Married at First Sight UK Season 10 Episode 7

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Married at First Sight UK Season 10 Episode 7   #RealityRealmUS  Reality Realm US

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00:00:00Make some part of me happy.

00:00:03While others...

00:00:04Said I want a tomboy Barbie.

00:00:06Every now and then he just says something and I think like,

00:00:08do you know how that sounds?

00:00:09We're thrown into marital mayhem.

00:00:11You really piss me off.

00:00:12Why?

00:00:13Because you're f***ing off, man.

00:00:14You're actually f***ing off.

00:00:15Would it be any different if I wasn't as big?

00:00:17Probably.

00:00:18I am starting to feel rejected.

00:00:20The last thing I want to do is have a talk about traumas

00:00:22and then like get into bed with you.

00:00:25You've hardly asked any questions about me.

00:00:27I don't want to ask.

00:00:28I don't know if it's all for the marriage.

00:00:30Truthfully?

00:00:31I don't think there is.

00:00:35Tonight...

00:00:36Our newlyweds...

00:00:39Move in together.

00:00:42We're so few!

00:00:44But for some couples...

00:00:45It's all just the colonel bit real now.

00:00:48Domestic harmony...

00:00:50I know your three children's names.

00:00:52Do you know my two?

00:00:53...is short-lived.

00:00:55It's crunch time for me.

00:00:57At the first dinner party of the experiment...

00:01:03Oh, she's on her own.

00:01:06It's showtime for Dean.

00:01:08Here we are on this mad experiment,

00:01:10seeing things not in our element.

00:01:13But Sarah serves a scathing review.

00:01:15He has moved by Debra's luck with anyone's house.

00:01:18Okay.

00:01:18He's calling himself the funny fat kid.

00:01:21It's like a hair bear.

00:01:24That's not a very hot thing to say about your partner.

00:01:26No.

00:01:27While some are falling head over heels...

00:01:29I've got that like fuzzy feeling in me.

00:01:32You got him moving?

00:01:34Others are falling apart.

00:01:35You are very negative.

00:01:41This one's so genuine.

00:01:54Honey, I'm home.

00:01:56As our newlyweds return from their honeymoons...

00:01:59Yes, sir.

00:02:00Let's do it.

00:02:01Up and ski together.

00:02:02It's time for them to embark upon the next big milestone

00:02:05in their married lives.

00:02:06We're doing it, eh?

00:02:08Living together.

00:02:10Right.

00:02:13Oh, my God, look at this!

00:02:15Morley, Morley.

00:02:19How do you feel about being here together?

00:02:22What, being married?

00:02:23Feels quite normal.

00:02:25Doesn't it?

00:02:25Do you know what I mean?

00:02:26Yeah.

00:02:27I'm really comfortable around you.

00:02:28Like, really comfortable.

00:02:30I mean, we're sharing a toothbrush.

00:02:32Do you know what I mean?

00:02:32Like, that is gross, but it's one of those things.

00:02:35Good luck.

00:02:37Settling into here and just being with you,

00:02:39like, that's...

00:02:40I'm excited for that.

00:02:42We're here.

00:02:42We're home.

00:02:43Honeymoon's done.

00:02:44Next step, baby girl.

00:02:46We're so cute!

00:02:48This is beautiful.

00:02:49I barely recognise you there.

00:02:58You actually look like a different person to who I know now.

00:03:01Yeah?

00:03:02Yeah, that's a bit scudgy.

00:03:03Is this the one you didn't like?

00:03:06We're different people.

00:03:07I can touch you and everything.

00:03:10When I left the honeymoon, I was feeling really on edge and unsure about Asha's character,

00:03:14and I was kind of looking for flaws and negatives and being quite reactive to everything he said.

00:03:18But now, the pressure's off.

00:03:20Yeah, we're just getting to know each other, and, yeah, it's a lot more chilled, which is how I prefer things.

00:03:26It will be nice to meet everyone else and hear how they've got on, and...

00:03:28It will either make us feel way better or a million times worse about Asha.

00:03:32No, I think, look, everyone's different, but I'm quite happy with where we are.

00:03:36Are you going to be jealous if the other couples are, like, all over each other, like, snogging at the table?

00:03:40I just said I'm happy with, like, where we are and the progress we're making.

00:03:50What a day.

00:03:51Who would have known?

00:03:51Didn't even know each other then.

00:03:52Yeah, it's so surreal.

00:03:54What was you thinking in that moment?

00:03:55I think, I mean, I don't know.

00:03:59I'm not going to lie, that does feel like a lifetime ago.

00:04:03I'm just very overwhelmed by everything, and, you know, Dean is so lovely, and he absolutely is,

00:04:09and, you know, he's great in things, but I'm just, I don't know, it's just kind of, like,

00:04:13I just thought it would be different, you know?

00:04:18If he doesn't look like what I would usually go for, it doesn't matter.

00:04:23I'm going to be open-minded.

00:04:24On their wedding day...

00:04:26No, I don't fancy Dean.

00:04:31...despite Sarah's intentions, she struggled to find an initial attraction to Dean.

00:04:35Take a seat, take some heat off these feet.

00:04:37You love turning things into wraps.

00:04:39Oh, I love wrapping.

00:04:40And on the honeymoon, Sarah's spark never ignited.

00:04:43Have you ever been with anyone bigger?

00:04:46No, I have to admit that, no.

00:04:48But Dean remained optimistic he could make it out of the friend zone.

00:04:51Have you been cuddling any pillows?

00:04:53No, I've not been cuddling any pillows.

00:04:55I'm waiting for the real thing.

00:04:56Is there anything Dean could do to ever get a sexual spark?

00:05:05Get some tattoos and lose some weight, maybe.

00:05:09It's nice to be home, like, and feel home as well now, because we're so far away.

00:05:15I do wonder if living together is going to progress anything, if intimacy side of things

00:05:21is going to happen, or if it's going to go the opposite way.

00:05:24It's not the first time I've kind of been in the friend zone, you know, it kind of does

00:05:28change, it does change, so just trust the process, trust me, it will come, it will come.

00:05:34Touch wood.

00:05:36All the wood, all the wood.

00:05:39Because I'm just becoming a little bit real now.

00:05:41Is it, yeah?

00:05:42Yeah.

00:05:44I don't want to get upset, I don't want to get upset.

00:05:49It's okay.

00:05:50It's a lot, it is a lot.

00:05:51Like, you just want to be a little stranger, we know each other for a week, do you know what

00:05:53I mean?

00:05:53Yeah.

00:05:54I don't like seeing anyone upset, especially, like, my wife.

00:05:57It's making me a bit anxious, I wasn't expecting that.

00:06:00Because you're so positive, but, like, you just don't let anything sort of...

00:06:04Rain on my parade.

00:06:06Yeah.

00:06:08Trust the process and don't think that.

00:06:10Because if you do, that's half the battle lost, in my head, you know?

00:06:15It's all about mindset, life's all about mindset, your life's as good as you want it to be.

00:06:20I thought I'd fancy the pants off my husband and I don't.

00:06:22I just thought my experience would be different.

00:06:30That's classy.

00:06:31Oh, that's cute.

00:06:33That's the best fight I've ever had.

00:06:35Yeah, same.

00:06:35Next chapter I'm really looking forward to, I want to jump in with two feet.

00:06:40If anything, how the honeymoon's gone, then this will be a breeze.

00:06:43Compatibility is probably off the scale at this point.

00:06:45Let's have some snacks.

00:06:46Yeah.

00:06:47I've never lived with a guy before, so I don't know what to expect.

00:06:50Go on, tap right in.

00:06:52I do really like Stephen.

00:06:53The honeymoon was amazing.

00:06:55But now we're in the real world, I'm just a bit apprehensive of how it's going to go.

00:06:59And the bubble's going to be burst.

00:07:03This is probably going to be the biggest test, living together.

00:07:06Yeah, it'll be the biggest test, absolutely.

