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Married at First Sight UK (2015) Season 10 Episode 5
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00:00Marriage to me means everything.
00:02Previously...
00:04I am extremely excited.
00:06This is the most spontaneous thing I've actually ever done.
00:09Four more courageous singles.
00:12Said I Do to a stranger.
00:14I'm extremely nervous.
00:17I want an epic love story.
00:19Whilst romance sparked for one couple...
00:22It's love at first sight.
00:23...for the other...
00:24What are you like when you're drunk?
00:26One bride's party spirit.
00:27Wild.
00:29Argumentative.
00:30Argumentative.
00:31Raised concerns for her groom.
00:33She is more fiery than I'm used to.
00:36That is a worry.
00:38And for Lee and Leah...
00:39I just want to go home.
00:41Struggles on the slopes...
00:42I might have a panic attack, I'm not joking.
00:44...landed them in honeymoon hell.
00:46She doesn't understand the severity of things until it gets too far.
00:51That ball's got off an eye.
00:57Tonight...
00:58I don't struggle to meet women.
01:00I just haven't met the right person.
01:02Two more bold singles.
01:04I'm attracted to the alpha male.
01:08I won't settle for anything less.
01:11Meet and marry at first sight.
01:13But one bride's rigid expectations...
01:16I can't tell whether he's an alpha or not.
01:19...bring a bitter disappointment.
01:21He's not my type.
01:23You may now share your first kiss.
01:25Kiss him to the cheek.
01:25I can't remember the last time I was given the cheek, if I'm honest.
01:29Is that a first part?
01:30Bloody hell.
01:32Four more newlyweds...
01:33It's time for your honeymoon.
01:35The magical Morocco.
01:36...set off on their romantic escape.
01:38I cannot wait to get wheezy, life.
01:40Joe's worst fears become reality.
01:43You really pissed me off.
01:44Why?
01:44Because you're f***ing off, man.
01:46You're actually f***ing off.
01:46And Devani's negative conversations...
01:50Knowing that I could potentially be alone for the rest of my life.
01:53That would be the worst.
01:55...unleash tension.
01:57Everything is so intense and so deep.
01:59That tears their honeymoon apart.
02:01The last thing I want to do is have a talk about our traumas
02:04and then, like, get into bed with you.
02:07There's trouble in paradise, isn't it?
02:16It's hot.
02:18Oh, God, I am sweating here.
02:20I cannot wait to get in the pool.
02:22Pina colada.
02:22Pina colada.
02:23Cannot wait to get wheezy, life.
02:25I'm still not 100% too certain where we are,
02:27but it's absolutely amazing.
02:29Oh, my God.
02:31Champagne.
02:32Do you want some?
02:32Of course I do.
02:34Jamaica, is that right?
02:36Caribbean?
02:36I don't actually know.
02:38I don't know.
02:40This...
02:41We've got our own pool, haven't we?
02:42...is insane.
02:45I can't wait to jump in there.
02:46It doesn't feel real to me.
02:48No.
02:49Do you know what I mean?
02:50I still haven't come to terms with that I'm actually married.
02:55Obviously, there are things I do like about Maeve,
02:57but my first impressions were I wasn't really sure
03:01if she is what I needed.
03:04A few babies, can't we?
03:06She came across a big, brash personality.
03:09Yeah, and I just think it's going to take some time
03:11just to see if she isn't just a party girl.
03:14But I guess we'll find out.
03:17So, like, one thing I might be concerned about
03:20is obviously when we're both drinking...
03:23Yeah.
03:23..how we're going to, like, be with each other.
03:26Because obviously you said you were, like,
03:28proper argumentative and shit when you're pissed, so...
03:31I'm all right, but the more I drink,
03:34the more, like, cheekier I get.
03:36Yeah.
03:37The more looking to, like, pushy buttons I get.
03:43Because you've calmed down, do you know what I mean?
03:46And, mate, like, that's what I want to be, like,
03:48so maybe you might possibly be the one to try it.
03:51Well, calm us down, hopefully.
03:52Do you think that'll happen?
03:56Right now, probably not.
04:01I've always sworn by, treat them mean, keep them keen.
04:05If he can handle me at my worst, he can have me at my best.
04:08The more time I'm spending with Joe, I'm starting to like him,
04:13and I feel like he's a very easy person to talk to.
04:16But I still have my guard up.
04:19In my past relationships, I have been walked all over.
04:23What can go wrong?
04:26Get a couple of drinks down here and we'll sure I'll find out.
04:28LAUGHTER
04:29Got you a little hot chocolate.
04:43I'll hold you, Paul.
04:46OK.
04:47So, the honeymoon, it has been up and down in terms of where we're at.
04:51She has been a bit aggy and stuff with me.
04:53It's emotionally draining.
04:55I do feel like I'm giving more.
04:56And I want her to know that.
05:07I feel like at this point...
05:10..I feel like I'm...
05:13..maybe trying a little bit harder.
05:21Are you...?
05:21Are you...?
05:22I'm always attentive.
05:26I'm like, do you want this, do you want that?
05:28You look nice.
05:29Can't see you giving me compliments.
05:32For me, I need a little bit of, like, flirtiness back.
05:35I don't want to flirt with you,
05:37because, like, that part for me is just, like, not there yet.
05:43I don't want to rush myself.
05:46But you could be a little bit more flirty, I think.
05:48Oh, Leah, your hair looks nice today.
05:53Oh, Leah, I like the way you're wearing your rings.
05:57OK, do we want to just dig me out?
06:00How fucking awful I am.
06:04I feel like we're in this experiment.
06:05We need to, like, push ourselves more than we would in the outside world.
06:09We have to meet in the middle, if we want it to try and work.
06:15Do you know what I mean?
06:18I know I'm not her type, but also, she's not my type.
06:21I still can have a flair and have a joke with her.
06:26Is she open to giving a little bit more?
