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90 Day Fiance S11E06 (2025)
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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:03Da-da-da-da-da-da.
00:00:05I'm going to America.
00:00:09I haven't told the kids,
00:00:11oh, I'm getting married to a foreigner from Brazil who's 25 and...
00:00:15And oh, by the way.
00:00:16Did I mention transgender?
00:00:20Welcome to your new house, babe.
00:00:22Ah.
00:00:23We can't really cook because I'm seeing clients
00:00:26and I don't want the place smelling like food.
00:00:28Even for the breakfast?
00:00:29You can buy the same stuff that you're making at home.
00:00:32It's not a big deal, babe.
00:00:33What the ?
00:00:34I mean, are we living in a hotel room?
00:00:36When I do have clients, you can't be here.
00:00:39The rules are set by Chicana.
00:00:42That's unfair.
00:00:46So, I declined a state job?
00:00:49You did?
00:00:51He doesn't think about tomorrow.
00:00:53I don't know how we are going to live.
00:00:55I don't want to walk up when I'm on the streets.
00:01:00Maddie, he's a lot homesick.
00:01:03What do you think that will be like going forward?
00:01:06He's already asking me if he can go back.
00:01:10It still worries me how different everything is to Maddie.
00:01:13And at the end of the day, I don't know if he's ever going to get settled in here
00:01:16or what that will mean in terms of us getting married.
00:01:21It's a lot of pressure.
00:01:25Yesterday, when you just leave, he had sex with me.
00:01:30And you didn't even tell me.
00:01:31I didn't think anyone was hiding it from you.
00:01:34You don't get the point.
00:01:35It's about the communication.
00:01:38I'm struggling on how to manage building a relationship
00:01:41without stepping on one of their toes.
00:01:45It's all my fault I get it.
00:01:47Okay, never mind.
00:01:48All right, let's just end this.
00:01:49You think I come here for the green card?
00:01:56You're so much younger.
00:01:57Like, how do I know you're not just with my dad for his money?
00:02:00I try to fix it with Jordan, but...
00:02:04I think he was a snake now without coming to my wedding.
00:02:12That's all right.
00:02:16Snake, snake, snake.
00:02:30Okay, this is the bathroom.
00:02:37There's also one downstairs.
00:02:41Why are you examining the toilet?
00:02:43You don't have duvet?
00:02:45No, we don't have duvet.
00:02:46Why not?
00:02:47I mean, this is one of the biggest inventions in the history, you know?
00:02:52Fire, wheel, internet, and duvet.
00:02:56That's not on the list.
00:02:57I'm sorry.
00:03:00Freedom!
00:03:07Can we put... Is there a possibility?
00:03:09I mean, I guess we could install one.
00:03:12Is it that important to you?
00:03:14I don't know.
00:03:15For 45 years, it was important for me.
00:03:17I don't know.
00:03:18From now on, but...
00:03:21You know what?
00:03:22You are just like a dictator with these kind of rules.
00:03:25I mean, I just arrived to the US and don't do this, don't do this, don't do this.
00:03:30Is it too much for you?
00:03:32Isn't it, babe?
00:03:33No.
00:03:34Yeah?
00:03:35It's not. It's just normal things.
00:03:36So normal.
00:03:38It will get used to it, yeah?
00:03:39You already hate my place.
00:03:41No, I love it so much.
00:03:42You hate it.
00:03:43It's so cozy.
00:03:45It's so cute.
00:03:47This is the living space, so this is where we can actually hang out and be comfortable.
00:03:52It is cute.
00:03:53Frankly, the house is a little smaller than I expected.
00:04:05I was hoping bigger, especially the upstairs, because there is just a bed and a bathroom.
00:04:13That's all.
00:04:14I don't know if it would change my decision to come, but it wouldn't probably, but at
00:04:19least I could prepare myself.
00:04:22There's you over there.
00:04:23And this is for you, by the way.
00:04:25For me?
00:04:26Yeah, for you.
00:04:27Since you have a corner at your place, or you had a corner at your place, you scratched
00:04:32your back, you can't do that here, babe.
00:04:35This is the proof of my loyalty to you.
00:04:37Okay.
00:04:38What am I doing right now?
00:04:41Scratching your back?
00:04:42Yeah, like that.
00:04:43Why does that prove your loyalty?
00:04:45Because look at this, babe.
00:04:47Yeah, your back is very hairy.
00:04:50Before you, it was the duty of girls to back them off.
00:04:54I mean, the length of these hairs are proof of my love to you, you know?
00:05:00I don't want a dingy corner on that wall.
00:05:03So, this is a backscrasher for you.
00:05:05Really?
00:05:06Yeah.
00:05:07Yeah.
00:05:08Did you turn it the right way?
00:05:10Yeah.
00:05:11How is it?
00:05:12It's cool.
00:05:13Is it better than the corner in Turkey?
00:05:14No.
00:05:15Nothing is better than the corner, but...
00:05:17Not even my nails?
00:05:18Nails are good.
00:05:19Well, you get in there.
00:05:20But I have to take appointment for your nails, I think.
00:05:23Huh?
00:05:26Well, I spend so much time in Turkey that when I am back in L.A., I do need to see all my
00:05:31clients, so I am busy.
00:05:35Oh.
00:05:37Are you disappointed?
00:05:38No.
00:05:40Just I didn't know that in details that much, you know?
00:05:44Well, you had so much going on with the visa process, I didn't want to overwhelm you with,
00:05:48like, the reality of, like, what it's going to be like when I have clients.
00:05:52I mean, I wish you could sell it those at least...
00:05:56No, I thought it was better to just tell you when you get here.
00:05:59I mean...
00:06:00Aw.
00:06:01My boy...
00:06:03We will be inmates together.
00:06:05It's not a prison.
00:06:07Oh, my God.
00:06:10Babe, go get the suitcases.
00:06:11I'm going to take a bath.
00:06:17It feels good to have Sarpry here, but I'm realizing how small my place is and how it's
00:06:23not quite equipped for a couple.
00:06:26It was fine for my daughter and I.
00:06:28It was fine for me.
00:06:29But this is going to be a bigger challenge than I thought.
00:06:35Baby, I brought all the suitcases.
00:06:41At least you are beautiful, huh?
00:06:44There is something that I can be happy about.
00:06:47Thanks, babe.
00:06:48Let me take a rinse off.
00:06:49Okay, go take a little shower.
00:06:51I'm going to take off my makeup.
00:06:52Okay.
00:06:53I wish she kind of told me about this apartment before I came here.
00:06:59You know?
00:07:00Because the rules...
00:07:02Okay, I respect that.
00:07:03It's her house.
00:07:04It's her space.
00:07:06But right now, it will be ours.
00:07:08So I had to know it.
00:07:10That's a mistake.
00:07:11That's the red flag.
00:07:12For sure.
00:07:15Let's get in the bed.
00:07:16Scoot over.
00:07:18I'm so sorry, buddy.
00:07:20But it is my first day in Los Angeles.
00:07:23Oh, man.
00:07:25Let's give a time for that.
00:07:27Maybe everything will be solved by time.
00:07:29I hope.
00:07:32Wow.
00:07:35You will be the first girl that I will...
00:07:38in dress.
00:07:39You know that?
00:07:50Oh, my God.
00:07:53Ah.
00:07:55Snake, snake, snake.
00:08:04Okay, I think we have a chat now.
00:08:06Me and you?
00:08:07Yeah.
00:08:08All right.
00:08:09Let's go.
00:08:10Over here.
00:08:12I guess Mina's walking off.
00:08:13Yeah.
00:08:14Come on.
00:08:15Let's go.
00:08:16Talk.
00:08:17All right.