00:07:07Is there anything I think I could work on?

00:07:13Obviously, the side way, like, you just want that little bit of reassurance from me.

00:07:17I think reassurance for me can be quite hard to give if I feel like I've given enough.

00:07:22Mm-hmm.

00:07:23A lot of my friends, they say, like, I'll self-sabotage.

00:07:27But I need reassurance because boyfriends in the past have blindsided me, and I've had no idea.

00:07:34So I do need a little bit of reassurance sometimes.

00:07:42I don't think we're going to really have many issues living together.

00:07:44I reckon.

00:07:45No.

00:07:47At the moment, I think me and Leah are in more of, like, a friendship.

00:07:50She's just not my initial type.

00:07:51So for me, it's just been a little bit difficult to build that romantic and physical connection.

00:07:56But I'm not going to force anything.

00:07:58I'll have to see if you get on my nerves.

00:07:59You actually get on my nerves, too.

00:08:01I'm just a more reserved, chilled person.

00:08:03I think it'll definitely test us moving in together.

00:08:06It worries me.

00:08:07She's going to be this annoying little princess that wants this and wants that and gets her own way.

00:08:11I think we should have delegated jobs, though.

00:08:14OK, but I'm not doing your washing.

00:08:17There isn't really any intimacy.

00:08:18I have been definitely trying a bit more because I know I need to be trying in this process.

00:08:24Got to go somewhere.

00:08:25It can't just keep...

00:08:26As a friendship, it's not going to work like that.

00:08:28I think we've had, you know, our ups and downs, and it's been quite tricky.

00:08:37But I feel like I'm glad that we've had it, like, early on as well.

00:08:41And now we can, like, understand how to, like, tackle conflict and that when it comes up.

00:08:46That kind of energy and that, like, tornado between us.

00:08:50Do you know what I mean?

00:08:51Yeah.

00:08:56Hi.

00:08:58It's love, I've got to say.

00:08:59Despite having instant chemistry on their wedding day.

00:09:05I've woken up with, like, a different thought this morning.

00:09:08I'm not having that desire.

00:09:12Devani didn't measure up to Julia Ruth's expectations.

00:09:15I have dated, like, taller guys.

00:09:18Yeah, that hurt.

00:09:20Shit.

00:09:21Different energy levels.

00:09:23Growing up, I was always alone.

00:09:25And I think knowing that I could potentially be alone for the rest of my life, that would be the worst.

00:09:30Yeah.

00:09:30And Devani's outlook on life.

00:09:33He doesn't see any positives with me.

00:09:35It's just too much.

00:09:36Cause deep divides in the marriage.

00:09:38The last thing I want to do is talk about traumas and then, like, get into bed with you.

00:09:43There's trouble in paradise, isn't there?

00:09:45You know what?

00:09:46Conflict isn't a bad thing.

00:09:48Like, I'm glad we had it so that we know how to proceed.

00:09:52Yeah.

00:09:52It's not a nice thing to have, but, like, it's important.

00:09:55Imagine if we were, like, it's all happy daisies and roses.

00:09:58And it's like...

00:10:00I feel like just a honeymoon.

00:10:02I feel like whether it was smooth sailing or not for other people, we came back stronger anyways.

00:10:07I think that's just the key part to it.

00:10:09Going into this dinner party, we've come through our trials and tribulations.

00:10:13We've come back stronger.

00:10:14And, um, I'm here to show off my wife and walk in loud and bold, confidence, head up.

00:10:20I've probably got the most beautiful wife out there.

00:10:23We're unpenetrable right now.

00:10:25Hopefully we can be an inspiration to the other couples as well.

00:10:30Damn, an inspiration.

00:10:31Yeah, definitely an inspiration.

00:10:39Um, we don't have the same reality.

00:10:41We do not have the same reality.

00:10:43I'm absolutely breaking it for this dinner party.

00:10:46We have to show the confidence and not be going into this thing and be like,

00:10:49okay, cool, we've had our troubles, but we're still lingering on the issues.

00:10:54We're coming in as a team.

00:10:55We know what we've been through.

00:10:57We've got our chest out high.

00:10:58Yeah.

00:11:07Well, that was wonderful.

00:11:10And I'm glad we made it.

00:11:11Yeah, same for sure.

00:11:13Definitely worth it.

00:11:14Yeah.

00:11:14And doing it in our own bed.

00:11:16Yeah, in our house.

00:11:17Probably try again.

00:11:18Yeah.

00:11:19Practice makes perfect.

00:11:20Absolutely.

00:11:20Let's just keep trying it and trying it and trying.

00:11:22Yeah.

00:11:23We have finally gotten intimate, feeling absolutely fantastic.

00:11:32We never thought it was going to be a problem and it definitely wasn't.

00:11:35I think we both felt very safe with one another emotionally and we've built a really strong

00:11:40connection, so that was always going to be the easy part.

00:11:43Right now, I feel like me and him, there's nothing we cannot handle.

00:11:46So, we're really good.

00:11:47I just really want this next episode to start because I feel like we're in a really good

00:11:51space right now.

00:11:57Crikey.

00:11:58That's good about you.

00:11:59Don't you think?

00:12:00You didn't rock me.

00:12:01Well, that's good.

00:12:02Right.

00:12:03I think the next chapter is going to be exciting.

00:12:06We're going to ask you your own best behavior.

00:12:08Where's the washer dryer?

00:12:09Hang on.

00:12:10Sink.

00:12:11So, water will be here.

00:12:12Oh, dishwasher.

00:12:13My heart sank a little bit within minutes of arriving here.

00:12:17Yay.

00:12:19Feeling very nervous, apprehensive about sharing a compact space with Paul.

00:12:25Hoover.

00:12:27Washer dryer.

00:12:28Ironing board.

00:12:30Happy days.

00:12:31Yeah, he's just, he's overwhelming.

00:12:34He's frantic at the moment.

00:12:36Now we're talking.

00:12:37I found the bathroom.

00:12:38I need to have a conversation with Paul with regards to how we're going to move forward.

00:12:45Things have cropped up during the honeymoon.

00:12:48That's kind of been little red flags for me.

00:12:51I'm worried about the cupboard space, though.

00:12:52Why?

00:12:53Not sure if I'm going to get any.

00:12:54I need to be honest with Paul.

00:12:56I need to see how I'm actually feeling.

00:12:58It's crunch time for me.

00:13:02I need to have a little chat with you, Paul.

00:13:05Is that all right?

00:13:06Yeah.

00:13:06I've tried to get to know Paul.

00:13:09I've asked him lots of questions.

00:13:11However, Paul has took no interest in my life.

00:13:15When I get nothing back from Paul, my heart sinks.

00:13:19I have to have a conversation with him.

00:13:21How have you found it?

00:13:27Difficult at times.

00:13:28Do you think you know a lot about me?

00:13:32Do you think you've asked questions about my family?

00:13:39No.

00:13:42Not at all, no.

00:13:43So, I know your three children's names.

00:13:48Do you know my two children's names?

00:13:49Uh, no.

00:13:57Paul never listens.

00:13:58He doesn't even know my children's names.

00:14:00I've told him a hundred times.

00:14:02I mean, it takes some interest, Paul.

00:14:04For me, that is the basics.

00:14:05I need some time out.

00:14:12So, I won't be living in this apartment with you.

00:14:19I feel rejected at the moment from Anita.

00:14:32I've had in my life many rejections.

00:14:35I'm used to it.

00:14:36I'm skilled at it.

00:14:37I have a master's in it, a PhD in it.

00:14:39My job now is to convince her to get back together.

00:14:44We'll wait and see.

00:14:48Paul's not the person I was hoping for.

00:14:51My life sounds really harsh, but...

00:14:54He's not.

00:14:55I just want to see everyone.

00:15:10Yeah.

00:15:11You think everyone got along?

00:15:14Nah.

00:15:18My biggest one is that, yeah, like, other people are, you know, maybe further along than their

00:15:22marriages than we are.