06:28Because if it's not, I can't see myself going through this process.
06:31It's just a waste of time for me.
06:37Do you want to go and play in this now?
06:40No.
06:49God, no, no.
06:50Back in the UK...
06:52Close them!
06:53Julia, Ruth and Devani are waking up to their first morning as a married couple.
06:58How did you sleep?
07:00Fantastic, how was your...
07:01I listed up on my head on the pillow and I was gone.
07:05First night with my wife was very romantic.
07:07When I opened my eyes this morning, I thought I was dreaming.
07:10My wife is a very beautiful woman and very attracted to her.
07:13I'm going to ask her anything better, so it was good.
07:17It was just super, super, super duper comfortable.
07:20Okay.
07:21Good.
07:27I feel like the wedding was such a high, but I have woken up with like a different thought
07:31this morning.
07:33I'm quite an openly sexual person, but I'm not having that desire.
07:37So, I do think that I just want to take things slowly and at our pace and just build from
07:43there.
07:46Julia, Ruth and Devani, congratulations.
07:49You hope you enjoyed your first night as newlyweds.
07:52Now it's time for your honeymoon in the magical Morocco.
07:56The perfect setting for an enchanting love story to begin.
08:00I'm screaming.
08:01I love that.
08:03We're going to Morocco.
08:07I didn't get the initial spark that I was hoping for with Devani.
08:11Let's try and make the most of it being on the honeymoon and see if it grows.
08:17Morocco!
08:18Morocco, here we come.
08:19Oh, I'm here for it.
08:29Morocco!
08:30Morocco!
08:31We're excited.
08:32We're ready.
08:32As Julia, Ruth and Devani jet off on honeymoon, another hopeful single is ready to put her trust
08:40in the experts.
08:41I'm ready.
08:42I'm excited.
08:44Let's go, guys!
08:47I'm successful, fiercely independent and determined.
08:54Three, two, one.
08:56The gym's a huge part of my life.
09:01I love to feel healthy.
09:03I love to feel strong.
09:04And I think that's why I'm attracted to the alpha male.
09:09I'm attracted to the big man that can lead me by the hand.
09:16Are we ready?
09:17Lovely.
09:19I'm an aesthetics nurse and I run my own clinic from home.
09:22I absolutely love my job.
09:24I've managed to build a business on my own from the ground up.
09:31It's thriving.
09:32Is that okay?
09:33Feeling all right?
09:34And I'm so proud of that because I know that it's me who's achieved that.
09:38When you're entrepreneurial, you strive for more all the time.
09:44My standards are very high.
09:46I like things to be in order and I like things to look nice.
09:50I won't settle for anything less than perfection in my life.
09:55And I feel the same about my relationships.
09:57I was with my ex-partner for eight years and we got engaged and a little while after that, I broke off the engagement.
10:10When he proposed, there was something inside me that was saying, I'm not sure if this is 100% right.
10:23Making the decision that I made to break off the engagement obviously changed the course of my life but changed me as a person.
10:31Yeah, it was heartbreaking for us all, you know, because we just thought that was your course to be on.
10:39There is somebody out there that is just going to be perfect for what you want.
10:44I have a really clear idea of the type of person that I want, the values that I want him to have, the way that I want him to live his life and what would work well for me in that sense.
10:55And I haven't ever felt that before.
10:59I want to be with a partner and think this is everything that I've ever wanted.
11:04So if you found somebody that wasn't your type, would you be willing to put the work in and the effort in if he didn't tick those boxes straight away?
11:13I feel like I'm the type of person that needs them boxes ticked instantly.
11:20And if they're not, in my mind I think, oh, it's not going to work. It's not going to work. Just move on.
11:26I'm attracted to the alpha male.
11:30Somebody tall, confident, and who's sure of themselves.
11:38I want him to have really strong family values.
11:41I want to have a family in the future with me.
11:44I want him to be kind and respectful.
11:48To have a lot of get up and go.
11:52And to be really funny.
11:54I'm really ready to find the one.
11:57And something as crazy and as wild as this feels like the right next step.
12:02I have got a hundred percent hit rate in my flirty.
12:07Don't, listen, don't ask my friends what they say.
12:10Just ask me, it's a hundred percent.
12:12We never thought we'd see the day that Vader gets married.
12:15I always thought I'd get married.
12:16Like, chill out on that.
12:18Everyone grows up.
12:19Like, I'm not, like, a massive flirt anymore.
12:21Much.
12:22A little bit.
12:24If there was a dating review website, I think I'd have five stars.
12:27I think I'm a catch, yeah.
12:28I mean, yeah, look at me.
12:30I enjoy being tall.
12:31I think that is such a good trait when you're trying to approach women.
12:34I've got to put my heart on a date, you know.
12:36I put, hi, I'm six foot four.
12:37Yeah, remember, I'm six foot four.
12:40I'm definitely an extrovert.
12:42I'm just loud, so I end up being central attention.
12:47I like to think of myself somewhat as an entrepreneur.
12:50I'm kind of like the Richard Branson of Brighton.
12:53I own a microbrewery.
12:55It helps me on dates loads.
12:57I mean, if I'm in a bar that sells the beer, I'd be like, oh, oh, they sell my beer here
13:01today, like I didn't know already.
13:02It works, honestly, that works a treat.
13:05My beer is named after my gorgeous little daughter.
13:09Wow, look at that.
13:11You ready?
13:12Here we go.
13:13Becoming a dad is the best thing I've ever done.
13:15She's the most important person in my life.
13:18I just have another level to love with Bluebell.
13:21Who's your best friend?
13:23You.
13:23Oh, who's my best friend?
13:25Me.
13:26Yeah.
13:27Family is super important to me.
13:29I split up with my daughter's mother, and it was something I never wanted to do.
13:33We came to kind of the harsh reality that we would be happy if separated.