00:08:18Gabe, will you watch Maria?
00:08:19I'll do my best.
00:08:20Or her mom can watch her.
00:08:21Gabe doesn't have to do it.
00:08:22Well, apparently she's over there.
00:08:25What, you guys getting an argument?
00:08:27Well, yeah.
00:08:28She told me not to come to the wedding, so...
00:08:29Just now?
00:08:30Yeah.
00:08:31If that's how it's going to be,
00:08:32I don't want to be there anyways.
00:08:50I don't know why she would say that.
00:08:51She knows.
00:08:52Well, because I said how I feel about you guys having more kids.
00:08:55And she doesn't care.
00:08:56She wants to have more kids.
00:08:58And I'm not going to be okay with that.
00:08:59So, if you guys are just going to disregard how I feel,
00:09:02then maybe I shouldn't be at the wedding anyways.
00:09:04I know you're mad at me, and I shouldn't have told Mina,
00:09:07but me and you always talk,
00:09:09and I'm always truthful with you about everything.
00:09:11And I feel like I should be that same way with my wife, and...
00:09:14Yeah, but then do you see how, like, the dynamic,
00:09:16if I tell you everything and you tell her everything,
00:09:19then it's like, how can I trust you to tell you my red flags
00:09:22if you're going to tell her everything?
00:09:23Right.
00:09:24And that was stupid of me.
00:09:25I'm going to try to shut my mouth and just let you guys talk,
00:09:28and obviously that didn't go well.
00:09:29I think that that's probably a sign
00:09:31that maybe you shouldn't get married.
00:09:36Let's just say it's a red flag,
00:09:38but we're not there yet.
00:09:39We still have a couple months to try to...
00:09:42I feel like there's a lot of red flags
00:09:43that you're just, like, totally brushing over.
00:09:51This beach day has just turned .
00:09:54I mean, right now, my daughter's distraught,
00:09:56my fiancé's distraught,
00:09:58and I'm not going to choose between my fiancé and my daughter.
00:10:02So I don't know where we go from here.
00:10:20You're coming to the wedding.
00:10:22If she has that big of a problem,
00:10:24then maybe we're not getting married.
00:10:26I don't know.
00:10:28Do you know if you marry her,
00:10:29is she going to divorce you
00:10:30and then leave with the baby and take everything?
00:10:33I wouldn't marry her if I thought she was going to do that.
00:10:36She's so young.
00:10:37She's closer to my age than your age.
00:10:39Like, don't you think that that's strange?
00:10:41I know you're mad at me,
00:10:42but I'm also feeling like you're judging me.
00:10:44I'm just trying to also be happy.
00:10:46I wasn't happy going through the divorce with Mom.
00:10:48I'm trying to find happiness again,
00:10:50and I did fall in love with somebody.
00:10:52She does happen to be younger.
00:10:53I want you to be happy.
00:10:55I do.
00:10:56But I really just wish that it was a different situation.
00:11:00I would be so much more comfortable
00:11:01if you found someone like your age
00:11:03and who lived in the U.S.
00:11:05And like...
00:11:06So what?
00:11:07You want me to break up with her right now,
00:11:08not get married,
00:11:09and go find somebody who's 45 or 50?
00:11:11That's your idea of fixing all this?
00:11:13You already have a baby,
00:11:14so you can't really fix anything now.
00:11:16Right.
00:11:17So don't have more.
00:11:18That's my first thing.
00:11:19Don't have more.
00:11:20You're literally trying to dictate
00:11:21how my happiness going forward,
00:11:24you're judging something that I can't change.
00:11:28You can do what you want.
00:11:29I'm not telling you what you can and can't do,
00:11:31but just know how it makes me feel,
00:11:33and just know that I might be around less.
00:11:36I might not want to be around this new family.
00:11:41It's too hard.
00:11:46It's too hard.
00:11:48It's against me because it doesn't know me.
00:11:50It has a judgment on me.
00:11:53If Mark doesn't accept me,
00:11:56if he doesn't support me,
00:11:58then I think that our relationship
00:12:00will risk that I return to Paris.
00:12:03Because I can't be in a relationship
00:12:05that no one accepts me.
00:12:07After hearing that I'm uninvited to the wedding,
00:12:12I feel like we're just going to go.
00:12:14So...
00:12:15Wait, we were going to spend the whole day together.
00:12:17So...
00:12:18Not now.
00:12:19Now it's so awkward.
00:12:20And after that conversation,
00:12:21I don't want to be involved.
00:12:23I don't want to be here.
00:12:24So we're going to go.
00:12:26Gabe.
00:12:28I'm going to go.
00:12:29I think we should leave.
00:12:30Serious.
00:12:32Okay.
00:12:33You're okay?
00:12:34Yeah, I just don't want to do this anymore.
00:12:35Jordan, seriously.
00:12:36Yeah.
00:12:37You're just going to bail out
00:12:38on the whole day, Jordan?
00:12:39Yeah, it's...
00:12:40This is all...
00:12:41This is wrong.
00:12:42I'm not doing it.
00:12:49Jordan, come on.
00:12:52I can't believe that after two years
00:12:54it's like finally here.
00:12:56It's like a miracle,
00:12:58but we'll have to see
00:13:00how the person of Aaliyah
00:13:02plays into our happily ever after.
00:13:07Maybe things will go sideways.
00:13:15Tell me what you're thinking.
00:13:17This is the first fight, you know?
00:13:19It's complicated.
00:13:21Ani told me that she had sex with Matt
00:13:24behind my back.
00:13:25Even this one percent chance that I didn't know,
00:13:28you should've still talked to me about it.
00:13:31Just because she said it don't mean
00:13:33she shouldn't have.
00:13:35Don't you see that?
00:13:37Matt.
00:13:38What is this?
00:13:39It's not just my cousin,
00:13:40I'm not just my cousin.
00:13:41No, I don't think so.
00:13:42I've been down to my side.
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00:14:07Last night, it got heated in the hot tub
00:14:21because Ani told me that she had sex with Matt behind my back
00:14:25and I wasn't angry that they had sex without me.
00:14:29I think I was more like, I guess, jealous
00:14:32because I felt like I was disrespected.
00:14:35I feel bad because I am a star of sex with Matt.
00:14:41I'm getting treated like it was a secret,
00:14:43when it wasn't a secret.
00:14:45Even this one percent chance that I didn't know,
00:14:48you should have still talked to me about it,
00:14:50just like she did.
00:14:57Do you like cream?
00:14:59That's okay. I got it. Thank you.
00:15:00Don't look sad. I don't like that.
00:15:06I'm sad.
00:15:07You better smile.
00:15:08No, I'm sad. I feel bad.
00:15:11I don't like last night.
00:15:13I don't like it either.
00:15:15That's, you know, that's like my nightmare in this situation,
00:15:19so I don't know, like, how to, like, navigate this,
00:15:21besides, like, talking about it, you know?
00:15:24Tell me what you're thinking.
00:15:25This is the first fight, you know?
00:15:28It's, it's, it's complicator.
00:15:33I don't want to see this in my life.
00:15:36I don't need more fight in my life.
00:15:38If I don't have, I prefer go.
00:15:45I don't know.
00:15:46I think we're all seeing different sides of each other
00:15:48that we haven't seen before,
00:15:49but at least you're communicating.
00:15:51Yeah.
00:15:51What are you thinking the last night, honey?
00:15:54Yeah, I understand.
00:15:55I don't think I was prepared for what was about to happen.
00:15:59I felt like I expressed myself
00:16:02and then got kind of teamed up on.
00:16:08Just because she said it don't mean she shouldn't have.
00:16:12I thought she did the right thing.