00:15:23I think that's been being concerned.

00:15:26Everyone's got a good place, which can't let it affect us too much.

00:15:28No, definitely not.

00:15:30Yeah.

00:15:36Obviously, the honeymoon, there was ups and downs, but myself and Julia Roof have come back on

00:15:40a stronger terms.

00:15:42Going into this dinner party, we're just there supporting each other.

00:15:45I'm a little bit nervous in terms of, like, questions that might come our way.

00:15:49We might be put under the microscope tonight.

00:15:51I just hope that Devania and I can stand united together.

00:16:00Are you ready for the first dinner party?

00:16:02Yes.

00:16:02Absolutely.

00:16:03All the couples have now returned from their honeymoons and are settling in together in

00:16:06the marital homes.

00:16:08Now, this dinner party will prove a real challenge for our newlyweds.

00:16:11It will test their early connections and, in some cases, highlight their glaring differences.

00:16:16Oh, my gosh.

00:16:21Oh, jeez.

00:16:22Wow.

00:16:23First in, we have Sarah and Dean.

00:16:25And they're holding hands.

00:16:26I feel like this is possibly a good sign.

00:16:32Just be our fun selves, you know.

00:16:34Have a good time.

00:16:35It'll be fun.

00:16:36Absolutely.

00:16:38Had a fun honeymoon, you know.

00:16:39Sarah looks really tense, actually, doesn't she?

00:16:46Just keep the wrapping to a minimum.

00:16:48Mm.

00:16:49Singing.

00:16:51Oh.

00:16:52No, but the wrap will be on request.

00:16:54That will be fine.

00:16:55My God.

00:16:56So there's the first boundary.

00:16:59So you lay down.

00:17:00Keep the wrapping to a minimum.

00:17:02Yeah.

00:17:02Mm.

00:17:03Oh, my gosh.

00:17:04Who's here?

00:17:06Nellie and Stephen, they look happy.

00:17:09Hi.

00:17:11Good to see you.

00:17:12How have you been, bro?

00:17:13It's lovely to see the energy that both Nellie and Stephen are bringing.

00:17:17And I'm hopeful that they're in a really good place.

00:17:18It looks like they are.

00:17:19Yes.

00:17:20Sarah's a beam.

00:17:21Yeah, thank God.

00:17:22Oh, my God.

00:17:24I know I hate to say it out loud.

00:17:26When I met with Nellie before the experiment started, she talked about finding it quite

00:17:31hard to open up.

00:17:32So it's really nice here at this very early stage to hear her saying, I quite like Stephen.

00:17:37How do you feel about Dini boy?

00:17:42Obviously, he is lovely, lovely, lovely, lovely.

00:17:45Yeah.

00:17:46I was disappointed.

00:17:48Oh.

00:17:50He's super high energy.

00:17:52Yeah.

00:17:52It gets annoying.

00:17:53Yeah.

00:17:53And I sort of need...

00:17:55Need the space?

00:17:55Yeah.

00:17:56He does this thing where he, like, starts rapping.

00:18:03He loves to rap.

00:18:05Do you like him?

00:18:07No.

00:18:08Really?

00:18:09He's rapping that bad.

00:18:11My sense is the rapping is code for something else.

00:18:14Yeah.

00:18:18How's it been for you?

00:18:18Yeah.

00:18:19Like, we get on.

00:18:20Like, we get on really well.

00:18:21It's kind of just not been that, like, intimacy side yet, really.

00:18:24But I was like, I've been in the Friendship.

00:18:26I've never known before.

00:18:26Trust me, you'll fall for me.

00:18:27She's like, I'm like, trust me.

00:18:29I'm like, you'll come.

00:18:31Although Dini's laughing, that must be quite hurtful for him.

00:18:38There's someone coming in.

00:18:39There's a happy and confident entrance.

00:18:49Yeah.

00:18:49Absolutely.

00:18:50Look at this man.

00:18:52Look at this man.

00:18:53Look at this man.

00:18:55Oh, and the big passion.

00:18:56There's a light going on right there.

00:18:58Yeah.

00:18:58Missed you.

00:19:01Missed you.

00:19:03Is everything?

00:19:03Yeah, okay.

00:19:04You?

00:19:05Oh, we're great.

00:19:06I can see that.

00:19:07It was instant as well.

00:19:08We are disgusting.

00:19:09I do apologize right now.

00:19:10Because we are very, very, very strongly falling for each other.

00:19:17Wow.

00:19:18I mean, isn't that an incredibly strong statement at this early stage?

00:19:22We are falling for each other.

00:19:25How's the angel of the wedding day is?

00:19:26So it's about yours first.

00:19:27Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:19:27You want to hear about yours?

00:19:28Yeah, he's perfect in every way.

00:19:30I have no complaints.

00:19:31Every way?

00:19:32Every single way.

00:19:35Oh.

00:19:37Bossy's question.

00:19:39Everyone else is good.

00:19:41Why?

00:19:42What's not going to be?

00:19:43It's just not what I thought.

00:19:47I only heard really good things.

00:19:48Oh, he's lovely.

00:19:50The attraction is just nothing.

00:19:51There's no nothing there.

00:19:53Have you guys looked at him?

00:19:54Yeah.

00:19:55He's not bad looking at all.

00:19:58Just, I don't know.

00:20:00He's lovely.

00:20:00Is it, like, is it something you cannot pass?

00:20:04No, it's just, he's got no tattoos.

00:20:07Okay, you can get tattoos.

00:20:08He doesn't want tattoos.

00:20:10What's so interesting about Sarah is she's someone who has said her past type didn't work for her, right?

00:20:16And her past type was mainly based on physical characteristics.

00:20:20And she wanted someone different.

00:20:23And she wanted someone nice.

00:20:25This is exactly what we've delivered in Dean.

00:20:28But yet, she's very quickly shutting him down.

00:20:37Hello.

00:20:37Joe and May.

00:20:38Hi.

00:20:40They look happy.

00:20:41Yeah.

00:20:42Oh.

00:20:43I've been waiting for this, you know.

00:20:45Do you know what it is?

00:20:47I'm actually so happy with him.

00:20:48Oh.

00:20:49Yeah.

00:20:51He's funny, isn't he?

00:20:53It's just, everything he says, like, in his accent is just...

00:20:55Where's he from?

00:20:56Where's he from?

00:20:56Is he from Yorkshire?

00:20:57Yeah, Halifax.

00:20:58Halifax.

00:20:59I keep remembering because that's who I bank with.

00:21:01So...

00:21:02So has anyone, um, christened, uh...

00:21:10What?

00:21:11What?

00:21:12What?

00:21:12I called that to us.

00:21:13What?

00:21:14The conversation's got a little bit complicated.

00:21:17Okay.

00:21:19Guilty.

00:21:20Yeah, fine.

00:21:21That's the confirmation.

00:21:22Yes.

00:21:23Yes.

00:21:25Have you?

00:21:26Yeah.

00:21:26Wow.

00:21:27It was not a, I'm happy for you, Val.

00:21:29No.

00:21:30Today.

00:21:31Today.

00:21:35It must be hard hearing another couple talk about their sexual escapades

00:21:40when she isn't at that stage with Dean.

00:21:43I think I'm a bit nervous for her tonight because she said she kind of compares,

00:21:47like, just naturally, and she's hearing, like, everyone probably doing well,

00:21:50and she'll be like, oh, we should be forever along.

00:21:52Yeah.

00:21:52But there's a few rules come in, like, because I sing a lot and rap a lot,

00:21:55and she was like, it was annoying her, but she's like, you sing all the time.

00:21:57And she's just getting used to it now?

00:21:58No, she told me to kind of, she was like, can you stop it?

00:22:00Like, why are you doing it?

00:22:01Oh, really?

00:22:02Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:22:02All right, okay.

00:22:04So how do you think you're going to be, like, living together like that?