13:37I do want more kids one day, so I think that makes it even more important to be in a strong
13:41relationship and to be really close with my partner, be really sure about them.
13:47Why is love so important to you now?
13:50Oh.
13:51Love means everything to me.
13:54I'd love to be married.
13:55I'd love to start building a future.
13:57Maybe build on my family and have a family together.
14:00All of these things are important to me, but the right person, someone I could see forever
14:04with, just a teammate, like someone to bring out the best of me, and then I can hopefully
14:08do that with her, yeah.
14:13I'm looking for sparks.
14:15Honesty.
14:17Kindness.
14:19Entrepreneurial spirit.
14:22I think there's that fairy tale out there for everyone.
14:24And, yeah, I'm here searching for mine.
14:34Rebecca and Bailey are a fascinating couple.
14:38Let's start with Rebecca, who is possibly one of our trickiest brides to match.
14:42She's confident, career-driven, a high achiever, and she demands perfection in all aspects of
14:48her life, including her partner.
14:50She wants a husband with an alpha personality who can match her energy and drive.
14:54It's a very high bar, but I think we may have cracked it with Bailey.
14:59He's an entrepreneur, self-assured, a leader in his peer group, and he radiates charm and
15:04confidence.
15:05Absolutely.
15:06Bailey's a big personality, but Rebecca's direct and honest characteristics will keep him
15:11on his toes.
15:12And they both have a genuine love of family, which, as a loving father, is a crucial quality
15:17for Bailey.
15:18And let's not forget, they are both highly active and extroverts who love the company
15:23of other people.
15:24So they should really bounce off each other's positive energy.
15:28If the spark ignites for these two, there could be fireworks.
15:33Rebecca and Bailey.
15:34I just want there to be, like, that spark and that connection, and then I look at him
15:45and I'm like, oh, okay.
15:46Do you feel like you, when you see him, you'll know?
15:49Yeah.
15:50Straight away?
15:51Yeah.
15:51I'll know within ten seconds.
15:53I'm just that type of person, though, aren't I?
15:55You do need to give people a chance as well.
15:58Rebecca likes everything her own way and, you know, she's got certain standards that she
16:05wants everybody to live up to.
16:07But she does maybe need to compromise a little bit.
16:12I want somebody who, like, is a typical alpha guy.
16:17I'm always attracted to, like, the tallest guys.
16:20I hope he's well-dressed.
16:22Clean, big feasts.
16:23Gym bod.
16:24A six-pack.
16:25Discipline and they work really hard.
16:27I would say you're picky.
16:29You have got your standards.
16:31You have.
16:32And you know what you want.
16:36God, it feels so real now you're here.
16:37I didn't sleep at all last night.
16:39You're nervous.
16:40No, I'm ready.
16:40I'm ready.
16:41I can't believe it.
16:42The day is here.
16:43I'm about to be a husband.
16:44I'm going to have a wife.
16:45I can't wait to meet her.
16:47Get me down that aisle.
16:48She might not like you.
16:50Are you worried about that at all?
16:52No, I'm not worried about that.
16:55She will love me.
16:56Like, it's fine.
16:56I'm obviously Mr. Confident.
16:58I'm not used to people not fancying me.
17:00I get a lot of numbers, get a lot of dates.
17:03Is she going to be in love as soon as she sees me?
17:07He's always confident.
17:08A bit too confident at times.
17:13Try and crack on with her for the first night.
17:15Well, she's like, she's not feeling it.
17:17Yeah.
17:18How would you react to that?
17:19I don't know.
17:20Listen, I'm not even thinking about it.
17:21It's never happened.
17:26I definitely am looking to settle down.
17:53I just haven't met the right person.
17:57I want to call someone my wife.
18:00I don't want to be with someone forever.
18:01Well, I love you.
18:23What?
18:24Hi.
18:25How's it going?
18:26Hello.
18:26Hello.
18:33What's your name? I'm Bailey. Bailey?
18:36Yeah, nice to meet you all. You look lovely.
18:38Thank you. Rebecca knows what she wants,
18:43so I will know from Rebecca's face if this is not her dream man.
18:48I'm picturing, like, a man who's got, like, stature about him.
18:56I want him to be a dominant figure.
19:01I've walked away from something before
19:06because I didn't want to settle.
19:09And if they don't tick enough boxes for me straight away,
19:15I will say how I feel.
19:31She's here.
19:45Hello. How's it going? You all right?
19:48Hi. How are you? Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you too. I'm Rebecca.
19:53Hi, Rebecca. I'm Bailey. Nice to meet you. Bailey?
19:55Yeah. You look lovely.
19:58Thank you so much. So do you.
20:01She's absolutely stunning. I can't believe it.
20:05She's right up my street. She's a bit of me.
20:08God, you look lovely, by the way.
20:09Yeah, really lovely. Yeah, honestly, yeah.
20:11Very lovely. Big smiles. Look at me.
20:14I'm like Cheshire Cat.
20:27What's all right?
20:286'4".
20:296'4"?
20:30Yeah. Is that right?
20:32He's not 6'4".
20:42I guess 6'1".
20:45I said I would know within 10 seconds.
20:49And alarm bells are going off in my head.
20:55He's not my type.
20:57Oh, God.
21:12Thank you all for coming to celebrate this very special occasion.
21:16Now in these beautiful surroundings, we come to the vows
21:20which Rebecca and Bailey have written to each other.
21:27I always tell my friends that first dates should be casual.
21:30Nothing too fancy.
21:32Don't overdress.
21:34And whatever you do, never talk about marriage.
21:37But well, here we are.
21:39Nice to meet you.
21:41But in all seriousness,
21:43I vow to be your biggest fan,
21:46your supportive team mate,
21:48and your personal comedian.
21:50Always there to make you smile when you need cheering up.
21:54So here's to laughter,
21:56happiness,
21:58and who knows, hopefully one day love.
22:02So let's do this.