00:16:14Don't you see that, Matt?
00:16:17She mentioned it because she thought it was worth mentioning
00:16:21as being thoughtful, being considerate, being respectful,
00:16:25and she demonstrated that.
00:16:26I think that the man never understands this.
00:16:30That's true.
00:16:30All of it.
00:16:31Not only her.
00:16:32No, I mean, I did the normal thing we do,
00:16:34and then all of a sudden I'm crucified for it.
00:16:36I get it.
00:16:36Okay, what's hard about this is
00:16:44you're walking into a new relationship, like, to us,
00:16:48but there's a relationship there of 10 years.
00:16:51And when you're walking into our relationship of 10 years,
00:16:53we have our own problems already.
00:16:55This is, like, becoming kind of my nightmare
00:16:57where our own problems are resurfacing
00:16:59in this relationship as well.
00:17:01I feel I'm working twice as hard
00:17:02than I was in just our relationship now.
00:17:05Like, this is a lot on me.
00:17:10So if you already have a lot of issues
00:17:12and it's shaky and you bring in a third person,
00:17:14it's probably not going to go well.
00:17:18You know, we have a family,
00:17:20and this is, you know, a chance for us to see
00:17:24if we can get what we need to make that decision.
00:17:27I mean, we don't want our family to be at risk.
00:17:29The biggest fear for me,
00:17:34what can come out of bringing somebody else
00:17:37to our relationship and our marriage,
00:17:40our life is losing you.
00:17:42I don't know how I can exist in a life without Matt.
00:17:47I don't know who I am without you.
00:17:51We need to work this out, you know?
00:17:53Yeah, I understand.
00:17:53Yeah, we need to tell Mark.
00:17:57Okay, I'm going to go get ready.
00:17:58I think he should do it for love.
00:18:17So Aaliyah's on her way from Brazil as we speak.
00:18:29I'm super excited that she's coming.
00:18:31And in order to make her happy,
00:18:33I know I have to, like, have the house in a certain way
00:18:36because she's very particular about her cleanliness.
00:18:41Aaliyah's a licensed nurse in Brazil,
00:18:44and so she's always been very particular
00:18:46about germs and cleanliness.
00:18:49And now I'm finding that it's actually
00:18:52kind of a condition she's having of germophobia.
00:18:56I think it has to be beyond clean.
00:18:59And even if it's clean,
00:19:00I don't know if it's going to ever be clean enough.
00:19:02Nothing can go in your mouth
00:19:04unless you've, like, washed your hands.
00:19:06You didn't wash your feet when you walked through the door.
00:19:09I'm like, I've had socks and shoes on,
00:19:11so my feet are just, have touched a sock.
00:19:14No, no, they've been outside.
00:19:15So it's complicated.
00:19:20Some of the times I've, like,
00:19:22you know, don't want to, what she calls, pass the feet,
00:19:24which means take a shower before going to bed
00:19:26because I took a shower, like, in the afternoon.
00:19:29So if that's happening,
00:19:31I literally won't get underneath the covers.
00:19:34I'll just lay on top of the bed
00:19:35so that I don't get the sheets
00:19:37and the other stuff contaminated.
00:19:39But that, of course, puts a barrier between us physically.
00:19:44I'm trying to make life as cleanly as possible
00:19:47and try to wrap my head around how does that work in life
00:19:49because I'm not that way at all.
00:19:52I'm doing my best to stay on top of it
00:19:54as witnessed by my rag.
00:19:57After almost eight hours traveling from Rio to Panama,
00:20:18I'll be here waiting for more than 13 hours
00:20:22before my next flight to Los Angeles.
00:20:25That's crazy.
00:20:26She's got it.
00:20:28Ooh, ooh.
00:20:29She knows she's got it.
00:20:33It will be my first time in America
00:20:35and I think I need more.
00:20:38I want to look pretty for this moment
00:20:40and I want to look pretty for Sean also.
00:20:44I'm excited.
00:20:44I'm ready.
00:20:45Come on.
00:20:58Good boy, good boy.
00:21:00Oh, you're so good.
00:21:08I can't believe that after two years
00:21:10that it's, like, finally here.
00:21:12It seems a little surreal.
00:21:16Today is, like, almost like a miracle.
00:21:20Come on.
00:21:22Since the beginning of knowing Aaliyah,
00:21:25I've always said I can't do long distance.
00:21:28I need to see how we sleep, how we wake,
00:21:31how we eat, how we coffee, how we jive.
00:21:33I need that daily life.
00:21:36But I've always had a fear
00:21:38that since I'm the only person in America
00:21:40that knows anything about Douglas,
00:21:42that Aaliyah will kind of maybe think
00:21:48that I'm the one thing that's holding her back
00:21:51from just living a full Aaliyah lifestyle
00:21:54with nothing from the past.
00:21:56Maxwell.
00:21:59You gonna see your mommy?
00:22:01Hmm?
00:22:01Are you ready?
00:22:03I'm fearful that maybe things will go sideways,
00:22:09but this is not real.
00:22:12It's happening.
00:22:14We'll have to see how, you know,
00:22:17the persona of Aaliyah plays into our happily ever after.
00:22:22guitar solo
00:22:35Take me higher
00:22:58Tell me that you're only mine
00:23:03Oh my god, what is this?
00:23:25This is Maxwell.
00:23:27I didn't give you flowers, but I did bring you a puppy.
00:23:31We are now one big happy hairy family.
00:23:40Yeah, very hairy, for sure, oh my god.
00:23:44I think the baby is really cute.
00:23:47I got a little nervous about the licking, but I didn't eat that myself with that.
00:23:52I'm so happy.
00:23:55Everything worked well.
00:23:58Now we can finally get there.
00:24:01So now we have each other.
00:24:04It's official.
00:24:05It's official.
00:24:06It's officially happened.
00:24:10Yes.
00:24:11Do you see this on top?
00:24:12Yes.
00:24:13It's my dress.
00:24:14Uh-oh.
00:24:15But you can't see.
00:24:16It's a surprise.
00:24:20Although me and Aaliyah have been together for four years, the reality is that we've only
00:24:25once spent time where Aaliyah has been Aaliyah full-time, and that was recently in Brazil.
00:24:32So in a way, our relationship is kind of new.
00:24:36Maxwell.
00:24:37Maxwell.
00:24:38Come on.
00:24:39There's a lot of what ifs, and the hard work seems to be done.
00:24:43Of course, you know, now it's going to be the new or different work, but I'm excited to start day one.
00:24:50Hey, babe.
00:25:02What?
00:25:03When he was done and he turned me around to just look at myself in the mirror, it was like half of my mustache was gone.
00:25:11Okay.
00:25:12I'm sure boobs are not the only things we can paint, babe.
00:25:16Shut up.
00:25:20Hey, babe.
00:25:36What?
00:25:41Did you ask him to cut your mustache?
00:25:45No.
00:25:46Well, I swear to God, I can't go out with this.
00:25:48We're supposed to go to the coffee shop.
00:25:50No, babe.
00:25:51We need to go home.
00:25:59So I guess we're just going to run by the house and try to fix it, and then can we go to the coffee shop?
00:26:04Yep.
00:26:05I think you still look hot.
00:26:07I don't know.
00:26:08You do.
00:26:09It was my very first time that I was getting a haircut in the U.S.
00:26:13And the worst part is I couldn't say something.
00:26:16Like, what would I say?
00:26:17Like, put it back?
00:26:19I think I have some eyebrow stuff or some beard stuff that I can try to fill it in with, but we just don't need to do too, too much.
00:26:28All the barbers were cutting the client's hair, like, not facing the mirror, and this is something that I'm not really used to.