00:22:06Are you sharing a bed?

00:22:07Yeah, sharing a bed and all that.

00:22:08Yeah, like, all fine, because I'm just like, just, I'm like, look, no rush,

00:22:11no pressure, nothing.

00:22:12Have you had, like, no intimacy at all?

00:22:14No, not even a kiss or anything.

00:22:15Really?

00:22:16Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:22:17She's kind of never really been with a bigger person, you know, type thing.

00:22:19Yeah, okay.

00:22:20And I'm like, I'm like, oh, that's okay.

00:22:21I was like, I'm not bad looking, I'm just fat, like, that's it.

00:22:24It's quite clear that right now he's feeling rejected.

00:22:27Well, it's fine, like, it doesn't bother me.

00:22:30Yes, it does.

00:22:36Hey!

00:22:36How's it going?

00:22:38Grace and Ashley.

00:22:39Looking good.

00:22:40Looking happy.

00:22:41Relaxed.

00:22:41Tell us the story.

00:22:43Yeah.

00:22:44How's it going?

00:22:44I think, sort of, found out quite early, like, we're completely different in the way we,

00:22:48like, flirt and everything, so.

00:22:50Oh, God.

00:22:50I'm, like, very hands-on touchy in that.

00:22:52She hates being touched.

00:22:55We all have a right to enjoy touch or not.

00:22:59We probably need to learn a little bit more about what that means for her.

00:23:02But then, look, we just had a conversation and, like, mate, we communicate so well.

00:23:08Yeah.

00:23:08So, like, turn the relationship 180, like, we're really, really good, getting on really

00:23:13well.

00:23:13Yeah?

00:23:13Yeah.

00:23:13She couldn't look at me to start with, and now she's snorting, laughing, and all sorts.

00:23:17I'm doing something, right?

00:23:18Yeah.

00:23:20More of this.

00:23:22He's saying, I'm trying to learn my partner.

00:23:24I'm trying to listen.

00:23:25I'm trying to understand her.

00:23:27How are you?

00:23:28Yeah, good.

00:23:29How are things going?

00:23:30Anything, please?

00:23:32He's a very nice bloke.

00:23:34We had some, uh, sort of spiraled at my wedding.

00:23:37I just sort of panicked, I think.

00:23:39Ash very naturally put all this trust in the experts and was like, you're my wife.

00:23:43We're together.

00:23:44Let's go.

00:23:45And I was like, oh, whoa, you're a stranger.

00:23:48I kind of did what I always do, which was just, like, instead of even thinking about one

00:23:51thing I liked, I was like, no, I don't like this.

00:23:54Okay.

00:23:54But then we pulled her back.

00:23:57He's so patient.

00:23:58He's so tolerant.

00:23:59He's like, makes me laugh.

00:24:01And that's about building a good, solid foundation, isn't it, in the relationship?

00:24:05Having those early struggles, overcoming them.

00:24:08But it's all, like, settled down now.

00:24:09Yeah, yeah, definitely.

00:24:10The communication we've got is fantastic.

00:24:12Yeah.

00:24:12I feel, like, quite proud of us.

00:24:14Like, I think we do it better than people who have been married for 10 years.

00:24:17Like, amazing girl.

00:24:18Yeah.

00:24:19That's a bold statement.

00:24:21Very.

00:24:23We're getting on so well.

00:24:25Yeah.

00:24:25You know, for me, no attraction there.

00:24:27Okay.

00:24:28And it's very much friend vibes.

00:24:30Fine.

00:24:32Yeah.

00:24:32I would like to find a reason why I've been...

00:24:35It's hard when you do it.

00:24:37Can't find anyone.

00:24:38Hearing all of the other couples and all of Dolby having sex on honeymoon, and I'm just

00:24:43like, I let them hold my hand today.

00:24:47He's now said to me, like, um, I'm going to leave you to make the move.

00:24:50And I'm like...

00:24:51I'm frustrated.

00:24:52I'm annoyed.

00:24:54Dina's so far away from my usual type.

00:24:56I wish I was, like, being intimate on the honeymoon, and we weren't.

00:24:59I'm gutted.

00:25:00I'm gutted I'm not there.

00:25:03I, like, joke all the time.

00:25:05Do you know what, though?

00:25:06Maybe he's desperately trying to, like, make you feel better.

00:25:10Think of the key word that you just said there.

00:25:13Desperate, yeah.

00:25:14Desperate.

00:25:15Yeah.

00:25:15It's giving me the ache.

00:25:17It's starting to feel like Sarah is mocking Dean.

00:25:22This is getting really frustrating to watch, isn't it?

00:25:24I mean, once you got the ache, you got the ache, can't you?

00:25:27It's the way that Sarah's going about it that feels so disrespectful.

00:25:32Telling everyone about all the issues that Dean has.

00:25:37Does he not know?

00:25:39He doesn't know what he's going to do.

00:25:40You're breathing out.

00:25:41That's a sign of immaturity.

00:25:44Someone who has no clue as to what it is that they need in life.

00:25:49If he went into a kiss, I'd be like, whoa.

00:25:51I meet that attraction, I just wanted that spark, that fire.

00:25:57There's no spark there.

00:25:58Yeah, it's just cute.

00:26:17This is horrible.

00:26:17Oh.

00:26:19Oh.

00:26:21Oh, there you go.

00:26:22No pause.

00:26:23Oh, no.

00:26:23You're myself.

00:26:25Oh, she's on high.

00:26:26Hiya, you all right?

00:26:27Oh, Nita's alone.

00:26:31I've been thinking about you.

00:26:34She seems happy to see her support group.

00:26:37Yeah.

00:26:39Where's your husband?

00:26:40Somewhere.

00:26:41I'm not too sure where, though.

00:26:43Yeah.

00:26:43You guys okay?

00:26:44You good?

00:26:45We do get on.

00:26:46It's kind of there.

00:26:47It's a sense of humor, and he's a gentleman.

00:26:50Oh, really?

00:26:50Yeah, but the deepest stuff, but total opposite.

00:26:55Yeah.

00:26:55I just needed some time apart, so I've moved into a different apartment.

00:26:59Fine.

00:26:59Absolutely fine.

00:27:00Yeah.

00:27:01Space is the best thing.

00:27:02Yeah.

00:27:03It was just kind of a make or break for me whether I was going to stay in the apartment,

00:27:06and I just said, Paul, what's my two children called?

00:27:09He went, oh, no idea.

00:27:11Oh, no.

00:27:13Stop.

00:27:14But maybe even...

00:27:15Yeah, it's the basics, isn't it?

00:27:17I've just got up, got the case and went.

00:27:18And my sense is she's putting such an emphasis on that, because that's a real value for her.

00:27:23Actually, she shouldn't really be testing him at this stage, because they are getting

00:27:28to know one another, so that feels quite a shame.

00:27:31He's never been in a relationship for 15 years, either.

00:27:34So you're feeling a bit like, why would you not date for 15 years and then get married

00:27:38to a complete stranger?

00:27:39You're a bit like, what's that all about?

00:27:40He hasn't dipped his twin along the way.

00:27:43It's been more of a self-discovery experiment for him rather than a love journey, what it's

00:27:48been for me, kind of.

00:27:49Maybe he does need some time to adjust, but it doesn't sound like Anita has that patience

00:27:56right now.

00:27:58Hi, hi, hi, hi.

00:27:59Hello.

00:28:00We're coming to sit and say hello.

00:28:01How are you doing?

00:28:02You OK?

00:28:02Yeah, good, sir.

00:28:04Are you all right?

00:28:05Hi, are you OK?

00:28:05How are you?

00:28:06Yeah, good.

00:28:07Good, good, good.

00:28:10What about you and D?

00:28:15He's an absolute hoot.

00:28:17Honestly, he's a sweetheart, isn't he?

00:28:18He is.

00:28:18He's lovely.

00:28:19Well, attraction's not there for me.