22:03To my husband.
22:08Never in a million years did I think I'd stand in front of a stranger
22:14and agree to marry them.
22:16I decided this year was the year that I would say yes to everything.
22:20To every opportunity, to every invitation,
22:22but more importantly, to you.
22:24I want to get to know the real you.
22:27I know we may go through tough times together,
22:30but all I ask...
22:32I'm gonna cry.
22:33All I ask is that you try to love me.
22:37Sorry.
22:38You try to love me just as I am.
22:42Please just accept me and let me show you how magical life can be with me by your side.
22:48Excuse me.
22:50So to my husband,
22:52I say yes to you today.
22:54And hopefully I will say yes every day thereafter.
23:01I'm gonna start welling out, I can't speak.
23:05I don't want... I'm trying to... I'm trying to be your macho, aren't I?
23:12I don't think he's an alpha.
23:15No.
23:17Rebecca, I give you this ring.
23:19Wear it with joy and as a symbol of our unity.
23:23Bailey, I give you this ring with sincerity and as a symbol of our unity.
23:28Bailey, Rebecca, you may now share your first kiss.
23:41No.
23:42A kiss on the mouth isn't right for me at this stage.
23:48Please join me in giving them your warmest congratulations.
23:55God, I can't remember the last time I was given the cheek if I'm honest.
24:08I wanted a kiss.
24:10Oh God, I don't know, is that a first part? Bloody hell.
24:12I felt straight away there was no real sexual pull.
24:20I don't know if he'd be my type that I'd gravitate to.
24:27I'm a man on a mission now.
24:29I'm a man on a mission to get a kiss.
24:30Maybe a bit of tongue layer.
24:40Oh my God.
24:43The experts have definitely got this right.
24:46I've literally met someone that I didn't truly believe ever existed.
24:50This is really nice.
24:52You know what, I think I can stay here for a few nights.
24:56Cool.
24:58I've been married for less than 24 hours.
25:01The lack of physical, like, desire does bother me a little bit.
25:07I love someone who is excited about life.
25:10And I'm getting the impression that Devani is low energy.
25:14Wow.
25:15Just different energy to mine.
25:17If I had to design my own house, it would look like this.
25:20Yeah?
25:22But it would have pillars as well.
25:23Or pillars.
25:25I love a house with pillars.
25:27I don't want a boring life.
25:29I want to do fun things together.
25:31Maybe it'll spark and come in time.
25:33It hasn't really at the moment.
25:47It's our final dinner at the honeymoon.
25:49I'm hoping to clear the air.
25:50I've sort of had to think about how I'm behaving.
25:53I know that I've had moments where I could have been more open and I could have put more effort in.
25:59So I want her to know that.
26:00I'm going to take on board what she said.
26:02We've had moments, I think, where we've been, like, sort of up and down.
26:06I've maybe realised that there is an element of me that is maybe a bit more distant with you because of things I've been through in the past.
26:17Subconsciously, I've built a wall up so much since I've been single.
26:23It's like I've turned a switch off and I'm struggling to turn that switch back on.
26:27And that is why, like, there's a bit of me that's kind of, like, kicking myself a little bit.
26:33I'm like, why is that bit not there?
26:35Yeah.
26:36Because, like, I am attracted to you in a lot of ways.
26:39What I really appreciate today is, like, me telling you that I feel like we need to meet 50-50 and already you've gone away and you've worked on that straight away within hours, do you know what I mean?
26:53Yeah.
26:54See, I can be sweet.
26:57It makes me feel like I'm definitely heard.
27:02So I feel like she is trying.
27:06No, I'll feed it to you. I'm trying to be romantic.
27:08Sorry.
27:09You asked for effort, I'm giving you effort.
27:11Mm-hmm.
27:27The sand on my feet. Ow!
27:29I think I've just stepped on a rock.
27:31Thank you very much.
27:32She's like, ow!
27:33Oh!
27:34I just kicked the table.
27:35That's just nice, isn't it?
27:36Yeah.
27:37Joe is a really nice guy.
27:40I didn't even know his name 24 hours ago and now I'm in this amazing place in the Caribbean, I think.
27:48And I'm having a really good time.
27:55Oh, fucking hell.
27:57Are you being a lady tonight?
27:59Uh-uh.
28:00Yeah.
28:01I think the biggest stumbling block about Maeve is she's got this big sort of character that's almost boisterous energy.
28:09Ha-ha-ha-ha-ha!
28:10But Maeve, that is strong, you know.
28:11Woo!
28:12But I feel like I need to get to know each other on a deeper level tonight.
28:15So you do love being a mum, yeah?
28:21Oh, yeah.
28:22The best feeling in the world.
28:23Yeah.
28:24Best feeling in the world.
28:25Yeah.
28:26I miss my son-laws now.
28:28Seeing his little face in the morning, like, oh, I just squeeze him.
28:32Yeah, yeah.
28:33Like, I wake up, like, ten minutes earlier just to give him a cuddle.
28:35That's nice.
28:36It's the best honesty, man.
28:37He melts me hot.
28:38Like, he is my best friend.
28:40But there are times when it is, like, hard.
28:44Yeah.
28:45Because I've got to be, like, the mum, the dad, like, and obviously I had him at 20.
28:49Like, I've always been the person that's provided, like, paid all the bills and everything.
28:53Yeah.
28:54So I am quite, like, independent.
28:56See, I respect that massively.
28:58Yes.
29:00You are a caring person and I fucking get that vibe off you.
29:03Yeah.
29:04And that's exactly what I asked for.
29:06Someone that's got a good heart.
29:07And I genuinely do think you've got an heart of gold.
29:09Honest.
29:10Yeah.
29:11That is actually nice.
29:15But I think you put on this, like, facade.
29:20But I know there's a soft interior.
29:23I can just see it.
29:25I don't really open up to people.
29:27It's like, I am shit scared of talking about how I actually feel.