00:26:41When it was done and he turned me around to just look at myself in the mirror, I was like, oh, my God.
00:26:48Half of my mustache was gone.
00:26:52It's not funny.
00:26:53It's a little funny.
00:26:56Please be careful, babe.
00:26:58Well, no promises.
00:26:59I don't know what it's going to look like.
00:27:01Okay.
00:27:04I'm sure boobs are not the only things we can paint, Bill.
00:27:08Shut up.
00:27:10I think when I told the barber that I'm from Iran, he had the same misconception that I'm Arab with, like, a really thin mustache.
00:27:19Can I be honest?
00:27:21I didn't really like your mustache when I was trying.
00:27:24Why did you say I looked okay?
00:27:26Because you're hot with or without your mustache.
00:27:28Stop.
00:27:29I was just trying to make you feel better.
00:27:31It didn't look good.
00:27:32Oh, my God.
00:27:33Clean that.
00:27:34You look like Batman.
00:27:35You see?
00:27:38I knew it.
00:27:42Sorry.
00:27:46Can you add more this here so it doesn't look that sharp?
00:27:54No.
00:27:56It's better now.
00:27:57Okay.
00:27:58Let's go.
00:28:06I'm ready for coffee.
00:28:08What do you think you want?
00:28:21I don't know.
00:28:22Do you call it espresso?
00:28:23You make fun of me.
00:28:24Yeah.
00:28:25That's not right.
00:28:26Expresso.
00:28:27You also say, especially.
00:28:28And you also say, tanks.
00:28:29No.
00:28:30Persians do what I mean.
00:28:31I know.
00:28:32Just kidding.
00:28:33Hey.
00:28:34Hey.
00:28:35Hey.
00:28:36Hey.
00:28:37Hey.
00:28:38Hey, everyone.
00:28:39Okay, so it's kind of like a mixture of chocolate and espresso and it's hot.
00:28:53A mocha?
00:28:54Oh, yeah.
00:28:55Oh, yeah.
00:28:56I'm going to get a white chocolate latte.
00:28:58It's $13.20.
00:28:59Okay.
00:29:00This is here?
00:29:02Sure.
00:29:03It's kind of cute here.
00:29:04It is super cute and very chill.
00:29:05Last night when I stayed inside to talk to Wendy, I mentioned to Wendy that you had mentioned
00:29:20what you had said to me in New Orleans.
00:29:22What did I say?
00:29:23When you were brought up, like, what if I want to go back home?
00:29:29I think you shouldn't have told him.
00:29:35But Wendy and I were talking about, like, the wedding and stuff like that.
00:29:38And for me, in that moment, it's kind of like, well, I don't know if he wants to stay
00:29:43here, if he wants to go home, or what he wants to do.
00:29:45And so that's why the topic got brought up.
00:29:48I still feel like you shouldn't have told her.
00:29:51Well, maybe you shouldn't have told me that.
00:29:54It was just a feeling.
00:29:56And if I want to be too honest, I miss my parents more than the first date.
00:30:09So that is a thought that always comes to my mind.
00:30:13Like going back?
00:30:14Not going back, saying my family.
00:30:17But you know that if I go back, there's a chance that I'm not going to be able to come here again.
00:30:22Right, exactly.
00:30:23So it would be a decision that if you made, you knew it would probably be permanent,
00:30:27which would mean you're leaving me.
00:30:30And of course, I'm concerned about that, because we have a wedding coming up.
00:30:34So my question is, are you always going to have this thought in your mind that you always
00:30:39want to go back?
00:30:41I can't promise you that.
00:30:52I'm really sorry, but I've thought about it when I was in Iran.
00:30:56If one day you don't want to be with me, I would still stay in the US.
00:31:04But now, I don't feel like that anymore.
00:31:13So before you were okay with thinking that if we broke up, you would stay here?
00:31:17Yeah.
00:31:18Because I don't know that I'm okay with that either.
00:31:21This is the first time I've ever heard Maddie talking about if we didn't work.
00:31:30I honestly can't believe that Maddie is telling me that he had already planned on staying in
00:31:35America even if we didn't work out, because I've never thought about what it would be like
00:31:40to not be with Maddie.
00:31:42This is probably the first time in our whole entire relationship that I've ever questioned Maddie's motive.
00:31:49And for the first time in our whole entire relationship, I'm starting to question whether this is something that I want to do or not.
00:31:59So if that was even in your mind before you came here, then I don't know that this was the best decision.
00:32:06Yeah.
00:32:12When do you think can we get our own house?
00:32:14I'm hoping maybe a year and a half, two years.
00:32:17I don't want us to be wasting money on an apartment.
00:32:20I thought people living in America were stable, but they're not.
00:32:27I did all the STD testing.
00:32:31So you need to show me, yeah?
00:32:33Yeah, I can show you.
00:32:35Aaliyah and I have had an open relationship.
00:32:37As much as I love Aaliyah, at the end of the day, I didn't sign up to be in a relationship with a woman.
00:32:43So now that we are here together, how do you think will you keep doing that?
00:32:49I don't feel like we need to discuss that tonight.
00:32:51This is my dream, I'mma get it, I'mma get it, I'mma get it today.
00:32:57So these are your streets?
00:32:59This is my neighbor, this is my stomping ground, yeah.
00:33:01So there's two different parts of Long Island, so you have the North Shore.
00:33:05And the South Shore?
00:33:06Yeah.
00:33:07On the other side of the ocean would be England, which is, I don't know, maybe 4,000 miles, 3,000 miles.
00:33:12People go there by, by a boat?
00:33:14Ah, they used to, Titanic and stuff like that. That didn't end well.
00:33:20This is my life, I'mma livin', I'mma livin', I'mma livin' my way.
00:33:26So you excited to just, yeah, maybe just walk around the, you know, walk around the boardwalk?
00:33:31I'm excited we're out of the house, so we can be together, just ask me and you.
00:33:35My mum is out of the picture.
00:33:45You know, maybe we could, like, walk the dogs around the beach or something like that?
00:33:48Just me and you, spend some, a little bit of romantic time?
00:33:52Daisy is friendly, but Lily just keeps on giving me that awkward look.
00:33:59She gives everybody that awkward look.
00:34:01She'd be like this.
00:34:02So this is the Great South Bay.
00:34:13We used to go clammin' out here, all types of stuff.
00:34:15Lots of fishing though, lots and lots of fishing.
00:34:23Welcome to Long Island.
00:34:26So I'm taking Joan to see the Great South Bay for the first time ever.
00:34:29This is kind of like the ocean, but a little, a little bit dumbed down.
00:34:33There's no saltwater crocodiles, baby.
00:34:36Do people swim in it or no?
00:34:38Uh, you can swim in it, but I wouldn't swim here.
00:34:41Shh, shh, shh.
00:34:45She is going crazy right now.
00:34:48Come on.
00:34:50Do you wanna try walking with it?
00:34:51Yes.
00:34:52This is your first time, right?
00:34:53Oh, yes.
00:34:54It's my first time walking.
00:34:55I don't have to put it on my right.
00:34:56Yeah?
00:34:57So here, let me take that, baby.
00:34:58Oh!
00:34:59Wait, wait, wait.
00:35:03Good girl.
00:35:05Good girl.
00:35:06She didn't bark.
00:35:08It's kind of weird, but I like it.
00:35:09Good girl.
00:35:14So, second night.
00:35:16Did you sleep okay?
00:35:18I'm a bit nervous.
00:35:20Why?
00:35:21My mom?
00:35:22You get a little nervous about that?
00:35:24Is that why you didn't want to, uh, maybe get intimate last night a little bit?
00:35:27Well, yeah.