00:28:22Do you think I'll never come or?

00:28:24I'm going to be honest, looks-wise, tall tan tats was my thing.

00:28:31I was like, would you get a sleeve or something or are we neck tats?

00:28:35Oh, no.

00:28:36She's creating this really rigid, fixed mindset.

00:28:40Yeah.

00:28:40And we're so early in the piece.

00:28:42She's literally going around to everyone in the group and talking about this.

00:28:48I didn't really realize how big the attraction thing was for me, if you know what I mean.

00:28:52So, it is what it is.

00:28:53But he's happy.

00:29:03We're back in belly.

00:29:04And it looks like they have maybe blown up in a good way.

00:29:07In a positive way.

00:29:08Yeah.

00:29:09Yeah.

00:29:12She's standing, isn't she?

00:29:13Yeah.

00:29:13How are things?

00:29:15How was the wedding?

00:29:16Right, so, both got to the wedding.

00:29:19It's overwhelming, isn't it?

00:29:20It's so overwhelming.

00:29:20Yeah, there's a lot of emotions.

00:29:21I think there wasn't, like, that instant spark.

00:29:23And then, since our honeymoon, I'm, like, literally adore him.

00:29:28Oh!

00:29:30He's such a gorgeous person.

00:29:32Like, little best mate.

00:29:33I fancy him.

00:29:34Like, so, yeah, we've just been on the off.

00:29:37Oh!

00:29:38I can feel the fucking electricity in the room with everyone I am surrounded by.

00:29:45And I am, like, what is going on?

00:29:47Why is it not me?

00:29:48Why is it not me?

00:29:49It is so hard.

00:29:51I want to have that five.

00:29:52They're all kissing and, like, you can just feel it.

00:29:55And we don't have that.

00:30:01Hey!

00:30:04And here's our gorgeous ladies, Lee and Leah.

00:30:09Style.

00:30:11So...

00:30:12Were you in dresses or suits?

00:30:13Both dresses.

00:30:15It's been an adjustment for me to try and get used to, like, the feminine element.

00:30:18Yeah.

00:30:19And I wouldn't say we're at a romantic point.

00:30:21We've said that we're going to, like, build the friendship first.

00:30:24How's yours?

00:30:25Good.

00:30:26The sexual connection isn't there yet.

00:30:28It's still not there yet.

00:30:29No, no.

00:30:30You feel like you're a bit more at friendship level.

00:30:32At the minute, yeah.

00:30:32But the deeper connection is there.

00:30:35And it has been growing.

00:30:36Isn't it nice to hear this time someone talking about having a type but being open to someone

00:30:41different?

00:30:42Where are you at?

00:30:43Oh, like, I'm obsessed with him.

00:30:44Fuck off.

00:30:45Are you?

00:30:47Oh.

00:30:48Yeah, we get along really well.

00:30:49We've both been, like, really honest about everything.

00:30:52Yeah.

00:30:52Like, everything from the very start.

00:30:54Good.

00:30:55So, like, and I've never had that with anyone.

00:30:57Have you?

00:30:58What, Shagdon?

00:30:59Yeah.

00:31:00Oh, you have?

00:31:00Is it good?

00:31:01Yeah.

00:31:01Yay.

00:31:02I love.

00:31:02I think she's trying to tell us that they've had more than one or maybe two intimate moments

00:31:10together, which is just really lovely.

00:31:12So much of a whiskey.

00:31:13Is that you two?

00:31:14Yeah.

00:31:15Can you say much or not?

00:31:16Yeah?

00:31:17They're getting on, like, a fucking hour sometimes.

00:31:18Are you?

00:31:19I hate the fact that, how has it been, like, a week and a half?

00:31:24I feel like you've known him forever.

00:31:26Yeah, and I'm really freaking me out, man.

00:31:28It's freaking me out.

00:31:30It was freaking me out.

00:31:32Dawn, you can't.

00:31:35I'm so worried about becoming emotionally dependent on someone that they will then learn

00:31:40who I am, think I'm too much, and then break them up and be, I want out.

00:31:43Nellie is leaning into her past of having all of these traumatic experiences, so then

00:31:49she begins looking for red flags.

00:31:52So right now, her friends are saying, no, no, no, if things are good, look for the green.

00:32:02Devani and Julia Ruth.

00:32:06Sunny, guys.

00:32:09You guys all right?

00:32:10Hi.

00:32:11David, nice to meet you.

00:32:12So we've got Julia Ruth that's coming really high energy, lots of fun, and Devani who looks

00:32:17a little bit subdued.

00:32:20Cool.

00:32:22Fill us in.

00:32:23Like, what's the energies and everything, like, it seems good.

00:32:25Mad, bro.

00:32:25Because that was the big thing, I remember you saying.

00:32:27Mad.

00:32:27We're literally, like, yin and yang, like, we're literally the exact same person, bro.

00:32:31Yeah?

00:32:31Yeah, yeah, yeah, so, no, I'm very happy, man.

00:32:33100.

00:32:35Wow.

00:32:36Strong statement.

00:32:38We're literally yin and yang.

00:32:39They are the same person.

00:32:41Ah-ha.

00:32:44He's a lot shorter than me.

00:32:46Oh.

00:32:47Without him.

00:32:49Like, we get on very well that, like, sometimes he's, like, trauma dumping his past and everything,

00:32:54and I'm just like, there's no chance for me to get a word in.

00:32:57It kind of feels like we're two very different energies there.

00:33:00It's like we're peering into two very different relationships here.

00:33:05What do you know, so far?

00:33:06Oh, he's really happy.

00:33:07They're much under the chair and that's really cute.

00:33:09Okay.

00:33:09They're, like, um, like, the same person.

00:33:11No, no, no.

00:33:12Male, female.

00:33:13Okay.

00:33:13It's all super cute.

00:33:14I don't look okay.

00:33:15Like, super, super happy.

00:33:16I don't know.

00:33:18He didn't look like.

00:33:19He's not like.

00:33:22I need to see if something's wrong.

00:33:24Come back to me.

00:33:27Yeah, no, we've got too much similarities.

00:33:30Too much similarities.

00:33:31In a good way or a bad way?

00:33:32In a very good way.

00:33:33Very good way.

00:33:34Everything's great.

00:33:35I'm not gonna lie.

00:33:35I mean, there's clearly two different narratives going on here.

00:33:39I don't know about you guys, but I'm feeling a little bit confused right now.

00:33:43Two very separate individuals.

00:33:51Oh, there they are.

00:33:55C'est moi.

00:33:56Where's my wife?

00:33:58Where's my wife?

00:33:59Oh, here's Paul.

00:34:02Do you want to stand up?

00:34:03Yeah.

00:34:03I'll do whatever you want to do.

00:34:04I'll just stay with you.

00:34:06It's nice to see Grace having Anita's back.

00:34:09Yeah.

00:34:09Where is she?

00:34:10Yeah, go on.

00:34:10Excuse me.

00:34:11Are you all right?

00:34:14Yeah.

00:34:15Have you had a good day?

00:34:17It's been a long day.

00:34:18Yeah?

00:34:18I'll tell you what, you look nice.

00:34:21My main plan of action is to speak to my wife, Anita.

00:34:23I really want to make sure she's in a good headspace and she's ready to move forward.

00:34:31Paul, is it that you panicked in the moment when you forgot the name of Anita's name?

00:34:35Children or was it that you didn't know or take interest?

00:34:39It's taken me eight days to remember the groom's names.

00:34:42So you think it's a memory issue?

00:34:44I have four tattoos.

00:34:45My children days of birth.

00:34:46I'm not going to keep tattoos on you.

00:34:48And their names.

00:34:50Right.

00:34:50Now you get the experts, so they can help you with all this stuff.

00:34:55Perhaps.

00:34:56I said to you when you passed, what has been your past relationship breakdowns, you avoided

00:35:04the question again.

00:35:05Sometimes you have to be, show a little bit of weakness.