29:31When people say that I have got a soft side, people do take the piss out of you.
29:34And I don't want that to happen again.
29:36But it's nice that he actually listens to me.
29:39I've never had that.
29:40Here we are.
29:41Here we are.
29:42Here we are.
29:43Here we are.
29:44I definitely find Julia real stupid attractive.
29:46Getting to know her throughout this honeymoon stage, I feel like it's just really confirming what I've been looking for for a very long time.
30:05So, what was your first thoughts or how did you feel when you turned around and you saw me?
30:13When I turned around and I saw you all smiling, walking up, I was so happy.
30:18Nervous.
30:19But I was stupid happy, man.
30:21Oh.
30:22Stupid.
30:23You are absolutely beautiful.
30:24That's really nice.
30:30What was your thinking when you saw me?
30:35Mmm.
30:36I was like flooded with so many emotions.
30:40Excited and nervous.
30:42It was a lot to take in.
30:44You were very confident.
30:46You were very calm when I was nervous and I liked the fact that we had a lot in common.
30:53But, um, I think it is fair to say that there was an expectation maybe on, like, height.
31:07I mean, I have dated, like, taller guys.
31:11Huh?
31:12Mmm.
31:14He just feels like a really nice friend at the moment.
31:25I don't want to be mean to him.
31:28That shocks me.
31:41I'm not no basketball player.
31:43Yeah, that helped.
31:44Shit.
31:58I definitely fancy her.
32:11She's obviously gorgeous.
32:12But I'm struggling to tell where she's at a little bit.
32:16This way for me.
32:17Beautiful, guys.
32:18I think we look good.
32:19What do you reckon?
32:20Do we?
32:21Yeah, I think we look good, yeah.
32:22I hope so.
32:23Bailey is so complimentary of me.
32:26But I just don't know if, like, the fancying is there for me.
32:34What's your type?
32:35I like a real masculine energy.
32:36Yeah, sweet.
32:37Yeah.
32:38What are you like with your mates?
32:39I'm the loud one, yeah.
32:40I'm proper extroverted, yeah.
32:41And what about you?
32:43I'd say I'm, like, the leader of the girls.
32:46Are you?
32:47Yeah.
32:48We both have for zen, are we?
32:49See, I don't get that vibe at all.
32:51What, from me?
32:52Do you not?
32:53What am I giving?
32:54Beta vibes.
32:56What's going on?
32:57I'm obviously the alpha.
32:59Could I get a kiss for the camera?
33:01Is that okay, please?
33:02I can't kiss.
33:03You don't feel about the kiss on the alpha.
33:04Can I kiss on the cheek?
33:05Yeah, you can kiss on the cheek.
33:10There we go.
33:15I've got the cheek again, but I can't work it out.
33:22I can't believe it.
33:23I don't think I see the type A character from him yet.
33:30I don't know if we've got different definitions of what an alpha might be.
33:43You're okay?
33:44You're okay?
33:45My hand is on the cheek.
33:46No!
33:47Are we all right?
33:48Hold on.
33:49Hold on.
33:50Hold on.
33:51Hold on.
33:52Don't move it.
33:53Don't move it.
33:54Just get me like the shaking.
33:55Ah!
33:56Ah!
33:57What?
33:58My feelings have definitely progressed with Maeve.
34:01I was a bit unsure at the wedding, but just getting to know her gradually.
34:05I'm getting signs that Maeve sort of letting me in.
34:07Oh, my God!
34:08Oh, my God!
34:09Oh, my God!
34:10Fucking hell.
34:11I nearly knocked my cell out.
34:12I'm not doing that ever again.
34:13Well done.
34:14What I've found is the more time that I'm spending with them, I am starting to like them.
34:19It's nice, isn't it?
34:20It could go out of your comfort zone.
34:21No!
34:22Well done.
34:23You smashed that.
34:24That was the worst thing I've ever done in me life.
34:26You smashed it.
34:27I was crying at the top.
34:28Me of a boyfriend that I've been with are nothing compared to Joe.
34:32Like, Joe makes me feel really comfortable, and he reassures me quite a lot.
34:38But I've still got my guard up massively.
34:41So, I don't want to give him 100% just yet.
34:43Fuck that.
34:48How are you feeling?
34:49Mmm.
34:50Not great.
34:51Okay.
34:52There's tension, for sure.
34:53When Julia Ruth shared her perspective on first thoughts at the wedding.
34:55Yeah, that hurt.
34:56But I'm still physically attracted to her.
34:57I'm emotionally attached to her, for sure.
34:58And I really want this to work as much as possible.
34:59I'll just let my character be bigger and taller.
35:00So, that's where my mind's at, really and truly.
35:01So, that's where my mind's at, really and truly.
35:02I just feel like...
35:03There's...
35:04There's...
35:05There's...
35:06There's tension, for sure.
35:07And Julia Ruth shared her perspective on first thoughts at the wedding.
35:10Yeah, that hurt.
35:11But I'm still physically attracted to her.
35:13I'm emotionally attached to her, for sure.
35:16And I really want this to work as much as possible.
35:18I'll just let my character be bigger and taller.
35:21So, that's where my mind's at, really and truly.
35:26I just feel like there's still more days left to see where it's going to go.
35:36Yeah.
35:37Sometimes it's easier to adjust to your partner's needs.
35:41And I feel like it just depends on circumstances, situations, time.
35:48Devani is just boring.
35:52I just want to, like, let her hair down.
35:55So, today I just want to see him, like, have fun with cooking Moroccan food.
36:00And then maybe the physical attraction would have come just a little bit easier.
36:20This is me, right now, in my element.
36:22Yeah.
36:23Super happy.
36:24I love eating.
36:25I love good food.
36:26I also love flavors, spices.
36:35Nice.
36:40I'm really trying to have fun.
36:45But the conversation has been a bit of a struggle.