00:35:28In my mind, I have like, oh, you're going to start being intimate, and she'll be like...
00:35:34Did you guys follow my rules?
00:35:36Yes.
00:35:38Right? Like, knocking...
00:35:39Open the door.
00:35:41I know, baby. I know.
00:35:44When do you think can we get our own home, our own house?
00:35:48Well, I'm hoping, you know, if everything goes normal and everything goes right, maybe a year and a half, two years.
00:35:53Oh, it's going to take that long?
00:35:56Staying at your mommy's house, I thought maybe in six months we'll be moving out.
00:36:05Two years before we get our own place.
00:36:08This is really crazy.
00:36:10I feel like I'm a kid.
00:36:12Had I known, I think I would have to reconsider my decision to come here.
00:36:17I just don't...
00:36:19I don't want us to be wasting money on an apartment.
00:36:21You know, I'd rather just save up a down payment for something and we'll get our own place that we can pay for.
00:36:27You know, I was, I did have a little bit of debt.
00:36:32The turbo blowing up on my car, that was what, like $1,500.
00:36:36The process of the visa, the lawyer, it's just like even, you know, the flight tickets, all of this is very expensive.
00:36:41I guess like $8,000, a little bit more than that in debt.
00:36:47I knew Greg had a debt, but I didn't think it was that big, like $8,000.
00:36:54I'm very shocked to hear about that.
00:36:55I have a different opinion on what I think about America.
00:36:58I thought people living in America were stable, but they're, they're not.
00:37:04I'm not really happy about this.
00:37:14So, how can we pay for this wedding?
00:37:18How can we pay for, I guess it's all going to be me, you know?
00:37:21So, I don't know how it works here.
00:37:24Uh-huh.
00:37:28Things are just so much cheaper in Uganda than they are here.
00:37:31You spend $5,000 on a wedding over there, you have everything, you know?
00:37:35Here, it's like, that's, I don't even know.
00:37:37I don't even know when to begin, but this is what I was thinking, right?
00:37:41We can cook all the food ourselves, me and you.
00:37:44Or, you know, obviously my mom would probably help out.
00:37:47We could save some money on that.
00:37:51I don't want us to spend, like, a lot on a wedding, but I also don't want, like, an ugly wedding dress, like.
00:37:58I want something good.
00:37:59Something you like, yeah.
00:38:00I want something that would look good on me.
00:38:01Yes, because, you know, like, you get a wedding once in a lifetime.
00:38:04Mm-hmm.
00:38:05Yes.
00:38:07This is something we're just going to have to budget as well, you know?
00:38:10Yeah.
00:38:11You know, as long as we come up with a budget and figure, you know, maybe $500, $600 on a wedding dress.
00:38:16I don't know how much they cost.
00:38:19Right now, having Joan here and actually speaking about the wedding and thinking about things,
00:38:23it definitely feels like I'm a little overwhelmed.
00:38:26I think things do have to change drastically.
00:38:29I have to live within my means until I can live the lifestyle that I want to.
00:38:33Things completely have to change.
00:38:34I have somebody else in my life now.
00:38:38So, going forward, I'm, you know, I got some job interviews lined up.
00:38:43And, uh, I know it's not going to be easy, but the fact that I can just work those long hours and come home to your embrace,
00:38:50it puts everything in the past, and I don't even care.
00:38:52I feel like I rushed into a decision of coming here, not knowing the situation.
00:39:00This feels like I'm in a country I'm not secured.
00:39:05If things don't change, I'm going back to Uganda.
00:39:08What is the car?
00:39:20Uh, straight ahead.
00:39:22Maxwell?
00:39:33Oh, my God.
00:39:35It's very clean inside, yeah?
00:39:37Okay, yes.
00:39:38Yeah.
00:39:39And the dog is very clean because I gave him a tubby last night.
00:39:45You should hold the dress on your lap, yeah?
00:39:47Okay, that's better.
00:39:48Because the...
00:39:49You don't want the dog to eat it.
00:39:50No, that would not be good.
00:39:52Do you want me to show you where Giselle and Leonardo DiCaprio lived?
00:39:53Who?
00:39:54this tree looks like california it's like it's crazy it's a new life it's like i'm i just born
00:40:11today i was born today and i'm starting now you want me to show you where giselle and
00:40:19leonardo dicaprio lived who giselle giselle what bujanjan here yeah oh my god that's crazy
00:40:31and this house here was christina aguilar's house oh my god fancy from favela to beverly hills
00:40:49you ready babe yeah oh god looks like medieval yes
00:41:01wow oh
00:41:12obviously this is the living room i think i am another time of the history
00:41:21i'm a little confused now i would describe my taste in home decor as eclectic i guess i have
00:41:32antiquities i have old world items i also have lots of hollywood memorabilia and a few
00:41:40dinosaurs tchotchke dinosaurs
00:41:44with my dinosaurs they are everywhere yes i know he's reading the dress park board
00:41:53why that animal there the prehistoric lizard he's eating his mango he's not hurting anybody
00:42:02and but the this is hiding ready to bite to eat someone oh my god let's continue
00:42:11my barber room oh my god
00:42:23let's do a little quiz so who's barbara streisand
00:42:29barbara streisand is like a combo of actress singer and what more she says she's done it she's everything
00:42:39she's everything this is a bob mackie dress that he made for share
00:42:44oh that's nice can i use
00:42:47who is share share is a amazing famous singer and who designed a lot of her outfits i don't know
00:43:00and then to the left here is the bedroom and i just got a new bed and all new things
00:43:10do you want to lay on the new bed and see if it's comfortable
00:43:14totally dirty but i can see that's pretty nice my first impressions of sean's house is like too much
00:43:23things in the same space and sometimes it's like i look something and there's some always something
00:43:32more like this why is it this
00:43:36i didn't say something more i didn't say that before
00:43:43oh my god
00:44:03oh my god that looked amazing special sparkling shine
00:44:10all the light such a superpower
00:44:13and right here it's really cold
00:44:17oh yeah i'm not cold at all
00:44:20oh my god it was such a long day
00:44:24it was a long trip
00:44:26i bet
00:44:27i'm thinking i want to get into some pajamas
00:44:31and cuddle in bed
00:44:33and
00:44:34seeing where that takes us
00:44:38i did all the uh std testing and everything is fine and dandy so
00:44:47so you need to show me yeah
00:44:49yeah i can show you
00:44:53lee and i have had an open relationship since the beginning of our being together
00:44:58and it was something that even though both of us want ultimately a monogamous relationship
00:45:06we knew that the distance was going to make that hard and how often we were going to see each other
00:45:11neither one of us knew and i knew i wasn't going to be able to uh not see somebody but once a every
00:45:18eight months and be happy that way so i wanted the relationship to be open i don't think that's
00:45:26something that she wanted but that was something i needed
00:45:28i needed i don't know what you think in your mind but i want you to know like i'm not out having
00:45:36all the sex with all these people and doing crazy things that's not that way
00:45:39that way so now that we are here together what do you think how do you feel about like our open
00:45:46relationship how do you think will you keep doing that for the future you just got here so i think
00:45:54this is something that we're going to need to discuss but i don't feel like we need to discuss
00:45:58that tonight because you know that's let's save that stuff for another day let's see how we do in
00:46:04these next couple of days and see how we go i did not like that sean said that he wants to wait and see
00:46:14about our open relationship because now that i'm here in america i think that should be over
00:46:21it makes me question how much he accept me as alia yet i'm not like dating or meeting anyone
00:46:33so i'm not having like sexual relation with anyone
00:46:40right since the last time that we were together
00:46:45i think alia had visions of the happily ever afters where everything was easy and people just
00:46:52stayed monogamous and uh no problem came and everything was fine but of course the last time
00:47:01we saw alia in brazil there was no douglas and our sex life changed so as much as i love alia at the
00:47:09end of the day i didn't sign up to be in a relationship with a woman so if she's fully going to be a
00:47:15woman then i know that i'll be missing the company of being with a man so i don't know how to navigate it
00:47:23where we're both like happy
00:47:25yes babe okay we gotta get you running in slow motion in my childhood i love to watch payboard i was
00:47:39seeing them running a wall for the life there it is now time to realize my fantasy beaches of l.a are you
00:47:46ready for surfer