00:35:08Pardon?

00:35:09Vulnerability.

00:35:09As soon as it comes down to relationships and personal stuff, for some reason, they just

00:35:16divert.

00:35:17Listen.

00:35:18Do you know what I spent the day doing?

00:35:22Steaming my clothes.

00:35:24There's the other meaningful, deep stuff that also matters in a relationship, other than

00:35:29making you laugh.

00:35:33Do you know Anita's pool?

00:35:37Anita said that they'd spent the day apart today.

00:35:40God, I felt like I was the only one going through the fucking ringer.

00:35:44I was like, me?

00:35:45Because you know what?

00:35:46It's been a lot.

00:35:47He said it's different.

00:35:50It's been hard.

00:35:51Yeah.

00:35:52Because he just said it's been easy sailing.

00:35:54As soon as everyone walked in, wasn't he?

00:35:57It was like, how's it been?

00:35:58Yeah, he said, oh, like.

00:36:00You can see Yang kind of thing.

00:36:04We've had issues like this, where it's just like, one of us is not receiving the information.

00:36:09Have you had more of a deep chat to say, like, look, we swear to our past.

00:36:12Who knows?

00:36:13So this is interesting.

00:36:15Julia Ruth is getting feedback from the group, but Devaney thinks they're really well matched.

00:36:20Is it that Julia Ruth is presenting in a way that makes him feel like everything

00:36:23is fine, or is he someone that sort of has his head in the cloud?

00:36:29You'll love it up.

00:36:30No, you.

00:36:31Wait, what?

00:36:32I was going on.

00:36:33I mean, we're going step by step.

00:36:35The spark is definitely there.

00:36:36Yeah.

00:36:37Did he just say the spark is definitely there?

00:36:39He said it's definitely there.

00:36:43I'm so happy you're happy.

00:36:44Julia Ruth.

00:36:45This is just really hard.

00:36:48Because it's not what you want, isn't it?

00:36:51Waste your issues.

00:36:52Don't bite at him.

00:36:54Yeah.

00:36:54Don't bite at him.

00:36:55Please don't do that.

00:36:56I feel awful.

00:36:58You just don't feel it.

00:37:00Yeah.

00:37:01I want to.

00:37:02I know, but you have to.

00:37:03I'm trying.

00:37:03I know, but you can't.

00:37:04Because I'm trying so hard.

00:37:07We spoke about having each other's back and being honest and open.

00:37:11It makes me look fucking stupid telling people that they're going to have a hard time.

00:37:14You're saying it's fucking great.

00:37:15Hello, guys.

00:37:21I'm coming over.

00:37:23Is that okay?

00:37:26Yeah?

00:37:27Do you want to step up?

00:37:28Yeah.

00:37:28Yes.

00:37:36Hi.

00:37:36Where's your wife gone?

00:37:40In the roof.

00:37:41She is somewhere.

00:37:43I don't know.

00:37:44Devonnie not even knowing if Julia Ruth is in the room.

00:37:49It's like these two are not even on the same planet.

00:37:51I just feel awful because I just feel like I'm going to be, like, a bitch because I feel

00:37:57this way, like, and I'm trying the best I can.

00:38:01Smiling through everything.

00:38:02But you don't have to, though.

00:38:04I'm going to cry if I don't.

00:38:06Fucking cry.

00:38:09So, are you happy?

00:38:11Very happy.

00:38:11Yeah.

00:38:12Both of you vibing with each other.

00:38:14Yeah, 100% vibing.

00:38:15I think it's really hard to work out why Devonnie has such a different view of the relationship.

00:38:20Don't ever feel like you are being a horrible person by voicing what you want.

00:38:25No, no, no, no.

00:38:27No, I do.

00:38:29I feel like a fucking monster.

00:38:47Wow.

00:38:48Hi.

00:38:48Hi, gorgeous.

00:38:50Woo.

00:38:51Maeve.

00:38:52Sarah.

00:38:52Dean.

00:38:53Boom.

00:38:55Head of the table, madam.

00:38:56Darling.

00:38:58Hello, hello, hello.

00:38:59Paul.

00:38:59Hiya, mate.

00:39:00Fancy seeing you here.

00:39:01It's a bit posh for you, innit?

00:39:03It's very posh for me.

00:39:05Oh, Dad.

00:39:05Oh, there.

00:39:06Yeah, with the mum and dad in the crew.

00:39:11How's things?

00:39:11Yeah.

00:39:12Yeah?

00:39:13It disappeared for a minute.

00:39:15Yeah.

00:39:15So good.

00:39:15Oh, you could cut the tension with a knife.

00:39:25Hey, guys.

00:39:26I know a few of you have probably heard that I rap sometimes.

00:39:30All right.

00:39:33Here we are on this mad experiment, seeing things not in our element, learning what we may grow

00:39:40to be.

00:39:40You, her.

00:39:41Oh, I feel like I have experienced a lot of the raps now.

00:39:45Hands up in the airway.

00:39:46I mean, he's rapping in the shower.

00:39:48He's rapping.

00:39:48Like, I can hear him and stuff.

00:39:50And I'm like, the novelty for me has worn off.

00:39:53Yeah!

00:39:55Yeah!

00:39:58Okay.

00:39:59Very deep.

00:40:01Tess.

00:40:02So good.

00:40:04Oh, we're doing so good.

00:40:07We're all good.

00:40:08So fabulous.

00:40:11Oh, no, you've got lots all over you.

00:40:16Was it bad?

00:40:17No, just leave it on there.

00:40:19Lots of physical affection.

00:40:21Maybe love is in the air.

00:40:31Have you guys actually sat and spoken about what it is that you would like to sort of change?

00:40:37I think we knew quite early that we're on different paces.

00:40:43I'm quite a talker.

00:40:44And then she said to me one day, you know nothing about me.

00:40:47Why don't you ask me questions?

00:40:49And I say, because it's not my style.

00:40:51I volunteer the information.

00:40:53Right.

00:40:53I did this, I went here, I did that, and I did that.

00:40:55She likes to have a conversation and be asked.

00:41:01And do you find it hard to be like, sorry, can I talk now?

00:41:05No, she's quite polite.

00:41:06Oh, I'll just let them.

00:41:07Oh, fuck that.

00:41:07Why don't you maybe have a signal where, like, gosh, shut the fuck up.

00:41:16Observing Anita tonight, she looks like she's completely lost her sparkle.

00:41:21Yes.

00:41:22Doesn't she?

00:41:22All of that zest for life and that energy that we know she possesses has just been zapped away.

00:41:29I honestly look at everyone and I'm like, I said to Stephen earlier.

00:41:33I was like, um...

00:41:34All the girls, gorgeous, like, is there anyone that you want to be with?

00:41:38And he was like...

00:41:38Is that what you...

00:41:41Oh, my God, Nelly, man!

00:41:43Oh, God, not on the first date.

00:41:48Like, why?

00:41:48She's asking Stephen, like, are you attracted to any of the other wives?

00:41:52Like, it's just an insecurity, like...

00:41:54I'm giving myself the egg.

00:41:55I say it, I'm like, stop.

00:41:56Do you know what?

00:41:57I think you're surprised at how much you like him from sabotaging it, because I don't think

00:42:01you would expect to get someone that you would like.

00:42:04Oh, my God, you're so right.

00:42:06It's fine, because I can take the girl.

00:42:07Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:42:07100%.

00:42:08Not only is she showing her insecurity, but she's acknowledging that she is being insecure.

00:42:15She realizes that this is a weakness that she has, and she is trying to work on it.

00:42:20Yeah.

00:42:23It's crazy, because you think, I bet everybody else is getting on, and I bet there's loads of

00:42:27attraction there, and it's just, like, tonight is kind of, like, wow, it's so diverse.

00:42:34Come here.

00:42:36Okay?

00:42:37My light is being dim.

00:42:39You can talk to me.

00:42:41Me and Julia and Ruth are having the same issue.