36:47Can I borrow your knife?
36:48Okay.
36:49So, yeah.
36:50It's not ideal.
36:51It's not fun.
37:08Hello, everyone.
37:09Go on.
37:10Hello.
37:11Hello.
37:12What do you reckon?
37:13What do you reckon?
37:14Nice.
37:15You're punching, babe.
37:16Yeah?
37:17I want to be punching.
37:18What do you drink?
37:19Er, anything.
37:20Do you drink?
37:21I do drink.
37:22I do drink, yeah.
37:23You do drink, yeah.
37:24Just not, like, loads.
37:25Okay.
37:26I don't drink like this, but...
37:27No, a little.
37:28Is it just because I said I didn't drink?
37:29No, no, I mean, I just don't drink like this.
37:30But, um, yeah, anything.
37:31I do drink, yeah.
37:32I do drink.
37:33I do drink, yeah.
37:34Just not, like, loads.
37:35Okay, no, I don't drink like this, but, um...
37:36No, no, a little bit.
37:37Is it just because I said I didn't drink?
37:38No, no, I mean, I just don't drink like this.
37:39But, um, yeah, anything.
37:40Beer, wine.
37:41So you do drink a lot, then?
37:42Not a lot.
37:43I feel like you're going to lie to me.
37:44No, no, not loads.
37:45I'm a social drinker.
37:46Do you go out quite a lot?
37:47Not, like, what, like, depends what you mean.
37:49So, I'm not a lot.
37:50I feel like you're going to lie to me.
37:51No, no, no, not loads.
37:52I'm not loads.
37:53I'm a social drinker.
37:55Do you go out quite a lot?
37:57Not, like, what, like, depends what you mean.
37:59Socially, like, to watch the football at the pub,
38:02then a little bit.
38:03But, like, it's, like, literally to do that and go home.
38:07You can say that you go out.
38:09No, no, I swear.
38:10I just want you to tell me how you act like you are.
38:14Like, I just, I want to get to know you properly,
38:16do you know what I mean?
38:17When somebody's an alpha, they don't want you to be
38:21like that.
38:22Yeah, like, fitness is, like, a big part of my life.
38:25Is it? Yeah.
38:26I like training, so I like being in the gym.
38:29Always in the gym.
38:30Like, I go every day.
38:31I can never go a week without going.
38:33I went, like, 24 days in the month.
38:36So, yeah, I'm always in the gym.
38:39Is Chan so much shit now?
38:41So much.
38:42I do worry about the authenticity.
38:53I'll be back.
38:54Oh, are you off fire?
38:55I'm off.
38:56I'm going to go and speak to your friends.
38:58Wait, who are you speaking to?
38:59My friends?
39:00I'm not sure if Bailey is being really real with me.
39:04Hello there.
39:05So...
39:06What do you want to know?
39:07The goths.
39:08Go for it.
39:09Tell me all the goths.
39:10The tea.
39:11Far away.
39:12Is he 6'4"?
39:13There's no way he's 6'4".
39:15He's about 6'2 on a good day, I think.
39:22So, he said to me that he trained every day.
39:25When he says train, he means he does five press-ups in the morning.
39:29It is a white lie.
39:31It makes no sense to me.
39:32I don't mind.
39:33I don't need someone who goes to the gym every single day.
39:36Just be honest.
39:38What's he been like in past relationships with people?
39:41What?
39:44Oh, no.
39:45No, no, no.
39:46The thing is...
39:47Silence is deafening.
39:48The thing is, with his ex, I can kind of see in ways,
39:53like, how he, like, sort of changed a little bit.
39:56Yeah, he changed his dress sense a little bit.
39:58He changed his dress sense to match the partner?
40:00I think so, yeah.
40:01A little bit.
40:02Really?
40:03Yeah.
40:04I know, I don't like that.
40:05I like someone who's just, like, dead sure of themselves,
40:07like, won't change for anyone.
40:08I've got concerns around Bailey and Alpha.
40:12It doesn't change for anybody.
40:14I want to get to know somebody for who they are
40:16and to fall in love with that.
40:18But he's putting on, like, a bit of a show and it worries me.
40:21Mark, what have we got here?
40:34I'm really looking forward to having another night with Joe tonight.
40:37Another night?
40:38Oh, wow!
40:40I think I'm having a really good time with him.
40:46I want it.
40:47It's burning me soul.
40:50Fucking hell!
40:52But it's really hard when I start meeting someone
40:57because I've always got in the back of me mind,
40:59they're going to hurt you.
41:01So I'm just trying to take it moment by moment.
41:04Today has been one of the most craziest days of my life.
41:08Zip lining through a jungle.
41:10It has been a lot, like...
41:11Yeah.
41:12How are you feeling about everything?
41:13I'm good, yeah.
41:14I think it's nice to see you, like, do all this,
41:17this, like, different shit.
41:19But obviously you said that you have, like, a guard up.
41:23And I think when, like, me and you are in the villa,
41:28that's when, like, your guard comes down.
41:30But when we're more in, like, a public setting,
41:33it goes back up again.
41:37But it's my job as a husband to sort of get that guard down
41:40and really get to know him more.
41:45You've really pissed me off.
41:46Why have I pissed you off?
41:47Because you have.
41:48For what reason?
41:49Because you have.
41:50Why?
41:51Because I actually feel myself going to kick off soon.
41:52What do you mean, though?
41:53I haven't said that.
41:54Yeah, you're saying that I don't fucking open up.
41:56Yeah, but you need to explain what...
41:59Do you know what I mean?
42:00Because I just don't want everyone to say that.
42:01Yeah, I'm like this.
42:02Like what?
42:03Well, obviously, like, I've got this big, like,
42:05personality that I don't give a fuck.
42:07And, like, obviously, you know that I've got a softer sideways.
42:09I don't want everyone to say that.
42:13Do you know what I mean?