00:47:59how was your first night in l.a did you sleep good it was good you know what do you want to do
00:48:10today i have something in my mind what do you have in mind yeah i have a fantasy oh great let me show
00:48:18you better the show what is it a swimsuit yeah it's very baywatch
00:48:31we can go be a watch babes on the beach
00:48:34i feel myself like going a kid to a candy bar looking at everything yeah
00:48:52it's a good place to people watch you are here let's go
00:48:57oh my god i love it you love it yep beaches of l.a are you ready for surfer it sounds like you just
00:49:10said bitches of l.a how how i say the correct version beach beach beach beach beach beaches of
00:49:20oh my god yes yes this is my place that's where you'll be i can see you as a lifeguard
00:49:34when i was a kid in my childhood i loved to watch baywatch i mean
00:49:37it's kind of a thing that i started working out you know that because that time it was so
00:49:43rare the people to work out in turkey have
00:49:45muscles or fitness but i was watching bay watch and i was seeing them running out wow what a life
00:49:53there yes yes babe when i was young it was not a hot guy i remember my 13 40 i was so chubby
00:50:08and people were bullying me i couldn't imagine that i will have a body count of 2 500
00:50:16you know what probably baywatch gave me the motivation to be the sharper right now today
00:50:24just run towards me with your sexiest slowest baywatch david hasselhoff run
00:50:45you're so strong oh yeah yeah
00:50:58how was it amazing you look gorgeous another fantasy is fulfilled i put a check you had your
00:51:10bay watch moment babe yeah you like it here of course with you everywhere is good yeah for
00:51:17example look around i mean when you are working if i come here is there a problem for you for
00:51:23example if you come to the beach yeah swim why don't you just get to know the neighborhood that we live in
00:51:33just start there you know yeah and we can start to build trust little by little
00:51:38i told she kinder all the time i'm not cheating on you i won't cheat on you i will do my best
00:51:48i did my best to show her that i'm trustworthy but you have to believe me you have to believe me
00:51:55i just want you to understand babe that your past the choices that you made didn't only affect the
00:52:06women at the time that you were dealing with but they're affecting me now because
00:52:12they make me wonder if you can really be loyal long term i can see how not trusting him could
00:52:19damage our relationship but also trusting him too much could damage our relationship because
00:52:24he could have used my trust i don't know so i'm not sure if sarper and i will be ready to get married
00:52:31in 90 days consistency is everything to me so the more that he shows me he's consistently loyal
00:52:36consistently honest i think i'll learn to trust him more i know that you changed so much so rapidly
00:52:45that it makes me wonder if it's not something you can sustain i just worry that in the future like
00:52:55something's gonna happen and i'm gonna regret trusting you
00:53:00i'm not so hopeful that she will fully 100 percent will trust me in any time but i can easily say
00:53:10that if she never get rid of that insecurities if she never let me feel the freedom that i want
00:53:19i will destroy everything all bridges and go back and she will be so regretful about this
00:53:30so how has it been like living with lasu how long do you want to stay there three i wanted three months
00:53:40so what are you doing to achieve that i'm about to jump off this dock i would suggest you do if you
00:53:47don't have a good answer i am worried that things are not going to work out and she's just gonna kick
00:53:54kick them to the side
00:54:03all we want is to shine when it's all or nothing put it all on the line oh wow i really like that
00:54:09that's awesome baby that is an awesome dress okay let's feel like i've been getting weight since i can't get it
00:54:16has your diet changed how do i do i think it looks amazing i love it tonight i'm heading out to a
00:54:36restaurant my joan is going to meet my two good friends john and john a couple of my friends that
00:54:41have been uh by my side for a very long time let me think better yeah he looks smart she looks good
00:54:48on you here definitely is getting a little tighter as of right now joan has only been around my mom and
00:54:54i the fact that she's here in america and then i can introduce her to my friends i can finally see
00:54:58she's a real person it's a huge step in the right direction and i'm super excited about this
00:55:03keep adjusting this shirt like it's going to get any bigger
00:55:18tell me about the john you're going to meet the johns
00:55:23so that the one john you went to school with yeah the other john i met at my cousin's tire shop
00:55:29oh in 2015. how many johns do you have let's see let's see so you got uncle john john with the
00:55:41along here john the plumber john the car guy john my cousin i mean this is at least seven eight eight
00:55:49john maybe even more yeah oh my god yeah it's crazy yeah a lot of john it's a very common name here you
00:55:57know yeah thank you you're welcome sweetheart okay so anything we eat tonight they catch it right
00:56:09on the side of the dock here i'm just kidding what's up dude what's up dude what's up dude
00:56:20thank you for coming man look at this guy you got you straight in your hair man no no this is john
00:56:27i'm also john very nice to meet you i'm very excited this is unreal i just can't believe this
00:56:36is crazy i can't believe you guys are here we got joan here you know how's it been you like it here
00:56:42yeah so far it is good yeah is it different very very different very different it's clean it's
00:56:49clean yes yes that's that's a good that's a plus i mean i've seen cleaner places i'm gonna be honest
00:56:55with you but it's not it's not dirty thank you you're welcome yeah so it's been like 21 years since i've
00:57:05known greg we used to hang out all the time do all kinds of terrible stuff together as teenagers
00:57:12i'm not sure not just in school outside of school we used to cut school a lot to be honest with you
00:57:17i used to get all kinds of hijinks uh you ever gone lawn forking do they do lawn forking in uganda
00:57:21no do you know what lawn forking is could you imagine rolling up to somebody's house in the middle
00:57:26of the night and placing plastic forks all over their front lawn what yeah
00:57:32greg is a very funny person with a very magnetic personality greg did in fact win prom king although
00:57:41i don't know how much of that was uh you know somewhat of a joke or if it was um just because
00:57:47he was super popular i couldn't tell you that sometimes i feel like greg's humor can um
00:57:53be kind of a deflection for whatever uh internal issues he's having you know he's still living in
00:57:59his mother's house at the age of 35. thank you so much so how has it been like living with lasil
00:58:14yeah it has been good yeah how long do you want to stay there three i wanted three months
00:58:20so what are you doing to achieve that i'm gonna have to jump off this dot into this morning
00:58:28yes you do if you don't have a good answer i mean obviously we're going to push towards getting our
00:58:33own place yeah but it's going to take time dude i don't want to rent so what do you want to do
00:58:39the bakery man i want to open a bakery i don't know what kind of funds you have in reserve i know you
00:58:45have this dream of a bakery you know but i mean is it worth spending that money on a bakery or is it
00:58:53worth spending that money on housing you're not some trust fund hipster who's you know parents have
00:59:00unlimited funds to finance whatever dreams that you have which is why a steady source of income
00:59:06might be you know a good option for you yeah so the guys are really grilling me hard about uh getting a
00:59:13real job and moving out of my mom's house it is true it's all warranted but the amount of money that
00:59:18i have been spending to go back and forth to uganda you know the food where we stay i wouldn't call it a
00:59:24sacrifice but i made those decisions for the better of my relationship so i understand where they're
00:59:30coming from and i appreciate that but at the end of the day it is a little uh it's nerve-wracking you
00:59:35know why are you guys ganging up with me like chill out what's like the end game like what is it you're
00:59:39looking for in the end the both of you family i want as many kids as she's willing to give me
00:59:46you know how many kids are you willing to give two two very realistic number thank you um i would
00:59:52i would settle for four it's looking at the way he he handles his like savings he doesn't say so he
01:00:02needs a budget like have land in uganda come here in america have nothing like a house
01:00:09to stay in his mother's house so it's really clear it's a lot i wouldn't want to live with my