00:42:43We don't have a spark with our partner, and I'm not going to lie, I'm actually quite, like,

00:42:50glad that someone else is experiencing the same thing as me.

00:42:54Okay, so I'm struggling because I think he's been glossing over how hard it's been.

00:43:03He's telling everyone that it's fine.

00:43:05Yeah.

00:43:05These two are in two different relationships.

00:43:10What we need to really figure out is how they got to that point.

00:43:15I just have a little question, because I just, I think I was just a bit thrown off when you

00:43:19were like, that's not what I'd heard when I explained what the honeymoons was.

00:43:23It's like, your face was shocked, but you were like, yeah.

00:43:26Yeah.

00:43:27I went and spoke to your husband, and the conversation was entirely different.

00:43:35Entirely different.

00:43:36Like, he said that how amazing it was, like, you were vibing, rah, rah, rah, everything

00:43:41he wants.

00:43:43We said that we're going to be open and honest and say, look, shit hit the fan, but I'm just

00:43:48hearing that it was great.

00:43:49Yeah.

00:43:50That's what we're hearing, too.

00:43:51You're on different pages.

00:43:53Yeah, your reality is different.

00:43:54So different.

00:43:55Hearing how he perceives our relationship, like, apparently everything's been smooth

00:44:02sailing, and he's brushing over everything, like we're a fucking power couple.

00:44:06On what planet?

00:44:09You want to come closer?

00:44:16When people are asking how things are going, are you just saying, God, the honeymoon was

00:44:21not easy?

00:44:22100%.

00:44:22I'm not saying it's all Gucci.

00:44:24Nah.

00:44:24What I think is really confusing is that Devani has painted a picture that this relationship

00:44:29is great, but he's not actually acknowledging that now he's been called out by Julia Ruth.

00:44:34I think he's embarrassed.

00:44:36Because I sat down, spoke with Steve, Joe, and Rebecca, and they said they have a completely

00:44:41different response from you.

00:44:44Then that's an exchange.

00:44:46Peeming.

00:44:46Just be honest.

00:44:49Don't.

00:44:49I'm just hearing different stories, and I don't want to look like a dickhead for being

00:44:56like, oh, it's hard, and you're like, it's great, and then I look like a dumbass.

00:44:59No, no, no.

00:44:59Because I look like I'm being mean saying that, like, it's hard.

00:45:03And you're like, oh, it's roses.

00:45:04And I just feel like, fuck me, dear.

00:45:07They've heard a different story.

00:45:09It makes no sense.

00:45:12Maybe how I articulated our issues could have been a little bit sugar-coated, which would

00:45:17stem from a little bit of pride.

00:45:19Like, we're a team.

00:45:19I'm here to unite us, but at this moment, I feel locked up.

00:45:25How's it all been, then?

00:45:26Yeah, it's been good.

00:45:28Has it?

00:45:28We get on really well.

00:45:29Like, we, like, laugh all the time.

00:45:30I can see that you're both, like, proper nice, like, happy Gabby.

00:45:34Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:45:35She's got such a good heart.

00:45:37He asked me if I'd ever slept with anyone fat before, and I said no.

00:45:41But people work on themselves.

00:45:43Do you know what I mean?

00:45:44Yeah.

00:45:45Do you know what I'm getting?

00:45:45Yeah.

00:45:46He did before.

00:45:47Do you know what I mean?

00:45:48He lost some weight.

00:45:50She said I'm kind of not her normal type, and she's never been with a bigger person before,

00:45:54so I was kind of a bit new to her.

00:45:56And I was like, I appreciate you being honest with her and telling me.

00:45:58What do you mean, bigger, though?

00:46:00It's new for her, isn't it?

00:46:01I don't think you're big.

00:46:02Oh, yeah, I am, though.

00:46:03Like, the scale wood and the BMI.

00:46:04You know, like, I'm okay with it.

00:46:06It's not like a thing for me.

00:46:08He keeps calling himself the funny fat kid.

00:46:11Oh, so.

00:46:13Remember when we were in a handoo, and you said,

00:46:16I always go for the bad boy and the red flags.

00:46:18You ain't a bad boy.

00:46:19No red flags.

00:46:20He's like a bear bear.

00:46:23Oh.

00:46:23Yeah, it's not a very hot thing to say about your partner.

00:46:26No.

00:46:28A lot of what she's showing when she talks about Dean is disgust.

00:46:34Sarah's already entered the zone of being disrespectful.

00:46:37That just wasn't kind.

00:46:38How ridiculous, how petty, how low.

00:46:41And that's something that needs to end.

00:46:48Guys.

00:46:56Good evening, newlyweds.

00:46:58In this box are questions designed to help you navigate the problematic aspects of your marriage,

00:47:03as well as celebrate the more positive.

00:47:05Please remember they will hold little value if you do not respond with courage and absolute honesty.

00:47:11I love Charlene, Paul, and Mel.

00:47:13Oh.

00:47:14Well read.

00:47:18Grace, how far do you think we've come in terms of progress since our wedding day?

00:47:24I think we've made great progress.

00:47:27We started rock bottom.

00:47:29Couldn't have got worse, really.

00:47:30Yeah.

00:47:30I didn't think you were coming away on the honeymoon.

00:47:33I was like, should I be going?

00:47:35I know, I know, he's so nice.

00:47:38Why is she so mean?

00:47:41I'll hold my hands up.

00:47:42I spiraled, I misjudged, he misspoke, and we talked it out, and we're good.

00:47:48We're great.

00:47:49Well done.

00:47:50Ashley, what are my best and worst qualities?

00:48:02Best quality is 100% your personality.

00:48:06Like, you light up wherever you are instantly.

00:48:09You're a really lovely girl.

00:48:10Aw.

00:48:11That's so lovely.

00:48:13Marry me.

00:48:14Marry me.

00:48:15Jochen.

00:48:16Jochen?

00:48:17Jochen.

00:48:18Oh.

00:48:19Oh.

00:48:20That joke.

00:48:21Oh, yeah.

00:48:21Ouch.

00:48:22Yeah, that joke didn't land.

00:48:24Your worst quality.

00:48:26It's like, how many can I give?

00:48:28Maybe just jump into conclusions straight away about something that you think is happening.

00:48:33Maybe it's not exactly as you thought it was.

00:48:36Fair.

00:48:37Fair.

00:48:38I'll take it.

00:48:44Sarah.

00:48:45Oh, gosh.

00:48:47What has been the hardest part of the experience for you so far?

00:48:54Probably the intensity, I would say.

00:48:59Marrying a stranger, going halfway across the world with someone I don't really know, moving in together.

00:49:05I have struggled, and you know I have, you know.

00:49:06So, yeah, I would definitely say the intensity has been the hardest part for me so far.

00:49:12Yeah.

00:49:13Yeah, that's good.

00:49:13It's actually quite humiliating for Dean, because actually Sarah has already gone around and told everyone that she's not attracted to him.

00:49:22What we need is honesty.

00:49:23It's quite cool.

00:49:27Dean, what do you hope for in our future together?

00:49:30I hope for that we can kind of just continue, like, getting to know each other and grow and not have any pressure on anything and just concentrate on us, you know, just make sure we're okay.

00:49:40I'm hoping it'll kind of get to that place where that spark is there, and it's kind of magical.

00:49:46It's making me cringe a little bit.

00:49:55I don't want magical.

00:49:57I want fiery.

00:49:59I came here to find the one.

00:50:01I've given this opportunity and this experience everything.

00:50:04Like, everything.

00:50:08There's something not right here.

00:50:09Nellie, can you see yourself falling for me?

00:50:26Go on, Nell.

00:50:33Um, it's very hard for me to say.

00:50:41You've got to do this.

00:50:42No pressure, girl.

00:50:45Yeah.

00:50:46Nice one.

00:50:46Yeah.

00:50:47Yes, let's just move on with that.

00:50:49Yes.