42:14Yeah, but that's part of your personality.
42:15So why wouldn't that?
42:16Because I don't.
42:17Why do you care about that?
42:18Because I do.
42:19For what?
42:20Yeah, but that isn't a reason, is it?
42:21Well, yeah, it is.
42:22It's a very fucking valid reason.
42:25What?
42:26Because I do?
42:27Yeah.
42:33Fucking idiot.
42:34I get my guard up really, really quick, and that is the type of person that I am.
42:40I don't want anyone really to see how vulnerable I can be, because I've been hurt so many times.
42:46But I feel like he's just said this out of nowhere, so my guard's gone straight back up.
42:50I didn't want to piss you off, like, with what I was saying.
42:54Yeah, but you've actually hit a nerve, though.
42:56Why?
42:58Because you have.
42:59For what reason?
43:00Because you just have, and I'm not going round and round in circles, but you have just hit a nerve.
43:03Yeah, but you've got to give a reason for it.
43:07What?
43:08Oh, right.
43:09Right.
43:10No, man.
43:11You're pissing me off.
43:12Why?
43:13Because you're fucking off, man.
43:14You're actually fucking off.
43:15I just want to feel more connected to me.
43:25And my main concern is that we don't actually get there in the end.
43:45I'm feeling a little uneasy right now.
43:57Like, her not, like, opening up as much.
43:59It's something that I felt that I had to brought up.
44:06When I have a few drinks, I get in my head a little bit, and little things just trigger me.
44:11And I flew off the handle for no reason.
44:14I never like to say I'm in the wrong about anything, even when I am in the wrong.
44:18But I need to tell them how I'm really feeling.
44:27You know, last night was a lot, wasn't it?
44:30Yeah, I mean...
44:32I feel like it's not really resolved, what I was saying.
44:35Do you know what it is?
44:36Like, I don't want people to say that I've got that softer side.
44:38It was, like, I do struggle opening up.
44:40Yeah.
44:41And, like, even just opening up to you about little things.
44:43Like, that's massive for me.
44:45Honestly, I hate feeling vulnerable.
44:48But I just feel like every time when I let more people in,
44:51that's when I get fucked over more.
44:53Yeah.
44:54So that's why I'm always a bit of a dick.
44:58But I wouldn't...
44:59I'm not going to fuck you over, do you know what I mean?
45:03I know, but...
45:04So you don't need to worry about that.
45:05Everyone else has, though.
45:07So...
45:08Do you know what I mean?
45:09Yeah.
45:10Yeah, I do.
45:11I do.
45:12But I did feel bad.
45:13You don't actually need to.
45:14It was just, like, a misunderstanding.
45:16And...
45:17It's fine.
45:22He's making me feel real...
45:23Like, really reassured about everything.
45:25Like, he's the kindest soul that I've actually ever met.
45:28And I feel like, no matter what I say, he's not going to judge us.
45:31So I do think I'm going to be a little bit more open with him.
45:36I'm just trying to, like, learn about you.
45:39I feel closer to you now than I did before.
45:42I feel more comfortable around you.
45:47We've just got to take a day at a time, though, haven't we?
45:49And that's what I think.
45:50And to be fair, I was pretty scared of what, like, drunk you were going to be like,
45:54but you weren't that bad.
45:56That wasn't anything.
45:57That was literally just me saying I needed to get away from you.
45:59Like, that was nothing.
46:00I was scared for my safety, to be fair.
46:02But shut up!
46:03Oh, man!
46:09Your friends were very telling about how you are.
46:13Yeah, well, I...
46:14Yeah.
46:15In a good way.
46:18They said that you don't go to the gym.
46:20Blood.
46:21And you're not six foot four.
46:27That's wild.
46:28Everything I've said has been total truth.
46:33Total truth, honestly.
46:35I want you to be 100% you.
46:39That's so important to me.
46:40Like, I want you to just be yourself.
46:42I feel like I've always been sure on myself.
46:43Your friends didn't say that.
46:47They said that when you was with an ex...
46:49Yeah.
46:50...she dressed quite quirky.
46:52And they said that you, like, matched that and you dressed in a similar way.
46:58Yeah.
46:59Yeah, that's probably a bit more true.
47:00Yeah.
47:01I don't want you to change at all for me.
47:03But I wouldn't see it changing.
47:04I would see it growing with someone.
47:05I think I've grown from all of my past relationships and it's kind of made me into the person I am today.
47:19I think, like, I want to meet someone that I can grow with and they can grow with me.
47:23And I think that's healthy.
47:26Okay.
47:27He seems like he's got the gift of the gab.
47:31I just want to make sure that the person I'm with, they're really sure of themselves and they don't change for an ex or anybody else.
47:38Come on, then. Let's cheers. Cheers.
47:40Cheers.
47:45Come on.
47:53This is nice.
47:54Got the honeymoon suite, look.
47:56So, we need to discuss the sleeping arrangements.
48:00Oh, yeah.
48:01Yeah?
48:02Yeah.
48:03What are your thoughts?
48:08Yeah, it's up to you, babe.
48:09Yeah, I can take the sofa.
48:10I'm very much a gentleman.
48:12It's up to you.
48:13Totally up to you, yeah.
48:18Okay.
48:19I mean, if you're happy to sleep on this sofa, that would be great.
48:22I just want, like, a clear divide between us just for now.
48:27Yeah, we can see how we get on, yeah.
48:28You know?
48:29Yeah.
48:30Is that okay with you?
48:32Yeah, that's fine, yeah.
48:33Good.
48:35I was not expecting that in the slightest.
48:38Well, I'm still interested, don't get me wrong.
48:40I think there's still something there to work on.
48:45See you in the morning, wifey.
48:47Good night.
48:48Night.
48:50I'm just not there yet.
48:52It's so early on, I don't know if I've, like, met the real him yet.
48:57I need to build that connection before I can be physically intimate with him.