01:00:17mother-in-law i've always suggested that greg try to find a job that you know is steady and maybe
01:00:25something in a union or something like that where he's got you know a steady paycheck job security
01:00:30there's multiple opportunities he could have taken throughout his life that he has chosen not to do
01:00:34because he does just doesn't want to punch someone else's clock greg needs to be extremely realistic
01:00:40about what it's going to take to simply get a roof over their heads let alone a roof that's large
01:00:46enough to supply children what realistically what is the next step here are you going to take a
01:00:51standard job are you going to try to move out of your parents house you're going to move into a rental
01:00:57you know i have to figure out something that's going to support the both of us at least until she can get
01:01:01a job and then we can figure it out from there but right now i am the sole proprietor i'm the sole
01:01:06caregiver i'm everything i am worried that things are not going to work out and she's just gonna
01:01:13kick them to the side to be honest with you it could be bad
01:01:17if you didn't need like to marry me for me being here you think you want to marry me well i don't
01:01:33have any big need to get married in life i've done it get married and live happy forever all these things
01:01:43are important to me i want to make sure you understand the rules are not coming like from
01:01:50us the married couple imposed on you i wish i didn't feel jealous but it's time that she shows me
01:02:00that things are going to change is everyone allowed to have sex with
01:02:04each other without the other person's permission
01:02:22you seem pippy what you seem pippy you seem in a better mood
01:02:27i don't understand this do you seem happier than when we left yeah when i eat i'm happy
01:02:35well we have a picnic ready um you ready to go yeah but at first you can't get me a kiss
01:02:41mm-hmm this is your kiss oh well i i guess i better than i kiss huh
01:02:57oh hello hi welcome how are you are you ready for the picnic yes yes okay we usually do this picnic
01:03:15for two people but well you are three guys okay okay so well welcome let me show you the beautiful
01:03:22place we have prepared for you thank you for this way please there's nothing more romantic to do
01:03:29in ensenada than to set up a beautiful picnic oh wine and wash the sundown together
01:03:40here's to you thank you baby
01:03:41i feel like we need to get back together and get things on track you know there's a lot of emotions
01:03:52invested here and i'm dealing with two women i don't want to hurt these girls i know there's a lot
01:03:58of expectations of me so in order for me to live up to those expectations i need to understand them
01:04:04clearly how's the wine nice you know a lot of the um the issues are probably because we don't have
01:04:18any guidelines on this um we should probably set some some rules some rules get some notes going for
01:04:25the rules okay i'm gonna i know i'm gonna put it in our group chat because you know i'm always the note
01:04:29taker so anya i want to hear from you i want to make sure you understand the rules are not coming
01:04:36like from us the married couple imposed on you or imposed on the relationship everyone can have rules
01:04:43and boundaries so i want to know what you feel like there should be a rule if we want to go fight
01:04:50all night it's okay but not sleep angry that's good rule what else baby what about you mine everyone
01:05:01gets a chance to talk it's going to be impossible impossible to speak over youtube if y'all want to
01:05:08hear what i have to say i have to be able to say it give matt a chance to talk after we both talk
01:05:12yes please okay i guess the biggest rule that would be the most controversial one about us as a
01:05:22throuple is is everyone allowed to have sex with each other without the other person's permission
01:05:34i don't want it to be that restricted this is why initially i never wanted rules but i couldn't
01:05:39help what i felt that moment which is a little bit of jealousy and disrespect so i would like you guys
01:05:47to let me know as soon as you can i would like to be in the known so what you're asking for is for
01:05:54permission i i think so that's good for me you know it's out there i understand for me it's okay
01:06:09same thing for me right you want permission i don't need permission enjoy yourself
01:06:17i wish i didn't feel jealous but it's important you communicate that and it's important you feel
01:06:22supported acknowledge all these things we need rules because i feel sometimes in the middle
01:06:30i feel like we've made such a great progress big progress i think big progress i'm so happy
01:06:38give me your hands everyone come on group keys
01:06:46after we set up the rules you know i have my heart open and i'm excited to make some type of
01:06:52progress but the thing is i haven't forgotten about the biggest problem here which is anie still
01:07:01has not told her family that she's in a throuple and even worse she told them that i'm just a friend
01:07:10and matt is the boyfriend it's time that she shows me that things are going to change yeah i mean
01:07:19she needs to show you that she's serious about you and us i got ladies to please come come
01:07:28okay i'm not gonna do that
01:07:49oh what now you're gonna get in trouble
01:08:01let me put your blanket down
01:08:02you wake us up every day like that he wakes me up every day like that
01:08:16he needs to learn to sleep more
01:08:20oh how can you resist this little face little
01:08:25he's really cute and nice but i was expecting a puppy very small because it's what sean promised me
01:08:36i was waiting to have like something that i can carry on my back you want a large rat that is
01:08:41allegedly a dog
01:08:46last night you went to sleep so fast all i know is like
01:08:50i was already passed out and you came walking in like i need stuff for my face like oh god
01:08:58how do you want me to find the things i don't know anything anywhere i know it's impossible
01:09:04last night was alia's first night here in my house and had all my clothes still on and i wound up
01:09:11passing out before she made it out of the bathroom i think every time me and alia come together it
01:09:18uh seems a little distant in the beginning as we're filling each other out and then it gets
01:09:23easier and easier we're going on a hike so you need some hiking food because you're gonna get hungry
01:09:31it's my first day here we need to go hiking we cannot go shopping
01:09:38maybe you don't need a full face of glam maybe tinted moisturizer some lip gloss and i know i know what
01:09:45what are you i'm going to do i'm fine
01:09:54we're here we're here how do i look warm
01:10:01what about mom puppy gonna go poop
01:10:03you got the bag do you want to do it your first potty bag no you can't do that i will not be the
01:10:19one cleaning dog poop for me it's just gross so it's the work of my fiancee
01:10:26oh oh more poo
01:10:34as long as you are cleaning everything there is no problem to me
01:10:38well you're a mommy now so i'm expecting you to do some work too don't cream so much
01:10:44apples cut to perfection some trail mix mix to perfection i want to try the thing that you did yeah pb and j
01:11:01okay it's your first one and it's all interesting mix fun things
01:11:14it's my first time trying peanut butter feels a little weird in the mouth but it's not so bad
01:11:20so everyone by my side like family friends they know that i'm here to get married with you
01:11:36i'm curious to know like if people by your side know that
01:11:40well my mom knows a bit and um a couple of my friends know some things but the kids and everybody
01:11:53else don't know anything
01:11:59that is like anything about me that you feel like embarrassed like to introduce me to people
01:12:04no no i'm not feeling embarrassed or don't want to say or whatever i just
01:12:14get i just don't want to hear anybody's comments about anything and not even just you it's just
01:12:20anything about my life i don't really want to i don't need people's advice
01:12:29they're going to ask me things from what they would think is my own good whether it's cultural
01:12:34age difference and so why hear it why am i going to deal with that i rather just introduce alia to
01:12:40them and see what happens i think we have a beautiful story together so i think you should
01:12:45tell more people about me and they'll get to meet you so get to see the story and they won't just have
01:12:50to hear about it and granted if it wasn't for the circumstances of how things have to happen in
01:12:58order for you to be in the country i would just be like come to the country and let's live together
01:13:02and just be together i don't have any big need to get married in life i've done it
01:13:13but process makes the pressure for that i think i think even if the process that's something that i