00:50:49It's okay.

00:50:49Yes, you're great.

00:50:50Great.

00:50:53Just stop, Anna.

00:50:54Why is it so hard for you to talk about falling for somebody?

00:51:03Do you know what it is?

00:51:04I think, um...

00:51:06I think I'm so afraid of, um, being so emotionally, like, open and vulnerable to someone.

00:51:17Like, thinking, like, they know who I am and think, you know what, I'm not into her.

00:51:23I'm not into that.

00:51:29And then they, yeah, and then they're like, then they break my heart.

00:51:34Just, I can't, I can't with it anymore.

00:51:37It's too much.

00:51:39Okay.

00:51:39But you know, you're not too much.

00:51:41Yeah, you're not too much.

00:51:42Ah, never too much.

00:51:42Aw, honey.

00:51:46Sorry.

00:51:47You're crying all over me.

00:51:48I know.

00:51:49I know.

00:51:49You're tears all over me now.

00:51:51No, I'd hate this.

00:51:53For Nellie, showing this level of vulnerability is really difficult.

00:51:57And here, she's starting to do it.

00:51:59I'm really proud of Nellie tonight.

00:52:01For me, first night together, like, seeing my family up really take care off.

00:52:06I think they're the first people you look at for validations.

00:52:09And as soon as I sat down that night at the dinner table, it was, yeah, Steve, this is what you've been looking for.

00:52:14So, that's probably, for me, the biggest validation I need.

00:52:20You can see that just means the world to Nellie.

00:52:23She is craving reassurance and validation from him, and he's just given it to her, which is everything she wants to hear.

00:52:30Yeah, it's huge.

00:52:33Anita.

00:52:34Yep.

00:52:35What three things can I do to make this marriage work?

00:52:43I would like you to listen more.

00:52:49I would like you to find out a little bit more about me.

00:52:53And actually start asking questions about me.

00:53:00Right, I've got it.

00:53:05I've got to remember now.

00:53:09Can you not remember them?

00:53:11Well, apparently that's the way he works at home as well.

00:53:13He's got post-it notes all over.

00:53:15So, just because he's wrote them down, though, he doesn't say that he's going to do it.

00:53:23Right, Paul.

00:53:26I'm ready.

00:53:26How much are you willing to fight for this marriage?

00:53:33Whoa.

00:53:36I'm not sure if fight's the right word.

00:53:41Don't really want to fight with you at all.

00:53:47I'd rather work with you.

00:53:48So, hopefully we can build some bridges and get over the other side.

00:53:56It kind of deviates again.

00:53:58Is this marriage worth fighting for?

00:54:00Well, I wouldn't say it was fighting.

00:54:03We're certainly not on the same page.

00:54:05I'm in a different book.

00:54:06David, how did you feel when you turned and saw me walking up the aisle?

00:54:20Turning back and seeing you, first of all, I was like, whoa.

00:54:25It wasn't just that.

00:54:27As soon as I hold your hands, the entire thing just disappeared.

00:54:30It was just me and him.

00:54:31And since then, we haven't let go.

00:54:37The way that you have the ability to make everyone feel so seen and so safe and so comfortable.

00:54:46It's incredible.

00:54:48It's like a shooting star.

00:54:50You don't try and explain it.

00:54:51You just appreciate his beauty.

00:54:52Leah.

00:55:07Oh, fuck me.

00:55:10Do you think you like me more than I like you?

00:55:14Mm.

00:55:15Oh.

00:55:18I think I'm moving faster than you are now.

00:55:20100%.

00:55:21100%.

00:55:22Mm.

00:55:25We both know where we're at at the moment.

00:55:30Romance isn't where we both thought it would be at this point.

00:55:33So I think the biggest challenge, realistically, is going to be whether that romance does come.

00:55:39Yeah.

00:55:43Maeve, how do you feel about me right now?

00:55:45Like, as I've got to know you, do you know, I actually really like it.

00:55:53Like, really like it.

00:55:54And I don't tell people that.

00:55:56You can tell that.

00:55:59I'm really excited to see, like, where's it going to go?

00:56:02Do you know what I mean?

00:56:03And that's all I'm saying.

00:56:03Oh, my God.

00:56:10Um, as every day has gone on, like, I've learned more and more about you.

00:56:16And honestly, like, I've got that, like, fuzzy feeling in me where I'm...

00:56:20When I look at you, it's all right.

00:56:23Oh, you're going to leave me.

00:56:25Oh.

00:56:25I'm just gathering feelings for you, like, as long as I can't wait to spend the rest of the time with you.

00:56:31Oh.

00:56:32Yay!

00:56:39It's so lovely to see Maeve gradually dropping those walls.

00:56:44She's really trusting Jo.

00:56:45And being very vulnerable, which we know is something that she has really struggled with.

00:56:49I just want to go home and snuggle with you.

00:56:51Um, okay.

00:57:02Devani, how do you think I feel about our marriage?

00:57:12So what you think about our marriage is that we've definitely hit tough, tough, tough times.

00:57:21Um, the honeymoon wasn't glitz and glam, for sure.

00:57:27He didn't say that.

00:57:31It wasn't what I expected, to be fair.

00:57:34Um, but I'm glad that we are where we are right now.

00:57:39Um, but how you truly feel, it's a bit...

00:57:43It's a bit of a turbulent feeling.

00:57:49Okay.

00:57:50With the honesty box, I feel like he was trying to be a little bit more honest because he fucked the heat on him.

00:57:57So he was a bit more open, but he hasn't been that way before.

00:58:00And I'm sitting there like you seem to be in a lower land.

00:58:08Julia Roof, what one thing would you change about me?

00:58:12Like, I think it's your, your outlook on life and how you respond to things.

00:58:26I think...

00:58:28It's okay, you've got this girl, you've got this, you've got this, you've got this, you've got this.

00:58:33I think life can be tough and I think we've both gone through a lot of shit.

00:58:39There's no point in dwelling on it and I just feel like I want someone who matches my energy.

00:58:50I, I'm struggling with my own emotions and I, and I want to be there for you, but I struggle to do it for both of us.

00:58:56You're, are very negative and I feel very tired.

00:59:05Sorry.

00:59:09The energy's very, very different, yeah, it's just different, aren't they? Different people.

00:59:25Ready?

00:59:26Ready.

00:59:27Who do you think is the strongest and the weakest couple at the table?

00:59:39I feel like Nelly and Stephen got, like, a connection going on, like, there's something going on with you two that feels strong.

00:59:52Okay, weakest.

00:59:54I don't want to say.

00:59:57Sorry.

00:59:59Erm.

01:00:06Just say it.

01:00:07We're all here for a reason.

01:00:11Erm.

01:00:12Just say it.

01:00:13Just say it.

01:00:16Hold it underneath her.

01:00:20And also.

01:00:23Julia Ruth.

01:00:24Let's be honest, the struggles in particular, your relationship and your relationship.

01:00:31Exactly what I thought.

01:00:33What a motherfucking barrel.

01:00:37I need a man who's honest.

01:00:40I read to that bullshit.

01:00:43It's just a lot.

01:00:48I just want to sleep in genuine.

01:00:50Next time is the very first commitment ceremony.

01:00:59It's time for the couples to face the experts.

01:01:02I can't communicate with you and you don't listen.

01:01:05You don't back down.

01:01:06It's been difficult.

01:01:07It's been proper difficult.

01:01:08This isn't going to work.

01:01:10Tension builds as two couples clash.

01:01:12No emotional connection.

01:01:14No communication.

01:01:16I thought we could build from the wedding day.

01:01:18Just miles apart.

01:01:22And Sarah's badmouthing.

01:01:24Do you think that you were rude while talking about your partner?

01:01:27Catches up with her.

01:01:29This man is talking about how lovely his partner is.

01:01:32And you are on the other side of the room disrespecting him.

01:01:37It's not me.

01:01:38It's not who I am.

01:01:39It's not who I am.

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