49:01We've got a nice milk...
49:20Milk bath.
49:22It says, I haunt you.
49:24I thought it said Joe.
49:25I definitely think the arguments brought us close together.
49:30It was important that Maeve sort of opened up.
49:33I do feel like we are understanding each other more and more every day.
49:37Cheers to the last day.
49:38Cheers.
49:39Feeling great after last night.
49:41Me and Maeve had a really nice time when we got to the villa.
49:44We really did get to know each other on a deeper level.
49:47One thing led to another and that's it.
49:49That's what I'm saying.
49:50Oh, God.
49:52I can tell you now that he's definitely more than a good body.
49:58He is a very...
49:59He's a good time guy.
50:01Hello.
50:02Hello.
50:03Hi.
50:04How are you?
50:05Good.
50:06How are you doing?
50:07Good.
50:08How are you doing?
50:09Yes.
50:10Yeah.
50:11At the moment I feel like it's feeling really awkward.
50:12Hey, whoa.
50:13That's mad.
50:14Today I just wanted us to have lots of laughs and trying to focus on like the good things
50:16and the energy.
50:17Whoa.
50:18Whoa.
50:19Jeez.
50:20Yo.
50:21I didn't envision my honeymoon to be like this but marriage, just as we all know it,
50:26it's not going to be easy.
50:27Ultimately, this is just another opportunity just to get close to my home.
50:30The pleasure of seeing you.
50:31It's been the pleasure of seeing you when you're in the room, if I'm having to be
50:35Yo, I didn't envision my honeymoon to be like this, but marriage, just as we all know it,
50:44it's not going to be easy. Ultimately, this is just another opportunity just to get close
50:47to my wife. And I still strongly believe that we can get over this hump. Can you hear that?
50:54Pure silence. That's nice. That's really nice.
51:05Oh look at that. Are you like a scenic person, like views and all of that, yeah? Yeah.
51:19I've actually did very well on the subject of earth and space in school. Okay. This is
51:29quite hard. I'm struggling with the conversation. Can I just live a fearless life?
51:35I just kind of just step into the unknown, whatever that looks like. How I've grown
51:42up, I've always been a protector or just a facilitator, keeping the peace. Are you afraid of heights?
51:50Nah. Nah? Nah, yeah? Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah. Yeah. Do you have any, like, fears? Like,
51:58what scares you the most? Growing up, I was always alone, just even with my whole family. And I
52:04think knowing that I could potentially be alone for the rest of my life, that would be the worst.
52:09Yeah. That's not what I meant at all. With Devani, it is quite difficult to find the fun, lighthearted
52:18side and just be a bit carefree. It has to be too deep. I don't know. I think the worst thing
52:25is that I've always went through life questioning why certain things happened. It's always hit and misses.
52:31That's a strange way to look at it. Nah, not really. No one caters to me. That shit sucks.
52:37He doesn't see any positives or, like, with that with me. It's just like, it's like, it's just too much.
52:46You focus on the negative. You're saying it sucked. You sit in the negativity and you attract negativity
52:52and draw negativity and it will keep coming back. Camerade was a disaster.
53:01It's just hard. It just feels like it's just like a lot of negativity. I can't, I can't lift us both up. I can't.
53:20This is definitely one of the hardest challenges I've been through. And I don't want it to be translated that the information that I was given was from a negative place.
53:27It was more of just me opening it up. How you doing? Okay. It's pretty intense. Very much intense.
53:48I just feel like what I need was just a bit of positivity and fun so we can feel the traction.
53:55But on the camels, it was just like, I sat there and you literally spit out one thing after another.
54:02I don't want you to feel you can't open up to me because that's not what the case is.
54:07There just needs to be a balance and like a time and a place for things.
54:11So I came into this experiment to find my personal, have someone that I can, as well as having fun, offload to.
54:21And someone that ultimately understands me.
54:24Was it intentional to put you in that situation where it was like, damn, I'm trying to be Mr. Negative?
54:30It was just something that hit me in that moment and I was just pouring out the feelings.
54:37But the way you say things, it's just like a tornado of negativity.
54:43And it's hard to want to be intimate and grow and develop something when everything is so intense and so deep.
54:51The last thing I want to do is have a talk about traumas and then like get into bed with you.
55:04Maybe like just for tonight, we'll just do separate rooms just to be clear.
55:09And then tomorrow we'll like regroup and start like a fresh new day and like a clean slate.
55:17Shit, that's how I'm honestly feeling.
55:20Um, I feel like I've just been attacked.
55:23The thing that hurt me the most is to sleep in the separate rooms.
55:26But if she needs her space, I'll give her space.
55:31There's trouble in paradise, innit?
55:43Next time.
55:44I know what I want and what I don't want. It has to be right.
55:46One more couple says I do.
55:49But expectations.
55:51I would like to be matched with someone who is a silver fox.
55:55Sense of humour.
55:56Are quickly tested.
55:58Here's my vote.
56:00Oh, you're a joke.
56:02He's not the silver fox I had in mind.
56:04Bailey seeks a more intimate connection.
56:07I feel more comfortable now with my hands on you than off you.
56:11I personally wouldn't kiss somebody as soon as I've met them.
56:14That's just a bit too soon for me.
56:16And for Julia, Ruth and Davani.
56:19Davani and I slept separately.
56:20I haven't seen him since.
56:22The road to a honeymoon reunion.
56:25You don't really get a second chance with a woman like that.
56:27Is heading for a dead end.
56:29This is not how I wanted my honeymoon to go.
56:31This is not how I wanted my honeymoon to go.
56:32Out of the way.
56:33See you next time.
56:36Don't be honest, if you wait to hear me.
56:37Talk to me.
56:43Eat Meal on Hyatt.
56:46Someone is here.
56:50Report Vasoday.
56:51You know what?
56:54You love me.
56:58Take care.
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