01:13:21always wanted so it's like a dream to me okay it is hard for me to hear that sean would not marry me
01:13:36it was not because of the visa because even if we are here i think we're here because of love and
01:13:42because i want to get married with him and i want to believe that the same thing is true for him if you
01:13:50didn't need like to marry me for me being here you think you want to marry me i don't think it's about
01:14:00like do i want to marry you i think it's about i've been married before and it didn't work out so i'm
01:14:06more fearful about that so i want to make sure everything's going along those parts of the
01:14:15relationship get married to be part of his world and live happy forever all these things are important
01:14:24to me so if sean is still like this until the end of the ninth days i don't know if i want to marry him
01:14:36i'm telling you right now that i don't want to get married unless it's forever
01:14:40i mean it it was just a thought okay don't think it the hardest thing i've ever done was leaving my
01:14:49family but i can't even be honest with her about that i know what i want but i just want to know what
01:14:54you're here and we're talking about our wedding and you're like i had already thought that i would
01:15:15stay if we didn't work out i don't like that
01:15:17well i just because i would have moved anywhere to be with you even iran as terrible as you like
01:15:25things i've heard i would have moved there to be with you if i could have
01:15:35and i never would have said well if we didn't work out then i would just stay there
01:15:39it's a lot different when you think about it that way well just like it thought i was like okay
01:15:45this is it and that's it for 10 seconds the difference is you've had those thoughts
01:15:50and i have not ever had this not not for a second no you swear on me i swear on you
01:16:00like for me it's forever or nothing
01:16:06honestly i don't hear anything that he's saying because all i can hear is the part where he's
01:16:10talking about if we don't work out and this is really shocking to me because
01:16:15i would have never went through with all of this if there was ever a doubt that maddie and i
01:16:19weren't going to work out
01:16:24if i would have asked you to come here thinking i was going to leave you i never would have knowing
01:16:27that you could possibly not go back knowing that you could come here and we may not get along
01:16:33or you know i even said i don't know how i'll feel if dad's not okay with you because he means so
01:16:37much to me but at the end of the day all the people that i love in my life i had already made a
01:16:42decision about you and i was already committed to you enough that if any of those little pieces
01:16:46wouldn't have worked out i still would have chosen you
01:16:53i'm telling you right now that i don't want to get married unless it's forever i mean it
01:16:59like i'm dead serious this is what i want but i don't want you to just make a big deal out of
01:17:06my thoughts it's a huge deal your thoughts are a huge deal
01:17:10i have been so hurt in my life that i'm not willing to be hurt again so if you love me at all you just
01:17:18make sure it's what you want because i'm not gonna do it i love you so much you're not making me feel
01:17:26reassured that these things are not true when you say things like that which is the first time you've
01:17:33ever said anything like that ever are you saying you would comment and say that disgusts me if we
01:17:40broke up i didn't i didn't say that well then how did you say it i i just said it was just a thought
01:17:47okay don't think it
01:17:51i really didn't expect her to just get super defensive i expected her to be more understanding
01:17:59and tell me that no it's gonna work out don't worry like we we get it any relationship could go
01:18:06wrong so we have to be reasonable about it i don't want to just feel even for a second that i'm lying
01:18:16i want to stay with you forever and that's it okay so so i know what i want deep down
01:18:24and this is my fault that i'm telling you no it's not your fault you need to tell me so we can talk
01:18:30about it you don't want to know like i shouldn't tell you stevie is the only person that i can talk to
01:18:43but right now whatever i say it just backfires and makes her sad the hardest thing i've ever done
01:18:52in my life was leaving my family but i can't even be honest with her about that i need a supportive
01:18:58wife no matter how hard everything gets and right now that's not stevie
01:19:11i'm go back tomorrow to new hampshire to new hampshire yeah not to see the family
01:19:16i don't know what to do either what do you want me to do with all this going on with jordan i'm ready
01:19:23to call the wedding off for the two of my favorite women can't get along the trifle watch for your
01:19:28family for yourself for your daughter it's supposed to go like this
01:19:33jordan come on i can't believe you're acting like this oh my god can you shut up
01:19:48what happened well she said i'm not coming to the wedding so wait what yeah why'd you say that
01:20:04she doesn't think that i approve and i don't so she doesn't want me there so i don't want to be there
01:20:09either maria maria come here come here come on let's go get mama come on come with me come on
01:20:28come on you okay what happened what'd she say i mean what i know she told me you told her she's not
01:20:36coming to the wedding yes because she don't accept me let's go back to the room and it's hot out here
01:20:43maria's getting fussy just go back and we can talk in the air conditioning all right yeah i'll carry
01:20:51you guys just need to spend some time together and talk
01:20:55all this judgment i coming in u.s i come for you because i love you i don't coming for for your family
01:21:02thank you i'm coming for your money i'm tired you know it's not just me you have maria too i know
01:21:08i got mad at her too because i don't feel like it's right that she's being so judgmental of you
01:21:13and me she's just not for me she don't like me it's not possible she coming to the wedding
01:21:20i'm just trying to stay out of the two of you but i want you both to be happy i don't understand
01:21:26the situation i know i started it but you guys need to fix it i feel bad for mina because with
01:21:34all this going on with jordan her son clayton's also you know we're not sure the status of him
01:21:40whether he's gonna be here she's ready to call the wedding off but i'm also pretty serious that this
01:21:45is my daughter and if she can't get along with my daughter maybe maybe i won't marry her
01:21:50i'll go back tomorrow to new hampshire tomorrow yeah to new hampshire yeah not to see the family
01:22:02just wait and see let's try let's wait and see and try i know you try try i'm tired to try
01:22:11anytime i try i try i try i don't know what i don't know what to do either what do you want me to do
01:22:20you okay come here stand here okay
01:22:32maria you said with daddy i need one daughter not mad at me one person one person smiling thank you
01:22:40i don't know why now is every time mina you try try try you try you try for what for your family for
01:22:52yourself for your daughter it's too much work for me
01:23:04you're supposed to go like this
01:23:21next time on 90 day fiancee i don't know how he's going to pay for the dowry because he's not
01:23:27financially stable the dowry i told you about gets 15 cows realistically though how does somebody
01:23:36afford 15 cows so like people can't afford it it's just you it's like a knife in the heart straight
01:23:42up if you don't get a job i want to go back to them what'd you just say
01:23:51i've just been thinking about last night i feel hurt
01:23:56i'm giving up my career my life on the boat for coming here and now i can see how much of a sacrifice
01:24:04it was and i guess i'm just wondering too like do you want this do you want all of this
01:24:14did you also feel like you were mourning the loss of douglas all i remember is this feeling of there
01:24:22is no more douglas and i'm like what do you mean i'm here we have 90 days and i'm really worried the
01:24:28more than me myself he'll be more distant if it doesn't get married that we'd be like ancestors
01:24:38ah here they are i'm hurry because jordan talk bull
01:24:45and the family have you guys talked any more about the pre-no yeah i think uh yeah
01:24:52you think i come just follow your money mark you too
01:24:55i think this is going to say i'm going
01:25:04oh my god i'm really nervous about sarpa meeting my friends tonight if this doesn't go well it's
01:25:11going to really affect our life in la together sarpa i'm going to be honest with you i didn't believe
01:25:17in your relationship i think that i would be a better guy to be with
01:25:21what the that french baguette he is non-stop talking he's come on you better not want to have
01:25:29programs with me for sure really
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