54:11Don't really want to fight with you at all.
00:54:17I'd rather work with you.
00:54:19So hopefully we can build some bridges and get over the other side.
00:54:23It kind of deviates again.
00:54:28Is this marriage worth fighting for?
00:54:30Well, I wouldn't say it was fighting.
00:54:32We're certainly not on the same page.
00:54:35I'm in a different book.
00:54:42Daveed.
00:54:44How did you feel when you turned and saw me walking up the aisle?
00:54:47Turning back and seeing you, first of all, I was like, whoa.
00:54:54It wasn't just that.
00:54:56As soon as I hold your hands, the entire thing just disappeared.
00:55:00It was just me and him.
00:55:02And since then, we haven't let go.
00:55:07The way that you have the ability to make everyone feel so seen and so safe and so comfortable.
00:55:13It's, it's incredible.
00:55:18It's like a shooting star.
00:55:19You don't try and explain it.
00:55:20You just appreciate it's beauty.
00:55:34Leah.
00:55:36Oh, fuck me.
00:55:37Do you think you like me more than I like you?
00:55:44Mmm.
00:55:48I think I'm moving faster than you are now.
00:55:51100%.
00:55:57We both know where we're at at the moment.
00:56:00Romance isn't where we both thought it would be at this point.
00:56:03So I think the biggest challenge, realistically, is going to be whether that romance does come.
00:56:08Yeah.
00:56:12Er, Maeve, how do you feel about me right now?
00:56:18Like, as I've got to know yet, do you know, I actually really like it.
00:56:23Like, really like it.
00:56:24And I don't tell people that.
00:56:26You can tell that.
00:56:28I'm really excited to see, like, where's it going to go?
00:56:31Do you know what I mean?
00:56:32And that's all I'm saying.
00:56:34Aw, thank you.
00:56:35Oh, no, no.
00:56:40Erm, as every day has gone on, like, I've learnt more and more about you.
00:56:46And, honestly, like, I've got that, like, fuzzy feeling in me where, when I look at you...
00:56:51Sorry.
00:56:53Oh, you're going to need me!
00:56:54Aw!
00:56:57I'm just gathering feelings for you.
00:56:58Like, I honestly can't wait to spend the rest of the time with you.
00:57:01Oh!
00:57:02Yay!
00:57:03It's so lovely to see Maeve just gradually dropping those walls.
00:57:13She's really trusting Jo.
00:57:15And being very vulnerable, which we know is something that she has really struggled with.
00:57:19I just want to go home and struggle with you.
00:57:29Erm, okay.
00:57:30Devani, how do you think I feel about our marriage?
00:57:43So, what you think about our marriage is that we've definitely hit tough, tough, tough times.
00:57:51And the honeymoon wasn't glitter and glam, for sure.
00:57:57He didn't say that.
00:58:01It wasn't what I expected, to be fair.
00:58:04Erm, but I'm glad that we are where we are right now.
00:58:09Erm, but how you truly feel, it's a bit...
00:58:14It's a bit of a turbulent feeling.
00:58:19Okay.
00:58:20With the honesty box, I feel like he was trying to be a little bit more honest because he fucked the heat on him.
00:58:26So he was a bit more open, but he hasn't been that way before.
00:58:29And I'm sitting there like you seem to be in a la la land.
00:58:33Julia Roof, what one thing would you change about me?
00:58:43Mmm.
00:58:44Like, I think it's your outlook on life and how you respond to things.
00:58:55I think...
00:58:56It's okay, you've got this, girl. You've got this. You've got this. You've got this. You've got this. You've got this. You've got this.
00:59:05I think life can be tough and I think we've both gone through a lot of shit.
00:59:09There's no point in dwelling on it and I just feel like I want someone who matches my energy.
00:59:21I'm struggling with my own emotions and I want to be there for you, but I struggle to do it for both of us.
00:59:29You are very negative.
00:59:34And I feel very tired.
00:59:36Sorry.
00:59:42The energy is very, very different. Yeah, just different, aren't they? Different people.
00:59:55Ready?
00:59:56Ready.
00:59:57Who do you think is the strongest and the weakest couple at the table?
01:00:06I feel like Nelly and Stephen got, like, a connection going on.
01:00:14Like, there's something going on with you two that feels strong.
01:00:22Okay. Weakest.
01:00:24I don't want to say.
01:00:27Sorry.
01:00:28Erm.
01:00:29Just say it.
01:00:30We're all here for a reason.
01:00:31Erm.
01:00:32Just say it.
01:00:33Just say it.
01:00:34Just say it.
01:00:35Hold it underneath her.
01:00:36And also, Julia Ruth, let's be honest, the struggles in particular, your relationship and your relationship.
01:00:45Exactly what I thought.
01:00:46What a motherfucking barrel.
01:00:47I need a man who's honest.
01:00:48I read to that bullshit.
01:00:49It's just a lot.
01:00:51That's what it's like.
01:00:52That's a lot.
01:00:53And this is what it's like, that man said.
01:00:55I love you.
01:00:56Good.
01:00:57So that's something.
01:00:58True, you idiot.
01:01:11And if you're a camera.
01:01:13Sounds like one more.
01:01:14And if I'm talking to theÙŠ.
01:01:16I just want to stop being genuine.
01:01:27Next time is the very first commitment ceremony.
01:01:30It's time for the couples to face the experts.
01:01:32I can't communicate with you and you don't listen.
01:01:35You don't back down.
01:01:36It's been difficult.
01:01:38It's been proper difficult.
01:01:39This isn't going to work.
01:01:40Tension builds as two couples clash.
01:01:43No emotional connection, no communication.
01:01:46I thought we could build from the wedding day.
01:01:49They're just miles apart.
01:01:52And Sarah's badmouthing...
01:01:54Do you think that you were rude while talking about your partner?
01:01:58...catches up with her.
01:01:59This man is talking about how lovely his partner is
01:02:03and you are on the other side of the room disrespecting him.
01:02:07It's not me. It's not who I am.
01:02:16I haven't into front of the room instantly.
01:02:18Then
01:02:20I know you have to see
01:02:22how lovely his partner is
01:02:22and our friends are stuck.
01:02:23There's not going to be.
01:02:25There's also any time behind yourenders
01:02:26and me those moments were
01:02:41trying to remain
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